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| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 09, 2026OYS #9 33 y/o, 5’7”, 195lb 21-22% Navy method LTR 5 years, engaged 1 kid 4y/o, 1 on the way Lifts: bench 135 3x5, squat 215 5x5, DL 225 Before I jump into any of the other shit, I’m leading off with this. I didn’t post in two weeks, and I haven’t lifted in a week. As I was thinking about what to put in this post I noticed my brain going to manufacture excuses for both. Fuck excuses, there are the facts. I didn’t quit in the last two weeks, I’ve been putting in less work on myself than usual, but… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/06/26 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 19, 2026Thanks for calling this out- I included that statement specifically because of a previous Rule 9 ban. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/05/26 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 19, 2026OYS #8 33yo, 5’7” 195lb 21% navy. Bench 135 3x5, squat 215 5x5, DL 225 LTR 5 years, 1 kid 4yo Sidebar: reading TWOTSM, WISNIFGx2, NMMNGx3, Rational male, pook, heartiste, Praceology: Frame x1, Mindful Attraction Plan x1 Physical: I got my bloods back. Total T a year and a half ago was 523, up to 579 now. Free was 89.4, now up to 101.9. Im glad to see its going up from previously even as Im getting older. I put up a plate on flat bench for multiple sets for the first time in maybe seven years. Mi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/05/26 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 12, 2026Last week, maybe the day before my last OYS | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/05/26 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 12, 2026OYS #7 33yo, 5’7” 195lb 21-22% navy Squat 215 5x5, bench 125 5x5, DL 225 2x5 LTR 5 years, 1 kid 4yo Sidebar NMMNGx3, WISNIFGx2, Pook, Heartiste, Rational Male, Mindful Attraction Plan x1, Praxeology: Frame x1, reading TWOTSM Physical: took a few rest days but added more weight to squats and bench this week. Im seeing the effects of maintaining an aggressive calorie deficit with the current routine im on- my energy levels this week were shot. Three nights in a row I fell asleep putting my son to … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/05/26 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 05, 2026Excellent points. Ordering 1 2 3 Kids | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/05/26 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 05, 2026Truth. At some point I started seeing them as more shit to be dealing with and reacted to them. Realizing it’s both a test and part of her being woman reframed it- not my problem to deal with, this is why the oak analogy makes sense | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/05/26 05:45 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 05, 2026OYS #6 33yo, 5’7”, 196 lb, 21-22% BF (navy) LTR 5 years, 1 kid 4yo Squat 210 5x5, bench 120 5x5, DL 225 2x5 Sidebar NMMNGx3 (rereading and BFAs), WISNIFGx2, Pook, Heartiste, Rational Male, Mindful Attraction Plan x1, Praxeology: Frame x1 Physical: scale weight went up this week, Navy method says I have lost an inch off my waist. I have maintained a caloric deficit every day below my estimated maintenance, still targeting 1600-1800 a day. A few days this week I worked in more rice around my lifts… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/05/26 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 28, 2026Thanks for the reframe/perspective. Well said | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/04/26 12:31 AM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 28, 2026OYS #5 Stats: 33yo, 5’7”, 190lb. 23% BF (calipers and navy) LTR 5 years, 1 kid 4yo Lifts: squat 185 5x5, bench 115 5x5, DL 205 2x5 Sidebar: NMMNGx2 (rereading), Mindful Attraction Plan x1, WISNIFGx2, Rational Male, Heartiste, Pook, Praxeology: Frame x1 Physical: got my calipers and measuring tape, both navy method and calipers say 23%. I thought this was low, regardless I am still too fat. Calories unchanged at 1600-1800 and target 170-180g protein daily. Showing a 5lb weight loss on the scale t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/04/26 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 21, 2026Point taken. Now I know what to fix when I revisit this after NMMNG. Less bitch, more bold. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/04/26 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 21, 2026-I am not happy or fulfilled with where my life is -I am not in the right career -I am not living up to my potential -I am not stupid or incompetent -I am not the kind of father I need to be -I am not fucking special -I am not a pushover or a quitter or a little bitch -I am not at peace -I am not satisfied with many of the choices I made in life because in hindsight, I made them for the wrong reasons -I am not exploring my interests as much as I can -I am not just a plowhorse -I am not certain o… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/04/26 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 21, 2026Thanks for breaking this down. I’m going to do this over the next 2 weeks and post results in a future OYS. It will probably be retarded but better than what I am working with now. Much appreciated | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/04/26 04:12 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 21, 2026Horns- thanks for this. You’re the first person in my life to ever have said I was a loser and I’m grateful for it. Ego is a real bastard and I have caused a ton of harm in my life with it. You’re right, there is something really fucked up about me that it took me so long to get laid. I had opportunities over the years that I hamstered away for one bullshit reason or another, now I’m 33 and feel retarded (in both senses of the word) sexually. I don’t know what that something is, and like you sai… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/04/26 06:24 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 21, 2026OYS #4 33 yo, 5’7”, 195lb. Lifts- squat 165 5x5, bench 115x5, DL TBD LTR 5 years, 1 toddler Physical- good week in the gym. Added weight to squats, barely felt it. Switched up bench to DB as opposed to BB. Getting a referral to a PT for long-standing shoulder mobility issues I didn’t want documented to go back in the military. Adjusted caloric target to 1600-1800 per day and kept protein the same, upped water intake to 1.5 gal a day. Hitting low impact cardio hard. I see and feel a difference, m… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/04/26 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 14, 2026Thanks for this. I’m going revise my target and act accordingly | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/04/26 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 14, 2026Target cals are 2500, 180g protein daily. With your number of 1600 cals that would put me at an additional~2lbs of fat loss per week. I’ve never cut that low before, but I can. My only concern is T levels from dropping that low, but looking at it long term T will be higher once I’m leaned out | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/04/26 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 14, 2026OYS #3 Stats: 33yo, 5’7” 195lb. Current lifts (5x5): squat 155, bench 115, haven’t tested DL since restarting. LTR of 5 years, 1 kid 3yo What I’ve done since last week: got back in the gym (as soon as this is typed this will be my third day) and tested most of my lifts- bitch weight but that’s where I’m at. Ran my stats through Chat GPT and told it what my goals were- I’m using a customized version of a Stronglifts 5x5. Tracking macros daily to recomp and supplementing with lower impact cardio (… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/04/26 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 07, 2026Thanks for this- you said a lot there. You’re right, I’m going to give this some thought before I respond in any way. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/04/26 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 07, 2026Absolutely right. To address that I’m maintaining a caloric deficit of ~300 a day below maintenance and supplementing with low intensity cardio. I’m leaner than I was at the beginning of the year and lifting+strict dieting will help me drop more fat. To your second point, that’s a great idea about a gym instructor. Thanks for the response and the recommendation. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/04/26 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 07, 2026OYS #2: stats 33 yo, 5’7” 195 lb. Lifts as I remember were 225x5 squat, 135x5 bench, 265x5 DL Sidebar: NMMNGx2, WISNIFGx2, Pook, lurked at Heartiste for years, reading Mindful Attraction Plan LTR of 5 years, 1 kid 3 yo Personal: I posted in OYS once before and got banned for being a faggot and using she statements. Around that time, I was doing Stronglifts and in the gym regularly. I started looking for jobs and got a unicorn position with a 33% raise but a worse schedule. Time constraints hit (… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/04/26 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 22, 2025OYS #1 22 July 2025 33yo 5’7” 195lb Squat 165 5x5 BP 110 5x5 DL 235x5 LTR of 4.5 years, 1x 3yo Reading WISNIFG (x2) NMMNG (x1) Pook (x1) RM (multiple) SGM (x1). Currently rereading WISNIFG and NMMNG in that order Mission- get lean and yoked again. Determine what it is that i want to do with my life career-wise. Be the father that my son deserves and become the best example of a strong man for him to emulate. Lead my home and my family in such a way that my son grows up knowing what a healthy, fu… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/07/25 05:16 PM |
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