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you're going to have people tell you that since she's just a fuck buddy then you can't expect her to not fuck other guys and they're right. that said, you're a free man so you can next a girl for any reason you want whether it's a good one or not with no real reason to justify yourself. if you feel less attracted to her because she's fucking you and some other guy concurrently that's fair. you don't have to feel some other way about it. i'd be turned off by that too, it's pretty gross. i'd next.…
/r/askTRP13/02/16 08:15 PM
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that's a good program. you're gonna do great. do aerobic stuff on days you aren't lifting. if you have a sport like basketball or something that's a great way to incorporate it.
/r/askTRP13/02/16 07:06 PM
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what is your goal here? you getting into bodybuilding? probably not. you want to look better to get laid and up your stamina/strength to lay the pipe longer and harder. depending on your starting point, you most definitely can gain muscle and lose fat at the same time. especially if you're just getting into it. don't be stupid and ignore cardio. aerobic and anaerobic are both important components to your health.
/r/askTRP13/02/16 06:51 PM
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yea you're making too big a deal out of this. literally every girl has done something with someone. if she really, really had one ONS that's impressive. she's had free dick thrown at her daily since middle school assuming she's even a 4/10 or better. guys who say they won't LTR a girl whose done something like this are fucking delusional living in a total dream world. that's beta af. he hit her up and then she spent the whole time talking about you and then finally told him passively aggressivel…
/r/askTRP13/02/16 06:37 PM
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If youre shaving it she can still tell even with a hat. Youre not beneath any chick even if shes not doesn't want to hook up. You think youre tricking these his but jbet youre not . You are however projecting more confidence when you feel like its not an issue. And that's really it man. If you want to get over this youre going to have to open up some chicks sans hat. Draw attention to it with the one man punch joke. Youre gonna bomb the first few times but so what. Won't be the first time and th…
/r/askTRP10/02/16 02:51 PM
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damn that's fucking a good joke. i'mma steal that one. i think it's a better joke if you aren't jacked at all.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 05:26 AM
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how bald are you? shave it if you've got like a halo thing going on. but, i'm just throwing this out there, i picked up my girl by getting her attention and then asking 'do you think bald can be attractive' then she said something or another and then asked me why i asked and i said something ironic about having a lush head of hair. i have deep as fuck widow's peaks. i've actually started conversations just like that with multiple chicks who are total strangers totally ready for them to say it's …
/r/askTRP10/02/16 05:14 AM
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if the vast majority of girls you're fucking aren't tight your dick is way smaller than you say
/r/askTRP03/02/16 09:47 PM
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Not give a shit. Why take this personally? Do you, if they dont like it fuck em. And quit listening to people's words. Just watch actions.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 04:54 PM
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don't do it tactfully
/r/askTRP01/02/16 02:16 PM
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no, if you apologize you'll really give her a reason to "get revenge." just ignore.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 02:11 PM
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damn. i would murder a group of adults for lynching my kid like that.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 06:55 PM
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Any suggestions? I moved across country a few years ago and dont have anyone who's is a close friend. My best friend is back home, we talk every once in a while and have vacationed a few times since I moved. Still a good relationship despite the distance. But out here where I live? Nothin really. GFs and fuck buddies are no problem, but I feel fucking retarded when it comes to asking people (guys, dont need girl friends) to chill outside of work or outside of my pickup bball games. I've tried a …
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 03:45 PM
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For girls? Low bf%. As your bf goes down you will paradoxically look bigger. Your first impression to make a girl hot is your arms - definition and veins. Both better with low bf.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 02:34 PM
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new age-y bullshit. or feminist tripe. not sure which. Alright you goofy downvoters- the idea that your presentation of anger is really just an exposition of the scared little boy inside is a fabrication of feminists and you blue pill wimps are gobbling it up. Too plugged in to think clearly. Log out of asktrp and go back to reading the faq or whatever else you need.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 03:39 PM
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That's worse. Dont know what you mean by your statement and I dont care to but I'll assume at least social ostracism. You're her safety from that. Nothing more at this point. She could be on a break and still use you for that, but you blocked her on FB which publicly showed everyone your rejection of her if they cared to find out they would. She got scared of the backlash and came running back to save herself.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 03:22 PM
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She let someone else fuck her. That guy didnt want a relationship. You're over.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 03:20 PM
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Literally tell her. No hints.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 03:18 PM
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not really. size is conflated with strength/dominance/confidence insofar as visuals cues. helps get your foot in the door. that's why tall guys have it easier.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 08:44 PM
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you will literally never find someone who is truthful with you 100% of the time. no one. ever. friends. family. no one. you'll have to decide if that's enough to keep you from forming relationships and with who, but don't lie to yourself that you'll ever find anyone who won't lie to you. everyone lies every day. i suggest that you re-examine your position and make the deciding factor in your level of acceptance the person's motive for lying to you.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 01:10 PM
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people aren't 'rational actors' meaning that people don't strictly do things that are in their "best" interest. it's what makes predictive models of human behavior (e.g. economics) so difficult and flawed. you can always say "this person should do this thing in this scenario to get the greatest benefit" but that doesn't mean they will. his reason for being strictly monogamous doesn't make sense as a sexual strategy for procreation, but he still is. that doesn't mean the instinct for multiple par…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 09:02 PM
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men's strategy is to fuck as many girls as possible. there are reasons that guys don't, but i would say it's probably most likely that they don't because of social incentives (peer pressure, consequences of divorce) and effort (don't know how to, don't want to put in the energy). getting laid is just a matter of showing up for girls, guys have to put in work.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 06:45 PM
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nothing. this is what's weird about everything to me: we are concerned with what is their best strategy for reproduction and ignore our own - spreading our seed.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 06:28 PM
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a couple more months? so you're not looking at this girl as LTR? that makes dating pretty pointless.. assured access to her pussy? what's so special about it to have you worried about it getting up and walking away?
/r/askTRP16/01/16 06:11 PM
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so?
/r/askTRP15/01/16 09:33 PM
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sure, but if she's willing to put someone else first, chances are much better that she's willing to put her kids first. a bitch who's going to treat your kids like shit is really what you're trying to avoid, not her leaving. if she leaves, or i leave, our lives will continue. we're both grown people who have loved/lost/been lied to/cheated on/stepped on/fired/mistreated. we're hardened up. kids shouldn't be hardened up by their parents discord. there was a video where a guy walks in on his wife …
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 04:02 PM
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Im not relying on anybody's anything. I only fucks with explicit captain-first mate dynamics. If that's who she is that's who she is. If she's not an she's trying to hide that I will find out.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 03:20 PM
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On vengeance: if she really has borderline personality disorder, which is what BPD is, and not bipolar, then sending her to a mental institution is not vengeance its prudence. She will never stop trying to work her way back to you. You'll need her gone period. If you mean bipolar, she ain't coming back. Shell leave you alone which is all you really need and thus you are seeking vengeance and wasting your time and actively working against yourself in all facets.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 02:57 PM
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Some of this advice is great if not overly optimistic. Become rich? Yea that's great but if not realistic then do you not have children just because of that? Find a chick you think is capable of raising and loving children, an unselfish girl who is house-wife-y, and knock her up. Dont expect her to love you forever, but if she truly cares about her kids you won't end up shut out of their lives which really is the objective. Expect that kids cost money, marriage shouldn't but does so dont marry, …
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 02:18 PM
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If my girl went out to the club, I don't want to spend all night doing some dumb game to make her feel dread and jealously, and then have her come back and call me 9 times. fuckin right. that shit is a waste of my time. a game to be played outside of a LTR.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 07:49 PM
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For fucks sake he was a child, son.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 03:45 PM
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White guy. My parents are the same in this respect. That seems rare though.. They have sacrificed a lot where they didn't have to, but they believed that was their responsibility going into having children. People who dont do this seem like pieces of shit from my perspective. Going into the real world I realized most people are garbage.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 03:39 PM
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Old women are in majority pretty RP. Black girls of most ages are too.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 03:34 PM
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Doesn't matter. Still works.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 09:23 PM
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Why would he be shorter? I'm shorter than my father but I grew up on hamburger helper. Therein lies the problem.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 02:31 PM
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statistically you're avg. i do think guys with bigger dicks sleep around more distorting girls' idea of size. look up small penis sex positions. even though you're avg and big enough to make a girl cum (rhythm is important) it'll still tighten them up on your dick.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 01:31 PM
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you're in grad school. you don't need this extraneous shit. if she's adding unnecessary stress she's not worth it in any scenario.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 09:40 PM
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we've been on the same page
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 06:59 PM
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yes, it's about his father. he's willing to ruin his life over sex. that's blue pill. if you think otherwise, you're blue pill. no pussy is worth much, much less putting your family on the line. that's not scarcity mentality and it's being a slave to pussy.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 05:49 PM
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Spot on. Y'all need to stop acting like hoes.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 05:05 PM
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I agree 100% and I can't believe everyone doesn't have this understanding. I don't fuck friends' girls because why would I? She ain't worth it. The idea that she is is blue pill AF.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 05:03 PM
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you going to ruin your life over sex? that's blue pill.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 04:56 PM
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Why is she special? She's young and hasn't done shit a d doesn't knkw shit. She's also in two concurrent relationships openly so you know she's a trend follower and has been used up. Tell me what's so special about her.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 09:10 PM
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That means she's thinking about it. If she's thinking about it she's interested. Basically begging actually.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 08:54 PM
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you want a toll lane for hoes?
/r/askTRP07/01/16 01:50 AM
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ya, that's a perfect example of what happens if you keep trying to set up logistics after she's given you a "not now." the thing with logistics is that you want the time frame to be short. very short. like that day short. tomorrow is ok too. trying to set something up a week out you're just going to end up in this same position over and over again. this isn't a business meeting. by trying to set something up past tomorrow you're doing two things - 1) you're showing her you are prioritizing her a…
/r/askTRP28/12/15 05:37 AM
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i'd text back just "ok" or "cool" and nothing else unless she says something. then i would text her on like the 3rd after my hangover wore off. i don't like that she said added the part about after new years. not sure why it's important to wait until after and she doesn't tell you. it's strange. don't count your chickens. sounds to me like dread game worked alright since she wanted commitment. you just told her no when you meant to say yes. but it could work out better in the end this way. now y…
/r/askTRP28/12/15 04:56 AM
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if she replies fast, that's good. until you've locked it up and y'all are dating, just talk logistics over text, no small talk go straight into lets meet up.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 04:04 AM
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hard to say not knowing more. have you talked since? has she said she's upset? you say she won't talk to you - in what way have you tried? do you see her regularly in your social circle or by phone the only contact you have with her? if you see her regularly in your social circle, then in person is the way to go. if you can only reach her by phone and you haven't talked in a bit, i would send "hey" at a regular time aka not late at night like a booty call. then i would wait. get ready to just wa…
/r/askTRP24/12/15 03:00 PM
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how long has it been since you said you don't want to commit? if it hasn't been long and she's already past it, then she just wanted someone to commit. not necessarily you, but you were the closest person who she thought would commit. she just wanted security. if she really wanted commitment with you per se, and it hasn't been long since you declined, then she still wants commitment with you. she isn't responding because she needs time to cool off or is embarrassed. either way, texting her frien…
/r/askTRP24/12/15 12:41 AM
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good points. thanks
/r/askTRP21/12/15 08:12 PM
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i'm not sure exactly what was going on on a day-to-day basis. he is pretty alpha. sounds like it was a caption/first-mate dynamic, but their lives did diverge in part due to religious choices and my impression of him is that he could be overbearing. her mother doesn't strike me as capricious. i do know her father is out there getting it. it might be worth mentioning both mother and father were in the military. i'm not sure what you mean by being more likely to be BP? you mean for the population …
/r/askTRP21/12/15 04:07 PM
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her mother is taking nothing from her father. her parents are pretty good influences and i think that's very important factor. no one in her family is a spoiled brat. she is the type to be grateful for what she has, not looking for greener grass (that i've seen anyway, and like i said my red flag indicator is sensitive as fuck given previous experience with deceptive girls). i've been unemployed for 6mos and she's been a down ass chick. i feel good about her ability to take responsibility and li…
/r/askTRP21/12/15 04:00 PM
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i don't need to know who you are. i know what you are. you sit down when you pee. -patrice o'neal
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 04:03 PM
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its not stopping wanting sex, it's just not always exciting in every context. you can get tired of a hot girl. a mysterious alpha will hit setbacks in life and be exposed as mortal. that said, i misinterpreted your point because i was assuming you were talking about a different amount of sex, my bad. you're right. i think a lot of guys have an idealized and unrealistic expectation of how alpha they can stay and how much they'll keep having or wanting sex in a long term relationship, like you'll …
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 08:13 PM
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life's. forced monogamy. you get burnt out.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 02:16 PM
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they're being asked to think in a way that is foreign and even contradictory to how they have been acting/thinking for decades. a way that is not only not reinforced by our culture but actively denigrated (look at the shit trp gets from reddit). so they are not stupid or lazy, they are ignorant and in disbelief. it's natural and positive to want examples. don't shit on people looking for help and don't play like you've never had questions.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 01:52 PM
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