flavoredcakesforB Archive

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11	Help! Other Guys bombard every girl I approach Been there before. Most girls aren’t fond of other guys interjecting when you and her are having good conversations. I’ve found when I’m in that situation, I act like I’ve know her for a while. "So how’s your family?", "How’s the recovery process going?"… or something like that. She’s savvy enough to pick up on that and follow along. Those guys that want to interrupt only want one thing from her and they’re not interested in anything deep or handling real responsibilities of support, so they lea…	/r/seduction	20/02/24 07:00 PM
2	Going For 3somes - relearning some newbie lessons - quick field report synopsizes Truth is, there are more women out there who want to experience threesomes and more, but they have to trust that the dude is in control, will lead and create a comfortable environment for them to engage because it takes time to build them up to it. I’ve literally asked when we’re in bed "so who wants to be the center of attention first" because it shows I’m considering their needs first and ultimately, an understanding is had where they both will get a turn.	/r/seduction	20/02/24 01:49 AM
6	Going For 3somes - relearning some newbie lessons - quick field report synopsizes I’ve found It’s better to focus on making the women the center of attention and letting them decide who should go first. Ideally, the ladies need to feel that you give them each adequate amount of attention and you must ensure them it’s a safe zone free of jealousy, where there is no favoritism. The minute it feels like someone is getting jealous, it’s a wrap. As long as the ladies understand their needs will always be first, they’ll be more giving when it’s time to return the favor. Of course, …	/r/seduction	19/02/24 11:27 PM
88	How to seduce someone you are in the friendzone with You don’t. You move on to the next girl who shows 100% respect and attraction immediately and doesn’t waste time.	/r/seduction	19/02/24 05:03 PM
5	Any men find it easier to talk to women, your not sexually attracted to? It’s less about it being easier to talk to women you’re not attracted to and more about talking to women in general with ease. Treat them all the same, no matter what you’d rate them	/r/seduction	18/02/24 11:27 PM
9	Do you think porn and masturbation can have a negative impact on your dating life? Porn can and will absolutely have a negative impact on your life if you become too comfortable with it. There’s nothing wrong with porn and masturbation, so long as you manage your expectations, usage and recognizing a shift in your own behavior. Ultimately, this will affect your interactions with women and sex, especially if you wish to be intimate and have to wear a condom because the death grip that comes with jerking off is a real thing. Should one choose self pleasure, use a condom with a t…	/r/seduction	18/02/24 09:48 PM
16	Would you guys hook up with a toxic girl? In my late teens to early 20s: sure In my mid 20s and up: fuck no! When I was much younger, I learned toxic girls are attractive physically, but damaging mentally and emotionally. You must be straight up with what you want and expect in return, make yourself emotionally and mentally unavailable and see them when you want sex. Overall, respect comes first and the minute they don’t show any, you walk away. I’m in my late 30s and STILL come across toxic single women, which I avoid altogether. The t…	/r/seduction	18/02/24 11:44 AM
1	I am pretty sure I just fumbled an easy lay Believe it or not, you can be upfront with women about just wanting sex and if she finds you insanely hot and she’s not looking for anything serious, she’ll be on board with it. Plenty of women only want sex with certain guys just as much as the fellas want it with the ladies. It could be just your attitude altogether, especially since women are more socially savvy. Truthfully, the worst she can say is no and you move on. Stay respectful but confident in your intentions from the beginning.	/r/seduction	08/02/24 02:35 AM
10	Stop Texting Women This is great advice. I’ll add that if she REALLY likes you, is HEAVILY attracted to you and isn’t afraid to show it, these type of rules and strategy go to the wayside in favor of organic chemistry.	/r/seduction	06/02/24 06:03 PM
1	What do you guys talk when you’re flirting? We keep it fun. Doesn’t have to be anything deep, as the deeper you try to get, the more likely she’ll think you’re trying to get serious with her (depending on where she’s at in life, she can either be welcoming of that if she wants a boyfriend or scare her away if she just wants casual sex.) As long as you aren’t afraid to joke a bit, touch her, escalate and get some sort of physical involvement, topics can technically be whatever.	/r/seduction	04/02/24 10:34 PM
2	Being ghosted by different woman frequently . The fact that the belief is you can carry on with 6s and below with ease, but with 7s and above… you suddenly have to decode, analyze sequence patterns and uncover magical formulas to keep them interested. You have to escalate enough to show interest but not too much so you don’t come off as eager, like some hidden sweet spot to discover is bull shit… Yes, 7s and above are aesthetically pleasing to society, but the truth is it’s all in their interaction. Are you putting them on a pedestal? Are y…	/r/seduction	01/02/24 08:49 PM
0	Should I text her back or hold onto my dignity like a man should? When you start banging college girls, your high school sweetheart will be a distant memory, which may get replaced with the fun memories you’ll create on campus.	/r/seduction	01/02/24 07:36 PM
39	If a woman likes you, she will let you know Great advice. Stop contacting her and see if she reaches out to you first after weeks or months pass, in which case it usually means her preferred option didn’t work out the way she wanted. If you truly respect yourself, you’ll let her know the time has passed and you moved on. However, if she truly is interested in you, she will provide tangible evidence of such with her behavior.	/r/seduction	21/01/24 03:24 AM
6	I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned: My previous statement said "women" and not "all women", so it’s understood that it’s not a generalization, nor did I say anything about teaching men to be manipulative and that it’s ok to be that way. It’s simply a way for men to be smarter when interacting with women, whether it’s to approach the situation with confidence or gracefully bow out with dignity. I’m not about to be on some PC bull shit because you don’t like my response.	/r/seduction	08/09/23 12:29 AM
2	I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned: This came from experience because I reflect back at times and realize where I’ve dropped the ball. Many of us have been there and we learn from it	/r/seduction	08/09/23 12:16 AM
11	I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned: To be honest, respecting yourself should be first and foremost before anything I mentioned earlier. You’re 100% correct on that and how now you get to decide who to not deal with.	/r/seduction	07/09/23 07:03 PM
174	I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned: Some free game for you: Women do what’s convenient and beneficial for them, whether it’s right or wrong. They also have no problem utilizing manipulative tactics to gain what they want out of men like you to compensate how other men treated them. With that said, here are a few suggestions after building some rapport with them: Be direct with them about wanting sex if that’s all you want. Whenever I’d hear a girl tell me they’re "not that type of girl", I’d say "No problem. When you become that t…	/r/seduction	07/09/23 10:29 AM
1	Sex for women is too emotional to accept a one night stand Your proclamation is fallacious at its worst. The fact of the matter is many women are perfectly fine with ONS, so long as they don’t see the guy as potential for anything long term and are horny.	/r/seduction	28/08/23 11:44 PM