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Another personal attack lmao you prove my point.
/r/seduction24/10/25 12:06 PM
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Now who's struggling with reading comprehension lol. I'm literally defending the point of NOT meeting up for a free meal and you wanna call me freeloading. Guess I hurt your feelings and you need to go in for a personal attack now.
/r/seduction24/10/25 12:00 PM
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If I don't agree with you it must be my reading comprehension, right. Someone can be interested beforehand and still think you're a creep during the actual dinner. "Insurance" of food in the way you describe is no different from meeting up solely for a free meal, and it's not why certain women reject drinks.
/r/seduction24/10/25 11:37 AM
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You say that's not what you said and then literally repeat the same thing. It's not "there was no sexual spark but at least the food was good and free", because that kind of spark is not the main dinner date goal. The fact that she wants dinner at all means she's interested yes, but my point is that she's probably interested in more than casual sex, otherwise coffee/drinks would be fine.
/r/seduction24/10/25 11:20 AM
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No I think you have it wrong, not that many women meet up with a stranger just for the chance of having a free meal with a creep they're not attracted to. I know this is some sort of stereotype a lot of people believe in, but being stuck at a restaurant for hours with someone you don't like is usually not worth the free food. Drinks signals casual, dinner signals investment. If after food they still go home with you it's because you've already signaled you're willing to invest time/money/energy.
/r/seduction24/10/25 10:59 AM
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If she's at your house she already wants to have sex, you don't have to do a whole subtle routine to "convince" her. Just hide turnoffs (no dirty laundry on the bed etc) and be respectful and considerate of her needs instead of trying to stick it in asap.
/r/seduction24/10/25 10:37 AM
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I guess now you know how the other side feels and why women are so skeptical of men approaching them at all. It's not fun when you care about someone and all they care about is sex.
/r/seduction24/10/25 10:31 AM
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Just make it easy for yourself and be upfront about looking for hookups only. The women who are against coffee dates or drinks are probably looking for something more serious. They are not making it "hard" for you, you're actually doing them a favor by not engaging further.
/r/seduction24/10/25 09:00 AM
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This isn't betrayal though, he literally says he's the one who set the boundary for "just fun". But then the woman has "just fun" with him and didn't let him into her personal/emotional life, which is actually what he asked for and planned to do to her, and suddenly it's a problem?
/r/seduction24/10/25 08:54 AM
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You met her 10 days ago, had sex 3 times in those 10 days and now you're wondering why she isn't your girlfriend? She was obviously looking for sex and she got it. If you wanted more or something long term you should have probably communicated that from the start instead of fucking her "like an elite pornstar" 3 times within 10 days of first meeting.
/r/seduction22/10/25 05:36 PM
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Honestly I don't think it's the guys doing anything in particular in those situations (except maybe put off a vibe of safety). It's women who've already decided they want to have sex and just pick someone they like.
/r/seduction20/09/25 08:23 PM
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I think people also don't realise that as you get older younger people start to physically look REALLY young to you, in an unattractive way. I guess some people are into that but it's less common than assumed online.
/r/seduction20/09/25 08:46 AM
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Ghosting is never closure, it's sad and immature. Is it really that hard to just say something like "I had a great time but I don't feel a connection/I don't see this going any further".
/r/seduction24/07/25 09:00 AM
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So what happened? Apparently you are meeting women so what's the problem.
/r/seduction10/07/25 07:42 PM
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Go speeddating a couple of times just for the experience, don't expect to get any matches.
/r/seduction10/07/25 09:11 AM
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Actually if they find you dry (your own words) then buying flowers and taking them to multiple restaurants won't change anything. Just treat them like human beings, it's not that hard. If you don't enjoy someone's company enough to even hold a regular engaging conversation then the dating scene is not for you, try an escort.
/r/seduction20/06/24 04:54 PM
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You don't put hookup or fwb in your bio because you think girls aren't looking for that, and then you're surprised when on a first date the girl isn't looking for it. Makes no sense. You go after girls who don't wanna hookup and then you wanna make them hookup with your special powers.. but you also don't talk or like being nice to them? You want easy sex but you don't wanna ask for it so you go after girls who require more effort, but then you don't wanna put that effort in. Reflect on your str…
/r/seduction20/06/24 03:33 PM
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At least go to a nice coffee place where you can sit down together and order from a menu. Already having a drink and then standing in line to order hers sounds like a really awkward way to meet for the first time.
/r/seduction04/04/24 06:31 PM
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