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3	Let's talk about congruency Can't speak on OP's behalf but congruency is my expertise so I'll give it a go. You need to be brutally honest and take a hard look at yourself. As in your internals. What are you lacking? What are you weak at? If this is not obvious, then you're in denial. I've been there - but it feels fantastic when you finally accept yourself as a flawed person. Even better if you can hyper-analyse your interactions and behaviours in which you fucked up, since this will reveal where your incongruence lies. D…	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/19 12:33 AM
9	Let's talk about congruency PUA is a broad term. I would disagree that PUA doesn't use congruency. They call it "inner game" but it's pretty much the same thing. Theres a pua called yareally who was around a few years back and it's actually him I learned most of my congruency shit off. Yareally is imo the greatest author of pua literature ever. He's disappeared now but his shit is still available at http://web.archive.org/web/20170708104513/http://www.yareallyarchive.com:80/ Give it a read, it's quite a messy website but e…	/r/TheRedPill	08/02/19 10:47 PM
17	Let's talk about congruency Yeah man I’ve fucked up in the same way countless times. It’s not always a case of “reverting back to beta bucks”, usually for me anyway it’s just not being able to carry thru my alpha persona in certain other contexts. It’s bound to happen when you’re trying to work on yourself and change so radically. Keep at it man. Be congruent.	/r/TheRedPill	08/02/19 09:13 PM
40	Let's talk about congruency Not to be histrionic but this is one of the best posts I've ever read here. It's nearly (but not) as important as How to Get Laid Like a Warlord since congruency is a grossly overlooked and oversimplified topic but to be honest I think it's the sequel to HTGLLAW. Congruency is 100% as necessary to being a man as a strong frame is. You can't have one without the other. That's called being a fake. It's kind of esoteric too and I hope this post will change that. Props to you daddy.	/r/TheRedPill	08/02/19 06:42 PM
1	How to handle "greater" alphas? No. Preselection is a specific term that describes a male that is perceived as high value by a girl before she has even met him, due to the fact that other girls find him attractive. So he must be.	/r/askTRP	08/02/19 05:26 PM

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