fleetingshadow Archive

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1	Interesting paragraph Humor is a sign of intelligence, playfulness and a willingness to risk vulnerability - which shows strength of character. It's also not hard to develop - it just takes practice, making a lot of bad jokes, and then learning to only tell the good ones. Anyone should consider it a badge of honor to be groaned at for making yet another bad joke. It's only by making all the bad ones that you get the skills the recognize the good ones.	/r/seduction	14/07/14 07:49 AM
1	Simple Kino Guide Yep. He's serious. It works too. With practice you'll learn when it's appropriate to do it vs a handshake vs a kiss and a hug. Some people just give off this air of "don't hug me" - they're the exception, not the rule.	/r/seduction	05/07/14 05:05 PM
2	The Greatest Realization Of My Life. This also works fantastically for those who get stage fright - you can choose to be anxious or excited. Choose excited.	/r/seduction	13/04/14 07:45 AM
1	My ex broke up with me after 3 years of dating. It has been so long since I've been single, I need some help. To add to this, you're going to be the pick-up equivalent of toxic waste for a while, while you mourn your ex. Don't try to pick up girls. Try to meet girls, talk to them, learn about them, and have a good time. That's all. If you get more than that, well done - but don't expect it. If you have been in a long term relationship it'll take you 3-6 months to reach baseline again. That's not a bad thing - that's just the process. Don't avoid closing the deal - just don't go out with that goal in min…	/r/seduction	17/03/14 05:50 AM
1	Some shit tests my girlfriend used on me recently and some advice on gaming in a relationship. True :D	/r/seduction	30/01/14 04:05 PM
2	How do i stop myself From smiling for no apparent reason when i am nerves ?? A little known stage-fright tactic is that you can turn nervousness into enthusiasm and excitement very easily. Get excitable. Fake it if you have to until you get in the swing of it.	/r/seduction	30/01/14 06:49 AM
1	What to do when in a group situation, and I cant come up with something to say? "So what happened next?" "you're kidding, right?" Also, remember you're a guy. You're allowed to say only one sentence for every four they do. Sometimes less.	/r/seduction	30/01/14 06:47 AM
1	Working on Eye Contact Pick an eye, any eye. Always look at that one. Don't flip between them - you'll look insecure.	/r/seduction	30/01/14 06:44 AM
5	How do you make the transition from being the one who texts to having girls text you? This isn't a girl thing. This is a close friend thing. Close friends text you. Look around - you've probably got at most 10 real close friends. The rest? Just friends. Most people are NOT the instigators of contact. They wait for you, and respond in kind less frequently. That's okay... To borrow a term from a really old episode of Cagney and Lacey, you're "the hotdog" - you set the beat, and they're the band that plays along with you. And yes, it can be tiring, frustrating and annoying to be tha…	/r/seduction	30/01/14 06:40 AM
9	Im "that creepy guy" at my school, is there a way to get out of this and start having relationships? Your mission, should you choose to accept it (apart from taking all the advice already here) is to go out and talk to everyone. Even if you have to start every conversation by saying "Hi, I'm painfully shy and I don't know how to talk to people, but I want to change that. How are you doing today?" And by everyone, I mean everyone. Not girls. EVERYONE. Don't start on your class - well, start by saying "Hi!" to everyone as you walk by, but keep the major convos to other random people in social sit…	/r/seduction	30/01/14 06:35 AM
1	Some shit tests my girlfriend used on me recently and some advice on gaming in a relationship. Depends if it's meant as teasing (or possibly educating) or is just complaining. One piece of advice I'd give here before jumping in with the communication is this: Ask yourself if it's your problem or hers. Ask yourself the resolution you want. Winning the argument is rarely a good reason to fight to the death or even have an argument. Keep your eye on the prize - is being right going to buy you anything? Some women like to start minor verbal fights to keep things interesting. You can get aroun…	/r/seduction	30/01/14 06:28 AM
2	Some shit tests my girlfriend used on me recently and some advice on gaming in a relationship. "You have great taste in incredibly ugly men. One of these days you're going to run off with a hunchback with a glass eye and a wooden leg and I'm going to be heartbroken ;)" would be how I'd deal with that.	/r/seduction	30/01/14 06:21 AM
1	Some shit tests my girlfriend used on me recently and some advice on gaming in a relationship. "Got any lotion?"	/r/seduction	30/01/14 06:19 AM
1	Some shit tests my girlfriend used on me recently and some advice on gaming in a relationship. Emotionally-invested is the wrong way to put it... (or it's the training wheels version). More appropriate would be - can you be playful, fun, carefree and not aim the eye of Sauron on her? You can be as emotionally invested as you like - you just can't let it affect how you approach others. Many people shift their frames when they find an object of their desire... They immediately become laser focused, and lose the playfulness that makes them attractive. Which is a massive seduction blocker - s…	/r/seduction	30/01/14 06:17 AM
1	Some shit tests my girlfriend used on me recently and some advice on gaming in a relationship. What he said! : You're supposed to be an immovable rock when it counts. Granite, sticking up out of a crazy ocean storm. Be the rock. That doesn't mean be a dick, don't negotiate, don't bend, don't be kind, don't give... But what it does mean is that when shit goes sideways in any way, you've got it covered. And that's where some of the shit tests lie. Will you still be the rock after a tiny push? Can you reassure her that she's got her own lump of granite to tie herself to so she doesn't get sw…	/r/seduction	30/01/14 06:11 AM
1	How many of you guys do actually get laid from those techniques and how many are just here to learn? Heh... Posting from my phone right now so having a bit of trouble looking up that particular one, but I've done some experimentation with a bunch of the androtics direct ones. Best results for me were with instant gentleman (one girl described me as smelling like she imagined James Bond would smell), instant honesty, instant shine and instant openness. The heavier ones I've had less success with (nones, not -nol's). That said, I was in a bar one night wearing a lot of Turn Up The Heat (heavy and…	/r/seduction	07/01/14 01:48 AM
1	How many of you guys do actually get laid from those techniques and how many are just here to learn? Sure thing. And yes, absolutely. She has a similar reaction for about half a day to a day when she's on her period too. The corroborating evidence is that my nose is usually highly reliable as a period/pregnancy test - pregnant women smell a slightly sour, but milky and sweet smell on the top of their heads. We know from experience that except for about a year after our daughter was born, I can smell pheromones directly. She's also made correlations of her own with her cycle and the way she acts…	/r/seduction	07/01/14 01:11 AM
1	How many of you guys do actually get laid from those techniques and how many are just here to learn? http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/200712/scents-and-sensibility Short version: you look for someone who smells different to you. During early pregnancy, the hormones make you flip, wanting to be around people who smell like you (family) - and then they flip back. If you're on hormonal birth control it mimics that initial stage - so you'll be attracted to people you really shouldn't be with (or that your body thinks you shouldn't). So if you come off the pill, all of a sudden who you want t…	/r/seduction	07/01/14 12:28 AM
1	How many of you guys do actually get laid from those techniques and how many are just here to learn? Let me think about it... The problem with long term "game" is that it's very tailored to your partner and that relationship. There might be some stuff I could tease out... (heck I could write a book on getting back with your ex at this point, but again, it's somewhat specific and anecdotal). For the most part though, I think I can boil it down to this: keep running game - you're supposed to be funny, interesting, not take yourself too seriously, etc, right? Keep being that. Drop the icebreakers/…	/r/seduction	06/01/14 05:17 AM
7	How many of you guys do actually get laid from those techniques and how many are just here to learn? I got married by employing PUA techniques... The trick is realizing that 90% of it is designed to distract you to get out of your own way, not be too serious, and practice socialization in a way that women have to far more than men.	/r/seduction	05/01/14 08:18 PM