flennboyd Archive

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2	(M26, Florida) Looking for a girlfriend. What advice do you have? Get started on day game, read posts here, watch YouTube, and ironically, don’t take it too seriously. The point of daygame accepts the universal fact that you will never see the cute girl that walks past you again in your life. So essentially, not approaching is a moot point. In short, learn daygame and start approaching wherever you go, the mall, Publix, Target, Walmart, out in the downtown, at the gym etc. it’ll be tough at first, but nothing in life is easy.	/r/seduction	08/04/24 01:12 AM
33	I just went on 10 dates in 10 consecutive days. Here's what I learned. Great work, this is what putting in the work and getting abundance looks like. Solid interactions and getting yes/no early on 👍 Recognizing someone off hinge is bound to happen and good work on pushing that interaction forward. Looking forward to more posts like these.	/r/seduction	27/08/21 01:36 PM
1	College girls vs girls mid-late 20's girls For the most part early 20s girls are short-term fling focused. Most don’t start thinking about long term relationships until mid-20s and by mid-to late 20s they’re definitely looking to lock down on a good partner as their biological clock for having children is starting to run out. If your goal is to find a long-term relationship with an early 20’s aged woman, then you’ll need to find a matching personality (more book worm, academic focused rather than bar or party girl type). Socioeconomic st…	/r/seduction	26/08/21 03:19 AM
3	10 year age gap. Free to proceed? Good job man, most people just dream and can’t relate. Here’s a list of celebrity couples with an age gap: Taylor Hill 23; Daniel Fryer 29 ; ex-Michael Shank 35 Alicia Vikander 31; Michael Fassbender 43 Katherine Schwarzenegger 31; Chris Pratt 41 Behati Prinsloo 32 / Adam Levine 42 Blake Lively 33 / Ryan Reynolds 44	/r/seduction	25/08/21 11:57 PM
1	The block situation Some of them are just trying to sell photos to people.	/r/seduction	25/08/21 04:11 PM
1	[deleted by user] She’s going through her contact list for a reaction from guys in the past. I’m not sure to suggest spending any more time. If you were the founder of a startup, none of this would even be on your plate of things to worry about.	/r/seduction	23/08/21 03:02 PM
2	Should I try again or accept possible defeat? Yep, just try to get her out once again. It’s up to you if you want to keep chasing her. On the flip side, you’re missing out on other girls you could potentially have the same or even more compatibility with.	/r/seduction	21/08/21 05:07 PM
0	Where can I meet women and how do I build genuine friendships with women, and since I never dated before, I want to start meeting women and have a good time. How do I do this? You should attend a PUA boot camp in NYC, that city is known as the day-game capital of the world. You’re guaranteed to pass walk by an 8 or 9 every 2 blocks just walking around randomly, take full advantage of that. Lookup Todd Valentine on YouTube. NYC girls require intermediate to advanced verbal game, but it’s something you can definitely learn.	/r/seduction	21/08/21 03:28 PM
2	Should I try again or accept possible defeat? If you tried to kiss and she moved away, then talk about something else entirely and pretend it was a silly joke. Try to get her to come out again, if she doesn’t respond, then on to the next girl. In the future, if you say something was ‘awkward’, then she will in turn label it as awkward. However, if you treat it as something small and insignificant, then she will do the same. You lead and she follows. If she doesn’t follow, then build more comfort and go for the kiss again. If you can make he…	/r/seduction	21/08/21 03:24 PM
0	Is it okay for a straight guy to not like licking pussy? You might be better off in the long run. Michael Douglas (the actor) attributed his throat cancer to long term bacteria from pussy licking. He had to undergo invasive surgery and his voice is now different.	/r/seduction	21/08/21 12:06 PM
10	Asked a girl I’m attracted to out for ice cream and she suggested her friends come with? That’s not ideal, you asked her for a date, and I’m guessing they’re not all going to date you at the same time. Say ‘I’m sure your friends are nice, but I was kinda hoping to hangout with just you. How about we do ice cream, just you and me? 🙂’ If she doesn’t reply, then on to the next girl...	/r/seduction	14/08/21 01:02 PM
2	Do I make it fast or do I talk it out? Keep it simple, ‘You seem pretty cool, we should hang out sometime, what’s your number?’ You can even tone down your interest by playfully saying, ‘Well listen, I gotta run, but you seem cool...ish, let’s meet up another time, I’ll send you an invite, what’s your number?’ First one is more beginner friendly, since you can’t mess it up. Second one introduces the fact that you’re screening her, since you wouldn’t just hangout with any random girl who doesn’t vibe well with you. Which is how it sho…	/r/seduction	14/08/21 11:51 AM
4	Help me talk to these gorgeous women at Target Let’s be honest Target girls are a lot more attractive than Walmart girls...just a different class entirely.	/r/seduction	13/08/21 09:50 PM
2	How to handle a girl who is slowly fading out? Your target is to have 10 new numbers each week, and cycle through. If you had 2 other girls on standby and interested, this girl would’ve dropped off your list by now.	/r/seduction	13/08/21 09:44 PM
2	Hot guy at coffee shop...what to do? I notice girls do this a lot to ‘show how pretty they are.’ It’s honestly tough for the guy to approach even if you’re super pretty because of social pressures. But keep doing you, just know that even if they don’t approach you, it’s not because you weren’t cute looking.	/r/seduction	13/08/21 02:14 PM
2	Hot guy at coffee shop...what to do? Try to make a random comment about something on him, maybe it’s his shoes, his jacket, his laptop, his headphones (guys can easily talk about electronics). Another is something situational (e.g. if he knows the quickest way to go someplace). The first thing you say doesn’t really matter, it’s just to snap him out of the daily mundane haze that we all have.	/r/seduction	13/08/21 02:08 PM
1	Did too much kissing on a first date messed it up for me? I suggest searching up ‘logistics pickup’ on YouTube. You generally want to either meet near her or your place, with higher preference to your place. And you also want your date planned out to end approximately 15min near your house. So you can invite her over.	/r/seduction	11/08/21 10:45 PM
1	Did too much kissing on a first date messed it up for me? It’s also about maintaining a certain degree of sexual tension to motivate her to come home with you. Too much escalation during the date could leave you empty handed when escalating to sex at home.	/r/seduction	11/08/21 01:45 AM
8	I realized that in this country, my only chance left is to cold approach. I'm a 26 year old virgin with no social circle. I think I've got the attitude down, but I don't know what to say. The first few things I have to say/ask are a puzzle to me. Do a cold read, ‘you seem like the outgoing type’ ‘you seem like you do something creative, maybe marketing maybe real estate’. You kinda have to carry the conversation the first 5min and just talk about random things that don’t rlly tie together.	/r/seduction	10/08/21 09:14 PM
2	Wtf happen? That’s brutal man and ghosting after seeing each other after such a long time is even more brutal. Do no contact. It’s sad that ghosting is ‘accepted’ now but people seem to only exist on mobile so that’s just a reflection of the times.	/r/seduction	31/07/21 10:39 AM
4	Life is so unfair There will never be a shortage of those types of guys, but it’s important to focus on you, improve your looks and style, and work with what you have. At some point, you just have to not care. There are super cute girls out there that just get hooked on a guy for some random reason, not for just looks. Also, the environment you’re in plays a lot in terms of your ‘sample’ data. Female choosing behaviors in a club or bar (night game) is different from day game and is more about ONS than LTR. There …	/r/seduction	31/07/21 10:35 AM
1	How is daygame or nightgame in NYC during the winter months? NYC is only primarily good in the summer. The amount of attractive girls walking around in summer vs. winter is really drastic. Winter is the worst.	/r/seduction	21/07/21 08:10 AM
3	How do women approach men they like? Great post btw, props on the daily IOIs 👍	/r/seduction	19/07/21 02:15 PM
3	Had one of the worst first date scenarios ever, but saved it by staying composed and in control Bar tenders can be very annoying, would rather be served by an alcohol robot drink maker than having to flag them down and compete for their attention. Humans are lame.	/r/seduction	12/07/21 04:33 PM
3	I am completely obsessed with this girl who goes to my Church but now I really just want to move on & quit thinking about her, but I can't.. no matter how hard I try, I can't.. please, it's getting quite annoying, and unhealthy, does anyone have any advice on how to put an end to this?? The only way to solve this is to talk to her, strike up a conversation, and ask her out. Then it’s either Y or N. If No, you can focus on someone else. Church is difficult as they’re with family typically and there isn’t much social interaction. Sometimes they have donut Sundays where it’s a more social atmosphere or some type of family pot luck night. If you don’t have those, then maybe as she’s walking out go after her and ask her a question in a friendly way. It’s very tough either way withou…	/r/seduction	07/07/21 08:53 PM
2	Met girl at a bar. Gave signs of attraction. But playing very hard to get over texts. That’s a great post, but for some reason I kept hearing it in Al Pacino’s voice. Anyway, it hit harder... :)	/r/seduction	07/07/21 08:24 PM
45	How to meet new girls. Search ‘how to day game’ on YouTube. Basically it teaches you how to strike up a conversation with random girls you see throughout your day (mall, gym, grocery, street, park). You’ll meet the best girls during the day, since not all of them party or drink. Since I value health, some of the best girls I’ve met are at the gym, they’re usually dedicated on self improvement and have a good outlook on life.	/r/seduction	06/07/21 06:14 PM
0	How to not be awkward? She liked you enough to open you which took a lot of courage on her part since girls almost never initiate. Since you said thank you and walked away, from her point of view, you pretty much rejected her. This goes for every girl that attempts to catch your attention in the future, whether that is bumping into you, eye contact etc. Here is how you could’ve handled it: Thanks, I like your shoes, what brand are they? Cooking anything special? Any plans for 4th of July? Do you study? You seem like t…	/r/seduction	05/07/21 12:03 AM
6	The “he’s so hot” shit test It’s called a shit test and tests your frame to determine if you’ll get angry or jealous. ‘Passing shit tests’ is the subject and can be learned on YouTube.	/r/seduction	04/07/21 09:43 PM
-4	How to approach girls while im out with my mom? Easy, while you’re walking, you just step away, open the girl, chat her up, then you meet back up with her. Your mom will always be on your side, she wants you to bring back the best girl you can get, her genes are invested in the outcome after all. She’ll figure it out after the first approach and will probably start scouting for you. 🙂	/r/seduction	03/07/21 11:03 PM
5	[deleted by user] The girls you meet irl are hotter, have better conversations, and are able to make a better connection, since it’s rooted in the first interaction. When it’s online, you might as well be a pop-up ad.	/r/seduction	03/07/21 04:35 PM
1	Mark Manson says; when she is vague, ask whether she actually wants to go on a date or not. Good idea or bad idea? Drop her, waste of time. On to the next.	/r/seduction	03/07/21 04:30 PM
7	24 m. Cannot get a reply back from matches on tinder. Frustrated Do cold approach in real life, you’ll get a quicker response and better engagement in real life. Online dating doesn’t work for a lot of guys.	/r/seduction	02/07/21 05:28 AM
1	I (m28) pussed out on kissing my date (F27) on both our first and second date. Did I fuck up my chances? When you guys are walking, just give her a kiss on the cheek. She will then turn to you for a kiss on the lips right after. If not, just go for the lips, there’s no perfect timing for anything. I never try to time anything, it just drags on otherwise. For the next date, you should invite her to your place to cook food (spaghetti and meatballs is easy) and have her bring wine or dessert. Then throw a movie on and escalate.	/r/seduction	01/07/21 09:42 PM
1	How do I escape FWB and have a real relationship? It’s also called Levelling in poker.	/r/seduction	01/07/21 05:52 PM
2	I accidentally dates and had sex with an underage but legal girl.. Check the legal age of consent in your area and consult with a lawyer on how to protect yourself in case she makes an allegation against you. I also wouldn’t antagonize her in any way as she could use it against you. Just keep on with the pleasantries and reply slowly. Age of consent is what the law cares about, not how the public would view this. And yes, there is most definitely a difference. Edit: do not delete any text-only messages, it will only hurt you if you need to defend yourself in co…	/r/seduction	01/07/21 04:30 PM
1	When should I text this girl from Tinder again? Do cold approach in real life, the high quality girls are not into online dating much.	/r/seduction	01/07/21 03:04 AM
1	How to talk to this girl? People working need to be approached differently since their job is on the line. Many times they’ll be super friendly not only because it’s the polite thing to do, but because it’s a job requirement. Easiest thing to do in this scenario is to befriend her and ‘friend zone’ her rather than ‘game’ her. The conversation will naturally progress between the two of you and she may or may not share more things about herself. If the conversations do become more personal, just end it and say ‘you seem pr…	/r/seduction	30/06/21 03:50 AM
1	12 Dating Principles For Young Men You should do a pua boot camp. It’ll change you.	/r/seduction	29/06/21 08:56 PM
3	Grad student hooking up with undergrads?! Attraction is not a choice, you can’t determine her age preference for her. There are a lot of actor, model, athlete, business couples with a large age gap both male to female and female to male. It just comes down to the personal compatibility at some stage.	/r/seduction	29/06/21 02:03 PM
1	Help, it’s a game? I really like this girl I don’t think you messed anything up, I think both of you are looking at it differently, it seems like she views this more as a short-term fling, whereas you want something more long term. She’s young, so great job on attracting her, that’s very tough to do. But also keep in mind younger females are just exploring life at that age. On to the next, there’s tons of them out there.	/r/seduction	29/06/21 03:32 AM