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https://youtu.be/mbjnre1RRxE Or when they ARE around, or when said women are on a national TV show.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/16 09:18 PM
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He did admit doing so made him a "bitch," so you have a good point.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/16 09:16 PM
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My theory is that all relationships are always open. LTRs, monogamy, etc., are abstract agreements, but abstractions are the forte of the male intellect, not the female. Women, even the most coldly rational, live in the moment, what they feel now is what is. Duties and obligations have an effect on only the most extremely rare of them. The female's instinct is to always look upward for the next best hope of 1) strong DNA and 2) protection/providership. That's it. If you as the man cannot walk th…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 09:46 PM
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Therefore everything is about power.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 06:42 PM
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Going NoFaptoPorn has been great for me. You're right about dopamine reactors. Sometimes I have to jerk off, I do my best to refrain if possible and no longer use any visual imagery to stimulate me while fapping -- no porn now for 3 months and my actual, non-simulated sex has been 10x better.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 06:39 PM
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Was about to post this too. Some safe choking, hair pulling, hand on her chin, slaps, a finger in her ass -- all acts of domination -- work from here.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 06:35 PM
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WAY TOO LONG OF A POST to state the obvious, always have a woman enter your frame, and never rely on short-term results for satisfaction.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 07:11 AM
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One time when scanning my ltr's journal for evidence of cheating (which I found), she had detailed entries about cumming in her sleep to dreams of Johnny Depp. If he's not safe, no one is.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 07:06 AM
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I have no idea. But yeah, vows are actions men take. Women are inherently incapable of abstract, intellectual agreements. Their only vow is to what they feel right now. Another reason why marriage is a farce.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 08:48 PM
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A friend of a friend just got married, it was a destination wedding in a far-flung location. Both the groom and bride do well professionally/financially. On the last night of the trip, after vows had been taken, after their respective families and friends had spent $x000s to attend, the newlywed bride stayed out late with a group of her bridesmaids and ended up going back to the hotel of a rando and fucking him (the groom had retired early for the evening to get some much-needed sleep). Also don…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 08:39 PM
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Let's not equivocate here. Being great at certain skills that were earned through hard work is most certainly attractive to women, even if they know you weren't born with them. "Working hard" to get the attention of women, I agree, or letting a woman realize the details of your inner personal emotional struggles, is not attractive.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 01:28 AM
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The game for women in their 30s is to better disguise your intention to plate or ons them. If you can play to their fantasy that you are both a potential provider and an alpha sex-god you will be successful with them. The problem is, this is a lot of effort for a woman at or past the wall, I think this creates a feedback loop where men are less likely to bother, the women become increasingly frustrated with "men"menarelesslikelytobother,thewomenbecomeincreasinglyfrustratedwith"men"menarelesslike…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/16 06:09 PM
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Don't become preoccupied with the results of one date or one woman. Think long-term, not whether you'll be successful with this particular woman this particular night. In all likelihood, in the time it's taken to actually book this date she's been deep-dicked by a non-committal alpha (or two? three?) and is settling for a drink with you to feel good about herself and her dwindling appeal in the sexual marketplace. You recognize you lack leadership and escalation skills, so I'd set out to improve…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/16 05:57 PM
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OR 1) Get swole. 2) Buy some nice clothes. 3) Have good hair. 4) Have good posture, maintain frame. 5) Smash shit-tests.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/16 05:37 PM
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Start with one thing and do it well without concern for immediate or even medium-term results. Force yourself out of bed even though the prospect is overwhelming, clean yourself up and get out of the house. Stay away from social media. Eat well one day, even if other days you slip. Stay away from alcohol. Get fresh air. Turn your phone off. It's all the little shit. Realize you will have two steps forward, one step back. Don't beat yourself up when you fuck up.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 05:11 AM
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You realize Clinton is crushing Trump in gen election polls, right?
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 03:01 AM
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You're the tough alpha, abundance mentality chap, but you choose to stalk your "plate emeritus" (unicorn) on social media and write a long, poor-executed-wannabe-imitation-of-David-Foster-Wallace piece about her. Hmm.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 08:44 AM
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You realize Clinton is crushing Trump in gen election polls, right?
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 08:09 AM
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You realize Clinton is crushing Trump in gen election polls, right?
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 02:46 AM
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You realize Clinton is crushing Trump in gen election polls, right?
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 10:48 PM
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You realize Clinton is crushing Trump in gen election polls, right?
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 07:59 AM
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I almost totally agree with you. There remains the problem that silent majorities don't necessarily come out to vote. The folks tuning into the debates and cheering/fist-pumping at their TV's when Trump puts Cruz in his place or whatever, those people may not actually come out to the booths on voting day. My personal prediction is that Cruz being to close to Trump as second in the polls has shielded Rubio who will dark-horse win the nomination once establishment right-wingers (those who actually…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 06:46 PM
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Law #5: So Much Depends on Reputation -- Guard It With Your Life. http://www.theatlantic.com/national/archive/2013/03/the-lawsuits-of-donald-trump/273819/
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 06:34 PM
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No need to call anyone names, Daniel. You're right, it appears hypocritical on the surface: to disparage women who put out too easily while simultaneously expressing resent over being leveraged into an LTR w/ blowjobs from a woman who is with-holding intercourse. But what TRP men are truly wary of is becoming BetaBux -- both types of women are lenses through which we can understand what BetaBux is and how to avoid it. With respect to "sluts," TRPers use them as examples of how alpha men can brin…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 06:26 PM
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Perhaps privately crying is ok, but a man publicly crying is weak, if not shameful, especially from the "leader" of the free world.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 06:00 PM
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I take the Brad Pitt rule and apply it to these situations, even if it means I'll lose a woman. If my SMV isn't high enough to keep a woman I'm dating in check this way, it certainly wouldn't be high enough to keep her from cucking me by getting deep-dicked by some rando she meets on her next night "out with the girls."
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 03:45 AM
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Trump a few days ago began hinting he may not attend this debate, since Kelly had treated him unfairly previously. Then Fox taunted him with this childish press release: ("We learned from a secret back channel that the Ayatollah and Putin both intend to treat Donald Trump unfairly when they meet with him if he becomes president — a nefarious source tells us that Trump has his own secret plan to replace the Cabinet with his Twitter followers to see if he should even go to those meetings.") Trump …
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 03:17 AM
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What about rapport? What's the context for these texts? In a vacuum they are meaningless. Text #1 is good if you've established frame, have demonstrated value and she's shown a lot of interest. But if on the other hand this is your first communication after you got her # two nights ago at the bar, you come off like a tool.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 02:26 AM
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I think you're making the same mistake as the OP, you got to a point where you had to make a verbal explicit negotiation for sex. You should take your own advice and get your plate to want to fuck you without having to make a detailed case on your own behalf.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 02:16 AM
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A plate not fucking you is the problem, it's a sign you're not creating enough desire in her. Her desire for you is your responsibility, you're correct. So address that, not Jezebel or Buzzfeed relationship clickbait articles.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 02:13 AM
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For not texting a lot you sure texted a lot, and you kept qualifying and explaining yourself, as if wanting only sex needs justification. No need to be so direct, just demonstrate through a strong frame and action that you want to fuck. When you come out of the gates saying you only want sex you lose leverage, too. Women fuck to secure commitment, let her try to fuck her way into your awesome life, don't tell her she's got no chance, it's kind of like when women give the old "I don't have sex on…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 02:37 AM
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Dude, first and foremost, I tip my hat for your ability to bring the whore out of your plate. If you're upset that I'm calling someone you care about a "whore," remember that her behaviors were always there ready to be unleashed, but that you brought them to the surface. Seriously, instead of hanging your head in shame you should be fist-pumping the air that you brought the whore out of your woman. Ok, to the next point... Though AWALT, clearly this one is feeling guilty about what a whore she i…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 07:35 AM
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This TRP community should make a three-tier distinction between axioms, the logical consequences of the axioms and the practical application of those logical consequences. Axioms CAN NOT, SHOULD NOT AND WILL NOT BE DEBATED. An axiom of TRP is a first principle, for instance AWALT. I totally agree that anyone coming to this sub and debating AWALT is doing us all a disservice, and should be swiftly silenced. The consequences of the axioms are where debate should be more free, though even here bann…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 01:08 AM
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Innocent until proven guilty is a legal standard, not an axiom of common sense. In all likelihood this guy is a rapist, operating from that belief is perfectly reasonable and has nothing to do with feminism.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 03:18 PM
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"Creepy" to a beta translates to "I can't handle imagining my unicorn or oneitis crush wanting to go to a party like this, though somewhere deep down inside my psyche I know she would."
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 09:37 PM
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The problem here, though your summary is entirely sensible, is that AWALT, and it is not 1950. Women today were raised on The Real World, not Father Knows Best: normal, acceptable behavior to them is fucking 20 guys by their 25th birthday and showing their titties at Mardi Gras. Finding a single, prudish women between the age of 30-34 is like finding a magical unicorn in a fern-lush forest. I personally struggle with this too, OP is on to something.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 05:36 PM
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I'm with you, man. It's natural when you start having feelings and sentiments for a woman to feel jealous of her past, or even her present and potential future with other men. On TRP we don't scrutinize the evolutionary biological basis for crippling jealousy in men enough as we should. Jealousy is a brutal feeling, it's probably the most bitterly painful emotion I can imagine besides the death of a loved one, or a breakup. Jealousy is a man's way of securing a woman's womb for his own, the emot…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 05:25 PM
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Some friends will sabotage themselves and you by trying to drag you back down to where you were, they can't handle being exposed by your ability to improve. The most difficult thing about changing positively is that your friends and family can often react the very same way as if you were joining a cult, they become threatened and concerned in a very similar fashion, and in a strange gaslighting sort-of way you can start to wonder if you are losing it -- until you look at your swelling bank accou…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 05:11 PM
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Great read, but living in such fear of the potential actions of an undetected psychotic woman that you would rig your house with cameras, that doesn't seem healthy. I suppose if you're into psychotic women that's one thing, but even then dropcams won't save your ass in every situation.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 04:18 AM
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Remy, you post too much. Take a break.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 08:06 AM
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I ran into a colleague (beautiful rack) and her friend (whom I'd never met) at a bar one night. I approached the colleague with the intent of having an "in" with her friend and/or to see about making something happen with her. We started to chat, some light flirting, etc. This dude walks in solo, with solid frame, not a "hot" guy per se, but just a solid dude, dressed well, confident, etc. He immediately comes to where we are and asks the friend if he can place his coat on the back of her chair …
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 10:56 PM
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5) is a joke, not a MGTOW reference. Nothing has changed and nothing will change with this temporary internet flare of common sense.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 03:27 PM
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Cyanide is also ok in a small enough dose.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 04:59 AM
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You waited two weeks to respond to her demand to be exclusive to her and then moved in together two weeks later? That is certifiably insane. Exclusivity implies others, to be in a relationship is her acknowledgement that you could be spinning plates, so it is moot whether she has a private investigator's photos of you on dates to prove it or not. And if she didn't know about them, why do you feel so morally compelled to drop your plates? Look, I'm not trying to get in a back and forth with you h…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 06:56 PM
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The hive mind is a crucial insight. It became more pronounced and evident to me over the last couple of months with a woman I'm dating whose friends would confront and shit-test me, I had to realize I couldn't let my guard down with them, and as strange as it might seem to non-TRPers, a little banter and flirting with them is in effect strengthening your value with your actual plate. You're never dating one woman, you're dating her and the thoughts/opinions/feelings of her social group.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 04:48 PM
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Who goes through texts weeks after receipt to respond? Waiting that long will look as deliberate as it is. That said, good post.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 04:38 PM
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"sorry, I have a no bullshit policy. I do not fuck unless I am in a relationship" ^ Wadr, this is a blatant demand. The condition she gave you for sex with her was that you dump plates and commit to her. Enjoy her frame.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 04:32 PM
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Unplug your goddam television, gentlemen. I haven't had TV at all for over a year, and before that when I lived w/ my SO we didn't have cable, so I suppose I was weaned off of it. Television is a sewer pipe connected directly to your reptilian, instinctual brain, it stimulates everything base and sick in you and then programs you through advertising with desires that can never be fulfilled, and even if temporarily sated will only lead to deeper, more pointless pursuits. Most shows self-reflexive…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 04:21 PM
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Far more likely she would think: "He's probably fucking someone else, I shouldn't feel guilty now for cheating on him."
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 03:48 AM
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Silence and stoic self-possession are the only ways to deal with a cunt whore.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 03:46 AM
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It may seem contradictory, maybe a paradox, but that doesn't alter the importance of accepting both principles: 1) If a woman won't fuck you after a date or two, you aren't attractive enough to her. AWALT. If Brad Pitt took a woman on a date and wanted to fuck her, she would let him do whatever he wanted. 2) Women will fuck a man attractive enough to her RIGHT NOW, regardless of whatever vows or commitments she's given to whomever else. Read: it's only your turn -- do not expect your plate or lt…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 02:06 AM
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So you hang out with a chick a couple times over the course of six months, she doesn't put out and demands you dump your plates and commit to her if you want sex, so you do and then you move in together within a month? This is the exact opposite of TRP.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 01:54 AM
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You could have fucked her that night if your texting weren't so awful. Mistake #1: "What are you doing tonight?: Correction: "I'm bringing over a bottle of wine, let's watch a movie." Don't ask what a plate is doing, propose something to do. Mistake #2: "I want to come over and get you into bed early." Correction: If your first text were better, you wouldn't need to explain yourself. But in the event you feel you need to explain your intentions, it's far better to be concise and vague and indire…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 02:15 AM
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TRP is not a consequence of progressive or liberal awakening, if anything it is conservative and retrograde. It is precisely reason and intellect that traps us in constructs of idealism, thinking that because people should be a certain way that we should live as if they are that way. The enlightenment, the liberal revolution, science and progress, this is precisely the source of the matrix and the blue pill thinking that follows. Understanding human nature and acting in accord with nature predat…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 06:15 PM
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So you agree that it is possible to be a victim. You should consider rewording your manifesto accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 06:04 AM
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Let's put it in more concrete terms. Suppose you're married and trying to have kids. What if Felicia, through cheating, contracts HIV and then gives it to you? Nexting her is not a cure to HIV, you were victimized.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 02:44 AM
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This is pseudo-science -- examining ONE female is statistically meaningless.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 02:42 AM
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Great post! I have a quibble with the wording of one part... "Refuse to Consider Yourself the Victim" I would instead say: "Refuse to Remain a Victim, and Avoid Becoming One in the First Place." If a woman cheats on you, you are a victim. If you let her continue to victimize you by not then making the tough decision of nexting her, or if the warning signs that she might cheat were apparent and you did nothing, then you must take responsibility. If you are otherwise a good man and blind-sided by …
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 02:15 AM
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Not surprised you don't get my point.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 02:02 AM
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Translation: "Because I'm attracted to certain things, objective standards of beauty do not exist."
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 01:23 AM
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You can only have a subject if you have an object. Objectively, symmetrical women without blemishes are more likely, on average, to be attractive to men, that is a simple fact. Just because a man may subjectively prefer blemishes or obese women or women with lopsided breasts doesn't mean that most men on average will agree. We should at least make an attempt to find objective criteria and not give up so easily. It's important to evaluate women as objectively as possible to remain out of the reac…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 09:14 PM
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Sure, it depends on your experience, your sample size, but really it boils down to three types of fuckable women: Average (68%) Hot yet attainable for high-smv men (14%) Breathtaking, barely attainable for even the highest-smv men (2%) Average and unattainable women, I agree, are pretty obvious to spot and without much controversy most men could spot them. To focus the discussion, the real meat as you suggest is that magic 14% of women who are truly hot and attainable: if TRPers post pics, I wou…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 09:08 PM
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[Posts like these pop up like gophers every couple of weeks, and as I've posted a number of times before, here's my personal metric.] There are approximately 57 million women in the United States between the ages of 18 and 44. 1,140,000 are disgusting and not fuckable. 0-1. (2%) 7,980,000 are the bottom of the barrel, gross, only fuckable in a take-one-for-the-team sense. 2-3. (14%) 19,380,000 are average or a little less than average. 4-5. (34%) 19,380,000 are average or a little better than av…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 08:49 PM
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Employ dread game and take her bullshit as an indication you are becoming too weak. This is a positive development for you and an opportunity to better yourself. Abundance mentality. Be careful when withdrawing affection that you don't come off as passive-aggressive (read: weak). Just give her a kiss as you head to the door, dressed to kill, groomed and clean as a motherfucker, and tell her you're meeting the boys for a drink. Change your best friend's name in your phone to "Amanda" and have him…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 07:05 AM
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1) Women are incapable of "respect" in the male sense of the term (i.e. the unconditional acknowledgement of the worth and autonomy of another person). Women are only capable of conditional respect: a man who shows too much weakness will surely be met with a torrent of disrespect from any woman. AWALT. 2) She will treat you as a "different man" as long as you continue to demonstrate your superiority to both her and other men. AWALT. 3) See item 1 above . AWALT. 4) She wants to be with you for li…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 06:54 AM
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I'm still learning. And it is a painful process. But at least TRP has emboldened me to take risks in both dating and the bedroom for the purpose of improvement. I still want women I'm with to be satisfied -- I'm learning that what turns a woman on most though is when the man is consumed with his desire for her and takes her and satisfies himself with her. This is trickier than it seems, but it is at least anecdotally true from my perspective that when I fuck a plate this way she is far more plea…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 05:15 AM
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I'm dating a woman right now whose friends do not simply dislike me, but who shit-test me almost constantly and in some cases have been outright hostile to me. If a woman's friends think you're "good enough" for their dear friend, it probably means you are a fantastical Disney, soon-to-be friend-zoned bitch ("What, he doesn't text you every day, he doesn't bring you gifts, he doesn't buy you dinner, he hasn't met any of your family and avoids being around your friends, but will have you over for…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 03:59 AM
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Your diction is most insufferably pretentious, Original Poster; though I would delight to sup upon your ideas, their means of conveyance cause a retreat in me of what otherwise was certain interest.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 02:23 AM
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I detect a lot of psychological bargaining and rationalization in your posts itt, I got divorce-raped, but it's all good because I'm better for it. NAWALT. Even if AWALT, it's ok because this is how we learn. To me, you're ironically revealing how brutal and traumatic divorce-rape is by defending it the way you are.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 08:15 PM
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Do not quote NIV bible, because it's fucking lame and lacks literary flair and condescends to the reader. You meant: Give not that which is holy unto the dogs, neither cast ye your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn again and rend you.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 08:08 PM
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Sometimes people jump off buildings and don't die, too.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 07:59 PM
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Realize there is never a moment where you are "won," that prizes and princes are for Disney movies.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 05:10 PM
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A woman fucking 100 guys is like a guy having 10 families concurrently.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 06:42 AM
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I know how hard the denial and anger phases are, bro, hang in there.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 06:34 AM
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Nope. You're talking gibberish legalese that is completely meaningless to women. "Relationship," "exclusive," "open," blahblah, these are words that constrain a man's actions, simply because men value abstract, civilized agreements. Women don't. Women are fluid and irrational and emotional and impulsive. It is of little or no benefit to them to have verbal contracts "committing" to a relationship, even if it constrains the man. 2/3 of marriage contracts -- legal, binding contracts -- are termina…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 01:47 AM
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Just because you decide a relationship is monogamous doesn't mean your favorite woman isn't fucking other men. Just because you declare to one another you are exclusive doesn't mean you are. Saying a woman can commit is like saying a fish can speak English: you may convince yourself it's possible, but that doesn't mean it is.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 09:52 PM
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Only if you know when "she chooses another dick" will your period of assumed exclusivity end. A hungry tiger will eat a baby goat if given a chance, it's in their basic, inherent nature. Women don't cheat, they simply choose whom to fuck and when, and whatever verbal arrangement you as a man have will mean nothing to a woman given the right circumstances. Remember, men are the gatekeepers of commitment, not women. A man can commit to a woman, but it is not in a woman's nature to commit to a man,…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 09:44 PM
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But your relationship is open, whether you want it to be or not. You don't have exclusive sexual access, at any moment your gf/plate might choose another dick, regardless of any (meaningless to her, though meaningful to you) verbal/written/legal arrangements the two of you have.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 07:21 PM
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But see, I don't necessarily mind some chump spending money on my plate or listening to her problems, as long as she isn't fucking him. This would suggest a woman should be similarly relieved if I fuck around and place fewer demands on her cunt, just as she is placing fewer demands on my time; but this seems off to me, and I'm not sure why.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 07:18 PM
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Posts like these keep me coming back to TRP. Not only is it abundantly true that commitment and vows of monogamy only slow a woman down a little with branch-swinging and/or hypergamy, it's also true that when you as a man commit or make a vow or arrangement you instantly lose SMV with her. How you or I negotiate this situation is up to us as individuals, but it is undeniably the reality.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 07:13 PM
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TRP is the most democratic sub on reddit, the mods aren't apt to ban you just because you're anger phasing. It's left to us to decide how this sub evolves, and that's what makes it interesting. TRP is at its best as a collection of experiences that can be analyzed by different men in different phases of their development. A "council" would whitewash the beneficial chaos inherent in such a democratic space.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 11:51 PM
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They've been weeded out by the massive bluff of a shit-test that is feminism: women in fact don't want men to be that way, that's the basic premise of TRP.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 06:25 AM
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"I like your constant nagging and condescension," said the beta.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 07:55 AM
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Reaching success, being an alpha, being "evolved," etc., all terms imply arriving at some destination, like if you just do xyz you'll become something and that's it, dust off your hands and bask in your own glory. Well, that's NOT it, becoming a 99th percentile person, or even a 90th percentile one, is as much a matter of maintenance as anything, when you reach a certain level you must constantly fight to keep what you have, it's always at risk of slipping away. Your beta self is always with you…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 02:26 PM
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We should err on the side of our critics being right, and adjust from there. Too often, those seeking advice err on the side of their critics being "mean," or "rude," or even worse, "abusive." Receiving honest feedback is a gift, for the very reason that offering feedback is almost never beneficial to the critic. I'm a big music fan, and I remember seeing this documentary a while back, Before the Music Dies. I'll never forget the following moment, where Branford Marsalis cuts through the bullshi…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 02:50 AM
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I object to morality even being discussed in the context of TRP. It's like discussing morality in the context of being a Star Wars fan: "Let us examine whether you can still act morally even though you love George Lucas' entire oeuvre." Such a topic would be irrelevant and pointless, just like it is here. To be Red Pill is to acknowledge women have a certain nature, and how as a man we might reconcile ourselves to it -- TRP is not a platform for a discussion of how to be "moral." It also seems t…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 02:38 AM
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You don't get to choose whether you are in the game or not, only how you play it. You can be ignorant of the game and as a matter of chance succeed or fail within it, but you're still in the game.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 06:21 PM
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Your only mistake was worrying about her response and showing that worry to her. If you'd said, "stop whining, I know you liked it" when she started bitching, she probably would have fucked you in the bathroom.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 05:51 PM
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We are reward machines. Morality is a bargaining tool, a way we can psychologically reward ourselves for having self-restraint, for gesturing towards altruism. If someone finds more reward for being killed by an axe-wielding psycho than for killing him in self-defense, because they find "fighting" immoral -- such a person might have more utility and reward for martyring themselves than for harming another person. An extreme case, yes, but not far from what many "moral" people do and rationalize …
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 05:28 PM
9

Yes, but be careful not to think you must fight every fight. For example, you're at a bar an someone starts droning on about some political nonsense, must you prove you're alpha by interjecting? Um, no. Part of being a top dog is economy of energy, having the wisdom to know what fights need fighting and seeing the most efficient way to fight them. This can sometimes be mis-perceived as apathy when in fact it is the skillful preselection of the battles worth waging.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 04:28 PM
131

Great post, but I have to disagree with one of the points. As a ltr veteran, the following is unequivocally false: When your woman tells you to do something or fix something or handle something that, honestly, you really should have already done, fixed, or handled on your own, you are now the woman. You should have proactively noticed something that needed doing and taken care of it, simply because you keep your life in order and run a tight ship. If she notices the problem first and tells you a…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 03:53 PM
7

Your reply was pretty good, but remember: The Hamster Is Your Friend Try to think of responses that maintain plausible deniability. Your response was a fairly direct insult. Instead you might have said, "I suppose you're right, you are bigger." Leaving out the "than me" takes you out of it, and leaves her with her own words, that she is bigger. The Hamster will immediately start wondering "does he think I'm fat?" In the meantime you'll have already left her vicinity to demonstrate social proof b…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 02:46 AM
5

Thanks for sharing, been reading through it. My favorite line: Women would rather share a successful man than be attached to a faithful loser.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 04:59 PM
14

Also learn, how to use. Commas and periods correctly. It makes, it difficult, to read. When clauses are all hacked up in the wrong places and in the wrong ways. http://grammar.ccc.commnet.edu/grammar/clauses.htm
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 04:05 PM
5

For a woman, getting preggo by an alpha and having a tender betabux raise it, is for a man the equivalent of having 6 HB8+, obedient plates.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 01:31 AM
1

Not sure, but it makes more sense than other models, imho. A woman with "average" looks is far more common than an unfuckable one -- also, my bell curve is for women from the ages of 18-44.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 02:34 AM
3

10s are the limit, a true 10 is more theoretical than actual, just like a 0 is the limit the other way. Check out a post I made using some basic bell curve distributions. I think a 6 is cute, 7 pretty, 8 hot, 9 stunning. A 5 should be, generally speaking (for all but the most discerning and well-plated men) worthy of a ONS or status as a low-rank plate.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 01:39 AM
4

There are approximately 57 million women in the United States between the ages of 18 and 44. 1,140,000 are disgusting and not fuckable. 0-1. (2%) 7,980,000 are the bottom of the barrel, gross, only fuckable in a take-one-for-the-team sense. 2-3. (14%) 19,380,000 are average or a little less than average. 4-5. (34%) 19,380,000 are average or a little better than average. 5-6. (34%) 7,980,000 are certifiably beautiful. 7-8. (14%) 1,140,000 are outrageously, watch-out-you-might-get-an-immediate-bon…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 01:28 AM
0

The worse thing about the proliferation of TRP (110,000) is the misuse of the basic tenets and terms of it. Shit tests are a very specific tool women use to determine if a man is fit to fuck them.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 05:52 PM
1

What you appear to be is not what you are.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 05:50 PM
1

Perhaps you should study logic. Just because someone doesn't "party all the time" doesn't mean they don't know how to let go and have a good time when they party. Your entire premise is faulty.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 05:49 PM
0

You're misusing many of these terms, and misunderstanding many of the concepts. Alpha means "most dominant male," and Dwight was unquestionably that, even if he was often thwarted by the cunning, passive-aggressive beta, Jim. A shit-test is when a woman is seeing if you're strong enough to fuck her, and Dwight smashed every one of Angela's shit tests, not to mention those of countless other women throughout the run of the show. Remember the Jim/Pam wedding when he was heartlessly fucking a bride…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 03:16 AM
1

Haha, subtle little trick you made there with your wording: dour, stoic, self-improver, You are attributing "dourness" to stoic men who relentlessly improve themselves, which is utter bullshit. You have yet to make a solid case that stoic, improvement-minded men aren't fun to be around, and in fact a basic tenet of TRP is that women want stoic, goal-oriented men. As to the "YOLO" undercurrent of your post... Of course, "YOLO," but don't forget that while you're "yoloing" tonight to the latest La…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 03:05 AM
0

How can you possibly know the demo of TRP?
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 02:59 AM
-5

You are beta or alpha, no in-between exists. What you are describing is a pretentious beta, and such a person at least realizes they shouldn't be beta and are faking it till they make it. Maybe they'll make it, maybe they won't, but until they're alpha they're beta. I disagree that Dwight is beta, too. In fact, he was about as TRP as it gets, a renaissance man, he had Angela cheating on Andy (uber beta) with him, he got a lot of ladies, with strong MGTOW tendencies. What Dwight reveals is how co…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 02:55 AM
2

Your premise assumes your conclusion, you are begging the question. Just because you saw one gray-haired man denied doesn't mean the guy isn't getting laid to satisfaction, or at least laid every now and then. And it also isn't the case that married men in their 50s and 60s are being satisfied sexually, or in any other way. The real question is what it means to be a man, something TRP does a good job of examining. My grandfather at 73 was built and active and good looking, and flirted openly wit…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 05:19 PM
1

I asked a fashionable friend to give me some tips on how to dress better. He is an honest guy and took the opportunity to completely critique everything about my appearance and I was choking back defensiveness the whole time. We all have blind spots, and in fact the areas we are most ignorant of are those we need the most work on an are the least likely to fix, it's twisted, really. Don't underestimate our psychological defense mechanisms, the bargaining and denial that can undermine good advice…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 03:21 PM
20

Your best text was "okay." Had you said only that and gone radio silent for a while when she broke up with you, I bet you could have nailed her again or plated her haha. I would also add this is a case study in why never to appear weak or vulnerable. Don't cry, be negative, express fear or relate failures, their pussies dry up instantly, they become afraid and run away from you out of instinct alone. It's like if a woman you were dating showed up one day with her tits cut off.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 03:31 AM
4

Though much of this post is speculative, I agree strongly that women fuck you harder and more voraciously when they are trying to secure your commitment -- any man who wants great sex will delay and dole out commitment as slowly and deliberately as possible.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 03:28 AM
1

You shouldn't bother Johnny with information that might upset his existing models for how things work...errr...wait...
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 01:20 AM
1

Perhaps he should choose the other approach, to marry a post-wall woman when they are both 35, gradually but steadily lose interest in sex with each other over the next five years, stay together though both stray and cheat "for the sake of the marriage," and in their 50s have sex once every three months with bottles of lube and medication to aid them through the boring ritual. At least then he won't be lonely, right?
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 12:18 AM
3

Yes, way too many texts in general imho. Just the act of going back and forth in texts is a way of failing the shit test (if you think about it), regardless of what you say you're doing or how busy you act. His actual responses and comments were funny and pretty good, but his level of commitment to the conversation shows her he cares more than he should. My 2 cents...
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 12:13 AM
6

What I find most interesting is they're actually describing classic beta, nice guys, not alphas. Betas are awkward and foolish and can just as easily read on the internet about what a neg is as anyone. Most of these anecdotes are just failed pua-type attempts. The truth is, 99% of the women there who got the tingles, had a ons, had their heart broken, or were dazed and dazzled by a man...it was because he exhibited (at least momentarily) red pill, alpha behavior. Their hamsters will not let them…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 07:07 AM
8

Man, thanks for sharing your story. The hardest part of TRP is not the realization that we can never let our guard down, it's putting that principle into practice. We all want that maternal comfort, to be doted on and adored and loved, to feel safe and free to express our fears and show vulnerability, but with the red pill this must die, and that for many of us is what we truly mourn. In a Freudian way it's as if our mother died, and without feeling faggy or sentimental about it, that's difficul…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 02:45 AM
2

TRP in as few words as possible: Women don't fuck down.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 02:29 AM
1

Roosh should study rhetoric more. Perhaps hire Frank Luntz as a consultant -- I believe Frank was behind re-labeling/-branding the "estate tax" as the "death tax." You can't win an argument when you accept another person's loaded terms, enter their arena, and submit yourself to their scrutiny and examination. Where Roosh lost frame was accepting the term "fat shaming" as the descriptor of his position. He should call it "obesity awareness" instead, and from that platform discuss the problems to …
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 02:08 AM
1

Now astute readers among you might say, “Well Archwinger, by being like this, aren’t I being a shitty friend and a guy who takes more value than he adds? Aren’t I being the kind of person other people should walk away from if they took your advice?” This position is not astute at all. If you are a high value person you add value when you interact with others. It's simply supply and demand, when you are in short supply the demand for you increases. That doesn't make you shitty by any stretch.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 01:50 AM
1

"I really want to fuck that passive, quiet, indecisive guy who is needy and desperate and lacks confidence, but who believes in equal rights for all," said no woman ever.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 06:08 AM
1

I agree, nothing wrong with caring about people, I'm talking about caring about what they do when you're not around.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 02:48 PM
13

I don't know, I text sparsely and concisely, and I notice the smarter ones catch on (as you intimate here). I don't think that's a bad thing either. If a girl isn't texting you, it could also mean she's playing a tight game and doesn't want herself to seem too available.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 07:46 AM
-14

I don't allow myself to ask a plate what she's doing or what she did. Even though I can easily succumb to reverse dread, I know better that I should give zero fucks what she's doing or what she's gonna do. If I text a plate, it's to set up a meet where I can kino escalate and go fuck her. I will text a plate after fucking to keep her asd from ramping up, but even then it's short and sweet, and sent days later, "Nice hang last Saturday, 'plate' -- see what happens when you wear heels?"
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 07:41 AM
8

I'd like to add that your texts should be both deliberately concise/pithy, and ambiguous. Details are for betas who are concerned that the lady reads what he wrote exactly as he meant it. Alphas write texts that can be read a million different ways, so that their plates can occupy themselves and their hamster with hours of guessing and second guessing what he meant.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 07:36 AM
25

The Bluepill Farm System: 1) Mom is an alpha widow who has now settled down with a beta-bux to raise a family. As she raises her son, her hamster has her teach him to be non-threatening to women. Through this she exorcises her alpha demons, her cthonic urge to be choked and dominated by someone who would never settle with, love or commit to her. 2) Dad, being beta, sets a poor example for his son. 3) Son emulates Mom and Dad's relationship when he enters the sexual world as a young man, he is su…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 01:41 AM
1

That she insists this strongly to be a part of his trust should be his reason for leaving her, and he should be grateful the cunt showed her hand.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 02:03 AM
-2

"Alpha" is not "being successful." It's also not whatever you guys want it to be today. To be alpha is to be the most dominant male in a group, that's it, that's the term's scientific usage and the basis for how TRP uses the it, even though many in this sub bandy the word about recklessly. What TRP recognizes is that women are most attracted to alphas, but TRP does not explicitly suggest a man must become an alpha. You can get laid as a beta -- in fact, it's quite easy to. What TRP articulates i…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 06:41 AM
1

I try to stay over for the morning fuck, 2-for-1 kinda deal thing, but I can see why you and many guys would want to bail, especially that whole commute thing.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 06:26 AM
2

I'll tell you what. From a rational perspective I cosign TRP without reservation. But I've discovered something. As I implement TRP principles into my life and see tangible results, as I move up the ladder of success with women, each new level reach presents new opportunities to revert to beta behavior. So you got the number. You get the date. You slay the date and fuck the woman. You get oneitis the next day and start getting the feels and wondering if NAWALT... The beta demon returns... Having…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 06:20 AM
2

I'm with you, heavy denial phase going on here imho.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 06:03 AM
0

You honestly seem in the denial phase to me. That aside, "alpha" has a strict definition, an alpha is simply the most dominant male in a group of males. I would say you're less "alpha," and more simply a self-respecting man. Awareness, critical thinking, motivation and confidence are what makes an alpha. No, not really. Plenty of Chad Thundercocks lack awareness, critical thinking, and in many cases motivation. All it takes to be one is brute masculine energy, testosterone fueled abandon. That's…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 05:55 AM
1

That's when you're supposed to walk up and say onepill_twopill: "Are those earrings you're wearing your grandmother's?"
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 05:42 AM
6

I once told a LTR gf that she has no right to put me in a position where a) if I question her I'm insecure or jealous b) if I don't question her I'm a goddamned fool. It took a while to get over the denial I felt when she had bruises all over her ass, or when she came back from reacquainting with an old guy friend literally smelling like cock. Anyway, I digress, but my formula applies, if your plate or SO puts you in lose-lose situations, do what I should have done and next faster than immediate…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 01:19 AM
7

Could someone point me (and those like me) to resources for newb lifters? Books, subreddits, gym recommendations, etc.?
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 01:11 AM
2

I've realized over the past month or so that I'm in a heavy bargaining/depression phase, even though intellectually I accept the reality of the pill. I just bring this up to point out a guy's mind can be ahead of his emotions, it's one thing to digest the pill through the schema of the logical brain, it's another to navigate all the psychosomatic, brainwashed, socially conditioned emotional responses we have to women, in spite of our enlightenment.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 06:42 AM
6

Watching this kind of stuff helps me keep a level head while dating, it keeps me clear of oneitis and NAWALT, even though it does make me sick when I project one of my former LTRs or some plate into these scenarios. Props on your point that "life experiences" are more than shitty beer, spray-on tans and sweaty cock.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 05:06 AM
10

As someone who has been in LTRs and is currently playing the field, getting some plates up and running, I can tell you that pussy is pussy. The best thing about new pussy is not so much some technique one woman has that another doesn't, or her body differences or whatever, it's the electricity and tension of "will we/won't we." Even when dating and she asks you over to help her fix her leaky sink, you know she's inviting you to fuck her, but there are no guarantees, you'll have to earn that shit…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 04:29 PM
2

Excellent essay, and I find myself on your side of this argument. I posted earlier itt that I see it as the difference between apathy and abundance mentality: the solution to pain and fear and heartbreak is not ceasing to feel or retreating behind a wall of denial, the solution is the realization that you have the ability to process pain and fear and heartbreak, that you are strong enough to endure it. We must make this distinction, rationalization and bargaining are feminine consolations. this …
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 03:21 AM
3

Man, you're on point. About a month ago I was on fire in a bar, I had one chick following me around essentially begging me to go home with her, another I was chatting up at the bar that I number-closed, and another who was playing coy whom I found interesting and challenging. Well, I could have left with the desperate chick (a HB5, quite average) and wet my dick and congratulated myself on another notch. I ended up letting her go and focused on the challenging one (props to her for having lady g…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 03:09 AM
2

While no person should live a life of regret for missed opportunities, it's begging the question to say pussy isn't that big of a deal. TRP advocates an abundance mentality, not an apathetic mentality -- pussy is taken off the pedestal when you start slaying it, not when you say "ah, I would have as much fun playing World of Warcraft and having my Mom cook me a Hot Pocket."
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 11:15 PM
1

Sure, it depends, I'm with you. But to me dating a woman multiple times with no sex is not that much different from asking one for their number, being told no, and then asking over and over again.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 11:10 PM
1

I don't know which TRP she's been reading, but I've read some harsh, unadulterated, tough-love truth thrown at men in this sub. What she doesn't understand is that as men, or as boys who are embracing what it means to be a man, we don't flame out and get bitchy in this sub as often. It's not uncommon for one of us to have cold water splashed in our face, only to respond "thank you for helping me realize I suck."
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 08:07 PM
5

I think you should hold yourself to a higher standard, i.e. you should soft next any woman who doesn't fuck you on the first date (I'm not talking about a ONS, I'm talking about number closing, text-gaming, setting up a date, kino escalating and f-closing). If she doesn't at least show significant signs that she wants to or will fuck you by the next date, soft next, radio silence, pull back. If that electricity isn't there, if she doesn't want to surrender to you, it's not necessarily her fault …
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 05:27 AM
1

It's time to stop characterizing incels as "nice" and sexually successful men as "bad." It's simply a matter of self-valuation and confidence, men who get laid respect themselves and their time and don't put women on a pedestal. They don't take shit, and they keep women in their place, where they want to be given hypergamy, which is under the protection, in the arms, in the frame/world of a strong, confident man. It's not that guys who get laid are "mean." This rhetoric is just a meta shit-test …
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 02:56 AM
0

I'm glad you agree with me 100% that porn and poon are not the same and that this must have an effect on a culture of men who've nutted thousands of times to porn, in their sense and expectation of what real sex is like.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 12:25 AM
7

"Oh, Ugg boots, interesting."
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 12:17 AM
1

I think we do test women, but we don't shit test per se. Women won't fuck you if you don't demonstrate strength, and that's all shit tests are for. I do find it interesting, and would like others to give their two cents on how betas who fail shit tests get laid -- my own guess is that women have provisioning tests and that we should distinguish these from shit tests, i.e. a woman will see how dutiful, responsible, wealthy and resourceful a man is, and will summon some energy to fuck him for the …
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 12:12 AM
2

SMV is different than LTR value, right? At least it should be. SMV is 99% physical looks and age for women, I'm not gonna get hard looking at a woman's degree or watching her cook -- well, actually, I might get hard watching her cook, but you know what I mean lol
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 05:57 PM
2

Interesting story. In a way she really seems to be hopping on an alpha fux cock carousel -- bear with me... The guy you described may have met her qualifications, but I bet she fucked or got close to fucking him, right? And if not him, she will the next time her Prince comes along, just to keep him around a little longer. And he'll leave too. And the next one will come along, rinse/repeat. I think what we have here is less a 23-year old looking for a BB, but a gal unwittingly in the proto-CC pha…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 05:51 PM
3

TRP with 100,000 members is a wide tent with many factions. The part of TRP that is beyond debate is its fundamental premise, which is the source of its name, and that is TRP is the shedding of ideology, an awakening to the truth about inter-gender, sexual dynamics. "But the absence of ideology is an ideology, blahblahblah," -- yeah, I hear ya. But it's not. TRP is a way of examining what women want in a tabula rasa way, a Cartesian swiping of the slate to see what truly motivates women in their…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/15 05:13 AM
0

I'm glad you agree with me 100% that porn and poon are not the same and that this must have an effect on a culture of men who've nutted thousands of times to porn, in their sense and expectation of what real sex is like.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 04:54 AM
0

That sex is different from pornography is precisely my point. Again, glad to see you agree with me that men who have busted 5,000 nuts to porn will have skewed expectations about actual sex.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 03:58 AM
6

And I'd make a subtle distinction even there: when you become a winner, when you learn how to win, you realize that winning has a constant component of failure. Brady still has interceptions, even as arguably the greatest QB of all time, and if his interceptions went down next season he would be a lesser QB. A lot of folks don't realize that, they think that when you arrive you will be failure-free, when in fact failure is a co-temporal component of winning.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 03:49 AM
1

Those components are what make sex different from pornography, glad to see you are in agreement with me on all of this.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 03:44 AM
0

IM, I've read through a few of these, and yes they are gold. I'm beginning to see you as a moderating, crypto-Purple-Pill voice in this community. My brand of TRP is very much like yours. For our edification, could you please distinguish your philosophy from the Purple Pill's, where you are decidedly not PP?
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 03:42 AM
1

The visual component of sex, especially for men, is particularly powerful, not to mention how passive jacking off actually is. And then there's the way we can access whatever private fantasy we have instantly and indulge it without concern whatsoever for the needs of another person. Not like good sex is empathetic necessarily, but real fucking is work. Extensive consumption of pornography does without any doubt alter a man's expectations of what real sex is like.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 03:05 AM
5

Would love to hear an example of those kinds of shit tests she throws at you, that's funny.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 02:34 AM
6

I was thinking about this kind of thing today, as it relates to games like poker or football or whatever. If in poker you never get caught bluffing you are playing to passively and won't win the BIG pots. If in football you are never intercepted you aren't being bold enough as a passer and won't get the blowout victories. If in relationships she never slaps you in disgust for a bedroom suggestion, if you never make her cry, if she never gets frustrated or upset in general, you won't be attractiv…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 02:29 AM
3

Thing is, if she were with Kip Moore and he didn't have solid dread, the answers to all of the above would be yes. Now, obviously someone of his high SMV and lifestyle has built-in dread, but for the rest of us maintaining dread in a LTR is top priority. TRP should be brutally honest, and in that spirit I will be (as I would hope others would treat my posts): it seems to me you are blaming a woman for being AWALT and not taking responsibility for your lack of dread game.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 05:22 AM
1

The term alpha is misused and abused in popular culture, and even on gasp TRP. From an evolutionary perspective, the alpha is simply the one who dominates a social pack, the one with the strongest frame in social situations. A person like this in the modern world will not necessarily be the most successful, and in some cases will encounter greater difficulties than a slimy, sneaky beta would in the professional world. A career woman with a lot of money is not necessarily an alpha. Though alpha w…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 06:22 PM
2

Let's not overlook the point of this article/book: advising successful (what the article mistakenly labels alpha) women on why type of men to marry. As we all know, a smart post-wall woman should always try to secure a beta for marriage. A successful woman even more so, as she can have electric fuck-fests on the side with successful, dominant men, while her beta bitch is unquestioningly supporting her every decision. Even if she isn't looking for a divorce rape down the road, if she doesn't need…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 05:53 PM
6

She got the drama an emotion she wanted. It's interesting reading FRs like these, a reminder that sometimes being completely inflexible, or appearing that way to a woman, will empower her to have a tantrum. There's a way you could have kissed her that would maintain plausible deniability if she asked if you meant it: e.g., a few blocks into the drive, at a stoplight, you could turn the music down, grab her strongly and say "ah, come here" and give her a quick little kiss, and then tussle her hai…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 05:35 PM
-1

In a way he handled it like a boss, I just prefer to use as few words as possible. Also, a kind of version of agree and amplify would have been better to start, and would have preemptively dismantled her tantrum, e.g. his initial response could have been, "definitely, she is exactly the hottest woman in the entire world." I strongly doubt the gf would have done much other than laugh at that response. The essence of dismantling shit-tests as I see it is frame control, i.e. not qualifying yourself…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 01:15 AM
3

Her: "Do you always split expenses?" You: "Not when I'm back in the 1950s on a date."
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 02:28 AM
0

If feminism is true: women and men are equally capable in all matters then it is not true: women have historically been, and in many ways continue to be, victims of male oppression
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 02:07 AM
2

We've all had anywhere from 2,000-5,000 orgasms to pornography by the time we're in our 30s -- let's not overlook the effect this must have on our enjoyment of actual, dirty, smelly sex.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 01:44 PM
3

I've posted a similat comment before, but it's worth repeating here: I became more successful with women when I stopped caring what my mother thought, when I defied her and (generally speaking) asserted my independence from her. It has a way of affecting all other interactions with ladies when you hold frame with the most influential of them in your life.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 02:35 PM
3

Don't play their game. Make them play yours.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 06:38 AM
30

A part of the pill whose effects are lagging in me, the aspect of the red pill I've swallowed but not digested: that women stripped of their pussies, by and large, are boring and lame. I realized this last night when my friend, a 9 on the SMP, a successful, talented bamf, had to deal with his HB8 SO, a stunning Marilyn Monroe looking busty blonde gal, who was acting like an insufferable child. I thought to myself, "Self, this bitch is a total drag even though she'd be fun to slam." She was manip…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 05:51 AM
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Sidebar quality FR. Well done, OP. So many concrete examples of what to do right.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 05:31 AM
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I don't quite get why you got so invested in how many guys she's fucked? The Gavin DeGraw thing is pretty gross though, I have to admit.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 07:23 AM
2

I run similarly, but I have to say, "nice" is a tricky word. "Nice" to a beta means "deferential, non-confrontational, passive," to an alpha it means "supportive while tough, gentle while firm, giving credit where it's due without heaping praise," it's just more subtle for alphas... But you raise an important point, which is "don't be nice" does not mean "be cruel and mean."
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 05:20 PM
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We all have blind spots. Yours may have simply been that you felt entitled to her ass and she could sense it, I don't know. There's a saying in football, attributed to Bill Parcels, "you are what your record says you are." On average if you can bag an occasional dumpster-slut like this one, maybe some HB7s and HB8s, you get rejected by others, etc. -- if your record is consistent (on average) with a man of high SMV, you have high SMV. It's really that simple. Tbh, this anecdote is subtly an exam…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 05:05 PM
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I'm going to take a different view, even though I commend you on your self-improvement. I would make an ex an afterthought plate, not the linchpin plate. It's too easy to get sucked back into psychodrama, old habits, etc., and just (for a minute) consider what happens when you start spinning others now compared to what could've happened had you plated a couple and then taken the ex for a spin. Why not get out there with your new found magnetism and get some fresh meat?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 04:49 PM
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Honest feedback: when you invite a girl to hang with you and the boys you show a lack of dating decisiveness. In the future I'd recommend keeping bro hangs and dates separate. I have beta friends who approach "dating" the same way who experience similar outcomes. One night my bud came into our local bro-hang bar with a chick and you could see she was instantly not into it. He was oblivious. Eventually some alpha wandered in and was taking her outta there within 5 minutes. He was humiliated and c…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 02:48 PM
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Phones, fucking phones. Man, women can be so annoying with their smartphones -- I had to fight my oneitis throbs on a recent date when this woman didn't take her phone out the whole night.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 06:23 AM
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Hey, we're all learning here, so what I'm about to say is in that context, not trying to nit-pick you... You should not have paid for her, she can text a friend about it during your date if she didn't like the food, not your problem. It's tough to bat 1000%, I certainly slip into beta behaviors, but I think you should be honest with yourself that this and the "just saw this" in your text are beta blue-pill flags.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 06:19 AM
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Suppose OP was George Clooney and responded with "What's up?" Do you think this lady would give up on trying to fuck him? Now, obviously OP isn't at that SMV level (few of us are), but we should always remember that if a bitch writes us off for not explaining our texting response times we're probably better off without them.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 06:09 AM
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My new approach to texting is to choose phrases that can have multiple interpretations. When you specify "I just saw this," you make a timeline clear to her, whether you're lying or not. If you simply said "Hey Dimples, what's up?" you add more mystery. ALSO, it's very important to randomize response times and availability with women and NOT apologize for your unpredictability. Should you go LTR with a woman who knows you'll "always text within an hour," your life will be hell.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 06:04 AM
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"You’re not searching for the right woman. You’re searching for the right you." /TRP
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 04:40 PM
1

Hey man, you're in the game, and you're only 18 so even though it stings now you've got another 18 years to develop into a peak SMV alpha. So sick you got onto TRP this early, I didn't catch on to these concepts until I was 27. My recommendation for next time is don't go to a movie on a first date, movies are for after you've already established rapport, like even after you've had dinner. First dates should be casual and relaxed, grab a cup of coffee, make it short and sweet, if no chemistry or …
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 09:43 PM
1

No seriously, there have always been betas, before Nietzsche even.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 09:24 PM
1

Beta providers and orbiters have always existed, nice try though with the pretentious Nietzsche gibberish.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 06:59 PM
2

I had a fashionable friend dress me the fuck down, tell me everything wrong with how I dressed, and it took everything I had to choke down my rage and defensiveness, but I took it. And I took his advice. And I'm better for it.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 02:40 AM
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You're nothing more than a cock and fists attached to flesh. Your sole purpose on this planet is to fuck and fight, this has never and will never change. Goddam truth.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 02:36 AM
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I've had social anxiety, depression, etc., etc., and I've not once taken meds or been to a therapist; and I've overcome these "disorders" in a way that helps me manage when they, the demons, start elbowing in for head-space. When you allow someone else to allay your fears and quell your demons you essentially rob yourself of the opportunity to figure out how to solve your own problems. Going to therapy is itself an admission that you are powerless and feckless. Obviously, if someone is on the ve…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 02:31 AM
1

Please game and fuck her. That is all.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 02:27 AM
3

This is such a great point.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 02:22 AM
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Bro, DO NOT "love" who you are. That is some Oprah horseshit. You should fix your problems one by one until a) you have confidence in your ability to overcome problems b) confidence in yourself as a capable person. "Loving yourself" is an act of adopting a feminist frame -- become a man instead.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 02:19 AM
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We must learn to trust the nature of women rather than women themselves as individuals. AWALT, i.e. women are hypergamous, all women are and will always be, as sure as they have vaginas. A sufficiently alpha man with strong dread game will so command the mind and spirit and emotions and sexual urges of a woman that she will not likely look elsewhere for provisioning and security. The only trust is in yourself as a bamf, if you can become one. Even then, if a billionaire with game and the looks o…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 11:12 PM
1

Those are probably the same bros who told you "being vulnerable and confessional to your woman is important," or "it's okay to cry in front of your SO, that makes you a true man."
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 11:08 PM
1

Hmmm, reminds me of Stories We Tell.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 11:06 PM
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And it shows that you don't have to be articulate or have a good haircut, as long as you are fit and have status and piles of cash.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 11:02 PM
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I'm still working on radio silence; I have to say, it is empowering even though I'm not quite adept at it yet. Does anyone have a rule-of-thumb for how long they'll go radio silent, depending on the nature woman's infraction? Please share if so. I went on a 2nd date with a woman who I banged on the first date. The second date was nice but full of massive shit tests, most of which I handled quite well, but I felt my frame getting wobbly. At the end of the night she was affectionate and sweet and …
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 10:39 PM
1

It's win/win if you go for the ugly mother-hen of the group, you will make the hotter one(s) insecure and put the mother-hen at ease. A lot of securing a ONS has to do with passing some bitch's gf's shit tests. Having a bro take one for the team helps too.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 08:33 PM
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This reads like high comedy. Your actions were so stupid in so many ways that this must be a farce. 1) If you want to fuck another guy's girl, seduce her and fuck her away from him. 2) If you want to fuck any lady, don't sneak into bed when she's half asleep/half drunk and will fuck you out of instinct, only to regret (read: feel raped) later. 3) Do not go raw. 4) If you go raw, cum on her ass or tits or face and wipe that shit off for her. 5) Do not go to the cops. 6) Do not sit down and discus…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 07:59 PM
1

Yes, actually beta providers and orbiters have always existed. Red Pill needs to stick to truth. We have to know history correctly.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 07:32 PM
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My sincere advice: choose one weakness of yours and focus on it with brutal, painful honesty. Ask trusted friends to tell you the honest truth about you in this area. Examine and tweak and re-examine and tweak until your weakness if not now a strength is at least no longer a deficit of character. E.g., it sounds like fashion is a rough spot for you... Have a sharp dresser give you the look-down critique, and choke back your defensiveness as they tell you what a schlub you are. Obsess over this w…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 05:36 AM
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This exchange is the logical and moral equivalent of: Me: Yeah, so I was at the bar and this dude started fucking with me... Him: ...Really, how? Me: He aggressively bumped into me and then pushed me aside to get a beer from the bartender. Him: ... Me: So I grabbed him by the shoulder and said, "excuse me, it is not ok to push me, please just ask me to move next time." And he said, "you're right, my bad, bro." And then we shook hands. Him: You sound like a murderer.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 05:20 AM
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Beta providers and orbiters have been around forever.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 05:12 AM
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Interesting post, but I have to differ with your notion of history, AF/BB is as old as the human race, not a recent reaction to feminism.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 03:36 AM
1

Again, you're missing the point, which is that a skillful man can balance self-maintenance and self-improvement with pulling tang. In fact, someone who can't is decidedly beta.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 03:05 AM
1

Actually, three individuals have risks and benefits in a pregnancy, the mother, the father and the baby in the womb. You're correct that the mother bears the physical burden, but more often than not the man bears a greater financial one.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 04:28 PM
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Part of personal growth is outpacing the friends and women you acquired when you were a pathetic fuck-up. About a year ago I nuked an entire social circle, over the course of a few months I cut off ties with all but one or two friends and ended a multiple-year LTR. They all thought/think I completely lost my mind. But I've never been more successful in my career, I'm building a harem, getting into financial and physical shape, learning important life skills that I'd been neglecting, and generall…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 05:33 AM
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I think there are some economical and psychological bases at work here. For example, the proliferation of internet porn has undoubtedly left many of us bored with what once was scarce. Before internet porn, sideboob or a Victoria's Secret catalog may have been enough to get us off, now a video of a f/f/m threesome is yawn. Supply and demand. As you find you can slay HB6 women and lower you lose interest, the reward isn't worth investment of your time and energy, paradoxically because the reward …
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 05:15 AM
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Foreplay is essential, what we need is a redefinition of foreplay. It's not folding into a woman's frame and demands of back rubs, it's breaking rapport with her by withholding sex for her, creating dread, having a strong frame. OP didn't skip foreplay, he simply applied the effective kind.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 05:02 AM
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A 2/10 guy bagged a 6/10? That doesn't make sense.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 04:35 AM
2

Thanks for sharing man. I realized a while ago that complaining was habitual for me, not necessarily whining, but engaging others in conversation through baits of commiseration, e.g. "eck, this weather" or "can you believe the traffic?" or "why are people always in such a rush on Sundays, it should be a day to relax!", you get the idea. This is just an awful way to relate to people, and they can't help but to associate you with negativity.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 04:32 AM
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If feminism is true then it is not true. Feminism's primary axioms: "men and women are equal." "men have oppressed women for millennia." One ^ cannot be true without the other being false.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 04:27 AM
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Again, you're missing the point, which is that a skillful man can balance house chores with pulling tang. In fact, someone who can't is decidedly beta. Read the sidebar if you're not sure what "beta" means.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 04:19 AM
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Just wanted to add to your quality post: if a woman doesn't shit-test-101 ask-you-your-count, that's a good sign you aren't giving her tingles.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 04:07 AM
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Who's the one quibbling over 12 hours? You're also missing the point, which is that a skillful man can balance house chores with pulling tang. In fact, someone who can't is decidedly beta.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 07:31 AM
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They can always sit on my lap, I'll give them a ride. : P
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 05:47 AM
1

I think Linklater has an interesting take on it.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 05:45 AM
1

You should still wrap it, my man.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 05:18 AM
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People who are confident in business are confident because they’re comfortable with failure. People who are confident in their social lives are confident because they’re comfortable with rejection. People who are confident in their relationships are confident because they’re comfortable with getting hurt. Pure gold, great article.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 05:13 AM
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Social anxiety can be overcome by just getting out there and allowing yourself to be embarrassed, perhaps even humiliated at times. You may go a couple days or a week feeling lousy for that stupid thing you said, or for how you didn't have a smart response to the confrontational douchebag at the bar who cockblocks you, makes fun of you to your face as others laugh, and who leaves with the girl you were talking to. Just get out there and let that shit run through you like a hot knife and learn fr…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 05:04 AM
1

It works forever, I just don't like the magician analogy, a similar but simpler one would be "don't show your hand." Always keep parts of yourself hidden and mysterious and impenetrable, always improve yourself and keep accomplishments in the reserve; though to improve we must be self-critical and fail, we must keep our shortcomings to ourselves as much as possible.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 04:53 AM
1

So true, I've caught on to this recently and have begun using this phrase or its variations. It's very powerful, puts people at ease, restores and promotes confidence in you.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 04:48 AM
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Your inner state is projected with your outer state, and arguably your physical demeanor and posture can change your inner state. When you're worried, self-conscious, afraid, indecisive, etc. (extremely undesirable traits), your posture and demeanor change, you slump, you avoid eye contact, your breathing is short and jagged, you talk to loudly and too high-pitched, you hunch, you take up little space to "not be a bother" or intrude on others, you avoid arguments, you let others make decisions, …
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 03:12 AM
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When I call it quits with a woman they become dead to me. The idea of "time-ho," as Patrice used to put it, is apt: women will use a man's precious time the way men will use a woman for her ass, when you agree to "remain friends" you're the equivalent of a woman who lets her ex fuck her whenever he wants after they've broken up, free of commitment. The transaction is time for sex.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 06:59 PM
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Logic of the OP: You have no volition or control over your decisions, so improve yourself.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 06:43 PM
1

Another tip would be to stay off social media altogether if you haven't started using it already -- the costs far outweigh the benefits imho.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 06:31 PM
1

I don't relate to or support this attitude. In the grandest of schemes we men improve ourselves, we build bridges, paint paintings, compose symphonies, go to the moon, etc. because we inherently recognize that female hypergamy necessitates we become as alpha as possible. We become alpha to fuck, not just for pride. What's the point of becoming a bad-motherfucker if we're just going to jerk off or get happy ending massages? This whole "I can't make time to plate women" is a cop-out imho.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 07:10 AM
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fyi, 3/7, let alone 2/7, does not = 50% Also, an enterprising gentleman might be able to skip [dishes, laundry, reading, and guitar] a full 7/7 nights, or manage his time a little differently, to perhaps pull some vag.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 02:36 AM
1

I'll tell you what though, if I knew I were going to die tomorrow I wouldn't make a video advising others to think about what they'd do if they knew they were going to die tomorrow -- that's the rub I have with this sort of "carpe diem" philosophy. Though we must all be aware we'll die someday, that doesn't mean treating every day like it's our last is a fruitful or productive approach to living life.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 04:24 AM
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You do that every night, like literally every night? It's not black or white, that can be your regular routine and you can still break it two or three nights a week to meet women or date them.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 04:23 AM
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If slaying pussy is not thrilling to you you might be gay.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 06:30 PM
5

SHOW HER THE DOOR Not your problem she's broke.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 02:36 AM
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MORE BOLD TYPEFACE PLEASE
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 08:07 AM
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Sorry honey, I can't blow a hot load of jizz all over your diploma or salary, and even if I could I'd rather give you something to wash off your face as I crack open a beer and turn on Adult Swim.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 08:04 AM
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Always remember, women don't always mean what they say, i.e. their words are not necessarily in line with what they feel about you. It very well could have been she was shit-testing or trying to take you down a peg out of her own insecurities. In a way you semi-failed her shit test by asking her to define "above average" or "ideal man," she got your attention which is what she wanted. Don't forget, women have game too... One other thought: your description of yourself is of pretty "typical" bro,…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 06:41 AM
1

Agree and amplify does work! Happy to know you won't be trolling me any longer.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 11:42 PM
1

Fighting to feel alive is a good way to feel dead.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 09:45 AM
1

Yes, of course I am, absolutely, that is precisely the essence of every point I made, that guys "conjure" suicide, that it is good when they do, and that doing so more often than women is awesome.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 09:43 AM
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By staying aware and alert I mean taking in the whole scene, processing the entire social dynamic, not letting myself drift off into my phone or whatever bullshit is on the TV in the bar, and being sensitive to challenges to my frame while remaining calm in maintaining it.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 09:38 AM
2

I really have to work on this stuff constantly because my natural state is to be shy, reserved, slumped over, self-effacing, solitary, relying on the wit of others to firestart conversations, etc. I have been working hard on reconditioning lifelong habits that probably stem back to some bullshit from my childhood that I've repressed, or whatever.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 09:33 AM
1

The only necessary motivator for accepting the RP axiom(s) is intellectual curiosity and honesty. TRP does not address authentic manhood directly, only when you draw inferences from its premise might you arrive at possible definitions for manhood. What makes this forum interesting is the different ways different men react to RP truths, and that we debate and discuss sexual strategy accordingly (including refusing to participate in the game at all, MGTOW). Our thoughts about maximizing sexual suc…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 01:14 AM
1

You're equivocating. Poor mental health is not a matter of being "less-than-perfect," it is the result of malfunctioning brain chemsitry, bad genetics, negative thought cycles, etc., all qualities that make you less desirable as a mate from an evolutionary perspective: arguably far less desirable than if you have an ugly face or a small dick. Poor mental health is weakness.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 01:07 AM
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A premise is not justified by its end, it is rather the factual or logical accuracy of its genesis that will confirm or negate its veracity. You keep asking TRPers to validate TRP by offering some measure of its pragmatic utility in the long-term, but this is folly and anti-philosophical in nature. If you're trying to become rich you study finance and financial end-game scenarios, if you seek happiness you study the wisdom of the ages and apply principles to achieve results, if you seek to under…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 09:24 AM
1

The Red Pill is a premise, an axiom, not a conclusion or end. It is up to each individual man to decide how he'll navigate the waters of feminine imperative. The Red Pill is simply the acceptance of the existence of such an imperative, the fact that women are conditioned by evolution to secure the commitment of the highest value man at the latest moment of her SMV apex before she hits the wall. When this fails for her, betas are there for comfort and security, and she can and will seek out alpha…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 09:12 AM
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My advice: don't think about relationships. LTRs should happen naturally, and should arise out of the woman's unquenchable desire to be with you as much as possible, which you make difficult for her. You don't need to make a verbal contract or a plan, it just happens. And if she's verbalizing or articulating how the relationship should go or what it is, you need to put a damper on that right quick with skill and grace. As another poster said, maintain frame by never entering into her plan: she w…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 08:41 AM
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I disagree about your approach for fending off the other suitors. If she's distracted by some other dude and wanting to explore her options with him in front of you, you should shake dude's hand and thank him for giving you an opportunity for self-improvement. Confronting some guy who's hitting on a girl you're dating also makes you seem insecure. If anything, start picking up other women, disappear and go radio silent as you hit another bar/club, or befriend and AMOG that guy (by being someone …
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 08:36 AM
0

Poor mental health is weakness though, just like poor physical health in general is. I agree that men should not be ashamed of their weakness, and that we should all help our male friends when and how we can, but sadly only a man can help himself -- if TRP teaches us anything it is that women and most men are indifferent to a man's frailty.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 03:27 AM
1

I'm not sure TRP would help suicidal men. Suicide was around long before feminism, and is prevalent in all sorts of cultures. I do think TRP helps explain suicide though, in that men are not spared sympathy or support for their weakness, by other men and especially not from women, and that's nature's imperative. Only a man can save himself from himself.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 03:21 AM
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What distinguishes these upper-middle-class women from others is simple: their sense of entitlement. They are difficult to satisfy and the simple math of their hypergamy is that Daddy established a standard of living many of them will refuse to descend from. Without a solid 2/3 in status/$/looks, your best chance with these sorts is if they're highly educated and rebellious, you might be able to keep one entertained for a least a little, just don't expect to keep them. Always heed a woman's hype…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 04:22 AM
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The fact is, our edge- our political incorrectness- is the only thing keeping us what we are: a community for like-minded men. Once we adopt a politically correct frame (which is what purple pill is attempting, and what our concern trolls are advocating), we have abandoned our advantage of being a male space that is open to like-minded individuals who can discuss what matters to men. Political correctness is just another word for feminine/feminized speech, it is overly sensitive (if not passive-…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 04:11 AM
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About 9 months ago I had to liquidate a whole social circle of friends who were weighing me down with their negativity, apathy and complacency. Though I enjoyed my time with them, I started to see myself as a complacent, resigned person, and (...not surprising...) as I improved myself gradually I watched as they became increasingly resentful and hostile to me. (It's natural for friends to feel "x thinks he's better than us with his new haircut, confidence, and posture, and he's not coming out to…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 03:42 AM
2

I learned from my obsession with poker that the focus should be on the quality of the decision, not the the results of the decision. Failure in the short-term is okay as long as it leads to long-term satisfactory results.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 06:20 AM
1

You've put in a lot of time and energy on one woman who seems lukewarm about you, even the time it took to write this FR is a little concerning. It's not just a matter of "meet me half way"...make her work for you, make her jockey for position in your interesting life, which you keep as mysterious and intriguing as possible. For every next text or sincere thing you want to say to her, hold your tongue and commit that energy to plating another or a few other women. Be wary of oneitis. Regarding r…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 05:09 AM
2

You're correct. Saying "I've never done this before" is ASD 101.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 04:55 AM
0

Some betas are invisible to some women some of the time, yes.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 08:35 AM
0

I disagree completely with you, or better yet, you are making my point for me: I think the woman was reeling from a divorce and 35, and would have gone home with the first man that was available and attractive to her, *alpha or beta be damned My beta-ness did not make me invisible to her, it made me more visible and attractive to her. That's my point. And she was being hit on at the bar by alphas -- I stood out to her precisely because I was beta (and of course, that I was dreadfully, boyishly h…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 03:43 AM
2

18-23-year olds are much more vulnerable to starving artists, struggling actors, musicians, painters, etc. than the other groups. I have a friend in his late-30s with art-world status and loads of talent who doesn't make a lot of money, but these young women are lining up to fuck him. They're looking for that intense experience, to be the muse, to have some affect or influence on a creative person. Many older women looking for beta bux will disregard poor artists (even those with status) before …
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 03:34 AM
2

True, except you're missing my point. We are doing ourselves a disservice when we oversimplify what it is that makes men attractive to women -- sometimes being beta is attractive to women if you catch them at the right time, in the right situation. This particular woman would not have gone home with an alpha at that time in her life, she was reeling from a divorce and specifically set out to find a beta -- and not a provider beta -- just a non-threatening, naive/innocent young man. It's not alwa…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 02:56 AM
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Betas are not necessarily invisible, and sometimes they are seen as sexual objects. I'll give you a quick anecdote... When I was younger and full beta, around age 24, I was out with some friends having drinks when a 34-year old HB7/8 approached me and, well, hit on me, though I didn't realize then that that's what was happening. Decent conversation, no heavy flirting from my end or anything, and I just left the bar. Outside having a smoke and b.s.'ing with the boys, an older guy comes out and pu…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 04:07 AM
7

While I don't share the fetish, male conceptions of female beauty -- even when set in stone -- are not set in stone.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 02:37 AM
-3

Such a high-quality post. This should be massively up-voted.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 02:18 AM
1

More importantly, what women really desire is an asshole who is strong enough not to change his assholery when she protests, to be the unwavering oak in the tempest of her squirmy chickness.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 07:13 AM
4

I don't have context or history, so I can't add color, but here are a couple adjustments I'd make to bro's texts: Text 1) He asks her if she's doing anything, which is really just fishing for her to suggest something for them to do. Instead, something like "Hey Bum, I feel like celebrating the winter solstice, let's grab a drink. Bar 72, 10:00pm?" Text 2) through 5) should have never been sent if she didn't respond to 1), but each taken in a vacuum would be as follows: Text 2) "My cock is sore f…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 06:57 AM
14

Let's not forget an even more important quality of those texts: she not once responded to him!
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 06:44 AM
1

Like OP, you take her words as logical, factual, earnest statements, rather than for what they are. No need to polarize anything, it's just called having game, learn how to dodge such an easy LMR shit-test. If your time is valuable, don't quit after you've got her in a bedroom and are making out and she says what 99% of women say 15-30 minutes before intercourse on a ONS.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 07:14 AM
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Like OP, you take her words as logical, factual, earnest statements, rather than for what they are.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 04:39 AM
26

If women are the enemy you are effectively a misanthropist, and misanthropists overlook the role nature plays in the wickedness of human beings, the way our biology and evolutionary imperatives dictate our instincts and actions. Our red pill takeaway should be that women are simply, on balance, as desirable and beautiful and wicked and ugly as nature herself, and like nature, both awe-inspiring and dangerous.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 01:26 AM
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I disagree. He read into her ASD far too greatly and took her boilerplate LMR too personally and seriously.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 01:11 AM
8

Just wanted to say yours is such a high-quality, respectfully dissenting post. You are my brand of red piller, man.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 01:10 AM
-1

It's not an ego-defense ultimately, it's part of their evolutionarily determined selection process, they want to test for commitment, which is really their way to assure they get this man's seed should particular fuck not succeed. Commitment isn't all about beta-bux, from an evolutionary biology perspective.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 01:07 AM
1

Two side-post quality insights: 1) "Obviously, she didn't understand what I was saying, and I quickly realize that I used the mistake of trying to use rationality to break her ASD." 2) "And that's what broke her ASD. The fact that I demonstrated my willingess to leave with enough conviction to make her believe it." Everything else, while funny and well-written, I disagree with. I wouldn't create two categories of "we're not having sex" based on two experiences. Way too small a sample size, and y…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 01:03 AM
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I don't see how paying for pussy does anything other than delay one's self-realization as an alpha male. I would not want to fuck a woman who I didn't seduce. So much of the charge and thrill of sex for me is the hunt, the game, the tension of win/lose, fuck/fail. For those saying "all men buy pussy whether they realize it or not": ummm, hold on there. Buying a woman dinner or drinks, first of all, is not really the best line of action for getting ass. In fact, you're better off asking a woman t…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 08:31 AM
1

Who's to say these supposed red pill devotees are not actually sjw cunts trolling?
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 07:34 AM
1

But attractiveness is not "performance." Average should mean "average."
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 07:32 AM
1

I'm really not sure, a normal distribution is my best guess, but I appreciate your question. What do you think?
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 07:29 AM
5

There are approximately 57 million women in the United States between the ages of 18 and 44. 1,140,000 are disgusting and not fuckable. 0-1. (2%) 7,980,000 are the bottom of the barrel, gross, only fuckable in a take-one-for-the-team sense. 2-3. (14%) 19,380,000 are average or a little less than average. 4-5. (34%) 19,380,000 are average or a little better than average. 5-6. (34%) 7,980,000 are certifiably beautiful. 7-8. (14%) 1,140,000 are outrageously, watch-out-you-might-get-an-immediate-bon…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 05:02 AM
2

A better word is role-model. Emulating the behavior of alpha men until you yourself become one is wise, while hero worship is itself foolish, beta behavior.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 03:11 AM
-1

My only issue with OP is the context makes it seem like he got butthurt by her shit test. He stuck around until she started fishing for his net worth, then stomped out hurling insults. I don't quite get that. Was he worried that she wasn't going to appreciate him for him? Why else drive a 50k car than to reel in easy puss? Had OP reacted the way he did when he immediately saw her I would be more sympathetic. As it is I would have just banged her and never called her again if I were him.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 03:04 AM
1

Nice survey of the red pill premise. I would simply add, it's ok to be whatever you are and adopt whatever sexual strategy you choose. Only a jealous man would lose sleep over being a beta bucks to a 31-year old woman who has hit the wall. I myself would prefer to be alpha fux forever, but I don't fault men who beta bux as a rational strategy, knowing that they're buying the puss they're getting. I'm only judgmental of the deluded blue pill sjw types who see women as precious little angels or de…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 09:07 AM
2

I love this post, but I'd like to offer another angle on the strategy presented. Blunt Force Game is itself another arrow in the quiver, it has its benefits and drawbacks. I could see how it would be ginger root for certain men, a way of recalibrating their concepts of PUA, of cleansing the palate, refreshing, setting everything square, so that they can implement other strategies in a different frame-of-mind and context. That said, Blunt Force Game will not work on every woman in every situation…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 03:57 AM
1

Along with others in this thread, it's hard to tell whether your criticisms of 2XC wouldn't equally apply to most subs, and the internet in general: even on TRP it's quite easily to get shouted out with down votes before you can really get into some interesting debate. Truly fruitful debate can only happen when both sides are willing to be persuaded to alter their position, to adjust their opinion according to new evidence argued by the "other" side. When you enter a sub you're automatically par…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 01:55 AM
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I'd also be curious, in all sincerity, what your answer to the following is: What is your sexual strategy? Does a man need a sexual strategy? When you meet a woman you are attracted to, how do you proceed? What do you expect from her and what do you think she expects from you? In the long term, what arrangement (marriage w/ children, bachelorhood, open relationship, asexuality, etc.) will maximize happiness for the greatest number of men? What male behavior will make women the happiest? What mal…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 09:13 AM
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If you'd read this sub you'd know that honest and open debate are encouraged. If you could provide some specifics, like which premise a red piller has that is incorrect, something along those lines, then we could perhaps discuss and debate it and get to some sort of middle ground. I suspect though you're just looking for some negative reactions, trolling iow. If so, knock yourself out!
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 09:05 AM
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I think it's perfectly ok that a lot of people -- especially those with a feminist or victim mentality -- are threatened by the redpill and hate it. That just supports its veracity. It's also important to emphasize that, paradoxically, yes, a true redpiller only shares one thing in common with another redpiller, which is simply a premise: sexual dynamics as prescribed by nature, once understood, present very difficult-to-swallow truths that are contrary to every conventional trope in popular cul…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 08:54 AM
3

This is the kind of thinking that makes TRP great, excellent post.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 06:50 AM
3

My interpretation is you are a beta bucks to her, and that's fine if it's ok with you. Beta's get laid and in their own ways can find happiness. It's just that you might also find out one day she's banging on the side an irresponsible chain-smoker who rides a motorcycle and is a "painter." I think you're on to something... Why did she not write a flirty, sexy letter, telling you how when you did that thing to her she came 14 times and she needs it again soon? Or whatever... She's praising you fo…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 06:34 AM
8

Let's add "You won't believe what she..."
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 06:17 AM
41

Classic and basic, he just needs dread game. Don't come home one night, radio silence, a new haircut, disappear random times, learn a new skill, tell a story about the 25-year old woman who just started working in his group and how she's always (silly her) trying to get him to grab a drink, etc.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 08:24 AM
11

This is a GREAT example of gas-lighting, this is precisely what gas-lighting is: "something's wrong, something's very wrong, nothing's wrong, you're crazy."
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 09:17 AM
1

For the vast majority of the movie Rhett is the quintessential redpill archetype. Even his failure to be 100% pure uncut redpill is inherently redpill.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 11:01 AM
5

Red Pill Lesson 16 (a-d): a) Men accused of being rapists will always be perceived as rapists. b) Men claiming to have been raped will always be considered wimps or frauds. c) Women claiming to have been raped will be considered "raped until proven otherwise." d) Women accused of being rapists will never be perceived as rapists.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 10:54 AM
3

I think of kino escalation as getting a cat to want to cuddle and get petted. Most cats are cautious and reserved and flirty when they want your attention, and if you give them too much too fast they get irritated. You have to pet them and love them and then offer no stimulation as they pull away a bit. Watch them prance away and ignore them and then watch them circle back. Rinse/repeat. Maybe that's why it's called getting pussy .
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 09:10 AM
11

I don't get this...you seem jealous, bitter, and hurt that your GF has sexual skeletons in her psychological closet. ("Edit: Any ideas on how to fuck with her?" Seriously, you need revenge? What is wrong with you?) She is perfectly normal, and the good news for you is she has some pretty kinky fantasies, so there's some potential there. And yes, AWALT. Stop choking on the pill man, embrace her dirty.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 07:47 PM
16

It's not beta to disagree with someone, or beta if you interpret douchiness as such. That said, what this guy did was not so much RP or alpha as it was smart.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 06:01 AM
2

Crying at some funerals is ok (like at the death of a close loved one, or someone who died tragically), but yes, that's the exception.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 05:50 AM
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The problem with Elliot Rodgers was his attitude of entitlement mixed with psychosis (the psychosis enabling him to act upon his narcissistic attitude). He seemed to believe a certain lifestyle, a certain status, a certain level of accomplishment -- that they should be granted to him, rather than earned by him through persistent, dispassionate self-critique and personal development. Really the problem with Americans and the West as a whole is the prevailing and malignant culture of entitlement. …
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 05:10 AM
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You touch on a very important point, which is that what she confessed was the stuff she's not ashamed of... For every cockroach you see scurrying across your linoleum there are 100 in the walls nesting you don't see...
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 06:03 AM
11

This Lena Dunham shit disturbs me, I guess I'm more naive than I thought. No mention of the story anywhere but in right- and left-wing blogs and e-zines, both sides politicizing what is in fact a very matter-of-fact unawares confession Dunham made of being a child molester and predator who abused her sister, who treated her younger sibling like a sex toy with no (to use the fem-parlance) "agency." It bothers me to think Lena's old-money contacts may have pulled strings to keep this out of the NY…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 06:00 AM
11

The reason you won't see men writing this kind of shit in their auto-bios is because they innately know they'd be branded molesters, and honestly, rightly so. I understand that children who do awful things are not the same as adults who know better, but an awful act is still an awful act. If LD could at least acknowledge that what she did was hideous, that would deserve respect. E.g., let's say you used to bully or beat the shit out of some kid when you were 8-years old -- if at 28 you laugh it …
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 03:29 AM
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Sorry, gross naked chick (who I honestly think has serious writing talent), you can't have it both ways: if you think drunken sex that you later regret is rape, playing around with your little sister's pussy is not only molestation (at the least), but is probably something far worse.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 07:59 PM
6

OP, you meant [WP], not [FR]. Would have made a great letter to Penthouse Forum in 1993.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 02:01 AM
13

A plate recently asked me my age, my response was that if she guessed within a year below or above I'd tell her. You could easily do the same here -- the great thing about this is even if she's right you'll tell her she's wrong and there's nothing she can do, "cuz that's the deal, now make me a sandwich!"
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 09:40 PM
12

The reaching for the phone after sex is like grabbing a smoke. She's def addicted. Don't be controlling about it though, and just next her if you can't deal.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 08:11 PM
14

The "become a psychopath" advice is stupid. First, you can't become a psychopath anymore than you can become a midget if not born one. Second, empathy is valuable, what strong men learn to do is not be reactive to empathy, to still make rational, wise decisions in spite of the inner urge to act upon their emotions. Wisdom and rationality must trump emotion, but that doesn't mean attempting to lose all empathy and feeling is the way to get there.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 08:04 PM
2

This guy is very talented and smart, his career is far from over. Very disturbing how quickly well-intentioned "sensitivity" and "liberalism" can morph into unadulterated fascism. Reminds me of what happened to Juan Williams a couple years back.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 02:33 AM
8

Treat men as equals and women as inferiors and you'll be very popular with both.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 04:16 AM
14

She's collecting betas as a security blanket, just don't be another one of them. A little alpha with someone like this will go a long way. Real alpha men do not make women feel comfortable and safe, they make them feel nervous and horny.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 04:09 AM
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Grand public overtures of romance are quite narcissistic, they're really more about the guy showing how clever or sentimental he is. Woman are by nature very narcissistic, they see men as mirrors, they don't want some dork stealing their thunder or upstaging them. The real way to romance a woman is to manipulate how she sees herself through you: get her to feel like a sexy, accomplished, intelligent woman, and then allow her to become addicted to that feeling by selectively depriving her of it (…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 03:26 AM
2

This just isn't true, what you've written. Both you and OP reason as follows: "Some women are unattainable, therefore they are unattainable." If you believe that some women are unattainable, the story ends there, no need to compare women to Santa Claus or becoming a billionaire. The reality is -- and this is fundamental RP shit -- men must attempt to land a number of women, they must swing and strike out repeatedly before getting a hit, and they must not lose sleep over this or that at-bat, but …
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 06:11 AM
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OP, you've laid a trap for yourself. The first step is taking hot women off the pedestal -- you seem to be fantasizing about a certain type of woman so much that I can't help but wonder if you'd self-sabotage when given the opportunity to escalate or close. You may not even be aware of opportunities you've had. You seem to be feeling sorry for yourself too, about your genetics, and that shit has a way of telecommunicating itself to all sorts of women. As undermining as it may seem to be at first…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 05:55 AM
1

It's not Red Pill to always do what you want, Red Pill is knowing what you want and knowing what she wants, selectively giving her what she wants as needed within the context of your frame -- RP ltr judo is like being a 5-star restaurant waiter who always anticipates the patron's needs, is responsive without being servile, someone who will not allow the patron to have another piece of bread if he determines it will ruin the main course.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 04:59 AM
3

Spank them when they've been bad.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 04:47 AM
1

Your cousin should have the marriage annulled, letting his mom and sister know they must testify (or write an affidavit) against this cunt if they wish to remain a part of his life.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 12:41 AM
1

I want to state how important it is that none of us take such pseudo-intellectual bullshit seriously: do not engage in debates with women or sjws who actually believe this stuff, it's no different than arguing with (and thus dignifying) someone who says that magical gnomes with crystals control the weather from inside Mt. Rainier.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 05:17 PM
2

Holding a door for a woman is quintessentially alpha. Gentlemanliness is alpha. The problem is not being a gentleman, it is that betas have a habit of letting their hamsters tell them they're gentlemen so often that they start to believe it. Betas think being a gentleman is letting a woman fuck them with a strapon -- sorry, nope, that's not quite it. Sinatra was a gentleman AND a bad-ass motherfucker, same with Clinton or George Clooney or a million other masculine, alpha, classy men.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 02:56 AM
3

This is an important thread. TRP needs more like them to get to black-belt red pill shit. It's interesting how controversial and divided it is, and it's an opportunity for us to see the nuance between maintaining frame, or running good dread, and being an abusive twat. It is not "sjw," "beta," or "white knight" to say OP is a fucking buffoon. Escalating to "gonna find a new girlfriend," after setting the trap with a feather-preening self-compliment, it's just toying with her. This is literally s…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 05:38 AM
4

Looking good, having skills and hobbies that are attractive to women, getting your finances in order, this is all prerequisite to game, this is the preparation for the war that is the SMP. We should distinguish too between manliness and seduction artistry: in fact, a lot of what TRP teaches, e.g. maintaining frame, dread, independence (physically, intellectually, financially, emotionally) -- this is just basic masculinity 101, a model of normative, effective, adult-male behavior that has been ma…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 05:02 AM
1

I've been seeing a lot of "Netflix on the couch" shit on here lately, and it seems very beta to me. Netflix on the couch in jammies on a Sunday afternoon is ltr shit, it's not seductive at all, imho. Same with cuddling. Teddy bear crap. Another red flag is hang out. NO. "Let's hang out" is like failing a shit test she never gave you, it says to women 1) you don't have a plan 2) you aren't confident enough to put a more aggressive sexual foot forward 3) that you might be into just, well, hanging …
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 01:58 AM
6

I then pull out the "you sing right? I should show you my music studio upstairs". She says "you'll have to help me up" off the couch since we had dug in and done some cuddling to get her comfort level up. This seems like a shit-test to me. When you picked her up and carried her you sent "I'll take care of you" signals, imho. Curious how other TRPers might have responded. I like: "Oh, you're sleepy? Let's get you a cab." And the cuddling, not sure about that bro... And the letting her get to go t…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 06:43 PM
3

When a woman marries she cashes in her chips -- marriage for women is not an investment, it is a liquidation. For women, divorce is the investment in their future: through divorce they achieve security without responsibility, they are given the power of free time to develop themselves by learning a trade or going to school with his earnings. It also depends where the man is when she marries him. Let's say a woman marries at 18 and her 25-year old husband then blossoms into a +$500,000 net worth …
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 05:10 AM
1

For those saying "women pay alimony too," I'd say you're correct, and I'd even agree that (as experts say) those numbers are on the rise. But let's examine the details...even with palimony numbers on the rise, according to the 2010 census: 3% of divorces end with the woman paying alimony. 97% of the 66% of divorces initiated by women in a society where 50% of the marriages end in divorce result in the man paying alimony, which means... ON AVERAGE, A MAN WHO MARRIES HAS A 1 IN 3 CHANCE OF ONE DAY…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 04:50 AM
1

If you want to play 3 or 4 songs well you should learn to play 100 songs and select from them the best stuff. Learning the guitar takes a lot of persistence and effort, especially if you want to get to a level that will get poontang.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 07:59 PM
3

Don't forget the importance and power of plausible deniability. Example: I live in a major American city where pedestrians are as common as vehicles. I figured out something a number of years ago while walking around that I'm sure some people learn in highschool, how to walk without having to yield to others... I mean, look, to be polite we need to get out of the way sometimes, that's gentlemanly, right? Also, sometimes big dudes, packs of unpredictable, crazy teenagers, nasty bitchy women, some…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 05:04 AM
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I like where this tangent is going... I'm no anthropologist, but when I think of any pre-agrarian society, I imagine a village of women raising children, not one totally stressed out career woman having it all. In fact, in such a pre-agrarian village, I can imagine both men and women being unfaithful without much consequence. Think about it: 1) Mojibwe bangs ten different women who then have his kids; the village women then raise the runts while the guys hunt, Mojibwe gonna Mojibwe. 2) Kuntaskan…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 03:04 AM
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If you are in a tree and you want to walk out on a limb, you shake that fucking limb, push and pull it up and down, shake it again, maybe even try to snap it off, you do whatever you need to make sure that limb will not break and send you plummeting to the ground to your certain death. That's what a shit-test is.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 02:44 AM
5

Please, please take off the unicorn goggles. This is an epic hamstering on your part to NAWALT. ? I wonder if you recognize it ? Next or, if you must, plate her -- do not settle. And, sincerely, grats on the self-improvement.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 02:37 AM
1

I have to call bullshit. Blaming a parent for their offspring's murders is fucking stupid. Yeah, his mom was a cunt, but so are a lot of moms whose children don't go on to commit crimes against humanity. Victim mentality anyone? Stop.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 05:08 PM
2

The median is weighed down by women who are retarded vegetables or bushpigs whose cunt is hidden beneath tides of flesh and flaps. And, as others have remarked, women are not reliable reporters, especially in these sorts of matters. The sexually active HB6+ women I've known who aren't in LTR (the hotter they get, the less likely that is) have at least two fucks per year -- that's 20 cocks a decade, conservative, especially if by fuck you include blowjobs and handjobs etc. I once knew a promiscuo…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 06:07 AM
1

Assuming you only want a HB6 or better, expect she's had 30 cocks by age 30. That's my new rule of thumb, and I think any man harboring jealousy, or who is overly tentative about this kind of woman with this kind of number at this age...a dude like that probably hasn't swallowed the whole pill... After she hits the wall somewhere around then the cockrate drops significantly, the carousel slows down and she settles along with it into longer relationships with beta pussies. If a woman is <HB8 and …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 05:35 AM
1

Tell her you have AIDS and see what she wants to do then.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 02:44 AM
16

Some rough math: 60% of women (HB6 and higher) from the ages of 18-29 could likely fuck a few different men per week if they wanted with very little effort...if you take out rag weeks, that would amount to 1,320 different partners on the carousel ride. (Obviously this is the outer, most extreme nympho limit, and it's probably never happened but for pornstars and prostitutes, and probably not even them, but it is theoretically possible). Part of swallowing the pill is realizing HB6 and higher wom…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 02:14 AM
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Fox's answer is the equivalent of... Female junket journalist: "What is your advice, George Clooney, for a woman in her 30s who's been dating someone for a couple years and doesn't quite know the status of their relationship? Her biological clock is ticking, she's put other plans on hold, and wants to start a family; he doesn't quite seem ready to commit, but she isn't sure why because he won't say." Clooney: "Pppppp. Hmmmm. Whinneeeee. Neighhhhhh. I would just tell her to hang in there, let the…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 01:52 AM
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Generally well done, just one word of caution: if you come off emotionally invested in her by being too annoyed, or seeming bitter, you immediately lose frame. It's all about tone, if you're teasing and negging her that's one thing, if you're huffy and annoyed that's very beta.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 05:01 AM
8

One way to see this is the trade-off between the satisfaction of comfort and the satisfaction coming. Staying sexually attractive, keeping the physical spark alive in a LTR, is exceedingly difficult...the energy needed for proper dread game, keeping your shit together as a man, dodging the increasingly escalating and complex shit-tests she throws at you...the bitch gets smart to you and it only gets tougher to keep that spark the longer the relationship goes on. Especially with porn (perhaps hoo…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 04:14 PM
10

This is a healthy reminder to us men to remain confident and seize the day, no matter what. Let's not disqualify ourselves for the woman out of our own beta-bitch-wants-to-get-out insecurity. Quick anecdote: I was at a bar/music venue one night, lone wolf, checking out a great band. A cute 6+ sits down next to me and gives me a flower and starts, well, ?hitting? on me. It was fucking bizarre. I thought I was being pranked, that somewhere in this venue must be her crew of friends laughing and poi…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 01:36 AM
3

Well done, sir. Hopefully Chubs learned her lesson and will jump at the chance to sit on your cock the next time you are gracious enough to invite her over.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 01:30 AM
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I wish you responded: "you and I are on the same page then! I only date gals who are 18-24, w/ no children, who have big tits and a 24" waist, all natural, virtually no body fat other than in the ass and titties, w/ long hair, having a neatly trimmed delicious pussy, who like to cook for me and who can suck a mean cock. That is how you know a quality gal."
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 08:43 PM
2

When we steer clear of foolish speculation or unsubstantiated claims about "any animal besides humans," a simple fact remains: The man capable of seducing, attracting, and satisfying many women will have the highest probability of perpetuating his DNA, not the rapist nor the beta.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 08:30 PM
1

Adopting a victim mentality is feminine, and the men in "men's rights" who do so are in fact demonstrating their femininity by whining and complaining like little pussies. To be masculine is to take charge and grab the world by the throat, not sit back and complain. TRP sub here provides a lot of motivation, feedback, and wisdom for how to maximize one's masculinity, and at its best is less "ranty."
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 06:37 PM
7

I disagree... TRP is not about figuring what YOU want, really, it's about squaring your wants/desires with reality, finding a place for yourself in that reality. I pass no judgement on a man who wants a marriage/LTR; in fact, I admire men who succeed LTRs, success in them (for a man) is like winning a fist-fight with one hand tied behind his back.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 12:50 AM
1

You make the assumption that, just because women are "physically takable," that they are then "taken," and then more erroneously think that once "taken," they then conceive. The alpha is always he who has the highest probability to spread his DNA the farthest and widest, but this does not mean every drone soldier of a horde is then alpha. Genghis Khan or Alexander of Macedonia? Yes, definitely alpha, but is this because they were rapists or because they were conquerors, leaders of the highest or…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 12:34 AM
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Also, regarding violent rapists, they are not alpha. A true alpha knows how to persuade a women into surrender, how to seduce women, rapists are precisely the opposite of that. Also, it has been documented (to the point of controversy in the news a couple years ago) that women rarely conceive when violently raped.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 07:01 PM
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Alphas fuck often and broadly, and thus have a higher probability of siring children, independent of other factors. This study though provides evidence that women a) conceive more often when they orgasm b) have orgasms more often with alphas. Nature, in other words, could care less about love or whatever Disney fabrication of the day is trending -- nature only cares about the perpetuation of the species. The system is well rigged, don't forget, so that when the alphas fly the coop the betas will…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 06:55 PM
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Based on these facts, Tomassi's Iron Rule #5 should be heeded to the letter by all alphas or would-be alphas.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 06:46 PM
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The sexual text is a shit test. While escalation is key, if OP acts too excited when he meets her in person she will see this as weakness.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 10:43 PM
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Best post itt, other than the OP ^ . You are starting from square-one when you see her, expect to have to rebuild rapport. Stay disinterested, confident, relaxed and fun. If you go into the date with too many expectations, expect your expectations to be disappointed. Stay in the moment.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 10:29 PM
4

Let's never let anyone call us manipulative. The word we should use is persuasive. TRP reminds me a lot of Greek philosophy and culture, particularly Stoicism, but also of one of the original disciplines of The Trivium, Rhetoric, i.e. the art of persuasion. Holding frame, not letting others define you for you, is part of rhetoric, and in this example so would be controlling the terms and words. Manipulative almost never has a positive connotation; persuasive is a more powerful and positive term.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 10:13 PM
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One of my most memorable nights/weeks of sex happened after I told a plate I'd be getting a drink with a woman I'd known in high school (that I reconnected with on FB), who was in town for the week. Plate begged me to come to her place afterwards, "no matter how late." I stumbled in at 2am and she was "fake asleep," just panicked in bed, and I slid under the sheets. She did one of those fake yawns, "oh, did you have fun?" I proceed to fuck the holy shit out of her. The next morning I went back t…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 10:00 PM
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Aka, "The Matthew Effect."
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 09:45 PM
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Common sense will prevail, let's not ourselves get hysterical about this latest trend. It is women anyway, not men, who suffer most from these false rape stories: 1) reports of rapes will necessarily become less credible to police officers as this kind of hysteria perpetuates 2) women who are legitimately, brutally, violently raped are doubly victimized when their personal tragedy is carelessly categorized as tantamount to this sort of frivolous bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 02:24 AM
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I wish Shea responded with: "no worries, babe. Funny story: I got drunk the other night and these three hookers on a street corner started hooting and hollering at me, lifting their skirts, etc. They wanted me to pay them for sex! I had to do what I had to do to get them to stop bothering me. I'm sure you understand."
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 05:49 PM
11

If we're talking about wolf packs, you become dominant or influential in them by demonstrating your equality to the other men of the group. Another way of putting it is you must demonstrate your worthiness to the others. If you come off too supercilious you will be ostracized, or you will have others in the group looking to cold fight you to bring you down a notch (by cold fight, I mean challenge you in non-physical ways). Depending on the scenario, you might even have someone attempt to beat yo…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 03:31 AM
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Well, it's impossible for me to really assess this situation, lots about the context you only know, and if you're not welcome in her puss, gtfo. I don't think, in any case, yours is an alpha story, sounds more beta to me, especially the fear and the apologies, etc. Not trying to be harsh, just being honest. If a woman does not want to have sex, I say "OK." If a woman I am already fucking asks me to declare my love for her and I don't, I may stop fucking her, but not out of fear that I've now rap…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 12:44 AM
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Saying, "you're going to suck my dick..." was your mistake. Too much future tense, too self-conscious, you killed the moment. Women want to be swept up in the heat of the moment, not have sex scripted like it's a porno. Thumbs up on the dread game though, sir.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 12:37 AM
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I have to be honest, it's bizarre to me, given your presentation of the facts, that you think she thought she was being raped. What leads you to believe that?
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 12:12 AM
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Not like I'm saying I don't sympathize with you about this, but... 1) apologizing for consensual sex 2) losing frame control 3) failing her LMR/ASD shit-test 4) feeling guilty for not being in love or being able to say you were in love 5) spending half a week in isolation and a month in fear afterwards NOT ALPHA I.e., your story does not refute but rather supports my previous theory/assertion.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 11:42 PM
2

Another way to flip the script: "While we're on the subject of how to better please each other, sweetie, I've been meaning to tell you, I want to blow my load all over your face next time, fyi."
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 05:50 PM
2

Only betas worry if they're raping a woman, or wonder if she might regret it, or aren't sure if she really wants to.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 05:44 PM
3

This kind of story comports with my theory that betas are the primary perpetrators of "date rape." It is such a common scenario: "let's just cuddle and go to sleep, no sexual stuff." The beta, half asleep and horny as shit starts grabbing her bits, putting hands in crevices and under clothing, or boner jamming the girls rear in the middle of the night, and now she's been "sexually assaulted." This behavior compounds if drinking is involved, the girl will be more likely to submit or send mixed si…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 02:06 AM
1

There are approximately 57 million women in the United States between the ages of 18 and 44. 1,140,000 are disgusting and not fuckable. 0-1. (2%) 7,980,000 are the bottom of the barrel, gross, only fuckable in a take-one-for-the-team sense. 2-3. (14%) 19,380,000 are average or a little less than average. 4-5. (34%) 19,380,000 are average or a little better than average. 5-6. (34%) 7,980,000 are certifiably beautiful. 7-8. (14%) 1,140,000 are outrageously, watch-out-you-might-get-an-immediate-bon…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 01:30 AM
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Will to power is the truth, not will to love or will to justice or will to fraternity or will to equality. You simply need to realize power talk is speaking the truth.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 02:56 AM
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I sense a lot of masochism from OP itt. Feeling bad and wallowing in self-pity seems to make him feel good, and that is not the masculine mindset. If I have one recommendation for you, OP, it is to modify your thought patterns by delighting in action over self-examination. Self-examination is only for the mentally strong; strength is built through action. Exercise/lift, go for a walk, build something with your own two hands, go argue politics with someone, join a fight club and fight, do, act. W…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 02:40 AM
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This is exactly how I rate women, I love your post. A 7 is as hot or hotter than 70% of the female population. I have been trying an exercise lately. I go to places with many, many women, festivals, clubs, nightlife spots, etc., and I practice scanning the crowd and immediately assigning a number to every woman I see. Sometimes I catch myself hesitating or being unsure about a woman's number, but with practice I'm getting faster. Using numbers literally objectifies women, to our advantage. It's …
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 11:01 PM
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TRP is amoral, it is simply a realistic survey of sexual dynamics. I agree that healthy relationships do exist. My emphasis, in response to your post that imho is borderline NAWALT, is that TRP applies to women we meet at a book club, not just those we meet at "da club." Fair enough, that a woman met at the latter might be less likely a total whore, and more prepared for a healthy relationship, but that won't change what it will take to attract and keep her, what for many men and all betas is a …
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 04:24 AM
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A woman needs emotional intimacy the way a man needs tits and ass. Men and women both enjoy intimacy and sex, but you will become less attractive and less powerful in the relationship if you don't recognize the transactional nature of this dynamic, that as a man you must ration intimacy the way your bitch rations pussy. Listening to her problems, cuddling, eating ice cream and watching Netflix on a Sunday: if you are giving her more of that than she is giving you blowjobs, don't expect happiness…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 04:07 AM
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The Law of Social Influence for Men To be well-liked by other men, you should demonstrate your equality to them. To be well-liked by women, you must demonstrate your superiority to them.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 02:41 AM
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E.g., my "feminist" aunt who does not have a college degree, and who has limited marketable skills beyond planning events/parties for her rich friends, who married a bamf Fortune 500 CEO alpha.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 02:26 AM
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Shouting Red-Pill truths from a soap box is lose-lose: should you convert someone, you will now have empowered competitors (men) and informed adversaries (women), should you not convert them, you will appear delusional, mentally ill, or worse. I don't mind sharing with a select handful of friends TRP truths, and to an extent being seen as someone with game builds status. I would like to differ with the OP's words here a bit, too. Though he's consistent with the Matrix by talking about plugging b…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 11:30 PM
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"Fuck off, bitch" shows that she can get a rise out of you, not very stoic imho. Being nasty and angry just gives bitches power.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 04:41 PM
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Let's be careful not to NAWALT here... TRP applies to all women, even teetotaler librarians (especially them), not just club skanks. TRP also applies to women who themselves understand TRP, and who may get why their pooos twitches when you dread them. TRP is absolutely necessary for men in LTRs, not just PUAs.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 01:36 AM
1

I wonder if date rape hysteria is the ultimate shit test. Wouldn't it be primarily betas who a) commit date rape b) worry about committing date rape? Too many betas and orbiters are intimacy sluts, they'll cuddle, sleep with a girl (no boners or touching though, teehee!), listen to her talk about how "dating in this city is impossible," etc., without realizing that by withholding the aforementioned they have leverage for poon. I could see such an AFC getting drunk, going home with a girl thinkin…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 08:58 PM
1

Regardless of one's politics, it can't be denied that Donald Rumsfeld is one of the most alpha of alphas in history, and easily top-10 of the last 50 years in the world. Not only aware of the Johari Window, he famously used it (w/r/t WMD and terrorism, I believe) during the Iraq War. http://youtu.be/GiPe1OiKQuk Fwiw, watch him hold frame in this presser, lmao.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 08:06 PM
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My grandfather was a badass, capital-A Alpha until he died in his mid-70s -- in his casket he had scrapes and bruises from cutting brush and chopping wood just days prior. He had my grandma in line, and she loved him to death. He was charming and outgoing and opinionated and would grab 40-year old women's asses at coffee shops in town in front of their husbands (observed this many times), and the women would come sit on his lap and give him kisses, and my grandma would just sit there and take it…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 06:23 PM
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Reconciling with feminist hypocrisy is a big part of the red pill. In the vid, the prof worries about "women losing agency" and "men being responsible for women's choices," as if that's a) not what women really want b) at all surprising. TRP reminds us not to take feminism seriously, which also means, yes, any time you fuck a girl when she's wasted may result in loss of liberty for you, so tread that territory wisely and like a man. It's war out there.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 03:32 PM
2

Thanks for the recommendation. Not to be contrarian about it, but I think we should acknowledge that many men succumb to and drown in "grief" or "(the feeling of) what it is to die." Part of TRP is recognizing that failure and despair are, yes, opportunities for personal growth, but also that failure and despair have the very real possibility to ruin and destroy a man's life, and no one will care about it or pity him if it does. It's kind of like the quote often (mis?)attributed to Nietzsche, "w…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 02:30 AM
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The "bluepill" subreddit, so funny and subtly profound. Not only are subscribers self-confessedly passive about their relationship to natural, physical, and biological reality, they are self-evidently beta by allowing themselves to be negatively defined by another group's metaphor. Why bother posting there?
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 01:55 AM
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Choleric. Now you've got me wanting to read "Love in the Time of Cholera" by Gabriel Garcia Marquez... I do know the title plays on the "four temperaments" connotation.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 01:27 AM
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