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I’ve never been a people pleaser. I have standards. I have boundaries. I never center women. I am not a jerk. I know the difference. The men who are claiming that women are attracted to jerks are never talking about people like me. I’ve known some jerks, narcissists, drug addicts, and petty criminals. Guys who got into fights. One guy who had a magazine on his coffee table touting sexy pictures of corpses. I didn’t even know that there were magazines like that. None of these guys were lacking fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:00 AM
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I’m not Chad. I don’t want to be treated like Chad. I would reject any woman having instant sex because I don’t like promiscuity. I don’t engage in promiscuity. She’s not getting sex in the third date either. I’m not looking to get laid so I’m never desperate. Women who are only promiscuous with Chad but not with Earl haven’t necessarily learned any lessons. They’re making Earl wait because he isn’t Chad. The next time they date Chad, he’ll get instant sex. I don’t treat Stacy like Stacy. I am a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 11:21 PM
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No. It means you can be. Some of those guys will stop playing the field when they fall in love. Others will continue being promiscuous because many women are willing to overlook the cheating if the guy is handsome, rich, and/or is a master of game. I think that those guys are highly immoral. I don’t like promiscuity. But those guys have lots of options while I don’t so most guys are going to want to be more like them than like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:17 AM
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I’ve have succeeded at many things. I wasn’t a master of any of those things. Schlubs succeed sometimes. Journeymen succeed almost all the time. Masters exceed. They make journeymen look on in awe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:05 AM
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Yes. All of that will eventually happen. We already have women marrying dogs or even marrying themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:28 AM
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When I was in the dating apps, I always marked myself as being conservative and blocked any profiles that claimed to be liberal so that I wouldn’t see them again. I don’t imagine that there are many liberals who would claim conservative because it lessens their chances with liberal women. If the man claims to be conservative, he probably is.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/26 11:35 PM
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Feel so strongly about what? Both statements that I made are facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 09:57 PM
1

Marriages were arranged by the parents for most of history with little if any input by the people getting married. I’ve never seen women being shamed for marrying men they’re not attracted to and I’m online a lot. That doesn’t mean that it never happens but it does suggest that it is fairly uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 08:44 PM
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What? “Lying gets me sex. If women don’t like lying they should just give me sex so that I don’t need to lie.” No.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:19 PM
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I’ve never been out chasing women. I’ve never been desperate for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 01:51 AM
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I am opposed to promiscuity for either sex. I won’t get involved with a promiscuous person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:20 PM
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I'm schizoid. I do almost all of that by nature. I never was controlled by lust. I don't seek validation from anybody. I am polite to everybody and will not change that. I'm not afraid of false allegations. I'm never nervous about my wording. Men should not run away because they're afraid or nervous.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:53 AM
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Any man worried about his alpha status isn’t alpha. He’s evincing insecurity. I don’t derive my worth from men or from women. I don’t care about validation. If all the women want to chase after alfalfa sprouts, they’re welcome to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:54 AM
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Market value is not determined by buyers. If that were true, I could go buy a Lamborghini for a dime. Market value is the price agreed upon by both buyers and sellers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 10:46 AM
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I’m not complicit with women. Or men. I’m not suggesting that men control themselves to make things easier or better for women. Nor is it to help men get women. If a man tries to follow this path in order to get women, he’s already failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:10 AM
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I’m a sexual counter-revolutionary. I’d be fine with no guys getting hookups. All men should take control of themselves rather than be controlled. Stoicism. In that philosophy, you can be chained up in a dungeon and still be free. It’s not about pretending to be aloof so that women will chase you. It’s not about burying your emotions to appear strong. If you have control of yourself, you shouldn’t be shaken by women who are chasing Chad. Let go of it. Chad is getting laid and can manipulate wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:08 AM
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I’m detached because I’m schizoid. I’m used to it. I could throw in the copypasta “I was born in the dark.” I am a born Stoic. Outcome independence. I’m not controlled by what happens around me. I’m not controlled by what other people do to me. I’m not controlled by lust. Freedom rather than power.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:42 AM
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I would never consider any woman who was doing sex work as a wife. Since she’s out as a wife, I wouldn’t date her. I won’t engage in hookups or FWBs. I don’t have a “fun only” category. If we had something in common and she was a nice person, I wouldn’t mind having friendly conversations. I wouldn’t be concerned about any STDs because there wouldn’t be any sexual contact. I wouldn’t be worried about my reputation either. If people want to chatter, let them chatter. Maybe people would start belie…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 05:46 AM
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Many virgin males are ashamed to admit it. I’m not ashamed of it. I’m not trying to get rid of it. A major part is due to religious reasons. In addition, I’ve never been desperate for sex. I’d need to feel a great trust but I’ve never met a woman to whom I I’d give that trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 02:10 AM
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The market is composed of people. People are irrational. Especially when dealing with sex. Too many men are crazed bulls who are willing to pay any price.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:42 AM
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I’ve seen many, many women try to do all of these things. I don’t want to be manipulated or bullied so I ignore it. I don’t do any of these things because I don’t want to manipulate or bully. Listening to Kpop would probably be a dealbreaker for me. I wouldn’t try to get her to stop listening to it. I’d pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 02:13 AM
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My boundaries are innate. I’m a natural stoic. I can do what I want. Let her walk. If she don’t wanna know, forget her. 🎶The boys are back in town / The boys are back in town / Spread the word around / Guess who’s back in town🎶
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 09:42 PM
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Every time I’ve seen the study mentioned, they’ve never claimed that 50yo men are more physically attractive to young women. They’ve always said that 20yo women were more likely to find a 23yo men more physically attractive. Men are being told that if they keep in shape and become financially successful, then they’re at their peak. But that peak might not be very high. Guys aren’t expecting to be flooded with 20yo groupies just because they hit 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 07:50 AM
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Yes No No Yes Why? Difficult No 8 No Maybe Yes Yes Yes No Yes I’m a bit old for that No Yes She’d be too young Dunno Maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 12:22 AM
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I have never sought casual sex. I don’t want casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:39 AM
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I’m not going to do that. It’s foolish. I rarely compliment anyone. When I do, it’s a real compliment not an attempt to get laid. I don’t pay enough attention to know. I look at a “like” on dating apps then same way as a like on Facebook. Is not that serious. I don’t sleep with any of them. I’m not liking to get laid. I’m nice to everybody. If a 5’5” person asks me to pull something off a higher shelf, I’ll do it. Man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:05 AM
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A lot of the men who are looking for sex aren’t lonely. They have satisfying non-sexual relationships. They aren’t looking to settle down. Those guys are attractive to women. Many men are unwilling to appear weak and vulnerable. They know that they don’t benefit from the same protective instincts that rise up for women and children. Many lonely men are looking for a deeper relationship but have no success with women. Those guys are available but are invisible to women. Many of the lonely guys ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:14 AM
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Not in Education, Employment, or Training.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:28 PM
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I don’t see men criticizing women for being nice. Hooking up with abusive jerks over and over again isn’t being nice. Women in real life are overwhelmingly nice to me. None of it is about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:36 PM
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I don’t think about it. I’m not looking for it. I’m not going to notice unless it’s extreme. My focus is broader than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:40 PM
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Obvious? If a woman wears subtle makeup, I won’t notice. I won’t know if she’s wearing false eyelashes, what color her eyes are, or what color her lips are. Some of this started in response to women who were shaming men who wear toupees.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:32 PM
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I’ve seen this from religious women who value virginity and believe that sex outside of marriage is a sin. They are holding out until marriage. They don’t want the guy to have had a lot of sex, but they want him to have had some. Once he’s with her, she wants him to wait for marriage. A fairly good boy who fell to temptation a few times but has straightened his life out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 04:13 AM
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Even some virgin women who are waiting for marriage don’t want the guy to be a virgin. They want him to be the leader so he should have some experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:21 PM
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Not sleeping around ever. I’m a traditional Christian. I’m not SexPositive™. I have never slept around and never wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:01 PM
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I read the study. They looked at divorce and separation. They didn’t look at who initiated or why. They assumed that the man must have abandoned the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:42 PM
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That would be saying, “I was trying to get with women much hotter than you. Now, I’m giving plain women like you a try.” How is that ever going to go over well?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:32 PM
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“Acoustic?” No. Not even semi-acoustic. I’m electric.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:24 PM
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I want to see more than a series of head shots. I want to see some form-fitting clothes rather than clothes that are a baggy blob. This gives me a good idea of what she looks like. I don’t want to see her spilling out of her top. I don’t want a tight closeup of her boobs or butt. Those give me hookup vibes but I don’t want hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:53 PM
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You don’t know what I believe other than that I disagree with the premise that the theory of hyperactivity comes from online dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:40 PM
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Hypergamy isn’t a theory about women on dating apps. It’s a theory about women. Most of the theory was built from real-life scenarios. It is also applied to dating apps because, if women are hypergamous in real life, they probably are online too. Dating apps are used as support for the argument because there has been data released about the dating apps. People like to use numbers in arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:16 AM
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I’m around some autistic boys of various ages. They are constantly stimming, are very awkward, and have significant problems with sensory overload. None of that seems particularly masculine. These things don’t exude strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:36 AM
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One doesn’t need to be a sociopath. One simply needs to be desperate enough to make the allegation and then too afraid to admit the truth later. A couple of examples that I’ve seen. A girl has been out all night with her boyfriend. She panics once she realizes that it’s morning. Tells her family that some strangers raped her. They call the police. The police find some guys who fit her description and were at the supposed scene so they get arrested. A wife gets caught cheating. She panics and tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:40 AM
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Why is the handsome tall guy still single? He has access to many women. Are all of them rejecting his commitment, or is he not offering it. Suppose that I own the most successful restaurant in town. I’m making shiploads of money. I have crowds clamoring to get in. I might be tempted to not care if my waiters are a bit surly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:37 PM
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I’m open to kids but I think I’m more likely to conquer the planet than have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:00 AM
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I don’t want one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:49 AM
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I’m eclectic red pill. Absorb that which is useful. My view of red pill is mainly from the movie. It’s swallowing the truth.I have seen some of the “red pill” content. It varies. I agree with bits and disagree with bits. Rollo Tomasi talks about “spinning plates”. Have options. He has specifically said that he isn’t advocating promiscuity. Others are. I don’t like either version. I’m not interested in casual dating or casual sex. I don’t want the hassle of keeping a bunch of plates spinning. Mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 09:00 AM
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There is good reason to believe that I would never be partying, drinking, and hooking up while in a marriage. I have never done that in my entire life. That isn’t me. I wouldn’t consider a woman who isn’t compatible on this. That’s my mating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:32 AM
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I am below normal in psychopathic/antisocial traits. I don’t use or manipulate people. I have no fuckbuddies and don’t want any.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:28 PM
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I’m okay with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:48 AM
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People don’t need to be together all the time. Unless it’s something urgent, they don’t need to be communicating during those times. I don’t want to be connected at the hip. I don’t want to be connected at the phone either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 03:06 AM
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I’ll text. I’ll talk on the phone a little bit. Especially to maintain a relationship. For me, a relationship should be built in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 02:18 AM
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I don’t like talking on the phone. Never married. No kids. No pets. I don’t like texting either but it’s preferable to voice or video.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 02:02 AM
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Not wanting to talk on the phone doesn’t mean that he’s married. He’s not going to do it while his wife is there but there’s plenty of time for him to call when his wife isn’t there. I’ve found that plenty of scammers are eager for video calls to “prove” that they’re not scammers. The scammer can be an actual woman and using here actual pictures on the site. Others are using technology to fake the voice and the video. Calls prove nothing. I am over 35, I’m not even slightly scummy, and my OLD ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:01 PM
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At most levels of chess there is no gender split.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:53 AM
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I already forgo all casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 06:08 PM
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I respect myself and my morality. I’m not seeking sex. If she offers sex, I will decline and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:57 AM
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Ask a thousand people to put on a hat. Then ask a thousand people to die their hair green. Then ask another thousand to shave the hair off. There is a major difference. Messing with the hair I’d a larger commitment. It says much more about a person than an article of clothing does.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:08 AM
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I have no respect for those in either case.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:26 PM
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There is a big difference between clothing and hair. Hair is part of the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 07:36 PM
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I don’t utilize sex workers. I wouldn’t date or marry a sex worker. Many women say they would neither marry nor date a man who had hired a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:38 AM
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You’re changing it to where she wants to wear black. Why wouldn’t she wear black if she wanted to? She doesn’t want to wear black. She never agreed to wear black. He just said that he wanted black. This guy didn’t want to propose at the beach. He didn’t agree to propose at the beach. The only reason people are demanding that he propose at the beach is because she wants it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:08 AM
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Nobody would tell her that she needs to wear a black dress to her wedding because he wants it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:02 AM
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Nobody is doing these things to piss anybody off. Suppose he refused to say, “I do” because he wanted her to wear a black dress but she showed up in white. Nobody would be supporting this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:59 AM
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Yes. But she doesn’t get to dictate. I don’t need to clear anything with her. She doesn’t get to plan it. If I know that she loves a particular song, I’d probably use it. But I’m not going to check with her. The proposal is my expression. Not hers. It’s a portrait of me offered to her. If she rejects the portrait, I don’t want her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 12:26 AM
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None of that changes the fact that the proposal was his and the decision was yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 11:18 PM
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I wouldn’t. The proposal is mine. The decision is hers. If she declines, we part company. It’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 11:07 PM
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This is correct. I have no problem with her rejecting his proposal. The proposal belonged to him. The decision belonged to her. I’m fine with both.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:43 PM
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Nobody gets to dictate how I propose.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:21 PM
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It’s solely his proposal unless she proposes to him, then it would be solely hers. The proposer gets to choose the time and the place. The other chooses to accept or not. If my proposal was not accepted, there would never be a second one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:17 PM
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Having a friend. My life doesn’t revolve around sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 06:33 PM
2

Getting into fights is not a universal event.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 06:32 PM
2

I can’t give it up because I’m not a user of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 05:38 PM
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I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 05:59 AM
2

It happens on both sides. It’s ego and jealousy. It might feel good to have someone doting on me. That adoration could start to feel like it belongs to me. If someone else moves in to steal that adoration, I might get jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 09:06 PM
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I’m cool with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:39 AM
1

People were probably assuming that you were a lot fatter based on your original post. Looking at your picture, you look good. That’s what to do with that info.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 08:17 PM
3

No. I don’t want to be a player.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 09:48 PM
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It is for many but not for me. I take what’s useful for me and discard the rest. “Spinning plates” doesn’t necessitate promiscuity it’s dating casually and keeping options open. Not locking oneself down to one woman. Promiscuity isn’t interesting to me. Casually dating, partying, or clubbing are not interesting to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:06 PM
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I am not promiscuous. I do not want women who are promiscuous. Doesn’t matter where they’re from.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:48 AM
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No. I never go to OnlyFans. I can be a fan of boxing without wanting to date or marry a boxer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:23 PM
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I hate bars, clubs, and parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:24 PM
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I’d ask you want are hookups and the hot 20yo women are fawning all over you, go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:57 PM
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Sex workers don’t have what I want. Paying them would be insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:07 AM
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I’m a virgin. Maybe lying about that would get me laid. The problems are that I don’t like to lie and I don’t want casual sex. There is no woman on the planet who is hot enough to change my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:23 AM
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Those guys are just looking for sex. No relationship. They want her to act like a slut so that they can treat her like one. They’re putting those women in a lesser position. The women in the first paragraph, are putting themselves in a lesser position. They want exclusive access to that guy but can’t get it. Rather than settle for an average guy, they allow the top guy to play the field. I never would. The idea of participating in a train or cheating disgusts me. I don’t respect those men or tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:35 PM
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Women laugh at my jokes because I’m funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:02 AM
0

Nobody is ever afraid of me. If I ran into that situation, I’d just walk away. No hard feelings. It’s just not that important. For a frightened animal that needs help, I’ll be very patient and soothing to gain the trust. I would do the same for a child. Not an adult. Not unless the adult clearly has dementia or has just been the victim of a violent attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:40 PM
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I saw a woman’s Bumble profile saying that she refuses to send the first message. Men should buy one of Bumble’s “Compliment” packs to get around the first message restriction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:00 PM
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I treat women like normal people. I don’t talk to normal people. I just listen and nod
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:49 PM
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I don’t know any goth/alternative women but I’ve seen them on the apps and most have been overweight to obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:22 PM
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If I’m not going to be dating the immigrant, then male or female makes no difference to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:22 PM
1

When I see women doing this, it’s often a test. They want the guy to prove his devotion by fighting for her. I know this because they get outraged by his acquiescence. “How could he just let me go like that! He said he loved me but that was a lie!”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:21 PM
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I’ve never looked at a woman and thought, “I’d like to go out with her.” I’ve seen some gorgeous women. If I exert myself ask one out, she might say yes. I have to plan a date. Get ready for the date. Pay for the date. My reward is that I get to bask in her presence for an hour. I’m not one to bask. I have no idea if I would find her personality and intellect to be engaging. I’m not looking to get laid. The odds of us falling in love are exceedingly slim. I don’t see a motivating factor to ask h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:25 PM
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He was the Walrus. Kookoocachoo. Then he died.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:44 AM
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I’m a guy. A lot of men, want you to put out quickly to satisfy their lusts. But they don’t want to commit to a woman who has satisfied the lusts of all those other guys even if she’s smoking hot. They know that other guys will continue to approach her and they worry that she’ll cheat.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/24 10:41 PM
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I’m not worried about manipulative women. I’m never desperate. I’m not putting up with abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:02 AM
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Yes. This is basically the dynamic that the OP is talking about. He just didn’t tie them together. I’d be thrilled to find a true friend. I wouldn’t consider that being friendzoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:02 PM
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She’s using him and he’s allowing it. Just like the “boyfriend” is using her and she’s allowing it. Nobody is blameless
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:53 PM
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That’s all they ever do. Call when they need something but never reciprocate. They aren’t friends to the guys and the guys are hovering around waiting for her to fall for them. They are not friends on either side.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:20 PM
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No. He’s the guy who comes over to change her flat tire. To carry heavy stuff for her. Because her “boyfriend” won’t. He gets his benefits and bugs out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:13 PM
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In many cases, the woman friendzoning a guy doesn’t want a friend. She wants a Boyfriend Without Benefits. Because the guy she calls her “boyfriend” won’t do the boyfriend chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:26 PM
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I see it as compatibility. There are guys who would be compatible with that. Most aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:40 AM
1

That’s not good. Their eyes should be looking down. Submissive. You don’t stare at a lion unless you’re an elephant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:14 PM
2

Not if you’re bad enough. You’re not a criminal. You don’t need to be. It’s that raw feeling when a dude knows you can pummel him into the floor. Visceral respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:02 PM
1

Once you’ve proven yourself, you can do anything you want. Your customers will be too afraid to say a word. Seize the power.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:55 PM
1

Fight Club. If you want the respect, you’ve got to bring the pain. Verbal jousting can be effective, but you need the physicality to back it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:45 PM
0

Prove that you can. After you win enough fights, you will be given that respect. When you go into a new group, though, you’ll have to prove it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:04 PM
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If she is fighting me, then she isn’t worth my time. Leaving her is a total win.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:18 PM
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If I win her from her, I have lost. I win by walking away from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:03 PM
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I’m willing to fight for my woman against external aggression. I’m not willing to fight her for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:53 PM
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Most likely, the police aren’t coming. But he may very well get blasted on social media. If she starts yelling and calling him a creep, bystanders might rush in to defend her from this “nasty” guy. At the least, he’s facing public humiliation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:57 AM
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None of that is true for me. Say she approaches me. She could have waited for a guy to approach her but he wouldn’t have been me. If she wants me, she needs to catch my attention somehow. Standing there and looking hot isn’t going to get more than a brief glance from me. I would absolutely let my dream girl pay. Especially if she is wealthy and has expensive tastes. If she wants eat escargot at Chez Maurice, she’s going to pay. She asks me out. I go out with her because she asked. I’m an amiable…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:52 AM
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I want a woman with traditional sexual morality because I do. She should be on the same page as I am. Compatibility. Are a lot of guys hypocrites? Yes. A lot of everybody are hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:24 PM
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I’m a boring guy. I did none of that stuff. Even if a woman will ignore a man’s past, that doesn’t mean that I must do the same. My standards are my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 12:11 AM
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I would have been happy that she told me up front so that I could walk away with no investment in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:56 AM
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I’m not autistic but not neurotypical either. Those responses would have me thinking she’s not interested and lead me to detach from her. I neither want clingy nor hard to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:01 AM
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There is a common tendency to universalize one’s own experiences. “I had an allergic reaction to this medicine. I almost died. Don’t take this medicine. It will kill you.”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 01:18 AM
1

I have never done anything with a goal of getting women. I don’t get women. Maybe most guys shouldn’t be doing what I’m doing. But I’m just a sample of one. Who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 06:44 AM
1

I would not cheat with the hottest woman on the planet. I would be extremely ticked off a wife or girlfriend tried a similar experiment on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:37 AM
1

Most of the black pill guys ignore the value of a magnetic personality. That presence that captivates people. It can overcome a lot of other deficits. People with magnetic personalities are never invisible. I’m not saying to be smart or funny. I think those qualities are vastly overrated for attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:23 PM
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The women that I know are nice to me. The men that I know are nice to me. I don’t know any bears. I have no opinion on them. A chihuahua ripped my throat out and ate my left leg. I hate those little bastards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:42 AM
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I would like to see an experiment done that made the choice concrete. Cage in the woods. No food. No water. Two exits. Man or bear. See how many would actually take the bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:49 PM
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I might not live to be 5000 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:10 PM
3

No. They don’t. Not about what others say and believe. That is tyranny.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:33 AM
3

Conforming to evil makes one evil. This society is gravely evil. Conforming due to fear makes one weak. I prefer to be neither evil nor weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:11 AM
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Bullies. In real life. At school. On the streets. There are also a lot of bullies online. Saying the wrong thing will often result in a swarm of army ants rushing in to take little bites out of people. People can get banned, fired, and have their bank accounts cancelled for stating the wrong thing on the internet. Making any comment on “evil” subs can get you automatically banned from a multitude of other subs. There is serious pressure to conform.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:08 AM
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I’ve never backed down to a bully. I wouldn’t say I’m particularly brave. I’m stubborn and the possibility of yielding never occurs to me at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:57 PM
1

Most of my standards are religious in nature and will not be changed. I was obese for most of my life and I always hated it. Obese women tap into that negative image of myself. Dating an obese woman would be difficult. I am not looking for a 25yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:01 PM
3

My life would not change in such a reality. I don’t want casual sex. I want a deep relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:32 AM
4

I want a woman who doesn’t party and sleep around because I don’t do those things. I never have done those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:03 AM
2

I wouldn’t even go to a prostitute if she were paying me. I’m becoming less libertarian as I age. I don’t know that I want to live in that society.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:00 PM
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Start by cutting out the tren. It’s bad for your health and your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 11:41 PM
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I don’t want casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:33 PM
4

I do not doubt it. The insiders win and the chumps get fleeced.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 09:21 PM
2

I wasn’t impressed by the looks of most of them, but it seems that being beautiful isn’t a requirement for sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 09:15 PM
4

I’ve seen F&F. My impression is that they bring in a lot of strippers and OnlyFans girls. They draw in the guys to watch ogle the women, watch them get pwned, and then F&F hook up with some of the women after the show. For F&F, it’s a big win. They get paid and laid. I wouldn’t be touching any of those women. I’m a different breed. I’m not getting money and poon so probably a defective breed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 09:08 PM
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Casual dating is fine. Don’t pretend that it’s more than that and I’m fine with it. I don’t like lying and manipulation when women do it either. I don’t alter myself to avoid being called a loser by women or by society in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:31 PM
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I don’t lie or manipulate and I don’t agree with justifications for them. I don’t like the idea of using people and throwing them away.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 11:51 PM
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Yes. I don’t like porn, hookups, boozing, or partying. I don’t do those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:40 AM
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I’m not going overseas to look for action because I’m not looking for action.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:25 PM
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I’m a nice guy but I am not anxious. If she had dated me, she’d be making opposite complaints. “He doesn’t respond quick enough.” As long as she understood that I’m not going to be texting that much, I’d be okay with her responding quickly. I tend to be uncomfortable receiving compliments so I’d be a bit lenient on that to account for my sensitivity. If she started planning our wedding on the first date, I’d distance myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:52 PM
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It comes naturally for me. I’m very peaceable. I never start fights and other people rarely start up with me.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/24 01:43 AM
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I would just look at her and nod while wondering why she told me that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:01 PM
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I never had any problems with the radicals around me. I never got into any arguments because I wasn’t trying to correct anybody. Love your enemies. Do good to those who persecute you. Listen well. Speak softly. Never abandon the truth.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/24 06:54 PM
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Murder Must Advertise. I’m not murder. I never advertise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:43 AM
1

If both people want a long-term relationship but never marry, that’s fine. I wouldn’t want that, so I wouldn’t participate in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 05:19 AM
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I enjoy them when I have them. I am very reserved. Deep emotional connections are difficult to find. Those are what I want. I’m never looking for hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:47 PM
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I would want to meet because I get no emotional connection from text. I would slot you in as a pen pal for however long you wanted to converse but I would never ask you out again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:12 PM
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There is an OrthodoxChristianity sub if you want more information on that. The Orthodox Church has closed communion. You will not be able to take communion until you were received into the church. You can’t just agree with their doctrine and decide that you are Orthodox. You would need to attend a parish. Talk to the priest. When you feel ready, ask to become a catechumen. This begins your formal entry into the Church. When you are sure that Orthodoxy is for you, talk to the priest about becomin…
/r/RPChristians05/02/24 03:26 AM
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I would just be glad that she ejected herself from my life. Save me the hassle.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:44 PM
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Think back to John the Baptist. He lived in the desert. Did not dress well. Was unkempt. John had authority and power. The young man you saw does not have those things. He should be focusing on receiving authority and power from the Holy Spirit rather than focusing on himself.
/r/RPChristians29/01/24 09:32 PM
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I’m nice because I am. I’m not looking to get laid because I’m nice. I mention that I’m nice when the subject of niceness comes up in threads like this because it’s apropos. People who know me, know that I’m nice. Nobody here knows me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:24 AM
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I was confronted by a younger guy in Las Vegas. He had a pretty woman on his arm. He demanded money because he had a woman. I just stared at him. The woman started looking uncomfortable and tugged on his arm a bit and they both walked away. I continued back to my hotel room alone. There may be a lesson in there somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:17 AM
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I’ve never seen it so I have no opinion on it. I never really see myself as part of any community. I’m a lurker.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:50 PM
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I don’t like the plate spinning or using of women. I’m following in the footsteps of Bruce Lee. Absorbing that which is useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:17 PM
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I don’t understand why so many guys think that being “nice” will get them laid. They try and fail. Try and fail. Get bitter and vindictive, but keep on trying. I’m a nice guy. I don’t get laid, but I’m not trying to get laid, so I don’t get bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:59 AM
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I haven’t stopped because I never started.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 09:10 PM
1

I’m open to all reasonable possibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:50 PM
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I’m meek but not obedient. I’m nice but not a doormat. I’m not aggressive but I am very stubborn. A dominant woman would not work at all for me. I’ve seen other guys do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:03 AM
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A mandatory DNA database would probably be unconstitutional in the US. What could probably be done is a law stating that there must be a positive paternity test done before a man’s name can be put on the birth certificate. No more taking the mother’s word for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:42 AM
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My concern is improving myself so I choose 5. I’m not looking for hookups so I don’t care about 1 or 2. I’m not on any apps or looking at porn so I don’t care about 5 or 6. Less fear and anxiety should be good so I’ll take 3 as my second choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:41 PM
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I don’t want random women commenting on my bulge. I would freak out but I wouldn’t be cheerful.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 04:03 AM
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I would not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 03:46 AM
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I don’t care what people say about these things. Dating within your league might be wise but it isn’t mandatory. If a person is a 5/10 but can date a 9/10, I won’t complain about it. If the 5/10 won’t accept anyone less than 9/10, that’s probably hubris.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:07 AM
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I don’t know. I’d get married today if I had the right woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 08:50 PM
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I’m occasionally in a room with a guy who looks like he should be a model. Much better looking than I am. He dresses almost as well as I do. (Better if you like a more casual style.) The clothes drape so much better on him. I don’t mind being around him. If the women ever pull out their pitchforks, I’ll throw him as a distraction to cover my escape.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:42 AM
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If a woman is attractive to me, then she is attractive to me. I don’t need other guys affirming my choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:33 PM
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Sexual Market Value.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:58 PM
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I don’t have burning passion and I’m not obsessive. I’m just too stubborn (or too stupid) to run with the pack. I never impress nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 08:41 AM
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I don’t know. Maybe societal conditioning and desperation. I’m neither aggressive nor submissive. I don’t care how it seems to others. I seek congruity rather than acceptance. I like to dress well but I dress like a man and lean toward classic style. It doesn’t need to look feminine. Women don’t think I’m too aggressive because I’m not aggressive. I don’t try to express masculinity. I express myself. Outcome independence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 12:23 AM
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I would want those women to dump me. Save me the hassle of dumping them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:11 PM
1

All of them are comfortable around me. They all laugh at my jokes. They all think I’m smart. Same with the men around me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:52 AM
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I am honest with everyone. That does not, in my experience, attract women. They trust me. They are comfortable around me. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:47 AM
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I hate games. Be real. A woman will know I’m truly interested in her if I tell her that. If it wasn’t true, I wouldn’t say it. Women are always nice to me because I’m a nice guy. They smile and laugh because I’m funny. Smiling and being friendly are hints of nothing unless I somehow turned into Adonis without my knowing it and every woman wants me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:54 PM
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I like knives. The sharper the edge the better. I don’t embrace them because I don’t want to get sliced.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:17 PM
2

I don’t want anything from women. What I would want from one woman would likely vary depending on the woman. Not hitting me with a bat would be one universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 03:07 AM
2

I am a man of honor and consideration. That is who I am. I am not a vigilante to hunt these guys down. These women are adults. They allow the ruination. I am not a white knight charging in to save them from themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:18 PM
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They weren’t necessarily trying to lock down those hotter promiscuous women. If I wanted casual sex, one of those women would be a fantastic option. She’d never be a marriage option. I’m not looking for casual sex so those women are not options.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:56 PM
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I am very low on the antisocial personality spectrum. High in conscientiousness. I am not a sociopath looking to get laid. I want to keep my honor.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:12 PM
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I have very high standards but they’re core compatibility standards. I’m not looking for a ten. 9.995 is plenty good enough for me. Tons of guys who can’t find a girlfriend are desperate and would take anyone they could get. They’re willing to be abused rather than be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:54 AM
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If I told a woman that all I want is sex, I would be lying. I need to lie to follow this strategy. Yet I’m not supposed to tell her that all I want is sex. So I have to tell her the truth. But I’m supposed to lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:07 AM
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My mom is a worrier. She never treated me like a husband. She would be thrilled to see me get married. I am a born stoic. Very independent. I would probably benefit from a bit more enmeshment. Manipulators tend to avoid me. I saw a narcissist write that he hated people with strong boundaries. He’d probably have an aneurysm if he met me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:14 PM
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I would never marry that woman. I would be thrilled to have kids. Marriage still looks pretty good to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:43 PM
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Dec. 5th is Mythmas Eve. And a merry Mythmas may it be. Joy and truth to all of yours. May you evade the lying lures. I’m a natural stoic. I am my fault. I could alter myself to be more attractive to women. But I don’t. Should and could flitter round. Maybe and might also abound. Can’t and won’t forbid I bend. Stubbornness my only friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:34 PM
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Certain feminist ideologies promoted sexual liberation as empowering for women. It’s not my responsibility to stop those women from being promiscuous. It’s not my responsibility to protect them from any negative consequences. I get annoyed by the “I’m ready to stop partying and settle down so men need to step up and commit to me” rants.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:35 AM
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The point of these videos is that those women are blaming all their dating woes on men. “Men need to grow up and be willing to commit.” Often these are single moms who want some guy to save them and provide for her kids. It also serves up a warm cup of schadenfreude for the viewers to sip on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:11 PM
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It doesn’t matter if they want the children. All they want is plentiful sex because their biology pushes them toward that. The biology doesn’t care about their pleasure, it pushes them to procreate to propagate the species. Modern birth control is a recent thing. State mandated child support is also recent. Men are attracted to high-mileage women. They want them for sex. Most of them don’t want to marry her.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 12:28 AM
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All I now is that I’d be happy with ten billion dollars. The arguments about romance, intimacy, and entitlement could continue without me. If some kind soul would drop the cash on me…it would probably crush me. But I would die happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:03 PM
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You are not worthless. Kick that idea out of your head. Proceed from there.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/23 12:35 AM
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I’ve seen nasty abusing men in relationships. They’re not handsome. Not wealthy. Not smooth con artists. They are open jerks. Unsuccessful. Drug users. Petty criminals. Women don’t leave them. They throw one away and another jumps right in. These are a minority of severely damaged women but there is enough supply to meet the demand. The only consequences these guys face is the occasional prison stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 10:00 PM
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I’ve heard quite a few women talk as if they’d be safer wrestling rabid grizzlies than dating men. He may be reacting to some of these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:00 AM
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I’m not available for sex. Women aren’t complaining. Peaceful coexistence achieved.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 07:48 AM
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I have a spine. I’m never belligerent but I refuse to budge when pushed. Nobody has ever escalated. Leeches avoid me. I’m also safe, nice, smart, and funny. Women don’t avoid me but they’re never attracted to me. I’m not desperate for sex or attention. I’m also a natural stoic so I just roll with it. I have seen women post dilemmas. They’re seeing two different guys. One seems perfect. Kind. Respectful. Loving. Handsome. A good provider. Would make a great husband and father. The second guy is h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:46 AM
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My concern would be about her mental state. Is she going to be able to handle an intimate relationship or will she be overwhelmed by trauma? Has she become avoidant? Will she seek me out only to push me away in a continuous cycle?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:30 AM
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I am outcome independent. I don’t care about finding successful tricks. I do care about my honor. I will not compromise my honor to get women. If a date showed me disrespect, I would stand up, say goodbye, and walk out. Had I driven her to the venue, I would expect her to call a friend or an Uber.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:48 AM
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I shave my head. Unless she had some illness that made her bald, I would expect her not to be bald. I like to wear fragrances but wouldn’t demand that she do the same. It would be up to her whether or not she wore makeup but I wouldn’t like too much makeup. I like to dress up on occasion. Jacket, tie, dress pants, dress shoes, pocket square, fedora or flat cap, and sometimes a vest. As long as her clothing wasn’t dirty and ratty, I wouldn’t care much about how dressy she was. Most of the time, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:13 AM
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