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| 7 | Was interesting to read other women’s experiences with pornsick LVMs. Just a gentle reminder not to settle for a scrote whose kink is abusing womenReading that thread just made me hate Reddit even more. So many scrotes replying with “well MY gf loves being jackhammered/choked/slapped/beaten/anal!!!” or telling women it’s their fault for not communicating beforehand. And so many (men and women) are still in denial about the link between porn usage and ED. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 02:18 PM |
| 287 | Has anyone else had this pop up on their Instagram feed being promoted by influencers? I don't even really know what to say. It appears to be a new dating app with a "bedroom feature" where you select your preferences.Breath play aka choking is literally killing women. It’s extremely dangerous and it shouldn’t be normalised. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 08:23 PM |
| 18 | Don’t think your boyfriend is HV just because he has green flagsI agree! OP is helping a lot of us with this post. It’s easy to fall into this trap when you’re new to FDS and have only dated NVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 06:37 PM |
| 65 | Meg Thee Stallion ‘Thot Sh*t’ music video director claims the video is a “horror” show for men. No. It’s a nightmare for women.Yeah the media are not interested in that. I actually loved her earlier music (Tina snow) and she used to rap a lot about being in college and liking anime. Since she got signed that’s mostly stopped and the quality of her raps have gone down and it’s all sex sex sex. I’m sure the label execs are pushing her in that direction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 05:06 PM |
| 195 | This just in: telling men to be productive family members makes them suicidal.So men are killing themselves because they’re being made to share household duties? Really? Scrotes need to stop bringing male suicide only when they want to win an argument (with a woman). They’re trivialising their own issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 04:43 PM |
| 236 | Meg Thee Stallion ‘Thot Sh*t’ music video director claims the video is a “horror” show for men. No. It’s a nightmare for women.Mainstream female music, particularly rap, has become a tool for the patriarchy to brainwash young liberal women under the guise of “women’s empowerment”. It’s funny how women’s empowerment is now = objectifying and degrading yourself for the male gaze. Taking your clothes off and twerking will not help other women. True female empowerment would never be allowed into the mainstream. It’s upsetting and not surprising that they’re using black women to push this agenda. Society is hell bent on deva… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 02:25 PM |
| 296 | Nearly spit out my coffee reading this 😂Porn addiction is a huge problem in religious men. A lot of them delude themselves into thinking watching porn is not a sin (“it doesn’t say anything about porn in the bible/Quran” 🤡) there are Muslim and Christian versions of nofap for a reason. I know of several “devout” Muslim married men who are chronic porn addicts. These men never talked to women before their marriage and have been watching porn since they were children. Their dicks don’t work at all. I’m sure some have developed sick and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 12:21 PM |
| 118 | Nearly spit out my coffee reading this 😂🙋🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 12:14 PM |
| 167 | How could any woman sacrifice this much??40% domestic violence rate and they can basically legally stalk and harass you (and get their buddies to do it) for the rest of your life? She needs to run! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 12:11 PM |
| 63 | Women drink alcohol to tolerate low frequency men.This is why it’s wise not to drink (or have max one) on the first few dates. It’s so much easier to identify a LVM when you’re sober. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 12:08 PM |
| 115 | Women drink alcohol to tolerate low frequency men.This was my relationship with an old unattractive LVM. I had to be high AF to get aroused for him. I don’t care what fairytales scrotes believe in but no sane 18 year old girl is getting wet for a middle aged man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 12:07 PM |
| 20 | I have a YouTube channel and this particular video was about the topic slut shaming. The first comment he deleted and changed it into the second. Men. Why?Modern men’s brains are so pornsick that a woman’s chiropractic adjustment is now jerk off material. That’s what’s so disgusting about porn, it’s taught men to see us as nothing more than walking sex objects that are always DTF. They think any innocent encounter will end up in sex. I also blame all the porn videos where the storyline is a doctor raping their unsuspecting patients (who secretly loves it 🙄). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 11:58 AM |
| 44 | I am so sick of hearing how men don't care about heightI’m 5’11 and the only lesson OLD taught me is that MEN LIE. About everything especially height. If he says he’s 6 foot he’s at best 5’9! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 09:54 AM |
| 58 | I am so sick of hearing how men don't care about heightI hated being tall too for so long. I mostly hated that I would attract so much attention from LVM/LVW wherever I go. As someone who suffered from social anxiety the worst thing is having to deal with strangers who are obsessing over how tall you are. It led me to become a shut in and I would only go outside if I was with a friend or my ex. Now I’ve adopted a RBF, I fixed my posture and I walk with intent. I’m a lot more intimidating and I love not being bothered by scrotes as much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 09:53 AM |
| 39 | I am so sick of hearing how men don't care about heightThe grass is always greener. I’m 5’11 and was bullied for it in school by both boys and girls. After therapy and inner work I’ve grown to appreciate my height now and that it intimidates most LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 09:49 AM |
| 53 | I have a YouTube channel and this particular video was about the topic slut shaming. The first comment he deleted and changed it into the second. Men. Why?I think it’s disgusting how all the YT chiropractors are sexualising their content with young women. The thumbnails and titles are extremely pornified and the chiropractors are even liking scrotes creepy comments. Yeah that’ll get you millions of views and some Adsense money but will women still feel safe visiting you for their adjustments? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 09:33 AM |
| 49 | This is how the other side talks about us and expect us to accept itHow can you claim to be MGT*W while talking about what type of women to date? These men have been going their own way for over a decade now and nothing’s changed. In fact they’re becoming more entitled to women’s attention 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 09:25 PM |
| 5 | To the guys lurking - stop shaming women with high standards.I can see my followers now on the iOS app. I was able to see most of the followers I had were FDS fanscrotes and I blocked them. Hopefully once your app updates (assuming you’re on mobile) you can block them too? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 06:49 PM |
| 12 | What other podcasts besides from FDS nurture you? I find that the most popular ones are conducted by males, gets tiring after a while.I haven’t listened in a while but I loved a single serving podcast when I first found FDS. It’s run by a single female writer in NYC in her 30s who’s actually happy about it and not actively looking (quit OLD a while ago). The podcast was created to rewrite the narrative assigned to single women. https://open.spotify.com/show/0vVwbdT9RAppTSHeamR6S5?si=tG9fKt-sTTytnetcFb2cSQ&dl_branch=1 There are nearly a hundred episodes on Spotify and she’s had so many valuable guests. Each episode felt so empo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 02:02 PM |
| 4 | Just got banned from a feminism subreddit for this comment as shown. Men and their handmaidens who run subs designed for women will never accept that more and more of us are avoiding men due to their depravity. They will gaslight us and make us out to be the problem because we refuse to get torturedNearly all the power mods on Reddit are male. Even the “women centred” ones. This is literally the only women only space on Reddit and people are calling for us to be banned every day. #RedditHatesWomen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 04:38 PM |
| 3 | Just got banned from a feminism subreddit for this comment as shown. Men and their handmaidens who run subs designed for women will never accept that more and more of us are avoiding men due to their depravity. They will gaslight us and make us out to be the problem because we refuse to get torturedI think they ban anyone who posts on FDS because we’re all so awful. But men can post even if they’re active in all the misogynistic, abusive porn/kink subreddits. And that subreddit is so far from feminism, it’s basically MRA-lite. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 04:35 PM |
| 12 | Men who watch porn are losers.I remember reading this FDS post that talks about how porn destroys grey matter in the brain. I believe it links the study. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/itlubx/if_you_are_wondering_why_more_and_more_men_seem/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf They also linked another study which shows male IQ has dropped for the first time in recorded history. Crazy! Males are on a fast decline. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 04:25 PM |
| 24 | Men who watch porn are losers.These men love collecting women’s photos. There are many subreddits where men trade photos of their partners, ex’s, acquaintances and even their family members (🤮) with other men. Reddit does not care. It’s a huge problem and we’re not even safe if we only upload selfies to our social media. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 04:18 PM |
| 19 | Men who watch porn are losers.Yes, visit any of the porn addiction recovery subreddits and you’ll see their only motivation is that their dick no longer works. They don’t give a flying fuck about how it’s damaging to women. It’s all about their dicks. They’re quitting porn to try and become the always hard, jackhammering, big cocked stallions they’ve grown up admiring on the screen. Sadly for them, most will never beat their addiction and they will continue to disappoint women for the rest of their lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 04:13 PM |
| 8 | I’m fuming y’allLVM love chucking their clean laundry on the floor. The clean clothes become dirty very fast 💩😷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Another reason OLD is toxic. Tinder helping men cheatThanks, I think it’s the same here. The newer iPhones also have two SIMs now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 01:55 PM |
| 3 | Another reason OLD is toxic. Tinder helping men cheatI’ve been searching for one for ages with no luck. At this point I’m waiting to get a phone that can carry two SIMs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 11:07 AM |
| 12 | Bumble BFF is full of pickmeishas, MLM scammers and wannabe “influencers” 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏿♀️🙋🏼♀️🙋🏽♀️It’s the same app. When you sign up you can select the BFF option, as opposed to dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 05:39 PM |
| 62 | Bumble BFF is full of pickmeishas, MLM scammers and wannabe “influencers” 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏿♀️🙋🏼♀️🙋🏽♀️Same, I met two of my closest friends from bumble but that was after matching with 100s of women (I’m lucky to live in a major city). It was nearly as exhausting as normal dating. I was ghosted and stood up several times. Being stood up by a woman you thought you clicked with hurts so much more!! I met many women who were only looking for friends to keep them busy while they looked for their next bf. I met women who would pretend to look for friendship but were really seeking a threesome partner… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 05:37 PM |
| 6 | We hit over 160k! Thanks for driving traffic here, scrotes.200k here we come! 🥳🎉🍾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 10:36 PM |
| 29 | Most men are not dating to marryHe needs to give up and not subject an innocent child to his expired, lower quality sperm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 03:38 PM |
| 12 | I hate this argument exactly for this reason...I’ve always felt unsettled and uncomfortable around my dad. I feel on edge when I’m alone with him. I have no memories of CSA but I fear that I’ve repressed stuff because despite how much I care about him, I never felt okay being physically close to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 03:24 PM |
| 18 | Words men use to insult us that are actually compliments? Let's get a list going!“You’re too much” Okay, then leave me alone?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 06:44 PM |
| 52 | The single demographics in the US and why young men are angryYeah, incels and redpillers actually look forward to becoming old men so they can prey on and manipulate young girls. Men love ‘ironically’ saying shit like “i keep getting older and they stay the same age” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 06:30 PM |
| 36 | Ghosted after not putting out on a dateIt’a one of the go to excuses. Funny how men claim we’re bad drivers yet they’re so scared of driving at night. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 06:23 PM |
| 49 | Ghosted after not putting out on a dateSounds like the UK. Pretends it’s so progressive yet men are receiving five year sentences for killing their wives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 06:21 PM |
| 65 | And you can be a whole Dragon Queen and end up with a JackassWhat?! I had no idea Shrek had an adult fandom 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 06:17 PM |
| 33 | The lie of "The Wall" is just male projection of loss of control over an entire population of women.I actually can’t wait until I’m 30. I’m a few years away and life just gets better and better, especially after discovering FDS. I know by 30 I’ll be living in my own home with my dog, earning near six figures and fingers crossed COVID will be over so I can get back to solo travelling. I can’t wait! Plus by 30 I’ll be considered “too old” in my culture so I will no longer have the same family pressure and no more FOBs trying to get married to me. I’m really looking forward to my future as an unb… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 06:13 PM |
| 15 | I absolutely can not stand this trend of woman thanking their male partners for "putting up with them" on social media.This is way too common. The woman’s page is a shrine to her man. Then you look at the BFs profile and it’s like he’s not even in a relationship. Just photos of him (taken by his partner) or even worse, photos where she’s been cropped out. And they’re nearly always following IG s*x models. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 06:07 PM |
| 38 | What kind of dumbass neckbeard neggs Azealia Banks online?! LMAO!She’s racist against black women too. She’s called a black child a tar baby and other racist slurs. She’s also extremely homophobic against lesbian women and gay men. Funnily enough she has a lot of gay male stans who love her reads. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 01:45 PM |
| 17 | A reminder on the scope of this sub.I’m also for this. I feel like the meme free Monday is a great idea but even on Mondays the front page is full of tik toks and memes from the previous evening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 09:43 PM |
| 9 | Why do women get so much hate for simply NOT doing shit?!YES. The hateful comments about innocent children depressed me the most as a CF woman. I find it so abhorrent that it’s acceptable to publicly dehumanise the most unprotected members of our society, especially given how much child abuse occurs in this world :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 07:09 PM |
| 20 | Why do women get so much hate for simply NOT doing shit?!I had to leave that subreddit due to the overwhelming misogyny and hatred of small children. Grown men going on long rants about how much children suck and how wish they would be kept hidden or shut up. And yes it’s nearly always a man being hateful. I’m childfree but I feel that any adult who actively hates children is dangerous to society. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 07:03 PM |
| 6 | Why do women get so much hate for simply NOT doing shit?!I would love this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InYes it’s so much worse than ever before! It’s depressing because before COVID I’d walk home late at night dressed however I want with barely any problems. Definitely agree that the long time indoors has made a lot of men forget basic decency towards women. And yeah p*rn addiction is probably through the roof. I feel afraid of confronting them but recording is a good suggestion. Thanks I’ll look that post up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InThe silence will be worth it, Rick and Morty gets old fast haha. Best of luck with your exams 🤞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InThese scrotes love getting a woman high because it makes her easier to take advantage of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InIt is upsetting when you realise that these campaigns and material, while helpful, doesn’t address the actual problem. Rapists nearly always know what they’re doing is wrong and a greater awareness of amount of consent will not make them change. They will only change their behaviour when they know there is guaranteed significant punishment. Unfortunately we live in a world where this is usually not the case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InWell done on the midterm results! Given how well you’ve already done with everything on your plate I am confident you’ll ace your final exams. Just think about how great it’ll feel once the exams are done and you’re free from LVX :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InI clicked on your profile and saw you were also in the UK - my friends and I have experienced the same. Some are even touching us in public without consent. I went out drinking one night and I’m not rushing to back. I’m a bit afraid of how things will be after June 21 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 10:21 PM |
| 11 | You don't owe your family marriage and grandkidsThank you, needed this reminder today. My conversation with my mother has essentially become her asking why I’m still single and pleading with me to date the FOB loser men she knows. She feels like a failure because I’m a single woman in her late twenties who lives alone. All my accomplishments (education, career, buying my own home) mean nothing if I can’t enjoy them with a man. She’s told me she will only enjoy her elderly years if she has a son in law and grandchildren. I’m planning to go NC … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 09:38 PM |
| 68 | OnlyFans is an experiment in mass grooming teens into a Sex Work Pyramid Scheme, for which most of them will NEVER see more than $180Grown men have been sexualising that girl since she first appeared on Dr Phil. Pretty sure she had a subreddit like all ‘child stars’ full of sick pedos. It’s so fucking sick that Reddit allows pedophiles to openly perv on innocent children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 08:12 PM |
| 27 | Men scientifically conclude porn doesn’t affect their perception of women 🤡I came across ‘kinktok’ the other day and it honestly depressed me. There are so many accounts promoting degrading s*x, ddlg and other harmful kinks to tiktokers (mostly minors) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 08:50 PM |
| 59 | We should all pay attention to what empowerment really means in our society and who comes up with the definition of it! Taking advice from the oppressing class is not the way to go.Definitely, liberal feminism basically promotes male worship. I feel like liberal feminism is women’s ‘punishment’ for earlier waves of feminism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:20 PM |
| 13 | Dating Subs on Reddit are Social Engineering Hubs to Normalize Sexual Violence and Disrespectful Behavior toward WomenGirl no one asked for your history on Reddit. We’re aware there are well adjusted male users. Doesn’t change the widespread misogyny on this website. From your other replies it seems like you have a lot of hope in ‘fixing’ these broken men with the support of the many HVM of Reddit (LOL) so I wish you the best of luck with that 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 12:26 AM |
| 8 | Dating Subs on Reddit are Social Engineering Hubs to Normalize Sexual Violence and Disrespectful Behavior toward WomenI’m not disagreeing with you? I’m simply stating the inherent misogyny of Reddit will not be fixed by saving some more women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 11:51 PM |
| 24 | Dating Subs on Reddit are Social Engineering Hubs to Normalize Sexual Violence and Disrespectful Behavior toward WomenAlso I would argue that most men on Reddit are not mentally or emotionally healthy. Most men are on here for the free massive amounts of (violent and barely legal) prn and a prn addict cannot be healthy. But yes your message speaks to the several male allies who openly agree with FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 11:49 PM |
| 29 | Dating Subs on Reddit are Social Engineering Hubs to Normalize Sexual Violence and Disrespectful Behavior toward WomenI do agree that we need to be proactive and let other women know of FDS. I recommend directly messaging these OPs. But we also need to be aware that the misogyny on Reddit comes from the very top. The admins have deleted hundreds of women centred subreddits over the last couple of years and even FDS’ future is undetermined. I say that because as much as we can save other women, I don’t think we can ever truly fix the inherent misogyny on Reddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 11:44 PM |
| 18 | Wealthy heiress asks for advice about assets/retiring with broke LVM, scrote calls her old and tells her to have babies with said broke LVM. ON FINANCIAL FREEDOM SUBREDDIT.Yes, sperm banks only take donations from men under 35 for a reason. The low quality of an older males sperm is linked to genetic disorders and miscarriages. This is independent of the woman’s age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 11:39 PM |
| 11 | Wealthy heiress asks for advice about assets/retiring with broke LVM, scrote calls her old and tells her to have babies with said broke LVM. ON FINANCIAL FREEDOM SUBREDDIT.I’m not even surprised. When you compare the appearance of the ‘men’ of today with those of previous decades you can tell something is very wrong. Do you know what could be behind this rapid decline? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 11:37 PM |
| 38 | Wealthy heiress asks for advice about assets/retiring with broke LVM, scrote calls her old and tells her to have babies with said broke LVM. ON FINANCIAL FREEDOM SUBREDDIT.I wouldn’t even get married if I had that level of wealth. Prenups have been overturned before and I’m well aware of the misogyny in the family courts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 11:35 PM |
| 46 | Dating Subs on Reddit are Social Engineering Hubs to Normalize Sexual Violence and Disrespectful Behavior toward WomenI’m not surprised. I’ve been downvoted for telling women to leave their LVM boyfriends on those subreddits. I even had a scrote send me violent porn when I said an OP’s bf was a dangerous porn addict (he was watching r*pe porn a few times a day). And LOL imagine getting banned for stating facts. Reddit IS run by males, even most of the ‘women’ subreddits have male moderators. FDS is the only subreddit where you can find genuine non-misogynistic discussion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 11:23 PM |
| 84 | "dating for a free meal"I’d also like to meet these mythical women who are quickly leaving their dates after their ‘free meal’. Most women are way too polite to cut a date early. Even when they know there’s no chance of it going further they will stay for at least an hour because they don’t want to seem rude. The males are projecting yet again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 11:20 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inWell done! Removing them frees up space for a man who’ll invite you on a REAL date | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 03:09 PM |
| 29 | A bumble date threatened me after I walked out of the date instead of going home with him . I’m shaken up by the messages (adding a snipped here). Has anyone else experienced this and did the guy follow through with his threats?Me too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 01:48 PM |
| 15 | Even though it may not be my place I have to say as a non black woman, the way black men treat and portray black women is disgusting. You guys deserve betterWhat’s depressing is that the hatred of BW is even worse in Gen Z. My teenage cousins tell me about how their black male classmates treat them and it’s so disgusting. Plus these kids live on the internet so it’s hard to escape the constant misogynoir. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 02:05 PM |
| 100 | Even though it may not be my place I have to say as a non black woman, the way black men treat and portray black women is disgusting. You guys deserve betterI’ve also only dated white men because of the same issue. I’m in the UK and most BM here despise BW. Misogynoir is basically accepted and promoted here. A lot of WM are trash too though, just in a different way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 09:40 PM |
| 81 | Even though it may not be my place I have to say as a non black woman, the way black men treat and portray black women is disgusting. You guys deserve betterThe black incel movement/redpill/‘manosphere’ is everywhere now with channels like K*vin Samuels. Everywhere I look online I see BM trashing (mostly black) women and teaching each other strategies to manipulate and coerce women into free sex. They think any woman who’s 25+ or too accomplished or overweight or a mother should settle for a bum and should never complain. They hate single women especially single mothers and a lot of them admit to hating their own mothers, but I doubt they would ever… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 09:34 PM |
| 31 | Following our recent discussion here about sending nudes, here is this man hoarding nudes of his exes years and years later....while also married.I feel some of them are trying to show off and let you know what’s expected. Like look at me, I’ve had other beautiful women send me pictures of their naked bodies, you better send me some as well... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 09:17 PM |
| 40 | Following our recent discussion here about sending nudes, here is this man hoarding nudes of his exes years and years later....while also married.Back in the days I had casual sex I was texting a guy off tinder when he sent me a video of him and his ex having sex to show how ‘wild’ he was. Her face was visible while his was not. I asked whether his ex knew he was sharing this video and he said he didn’t care because she had dumped him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 09:15 PM |
| 40 | A hard truth I've come to understand about 50/50:Men place the most importance on the opinions of other men. They would rather treat their “love” poorly if it means other men will respect them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 10:20 PM |
| 50 | Poor women, who gon tell ‘em?Right, if Reddit has banned all other female-only subreddits then I think it’s pretty unlikely that we’ll ever get another. Let’s not forget there are a lot of males, some of them being powerful moderators, who stalk FDS and will report the subreddit the second it’s created for being “exclusionary”. FDS is truly all there is right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 10:15 PM |
| 4 | Against my intuition and at the advice of the community, I tried Bumble BFF to make friends. My results.I’m sorry that was your experience. I’ve been on bumble BFF on and off for around 4 years now. I was really lucky the first time to find someone who I instantly clicked with - were from the same ethnicity, work in similar fields and have similar lifestyles. We met a few days after chatting and been really close friends since. We’ve travelled together and she even stayed with me for a bit during the first lockdown. Then the next few times I tried to make more friends through the app I had awful e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 10:38 PM |
| 21 | This man knows something at leastI would add porn addiction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 01:03 AM |
| 62 | Reason #4819193 not to date men who watch pornThey really are destroying us young millennial women. Back when I was a sex-positive libfem I had many sexual encounters where I was used as a flesh light, choked, beaten, slapped by men who need to do this to get off because their brains are fried from porn. So have many of my friends. Threesomes, face fucking, anal etc. are normal now and even expected. More and more extreme fetishes are being normalised. Things won’t change until wider society acknowledges the problem with the modern male sex… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 05:45 PM |
| 203 | Reason #4819193 not to date men who watch pornIt’s bad but these comments don’t even surprise me anymore. I got desensitised when I used to watch porn as a teen and saw much worse comments under every single video. There are comments promoting rape, paedophilia and incest that receive hundreds and thousands of upvotes. Every man I’ve dated who watched porn lacked empathy for women and saw us as sexual objects for his pleasure. And when you realise most men watch porn, you realise a lot of us are better off single for life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 01:16 PM |
| 9 | Asking a guy his 'porn preference' 🤡They’re vile racists. It’s common to see an old white man who’s already had his white children with his white ex-wife have his fun with younger WoC that he sees no intention of marrying or having children with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 04:49 PM |
| 12 | A HVM will NEVER threaten your childI’m glad to hear that you and your child are safe. He’s going to try his hardest to get you back, he’ll probably cry and beg and become the man you’ve always wanted to be for a while until you give in. I’d advise blocking him on everything and asking your friends and the services for support, this man is unhinged and has already threatened to harm your child. He has literally been sat there thinking about harming your baby. Please never go back and if you ever do do the responsible thing and han… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 01:32 PM |
| 12 | MY HVW ICON , MISS ASHA CHRISTINA. Her whole Chanel is empowering. This video made me stop being a pickmeisha 🙌Yes she was my first HV channel I came across. I love her! I’ve since discovered Deborah Cooper who’s amazing and tells it to you straight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 01:29 PM |
| 32 | A HVM will NEVER threaten your childWhen an innocent child is involved I no longer have sympathy for the so called “mother”. Thousands of innocent children are being physically and sexually abused by deviant males their egg donor brought home. These egg donors choose their partners satisfaction over the safety and well-being of their own child! It’s the most extreme level of pickmeism and needs to be talked about more. Single mothers are at biggest risk of paedophiles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 01:28 PM |
| 3 | They will ALWAYS find a way to blame women for their misogyny.Omg I also dated a man that tall with a tiny pencil dick. He had ED too. Those were dark days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 04:16 PM |
| 10 | Same 😞Same, if this is a ‘high-value’ date then I’m good. I thought mods were going to crack down more on memes / quotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 12:41 PM |
| 19 | FYI, r/Sex is now refusing to let porn addiction be discussed freely because it’s “sex negative” and only promoted by communities with “dubious ideas”. Reminder that your choices on the “neutral” subs are being made *for* you and it’s always pro-porn no matter how much evidence you find against it.Lmao they’re really hurting young men by denying the reality of porn addiction. I don’t care though, they can wank themselves into early ED, low testosterone, male balding and weak bodies. I just hope they stay indoors and let us women thrive in peace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 01:16 PM |
| 23 | “There’s nothing wrong with being alone.” - Daniel Sloss - JigsawI watched this on netflix thinking it’d be a fun watch and by the end I had realised I was so unhappy with my ex and I had been settling. Daniel Sloss has said hundreds of people have messaged him online saying this show propelled them to break up with their partner. He’s really doing great work! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 09:31 AM |
| 20 | Indian women should NOT marry: 1.3 billion reasonsI’m not indian but from a strict muslim culture so relate to the OP. I’ve mostly dated White men for the same reason, call me selfish but I don’t want to have to deal with another controlling religious family, mines enough 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 03:53 PM |
| 122 | Lets throw FDS an all day Birthday Party when we reach 100k subscribersIt’s great to see how this subreddit took off, especially considering how many likeminded pro-women spots were banned by Reddit. FDS changed my life for real, I never loved myself before stumbling across this subreddit. I feel better about the world knowing so many women are levelling up and living life on their terms 👏🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 04:58 PM |
| 27 | Lets throw FDS an all day Birthday Party when we reach 100k subscribersI would love something like a zoom chat but it would be difficult to keep our angry lurkers out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 04:55 PM |
| 4 | Where is the lie though???vagina envy is a real thing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:28 PM |
| 383 | I’m Declaring Our Right As Women to Have Specific Penis PreferencesI love this post. I suffered for a while with an ex boyfriend who had a small and thin dick, despite being 6 foot something. He also had ED that he didn’t want get help for so after a while I gave up and completely avoided sex with him. Best sex was with a guy who had a bigger the average, thick dick that curved up so it hit my g spot. He was the only guy to actually make me come just from his penis. I haven’t had any all of 2020 and I won’t until I meet the right guy with the right package. Bad… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 08:22 PM |
| 39 | NEVER feel bad for having high standards ladies especially when it can ruin your lifeThose women tend to be low value too. Once the low value man leaves they’ll probably take out their frustration on the innocent child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 08:11 PM |
| 127 | Where is the lie though???I don’t understand why men are so obsessed now with being complimented and praised, when the average male thinks he’s smarter/hotter/funnier/cool than he really is. Really we should be complimenting them less | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 08:04 PM |
| 28 | Where is the lie though???It makes sense when the woman is a sex worker advertising, but there are many who do it just for fun 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 07:59 PM |
| 69 | Where is the lie though???I think they’re referring to all the lewd/nude subreddits where women share sexy pics of themselves? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 05:15 PM |
| 1 | I can’t even think of a reason a HVM is worth going through all the dating LV bs I’ve been through anymoreDid you meet him online? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 04:18 PM |
| 2 | A conversation that makes me so angry, the bs I used to take from my ex pre-FDS.Trash. Please never tell a man your insecurities again, because they WILL use it against you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Had a guy I matched with on Tinder who wanted to FaceTime and kept comparing me to his ex gf.They always pull that shit to get more photos from you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 04:08 PM |
| 6 | Marries a younger, beautiful woman...still acts like a scrote. Sadly the children will likely follow the cycle they’ve been taught.Chris Watts? Yeah this photo reminded me of that case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 04:06 PM |
| 26 | As if someone asked men: which one needs a lift because it’s saggy, an enlargement because it’s small, to be hairfree because it’s not hygienic and maybe even smelly, to be altered because it’s uneven?? And which direction will PROJECTION point?!!!! And how is this not cultural GASLIGHTING???I was just reading about breast implant illness, it’s a huge problem that is being ignored by the cosmetic surgery industry (because of $$$). I hate that women are suffering from foreign objects in their body they got implanted because society told them they’re worth less if they have small tits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 03:59 PM |
| 15 | As if someone asked men: which one needs a lift because it’s saggy, an enlargement because it’s small, to be hairfree because it’s not hygienic and maybe even smelly, to be altered because it’s uneven?? And which direction will PROJECTION point?!!!! And how is this not cultural GASLIGHTING???Or when they have a baby dick and huge saggy balls 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 03:56 PM |
| 4 | This. This is what I am working on with myself at the moment. Trying to get to the bottom of why I accepted what I did. Ladies it’s very useful to look inwards and see what is going on internally! Why are we allowing subpar shitty behaviour or traits?I mean society does shame single women, especially those of a certain age, and we also get shamed for having high standards. Low self worth is a big part of it but we shouldn’t disregard how society shames women into accepting LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 03:54 PM |
| 23 | The amount of upvotes & awards this has is terrifying.Men will say shit like this but the minute once they meet their “dream girl” they’ll quickly open their wallets. Never take what men say about dating seriously! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 03:49 PM |
| 13 | The amount of upvotes & awards this has is terrifying.I have never paid on a first date and intend to keep it that way, scrotes can stay mad! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 03:48 PM |
| 356 | This was empowering to watch. If you aren’t getting what you deserve, dump his ass!!YES! We need more of this stuff on TikTok, combat all the pickme and kinkmeisha brainwashing of young girls | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 04:23 PM |
| 86 | What are some random things you filter out early on OLD?If they take more than two days to message after matching - unmatch. If they take more than one day to reply - unmatch If they talk about themselves too much and barely or don’t ask me questions within a day of chatting - unmatch Being really strict with unmatching at the first red flag has helped me keep a small number of matches which stops me from spending too much time messaging guys who aren’t serious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 04:02 PM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020I wouldn’t have even split the bill lol, just look at the man when the bill comes and stay quiet. Or I saw someone else suggest to say that you’d pay for next time and then ghost as soon as the dates over. I’d sent that reply and block him, he sounds like a cheap loser | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020Even so, he’s probably going to try and make out/touch you when you’re alone on the boat. Trust your gut! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020Would you be alone on the boat with him? I’d find it creepy if a guy suggested being on a boat alone for a first date tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 10:30 AM |
| 34 | The guy I was dating gaslighted me about my own boundary regarding Instagram ModelsI honestly think a lot of men feel powerful, like a ‘real man’, when a woman is hurt by them. It’s pathetic when you think about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 01:27 PM |
| 3 | ExactlySorry that happened to you :( Sometimes it’s really not worth it to tell the woman especially if she seems like a major pickme. They will do anything to keep their man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 11:05 PM |
| 18 | ExactlyThey know most women will accept A LOT just to say she has a man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 11:02 PM |
| 7 | ExactlyMy old friend did. We saw her bf on tinder, she said she talked to him and he had a ‘good explanation’. Then she cut us off and is still with him. He’s also uses her for sex and money, given her frequent infections (one of which she was hospitalised for and he didn’t visit) and insults her a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 11:00 PM |
| 4 | The trash took itself out. He has a pic with his wife on their WEDDING DAY on his profile. 🤮Because he has a live in bangmaid that will build him up as a man, and also gives him the freedom to fuck other women. Men get soo many benefits from marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 04:37 PM |
| 4 | Young Scrots perpetuating pornsickness as normal and the Pickmieshas in the comments are celebrating.I’m in the UK and fantasise about moving to Scandinavia or Germany but I feel you on the cold weather. This country is becoming a mess and it’s full of LVM. I had even better dating experiences in the US! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 04:03 PM |
| 5 | Young Scrots perpetuating pornsickness as normal and the Pickmieshas in the comments are celebrating.Very true. I used to be into kink and all the ‘Doms’ I met did not respect consent. It’s a huge issue in the scene but most kinksters gloss over it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 04:01 PM |
| 23 | I got mad at first but got pleasantly surprisedSame. Why are we still applauding men for doing the bare minimum? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 03:48 PM |
| 2 | R/Dating Banned Me For Advising Young Women Not To Fall For Manipulation Tactics To Have Sex Early/ Without Commitment On A Woman's Post Opposing Men Expecting Sex On The Third Date (EYE ROLL)I missed out on so many hot young men in university 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 12:56 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Two days later?! Just block him, men are on their best behaviour at the start so if he’s ghosting for 2 days now later down the line he’ll be ghosting for weeks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 12:56 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Me too, my last ex would do this kind of stuff when we first started dating and it just made me chase him more and I ended up wasting a year of my life on a complete loser. Never again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 04:38 PM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Wow he was negging you from the beginning. Stay clear of him as he sounds like he hates women, and try reaching out to the women in your groups, or even bumble bff. I’ve dated older men before and found they were both so condescending and pathetic at the same time 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 04:37 PM |
| 24 | Don't reschedule with a guy early onOld me used to get sad about being cancelled on. Now I assume a date isn’t going ahead (and I make other plans to see friends or have a chill night in) unless I receive explicit confirmation the day before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 02:55 PM |
| 18 | Don't reschedule with a guy early onThey always come back lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 02:54 PM |
| 15 | Don't reschedule with a guy early onDefinitely a test | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 02:54 PM |
| 27 | Got banned from r/Feminism for saying that you don’t have to accept a dude’s Instagram model obsessionRaceplay used to be taboo but it’s become a lot more mainstream now. These are the same feminists who probably indulge in pedo fetish, oh sorry I mean ddlg, so what do we expect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 02:50 PM |
| 47 | Got banned from r/Feminism for saying that you don’t have to accept a dude’s Instagram model obsessionIt’s too late, aren’t all the mods male anyway? TwoX has been a male subreddit for years | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 02:47 PM |
| 121 | LVM playing dumb to dodge responsibilitiesWhy are so many young men these days unable to avoid using text speak? I keep seeing text screenshots here where the woman is writing in full sentences while the man’s messages are full of text speak, spelling and grammatical errors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 02:46 PM |
| 20 | This is what they preach to young girls🤡I took it to mean go have lots of unfulfilling casual sex instead of tying yourself to a man. How about no to both and just focus on your education and career, and if you have the time date age appropriate high value men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 02:44 PM |
| 10 | R/Dating Banned Me For Advising Young Women Not To Fall For Manipulation Tactics To Have Sex Early/ Without Commitment On A Woman's Post Opposing Men Expecting Sex On The Third Date (EYE ROLL)at this point I think it’s wise for us to create second accounts separate from FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 02:41 PM |
| 54 | R/Dating Banned Me For Advising Young Women Not To Fall For Manipulation Tactics To Have Sex Early/ Without Commitment On A Woman's Post Opposing Men Expecting Sex On The Third Date (EYE ROLL)Don’t date much older men, it’s really not worth it. Been there done that and I wish I had dated more men my age when I was in my early twenties. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 02:39 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Philosophy attracts know it all LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 02:33 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020How old are you if you don’t mind me asking? If you’re below 40 then I don’t understand why you’d be friends with a man in his fifties. Men only are friends with women they want to sleep with, and they can act irrationally when you reject them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 02:33 PM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020First of all don’t blame yourself for his behaviour. His inability to reply has nothing to do with you, and everything to do with himself. Also don’t call men high-value unless he’s consistently proven it to you over a long period of time. Take this as a blessing that he’s shown his low value ways early on, and with the knowledge you have now you know not to continue seeing him. So block him and onto the next :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 02:29 PM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020His behaviour is definitely a red flag. He sounds controlling and doesn’t seem to respect your opinion or feelings, please move on sis :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 02:25 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Great to hear about the counselling and well done on the weight loss! I understand why you might be concerned about his intentions. Definitely think counselling will help with building more self-esteem and confidence in yourself. However since he hasn’t shown any red flags yet (from what I read), I would suggest to keep things light for now, and continue dating other men for sure. You don’t want to put all your eggs in one basket, and it also prevents you from getting too emotionally invested in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 02:22 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020I’m proud of you for sticking to your boundaries! I’ve also started doing the same and it’s so refreshing when they show their LV ways early on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 02:18 PM |
| 18 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020One year in and he still hasn’t told his parents? Definitely stringing her along. There’s only so much you can do as her friend but I’d gently tell her this and see what she says. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 02:16 PM |
| 108 | Be careful who you marry and/or procreate with. To make matters worse, this guy is unemployed while she works full time 🥴r/breakingmom in a nutshell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Scrote 30+ year old targeting young 20 year old girlsThe audacity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 12:23 PM |
| 33 | Scrote 30+ year old targeting young 20 year old girlsThe worst feature of muzmatch is that guys can rematch after you’ve unmatched them. Like why design that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 09:00 PM |
| 97 | A man who tells me when to stop and continue talking.That’s so rude and condescending of him! I hate being shushed or shut up by anyone, it feels like I’m being treated like a dog or something. I normally wouldn’t have the courage to call it out so I’m really glad to see you did! I hope you cut him off btw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 08:59 PM |
| 155 | Males will deny sexism exists..until they have their own problems and then they come crying to feminists asking us how we will solve their issuesWomen care more about boys and men who have been sexually assaulted than men do. A lot of these men won’t see them as victims and will look down on even underage boys for ‘crying rape’. They will say the boys were lucky for being assaulted by adult women 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 08:56 PM |
| 25 | I’m not falling for that shit anymore.Okay this is my favourite tinder response I’ve seen so far 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Dont ever settle for guys that aren’t proud to show you off🤦🏽♀️Ugh that’s so shitty, but I’m glad you moved on and found someone better! Funnily enough that ex was obsessed with PDA but was just scared of what his family would say. Definitely not dating a weak man again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 08:44 PM |
| 35 | Dont ever settle for guys that aren’t proud to show you off🤦🏽♀️I was going to say the exact same thing. I had an ex hide me from his family for months because I was the first non-white girl he had dated, until I basically forced him to tell them. He still didn’t post me though 💀 Next guy I commit to will be telling everyone he meets about the amazing girl he’s dating, I speak it into existence :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 10:41 AM |
| 3 | I recently did a purge of all men I suspected were only friends because they wanted to sleep with me. Now I have literally no one around.Also I’ve seen this subreddit mentioned before but not tried it, looks promising: r/makenewfriendshere I’d advise to use an alt without FDS history though! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 10:11 PM |
| 6 | I recently did a purge of all men I suspected were only friends because they wanted to sleep with me. Now I have literally no one around.I only swipe right on profiles that have a good bio and I’m interested in. After the hey, how are yous I refer to something in their profile and ask them about it. And hopefully that gets a good conversation going. It takes effort and luck as some women will not reply, ghost randomly, delete their profile, not be willing to meet up etc. As with dating, don’t take it personally. But it’s been the best way to make friends during this pandemic when there’s no Meetup. Also you can give the discord a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 10:10 PM |
| 25 | 🥴🥴🥴🥴I have done this at times when the guys negged me. I just worry that LVM will wise up from these encounters and adapt to their next victim :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020Try texting less and speaking on the phone more. It sounds like you’re making yourself too available to him by texting back and forth so regularly. He should be calling you or video chatting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 06:25 PM |
| 20 | I recently did a purge of all men I suspected were only friends because they wanted to sleep with me. Now I have literally no one around.Maybe give bumble bff another go? I met one of my best friends from there so it can work! It of course takes time and effort, so it’s like dating men except women are much friendlier and more respectful :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 06:16 PM |
| 47 | 🥴🥴🥴🥴I wouldn’t have unmatched after he sent that first sexual comment. You already know the man’s LV, why hang on? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 06:11 PM |
| 5 | Has anyone started feeling that quarantine/ no dating has made you feel even more confident, sensual and womanly?I’ve honestly never been happier. During quarantine I’ve worked on my childhood trauma, got into meditating daily, eating clean (and I’m back at my goal weight), exercising and developed a good skincare routine. I also met up with my HVW friend today for brunch and we had both glowed up massively 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 06:04 PM |
| 4 | “NoT lOokiNg fOr AnYtHiNg SeRiOuS” but leaves breadcrumbs to hook and manipulate hopeful pick me’s. Your pussy isn’t going to “evolve” a situationship into a commitment.Virgo men are trash and I say that as a Virgo woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Weekend Watchings - The Forsyte Saga, My Brilliant FriendOoh I’ve only watched the reboot of shes gotta have it (which I loved) but I need to watch the original. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Can someone reassure me that I did the right thing by walking away?The more you know! I’ve had first dates who touch my lower back but it always creeps me out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 05:50 PM |
| 7 | Can someone reassure me that I did the right thing by walking away?Glad you’re here 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 05:47 PM |
| 9 | Am I doing too much by even offering an explanation? He initiated 100% from the jump.That’s cute but let’s be honest most guys doing park dates just want to walk, make out and try to grope you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 11:27 AM |
| 14 | Seeking help on if I should break up with himThis post is chock full of red flags and it’s clear that he’s a porn addicted LVM. Porn addicts RARELY change, if you want to see the future with him go to the many subreddits where wives/gfs are venting about their dead bedrooms due to their partners obsession with poem. I don’t think you’re biased at all, and I’m sure there’s more red flags you’re not telling us (and more things he’s hiding). Be glad you realised this before you married him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 10:07 AM |
| 8 | Would it be okay to take him back in this specific scenario?He’s not that into you. If you were his ‘dreamgirl’ he would be do everything in his power to stay in contact because he would not want to lose you. Please take the hint and block/delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 10:04 AM |
| 11 | If you haven’t you must read “Manipulation, Body-language+ By Jake Smith”Thanks for the rec! I’ve been wanting to learn about dark psychology | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 09:55 AM |
| 18 | Saw this in a Facebook group, girl was asking for advice on how to respondYep. I think FDS needs to be careful about letting stubborn pickmes from commenting and possibly preventing other pickmes from waking up. I’ve noticed now the subreddit is getting more popular there’s more non-FDS approved views being shared. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 09:50 AM |
| 13 | Saw this in a Facebook group, girl was asking for advice on how to respondI thought they were a teenager from the flair but the post history says otherwise. Some women will refuse to get it no matter how many times you tell them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 09:20 AM |
| 4 | The media will tell you that no matter how much you improve yourself, whether physically, mentally, or emotionally, you should keep the same low standards, when it comes to a partner. Also notice how it only works one way. It's going to be a no from me.I love and miss that show | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 08:52 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020Ew I could never. I’m in my late twenties and don’t go above 35. Men that age who are single tend to be the lowest of the LVM. Check out the dating over 40 subreddit to see how these older men are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 07:46 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020Most quality men won’t be on dating apps during a pandemic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 07:39 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020You sure he’s not waving the girlfriend flag to get sex? A lot of men will pretend to be a boyfriend for a month so they can get you in bed and then they’ll move on the next girl to chase. I would wait another month before having sex with or without the gf label and see how he acts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 07:33 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020Sorry but I don’t agree with this, yeah she was a bit confrontational but this isn’t a guy she should be apologising to. He’s hiding things from her and is disappearing already. Just block and delete | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 07:27 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020You didn’t fuck up, although I wouldn’t have confronted him I would have just walked away. Are you dating multiple men? I think he’s not HV at all, is talking to other girls and is already playing disappearing games with you this early on. RUN! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 07:26 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020He’s told you what to expect in the future with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 07:20 AM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020I feel like only LVM would be on dating apps during a pandemic - avoid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 07:19 AM |
| 4 | They don’t even try to hide anymore. What if we mention a man’s wallet in our profiles? 😌Ew why does it look like has man tits 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 08:10 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, this is a man speaking. If nothing else makes sense, take note accordingly.Would you recommend the ugly truth? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 07:49 PM |
| 10 | 'Ouch my ego'I’m so sorry you had to deal with that, he’s pure scum. They end up making us feel so insignificant and actually crazy every time they shut us down, and over time that can really destroy someone’s spirit. I’m still working on myself. Never forget that your feelings are valid and you have every right to voice your concerns and enforce your boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 07:40 PM |
| 9 | 'Ouch my ego'I’m so glad you left him, he sounds vile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 07:30 PM |
| 24 | 'Ouch my ego'Sounds like my ex, he would call me an abusive bully whenever I’d voice my frustration with him and would insist that I was shouting when I wasn’t?! He would shush at me (and in my parents culture that’s VERY rude so it hurt a lot, but he kept doing it) until I stopped talking, so I felt stupid and most of the time I’d barely get to discuss the issue. It’s only since I discovered FDS that I realised how shitty he was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 07:25 PM |
| 4 | DON'T chase a manYou’re not a fool, this takes time to practice. I still slip up sometimes lol. Did he at least apologise for his late reply? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 26 2020Definitely make sure he’s not into porn or following lots of Instagram models. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 01:49 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 26 2020I’m assuming mods are quite busy with setting up the new site. Afaik men shouldn’t be allowed to comment on this sub? definitely report any comments you see | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 01:40 AM |
| 4 | How to deal with rejection?I know, I’m the same. I think all of us women here looking for HVM have to be extremely picky! In terms of emotional availability, are you possibly attracted to avoidant men? Definitely look into attachment styles if you haven’t already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 11:41 PM |
| 3 | I feel hopeless.Firstly I like messages when I don’t have anything else to add to a convo but don’t want to be rude. So don’t panic. I definitely think you should look into a therapist to resolve your childhood trauma. Trust me, you’ll feel SO much better about yourself once you heal and rebuild your self worth. Before I worked on myself I would get deeply depressed each time a man let me down, or super happy when he’d do something I liked and hence my moods were constantly fluctuating. I’m not an emotional zom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 08:36 PM |
| 7 | How to deal with rejection?Don’t take this the wrong way but I definitely think you need to work on building your self worth before you start dating again. Your post reminds me of where I was one year ago chasing after fuckboys because I was addicted to male validation and I felt like I was nothing without a man, any man, wanting me. I saw a therapist, read a heap of self help-books (check out the handbook and recommended books) and I’m the happiest I’ve been with no men in my life. Yeah I still cringe now thinking about … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 08:28 PM |
| 7 | How to distinguish a LVM from a HVM early on?Also I think FDS advises to refrain from labelling a guy HV until he’s proven it to YOU. You won’t know for at least a few months. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 08:16 PM |
| 16 | How to distinguish a LVM from a HVM early on?The simple fact that he’s 32 and still goes on lads holidays in a relationship and uses phrases like ‘baecation’ is a red flag. Reading your post I assumed he was in his early 20s. And never believe what a men tells you about his ex! They always make out that their ex was crazy. Tbh I think talking badly about your ex so early on is a LVM trait in itself. I can guess that when he was on his lads holidays he would ignore his ex and/or post inappropriate things online (or his friends would). Sorry… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 08:15 PM |
| 12 | Better known as "I will disappoint you", "Let me ruin your life", and " “i’ll be Burger King and you’ll be McDonald’s. i’ll have it my way and you’ll be loving it". Just no.‘I will disappoint you’ ‘I’ll ruin your life and you’ll thank me for it’ I even saw one guy on tinder say he turned all of his exes crazy. Even back in my pickme days these statements were a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 08:07 PM |
| 4 | Worst Pickme you’ve had to deal with?She sound emotionally draining. I hope you can find some HV friends soon! I’ve had to cut off one of my best friends recently because I realised all she wanted to ever talk about the actions of her LV boyfriend who truly didn’t care about her. She’d only see me when he was busy, and ditch me as soon as he’d text her to come over. It’s been a few months now and I miss her a lot but I also feel a lot less drained. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 07:58 PM |
| 9 | I'm not for everybody, and I'm not trying to be. LVM's lazy ways get them none from me.That’s more of a SB arrangement, which is very different from the casual sex FDS warns against. Studies have shown that women rarely even orgasm during casual sex, and add the fact that we’re also exposing ourselves to STDs and male violence and rape, I don’t see how casual sex benefits most women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 07:55 PM |
| 45 | Your current male partner and ex partner are more likely to murder you than anyone else.This is why living with a man scares me. Or even having them in my home 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 07:50 PM |
| 14 | Most Men Cheat. Understand This. Then, Know You Deserve BETTER!Yeah but those men probably never had a good chance to. I’m certain if the girl of their dreams (which usually isn’t their wife) turned up half naked most of these ‘HVM’ would fuck her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 07:47 PM |
| 18 | Most Men Cheat. Understand This. Then, Know You Deserve BETTER!There wouldn’t be FDS without LSA. That forum taught me so much about men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 07:45 PM |
| 11 | Never settle! When someone shows you who they are believe itA lot men go off the rails when a baby arrives, even when they were ‘nice’ beforehand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 07:30 PM |
| 131 | DON'T chase a manI’ve started unmatching/blocking guys if they take more than a day to respond. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Quality over quantity. 💁🏽♀️Thank you, I’ve saved this comment to reread whenever I feel bad about my past relationships 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 07:27 PM |
| 46 | And that’s the tea!Yep, submissive men are usually very lazy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 07:22 PM |
| 10 | I have no words anymore 🚨Omg I’m currently on muzmatch and I HATE it here. There are so many Muslim LVM out there 🤦🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 05:57 PM |
| 14 | FINAL FDS TIP: Don't date anyone who is on Reddit.I dated a redditor once and never again. He was literally a walking stereotype - pornsick, socially challenged, slightly racist and had ED. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 11:14 PM |
| 1 | IT'S HERE!! WE'VE LAUNCHED THEREALFEMALEDATINGSTRATEGY.COM WEBSITE! SIGN UP ASAP IN CASE WE'RE BANNED!Thanks so much for creating this ladies 💓 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 10:44 PM |
| 3 | He’s not your friend.Yep, I learnt this the hard way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 12:31 PM |
| 3 | What kind of man gets off on beating his wife until she’s unconscious? A pornsick one.Me too :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 09:10 AM |
| 23 | You deserve to be loved for who you are in this exact moment for who you are and valued as a human being, despite your past or any poor pickmeisha role models you had growing up. Break the cycle of being a future pickmeisha mom!Ugh this is my mom to a T. Shes a religious pickme who loves telling me how my standards are too high and how I should settle down soon so I don’t end up ‘alone’. On top of that she still brags about her 30 year marriage to my dad even though he’s been cheating for years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 02:09 AM |
| 39 | What kind of man gets off on beating his wife until she’s unconscious? A pornsick one.Yep, recovering kinkmeisha here. What made me leave the kink scene was realising the majority of doms were predators who genuinely hated women, that the scene does nothing to hold them accountable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 01:56 AM |
| 21 | Getting a UTI just reading this 🤢I would have to remind my ex to brush his teeth in the morning when he’d stay over. Sometimes he wouldn’t even bring a toothbrush. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 01:48 AM |
| 29 | Getting a UTI just reading this 🤢Oh god I had a former friend that suffered from recurring UTIs and BV from her cheating, unemployed bf. He would smoke weed all day while she worked and went to school. The UTIs would literally cause her to be hospitalised and her awful bf wouldn’t visit. Each time we’d tell her to leave him, stop sleeping with him or as a last resort use a condom! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Looking for a friend?Where can we find a link? :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 04:28 PM |
| 100 | Fabian Thylmann, the pornsick pig and founder of Mindgeek, the worlds biggest porn enterprise. Let that face sink in, lmaoI swear weak jawlines are my new biggest turn off. It just screams sexually deviant loser 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020After reading this sub the last few days (where were you guys when I was 18!) I’ve cut off ALL the men I’d been texting, I ghosted/blocked them all. This is the first time in many years I’m not filling my spare time by talking to LVM and it feels weird, but good. I’m an attractive, successful woman in my late 20s who’s spent too long trying to fix broken, depressed men in my previous relationships. All it did was leave me depressed and broken by the end. And earlier this year I had a lot of mean… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Call her daddyI want that so bad! All the relationship/dating podcasts I’ve listened to have been so pickmeish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Apparently we’re praising men for apologizing for rape now. Comments say this apology “restores their faith in humanity” smhWhy am I not surprised this was posted in 2X. Most anti-women women’s space in the whole of Reddit. That place is no longer for us, it’s for ‘feminist men’ who want to police women’s thoughts and their loyal pickmes 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/6/2020After reading this sub the last few days (where were you guys when I was 18!) I’ve cut off ALL the men I’d been texting, I ghosted/blocked them all. This is the first time in many years I’m not filling my spare time by talking to LVM and it feels weird, but good. I’m an attractive, successful woman in my late 20s who’s spent too long trying to fix broken, depressed men in my previous relationships. All it did was leave me depressed and broken by the end. And earlier this year I had a lot of mean… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 12:03 PM |
| 36 | I feel deeply sorry for her🤢😭Dirty nails that would probably give you BV 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 10:11 PM |
| 17 | I feel deeply sorry for her🤢😭That looks really awkward tbh, can’t they just spoon? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 10:10 PM |
| 4 | Need advice on how to find answers after a toxic relationship with my exYes it’s crossing the line. I know it hurts but it’s over and you can do so much better than a manchild who has unprotected sex with multiple women and refuses to get tested (eww). Be glad you didn’t have sex with him and please leave this Petri dish alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 04:45 PM |
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