flippinmonkeys Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Reasonableness Heuristic: At what point does a spouse's refusal to have sex become grounds for divorce? I don't know. How much do you think that would matter? If you cheat you become the asshole in the eyes of pretty much everyone, that's going to include your kids. Almost everything else besides outright abuse is just back and forth "S/he did this/stopped doing this so I did that/stopped doing that" until the relationship is dead, infidelity typically gives you a clear bad guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/14 02:45 AM
2	Reasonableness Heuristic: At what point does a spouse's refusal to have sex become grounds for divorce? So not really much of a loss. Except if they have children. Even if the other spouse decides to stay your children learning of your infidelity will affect them and you relationship with them. I know people who don't even speak to one of their parents anymore because of this. The only decent option here is to get out amicably. An amicable divorce is easier on children then them learning of your infidelity. Which, eventually they probably will.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/14 11:12 PM