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| 26 | Man chooses to propose to his forever GF of 18 years finally, on live TV, after her participation at the Tokyo Olympics. Overshadowing her literal moment in the spotlight.Yeah I’m always grossed out cause I’m 25 now and can’t even imagine myself with a 22 year old. Back then I was 1 or 2. I vaguely remember all her parties cause the wedding was huge. I don’t know the age of step children but my guess they must’ve been at most 10 years old when it happened. It’s just sad how nobody blinks an eye. I just had an aunt become a great grandmother cause her 16 yr old grandchild gave birth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 06:32 PM |
| 94 | Man chooses to propose to his forever GF of 18 years finally, on live TV, after her participation at the Tokyo Olympics. Overshadowing her literal moment in the spotlight.Argentine here! Unfortunately very common over there. My mom says my cousin had her quinces, wedding, and baby shower within one year. The father? 30 year old man with 2 kids from previous marriage. They are still together after almost 25 years. I always mentioned it’s weird that a 29 yr old was with a 14 yr old but everybody told me to shut up. I hate how it’s common over there and majority get married young. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 05:30 PM |
| 14 | Scrotes are literally cancer. Always get the Pap smear.Thank you! I’m glad I got checked because I had to do biopsies and they came back benign (: | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 04:07 AM |
| 25 | Scrotes are literally cancer. Always get the Pap smear.I’m 25 but last fall I was 24 and went for my general check up. I asked for a Pap smear and NP said not necessary because of my age. I told her no, my grandmother died from cervical cancer so I get checked every year. Came out positive for HPV 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 03:38 AM |
| 2 | Why are relationship-seeking attractive men on OLD single? What’s the catch?I actually live in DC and from my experience most of the guys are douchebags. This assistant to a congressman didnt stop bothering me for drinks until I blocked him on all my social media. Most of the ones who work for government are jerks I’ve noticed. Engineers can be cool but also too shy and it gets annoying when you have to make all of the moves. My ex - he graduated college with 3.9 but struggled finding a job. He was actually very good (obviously since I dated him) and thought about going… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 06:14 PM |
| 29 | There's been an uptick of women defending SAHM on FDS. This is why we don't do that.I also want to add how putting kids in day care is very beneficial to them. We were immigrants and both of my parents worked leaving brother and me home alone. I grew up very quiet and social awkward. And I didn’t know English when I started school so kids bullied me. I agree it’s important to work so you can provide for your kids, put them in extra curriculares. And help with their college funds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 01:22 AM |
| 2 | My flair got upgraded 😎Congrats!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 12:50 AM |
| 4 | Been feeling very low lately. Today I got surprised with my favorite flowers, candy, and taken on a craft store shopping trip. Then I was told “it’s great to see you smile again. I was concerned after reading your texts this morning.”Thank you! And yes I always keep that in mind. Still early for saying HVM but he is definitely on the right path 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 05:56 PM |
| 23 | Been feeling very low lately. Today I got surprised with my favorite flowers, candy, and taken on a craft store shopping trip. Then I was told “it’s great to see you smile again. I was concerned after reading your texts this morning.”Thank you! My mood has definitely lifted and I’ve been smiling 😊 I also saw I got an award and that has helped! Thank you amazing ladies 💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 11:46 PM |
| 126 | Been feeling very low lately. Today I got surprised with my favorite flowers, candy, and taken on a craft store shopping trip. Then I was told “it’s great to see you smile again. I was concerned after reading your texts this morning.”I am bipolar and I feel a wave of depression coming in. My boyfriend always messages me good morning and this week I’ve mentioned how I’ve been feeling low. Today he messaged “how is my queen feeling this morning?” I just replied “apathetic” and later he tells me how that concerned him since no motivation or enthusiasm. He decided to surprise me with the flowers and take me shopping for the art projects I’ve been wanting to start. He has been messaging me that he’s always here for me but I would… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 09:07 PM |
| 25 | What in the ever loving pickmeisha hell is this?If you don’t mind me asking, where are you from? I’m Argentine and it was common to see my mom naked/half naked growing up. I love wearing thongs since I find them comfortable and I’m usually naked or just to my underwear cause that’s what I feel most comfortable in. I wonder if a culture thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 04:58 AM |
| 9 | Avoid men who constantly talk about how “busy” they areThey are! My nephew is a Kevin and I know he's about to be the same smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 04:15 PM |
| 47 | Avoid men who constantly talk about how “busy” they areLOL why was I dating a Kevin and he kept telling me he was busy 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 02:56 PM |
| 9 | DisgustingI was thinking the same thing. When I got pierced, just walking hurt so can't imagine having sex. Plus he probably would want to touch it and that would mess everything up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 12:13 AM |
| 29 | Something I got from The FDS Instagram page. How true is this? I’ve just realised why sex was so good with my NVM! because he had starved me for affection otherwise- literally! No hugs or kisses only in the bedroom and that’s exactly why it felt good.I remember toward the end I was really dry. I used to think it was the alcohol or me just being older than when we first dated. Then I slept with somebody else and it was Niagara Falls without lube. Just realized my own body was rejecting my ex before I realized he was NVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 11:52 AM |
| 11 | Can someone explain to me the difference between exclusive and girlfriend? Why wouldn’t a guy just make you his girlfriend? What’s this middle “label?”I'm guilty of this. So my first boyfriend killed himself in front of me, I was 18. Then less than a year later I met my 2nd ex. The moment I met him I felt sparks that I couldn't deny. We spent the whole summer together but at the end he told me "either we're boyfriend and girlfriend or I'm leaving." I felt exclusive with him since I wasn't talking to anybody else, but using bf/gf labels felt like too much pressure. Still hasn't been a year since my first ex died and I wasn't sure if I was ready… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 12:04 PM |
| 13 | PSA: Stop engaging with LVMs—the block button is there for a reason.Yep basically. Whenever she complains about somebody I tell her to block but she think it's petty. I would easily block somebody who annoys me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 10:06 PM |
| 25 | PSA: Stop engaging with LVMs—the block button is there for a reason.My best friend keeps complaining about how she doesn't like her old fwb. I told her to block him but she said that's "too petty" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 07:02 PM |
| 9 | Decided to try and start online dating. Came across him and I wonder how there are girls who swipe right to thisI was wondering the same. Considering he has the Caps' logo tattooed on him, he must be from Northern Virginia/DC so that threw me off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 06:56 AM |
| 3 | Got banned from r/Feminism for saying that you don’t have to accept a dude’s Instagram model obsessionI cant get over the fact that they started dating when she was 17 and him 21. I can't even date a guy 4 years older than me and I'm 24 right now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 04:22 PM |
| 3 | I feel bad for because HE'S the one who wants to leave instead of her realizing she needs to leave his nasty ass behindI'm glad to hear! She spent too much time with him so good that she left and is able to get on with her life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 06:01 PM |
| 4 | Slid into my dms and I told him we can have a threesome with my friend. He drove 50 mins in DC traffic to where we were... we sent him to a comedy house cause he's a clown. Tried to blame us for ruining his gf's life because we sent screenshots. Full story in commentsAbsolutely nothing. I tried the best I could but I'm assuming she doesn't use Instagram as much because she only has a 100 followers. I started following her and haven't noticed any activity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 01:09 AM |
| 7 | Excuse me, what in the actual fuck?I was thinking of this. Didn't they pulled over her and her male friend but let him go? And I think they changed the law afterwards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Slid into my dms and I told him we can have a threesome with my friend. He drove 50 mins in DC traffic to where we were... we sent him to a comedy house cause he's a clown. Tried to blame us for ruining his gf's life because we sent screenshots. Full story in commentsReminds me of my ex who "didn't want to hurt me" so he was doing things behind my back cause he knew it would've upset me. Boy logic smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 04:23 PM |
| 4 | Slid into my dms and I told him we can have a threesome with my friend. He drove 50 mins in DC traffic to where we were... we sent him to a comedy house cause he's a clown. Tried to blame us for ruining his gf's life because we sent screenshots. Full story in commentsSomebody suggested I request to follow her. I just sent a message and now doing the following request | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Slid into my dms and I told him we can have a threesome with my friend. He drove 50 mins in DC traffic to where we were... we sent him to a comedy house cause he's a clown. Tried to blame us for ruining his gf's life because we sent screenshots. Full story in commentsOh I should try that! I just messaged her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Slid into my dms and I told him we can have a threesome with my friend. He drove 50 mins in DC traffic to where we were... we sent him to a comedy house cause he's a clown. Tried to blame us for ruining his gf's life because we sent screenshots. Full story in commentsThank you! I will continue and hope I make a difference 😤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 11:33 PM |
| 2 | Slid into my dms and I told him we can have a threesome with my friend. He drove 50 mins in DC traffic to where we were... we sent him to a comedy house cause he's a clown. Tried to blame us for ruining his gf's life because we sent screenshots. Full story in commentsI'm not sure if all phones have this option but for Samsung galaxy (9 and 10) when you screen shot you have an option to scroll down | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 11:32 PM |
| 74 | Slid into my dms and I told him we can have a threesome with my friend. He drove 50 mins in DC traffic to where we were... we sent him to a comedy house cause he's a clown. Tried to blame us for ruining his gf's life because we sent screenshots. Full story in commentsOmg I haven't even thought of this. Yes I'm definitely going to reach out to her again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 05:06 AM |
| 9 | Slid into my dms and I told him we can have a threesome with my friend. He drove 50 mins in DC traffic to where we were... we sent him to a comedy house cause he's a clown. Tried to blame us for ruining his gf's life because we sent screenshots. Full story in commentsThank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 05:05 AM |
| 164 | Slid into my dms and I told him we can have a threesome with my friend. He drove 50 mins in DC traffic to where we were... we sent him to a comedy house cause he's a clown. Tried to blame us for ruining his gf's life because we sent screenshots. Full story in comments"Priorities" 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 02:22 AM |
| 49 | Slid into my dms and I told him we can have a threesome with my friend. He drove 50 mins in DC traffic to where we were... we sent him to a comedy house cause he's a clown. Tried to blame us for ruining his gf's life because we sent screenshots. Full story in commentsThank you! I will continue wasting their time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 02:19 AM |
| 19 | Slid into my dms and I told him we can have a threesome with my friend. He drove 50 mins in DC traffic to where we were... we sent him to a comedy house cause he's a clown. Tried to blame us for ruining his gf's life because we sent screenshots. Full story in commentsThank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 02:16 AM |
| 140 | Slid into my dms and I told him we can have a threesome with my friend. He drove 50 mins in DC traffic to where we were... we sent him to a comedy house cause he's a clown. Tried to blame us for ruining his gf's life because we sent screenshots. Full story in commentsThank you! I try because I hate seeing LVM dating women who could do so much better. One time on tinder I saw a guy had photos of his wife and baby and how much he loves her. I matched with him because I thought it was weird. I asked him about his wife, but he never said they were poly. So I asked him how he could be cheating on his wife while she's taking care of their baby? Of course he deleted. And unfortunately I could not find his Facebook to find his wife and send it to her. I might get wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 02:16 AM |
| 48 | Slid into my dms and I told him we can have a threesome with my friend. He drove 50 mins in DC traffic to where we were... we sent him to a comedy house cause he's a clown. Tried to blame us for ruining his gf's life because we sent screenshots. Full story in commentsGuys are trash. I am glad he's your ex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 01:57 AM |
| 310 | Slid into my dms and I told him we can have a threesome with my friend. He drove 50 mins in DC traffic to where we were... we sent him to a comedy house cause he's a clown. Tried to blame us for ruining his gf's life because we sent screenshots. Full story in commentsSo this happened in September. My best friend called me crying cause her boyfriend cheated on her. Met up with her at a hookah bar - we were in our "all males must suffer" mode. She pulled up her phone and saw this guy that sled into her DM. She said gross cause her photo was "hold me up" and he replied "lift you up 🍆." I realised that he previously messaged me. We don't have any of the same followers so seemed odd but whatever. We decided that we were going to waste his time. So I sent screensh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 01:56 AM |
| 14 | Never apologize for having high standardsI love my job as a leasing agent because I can see credit scores, rental payment history, job, and conditions somebody lives in. I get asked out a lot and I'm like you're seriously going to ask me out when I see you're making $13 an hour? And I'm seeing this to snoop, literally it's my job | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 01:35 AM |
| 3 | Realizing how much time I wastedI always try to give benefit of doubt depending on how they act. She's a sad case cause EVERYBODY can tell that she wants to be with him. It's funny cause I can't escape her since Chris knew her before me. Of course he's not close to her anymore but same circle. Well one night she started going off about how I'm always hitting up Daniel and so pressed for him. He told her no and that Daniel calls me constantly, but she said nah. So he told her "I was with her one night when she ran into him and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 05:27 PM |
| 4 | Realizing how much time I wastedIt's funny because his best friend hates me (and I seriously do mean hates me) but her words were spot on. I laugh now And I don't know!!! All Daniels I've met are terrible so maybe not just me lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Realizing how much time I wastedOh yeah that's definitely a good way to think about it! Thank you. To be honest it's hard to say. He's great and everything but he's not fully established. He's in the service industry/didn't go to college and I'm looking to apply to med school. He supports my studies and would wait for me to finish my homework before hanging out. But he also plans to move across country or out of the country. Meanwhile with me I'm working on improving my application and then go from there. Besides my ex, the re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 04:50 PM |
| 3 | Has your ex ever tried to commit fake suicide? Because mine has!I feel sorry for the woman in your story, but I'm glad ahe was able to get therapy and doing better. I have gone through both stories Quicky background, my first boyfriend (senior yr highschool/freshman fall semester) committed suicide in front of me as I drove. I too got PTSD and also lost our friends because rumors started that I pushed him out of the car. I met a new boyfriend later and I told him it was too soon but he told me that if I didn't date him he would leave. That shouldve been a re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 03:55 AM |
| 4 | A year ago, I would have agreed with this intentionally reductive/misleading bullshit. Thanks to this sub for helping me recognize the pickme mindsets that continue to pit women against themselves. Never devalue yourself for basic boyfriend courtesy.Thank you! I've been surrounded by bad relationships so hard for me to judge | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 06:36 AM |
| 2 | reminder to NOT BE THIS TYPE OF WOMAN. wtf?I was going to say that's very possible. I have a friend who does basic hygiene but his skin is flawless. Every single time I see him I'm in awe how smooth and fresh it looks Meanwhile I have rosy cheeks and tiny pimples that pop out of nowhere | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 06:08 AM |
| 23 | A year ago, I would have agreed with this intentionally reductive/misleading bullshit. Thanks to this sub for helping me recognize the pickme mindsets that continue to pit women against themselves. Never devalue yourself for basic boyfriend courtesy.This is where I'm confused and probably explains why I'm single. I love having "me time" a lot. If I'm playing video games I don't like being interrupted unless an emergency. Shoot me a text and I might glance at it, but probably won't send a response until I'm done. Same if I go out. Or sometimes I just don't want human interaction because I had a lot and I need a break. Knowing how I am, I understand if a boyfriend of mine wants space to do his activites or hang out with his friends. Sometimes… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 05:19 AM |
| 10 | Men who like watching sports are so unattractiveSame!! I've traveled to Russia for the world cup. Joined my father and his bike gang across state lines to watch our team played. Best moment was getting surprised with tickets for a game. Cried when my team lost the finale (followed by 2 more consecutive years of 2nd place...) As somebody said it's all about balance. It's not the sports watching that's bad but the attitude of those men. And sometimes I want to enjoy my hobby without interruption or messages but doesn't mean I'll ignore somebody… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 12:20 AM |
| 14 | I dumped him because he wouldn’t add me on facebook.I had a boyfriend who didn't post photos of me on instagram or add me on twitter. His twitter was public and I would see girls commenting. Finally he added me on twitter but still not tweets or posts of me. He said his aesthetics were sneakers and friends. One night I was mad and just went through his instagram. Saw a lot of posts with his friend who I hated (she physically attacked me on multiple occasions) and some other friends. On Twitter I would see his girl friends tweet him "ily" and what… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 04:38 AM |
| 25 | Common courtesy things your bf should be doingI wish I saw this a few months ago. I was in an on and off relationship with my ex for almost 5 years. In the beginning he was great but then he stopped doing these. Even basic thing of hanging out with me during the day. I remember one night he came over after a drunk night and slept til late afternoon. He woke up and we "hung out" for like 2-3 hours and grabbed food together for the first time in over a year. He mentioned how happy I looked and I replied cause i was eating with him.... I cring… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 01:09 AM |
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