| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 138 | Thank YOU FDS this has been incredibly eye-opening! | LESSON LEARNED | florasts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 06:41 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 10 | Subtle signs a man is going to be a terrible fatherMy ex used to say #1 all the time and he is an awful human being. Thank god I left him. Amazing post! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Weight neggingAh this was my red pill loving ex! Figures I only weighed 100 pounds and yet he was the insecure one in the relationship projecting everything on me 🤷🏻♀️ disgusting 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 06:49 PM |
| 2 | You are allowed to eat.He is gross. Sorry you had to deal with this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 09:14 PM |
| 1 | You are allowed to eat.My ex was so terrible and abusive about this. He would make a comment every single time I ate … I guess he wanted me to starve. He critiqued my weight (healthy to low BMI), what I ate and what exercises I did or did not do. I honestly think that if I kept going with the relationship he would’ve probably have me weigh myself everyday and report it to him. He was so toxic. I remember him making me cry in public more than once because of his spiteful comments (apparently he was “joking around”) ugh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 09:09 PM |
| 10 | If your friend (or bf) sexually harassed somebody, would you still be friends with them?No | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 08:54 PM |
| 43 | When your ex texts you happy birthday...This makes me nauseous 😵💫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 09:32 PM |
| 76 | When your ex texts you happy birthday...I have this rule that I always always block my exes or whomever I date that I stop dating and do not let them back into my life. I block them on my phone, social media everywhere. However, two years ago I completely forgot a fwb (pick me days) who I was super into had my email address as well, so I didn’t block him there. Then, he wrote me “love” letters for my birthday, Christmas and New Years from different emails as I kept on blocking him. Please block them everywhere. It’s the first thing yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 08:36 PM |
| 9 | What's the most high-confidence, low-skill thing a LV date's tried to do for/to you?For our 5th year anniversary after I had moved to a new continent, new language, had my family and friends far away from me, for this guy (I was young and stupid) … his friends got ME a rose for him to give to me because he had completely forgotten about it. Then, he gave it to me expecting me to think it was absolutely the greatest gift in the whole wide world. I still can’t believe this happened. Thankfully I left him not long after this. He didn’t even have to stand up to get this rose or spe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 08:31 PM |
| 10 | Anna Bey identifies and rebuts manipulative phrases cheap men useI got this exact answer too! Funny enough, I didn’t want to get married either because I don't believe in marriage. And the sad part of his argument is that that he didn’t even have that much money in the first place 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 01:15 PM |
| 2 | Vetting Men by their job positionI feel hopeless to be honest 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 04:36 PM |
| 3 | Vetting Men by their job positionI am surrounded by tech guys due to work and some of them are narcissistic idiots, but others are some of the nicest people ever! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 04:36 PM |
| 3 | Vetting Men by their job position🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 04:34 PM |
| 1 | "there's a darkness inside me"Yes! I actually did not think much about this until now and yes all of my exes. My mind is blown!! And one used a Star Wars as a reference for it 😁 “I am like Anakin and desperately feel like I want to become like Darth Vader.” I mean how pathetic 😂 now I’ll be on the lookout for this 🚩 Thank you Queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 05:42 PM |
| 11 | Shame dumping and blame-shiftingThis sounds just like my narcissistic ex tbh. This type of toxicity can be so debilitating. I’m so happy that we’re free from them ❤️ never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 06:04 PM |
| 9 | He Who Poops In The Shower.... RUN!This list rings so true and makes so much sense that it makes me sick to my stomach and so sad at the same time 😥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 01:28 PM |
| 39 | He Who Poops In The Shower.... RUN!Noooooooo 🤢🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 01:26 PM |
| 4 | Remember that a bad relationship can literally change the trajectory of your lifeThis is horrible! I am so sorry that you had this terrible experience 🥺 It can be different for each one of us for sure which is why I guess it is so difficult to gauge how your personal experience will be until you do it. I hope that the removal goes much better ❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 04:53 AM |
| 14 | Remember that a bad relationship can literally change the trajectory of your lifeBelieve ❤️✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 06:34 PM |
| 21 | I regret giving back my diamond engagement ring after the divorceI got the same and found out it was fake 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 05:45 PM |
| 70 | Remember that a bad relationship can literally change the trajectory of your lifeI’m sorry that it was that painful. For me it was as if I had period cramps (like a bad bad one) I’ve had terrible periods and that’s one of the reasons why I got it - now I’m period free and child free! Also, this is my second one and the second insertion was a walk in the park compared to the first one 👏🏻 Seriously, the peace of mind it gives us is priceless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 05:42 PM |
| 84 | Remember that a bad relationship can literally change the trajectory of your lifeIt is the greatest thing ever! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 05:36 PM |
| 32 | 🚩 RED FLAGS 🚩 Career edition 🤭😳 (psychopath edition 🥲🧛♂️)Omg! What a freak 😧 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 05:33 AM |
| 13 | Stay Woke: Experts Predict STDs Will Spike This SummerI had the Gardasil vaccine in college before I had sex and it didn’t protect me fully. However, I don’t know which strain(s) I have and I’ve never had unprotected sex either. It is still important to get the vaccine because it protects you from most of the strains that could cause cervical cancer. Stay safe ❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 05:23 AM |
| 28 | Stay Woke: Experts Predict STDs Will Spike This SummerGod. I'm so sorry that you had to go through that 💕 Trust no one is just the wisest advice, unfortunately. Take care, Queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 07:44 PM |
| 55 | Always, ALWAYS check his phoneI understand, but honestly, it wasn’t you who deceived and destroyed the relationship. You aren’t the one to blame - I’m sure that your friends and family would understand and support you. It might take some days for you to be able to share what happened, so take your time and share it only with the people you feel most comfortable with 🤗 I hope that you feel more at ease soon and think of that intuition that led you to check everything there, as a sign to know that it was time to let him go, mo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 07:18 PM |
| 94 | Stay Woke: Experts Predict STDs Will Spike This SummerYes! Sadly HPV can transmit from skin-to-skin contact even during foreplay and even if you don’t have sex. Men are likely to have no symptoms. HPV could really be dangerous for us down the line so 😓 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 07:06 PM |
| 117 | Always, ALWAYS check his phoneThis is so horrible. I’m so sorry that you found out like this after trusting him and giving your all. At this point I believe that you never get to know someone (especially men 100%). Sometimes I cannot even grasp the idea that people can do this, but they do because they think they can get away with it. Please go get checked so that you know that you are healthy, this is the most important part ❤️ I promise you that you will be able to move on from this at one point, maybe not soon but eventua… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 07:03 PM |
| 8 | This guy starts following a certain toxic sub, and is then surprised when his gf has enough and leaves him 🤔🤡Wow! This is disgusting. I hate how entitled he is and how he thinks he can get away with anything. I'm so glad that she finally left this idiot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 03:11 PM |
| 28 | This is why we don’t date broke and/or ugly men. It’s not for shallow reasons, it’s because he’s more likely to feel threatened by your success/attractiveness and will try to break your spiritThis is exactly what happened to me in my last relationship. Be careful with love-bombing early on, especially if he doesn’t know you well, and when men seem overly charming, these are signs of narcissism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 12:18 PM |
| 2 | Those of you in a relationship with a HVM: How did you two meet?Same! I’m eagerly awaiting. I’m so curious 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 12:04 PM |
| 1 | This is just like men including ugly ones like in this clip to be so pickyI have always despised this movie… I can’t believe it was even made 😖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 11:26 AM |
| 3 | Motivational reminder, especially for those struggling to change pickme mindsetI love this! 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 11:04 PM |
| 20 | Thank YOU FDS this has been incredibly eye-opening!Honestly, I was confused because there was zero logic to anything he said, and then while trying to pursue me, this women-hating rhetoric ended. Sadly, it began again once he had me. It was insane. I think these men have serious issues with their self-esteem and only project their deficiencies and insecurities by hating on us 😒 And thank you! I wanted to make this post so that none of you have to ever go through similar situations ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 09:58 PM |
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