A man not wanting someone back means they have self-respect? What? This is just incompatibility when someone doesnt like someone back, what loaded language you're using. Username checks out. Believe in a woman-triggered skydaddy to keep oppressing and hating women with a supernatural foundation for doing so.
Yeah sorry dude I'm not even straight and in a long term relationship. I dont really find men to be attractive. Nice juvenille attempt at a character assassination / armchair psychologist session tho. 🤡 I'm saying this is a common phenomenon and you would definitely know this if you had many female friends. (altho redpillers dont tend to have many female friends because they objectify women as a hivemind monolith.) Thats a ton of mental gymnastics to project your own insecurities onto all women …
You act like you're frustrated about a subsect of women being attracted to you, but they likely feel the exact same way towards the subsect of men they can attract.
Women tend to get bored with relationships faster This is just delusional, especially considering men are more likely to cheat. No idea where you pulled this wacky claim from.
If that is true, it's because people are staying inside on their computers instead of meeting people IRL and having organic real in-person interactions with human beings. I imagine capitalism annihilating any possibility of The American Dream and wealth inequality skyrocketing is a major contributor as well.
What is the buddhist fascinating technique? I genuinely think someone should do like a cult documentary on all these wacky cult terms you see on redpill/mgtow/incel forums lol.
Sources needed. But even if everything you said was true, isn't this a good thing? There is far more consent now than ever before, we dont want people to be pushed into unhappy relationships, thats a horrible thing.
Ah yes because being asked to actually do the dishes and help around the house is "nitpicking" not just your partner hoping you'll act like an adult. Very coherent. /s
Where are people being told that "just being nice" gets you a relationship? The term "nice guy" is used all the time to suggest someone uninteresting and entitled... Hell look how many subscribers are on r/niceguys.
This is misandrist af lmao. Maybe dont project your nefarious motivations for defending an opinion onto random people online who will never meet each other. Actual conspiracy brain.
Youd be surprised how many incel redpill types dont actually believe this. Have you seen their forums? They regularly wax on about how the government should give them underage wives. Super creepy.
Ah yes, it must be the science who is wrong! 😆 I have a high IQ and am far left, do we just not exist in your worldview? (Also IQ is not a very helpful metric of measurement.)
Imagine being this much of a science-detached bootlicker of billionaires and have such a paranoid mental illness obsession over LGBT people lmao. Please get help for everyones' sakes.
Gender critical issues *Being a cookie-cutter misogynist allied with the right for the purpose of obsessing/fearmongering over a highly oppressed minority, throwing all women and LGBT people under the bus in the process. Science-void QAnon-level conspiracism.
Lol if you use the word Chad and rank people on a giga-subjective 1-10 scale unironically you have seeeeriously injected the Kool aid man. This isnt a normal or healthy worldview. Go talk to humans irl and make friends.
What about the metric fucktons of passing trans women who say the opposite? Statistically being a privileged class such as a man is generally easier, in your opinions being taken seriously, gaining power, and accruing wealth. This is an actual fact. Look at the makeup of congress, world leaders, Fortune 500 CEOs.
Tinder where its mostly men with 0 standards and the women have 9999 options? Damn who woulda thunk it that someone with 9999 options on a 2-dimensional app with zero personality engagement would respond to the apparent best one. Touch grass, interact with women irl not in a shitty app financially designed to make you spend as much time as possible on it. 😂
As a vegan, this comment is comically misinformed and unhinged conspiratorial science-devoid conjecture. I meet all my nutritional goals each day. It's not hard at all, it's even cheaper. Vegan diets being healthy & nutritious at all stages of life is scientific consensus. Just because you want an excuse to keep abusing animals for your childhood-instilled pleasure habit doesn't mean you have a coherent or facts-based understanding of empirical nutritional reality.
What an unhinged take. Women ime often have way more grasp on/understanding of their emotions than men who arent taught these skills in childhood. It's comical there are dudes this detached from reality lol.
People with moral character laughing at the clown of an OP in the comments so paranoid and misandrist to think that men only form opinions on things to impress women. 🤡
If you think disagreeing with someone is always "virtue signalling" you have seriously drunk the kool-aid. Thats not even halfway coherent and zero percent logical. Stop being a misandrist.
Imagine being so misandrist you think the only motivation for men to do things is an anonymous woman's approval. Sorry mate, most men are not that desparate or pathetic.
Lolllllll this is detached from reality. You're really so misandrist to think the only reason a man would defend a woman supporting say, abortion rights on the internet is to get laid? Jesus have more respect for your gender. Pure projection.
As a woman, this couldnt be more untrue. Being emotionally open and vulnerable is awesome and grows people closer together regardless of gender. It's actually very attractive to have an emotionally mature man that can be vulnerable when so many are cold and closed-off which is MAJORLY unattractive and makes for a very toxic relationship. I and most of my female friends are inherently attracted to vulnerability. It's a human necessity to being close to someone. If my partner was emotionally close…
I bet its a combination of sexism and ageism tbh and like the wine-soccer-mom housewife sort of vibe which was already a negative stereotype. I think the sexism comes from people perceiving women to be more whiny so thats probably why its more often middle aged women rather than men in these vids. I think the ageism could also come from people treating these middle aged women as like "oh shes not hot anymore therefore her whining and entitlemebt is more ridiculous". It'd be interesting for someo…
My friend whos a bi man says he has had a way harder time with straight women than before when he identified as straight. Its definitely internalized biphobia on the womens' part and it sure is prevalent.
I think a rly nice part of it is that women are generally taught to be more emotionally open and that makes for much better communication and less toxicity. Also being the same gender as your partner often means theres way less weird assumptions of roles in the relationship and how ppl behave towards you (like assuming the man will pay the tab or knows all the computer stuff or whatever) --- internalized misogyny and annoying gender roles and whatnot.
The vast majority of guys are NOT rich. And like 2/3rds or more of women are in relationships. You mean to suggest they nearly ALL just got into relationships by the woman approaching or nobody approaching? Makes no sense. Makes even less sense mathematically if the guy must be rich AND meet a very high standard of attractiveness. It's just statistically detached to say a thing such as what you said. Seems more like bitter ranting not an actually coherent reality about dating.
Women arent allowed to go out with their friends dressed up without their man present or else she must be up to no good? Jesus dude, not everything is about sex or trying to cheat on their partner, women want to have fun sometimes it's not that complicated. I'd say its pretty toxic to treat your woman like a child and be that controlling. Also seems to be a huge incompatibility issue.
This reads like that wacky incel forum. Like a pretentious version of the "Modern girls only charge their phone eat hot chip & lie" meme from some teen edgelord. Wacky.
Making friends with other humans (who are social animals) is enjoyable, who woulda thunk it! (Apparently a lot of ppl in this thread think everything has nefarious intentions 🤔)
Fuck no, theres lots of girls who want to fill that role. I admire you having the self-awareness to know what you're looking for. Dont feel like you have to fit some toxic misandrist archetype of a man to attract women. You wouldnt even jive in a relationship if you faked to be someone you arent anyways. Be authentically you and own it. Dominant girls are awesome.
Yeah I think it becomes a lot more toxic when people that dont spend much time out socializing use it as their only method for meeting people. It really should be a secondary backup thing in case you somehow run into someone really cool on there by happenstance.
Truuuue. It's like toxic Instagram culture that gets too obsessive, constantly comparing your stats to others or being sad youre not doing as well as others is just a vicious cycle. Use OLD sparingly if at all imo.
True. I've gone on dates on Tinder before, not good experiences really. However when I met people irl at events, community, and thru mutual friends I found my partner rather quickly comparitively, I just dont feel like OLD really has relationship-seeking peoples' best interests in mind. Its more hookup focused I feel and not so organic for growing human relationships.
Bingo! Its literally in Tinder's best interest to keep you wasting time on the app as long as possible, why buy into the scam while also hurting your self-esteem. Cant be healthy for anyone.
Jesus, why not just get a sex toy at that point. I dont know many women that would like to be in a relationship where that is considered to by her partner to be her #1 source of worth. :/
Explains how so many people call themselves animal lovers but gleefully pay for their needless enslavement, torture, and murder for a crappy bloody steak lol. Top tier of hypocrisy.
How did I play myself? Are you expecting every person to be so obsessed with finding dislikeable characters that they are familiar with every random cable show news story on the planet? Jesus dude, do you just google "woman bad" then obsess in your mind constantly over anyone female attacking anyone not female? 🤔 This isnt healthy mate. And ceeertainly not how you appear to be a coherent well-adjusted person attractive to women.
You can flip this question too. "Who in their right mind even takes advice or criticism from men?" Why not be respectful and supportive of both men and women instead of this paranoid conspiracy brain that most certainly doesnt make you more likeable, why not make friends with women and put yourself in the world? Just treat both like humans, jesus christ. The void of grass-touching is alarming.
You're not entitled to peoples' bodies, period. Ever. Its also juvenilley disgusting referring to intelligent sentient human beings as "scraps". Are you genuinely being serious? What the fuck. Man up, if you dont meet a woman's standards, you dont meet them. Period. Try to improve yourself if you badly want a woman you apparently dont respect and see as shallow. But if you view women that way, you likely would be better off single yeah?
Explain straight trans relationships with two gender-nonconforming people. Or a domineering man in a 10-year triad with two women, or a domineering woman in a 20-year triad with two men, or a disabled man with a female partner who does all the labor and work because she cares deeply for him? or vice versa? Your AlPha BoY black and white worldview is just detached as fuck, and infantalizing to women and men.
Go vegan. Eating obesity-inducing carcasses and secretions derived from torture is maximum gross. Also horrific for the planet and takes up 50% of all habitable land whilst being a minority of calories. EDIT: Gluttons void of compassion or care for Earth downvoting moment. 🤡
Oh really? Lets test that out. Eating meat/dairy/eggs is morally abhorrent, it's disgusting torture of feeling sentient beings, completely needless, the main cause of pandemics, wastefully destructive, and an utter necessity to step away from if you have any ethical consistency employing compassion or care for our planet and any of the sentient beings that exist on it. Tradition =/= Morality, Might =/= Right, and sensory pleasure does not justify animal abuse. It's immensely easy (and cheaper) t…
Why would you want to date someone that only cares about what car you have? Why not date someone who genuinely enjoys your company, has similar interests, and makes you a stronger person?
Being seen as a trophy or object of desire to be won rather than a human person with flaws and quirks, an adult thats capable of making mistakes, the way you would view other humans. Idk it just feels invalidating and like my human depth is being minimized to a shallow caricature of who I am.
Oh no the spooky scary feminist cabal in the shadows brainwashing the general population into uh.... um..... using descriptive words for a certain type of toxic man prevalent in human society that essentially everyone has experience interacting with? Oh the horror! Effective language that describes a subgroup! Ahhh oh no, communication!!! 🤡
They probably dont find anyone on OLD cus OLD is pretty trash in general and its in the interest of OLD companies to keep you on the app as long as possible. It's also a terrible minimizing way of presenting yourself to the world. Condensing your whole personality down to a few pictures and a bio? Seems shallow to me. Meeting people irl is much more organic and lower pressure imo, seems most couples I know have met through mutual friends or the local community.
Oh? Based on what? I dont think I know a single couple where this is the case, essentially everyone has two incomes or one stays home to raise the kids.
Ah yes, there is no such thing as toxic masculinity or men hiding their emotions, men as a whole are a flawless group and not responsible for the vast majority of violence, sure. I bet the alternate reality you live in is nice. Pretty misandrist and dismissive of men & women who have suffered from these things to deny these empirically proven sociological problems.
You clearly have never experienced coercion or implied danger. Jesus christ dude, congrats on erasing the experiences of thousands of women worldwide. 🤦♀️
Lmao. You made an outlandish claim and cant even back it up. I might as well say pigs fly or God exists, it holds equal empirical weight to your claim based in sexist emotional knee-jerk stereotypes.
No idea where you got this actually wacky idea---but "Do not eat plant-based" is a delusional position that has nothing to do with any of this. Source: Am vegan and have excellent libido. Also, red meat overconsumption has been linked to circulation/erection problems. Theres no reason to think ethical eating with all needed nutrients would magically negatively affect one in this aspect. Sounds more like pop culture conjecture that "meat = big strong sexual man", which is just patently untrue.
Why would she take the man's name, why not vice versa, keep old names, or start a new one? So damn weird to make this the woman's role. This feels very insecure of a position. Like one needs to force their name on her out of some desparate possessiveness. That cant be healthy for a relationship
Jesus christ the conspiracy theory brainrot is on full display. Well-studied sociological and historical realities that dont fit your narrative must put your brain into overdrive with mental gymnastics. I hope you escape your paranoid psychosis soon, it sounds genuinely exhausting.
I dont have money or status but im a great musician and artist and partner. I singlehandedly disprove your position lol. EDIT: Lmao I love that this comment made someone grumpy because my existence (and many others) shatter your worldview.
Its normal for a 100% straight man to like trans women. "transsexual" is also derogatory and a completely outdated term and makes it clear you have no clue what you're talking about. I know several straight men with trans women. Your comment reads like a screed from Incels.IS EDIT: Lol i love how triggered people get over straight men dating trans women. Peak male fragility hahaha cracks me up. So insecure.
You know your ideaology is shaky when you use terms from a debunked study on wolves and apply it as math variables to the vast complex immeasurable tapestry of what men can be like. Seems pretty misandrist viewing men this way.
Humans are animals, treating them as separate is anthropocentric speciesism and is not helpful for compassion towards others, responsibly living in nature, or fighting climate change
When did I ever claim that you shouldn't spend energy on your SO? Also if you dont spend energy on your friends you're definitely doing that wrong too. What a weird conclusion to jump to, seems projectiony. Just... beyond parody, damn.
In PPD you dont get insta-banned for saying something is misogynist, slut-shamey, or homo/transphobic though, TRP however is culty and hateful af and calling any of it out gets you banned.
Lol ikr? I'm with my gf because we love each other and we're best friends that make each other happy. As long as we can pay the bills, live a fulfilled life, and make each other happy what else do you need? If love becomes like an instagram dating competition to you then you've already dehumanized and trophyized a feeling thinking sentient being. That seems to be TheRedPill view of literal humans tho. :/ It feels very sad & superficial, also unhealthy. I hope they outgrow it (for both their sake…
