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| 6 | Is there such a thing as being "a good woman" that isn't an overly traditional expectation nor just "a good human being who happens to be female"? | flower-empire | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 02:32 AM |
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| 1 | "Women" these daysDealing with people like this gives me anxiety. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/20 11:37 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] In what areas do you expect the man to treat you equally and where do expect dominance?I want my partner to be "the man" of the relationship, not necessarily more dominant. There are many expressions of maleness that do not involve dominance. Dominance is one type of masculine expression that is not compatible with my feminine expression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Is there such a thing as being "a good woman" that isn't an overly traditional expectation nor just "a good human being who happens to be female"?Salam, if you check out my post history you'll see I was raised Muslim but irreligious. I'm just not an atheist. I think there's a lot of issues with gender dynamics in the Middle East, I just don't think Western feminism is the answer. I also have a less-than-ideal relationship with my mother and I find it really thoughtless when people automatically assume there's something wrong you because of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/19 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Is there such a thing as being "a good woman" that isn't an overly traditional expectation nor just "a good human being who happens to be female"?This is a fascinating and thought-provoking response. It does make a lot of sense, given that evolutionarily speaking, most women reproduced whereas most men did not. In that way, most men do not have the opportunity to pass on their DNA, but then are more free than woman to define themselves beyond fatherhood. Whereas with women it's the reverse. It is a conundrum indeed. Women are neither happy with marital life, nor with participating in the workforce. So what happens next? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 08:51 AM |
| 0 | Is there such a thing as being "a good woman" that isn't an overly traditional expectation nor just "a good human being who happens to be female"?What??? Are you hearing yourself? Lmfao. So if I punch you in the face but you were kinda rude prior to, its ok because violence is not way worse. Cool. Fyi, VIOLENCE IS THE LITERAL FUCKING WORST. No, it's more like no one is punching anyone in the face, but you're being rude because violence is happening elsewhere. It doesn't make sense. There's a time and place for every discussion. Damn, you are a pickmeisha if I ever saw one. Fyi, if you choose to create a child and don't bother to parent, y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Is there such a thing as being "a good woman" that isn't an overly traditional expectation nor just "a good human being who happens to be female"?I'm a woman, and why should anyone should know if you're a social scientist? You never mentioned it before. Saying that violence is way worse than <insert bad behavior here> is just a way to shirk personal responsibility and set a really low standard for yourself. Being hardworking is a great thing and I'm not saying "that's not enough", it's whether women themselves or female-centric movements actually view it as desirable to step up to that challenge. It's one thing to hold yourself to standar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Is there such a thing as being "a good woman" that isn't an overly traditional expectation nor just "a good human being who happens to be female"?There's greater variability in male behavior, intelligence, etc. Men are more likely to kill, but also more likely to sacrifice their life. Women may not be prone to violence, but they can hurt and disrespect people, just as anyone else. Women already raise the children and care for the sick and elderly. Raising a child and doing it well are two different things, and nurses are amazing I think most people agree. Not every woman is a nurse though, so it can't just be based on your occupation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Is there such a thing as being "a good woman" that isn't an overly traditional expectation nor just "a good human being who happens to be female"?Well I see the discussion more as, yes men and women are different on average. How should that difference be exhbitited now vs. in the past? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Is there such a thing as being "a good woman" that isn't an overly traditional expectation nor just "a good human being who happens to be female"?I agree as well with this description. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 06:43 PM |
| 0 | Is there such a thing as being "a good woman" that isn't an overly traditional expectation nor just "a good human being who happens to be female"?There's much more to ethics than not raping or not being violent. Those are the most destructive behaviors, but societal breakdown can happen in more gradual ways. There are undoubtedly positive obligations expected of men specificaly, such as being protective, responsible over others, taking risks, etc. yet positive obligations of woman are considered oppressive. And maybe they are in their current state, but that means they should be redefined. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Is there such a thing as being "a good woman" that isn't an overly traditional expectation nor just "a good human being who happens to be female"?I'm trying to exclude cliches such as being submissive or being a homemaker. I suspect it's more complex than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Is there such a thing as being "a good woman" that isn't an overly traditional expectation nor just "a good human being who happens to be female"?I'd say social norms of the past did not adequately account for the diversity of behavior and personalities exhibited by both sexes, and is too restrictive for the post-industrial world. That leaves us with the need to redefine positive feminity and masculinity in the 21st century, without throwing out the concepts altogether. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Is there such a thing as being "a good woman" that isn't an overly traditional expectation nor just "a good human being who happens to be female"?This is an interesting take that avoids the cliches of traditional gender roles. Thanks for sharing! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 09:00 AM |
| -1 | Is there such a thing as being "a good woman" that isn't an overly traditional expectation nor just "a good human being who happens to be female"?Women can't breathe without being told they're doing it wrong and they can't move their eye balls without being told its shameful so I think we're good there. The problem is, as you sort of imply, many modern women reject these judgments. What I'm asking about is an alternative system of normative ethics that women might accept. Feminists have been discussing the ways in which woman should not be expected to perform xyz, not the ways they should be expected to perform. So I personally, could not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 08:38 AM |
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