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SEEKING ADVICEflower_vs_mower/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:38 PM
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I'm proud of you! Your instincts kicked in that something was not right, and you listened to yourself and took action. It is easy to spot red flags, but a completely different thing to act appropriately once they pop up. You did exactly that and saved yourself many tears. This guy should not be dating if he isn't over his ex!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 03:19 PM
18

How did you find out? Glad you did not end up with this POS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 12:11 AM
5

I think that was Chris Pratt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 10:37 AM
22

Love this!! I hope this gets added to the handbook 👍🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:25 AM
37

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:31 AM
415

"plesse" 🙄😵 He sounds like a catch 👍🏻👍🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 03:32 PM
15

Yes, I want more 😍💩😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 08:43 PM
39

Yeah, let's see how he would like to begin every phonecall with a new "fun" nickname, eg needledick 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 08:50 PM
19

Such a pathetic apology for how he violated you and your trust. He disguised himself as caring to prey on you when you were vulnerable, only because he wanted to get his d*ck wet. I'm very sorry this happened to you. He deserves one the scenarios from "I spit on your grave" happening to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 12:05 PM
3

You are probably right that OPs question might be a better fit for AskFDS, but your answer is not helpful at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 04:17 PM
5

Rawr 😻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:57 PM
29

I hope all these men who send us messages because FDS is so "unfair" etc also sent similar messages to redpillers, mgtow etc telling them how they are unfair - but wait, they are against women, so THAT'S fine 👍🏻 I couldn't care less about whining scrotes. Where are they when women are being harrassed, beaten, used, gaslight, degraded, groomed, manipulated and discarded? Most likely they are either the abuser, holding the camera or bro-fisting their dudes for shitty behavior. They don't care abou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:49 PM
21

If someone approches me who I want gone asap, I usually say "F*ck off/Leave me alone or I'll scream". They either go away or try to start arguing, that's when I start getting loud/screaming for help that I'm getting harassed. Works like a charm in public places 😁 People will stare or sometimes even come to see what's happening. They can't harrass you as they would like with witnesses 😎 Don't know how well it works when there is no one around and would probably opt for other methods then. Safety …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 10:34 AM
39

I would love that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:34 PM
23

Yes, they learn how to better manipulate their next victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:19 AM
4

What a f*cking moron..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:21 PM
8

😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:19 PM
50

For me, it's really the discrepancy between what I imagine and feel in my fantasies vs. what I have experienced in real life. In my head, men give me pleasure but in reality, the best case for me is that they don't hurt me during sex or that I'm bored. Very few are patient and able to put their ego aside if you don't "function" how and how fast they would like it to. Such a bummer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:21 AM
29

Yep 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:44 PM
15

Nailed it 👍🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:41 PM
79

I think his wife/gf just delivered the baby and he wanted to have sex with the nurse to make another one. I would not know how to stay composed after overhearing this...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:52 AM
48

LV Mother in law
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:45 AM
53

Yes, and the sharpened pencil gets smaller every time 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:18 PM
23

This pink pillow has a weird dent in the middle.. is it what I think it is? 😅😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 10:07 PM
40

I hope someone already invited her to our subreddit 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:57 AM
37

Wow. I'm glad you got rid of this vile creature! He would have cost you a lot in every aspect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 10:08 PM
172

Haha, I did the same and was shocked how he looked like with his beer belly and just overall not really attractive. Also his voice. Seeing how she takes care of herself compared to him makes me roll my eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 05:15 PM
25

Even his mom knows you're too good for him! 😄 Nope, he has had more than enough time 👍🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:55 AM
32

Update us when the deed is done 😄😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:53 AM
30

Glad you are dumping him! You deserve better and he sounds awful. After 11 (!!!!) years he did not tell you that he loves you?! And his actions also speak for themselves. Good luck, I'm convinced you won't regret leaving 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:51 AM
16

😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:57 PM
11

I mean.. even my dog licks its butt clean afterwards. This is sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 08:58 AM
1

No problem, thanks anyway 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 04:54 PM
1

I don't know if I have a long enough posting history yet, but if so I would love to help :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 09:08 AM
8

Wtf did I just read?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 03:01 PM
27

Great post, thank you! Definitely FDS handbook worthy 👍🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 05:22 PM
11

He looks disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 02:23 PM
3

Probably the "Hi baby" part, not very respectful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:03 PM
126

He says "I got myself a gf" - as if women are something bought in store 🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 12:58 PM
33

🤭🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 12:56 PM
64

Just cut contact with all of them! They don't add anything good to your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:08 AM
16

Spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 05:04 PM
10

So glad you've gotten rid of him 💪🏻💪🏻 I laughed out loud at "mantrum" 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 05:02 PM
23

How pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 05:37 PM
30

It's a shame because I love video games myself. I don't play a lot though and I would love to share my hobby (one of many) with my SO from time to time. If a guy describes himself as a gamer, that's already problematic. Even if he doesn't, it's important to have a close look at how often and how long he's gaming and if he neglects other duties (like housework, hygiene, healthy nutrition, physical exercise) for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 09:23 PM
44

You dodged a huge bullet, this sounds terrifying!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 04:14 AM
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What exactly is our benefit if he has "tons of friends"? They can only be superficial connections then, and where does the woman/girlfriend fit in timewise? And how many of his friends are women who are there to stroke his ego? And "super charming" - oh great, so you're good at telling people what they want to hear? Sounds more like he knows how to get laid by talking cheap. That's probably why he is proud of being "a good listener", because he gets to find out the weaknesses and how to manipula…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 09:20 AM
26

F*ck them both
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 09:09 PM
24

We know the answer to that one, right? 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:23 PM
47

Can confirm the weak chin thing 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 02:23 PM
5

Deserves him right 👍🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 07:06 AM
53

What a vile piece of sh*t. I'm sorry you had to deal with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 10:16 PM
29

The spelling 🙄 was this written by a 10 year old?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 10:58 AM
9

He sounds lovely 👍🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 07:14 PM
7

Yes! Or when the upper part of their heads is cut off on pictures 😄 they think we don't notice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 09:48 PM
15

Good thing you called him out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:35 PM
32

How do you want to split the bill? 0 : 100, thanks for asking 👍🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 05:34 PM
22

I am the most annoyed by ugly teeth. Where I live it's not that expensive to get your teeth fixed, a lot is covered by insurance. I often met men through online dating in my pre FDS times and was disgusted by their yellow or crooked teeth, which was not obvious from their profile pics. Even if I had them send me several pictures where they smiled, a lot of them probably just photoshopped them. (Another reason why I'm not dating online anymore. I'm just fed up with being deceived.) And then they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 07:26 PM
4

I am so sorry you have to go through this. I'm hugging you through cyberspace right now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 03:21 PM
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I can relate to how you feel. I never questioned my decision to get rid of my LVM, but the fact that he shortly after found someone new (they just moved in together) makes me angry. He was selfish, insensitive, unavailable, and he gets rewarded with a beautiful, nice woman for his behavior while I did not even date since then and still try to get over everything and make better decisions in the future. There is no justice obviously and it makes me question everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 09:45 AM
54

Next generation rapist, congrats 👍🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 01:34 PM
20

😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 11:41 AM
17

Amen sister 💗👍🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 05:21 PM
12

Well done, OP! You saved yourself A LOT of tears and wasted years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 03:26 PM
73

This guy gives me goosebumps.. but not in a good way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 12:41 PM
7

I was always vocal about how angry or disappointed I was, so there was basically never an incident where I needed closure by having a last meeting or an apology. But I have difficulty dealing with my wish for justice/revenge.. I want to witness how they are miserable and how they fuck up their lives. Waiting for that to happen takes too much of my precious time unfortunately, but would be so great for moving on 😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 09:53 PM
16

I envy you for your dad 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 09:09 AM
1

Thank you for your detailed answer!! 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 12:59 PM
2

Thank you for your detailed answer!! 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 12:57 PM
12

😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 07:04 AM
2

I know this question sounds kinda dumb, but how do you network? I recently ended most of my friendships because I did not want to surround myself with pickmeishas and unreliable people anymore. I have maybe 2 friends left. I have acquaintances at work, but no one I would consider real friend material. I am currently using Bumble BFF to find more likeminded people. I have no hobby that that I can practice on a regular weekly basis due to my work schedule. How do you do it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 07:01 AM
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Although I don't know you ladies, I feel like we've got each others back. I will rather ask for advice here than asking my family and friends, because I know it will be genuine, without an ulterior motive and unbiased. Thank you for that 🥰👯‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 07:38 PM
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I'm sure there's room to go even further 😄 I would also write the bio in an "I" - perspective. I'd love to see the pic you've chosen 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 01:08 PM
14

69, is that his real age? Disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 09:23 PM
163

The love language comments makes my blood boil every time.."Maybe his love language is touch and that's why he fucks you but can't say I love you after 2 years and living together". Yeah right, how about the love language of ACTUAL decent behavior? I'm sure there is some (limited!) truth to the love languages stuff, but whoever came up with this is just delivering another convenient excuse for why men are not putting in the necessary effort, because "gifts are not my love language, honey" 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 09:20 PM
56

My first thought was a higher number of sexual assaults..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:00 PM
36

God that's worse 🙄🙄 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 11:59 AM
86

Who even creates that bullshit? It seems it's not satire and that makes me angry 😠🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 11:41 AM
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I'm wondering the same, but I don't have the luxury of just avoiding new info of my ex and his new flame because I have to work closely with them. It is toxic to see them (or in your case, see them on social media etc) and feel that suddenly they can do things for someone else they refused doing for you. I was struggling A LOT with this and it still is no walk in the park. I tried to figure out what I did wrong and if things would have been different had I been more feminine/understanding/patien…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:31 PM
2

In another FDS post, it says that basically as long as the guy puts effort (organizational and financial) into your date, it's fine. There are other possibilities, and if you let your date know that you would like to do sth more interactive (exhibitions, escaperooms,..) he should accommodate you and make it happen. You can still have sth to eat afterwards if you feel comfortable. Edit: spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:52 PM
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Tired of vanilla in this city =Tired of women refusing me anal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:43 AM
21

How is getting sth to eat and sitting in front of each other talking for 1.5 hrs "pressure"? Doesn't have to be a romantic setting. The thing is, you mostly cannot upgrade from casual to high-value. It's unlikely he will be pleased that you suddenly demand romantic and expensive dates when you were content with having coffee and hanging out since the beginning - the time where he has to win you over and show his best side! Even for FWB you want someone who is trustworthy and invests in you, beca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:22 AM
3

He could be a stalker with a ton of photos of women with their eyes cut out taped to his walls Awesome 😂😂😂 And unfortunately, so true..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 09:27 AM
3

Purity culture protects girls from risky and hurtful sex only if they choose their husbands wisely. Otherwise it's hurtful, forced, unsatisfying sex again with no way out. And if the husband is cheating, the STD factor is not off the table through marriage. I agree that FDS is 😍🎉🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 08:52 AM
2

If he did not look like he did in his pics, I would not meet him a second time. It is ok to advertise with flattering pictures, but it is not ok if the discrepancy is too big. Looking much older or massive weight differences are unacceptable imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 07:23 AM
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In the past I have made the experience that if they ask for more pictures although you already have a lot of them online, they want more revealing ones where they can see your "assets" better, like bikini pics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:05 AM
3

Blaque Ivory - I'm Good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:18 PM
3

I focused a lot on improving myself, and I have come long way.. Your self-blame detector got it right 😄 This is actually the worst part, wondering what my life would look like if I had already developped a spine in my early 20s 😅 Thank you for your kind words :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:51 PM
3

That sounds very good, thanks! 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:47 PM
2

This makes me feel better, thanks for sharing :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:46 PM
3

Thank you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:45 PM
4

I like that ^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:44 PM
3

I agree that I don't owe him an explanation if I don't even know if he is a HVM yet. I just don't know how to extract more info about that topic from him without losing my cover :D Asking him about his past and avoiding answering his questions in return may look fishy..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:39 PM
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Yeah, I don't want to find myself pushed into the corner, you are absolutely right! I just don't know how to avoid the topic for myself and still ask him about his past. If I don't ask him, I might miss important info that would have spared me dating a LVM until the 6 month mark..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:35 PM
1

LOL 😂 exactly!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 12:32 PM
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