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Ok sexist piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:32 AM
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Edit what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:30 AM
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Lmao I have like 40 notifications from you going ballistic and accusing me of being an alt. What triggered you so hard? All I said was makeup ads are propaganda against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:27 AM
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Stop stalking me, weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:22 AM
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If you've had sex with more than one woman, you're evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 05:36 AM
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If mgtow meant not interacting with women, it'd be great. What it actually means is use women for sex and interact with them in every way except meaningfully. You even said it yourself you have short relationships. You abuse women so you can cum. Mgtows are just evil degenerates. Nothing more. Leave women alone. Stay away from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 05:03 AM
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Separating love from sex? Many people already do that. Real love isn't super common. Separating emotions from sex? You'd literally have to be on drugs. Or so tormented by casual sex that you have no feeling anymore. Our brains are not built to separate emotion from sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 11:25 PM
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1) No. 2) I don't know, I'd just be a different person. 3) No. 4) Not nearly as much as women, but yes absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:12 AM
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I don't think as a flex. It's just sickening and we're going to make it illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:10 AM
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I don't listen to people who take blogs as actual information. finding a man who's never kissed a girl man, girl Yeah I'm not looking for a pedophile.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:20 AM
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Top 10% in looks is quite low. Being the most attractive out of merely 10 people is nothing to brag about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:13 AM
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They want a virgin guy because it's cute, it's fun, it's a new experience, it avoids jealousy, virgins are more enthusiastic, etc. A ton of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:28 AM
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Dude, not even under 1% of people are virgins at 75.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:26 AM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:46 AM
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Is it moral to have hook-up, one night stands No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:27 AM
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Are there really non-virgin women who prefer virgin men? Yes, I know plenty. They don't require it but they prefer it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:22 AM
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You know exactly what you're doing. Intentionally misinterpreting the other person is not a good strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:21 AM
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Wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:20 AM
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Women cared. Men didn't. The only reason a 30-40 year old virgin could be negative is because he's not married with kids already. Otherwise it's a non-issue. No one cares about virgin priests. I's not the virginity that's ever a problem. >Also, virgin women who exclusively prefer virgin men aren't in the majority and are a very small minority. It would be VERY difficult to find a virgin woman who doesn't only want a virgin man. If you said non-virgin woman then ok. >OP is doing a service, more m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:26 PM
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There's nothing easy about living life with a non-virgin husband. You think I'm worried about hearing it. I'm worried about having to live with it. I don't care about hearing anything. I don't want me or anyone else to have to live with it. I used to only focus on sexually liberated feminism and how that was bad. I used to ONLY tell "sluts" they were destroying men's lives. I was that way for years and years. I worked very hard. Then I realized the sexual liberation backlash from women was liter…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:22 AM
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Yes I'm serious. Now stop. You gain nothing from this. You made a post trying to convince others it's true because this is something that needs essays of explanation rather than something that just is the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:45 AM
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It's not the truth. You're literally destroying the lives of innocent women for no reason. Yeah it's nice if a guy listens to God but that's not happening. They're more concerned with what other guys are peer pressuring them to do. Someone saying, "Hey maaaan, the women think virgins aren't cool" is a lot more powerful to most guys than morality. Just stop this. Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:16 AM
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What I can't handle is my husband being a non-virgin because you told him that I'm not going to care. You gain NOTHING from doing this. But you are taking everything from me. So why continue?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:05 AM
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I don't care about the economy and women should be at home, not at any job.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:02 AM
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So what's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:02 AM
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I literally never get called a virgin or an incel by women. It's always men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:52 AM
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Women don't moan about a virginity standard. They might discuss it in a political context and call it sexist, but they never moan about it like they moan about, "Men want a small waist, big boobs, blah blah." It really kills me when people say women don't care about virginity, because it would destroy me if I didn't get a virgin husband. And every time someone like you comes online and FOR ABSOLUTELY NO REASON says women don't care about virginity, it makes it less likely men will understand the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:48 AM
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You just can't imagine not wanting the person you love to have had sex with someone else. It's that simple. No matter how many complicated fake reasons you come up with, it doesn't matter. Women have feelings and don't want the person they love with another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:43 AM
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>How is a man supposed to end things with a woman he just slept with for the first time? He's not supposed to. Take responsibility and stay with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:38 AM
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Good thing there are hundreds of nations on earth. So that's a drop in the bucket.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:37 AM
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Um yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:36 AM
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How did I know you were going to say that? Try being honest next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:36 AM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:35 AM
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It says it has 57 million users. That's not a lot at all. That's a drop of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:13 PM
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I'd be more interested to know why a young person would have this mindset. Why is a young person even thinking about this? They shouldn't have to worry. I'm confused why you think this is a "VERY young" way to think. It's exclusively an adult thing. I seriously don't understand why a kid would be thinking this. Poor kid if so. They had problems too early.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:37 AM
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How did I know you were going to make this INTENTIONAL strawman? How did I ever guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:34 AM
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How much of the population do you think is on those two sites? Virtually none?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:34 AM
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23
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:33 AM
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Weird questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:33 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 01:00 PM
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Garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 01:00 PM
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Well you obviously are not in love with all your ex gfs. You have failed to give any indication your wife loves you, or why someone who truly loves someone would let them hurt themselves and not even care. I stand by my statement. You don't think I've heard weak arguments like yours before?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 01:00 PM
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I mean once you get off reddit or tinder, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:21 PM
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Virginity is not a social construct. Literally. Nothing you say can change this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:21 PM
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You can have your opinion. I have mine. Telling me my opinion is wrong without explaining why however is really dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:20 PM
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I'll be 25 in 2 years and I still prefer a very young aesthetic on a boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:32 AM
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Muscular, big, masculine, square, bearded, dark, tall men are not attractive whatsoever. They look like boring inflatable bags. Young feminine pretty boys are where it's at.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:30 AM
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You seem like you have issues. No one normal thinks 20 is old to be a virgin. 20 is EXTREMELY young. I see you the same way as you probably see those who genuinely believe 13 year old virgins are losers who should've lost it already.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:25 AM
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Since when is this a new take? Every woman ever wants a virgin, except for women who have slept around.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:23 AM
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I would say it's a good indicator of your current worth. Absolutely. Non-virgin men are very low value and their best hope is a non-virgin woman who doesn't mind him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:22 AM
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It's not a social construct.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:21 AM
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I don't want the boy I'm in love with to have kissed or had sex with other women. It would make me very sad. I genuinely don't know what's hard to understand about this, but it's devastating that people have trouble empathizing with it and recognizing the problem, because it just means the problem will continue and more people will get hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:20 AM
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Of course I don't want him watching porn. No loving person wants someone they care about to do something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:17 AM
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>men rely on lusting after abused women for comfort Am I supposed to feel sorry for these abusers? Shame them until their ears bleed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:14 AM
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>Women prefer young, dopey men like Pete Davidson over richer, older men. Sounds about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:49 AM
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I wouldn't give the non-virgin a chance. I don't care about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:46 AM
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I never see people get frustrated in monogamous relationships. Literally ever. It's always the cheaters getting frustrated. >How else do you explain why people get less interested in their partner over years? They had multiple partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:45 AM
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Women usually want to be the cuter, daintier one, so they would legit take an uglier guy who makes her look prettier over the guy who makes her look less cute in comparison. Women are always thinking about how they look standing next to the guy. A beautiful younger face will make her look aged, so even if his face is better than another man's, it's a threat to her image. Just like women always think about a guy's height in comparison to herself. "I want him to be taller than me in heels" etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:17 AM
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I think not looking like a man is more attractive. "Boys" have more beautiful faces. I don't see the appeal of men. They lose their vibrancy and beauty and even the top tier men start looking more gruff and gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:47 AM
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I get what you're saying but I just cannot imagine a 30 year old man being more attractive than himself at 20. A woman, sure. I see that all the time. I've never seen it on a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:17 PM
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That person is fucking evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:14 PM
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I agree with you. I cannot change your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:13 PM
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Sex and kissing is for one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:52 AM
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I never said she left you. I never said people with high self esteem tolerate abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:25 AM
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You sound like you are no longer with this woman, so the conversation is completed before it even began. A person I'm describing would likely have extremely high self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:10 AM
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The irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:05 AM
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That it's more than one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:04 AM
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I read. Your comment was disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:51 AM
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I'm sorry you feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:48 AM
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Then what on earth are you arguing with me about?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:41 AM
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You said in public. Why are you strawmanning yourself like you are strawmanning me? What does sex negative mean? it’s about if someone you ‘really liked’ wanted you to fuck others for their pleasure you are saying you would I'm sorry you feel the need to strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:27 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:19 AM
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I would not make someone I cared about cheat on me. It's kind of scary how angry you are about this. I answered the questions. You disagree, then you get mad and insult me over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:16 AM
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Of course I would be. I'm with the person I love.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:16 AM
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All. None.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:06 AM
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Then I won't do my scat/piss kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:05 AM
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Any two people who want to be together can have satisfying sex if they choose to. It's sex, not rocket science. And you can even do rocket science with a little practice if you choose to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:50 PM
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I already answered that on this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:45 PM
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I don't know if you're doing this on purpose, but I never said there are not people who are not promiscuous, or that there is no difference between promiscuous and non-promiscuous people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:43 PM
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There are promiscuous people. What a weird question.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:37 PM
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What a weird strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:34 PM
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Having a different opinion than you is not ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:31 PM
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They literally did not do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:30 PM
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I'm asking questions to learn the other side but all I receive are insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:26 PM
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We're talking about people having sex, not a number value that exists in a vacuum. I don't see a difference between having sex with 5 and 20 people. Change my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:18 PM
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The burden of proof is not on me. I don't see the difference. That's it. I do not see the difference. The burden of proof is on you. Change my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:12 PM
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I don't have to explain why there's no difference. You have to explain why there is. Calling me smug when I objectively do not feel smug makes me even more annoyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:08 PM
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I'm not smug. I'm annoyed that you think these non-arguments can convince me there's a difference between having sex with 5 and 20 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:59 PM
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Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:51 PM
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Nice strawman. It's messed up that you'd called someone gross for caring about someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:47 PM
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See what I mean. The only examples you can think of are things that happen between two people who do not like each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:38 PM
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Insulting me is not going to change something I know is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:38 PM
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I'm not wrong. You're projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:19 PM
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I don't see any difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:19 PM
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She doesn't like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:40 PM
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She doesn't like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:35 PM
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That's not incompatible. She just doesn't like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:20 PM
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By your logic, there wouldn’t be any difference between some who slept with 5 people and someone who slept with 20. There's genuinely no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:58 PM
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2.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:55 PM
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Literally nothing. Sexual incompatibility doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:55 PM
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I'm not the same person. You just think it's a clever debate tactic to say anyone who disagrees with you must be an alt. That happens a lot on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:52 PM
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No, that's a high value man. Attractive is by far the least important thing on the list. That's the only value that's replaceable. The others are non-negotiable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:49 PM
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Most men are not virgin, loyal, and attractive by a long shot. The attractive thing is less important, but most men are not saving things for their wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:47 PM
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Because nonvirgins can't have an exclusive lifelong intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:47 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:25 AM
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Humans are the most monogamous species on the planet. As far as I know, no other species gets mental illness from non-monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:49 AM
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You seem upset. I don't know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:04 AM
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Less than 4% is a ton of people. 1 in every 25-30 guys you meet is a lot. I don't understand why you think funny blondes are more immoral and more trashy than the rest of the population. If he's not kissless he's not affectionate. If he's not kissless he's not based. By my standards if he's a rake he's not fun to be with because he's just going to gross me out even if he makes funny jokes. Your blackpilling doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:56 AM
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As someone who wants exactly the same thing, I don't understand your emojis. You prefer brunettes?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:39 AM
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I just realized you're following her around reddit and complaining about her (common sense) belief that marriage is love for life. Don't get married if you don't believe that. Simple. I'm creeped out that you have such a problem with it that you think going around reddit talking about her isn't extremely weird for you to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:38 AM
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Virgin virgin virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:34 AM
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This is exactly what I want!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:33 AM
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That's not unique at all. That's common sense. It's objectively cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:33 AM
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Get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:31 AM
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High value man - virgin, attractive, loyal, wants to be a dad and take care of his kids High value woman - virgin, attractive, loyal, wants to be a mom and take care of her kids
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:30 AM
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Uh, no. Every romance ever is a guy who is sweet and cute because he doesn't care about other women, often doesn't even know much about other women, and is only interested in this one woman. I can't even think of one example of what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:23 PM
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One thing I noticed about romance novels/movies is the man is always young, virginal, and often light haired. Doesn't trp teach that women like old lecherous men? And I added light haired in there to go against the tall dark handsome stereotype that was made up by hollywood, that if I recall correctly trp believes in.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:55 AM
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That's what I said. It does not matter if she's ready or not. That's why I called it out when you said she's ready. That is an irrelevant detail you introduced.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 02:44 AM
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Except the women who have done so and you've ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 07:51 AM
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I'm not a bot. Women in real life like virgins. The only place I've heard a person even slightly criticize a guy for being a virgin is reddit. In real life the fuckboys laugh at fuckboys who get girls but not as many as them, while they don't mind actual virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 07:43 AM
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So back to what I said... being ready and wanting to wait are not exclusive. You're trying to say the problem is she doesn't want to wait, not that she's ready. Her being ready is irrelevant. Most people who want to wait are ready and wait for moral reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:55 AM
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So you're just lying. I understand now. You've heard many women say they want a virgin, but none of them "count" to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:53 AM
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They choose the worthless man who is not as repulsive as the other worthless man. That doesn't mean the man is suddenly worthy now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:52 AM
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I already explained this. Women don't believe you are the third option. My personal experience says the exact opposite of yours. Even girls who are total thots like virgins. They say it's cute, it removes jealousy, it's fun, etc. Of course this is private girl talk and I'm not sure if they'd admit this to a guy or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:50 AM
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Men don't sleep with women they don't deem worthy. That is a closed argument because if he didn't deem her worthy to sleep with him he wouldn't sleep with her. Men are locks. The purpose of men is not to break down and damage as many women as possible (unlocking locks that are only meant for one key). The purpose of a man is not to never have a woman who is his match (the lock and key). The lock and key analogy will never make sense. >The purpose of the key is to get past the lock. As I thorough…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:45 AM
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So you're not saying that she's ready, you're saying that she doesn't want to wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:27 AM
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The vast majority of women share my opinion that fuckboys are bad. Women just don't see another option. They see that their two choices of men are: Fuckboy. Or guy who is a fuckboy at heart and in his gross perverted coomer mind, but on top of that he's socially inept and women don't want to hook up with him. You're getting a coomer either way. Might as well choose the attractive coomer. Women don't see in their lives a third option: A non-fuckboy who is not a coomer and is actually saving it by…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:05 AM
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It's men who make it seem that way. Many men say they'd fuck whenever they got the chance, and they're interested in pretty much any woman. So women take them for their word and say, "Yep that guy WANTED to have casual sex but couldn't." Men are so extreme in loudly vocalizing this fact that they want sex whenever they can with whoever they can, that women's reaction to a volcel is to not even believe he is a volcel. Because men make it abundantly clear they'd fuck anything whenever they could, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 02:58 AM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 02:48 AM
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A man who chooses to use his penis a lot is worthless. His choices define who he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 02:48 AM
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Yeah waiting for marriage is normal but you usually do it right away after the wedding. I'd be ok with waiting a little bit more to let the specialness of the wedding sink in more, and then let the honeymoon be a fun thing on its own, and then have sex as another fun thing on its own after that. Savoring each one. But waiting longer than that would not make me happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 02:47 AM
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I don't see why a guy would wait longer than after the honeymoon, which is when I'd start getting really impatient about no sex. I'd stay with my husband though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 02:27 AM
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I explained in depth on this post why women are the key. My comment is there. You're free to discuss. I'm using actual philosophy and human culture that has been true forever to explain why women the key. You are using memes from 2009 to explain why you think men are the key.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 02:24 AM
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So what's the problem if she's ready and he wants to wait? By her being ready, you did not mean she doesn't want to wait?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 02:22 AM
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That is a common complaint from men. It's an unfounded complaint, and the complaint is certainly a cover for how they actually feel, but you will hear just as many men wanting an "experienced" woman. Experienced being a euphemism for has had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 02:21 AM
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Being ready and waiting are not exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 02:05 AM
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I don't want a dude who fucked anyone else. Now you, if you are going to be honest, must stop claiming you've never seen a woman say that. My analogy matches real life. A guy who uses his penis a lot (a lot meaning different women, not a lot with the same person) is worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 02:02 AM
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Women are actually the key.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 02:00 AM
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A man has multiple penises?!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 01:59 AM
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No it does not turn me off. I don't know why it would.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 01:51 AM
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A guy who doesn't want to wait is not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 01:50 AM
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No I was totally unaware.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 01:46 AM
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Wilting flowers? And if I am to tell you that sex usually happens because a man wants it and a woman says ok, are you really confused by that? Men are the cause of promiscuity. Men sleeping around is worse because men are the reason it's a problem at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 01:46 AM
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Yeah, promiscuity is worse for men. Women are just doing what men ask. Men are the cause and the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 01:27 AM
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This. Think of your penis as a car. The more it's used, the more shitty it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 01:26 AM
0

A fridge/oven that can magically pop out any plate of your desired food. How awesome is that. It's symbolism for women popping out the babies of any and every different man who wants her. See? Women sleeping around is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 01:25 AM
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The lock and key thing is obviously stupid. Phallic symbolism has no basis on humanity. The only reason the key is described as a man and the lock as a woman is because of genital shapes, and the fact that it would be cool to have a key that unlocks everything of course has nothing to do with penises/men and people's behavior. You will find some people trying to defend this joke (yes, it's a joke, always has been, it's sad that some think it's real) by saying well no it's about how women are unl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 01:24 AM
1

I'm not an alt. Unlike you, I actually read the thread I'm responding to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 05:25 PM
1

I responded to you correctly. Reread what I said. Please stop promoting such evil in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 04:58 AM
1

Hooking up is not loyalty. Hoking up is sexual immorality. If that's what a hang up is, why would you say a hang up is when something is ACTUALLY wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 03:57 AM
1

I absolutely love how you choose to write an example about someone who is NOT doing anything sexually immoral to prove that people who are hurt by sexual immorality are somehow the ones who need to change. We're NOT talking about someone being hurt because they falsely imagine that their partner is flirting. We're talking about if their partner actually is flirting, and how it is rightfully painful. You could not have made a worse example if you tried. As I have already told you, no one uses the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 02:44 AM
1

When your mom dies, you're not sad because of her death. You are sad because of your own hang ups about not being able to be with your mom anymore. This is bad and we need to stop your hang up about loving your mom. You sound truly sick. I'm sorry but what the literal fuck. Loving someone is not a "hang up" (still no idea what that useless term means).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 10:46 PM
1

You called being in love a "hang up" (whatever that means, I've never heard it used outside of this sub).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 10:23 PM
2

Why are you so against love?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 06:17 AM
1

I can be sure about that, because I have experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:35 AM
1

It absolutely is. You can still move on and be ok without it, but it will never be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:30 AM
1

Yes I do. This is absolutely psychotic that you would even attempt to say this. I'm actually flabbergasted you'd say something so dumb. Do you actually not know what's going on in your own brain? I am a normal person and I am able to know how I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:17 AM
1

I'm not talking about comparing my experience with other people. I don't know where you got that from. >nor we can be sure that we'd feel differently if we had some other experience. This is extremely stupid, and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:00 AM
1

I can tell you first hand it's more special than words can describe. It directly relies on the fact that I have not been with anyone else. If I was with anyone else, I would not be able to feel this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 06:49 AM
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Completely agree. I could explain it in detail but I think the shortest way is to say so close yet so far. You almost had an n count of 0. Having a total count of 2 in a lifetime is so depressing. You'll never get that super special connection with your spouse because of just one other person. That's awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 06:55 AM
1

My comment was an understatement.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 01:05 AM
1

Of course any non-virgin partner is detrimental to a healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:41 PM
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It's pretty obvious if you think about it. Of course a man would want to be the younger one in the relationship and have a feminine woman to pamper him all day. https://www.dijtokyo.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/JS9_Madge.pdf Studies of male pornography note a distinct switch in female type preferences between the pre- and postwar years. Commonly accepted perceptions of female attractiveness in the prewar years were largely maternal in character with the woman playing a motherly role and the ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 10:29 PM
1

Being a whore is not a bad thing because the only reason she's a whore is because men ask for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 10:25 PM
1

Women don't want older men if they can help it. They'll tolerate an older guy for his money and support, but in modern times when that's not needed as much, it's a no-brainer they'll want someone their age who is younger looking and they can get along with as a peer. Good luck having social fun with someone outside your age range.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:55 PM
1

Something a few guys on the internet are spreading after they saw a tiktoker with filters and a face full of makeup trying to act 10 years older than she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:48 PM
2

The puberty gap stops being a gap by early teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:45 PM
1

Women at 15 act like they are 20. Bro no haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:44 PM
6

Every single person I know, know of, and heard of my age (early 20s) is dating someone their own age. There are no exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:43 PM
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Fun fact: Men's preference changes depending on the time period. Men are attracted to older maternal women pre-war, and younger childish women post-war. There's no biology in age gaps. It's a cultural thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:41 PM
2

Whore loses all meaning if you say stuff like that. It ceases to be even a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:39 PM
1

It is different. A golddigger wants money for herself. She wants money for her family. However a conservative should put her love for her husband first, and she should stop buying into the liberal lifestyle where kids get expensive. Spend your money normally and kids are pretty cheap. That woman is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:39 PM
2

Hahahahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:35 PM
1

It's literally a handful of people who are on your side. Your side is pure evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:23 PM
1

They were not. Their comment was absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:23 PM
3

Yes. Paradoxically, only virgin men are hook up material too. Non-virgins are bad and lazy in bed, they're less interested in you, they have biases from other partners, and they'd be more likely to have stds.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:22 PM
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Redpill men are probably not virgins so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:17 AM
1

If she's a virgin it's not about control. Why would you wait with a non-virgin... They get very little of the benefit (they do decrease their divorce risk slightly and maybe it'll help them mentally, but that's it).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 09:21 PM
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You are talking about non-virgins who randomly make certain guys wait? Then I agree. That's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 08:02 PM
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It's the same for men and women. Wherever your genitals are located is where the worst place for you to be raped is. The only reason penetration is bad for women is because their genitals are shaped like that. It doesn't make it any less bad if you have different genitals. That's what your genitals are. Violating it is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 05:35 PM
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No matter how clearly it is explained to you, you will keep robotically repeating the same thing. You have an agenda and nothing will convince you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 07:06 AM
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People drop it every time they're not talking about school. They pick it back up the moment school is mentioned. I don't know how you can discuss someone who you went to school with and they were in the grade above you, and talk about them in present tense to say what they're like now, without saying that person is in the grade above you. You people are really anti-social and weird. Apparently this needed a whole thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 07:01 AM
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I didn't go to college. I'm not in school. My grade is the class of 2017. Do you not speak English or something? You're really obsessed with your own misunderstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 06:56 AM
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I'm almost 23 years old you weirdo. She was a senior when I was a junior. You are either trolling yourself or so obsessed with trying to find fault that you make foolish mistakes like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 06:55 AM
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Penetration is not worse. If your genitals exist on the outside, raping that becomes worse. The std thing is valid but rape is a lot more complicated than that. Stds is a bit of a weak reason to disregard men so hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 06:54 AM
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Yeah it was a lead up to you explaining your position. So I'd save the son, you think a lot of people wouldn't because people treat men and boys like disposable dirt. We agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 06:50 AM
2

Do you believe people have trouble empathizing with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 06:40 AM
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I don't think you understand my genuine first reaction was to panic and not be able to save either one. Like if you asked which child to torture, to kill, to maim, which to give depression to, which one to hurt. They're equal. I can't choose. You can't pick which child to kill, you just shut down and can't choose either. My long winded thought process was what made me think I have bias towards the daughter because I relate to her. My logic makes me know the son is the right answer. I don't have …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 06:30 AM
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I thought about this before the situation happened. So I'd save my son without thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 06:24 AM
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I understand. I feel exactly what you're thinking. I feel that I would see myself in my daughter and I know how horrific rape would be for me, so I want to prevent that by not letting my daughter get raped. I subconsciously don't see myself as much in my son so maybe I can't empathize the rape being as serious. I don't have kids yet, but when I do I will love them the same. My son is a person too, and it's not all about me and my feelings. It's not about me being able to understand his pain. He …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 06:08 AM
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I would save the son. Just because I'm a woman doesn't mean I need to have inhumane bias towards women. I know men are human beings too. I wouldn't love my son any less. Your comment is wrong and I explained why. I know you'd pick your son too. People say they'd pick the daughter but they'd pick the son.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 05:53 AM
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tl;dr because if you get one takeaway from this, I beg you to stop saying rape is somehow not as bad if it's not a vagina. You are wrong. All you're doing is making lifea living hell for male victims who are begging you to understand it is in no way less violating that your genitals are located externally to be used in rape. This situation and that it's even a debate is beyond sickening and you need to realize the gravity of what you're doing. Boys and men who have been raped are begging you to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 05:52 AM
1

That comment was awful. Give another argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 05:33 AM
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Ignorant comment. Penises get ripped. A man getting raped is in pain. A vagina does not need to get ripped to be raped. Neither does a penis. When your genitals are on the outside of your body, now the outside of your body becomes the worst place to be violated. You only think the inside is bad because women's genitals are inside. You're admitting the problem is genitals, not inside or outside. However, your comment is utterly useless because rape that causes injury is not the only rape that is …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 05:33 AM
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No it's not. I have no idea why you think this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 04:12 AM
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I would definitely save the son unless something else came up. There are many factors that could sway you to the son or daughter. If my son was mentally stronger than my daughter I could choose her. For now it's absolutely save the son. I explained thoroughly why. The trauma of not being taken seriously, while the woman would have sympathy, is vastly more horrific to me than whatever reason you're imagining I'd choose the daughter. As someone pointed out, the knee-jerk reaction to save the daugh…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:48 AM
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I received a notification.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:35 AM
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Penetration is not a worse act. You say that without any proof. Genitals are genitals. Genitals being used is the act that makes rape bad. It's not about penetration. It's about the genitals being sexually violated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:34 AM
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At least you admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:32 AM
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The violation of rape itself is the same. Violating a woman is not sexually worse. You are scum if you say that. The only difference is the aftermath.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:30 AM
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A man can't rape a man the same way a woman can rape a man. A man would have to anally rape him. A man getting anally raped is the equivalent of a women getting anally raped. A man raping a woman is the equivalent of a woman raping a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:30 AM
1

The women who don't wait are never worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:27 AM
1

Cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:26 AM
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Don't do it, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:26 AM
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It doesn't. Having your body part used like a toy is just as traumatizing. It's now a "dirty" attachment you can't get rid of. It's visible to you. You were violently forcefully used. There are so many more things you think of when it happens to you. Men feel like their body is their own too. You're not so much thinking of your anatomy, but rather the fact that you were sexually violated. It's wrong to say penetration is somehow worse. Men have their body the way it is too. People always feel th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:26 AM
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This is not about "equality." You're turning this into a weird political debate instead of being a (hypothetical) parent caring for their children. I already made it abundantly clear in my comment. The rape itself is equal. Going through the trauma of rape is equal. The reason the overall trauma is worse for the son is because of how he will be laughed at, ignored, seen as less important, less worthy of empathy and care, and taken less seriously than the daughter. It is very obvious I should cho…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:17 AM
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This is a misconception. The penis can be a delicate body part. The skin especially around the head is fragile. It is very painful for a male to be raped. It can cause severe bodily harm. That's assuming the rapist doesn't do anything to his testicles. Erect penises can "break." I'm not the penis expert so there are many more penile injuries I don't know of, but it's ridiculous to say "obviously" being violently penetrated is worse than a delicate body part being violated abused and forced to pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:11 AM
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tl;dr Save the son. Both situations are equally scary. As the mother I obviously wouldn't feel any different. No mother would. You feel the same for both children. We can all at least agree on that. That's not even a question. There are only a few responses so far, but the two people who saved the daughter gave no reason. It seems like a knee-jerk reaction because women are more valued in this society. We don't care about violence against men. The person who saved the son gave a rational answer.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 02:53 AM
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Yes. All the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 09:56 PM
1

I don't see what you see haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 07:19 PM
7

Women date men they're not attracted to all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 07:18 PM
2

America.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 07:16 PM
0

Yes. Extremely. I wouldn't be totally shocked if someone said Vin Diesel 20 years ago was good looking. Ne-yo is tragically ugly. Tupac is downright deformed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:36 AM
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Most women are not going to go out of their way to inform a guy that she is repulsed by baldness, but it's very hard to find a woman who isn't sexually repulsed by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:29 AM
2

Asking "how many women do you think I raped" is suspicious. No normal person would ask that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 11:55 PM
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None? I hope? What kind of question is that. I'm more suspicious of you now that you asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 11:28 PM
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>Do you hold negative perceptions of men with high n-counts? Yes very negative. >What would you even consider to be a high n-count? Any outside of marriage. One marriage only, no divorce. So 1 can be high n count if you had sex with her and then broke up. Because that would mean you'd have a total of 2 if you ever had sex again. >How do you/would you feel when discovering that your male partner has a high n-count? Is there jealousy? Disgust? Insecurity? Do you feel that your partner doesn't have…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 09:18 PM
1

I think so too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:35 AM
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Almost.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:05 AM
1

Yes, only virgins can experience love. That's a pretty well accepted fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:04 AM
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I know, genius.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:04 AM
2

Because it's innate to humans? It's pretty shocking that perverts don't understand that people who've never had sex 1) know what sex is, 2) know perfectly well how to do it, 3) and like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 05:29 AM
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Maybe they just like sex and think it shouldn't be turned into something unenjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 05:12 AM
2

That makes no sense. There doesn't need to be a reason. You should be questioning why someone is not a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 04:43 AM
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Because when you love someone you care about them, not just yourself. It's not loving to make someone suffer. That's where waiting for marriage comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 04:43 AM
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>thinks losing your virginity is like chewing gum That explains your creepy views then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:54 AM
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That's not something anyone can answer haha. It's basically truly caring about someone to put it in simplest terms. Thinking something is love doesn't make it love.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:28 AM
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Virginity is the natural state. You don't need a reason to be one. You need a reason to become a non-virgin. Being a human in their natural healthy state shouldn't be a deal-breaker to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:12 AM
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There's no such thing as teaching a guy how to have sex. If he's ever looked up the word sex in the dictionary before, you missed your opportunity to teach him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:10 AM
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That's a creepily young age range to have a problem with virginity at. Not going to lie, if you thought there was "something wrong" with someone who's only 24 and a virgin, I would judge you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:07 AM
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Definitely disagree. What does it even mean? I'm pretty sure ultra Christian girls would rather have a guy who didn't commit a mortal sin. Why would a non-virgin "know what he's doing"? Why would a virgin "not" know what he's doing? Non-virgins are so clueless as to what normal virgins are like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:05 AM
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Nope. Non-virgin men are usually creepy so everyone should stay away from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:01 AM
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Losing your virginity in college is a red flag. Did you go there to learn/get a career or be a rake.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 01:56 AM
1

To your first paragraph: Then that's not love. To your second paragraph: Then that's not love.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 01:53 AM
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Damn this is insane. You don't love someone because loving them makes you feel good. You do it for them. That's what love is. Exhibit A, the male obsession with virginity, aka, the quest for sex holes unsoiled by other men’s use. They don't have any emotional feelings about it though. They're thinking about other things, such as beating other guys. Because sex is dirtying for women (but not men) Because these men see men as dirty. A man touches a woman and makes her dirty because the man is dirt…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 11:58 PM
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It's really hard to imagine any of the imaginary people in your scenarios caring about the person's past, regardless of how self-centered, objectifying, selfish, cultural, or whatever they are. In fact, pretty much all of dating/sex/relationships is selfish. Why else would you do it? For the person?!?!?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 09:55 PM
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0
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 09:23 PM
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That's absolutely creepy and sounds very sexually perverted (like he's going to taste her fingers). If a guy wouldn't say it to another guy, it's probably immoral and gross to say it to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 09:18 PM
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You're not going to care about their past if you don't love them. The rest of your comment crossed the line of psychopathy. I suppose you think it's selfish to say "I love you" because you're making it all about you! I love you? How selfish! You are having severe trouble realizing that when you love someone, everything is about them. If it was about you, you wouldn't give a crap what they did in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 09:03 PM
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What do you mean overcome? You are sad about it because you love them. If you didn't love them you wouldn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:21 AM
1

We're talking about a person in love though. We're not talking about what people do all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 02:52 AM
1

Stop playing dumb. It's very annoying. No you can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:11 AM
1

Men's sexual perversion is not natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:46 AM
1

You don't have a choice. It's agony and healing, or infinitely worse agony.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 11:36 PM
2

Are you a feminist or a self-hating man?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 11:36 PM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 11:35 PM
1

He can find an untouched virgin whose existence will be painless for him, ???????????????????????????? Um no he can't. If he can just drop you for another person he doesn't love you at all. Love is for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 10:11 PM
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So you'd hurt them by leaving them forever and letting them stay alone and you never receive love? You think that's what they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 09:49 PM
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Not actively trying to get sex from her is just as bad. Then the man will have problems in is mind if he's turned on by her. Mentally simping is still simping. The only solution is to not want sex with her at all. >If you give up you’re actually making her lose power because sex IS her source of power and it comes from male thirst. Yes, and that equalizes men and women. Women losing power isn't even dramatic. It merely equalizes them, not puts them below.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 08:54 PM
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Coomers and simps are the same thing. Any time you want sex with a woman who doesn't want it just as much with you, you are giving her power over you. To be controlled by women because you are horny makes you worthless. Think about that on a large scale. How much easier men are than women, and how much this places women above men. So much so that women are deemed to be inherently valuable while men are inherently basically worthless. The reason men are "worthless" and women are "valuable" is bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 08:43 PM
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I really don't know what you're confused about. By the way I said your response is evil because it's unbelievably cruel and completely heartless to respond to someone's pain with "get over it" "like an adult."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 08:38 PM
1

No, your response is evil. Stop playing dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 08:30 PM
0

Men have inherent value too. They lose that value by being coomers. One man being a coomer hurts every other man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 08:29 PM
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Yeah I don't know about animal biology, this is just about humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 06:25 PM
1

>Say you're 25 with no dating experience; you've never had a girlfriend, never had sex of any kind, and have never even kissed a girl before. Stay that way. This is gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 05:42 PM
1

As someone who is pro-long hair on men and anti-makeup, there are objective reasons why makeup and long hair is for women. Short answers: Hair is a sign of health and health is more important for the person who will be carrying the baby. Long hair shows years of good health because once hair is grown out, it's done. If you grow out sickly hair, you're stuck with it until you cut it off. Every culture in the world has had different hairstyles for men and women. There are very few where men had lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 05:41 PM
2

And isn't that all a bad thing? All this divorce and breaking up is bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 05:18 PM
1

I can imagine that in Russia yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 05:17 PM
1

This is a very evil way of looking at things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 05:15 PM
2

Oh fuck no. This will 100% destroy your ability to truly love someone. This way one knows what one wants "I don't know that I love you I need to go sleep with someone else reee" Retardation. If you love someone you know. and what one can put up with. What even?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 06:06 AM
1

If you don't stay together, one is bad. You shouldn't have had them at all, and/or it ruins your future.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 04:14 AM
0

One is too many if you don't stay together. Sorry she did that thought that's really messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:16 AM
-1

So you had too many sex partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:10 AM
0

So you're a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:01 AM
4

All men prefer monogamy. Polygamy is when you settle for not being able to find a person you want to be monogamous with. Not finding anyone who satisfies you, so you need to take things from many different women instead of getting what you want from one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:39 AM
5

You didn't say anything about sleeping around? You said it twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:36 AM
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It's the definition. Monogamy means one. Monogamy does not mean "not one, but as long as you're not having orgies at the exact same time you can pretend it's one."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:36 AM
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That's polygamy. Polygamy either means multiple spouses at the same time, or multiple sexual partners at any time. The condition of having more than one spouse or marriage partner at one time. The state or habit of having more than one sexual mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:35 PM
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That's too easy. Serial "monogamy" is what happens when you were with the wrong person. No one would want serial "monogamy." It's at least either a choice between polygamy or monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:31 PM
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All of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:28 PM
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That's because slaying inherently means women swooning and talking about how cool you are. Average and below average guys have way too many sex partners. They don't "slay."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:23 PM
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I noticed ugly men fuck even more. It's especially true in high school and college when all the "less popular" kids group up and all have sex with each other. Attractive people are more picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:21 PM
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I know a fair amount of really really pretty girls in their 20s who are virgins. They're the popular nice churchy natural blonde types. For example the homecoming queen in the grade above me is a virgin and she's like 24 and gorgeous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:19 PM
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Age gaps for sure. Literally no one my age (early 20s) is dating a 30 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:15 PM
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Why are you bringing up thinking of it as a competition? Who said anything like that? It's not a competition. Waiting for love is obviously better than fake/lesser "love."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:58 PM
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Can you separate the person from what they did? Obviously? You don't even really think of it as "what they did," it's more just like what happened. Just in case the "obviously" wasn't clear... yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:51 PM
1

Average for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 04:06 AM
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So you confusion came from the fact that everything that involves the person you love IS the person? How does that even make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 04:05 AM
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I genuinely have no idea what you are so confused about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:42 AM
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So where in that do you possibly manage to hear the person you love is the cause of your pain? You quoted it several times and still misread.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:17 AM
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The person you love is not the cause of your pain. What's the point of quoting me if I never said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 01:38 AM
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Your view of the past is wrong. Some people really think people didn't become human until 1970 smh. People's self-reported sex lives suck NOWADAYS. Back then it was better. >also can you imagine medival sex? Like, people didn't even shower back then Ugggggh sigh. Bathing had spiritual significance in the Middle Ages and they bathed regularly to purify the body. They changed their clothes very often too. Stop spreading these dumb myths.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 01:04 AM
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Nice question. Because they'd be best with the one person that truly loves them (and if that's you, that's nice). Them being intimate with different people who love them less would be very bad. You want them to receive the highest, most, best love. Getting fake or lesser "love" in the face of instead feeling truly loved is not a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 12:09 AM
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No you're not. That's not how they feel. You erase it by renouncing it. Instead of feeling like "Oh yeah I dated them," you feel more like, "Meh, no," and cast it off, and forget about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 10:03 PM
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>Why would anyone want to be the cause of such pain in someone they care about? You are not the cause of their pain... So you will torment your partner by leaving them? Huh? >He can find a virgin to love, and not be unhappy. Oh please. You don't fall in love twice. They don't have another person. >If you really love something, you will let it go instead of making it suffer I hate these stupid movie tropes that have no bearing on reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:48 PM
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>They’re also against pre-nups. Are they? I'm banned from that sub but this is awesome. They seem more like the pro prenup type. RPW are not normal women. They are very much tradthots/pickmes. The reason I got banned was I said it's ok to not be ok with your husband watching porn and you can talk to him and tell him how it makes you feel, and I got banned for being "too dominant in the relationship." Like talking about your feelings is dominant. They're robots. They don't care about anything, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:20 PM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:12 PM
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Every single word you said is backwards. Like I can quote every sentence you wrote and explain why it's wrong. >So what if you don’t blame them? You don't. >The facts of your partners life make you sad and unsatisfied, and that will never change, according to you. Unsatisfied? And it's not "their life," it's something that happened. >I would never want to be with someone who is deeply unhappy about me. Um, what? You are not unhappy about them. >Why torture a person you care about with your exist…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:10 PM
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Because media/pop culture/corporations/etc pushed it on us with everything they had. And they had trillions of dollars, mega influence, and brainwashing abilities bordering on mind control.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:05 PM
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>Why does love extend retroactively? I don't know what you mean by this. Rephrase? >Why do you feel incomplete/dissatisfied if your partner is not 100% about you and your relationship with them, through no fault of their own? I don't understand this either. Being sad about the past isn't because you're worried that they don't like only you now (that can be a reason though). And it is fault of your own if you choose to hook up with people. But when you love someone you don't love them differently…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:41 PM
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I asked for your opinion. If I did read op it's irrelevant because I never mentioned in this thread that I agreed with op. You probably assumed I read him, but you still had no reason to think I agreed with him since I didn't say anything of the sort.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:06 PM
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Did you ask op why he feels that way instead of giving a most likely incorrect reason why he does? It's unbelievably unlikely he is feeling emotional about something as simple as "he's afraid of being compared." Being afraid of being compared would feel awesome, because if you think you're being compared you can just be the better one. Instead of feeling the gut-wrenching pain of the person you love doing something intimate with someone else, all you care about is being compared. What an absolut…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:03 PM
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https://winteryknight.com/2020/04/30/study-couples-that-delay-sexual-activity-experience-higher-quality-relationships-3/ https://www.news-medical.net/news/20110105/Delay-sex-to-strengthen-marriage-Study.aspx https://mywellclinic.com/blog/2020/02/20/science-sex-marriage/ https://ifstudies.org/blog/slow-but-sure-does-the-timing-of-sex-during-dating-matter
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:00 PM
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I thought about how it would be to LIKE having the insecurity, so you can use it as a coping mechanism. If you're sad the person you love was with someone else, it would be so easy to get over by thinking, "I'm better than the other person! I'm hotter, better in bed, they enjoy me more, whatever." I wish I could use insecurity to compare myself to the other person and say I'm better than them. But I don't care about that. All I care about is the person I love. I disagree that it's selfish though…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:47 PM
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Yes exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:38 PM
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Nice manipulation. I didn't assume anything. You did. You asked me "so resentment is loving?" implying I thought it was. I said no that's a gross way to describe things. I am not discussing what op said. I asked you for YOUR opinion. You just enjoy making problems at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:30 AM
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Ugh I hate when people do this. I'm having a normal conversation with you and you insult. I didn't say anything about resentment, so there is no reason for you to ask me why I think resentment is loving. I asked you what your opinion was. I read what you wrote. I stated my opinion. What op said was not part of our conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:59 AM
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I didn't even read op's post I skimmed the first part then stopped reading entirely. I don't agree with op then. You don't have any negative feelings towards the person, you're just sad. Past sexual experience isn't bad at all. Sex with multiple people is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:50 AM
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I have experience with love. I didn't say anything about abusive relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:26 AM
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Ok cool. Explain why.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:25 AM
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So when someone you love dearly dies, being sad about it is not the loving thing to do because being sad is a negative thing? This is insanity. You will be sad if you love them. Not being sad is most likely extremely fucked up, unless you had some insane meditation mind control skills I suppose. What the literal fuck are you talking about? Your partner resenting you? Wtf? Hating your past? What does that even mean? Literally what does that even mean? They're sad that bad things happened. Jealous…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:25 AM
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Read it and do what? I'm not going to discuss with a textbook. I'm willing to discuss this so we can debate it. I can't debate with a book. I read so many books (science and opinion) on love. They're so unloving it's just... dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:21 AM
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You do realize there is no way to empirically "test" if unconditional love is real, right? Empirical science is extremely limited, and there's no way to test it. You would not be able to apply every condition to them to test it. Only someone in love would truly know what they have. Anyone who tries to do a "study" on unconditional love can be laughed at. This is obviously a philosophical, logical question, not a "research" one. It's hilarious how badly you are skirting around sharing your opinio…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:18 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:16 AM
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You do realize when people are sad about something, they're not usually trying to think about it? It's the opposite. They try to stop thinking about it. It's loving and caring, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:16 AM
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That's a cop out for when you can't explain your opinion. You can give me the short version if you like. You seem to be really floundering here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:14 AM
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Finally you at least SAID something. Can you explain why love is not unconditional? Can you explain why sexual compatibility is a thing for people in love?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:10 AM
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When you love someone the way you give your love to them is like, sacredly special to you. The way you touch them and can be close to them and give them your love. One you understand how special that is, you won't have any problem understanding why them replicating that action with someone else would be wickedly painful. It's something very special to you to do with the person you love. It's intimate and close and it's your given love to them. You want to do that with them, not someone else. Thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:07 AM
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That it's not unconditional. That it should end when someone does an action ('deliberately hurts you' was your example action).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:02 AM
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Can you just explain what your opinion is? You've said absolutely nothing this entire time. Answer these questions briefly, please. What does insecurity mean to you? Define it. What did I say that sounds like a fairytale? I'd prefer if you copy and pasted the quote(s). What about a relationships course would change me? What is in there you think I have not already heard of a million times? What opinions of mine exactly would change? Why would hearing someone talk about something change my own li…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:00 AM
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You have a very fucked up definition of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:52 AM
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Ok you're obviously trolling. You're speaking like you're half asleep while not even explaining what you mean. At this point, there is no way you genuinely believe it's "insecurity." I explained thoroughly why it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:50 AM
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I haven't witnessed the immense amounts of hate/jealousy that men hurl at boy bands in the case of athletes. I'm sure they are jealous though. People hated twerking Miley Cyrus because it's trashy and degenerate, period. I can't imagine anyone hating it for any other reason. I don't know what you're referring to about people hating Joe Rogan or Lil Nas X.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:50 AM
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Sigh. Thinking love has anything to do with age is typical of someone who simply does not understand what love even is. It's like we're discussing a totally different subject. Are you even capable of explaining WHY you think what I said makes me sound like a kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:47 AM
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Caring about someone's experiences, their perspective, and how their feel in their mind is the opposite of objectification. And I don't know wat you mean by insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:04 AM
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Your answer is so bizarre I actually want to know why you think this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:03 AM
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Why do you think this? I wish you were right. But you're fully wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:02 AM
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It's not insecurity but I agree with your thoughts on insecurity. Remember in like 2012 the culture was more like, "It's ok to be insecure, we're all insecure; don't hurt people and make them feel insecure, that's so cruel; we should actively try to not make people feel insecure; discuss your insecurities openly and it's valid, you're beautiful and loved." Now the culture is like, "Insecurity is disgusting and you're a bad person for having insecurity in a relationship; someone else making you f…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:52 AM
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Dude. No. What they said went completely over your head and you ignored them for no reason. We don't give a fuck about inadequacy. I WISH the problem was as simple as "Oh no I feel inadequate." You don't even understand how much we wish the problem was as easy as some dumb insecurity. The problem is the heart shattering pain of the person you love being intimate with someone else. The way you touch them and show love to them? They did that with someone else? It's so painful it's unreal. I wish i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:47 AM
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Virgins who wait are proven to have more sex later, so you should be worried that a non-virgin is sex negative and has a low libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:44 AM
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Absolutely this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:37 AM
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Masculine guys. Give me a young energetic boy who looks like a girl please.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:34 AM
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The creeps are actually trying to convince us that men are "biologically" attracted to less fertile, underdeveloped girls who are way more likely to die while carrying their baby. Boobs and hips don't stop getting bigger until 18/19, and that's in modern times when puberty starts really early do to chemicals in food, water, and plastics screwing with hormones. Even in modern times, full fertility doesn't start until around 22 like you said. Someone who says 21 and under women are ideal is just t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:32 AM
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She's right though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:27 AM
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Oof I hate beards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:19 AM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:18 AM
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Yeah I'm almost 23 and people are shocked (no exaggeration, shocked) I'm not in high school. I have a million examples but for one I became friends with a 16 year old girl a few months ago and she was bewildered when she found out I wasn't 16. Redpillers who say women in their 20s are past their prime or something are just weird. It's like they don't even know any women in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:15 AM
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26 year old women mostly have baby faces and if they pretended to be a high schooler people wouldn't question them. 26 is very young for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:12 AM
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The opposite. Attractive women like to date attractive men their own age who they can be very social with. Attractive people usually have their parents' money and don't care about that stuff. Older guys are gross to them. An attractive woman will be even more turned off by the way a guy in his 30s looks than an average woman. The girl in your story dates older guys because she's a career freak.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:08 AM
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Pretty boys are still boys, so of course they have some masculinity. They're feminine boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:01 AM
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Loving someone doesn't mean you think their actions are ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:54 AM
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Why do women like femininity in guys then? Just because it's pretty?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:44 AM
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Yes that's exactly what I'm saying. Sure they love their kids, they just don't truly love their kids. Love can mean anything from "I love this tv show" to true love. I of course was never talking about tv show love or anything in between. I meant real love.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:11 AM
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I think you're really confusing who I am. I'm not a "trad wife." I'm literally banned from the redpill wives sub. It's also hilarious you think I'm some anti-woman woman. And I don't even know where you got the anti-sex thing from.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:38 PM
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I think that's because sports have a vastly male audience so there's no need to be jealous. Boy bands are for girls and capturing girls' attention way more. I could even go as far to say admiring masculinity is more comfortable for men because there's still less need to be jealous, since women (when they do not need to account for money/protection/etc) overwhelmingly prefer pretty boys. Men do seem to be a lot more jealous of pretty boys, while with masculine men they just say "good for him, he'…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:36 PM
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What do you mean by stay with?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:31 PM
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Sexual compatibility literally does not exist. I'm not talking about some "love conquers all" storybook. What do you mean by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:31 PM
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She was 50 years old...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:29 PM
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>female circumcision Dude that isn't love. They're sociopaths. They don't love their kids, they care about their weird culture more than their kids. >conversion therapy If you loved your kid and were Christian you'd help them the right way instead of doing something that is going to make it worse. In trad communities if someone is abusive they go to jail. There's no such thing as divorce, so you separate normally, not "divorce." >What do you think the families of those women didn't love them? No…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:29 PM
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there is no deeper meaning to the piece of paper I got at the courthouse You're missing out then. Oof living together before marriage is a huge no. That also skyrockets your divorce rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:32 AM
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You could've just gotten married. Thinking of marriage as a government contract is really going to dampen your happiness in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:03 AM
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Couples who wait for marriage have sex a lot more frequently than couples who don't wait. They are also more satisfied. You don't have to wait, but people who like sex have the right to know what will give them good sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:51 AM
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You know that's not true. Someone can just like having sex without being in love. Love guarantees they will like sex with you. Someone who is not in love can like pleasing you before marriage and then stop after. There is no point to having sex before marriage. Unless you want to have less frequent sex and then get divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:35 AM
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No there's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:23 AM
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Femininity in a guy is an indicator of youth. That's why women like it. Men have always mocked and scoffed at pretty boys. Every boy band member and Justin Bieber type ever has been called gay. I'm not old enough to know, but I heard (actually I learned this from this sub) in the 90s a lot of guys were hating on Leonardo DiCaprio. Now that he's old and unappealing they don't hate on him anymore. Men have always been jealous of younger guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:17 AM
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There's no such thing as being in love and not having orgasms if you want it. Someone who loves you isn't just going to let you be unhappy. They'll get really good at giving you whatever you want any time you want really quick. That's the least of things people do when they actually love the person they are with. This is a really elementary level conversation. Someone who doesn't give a crap about how you feel and isn't willing to do anything about it isn't in love with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:51 AM
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Let me ask you a question. Can an abuser be in love? When someone beats up their spouse daily, is that true love? Oh wait, you're deciding for other people what is and isn't love. Funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:50 AM
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Becoming a mother doesn't just make you lose your looks Obviously not. Being a single mom does. Maybe you are personally offended as you are one of these girls? Who? I live in the USA. Billie Burke had a baby face at 50. Gomez isn't even 30 and lost her baby face already. She used to have a baby face. Have you seen her recently? Stop confusing puffy bogging with baby face.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:46 AM
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You wouldn't say that if you loved them. But you also wouldn't have these problems if you loved them. It's a weird paradox.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 04:04 AM
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You don't need to meet a random person to know what love is. This is a braindead take.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 03:11 AM
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Then it's not love. What on earth is so hard to understand about this? I'm not talking about infatuation or "emotions." I can't believe there are really people in this world that think two people who LOVE each other can't overcome something as minor as all the things you listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 01:14 AM
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Love isn't about being compatible. That's not love. The best way to describe love is caring for them. When you love them you'll make it work. There's no if. If love was about compatibility, real love wouldn't exist. Compatibility on its own is way too flimsy. You're compatible because you're in love. That's how it works. What do you mean by cooking incompatibility or financial incompatibility? Financial compatibility seems like a weird modern problem. I don't know what you mean about cooking. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 09:23 PM
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This is why our modern culture that supports sex before marriage is making it even harder for couples to be happy in bed. >Imagine being with a man who's shit at oral Is this a joke? Just tell him what you like. Ffs. >or who doesn't like oral? Giving or receiving? If he doesn't like touching your body with his mouth, he does not love you. This is completely a mental problem and has nothing to do with "sexual compatibility." Sexual compatibility literally does not exist. You're either down or you…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 09:15 PM
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>had Yeah you clearly never loved each other. When I say love I actually mean love. If you're in love, that list is literally laugh out loud funny from how silly it is. People who are getting divorced, people who convince themselves they're "incompatible," are not in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:56 PM
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Because you don't need to check. When you find someone you love you're more than willing and happy to do sexual things with them. Worrying about compatibility means you're not really in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:47 PM
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This is exactly why people have to wait for marriage. Being with someone you love and are passionate about solves all these issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:44 PM
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The only real reason a woman would not like a virgin man is because she feels so much guilt for her own non-virginity that she cannot admit under any circumstance that virginity is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:43 PM
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>You can have dark hair and features and lighter/olive toned skin it's not dark skinned or blonde and pale you know? I had no idea. Billie Burke was so pretty she played the role of a witch whose sole purpose was being nice and pretty when she was in her mid 50s. Selena Gomez hasn't had a baby face in a very long time. Yeah I wonder why a drug addict (who was also a mom at 16, which is not a bad thing but will make you look older probably) lost her innocent look? Shocking. Most people think JLO …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:38 PM
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I can't even imagine why you're mad about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:32 PM
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>No fault divorce should be prohibited when children are involved FIFY
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 11:13 PM
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Her sister was a drug addict. She was a child star too you know. There are few occupations I trust less than cosmetic plastic surgeons. Their word means nothing. JLO is ugly as heck. She's totally fake (surgery, makeup, fake hair) and even when she's photoshopped into oblivion she's still not pretty. Jamie Spears was never that pretty either, no offensive. As a kid she had that horrid 2000s style of plucked eyebrows, tan skin, choppy haircut, bleached hair color. That stuff is incredibly aging. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 09:59 PM
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They look buff. Athletic women are usually not buff, and would prefer a guy whose athletic activities are similar to hers. So he would be the lean and skinny type of athletic too, not buff. I rarely see women like the big type of men. Fit athletic is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 08:49 PM
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You aren't using the word frumpy correctly. Men are usually the ones who are wrinkly by early to mid 20s, especially on their foreheads. Black women get nasolabial folds a lot by late teens to early 20s. >Britney Spears Yes a mega drug addict is a perfect example of aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 08:46 PM
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The other way around. Cute blondes have baby faces and look young for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 01:38 AM
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No, all the men OP listed are in their early 30s to early 50s currently. Making the women at least 15 years older. And when women are attracted to the actors, they're not attracted to what the actor looks like now, they're attracted to the what the actor looked like in a movie they made 10 years ago. So I'm saying 68 year old women are attracted to these 30 something year old actors.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 09:21 PM
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I feel like women who are attracted to the actors OP listed at all like 68 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 07:59 PM
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Henry Cavill is an ex pretty boy who aged well with turning more masculine. He still looks pretty now in his facial features. He's like a buff pretty boy. I'd say most women would prefer him in I Capture the Castle to now, unless the woman is old and it makes her feel goofy to be with a younger guy. People forget that women would be going for way younger guys if it didn't make the woman seem older. A 35 year old woman doesn't want a 20 year old boyfriend because it makes her seem like a grandma,…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 07:48 PM
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I don't care what you think though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 02:51 AM
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I'm responding to MY notifications. You're literally a psycho and this is boring. I will rudely exit the conversation even though you insist on talking to me. Sorry to leave you hanging and I know it's rude to just leave someone who is talking to you, but I want to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 07:03 AM
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I'm not bothering you about responding to notifications. I don't mind you talking to me constantly. I'm open to talk to everyone. Just please stop threatening me with violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 07:00 AM
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I don't need your consent to reply to my messages. Stop replying if you don't want to talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:57 AM
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Then stop replying. So I'm worse than a rapist, a man who buys women, or a cop who rapes prostitutes, because I reply to notifications I get.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:55 AM
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Then stop replying. Why do you get even angrier and more rude and attacking once we agree and I say I don't want to fight with you anymore? You were literally nicer back when you were claiming I hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:53 AM
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I believe I said twice in the past few minutes that this is what I wish to happen and what I'm fighting for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:50 AM
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Yeah there's no hope for you. The second I try to reconcile and say I could've done better, and say ok let's not fight and just talk normally, you start flaring up again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:49 AM
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Maybe if you weren't so ready to fight all the time you would have seen I made my position VERY clear in the beginning. I literally said women cannot be arrested. You were ready to get mad so you willfully misread. Let's stop fighting and just ask the other person what they meant and respond honestly. The internet always argues in that fake manner. I did it too because your misunderstanding seemed intentional and it was annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:42 AM
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Making it illegal means it's illegal for men to go to prostitutes, not for women to be prostitutes. The men get arrested. The women get treated and helped out of the industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:41 AM
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I'm arguing about what I want to happen. You think a hobby is more important than spreading the belief that prostituted women should be protected from men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:39 AM
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Great. We agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:35 AM
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I present you with this comment, that gives you the ability to click my username and see my post history. Now stop playing dumb. Literally just check the wikipedia link where it explains that philosophically the burden of proof is on the one who makes the claim, even when they make a negative claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:33 AM
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Because people can do bad things with their body, and slapping choice on it does not make those bad things good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:31 AM
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Sex work being illegal means that men can't buy sex, genius. It doesn't mean the abused, drugged, raped, trafficked, underage, and mentally ill women will get in trouble. They legally can't be held accountable. It was literally my comment at the top of the thread. How can the victims of a male problem get in trouble for what men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:30 AM
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So don't you want it to be illegal for cops to arrest prostituted women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:28 AM
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You realize this entire conversation is about what laws I wish to be in place, right? I'm sick of arguing this. Prostitution is a male problem. Men create prostituted women. Men should get in trouble for it. It should be illegal to buy a woman. Period. Women can't be held responsible for what men do. Why would the victim get in trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:26 AM
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No, of course not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:24 AM
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What law?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:23 AM
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I never made that claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:23 AM
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Of course you can prove a negative. And you have the duty to. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Burden\_of\_proof\_(philosophy)#Proving\_a\_negative
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:18 AM
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Why in the world would you arrest prostituted women... You finally realize you've been agreeing with me the entire time. You can go sit in a corner now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:17 AM
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So you don't want to make that illegal?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:13 AM
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You aren't even trying to argue your position anymore. You've resorted to messing around. I'm talking to the victim right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:11 AM
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You mean the state protecting women from violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:09 AM
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Proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:08 AM
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I already explained it to you. Scroll up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:08 AM
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Like I already said, you don't understand what banning prostitution means. You literally don't. It's nauseating that you compare prostitution to any job. My comment that you hate women was obviously mocking you. I repeated back your own screaming comments that I apparently hate women. It was dead obvious that I was making fun of you by purposely giving a lazy answer like "no u just hate women." You're too blind to see it. It's scary that you can say over, and over, and over, and over, and over t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:03 AM
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My argument: Buying women's bodies is pure evil. It should be illegal. I made this so clear in the very beginning of the thread that no one would possibly misunderstand unless it was on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 05:59 AM
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Prostitution is not safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 05:56 AM
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Provide proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 05:55 AM
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That I don't care about prostituted women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 05:55 AM
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Hahahahaha your misunderstanding of my argument is pure insanity. I never said anything that could even be interpreted as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 05:54 AM
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It's so sad its almost funny you think it's a good argument to pretend you misunderstood and thought I was talking about myself, when THIS is your comment thread... Or much more likely, you know full well, and just don't care. If you ever talked to a sex worker and based your opinion on what is actually best for them ACCORDING TO THEM, you would want it to be treated like any other job so that sex workes can call the cops and not get arrested for doing their job. You have no idea what sex worker…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:40 AM
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There is no use talking to someone whose only argument is, "If you were a decent person, if you cared, you'd do what I want."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:31 AM
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Just go read my comments again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:10 AM
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I'm not fighting. I'm responding to your accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:49 AM
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When you say "you know what you're getting into" that doesn't mean something cheery like you'll make money. To "know what you're getting into" is a phrase used in English that means you know the (possibly severe) negative consequences of what you're doing. The definition of this phrase is not a positive context. I'm sure you knew that, because you used the phrase correctly at first. Then you decided to used it incorrectly to give a lazy answer since you didn't want to search for proof that prost…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:47 AM
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You know perfectly well how dumb your comment is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:38 AM
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You're explaining it perfectly. This is something everyone understands.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:38 AM
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EXACTLY!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:35 AM
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Jobs are not comparable to your body. That is a horrid thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:31 AM
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I asked for proof that girls (at least the vast majority) know what they're getting into when they are prostituted. You gave a random article about some person making money from onlyfans.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:31 AM
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I refuse to believe you are this dumb. You rushed so fast over my comments you don't even know my position.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:18 AM
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So then the cop goes to jail for life....? What the literal f-ck are you even asking?? Do you want to ask me something or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 02:55 AM
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You do hate women. That's why you want them subjected to prostitution. Oh prostituted women don't go to jail? How brilliant! Where did you ever come up with a solution like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 02:50 AM
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So no proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 02:46 AM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 02:46 AM
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If they wanted to be a surrogate they wouldn't need to be paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 02:43 AM
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Who are you trying to convince?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 02:43 AM
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Yes they are extremely common.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 02:00 AM
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Everyone would benefit because people would stop debasing themselves for the attention of these strangers, and they would stop meeting up with them. It would end the facilitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 01:58 AM
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Stop hating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 01:55 AM
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I'm not unwilling to wear anything. I don't understand your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 01:55 AM
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I hope that was sarcastic. The Federalist is a really good source. Fox is abysmal. It was "abandoned" because the police/government didn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 01:54 AM
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Proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 01:53 AM
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Porn obviously. Paid surrogacy yes. Surrogacy is very helpful to certain couples but it shouldn't be an industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 01:53 AM
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I know all those things. They are obvious by your comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 04:41 AM
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"Listen to sex workers" to you means listening to privileged girls with onlyfans accounts. You have no idea what real prostituted women go through.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 04:29 AM
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Creepy is creepy. Attractive people are less likely to be seen as creepy because attractive people are usually well liked by many and socially connected, as opposed to in the dark, unknown, hidden, i.e creepy. Brad Pitt would definitely get me too'ed. I'd need him in jail for life if he did that too me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 03:53 AM
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Bars should be banned. I don't think I can make this any more clear to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 03:41 AM
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If they wanted it, they wouldn't need to be paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 03:41 AM
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Banning murder stops murder. Do you think that means it's impossible to commit murder? You've made it extremely clear you don't know what banning sex work means.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 03:40 AM
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So it's impossible to break the law now? What are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 02:30 AM
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Prostitution is not consensual.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 02:29 AM
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Where? When?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 02:29 AM
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Are you joking right now? Of course that should be illegal. Where have you been?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:15 PM
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Rape is not a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 06:14 PM
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Sex work being illegal means that men can't buy sex, genius. It doesn't mean the abused, drugged, raped, trafficked, underage, and mentally ill women will get in trouble. They legally can't be held accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:41 PM
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It is a threat to say women will always be oppressed by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:40 PM
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You are treated prostituted women as physical containers for men's rage and violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:39 PM
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If they're married.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:39 PM
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If he said "I see zombie ghosts in my room and they talk to me and I like to cut off my fingers and eat them," and I said you need to go to a doctor, would that be "personal" or an "insult"? I was completely serious. Isn't it just your opinion that what he said was not bad enough to warrant such a comment from me? I don't mind that much to ask you to reinstate it, it's fine, but thank you. I'm just saying I believe according to the rules it's ok to say someone needs attention, as long as you're …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:37 PM
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I couldn't find a single source that said prohibition did not decrease alcohol consumption. So if you look it up at all, all you will see is that it lowered alcohol consumption and achieved its goal perfectly. https://thefederalist.com/2019/04/23/almost-everything-know-alcohol-prohibition-wrong/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:49 AM
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In the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:33 AM
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Consent only matters to me when it is being violated. I don't care what people consent TO. Consent is utterly worthless. Consent doesn't magically make evil things good. The only time consent is important is to discuss how consent should not be violated. Anything else, and I'm sick of hearing the word. It's a pathetic excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:52 AM
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Bad example. Alcohol prohibition worked. Do you want to give another example instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:50 AM
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Is that a threat? Of course it's going away. No, it's not called the oldest profession (unless as a lame joke). That is midwifery.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:50 AM
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It's not a personal attack. If I meant it as an insult my comment would have been useless. I am actually saying there is something unhealthy in the brain of someone who cannot control their brain. Saying my comment was an "insult" demeans it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:48 AM
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It will be women's problem once rape and sexual abuse/harassment skyrockets due to men's inaccessibility to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:47 AM
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Disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:47 AM
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Yes I do think we should ban cars. Why are you even asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:46 AM
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The danger to sex workers comes from promiscuous men. Don't tiptoe around this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:46 AM
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Men who are very jealous and egocentrric should head out to a psychologist's office and get themselves fixed, because it's perfectly natural for other men to want to fuck that guy's girlfriend, This reads as satire. You have to be joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:29 AM
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This. Having a crush on someone else when you have an s/o is so f*cked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:23 AM
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So you admit prostituted women are the punching bags for violent rapists. Holy sh*t. Ban prostitution NOW. This is a male issue. Leave women alone and fix your monstrous gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:13 AM
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Legalizing it hurts them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:09 AM
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It is never safe. Ban it entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:08 AM
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You care more about "freedom of expression [expressing what, you literally just removed clothing]" more than you care about your children because American public school has nonstop propagandized you to care about freedom above anything else, no matter how vile freedom is. Your children are more important. Screw freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:07 AM
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Non-loving sex is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:03 AM
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How does polygyny benefit high value men? Even the most pro-polygyny evolutionary psychologists say that men would rather have one extremely desirable partner than a bunch. They admit that it's at least the second-tier men who are polygynous while the highest value men get the best woman. Think about it. In your school, there were probably a bunch of try-hard fuckboys sleeping around while the actual most popular guy was in a long term relationship with the hottest girl. Let's say a man does cho…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 04:59 AM
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No, hookup culture pretty much destroyed everyone emotionally. Everyone is heartbroken, depressed, anxious, and/or empty because of it. As well as other horrible feelings like guilt, regret, feeling dirty, unfulfilled, lonely, betrayed, lost. And more things people are going through that I can't even imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:22 AM
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You might be mentally ill. Check out a hospital immediately if you genuinely can't stop being attracted to a random body.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:04 AM
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So you think when people say they want a spouse who is a good mom/dad what they're saying is they want a divorced person with children from the past marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:03 AM
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Oh no, I called out your pseudo-intellectual behavior after you made up a narrative about me, tried to analyze me and blatantly got it wrong, assumed the worst about me for no reason whatsoever, attacked me viciously many times, and acted insane and took your anger out on me over a simple question that was not just on topic... but it was THE topic. The same exact thing we were talking about. Now you act like the victim. People like you are truly insufferable and everyone can see what you're doin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:11 AM
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I don't know why you're trying to be a pseudo-intellectual. It's really crazy to say I was trying to "provoke outrage." I don't know how you think a simple question about men liking virgins would be outrageous. Then you call me the gaslighter when you're trying to make me feel crazy right now. I'm in shock.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:44 AM
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When you objectify yourself "for yourself," you hurt ALL women. All women suffer from your actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:30 AM
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Are you joking right now? I asked a question to try to understand your point of view and you fly off the rails with anger. This is unreal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:29 AM
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I'm sure they do. They are good values to have. I was talking about a guy though as I'm straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:17 AM
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Are you baffled that virginity is a requirement from men for women? It takes two people to get the benefit out of virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:17 AM
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Uh what?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 03:29 AM
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Well let me make it simple. Woman can parade naked in front of men, trying to get their attention, that doesn't make it ok for men to be attracted to them, comment at them, or touch them. Let alone someone who's just brainwashed wearing some mass produced skirt designed by some pretentious man in hipster glasses and a scarf who wants to "promote sexual freedom to women" so he can enjoy the show.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:58 AM
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I think creepy men should learn to keep their comments to themselves regardless of what a woman is wearing. Ummm, obviously? Who said men can make sexual comments at women for any reason regardless of what she's wearing? You seem really lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:32 AM
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You can sort of will yourself to be attracted to someone but you might fail. It's highly circumstantial and a matter of tastes. You could form a bias towards a trait and then think people with that trait are attractive. You can learn other people think they're attractive then put yourself to the task of seeing what they see in them. Your feelings towards someone can change and you see them differently. > Also, it might only be predictable from a purely physical perspective, which doesn't apply o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:16 AM
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Taste, preference, and attraction and highly subjective. There are objective signs of healthy and lack of health but after that it's your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:06 AM
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Youth, virginity, loving, caring, good dad, positive, fun to be with, good values, dependable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:01 AM
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>Everyone is attracted to physically attractive people. Yeah does anyone even believe this? Not everyone has the same preferences. Some super hot people can look totally boring to you. >Myth: Only physically attractive people can be attractive. Yup if you like someone (romantically or not), they can look good to you. >Myth: Attraction is predictable and controllable. I don't agree with this one. It's pretty predictable and I don't know what you mean by controllable. You didn't seem to address it…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 12:51 AM
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Reddit's obsession with post history needs to stop. Get a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 12:47 AM
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So you agree that bikinis should be banned. You can literally just look up "bikini" on wikipedia or any site you choose to find the one and only purpose of bikinis is to sexualize women and children. I can easily tell you're American by how ignorant you are of Europe. They're even more puritan than Americans and it's not even close. Americans are the "slutty" ones with sex and nudity everywhere. Europeans at least have some tradition left.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 12:45 AM
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It applies to every woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:30 PM
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I just said everyone is responsible for themselves... You need to reread.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:30 PM
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If you were a woman you would empathize with other women and not harm all women through "choosing" to objectify yourself. How convenient you "choose" (freely! /s) to do everything you're asked to do by perverts in power.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:29 PM
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Ok you're obviously trolling. I think you're a male too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:59 AM
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Vaginas literally get tighter after more sex, after more use of the muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:59 AM
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Bikinis were invented recently by old perverts for the sole purpose of looking sexual. Bikinis sacrifice function to sexualize women and turn them into a sick display for pedophiles and creeps. This is not up for debate. This is the only reason why bikinis were invented. If you are ok with bikinis you are insane or brainwashed. Or possibly you are one of the sick perverts yourself. The beach is not a bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:25 PM
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Women's beauty doesn't fade. They just become beautiful with a few crow's feet at 70.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:40 PM
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If you were wearing something so immodest it was at your knees, that is toddler length.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:36 PM
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It's more like 400. 300 is conservative. I'm not a whore, I'm not being abused by men so I don't starve. Whores are innocent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:36 PM
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Tell me how I know you're trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:35 PM
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Yeah but I believe it's round.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:35 PM
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I agree. Men need to learn accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:34 PM
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Still not old enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:00 AM
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They're not. Teenagers need c sections a lot. And they die more often. Hips don't stop growing until 18/19. Boobs don't stop growing until then either. And that's WITH puberty starting so early nowadays because of chemicals in food, water, and plastic screwing up our hormones. Even today, women don't reach full fertility until 21. So thinking women 20 or under are hot is LITERALLY pedophilia.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:31 AM
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One other person, ooobviously XD
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:23 AM
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Lynda Carter https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XWb4RCMS4J8
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:21 AM
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You think women peak when their hips aren't even wide enough to give birth?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:17 AM
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Silver foxes don't exist. Maybe on a woman silver hair can look cool but if you're a "silver" man you're just ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:17 AM
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I'm kidding I'm 0F, but on a large level I 100% believe that. On an individual level everyone is personally responsible for the sex they have. But it's literally men who ask for sex and make women have sex. It's not the women making men have it. So men are the promiscuous gender and women can't be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:16 AM
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2 is the worst number of people to have sex with. You said "so far" so I assume you'll have more. But if it was the person you'll spend the rest of your life with and one other, that's just unbearably sad. You were so close. Now you have to share your husband/wife as an "equal part" to someone else forever. Your spouse and 20 others isn't equal. It's 1 to 20, so it makes you spouse stand out at least. 1 to 1 is equal and unsettling. Having only 1 other person be a problem is such a concentrated …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:14 AM
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She's just pretty. Aging-wise she looks like a normal 37 year old. Normal 37 year old women look like that. He is ugly as heck and aged very poorly. An average granny who was a nurse during WW2 looks better than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:11 AM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:06 AM
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Well for the fake male pictures of the real women, you chose two very ugly women and then took their makeup away. >b-but rihanna and beyonce are queenz They're genuinely objectively ugly. Look at those features. And that's WITH professional care and makeup and photography and everything. It's the halo effect from being "glamorous" and famous. The real men also look worse at fake women. I blame that on the bad photo editing. And Hemsworth's forehead wrinkles and cheek sagging are gross ew. He's w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:03 AM
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Based. Save it for marriage or you're cringe though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:56 AM
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Women are the ones who can have more sexual partners without it being bad. Like it's bad, but it's men's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:55 AM
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>having sex with two people in your lifetime so far is puke inducing This but with absolutely zero irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:54 AM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:53 AM
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300ish, F Women can't be promiscuous because it's men who beg for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:52 AM
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If all men did this then women would have to too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:51 AM
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If she was fat and ugly she would've lost her virginity at 16 and have had at least 5 partners by 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:49 AM
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There is zero competition between old women and young women. There's only pretty and not pretty. Older women are prettier anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:47 AM
1

His hairline is nasty stop simping.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:44 AM
1

Women peak at 45.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:44 AM
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She's 37 and he's 71. He hit the wall 55 years ago and she's glowing. It's sad to see people care about money this much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:43 AM
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That's Katharine McPhee and she's 37. She was in the tv show Scorpion a few years ago and looked perfect. The wall doesn't exist. I have no idea why she's dating an old pervert. She's way too young and pretty for that. I didn't know she liked money so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:42 AM
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Dixie and Loren are the cutest. They're not old enough to be truly hot or beautiful yet so give it 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:36 AM
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Most of these girls aren't old enough yet to be attractive. They're cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:34 AM
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Yes, you are a pedo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:33 AM
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The last one is by far the oldest looking one out of all these. If you told me she was 43 I'd believe you in a heartbeat. Number 3 looks 14 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:32 AM
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Incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:30 AM
0

That type of language is from black women. But White girls have the same attitude, just less ghetto about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:27 AM
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You're joking, right? Absolutely no one can be this stupid. Your ad hominem turned this discussion into a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:26 AM
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Men are inherently valuable when they are young. They are attractive virgins. When they get old they lose their value and they need to do something epic to get a twentieth of the value they had before.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:15 AM
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I don't own a tv.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:06 AM
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Men have a choice to want or not want casual sex. Women have a choice to want or not want casual sex. People made their choices. It's like saying you don't have a choice to be the female ceo of the company you want because a male with a higher iq than you got the job already.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:41 AM
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Taking someone back after cheating isn't the same as being possessive. Women are a million times more, "My man, back off b*tch, stay away from my man, don't look at my man, that b*tch breathed around my man."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:58 AM
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And why is that? Because women choose to not give men access. Their own free choice. Things are equal. People made their choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:57 AM
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>It's not like women are nearly as possessive as men Women are WAY more possessive than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:03 AM
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This post is why men need to be oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:02 AM
1

You are obviously joking but I'll respond anyway. We don't want to go to the end. I'm not jealous of men (or women, whatever you meant). Perving is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:59 AM
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It's not women's fault that men are desperate for sex. Men and women are already equal when it comes to casual sex. It's your choice if you want to have casual sex. Many men are making that choice. Saying men and women aren't equal when it comes to sex is like when feminists say there is a wage gap. It's women's choice to make less money. Men and women are equal when it comes to money. Men and women are equal when it comes to casual sex. Men need to make better choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:24 PM
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Whose fault do you think it is? I think individual people are not innocent for wearing revealing clothing. It's their choice, which holds them accountable. But they have been brainwashed. They are sold very few options so that the only modest clothing is unfashionable and probably more expensive. And men are the ones who cut down women's skirts to such a short length that women's clothing resembles baby clothing now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:08 PM
1

So what are we debating about?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:35 AM
2

I want to give it to my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:06 AM
1

It's telling that men are the ones who shortened women's dresses to toddler length in order to serve their male gaze, and then men yell at and harass women for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:02 AM
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Men don't actually care about age. They want someone who looks nice. You can look 20 when you're 50 if you take care of yourself. Men still can't change height.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:00 AM
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Relationships that start as friendships almost always end up breaking up. >Otherwise it's just a Sexual/Business relationship That'd be true if the only 3 categories of life were friend, sex, and business. There are a lot more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 11:59 PM
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Dude what? I said you have no sexual feelings for friends. How do you interpret that as having no sexual feelings for your husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:42 AM
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There is no exact equivalent since men don't care about women's height but weight is the closest we have. Dick size is hidden until you choose to tell someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 12:35 AM
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Women don't have dicks so there's no real equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 12:31 AM
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The more intimate and close friends are the ones you want to have sex with even less.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 12:30 AM
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Disagree. Age, body count, and number of kids for women is the equivalent of age, body count, and number of kids for men. Height, face, and dick size for men are the equivalent of face, weight, boob size, and body for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:24 AM
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>Why do women seem to prefer long term relationships and commitment instead of just being best friends with sex? You don't want to have sex with friends. That's nasty. >Do you genuinely desire a man to devote and commit himself to you for the rest of his life That's the dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:20 AM
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NOT giving full commitment is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:16 AM
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After I want to spend my life with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:14 AM
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"Friends" aka just someone you know and hung around? Common enough. Actual friends? Extremely rare. They're not really friends then, are they.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:10 AM
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Not much for most people. You become a better version of you. You still look like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:04 AM
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That's the best part. It's an amazing experience you'll never get to do twice. You better not waste it. It's fun being wide eyed and excited having sex for the first time with the one you love.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 09:10 PM
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I'm so dreadfully sorry to break it to you, but some people like connecting with their spouse during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 08:39 PM
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I stopped reading at my friend not knowing the size of her husband's own dick lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 08:37 PM
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I meant 12 inches erect obviously. The girth is the size of her arm. I didn't know you were going to nitpick this hard. Girth mattering more than length is your opinion. Other women say the opposite. Your dick is not a 2l coke bottle but I already explained that women put gourds in there with no pain. The women are not turned on by you. If they were their vaginal muscles wouldn't reject you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 08:15 PM
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Sexual incompatibility literally doesn't exist. Stop worrying about it and it disappears. Haven't you ever noticed it's only people who don't truly love each other who whine about "incompatibility"? There is no such thing as "I love you and I'm crazy about you and touching you makes my brain melt with happiness but I'm iNcOMpAtIblE." Stop making up fake problems. Fix your little non-issue and if you can't you never loved them anyway. Only marry someone you love. What is this "through sickness an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 07:35 PM
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Sure it is the real modern world. That doesn't mean you have to wish it was this way. People need to be more vocal about their preferences if they want to see change. There are no upsides to a non-virgin. She's getting better at having sex with her ex, not with you. Every time she has sex with another man it takes her further away from the type of sex catered to you that you want. She's doing what HE wants. Not you. When you get a virgin you get the exact sex you want, you can perfect it. You do…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 07:21 PM
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Husbands don't get pregnant or breastfeed and women are more content and fulfilled to stay home while men's brains like providing. You're advocating for unhappiness and disrest. Do you think a husband who makes no money can want a wife who makes money? Didn't you say earlier that was hypocritical?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 07:15 PM
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If someone is panicked to be around you, they are not comfortable with YOU as a person. They don't feel emotionally good with you. It has nothing to do with how many sex partners they had. Do you really think virgins who fall in love are awkward and panicking or do you think they feel more natural and comfortable than they've ever been in their life. Not to sound all poetic but cuddling/making out/sex as a virgin who is in love feels like home. You will be at perfect ease (and excited obviously,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 07:09 PM
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>Getting married without having sex first is a great recipe to fuck up your marriage and end up in a divorce. This is so ridiculous I'm actually curious. Why do you think this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 07:05 PM
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So a woman who doesn't want to abandon her children for a stupid career should just marry a homeless guy then?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 07:03 PM
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I'm not saying cuckold as "a man who takes care of his wife's son," or "a man who watches his wife have sex." These are very literal definitions. Cuck is slang for someone who willingly gets sexually beaten out by another man with "his" woman. So if you're glad to have a woman who's centering her sexual being on "practicing" on another man, you are a very clinical case of cuck. Every time you have sex with her you know she got that from another man. That's beyond insane. It would be depressing i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 07:00 PM
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I don't know what you mean. Someone wanting a virgin while they're not a virgin is hypocritical. A woman wanting a guy with a good career while she does not have a career is not hypocritical because her role is to take care of the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 06:54 PM
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This is a dumb thing that people say. People know when a lot of things are good and bad without having references. It's innate. To give a common vulgar example that I hear a lot, you don't have to eat shit to know it tastes bad. People imagine what their dream sex is like without having had it. You'd have to be really detached out of your mind to not be able to tell how your own body and mind feels during sex, with no references required.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 06:48 PM
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I mean that's not a good example because while both partners need to be virgins, one partner should actually be at home to take care of the kids. It's better for the kids that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 06:45 PM
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Experience in carpentry? Wonderful! "Experience" putting his penis inside another woman? Nice euphemism for he is not worth your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 06:44 PM
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This is just a cuckold fetish. "I want my girl to get really really really good at breaking another guy's dick, and make him feel soooo good, I want her to master his dick, and do it with him so much so often, so that when she has sex with me after, I don't have to bother telling her how I like to have sex." This is literal insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 06:38 PM
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When will people stop spreading this myth? It has been proven in every single study ever taken on the subject that couples who wait for marriage have more satisfying sex. Non-virgins have worse sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 06:36 PM
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If a guy is "freaked out" to cuddle/kiss someone it has absolutely nothing to do with their sexual status. They simply don't like the person they are with in some way. They don't feel good around them. A virgin would be the most comfortable kissing and cuddling because they value intimacy and saved it for one person they really love and are comfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 06:34 PM
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>You won’t find your dream virgin unicorn who suddenly turns pornstar the minute you marry her in the west. This sounds pretty normal. Assuming by "pornstar" you mean having frequent fun sex, which porn actors do not have.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 03:40 AM
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Women like young, cute, doll faced guys. Redpill men are older, past their prime, not cute, and can't accept this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 04:22 PM
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Young feminine guys have always been the most popular. When women aren't fighting to survive they want a pretty boy, not a sexy masculine man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 04:20 PM
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Does casual sex require respect to you? I think casual sex is an inherent lack of respect for the person you're doing it with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 11:54 PM
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When you're 30 you're married and not interested in women anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:55 AM
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No it's not. The goal for low value men is to have babies with as many women as possible and pray the babies don't die. Rakes can't even do THAT. They have a couple babies with one woman if any (and she likely has kids by another man). Meanwhile the high value man who got a wife has 40 grandkids already.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:46 AM
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Yeah 12 year old men (but even they prefer like 23 actually so never mind).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:44 AM
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That explains why guys who have sex with more than one women think they're cool when they're the biggest biological losers on the planet. They think they're making babies. In reality they're on the road to dying childless and they're incapable of getting their sperm where it's supposed to go. I don't know how to tell you this but women don't respect the men they fuck. They see them as dildos.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:21 AM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:19 AM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 03:50 AM
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Are guys really attracted to 18 year olds or is it the push up bras and makeup? Women are not fully fertile until at least 21, and their boobs and hips are still growing at 18. Guys are not attracted to 18-20 years olds. 21 at the earliest and that's if she's mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 02:11 AM
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Husband material - attractive, and everything else she could want Fwb material - attractive, not much else, and she has zero respect for you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 02:08 AM
1

What about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 12:21 AM
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It sounds like you're compensating for something. There's no way you unironically have this opinion. It's psychotic. So you think almost everyone is "lazy, entitled, childish, or lacks ambition." Meanwhile people who have a fetish for wasting insane amounts of money and don't want to be around their own family are normal and cool to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 12:19 AM
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Daniel Craig aged okay. He's decent looking despite his wrinkles and sagging, not with it. Blonde hair is good, and that phenotype seems to show aging less. The light blue eyes due him favors. His jowls are bad. Men seem to scowl a lot and even young men have forehead wrinkles and crow's feet. Men age poorly from the start while women seem to only get wrinkles later. If I'm judging Craig from an aesthetic view he's ok. If I were to judge him based on physical or sexual attraction he's horrid. Wr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 12:17 AM
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Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 11:53 PM
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I didn't ask if you were a man. Athletic male bodies start looking gross after their mid 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:06 AM
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>If you live with your mom at 20 and all you do is hang on Instagram then you're not an adult, you're mentally 14. Um good? >Next time I have a young girl over I'll tell her that "you're totally in charge honey!" Oh man and they were younger than you? You're even more beta than I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:45 AM
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You're not judging based on attractiveness. You're judging based on how much you can steal his money. I'm talking about attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:44 AM
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I think the opposite. The mature and refined look looks great on women. It's fashionable and classy and makes her look elegantly sophisticated and less like a child. On men it's kind of disgusting. I dislike facial hair but at least that's subjective. Athletic fit men in their late 20s have terrible bodies compared to younger fit men. I think mostly everyone recognizes this, as for example David's Michelangelo (as well as all depictions of beautiful male bodies) look very young and not at all li…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:35 AM
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Living with your parents is too standard to even call it a good thing, but it is a good thing. People who don't live with their parents (and are not married) are creepy. And hysterically stupid. >I once had a pair of Instathots over for a weekend They make the rules. Women control your life so much you literally let women who you think are destitute, morally and otherwise, into your home.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:17 AM
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Women always make the rules because males are the whore gender. When there's an imbalance of who wants sex, the one who wants it less will make the rules. Money doesn't matter. It's hilarious how men think they're in control, "he can kick her," as if she wasn't just scooping cash out of him that he spends long hours earning, and she'll go leave for some younger guy she's actually attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 03:45 AM
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Liking a wallet? Makes sense. Liking wrinkles? I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 03:41 AM
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Guys who say that have never met a 20 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:29 AM
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Haha women do not prefer "mature" men. They (the ones who are ok with older men) prefer slow beta wallets.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:29 AM
1

I complain about both. 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:28 AM
1

Yes it's bad to look like you're dating your child.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 02:43 AM
1

I care about what? What they think? Absolutely not, or else I wouldn't have called them disgusting, obviously. Great I love being a bigot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:38 AM
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Where did I imply that I care what they think about me?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:31 AM
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When you think about it, the 50 Shades of Grey situation needed to the guy to have wealth and fame so he would be safe. What she actually wanted was his good looks and dominant personality/dominance in bed. She never cared about his money or status. A janitor who wants to do intense sexual things would make her feel unsafe, no matter how hot the janitor is. He's sketchy because he's a janitor. The guy being wealthy and famous means he is well known and connected to the world, people know who he …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 03:27 AM
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Yeah this is disgusting as hell. https://www.instagram.com/p/CLRKFqVFwBA/ They look like dad and daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 03:21 AM
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You don't seem to applaud chastity. You bash it by saying non-chastity is better and chaste people don't know what they're talking about. Virgins are better at sex. This is common knowledge. Virgins are better because they are connected to the person and they know what that person likes instead of knowing what their ex liked. Practicing on your ex makes you worse with this new person. She's not the same person. For me to place my personal opinion on it would be retarded. How many guys would I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 12:59 AM
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Women who are pretty don't care about success (assuming you mean rich and stable). The shallow things in a partner pretty women care about are looks and popularity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 12:24 AM
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I refuse to date a man who needs to practice sex or has experienced having sex with other women. You get better when you have sex with the same person. Otherwise you get worse. You can just stop typing now because you know there's a 0% chance I will listen to you. Non-virgin men are so gross it's not even an option to me. They are trash in every way, both morally and in bed. I have enough *promiscuous* friends to know non-virgin men are murder in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 12:18 AM
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Yes they do. I can't find one single example of a high quality woman with an older man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 12:15 AM
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Old trolls settle for older women. Young men date young women. Yes old trolls are uglier than young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 02:52 AM
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Men's signs of aging are more dramatic and visible, and they look worse when they're aged. Men with wrinkles are more unattractive than women with wrinkles. Men tend to be more saggy at a younger age. >Women have to use makeup to feel like they're on par with a man in terms of dressing up and looking their best. Because women are brainwashed by corporations to wear makeup and corporations did not do the same to men. Women have to wear makeup to be on par with other women. No one wears makeup bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:22 PM
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Hahahahahahaha. Men who try to date younger women are on average 5 times uglier than normal men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:16 PM
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The obsession with women aging is in attempt to disassociate their own aging by shifting it to the other group. Men age significantly worse than women. In a basic case of hypocrisy, they feel they can be gross as long as the group they're attracted to looks ok. Unattractive (aged) people (men) overestimate their attractiveness, or feel their own unattractiveness doesn't matter, and want to date people more attractive than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:39 PM
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You won't see that you're wrong because you won't get a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:28 PM
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I was thinking the same thing in other ways too. They delete their exploration, their effort, their attractiveness, their interest, their excitement. You can be assured the "get fat after marriage" trope is from non-virgin women. A person just starting to have sex would not get fat then. A virgin would want to impress their spouse even more. >This means that they are already familiar with what they are into and what they aren't into and have little reason to be sexually-explorative with their pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 07:24 AM
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It's because they don't have previous sexual partners, causing them to feel more intimate, special, grateful for, happy, connected, and loving with the person they have. Having one partner for life is healthy, and healthy means more sex. More partners is unhealthy so that means less sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:02 AM
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So they cope better than everyone else you mean? Since priests molesting anyone is much rarer than doctors, teachers, daycare workers, and the general public molesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:16 AM
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> If a guy is getting into a marriage with a fellow virgin, it’s very likely that marriage will probably go into dead bedroom Completely wrong. Virgins at marriage have 15% more sex than non-virgin couples. If you get married to a non-virgin, dead bedroom is likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 01:53 AM
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I don't care about height and I'm against age gaps. My s/o was 4(ish?) inches shorter than me when I met him and started liking him
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 11:03 PM
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This is at least more true than "women want older men." Women don't want older men. Why would a date on the calendar matter? Women want men who have certain real life traits, not abstract thoughts like "when is your birthday." Women want to be youthful so a partner who looks younger than her (no matter what his age is) could make her insecure. Women almost always look younger than men even if the man is younger. To flip that and have the woman look older might be on par with the woman being tall…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 01:47 AM
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You're asking the wrong person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 04:54 AM
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If your definition of cuck includes someone who's ok with their s/o watching porn, and you know someone is ok with their s/o watching porn, it's literally not judgmental to call them a cuck. That's not what judgmental means. He has enough information.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 12:39 AM
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Why do you do that? I can see if you want to more easily imagine you and her in their place, so you want the porn couple to look like you and her. But it sounds like you meant that you'd want her to fap to guys who look like you, which is even more cucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 12:37 AM
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Experience doing what? Having sex with other women? Why would you want a guy who has experience doing that? >a virgin man is going to be trash in bed Literally what. Men do not perform in bed. They thrust their hips. Avoid men who say "experience" is a good thing. It's a euphemism for literally just sleeping with other women. A virgin is the only one who's going to be good in bed. All other men have detrimental preconceived notions about what the woman would like. Women like things in bed that o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 12:34 AM
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The absolute hottest porn actress is not going to hold a candle to millions of other women you could be thinking about instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 05:33 AM
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That's what I'm saying. Why like the women in porn when you can like 3 billion other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 05:25 AM
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None of the women they would like will ever do porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 05:08 AM
6

Suicide hotlines are abusive now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 04:45 AM
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I don't watch porn and I said I found out when I was 20 that people are actually interested in the porn actors while watching porn. I always thought they liked looking at the sex, not at the women or men. I'm still not all that convinced guys are regularly imagining banging HER and not just imagining another girl in her place. Doesn't that make more sense? Don't you have anyone you're more into than the porn actress?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 04:37 AM
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He's not judging. Judging means placing traits onto someone that you wouldn't properly know about. He knew enough information to properly call people cucks. It's not a judgment. It's true by his definition of cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 01:21 AM
1

Why do you want the guy to look like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 12:00 AM
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Ironically this comment makes you seem insecure. Going around calling someone insecure for no reason because they didn't like something you like (porn) makes you seem insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 11:56 PM
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Probably not honesty. I was 20 years old when I found out people fantasize about having sex with the porn actress when watching porn. I went my whole life thinking people were turned on by watching the physical stimulation and positions. Wanting to have sex with the porn actress is bizarre, even from the coomer's perspective. Like out of all the people in the world you want to think about her? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 11:54 PM
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Not letting your s/o watch porn isn't abuse holy fuck. Letting them watch porn is neglect at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 11:50 PM
1

It's just my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 04:46 AM
4

You are having trouble understanding why someone wouldn't want the person they love to have had sex with someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 03:18 AM
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I think she just loves him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 12:43 AM
2

Yeah, I kind of don't want my own husband having had sex with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 12:02 AM
1

I wasn't less developed. Average height. I dressed normally. No makeup. I had very very long hair which made me look older probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:49 PM
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I have to take Michael because Brad is not a virgin. If Brad was a virgin I'd much rather pick him, no contest. The reason why is because of his attractive face. Michael seems a bit creepy though, studying seduction is weird. And self-deprecation is annoying. I'd pass on both.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:23 PM
1

Ok freakazoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:16 PM
1

When I was 19 people thought I was 13-14. We really don't have different faces. Maybe you're tricked by makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:15 PM
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Today, 19 year olds aren't fully fertile yet, even the ones who hit puberty really early. Normally, it's even later. Puberty normally starts at 15ish when there aren't chemicals in the water. I'm also confused by your comment. What do you want to do with a middle schooler, maybe freshman, just because she looks a few years older?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 04:39 AM
2

I'm not yet sure if OP isn't also hypocritical himself. He seems more sympathetic to men in both situations instead of being consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:22 AM
0

I'm sure the people who say not wanting the man to watch porn is abusive are the same people who say not wanting the woman to use sex toys is abusive. And the people who disagree with one disagree with both. Unless someone's being a hypocrite then they're probably just biased towards women. >He can be completely unsatisfied with the frequency or quality of sex, but his concerns don’t matter. Even though he is the one who has to resort to an alternative, she feels like the victim in this situatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:14 AM
1

Trophy wives are usually the sameish age unless they guy is really old like 50+ (which is rare, and then everyone starts calling the relationship creepy). Guys like that are usually famous and not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 11:51 PM
1

Yeah probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 11:48 PM
1

Trophy wife has nothing to do with age. It's when a guy gets a wife he doesn't love just because she's hot and it will make him look good to have her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 11:46 PM
1

Yeah sitcoms are totally real. Dude trophy wives are like 45 years old, not 25. And trophy wives means a hot plastic woman marrying a rich guy so he can show her off. It has nothing to do with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 11:42 PM
1

I said you're not a pretty girl because you're a guy. Did you assume I'm also a guy or are you so offended pretty girls are not attracted to older guys you want to insult me?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 11:38 PM
2

Yeah I agree with everything you said. Guys who say teenagers are hot are clearly duped by makeup. Teenagers scientifically do not have the fully attractive faces yet, and they wear makeup to look older.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 11:30 PM
1

You're not a pretty girl. You obviously wouldn't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 11:22 PM
1

Obviously not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 11:15 PM
1

To your reality maybe. My reality is out of thousands of people I know/know of, no one likes age gaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 11:12 PM
1

No I'm out of college. I'm just talking about the "type" of person, not that we're literally still in art class.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 11:08 PM
0

Of course you'd want high value women to like you. Why would you want low value women to like you? It makes it seem even more of a cope. As I said, no, I'm very social, so I'm friends with everyone from the popular kids to the weird art kids. The prettier the girl, the more obvious it is she'll date a guy her own age. The only girls I know who have small gaps (a few years, so not really a gap) were the green haired fat art girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 11:03 PM
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Not in America I guess then? Are age gaps a more European thing? It's not really possible that none of the girls I've ever met, heard of, or friends of friends of friends I've seen on instagram like older guys, if it's as common as you say it is. I'm extremely social and I can assure you even the most liberal girls don't like age gaps. This "30 year old men are attractive to women in their 20s" seems like utter cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 10:58 PM
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You're probably being a normal guy and assuming girls are flirting with you when they're not. What you're saying just really isn't believable. If older guys were getting girls, girls would be interested in older guys (age 40), and they're not. Since girls know that girls are not interested in older guys, there is a clear disconnect here. The disconnect is probably from the male tendency to severely overestimate flirting. Sam Elliot, or Sean Connery or Burt Reynolds Celebrities don't count but al…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 10:45 PM
1

Almost. Saying women peak at 35-40 is about 5-15 years off the mark. Saying men peak at 50 is 30-35 years off the mark. You may be doing the math and saying 15 what, but that's the age I've noticed guys have the most objectively beautiful faces. (I'm not attracted to 15 year olds I'm just being judgmental.)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 10:39 PM
3

Surely you realize how rare that is? Any popular boy at school is beating girls off with sticks. For an older guy to be doing that is very unlikely. Guys lose attention as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:47 AM
1

They see themselves as innocent but men as criminal/dangerous. Men are just as hypocritical though. They won't let their daughters date older guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:43 AM
3

Women like wealth if they need it to survive (in modern times, survive means financially survive, not life and death like it used to mean). When that's not a factor, women are even pickier on looks than men. What women genuinely prefer are younger hotter guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:42 AM
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Young women are able to date chads their own age. When men get older, they lose their chadness, so men your age are more equal to each other. I assume you were average then, and you're average now, but you don't have the competition of hot men your age because they're aren't many anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:41 AM
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Especially old Hollywood. The women have smooth milky faces and the men have severely visible wrinkles. It's really unsettling and it never looked normal to me as a kid. It's naturally gross. Hollywood has always been a degenerate industry from day one. But what's funny is in real life, many of these actors who had roles with younger women were married to women their age or way older than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:37 AM
3

This. I see so many old creeps after they get rejected by a younger woman for being too old say "But young women love older guys!" ...literally right after they got rejected for being too old. Older guys are delusional. They insult us that it's "jealousy" when we really just want younger men and think old guys are gross and creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:32 AM
2

No, it couldn't actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:31 AM
3

The answer is easy. If you're single, not in love, and don't already have someone, you'd want a young person. Young people are hotter and healthier and have less baggage. The only other reason you'd not want a younger person is the reason some women have for being ok with older men - money. Men especially age poorly and are way hotter when they're younger. No one wants to be past their prime. It's better to be way ahead of your prime than a minute past it. That's why men are trying to make older…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:28 AM
1

Children or spouse. I really don't see how someone could love another family member or friend unconditionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:59 AM
9

Guys are not quitting porn because they suddenly got a hot girlfriend. You're also not going to be your husband's wife for a long time (probably all his teenager years).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:25 AM
1

I'd argue cutting yourself off from friends of the same gender is cheating-behavior. If you're that out of control and worried you're going to cheat that you can't even have friends, you are clearly not a loyal person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:18 AM
1

If you're that much of an out of control freakazoid that you can't be friends with the opposite gender without wanting to cheat, then don't have friends. Fine. But for normal people cheating with their friends doesn't cross their mind. They are friends after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:16 AM
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As an above average woman, it would kill me too. I can't stand the person I love being hurt. Almost all women feel this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:12 AM
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You failed to explain your position. You only stated it. I also don't think you actually believe this. You just want to insult people into not talking about an issue you probably have.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:10 AM
1

There is no honeymoon phase. If you have a "honeymoon phase," you never liked them that much in the first place, you just thought you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 01:02 AM
1

Men peak at a way earlier age than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 03:04 AM
2

This is just objectively false.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 03:04 AM
1

All your points are common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 03:01 AM
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It's not about other people. It's not even about morals. When you love someone you just don't want other people. Other people are (sexually/romantically) gross. You want to give everything to the person you love and you want them to be happy and special. You wouldn't want to cheat. That's stronger than even not cheating due to morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 01:03 AM
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I don't care what men like in a woman. I'm not trying to be attractive to men. I don't know where you got "condescending" from. I defended myself simply against your random attack. I also don't know where you got "insults" from. I objectively did not insult you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 05:25 AM
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What are you, gay? A woman is literally the only one who would be able to tell you how to love a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 04:55 AM
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If you define your worth by a career, and you are ok with your wife doing the same, you will never be loved in your entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 03:56 AM
1

Gonna report this to reddit for hate speech (jk but come on seriously). Young men are not worthless. That's an extremely fucked up thing to say. Having a career does not make you worth anything different. You would wife up someone your age. because you are also old too. If you wanted a young woman you should've married earlier and not wasted time on a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 03:55 AM
1

Yeah I agree that's what I'm saying. Redpill is anti-male.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 03:16 AM
3

This is why age gaps need to be frowned upon more. I'm very confused why redpill guys seem to like age gaps when age gaps are so anti-male. Age gaps are basically calling young men worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 02:20 AM
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This is easily solved by women marrying guys they love. If you love someone, you're not going to require he's "established" before you commit to him. You'll commit and he can establish himself later whenever he can. This is why I'm so against age gaps and you can't change my mind. Age gaps are the antithesis of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 02:16 AM
1

It's even more important that men marry young because men generally have a harder time staying moral before marriage. But both genders need to marry young.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 02:12 AM
2

Sorry?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 04:37 AM
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According to redpill theory, why aren't these men all dating 23 year olds? Who's going to stop them? Why are they all dating women way past the "wall" age?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 04:48 AM
1

So do women. For fun I was looking at wikipedia and a ton of women that have a bunch of husbands (like 2-4) get remarried to guys many years younger than them later.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 04:47 AM
2

Great proof that age gaps suck and are almost always purely transactional shallow relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 04:41 AM
2

This. Being thick used to be in fashion for all of history until Twiggy in the 1960s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 05:55 PM
-1

Ok? Thanks for telling me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 05:34 AM
-1

College girls would not do this. It's 30-40 year old women that prey on 20 something year old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 05:23 AM
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Or they don't want sex with other people. Or they want sex but they're not trying. Those are much more likely than your scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 04:35 PM
0

Ugly dudes are never virgins unless they're also shy. Ugly dudes seem to have more sex than average dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 06:08 AM
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Yes this is exactly the type of thing I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 06:07 AM
1

Some people like to act like professionals when they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 06:06 AM
0

I'm talking about 30-40 year old women who have no disgust reaction and like to play the "leader" role in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:39 AM
-2

What do you mean you haven't met them? How many women have you talked to about this? It's those women who have 50 partners and are willing to "help" a nerdy guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 04:22 AM
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I think men who shame men for dating younger women (because they don't want it to happen to their sisters/daughters/etc) genuinely know it's immoral for everyone, and their protection of women they care about is what drives them to say age gaps are not ok. This applies to men who both would and would not date younger women. I know women who are not promiscuous shame men and women who are promiscuous because they recognize turning the deeply intimate and loving act of sex into an activity for mul…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 03:59 AM
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I don't think anyone is a virgin not by choice. There are plenty of skinny 3-5/10 trashy party hoes who will hook up with ANY guy. Plenty of women think it's cute to give the ugly guy sex. Men are probably virgins past a certain age (late 20s) because they're not trying, assuming they want casual sex in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 03:41 AM
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>People get tired and bored with each other after about 6 months. Great reason to stop hooking up then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 03:33 AM
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Legality does not determine morality. You'll notice that the only defense of age gap relationships is "they're an adult!" as if you'd be totally against it if the law changed the age of consent to 30 tomorrow. The main reason I'm against age gaps is it is against loving relationships. Age gap relationships are almost always transactional and the two people aren't really a genuine "couple" even, they're just two very separate people who are sucking something out of the other. The second reason th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 09:32 PM
0

I confirmed I am right again.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/21 03:02 AM
2

It's literally adultery...
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/21 02:43 AM
0

Ok. Now what?
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/21 02:32 AM
1

This. I mean, these are incredibly poor examples because almost every single man is stronger and the vast majority of men are taller. You can always find someone your age. But I'm with you on the richer part.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:30 AM
2

Saying any man can't be promiscuous is out of touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 05:55 AM
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Any man, including the extremely deformed, can be promiscuous. The only men who say they can't are porn addicted 3-4/10s who only want 8+/10 blonde women when they could easily be sleeping with 500 women if they lowered their standards. (And they're probably shy and not even talking to women.) Especially any White man no matter how hideous will easily get many brown/black/Asian women. I also used to think attractive guys were the ones who slept around because I was told that and it was implied i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 05:58 PM
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-1
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 05:55 AM
1

Yes very.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 05:49 AM
1

He needs to be able to get someone his own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 05:48 AM
2

I can't find where I said that. Maybe you're talking to the wrong person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 05:48 AM
-1

Marry a man that doesn't prefer someone younger. Aka any normal man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:52 AM
1

Because it's pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:51 AM
6

Nah lack of self esteem and self control are not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:51 AM
3

The only reason a woman is promiscuous is because men like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:50 AM
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"Yes I love sharing my resources with other women who steal my man's attention away from me." Women are known even more so than men for being extremely jealous. Women are disgusted by promiscuous men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 04:58 PM
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>The wife is away for a week on a business trip. Don't have a working wife first of all. Second, awesome. Even more fun anticipating her coming back that would be totally ruined by your porn addiction. >Have you found every person you were with unconditionally perfect? You mean one person. Yes. You don't seem to understand ugliness is adorable when you love someone. >Are you describing men who have watched any porn? Yeah pretty much. >Are you asking both parts of the couple? I said couple, so ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 04:21 PM
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Same reason women find men's promiscuity repulsive. It shows he lacks control, doesn't value himself, gets used like a toy and allows it to happen. It's physically gross to be touching more than one person sexually. It's biological and natural to be repulsed by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:52 PM
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>They can’t be together 24/7 and there’s no need for someone to wait for their partner to come home when porn is right there for sexual gratification. Basic loyalty? Liking your wife at all? Loving your wife? This sounds beyond miserable. Have fun waiting for your wife to come home like a functional human being. >More importantly, porn offers a wider array of fantasies than what your partner may be willing or able to do. Why are you turned on by something your partner doesn't want to do? Yuck. >…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:46 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:54 AM
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Unless you want mental illnesses and broken families, you need to be monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 09:44 PM
1

Of course a married person is more attractive than an unmarried one. Being married is a good quality. We can of course assume a guy is not (or at least less of) a slut if he's married. Women hate sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:56 PM
1

Evolutionary psychology never provides "sources." That's not the type of science it is. It's entirely about about logic. It's not about studies (aka sources).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:26 PM
1

Women will tell you this too, maybe especially women who have a harder time getting guys (not as pretty, chubby, shy, nerdy, etc), but all women experience it. That doesn't mean men want non-virgins, it means people are more social with "social" people. And probably that guys talk about women with their guy friends and then give said women attention. If people are "in" the dating realm they'll get more daters. This isn't surprising in the slightest and has nothing to do with wanting "sluts." If …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:24 PM
1

I didn't miss that at all. I addressed it thoroughly in my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:23 PM
1

Good thing divorce is not about change.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:22 PM
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"People like pizza because other people like pizza, not because pizza is a food that tastes good to many people." Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:19 AM
3

It's the fever from all his STDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:08 AM
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She wanted the guy who asked her out to keep liking her for her own vanity. She got mad he went to another woman. And she said ok fine come back, feed my ego again. Pre-selection is not a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:04 AM
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This has absolutely nothing to do with pre-selection. She wanted what she couldn't have. She had her eye on you/wanted you as her simp/or whatever and got mad when another woman took you away. That's literally the opposite of wanting a male slut. She DOESN'T want you to have other women. You are strangely interpreting the behavior as "women want the men other women want" instead of the obvious: people want what they can't have. They get desperate and shoot their shot once they realize it's slipp…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:55 AM
3

It's also biologically illiterate. "Yes I love sharing my man's resources with other women," said no woman ever. It logically makes no sense. The claim is a woman would like a guy who had sex with other women. How does she know that? Did she watch him do it? Does he just claim he did? Does she assume? What causes her to make that assumption - THAT'S the traits she should be judging instead. What causes her to believe or disbelieve his claim - THAT'S what she judges. If women actually liked non-v…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:44 AM
1

Both. Both are disgusting (and sad).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:08 AM
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Yeah I said the same thing. I think that's a point against age gaps. Even the people who have age gaps are going for someone who at least looks the same age as them. It's like people naturally steer clear from presenting like there's a gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:07 AM
1

I thought that too. Humphrey Bogart is another example of an actor who kept having roles with much younger women, but all his wives in real life were only 1-2 years younger. Except Lauren Bacall, who he got together with because of their movie roles, who was his 4th wife. She was much younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 01:35 AM
1

mfw when two 12 year olds are not allowed to date (Kids dating that young IS actually a little strange, I'm just making a joke and I know the rule only applies to above 18)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 01:08 AM
1

I do notice that 95% of women who are dating older guys look old for their age. Whenever you hear a 19 year old is dating some 35 year old rapper the 19 year old always could be 35 (not ugly or wrinkly just very mature looking). I was going to say Rihanna but she is actually older than Chris Brown, then I was going to use Tyga but his baby mama was also older than him, so take Tyga's current girlfriend Camaryn Swanson who is 23. He's 31 but she looks the same age as him. I'm not defending a 23 a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 01:06 AM
3

Shakespeare, Napoleon, Mussolini, Karl Marx, William II, George Washington, and the voice of Kermit the Frog all had older wives, just to give a few very famous examples. The list goes on and on and on. Marrying an older woman has always been very common. It's weird to not see it as perfectly normal (as long as the woman isn't too much older because big age gaps are an issue). Clark Gable (the guy from Gone With the Wind) had a wife who was 17 years older which is just creepy. Or like Guy Ritchi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 12:46 AM
1

Nothing obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:33 AM
1

Then until "marriage" without the certificate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 04:06 AM
1

You can put sexual overtones in after you know you want to marry her (and will).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 03:52 AM
2

That's creepy as hell. Do not put sexual under/overtones into conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 03:08 AM
1

So you enjoy being a decent person? What's the difference between flirting and being nice to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 01:55 AM
1

If you're actually in love the attraction never fades or ebbs at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 01:38 AM
0

Then it's not flirty. Flirting is in your thoughts not in your personality. What would naturally flirty even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 01:37 AM
2

No, it's the "incels" who are flirty with a lot of women. (Not using the term derogatorily but you know.) Normal guys, guys who aren't desperate, are not flirty most of the time. Just stay single if you want to flirt after getting into a relationship. What do you mean you like making people happy? That's being a normal human being, that's not flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 01:36 AM
12

I was going to say ridiculous man for sure but did you say he flirts with women? I can't have that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 05:10 AM
1

There's no such thing as being skilled or unskilled in bed. You're either into it or you're not. "Just thrust your hips better, bro."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 05:06 AM
1

They were open to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 05:03 AM
1

Who cares about what people say? You know if you're going to potentially get divorced or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 02:45 AM
1

Yeah that's why they call it a rape fantasy. Because it's technically rape in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 02:01 AM
1

I have a 0% chance of getting divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 03:21 AM
1

Same, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 01:57 AM
0

Stay single then. Used men are not cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 03:14 AM
0

I'm not in college. Why is a 50 year old single haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 02:54 AM
0

I'm not checking to see the guy's birthday. It's just roughly. A year or so older or younger is practically the same age. 3 years older is actually older. I didn't say 24 was ok, I would prefer if 24 year olds did not flirt with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 02:45 AM
0

Yeah probably because women are a lot less creepy than guys. When I'm 25 I won't mind a 25 year old guy obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 02:37 AM
1

Huh? 25 year old men are gross and way too old.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 02:13 AM
14

>"Oh shit this hot guy just threw me on my bed and uses me for sex against my will till i consent midway eventually" Take that part out. It's not even without consent. She already consented in her head but didn't say it out loud to the guy. It's literally just spontaneous sex that is a bit rougher. She wants him, he just grabs her, done. That's a "rape" fantasy. So if you see any statistic where more than a very small amount of women (who have trauma) want rape fantasies, keep in mind that's wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 10:29 PM
2

Yup that's weird. It looks like his niece.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 07:48 PM
0

No I never get flirted with by older men. I get more 15 year olds flirting with me than 23-24 year olds. By mid 20s I meant 25-27 though. That would be pretty uncomfortable. I am normal. Most other girls feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 07:46 PM
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I think a 35 year old women can easily look basically identical as her 25 year old self if she stays healthy. For men it's harder because men keep changing and then turn into men if that makes sense. Maybe it's just my preference for a pretty boy over a masculine one but men in their 30s definitely decline and it's nearly impossible to look as youthful as they did when they were in their 20s. Women don't really change, they just get signs of aging like wrinkles and stuff, which can be prevented.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 07:43 PM
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A natural feeling. Women are often scared of sexual advances by unsafe men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 05:38 AM
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I agree with you and being aroused by one person in your life is the only thing that's normal. Being aroused by two people is depressing. You'll never be as happy as you could have been feeling that for one person. It's also just weird to experience that type of thing for a bunch of people. It's inherently a very personal and "giftable" thing. Giftable meaning you give it to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 05:23 AM
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Agree. Anyone who gets romantic love will want nothing else in the world more than that in their life. Polygamy is a mega cope for not finding someone you can fall in love with. "B-but some men just want polygamy." No they don't. They don't have real feelings for one woman or else they'd only want her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 05:21 AM
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Because 20 year old boys blow 40 year old men out of the water when it comes to looks? That doesn't mean they should want him. They should have been married decades ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 04:55 AM
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Mexico is more obese than America but yeah I was talking about young people intentionally to show how being unhealthy leads you to decline by 25. Adults are way more obese than teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 04:23 AM
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20s no. 20 year old men are better. 40s yes but they might be worried about what people think so they'd just stick with a guy their age even though he's less desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 04:21 AM
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About 1 in 3 teenagers are obese (in Mexico) so yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 03:55 AM
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30 year old high value men have been married to a woman their age for the last 5 years. High value men aren't looking around for girlfriends at 30. I think the reason that women in their 30s complain about not finding good men is because people in general are not good marriage material in their 30s. They've already had a bunch of partners, baggage, they're getting annoyed and tired of their present lives. Women don't want men like that, even though the women themselves are like that too. If they…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 03:30 AM
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>Marques Houston >hot Also had to look up this literal who. I also just looked up his wife and she looks the same age as him. I'd never guess she's 19. The few young women who do date older guys never look young.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 03:19 AM
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I see how people competing for the same thing would stir jealousy. The problem is they're not competing for the same thing. And it's not like men are in limited supply. 20 year old women want guys their own age and so do 30 year old women. There's not a lack of 30 year old men because some other age bracket is stealing them. 30 year old women have no issue getting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 03:02 AM
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They want a 22 year old boy? Doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:47 AM
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To be fair I heard that Leo did know the girl since she was 11 so that is grooming. I don't know the story though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:36 AM
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I'd definitely say she's creepy if she knows what she's doing. Letting an older guy touch you because you like his wallet is absolutely creepy and unsettling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:35 AM
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They don't though? What age of younger women are you talking about? Early 20s? That's my age and I've never seen a 30-50 year old women be catty to me, my friends, or anyone I know. That's ridiculous. They're extremely nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:32 AM
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I can't even imagine how unhealthy you have to be for your looks to start fading at 22-25. You should be getting hotter and hotter at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:30 AM
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What I mean is a woman will be jealous of women who are prettier in their prime than she was in their prime. That's what natural features means. I'm not correlating that with age at all, age is a separate thing. The way I'm saying it, an 80 year old woman who used to be a 10 gets counted as prettier than a 30 year old 7/10. I know less about men than I do about women but I also haven't seen guys who are jealous of younger men with hair. They just wish they had hair again. Maybe they'd be jealous…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:17 AM
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I agree with this. Yeah you can argue 22 year old men are just way hotter and more appealing than 40 year old men with their youth and vigor. But if she was actually a top notch woman she'd be getting someone her own age because she can get someone her age who is those things. Same applies to men. You can say "oh he just likes younger women," but why? He can't get the best quality woman his age, so he uses youth as a "cheat." What I mean by cheat is that of course you're hot when you're young, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:54 AM
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Agree, but you should recognize that is because men are seen as threatening/able to do damage while women are seen as innocent/harmless. That is true all the time, not just for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:50 AM
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Total anecdote but I'm going to say it because it's the universal story. I know of a woman who is a land whale, aged terribly from smoking, drugs, bad childhood. Fully grey hair, only in her 40s. 4 kids from 3 different men. First baby out of wedlock. Divorced. Second husband died. She picked up a new husband less than a year after her husband's death. The husband is a regular guy, one who I'm sure trp would be saying would be going for "younger, hot women," but he didn't of course. Post-wall wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:47 AM
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TRP says the right thing for the wrong reason. Men AND women should focus on love in their 20s so they can have a happy marriage and kids. It's not because "women hit the wall" or whatever. It's because love is important and the most valuable. And yes we want to prevent people from sleeping around, so we do want them to marry and fall in love instead. But TRP will tell you that only applies to women which is sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:37 AM
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No lol. Women complaining about age gaps just think it's creepy and nasty. You (assuming you're male) just don't like that or don't relate to that, so you try to use an insult in attempt to shut women up to make the women stop saying things you don't like to hear. Age gaps are gross and weird sorry. I especially hate age gaps because I'm a young woman (22) and the thought of a 30 year old flirting with me scares me. Mid to late 20s also creeps me out a lot but 30 is just absolutely horrible. Why…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:29 AM
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That's not jealousy. Double standards are not cool but men are obviously seen as more dangerous while women are seen as needing to be protected. That's why a 50 year old man with a 30 year old woman is a little scary but J-Lo who's in her 50s getting with a 25 year old is seen as ok (it's not it's gross). What does any of this have to do with jealousy? It's just women being seen as less threatening than men which has always been true in every aspect of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:28 AM
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Exactly haha. Hot older men are married. This "hot older men want young women" is trp fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:23 AM
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I'm 22 and that sounds like the creepiest sh*t I've ever heard. No one is jealous, that's just freaky. Why do you think it's jealousy? Do you understand we just don't like it and there's no reason for a 34 year old man to not be with someone his own age?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:18 AM
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I've literally never seen an older woman be jealous of a younger woman. When older women are unhappy with their looks they're not comparing themselves to younger women. They're comparing themselves to how youthful they themselves used to look. They're not like, "Oh that other younger woman doesn't have wrinkles!" They are, "I wish I didn't have wrinkles, like how I used to be..." I've seen women get jealous of prettier women, as in their natural features, but never for aging. Is that even a thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:12 AM
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They are creepy and if they're going to do something creepy they can expect to be called creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:06 AM
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I've never heard of anyone doing this so it's probably just her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 02:53 AM
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Yeah definitely not. If an older dad wants to have kids that's great and fine. But men shouldn't be waiting until they're older to have kids on purpose, for many reasons, uglier kids included. It's just yet another reason age gaps are not good or natural. I also didn't even mention birth defects and miscarriages increasing when older men have kids. The list continues.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 02:30 AM
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"We found a significant negative effect between paternal age and people's facial attractiveness," Fieder said. "The age of the father at conception is not only a determinant of the risk for certain diseases but also predicts facial attractiveness." Martin Fieder, one of the study's research team leaders, added that because of genetic mutation, children born to younger fathers can be as much as 10 percent more attractive than children who have older fathers. https://www.techtimes.com/articles/472…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 09:15 PM
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I think it has more to do with the fact that an older hot woman is way more impressive. When you're 25 you should be hot, how can you not be. A hot 50 year old is really high quality for her age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 06:52 AM
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I told her she was beautiful and would totally date her of I was a little younger. You meant well but next time do not do this. Not only is it a weird thing to say, it doesn't allow her to really let go of it. Now it will be "what if."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 06:49 AM
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Avoiding eye contact is a lowkey, subtle rejection. I don't think it makes them feel bad. It just deprives them of getting closer/feeling intimate with you. >If she ever mentions it directly that will be my chance to set things straight and talk to her about it and why I am too old and too unavailable without making her feel rejected. I wouldn't do that. It turns the problem into a real scenario. Later when she wants to get over it, it's better that nothing happened except inside her head. Makin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 06:47 AM
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Serial monogamy doesn't make any sense. More than 1 is polygamy. "At the same time" doesn't mean anything. So if you flirt with a guy while breaking up with your ex you're polygamous but if you started flirting 5 seconds later you're monogamous? Time means nothing. It's number of partners. Monogamy is 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 05:31 AM
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Their faces are more physically attractive when they're younger than 25. Idk about their bodies. Men seem to lose beauty in the face a lot faster than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 05:28 AM
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If they tried they would be. Have you ever seen for example a mom and daughter and the mom is like 45-55 and they're modelling bikinis together. The mom always gets more attention from men and boys than the 20ish year old daughter. Not that I think this is ok. I think it's goofy and people shouldn't be coomers. People have no problem with old women. It's ugliness people have a problem with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 05:26 AM
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Age gaps should be discouraged for so many reasons. Let me just list 5 random ones off the top of my head (I could go on and on though). People should be monogamous and making one person wait longer (the male presumably) makes it less likely he will save sex for his wife. Both genders should find their spouse young. Older fathers have uglier kids. Avoiding age gaps means avoiding a lot of loveless, transactional relationships. Age as it relates to any possible desirable traits is worthless. It's…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 05:19 AM
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Don't acknowledge it or talk to her about it. Just treat her like normal. Treat her the same as a woman would handle a boy having a crush on her, you don't have to feel more awkward because you're a man. When I try to stop getting someone to like me I just keep acting normal but make less eye contact while talking. I don't know if that's good advice or not but it seems to get them to stop. Whatever you judge is best. Just don't ever talk to her about it, because that would create a really weird …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 05:03 AM
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Did you even read, or has the "you're just jealous" insanity really gone this far? "You're just jealous" is an insult. It's not an argument. And it's rarely ever accurate. No one is jealous of a child having a crush on an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 04:57 AM
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If you have feelings at all for the person, this is not an issue. "Sexual incompatibility" is for people who are just together and go through the motions of casual dating while not even reacting like there's a human being next to them. It's for people who don't actually care about anything but they're just existing emptily.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 06:23 PM
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So they people who say they are concerned about sexual incompatibility because they can't perform just don't know what they're talking about then? Of course things that are non-issues can have big effects on people's marriages. People divorce because they don't like the way their husband makes toast. This isn't about me, I don't know why you mentioned that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 01:22 AM
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What could you possibly be worried about not being compatible in unless you're insecure in the way you have sex? See this is what I mean. Differences in libido is such a non-issue it's literally laughable. Find someone you care about and this is not an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:40 PM
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I'm just confused why you are asking if it's possible when it has happened millions of times. If the HVM is not satisfied by his woman, is he really high value? Why was he not able to get a woman who satisfies him? If he was high value he'd be able to. I'm actually not sure what beta out means. Just act like a beta in general? If the woman was attracted to him before, why would she lose attraction to him when he continues his same behavior? If the LVC were together in the first place, I don't se…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:35 AM
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This has nothing to do with waiting for marriage. How much do you want to bet the abusive parents did not wait until marriage? You don't need to try out every person in the world to know what a good and bad one in. People are not that stupid. You know what a bad relationship is unless you've been brainwashed/manipulated. It has absolutely nothing to do with how many people you've been with. Being with more people is how you make your relationships worse. "There is no bigger blow to your esteem t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:30 AM
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You can get a virgin as long as you're a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:29 AM
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What do you mean by sexual compatibility? People who worry about that seem really insecure. If you're passionate about someone and care about them more than a pebble in your shoe, you're already compatible. People love to complain and exaggerate problems but I've never once heard a single reasonable explanation for what type of sexual "incompatibility" would make a relationship with someone you love harder at all, let alone be a reason to dump them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:29 AM
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Hating "pick me" girls is just a socially acceptable way to hate other girls and say you're not like other girls. It's so ironic. The only "pick mes" I don't like are what are normally called trad thots. Girls who demean traditional values by pretending having your boobs out and being masculine is "trad." They're actually damaging something I care about so it's annoying. Other than that I don't care if a girl is a "pick me."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:11 AM
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If you need all that money to be beautiful you're not beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:30 AM
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Good thing I have a European standard of morality and not American.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:34 AM
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Legality doesn't determine morality. Just because something is legal doesn't make it ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:26 AM
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unless he is attractive and meets her desires financially. Not even that. Unless he's at least a famous celebrity and very youthful and hot for his age... and even then most women would just admire him from afar and never want to actually date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:59 AM
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>No it is not. Yes it is. >That makes it predatory on the womans side. Great job proving age gaps are predatory. That was exactly my point. >This is what i mean by keeping women unaccountable. So you mean YOU won't hold women accountable. I straight up said women are manipulating men by dating men who are older than they are. But it goes straight over your head and you think it's fine. >But you are shaming men for liking younger women. Again, stop being a feminist. Stop using the word shame when…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:36 AM
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Negative factor. I'd prefer a guy who has never done anything with a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:56 AM
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>just being older doesnt make one a predator. Being predatory does. Of course. Being a certain age says nothing about you. Going for a younger person is predatory. Anyone who dislikes divorce should be against age gaps. The divorce rate for couples with larger gaps is astronomical. It's sad how older guys delude themselves into thinking younger women like them and aren't just manipulating them for their money. These women like the power they have over older men. >while keeping women unaccountabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:52 AM
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The irony of you calling someone else close minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:43 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:54 AM
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They will do everything to harm marriage and avoid the actual problem: divorce. Just make divorce illegal. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:43 AM
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That's not what high value means. Obese women are not high value because all they have to do to get a dozen hookups per month is simply exist. Also, you have a very interesting definition of "buying." "Buying" a person on the sexual market would mean wanting them and keeping them. Not using them as a toy and discarding them, which is what happens to the men you're describing as hv. That's a low value rental at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:51 PM
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>You believe an incredibly rich and attractive, famous, suave and intelligent actor is not a HVM because he's not a virgin? Not on the market no. He would be high value if he was married of course. >It's conceited because you're obviously self describing. HAHAHAHAHAHAHA. I was expecting more along the lines of, "You are a woman so it's conceited to think other women are perfect because it's self-congratulating your gender and men don't see women that way." I would not expect you to think I wante…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:45 PM
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Everyone does. Why would I want to find someone who doesn't? Yes. It's definitely not from insecurity. Lack of ego usually means insecurity. Controlling no. Violent yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:30 PM
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Of course 30 year old Leo is not high value. At that age he was 10 years past his prime and a non-virgin. Women have a sex drive too. Women don't sleep around for insecurity nearly as often as men. Men ALWAYS have it at least in the back of their mind (if not in the very forefront) that they need to prove something to other people and that drives them to sleep around. >Also that's conceited of you to assume a perfect woman exists lol. No one is perfect. No man is perfectly HV, no woman is perfec…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:21 PM
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If he was a 9 or 10 he'd get a relationship with another 9 or 10. He'd be capable of getting a 9 or 10 that he actually wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:14 PM
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Of course low quality men (who are so by CHOICE) should be shamed. Their behavior is unacceptable. You point this out as if it's some revelation. It obviously wasn't my intention to shame the guy, but he absolutely should be shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:14 PM
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That has everything to to with it. It's impossible to be a high value male and have multiple partners. 1) That's not a high value trait in and of itself. 2) If he was high value he wouldn't need to sleep around. He's not insecure and trying to prove things to other men. 3) if he was high value he wouldn't want to sleep around due to his ability to get the perfect woman. If he can't get a woman he wants to keep, he's clearly not high value enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:13 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:12 AM
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It's going to be pretty obvious a guy didn't rape his wife if there's no abuse and he waited for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:08 AM
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^ How to ruin your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 04:44 AM
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Then he's a low value male.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 04:16 AM
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Don't have sex outside of marriage. If you do have sex outside of marriage it shows you don't take this issue seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 04:15 AM
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Ok yeah so they said that right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:43 AM
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Hahahaha is this even real? There's literally no inflammatory language. "Disgust" is not an inflammatory word, it's one of the most basic emotions. The part that really makes me think you're just trolling is when you say "sadistically." I genuinely cannot take you seriously even if I try. I said I feel a natural disgust towards certain people but try to ignore it. If you call that sadistic, you need help.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:45 AM
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I think the only way this would be possible is if a man is good but never reaches a level of financial stability that would attract a wife. You said this right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:42 AM
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Different species.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:07 PM
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If he's looking for a gold digger is he really a good man though?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:07 PM
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Because it's impossible to court by asking someone to do to the pub with you...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:06 PM
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If you have a hoe phase you will never have commitment. You're just a long term hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:53 PM
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The good guys have been married to another early 20 something since they were in their early 20s. I don't really see how it's possible for a good guy to be single after 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:51 PM
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>Wow. Dehumanizing much? >This is where the term "breeder" came from. This HAS to be a joke. Like this literally has to be a joke. Saying something actually dehumanizing after complaining that someone being grossed out by another's actions is dehumanizing. >Narcissism at its finest. Nothing could be more selfless. >I'm sure the Pope cares that you think you're more important though. No idea what this is about. I don't understand your reference to the Pope, I don't understand you're reference to …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:48 PM
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That's implying there was anything provocative about what I said. Most people agree even though they also don't want to say it out loud. It's only "provocative" to the people it applies to, which is a very small minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:46 PM
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Um, no. I have no idea why you're trying to claim it's semantics when they are two wildly different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:44 PM
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That's hilariously untrue. Biology doesn't work like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:43 PM
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Honestly yeah. Old people who chose to not have kids gross me out. I literally get a disgust reaction. I try to be "nice" (which in modern times means not caring about other people and not wanting what's best for them) and ignore it, but I see barren childless men and women and their bodies feels so worthless and gross. They never did anything with it. It feels like a useless hunk. Unlike an old person who can barely stand but they did so much with their body, having like 20 grandkids. Infertile…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:18 AM
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Stone age? That was anywhere from like over 3 million to 4000 years ago. That's a big gap. Before we were really human, maybe a strategy like that was more common. But anyone who knocks/gets knocked up and leaves has been destined for failure ever since we've been human. We're not made that way. That's a great way for your precious babies to die and for you to have your bloodline ended permanently.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:11 AM
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Courting is the precursor. Dating is when you know you want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:06 AM
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No that's so messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:14 AM
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Aging has nothing to do with fertility and everything to do with health. An aged man cannot protect you and your kids. No one wants a husband with wrinkles.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:30 AM
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Testosterone/estrogen is not what determines your peak. It's entirely about your face and before you show any sign of aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 12:45 AM
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OP is 10 years past his prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:21 PM
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A lot of women (especially millennial/zoomer generations) for some reason always like to call their boyfriend their best friend. They exaggerate how much friends they were before. I know so many people who were like "yeah we were totally friends before we dated..." but they liked each other right away, hung out few months, then dated. Like, that's not friends. Some other couples I know used to be friends (but not that close) a while ago, didn't talk at all for years, then starting talking again …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:20 AM
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I've had/seen so many conversations with redditors that went like this: "How can you possibly date someone you weren't friends with?" "Uhh, we liked each other and knew each other from school?" "But I can't imagine not being friends with the person I like... How do you even talk to each other>" Later down in the conversation it was revealed that... "A friend is someone you like talking to and you get along with and can do fun things with. Not friends means you can't do anything together and woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:16 AM
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Yeah this study does seem very not credible because I sure it's "we knew of each other and talked a little" friends. There's no way this is about actual friends dating because 90% of people will tell you they never want to be romantic with a good friend. At least with the people I've seen, it's very rare to date a friend, and they always break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:09 AM
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The fact you can be commonly judged negatively by other women for this, pretty much proves my point of its existence. I never said it was common. Other women don't actually care. It's perceived by the women that she would be judged, even if she's not. And I said only a few women care about the perceived judgment in the first place. And then out of those few women, she is worried that SOME women would judge her. That's an extremely narrow range of women. I'm sure you didn't mean it come out this …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:03 AM
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You're not supposed to have sex with the dragons, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:07 PM
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People who want men to gain "experience" in dating hate men. Imagine throwing away your sexual worth and abandoning a loving wife for people who think you're nothing. I feel very sorry for boys and men who feel pressured to date women. That's pretty much every single guy. Don't do it, and if you do it you'll have to reap the consequences. You better know that the people who are pressuring you think you're lower than dirt and you shouldn't throw away your sexual value for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:05 PM
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I've never heard that once, even online. When a woman says a guy feels like her brother they mean close friend, it has nothing to do with age. I've never heard younger brother. There are a few women who don't want a younger man, and they do that to avoid other women judging them. They don't personally care, they just care how it looks to other people. It's much different with for example height, because while she does care about how she and her boyfriend look to other people, she also wants his …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:19 PM
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Did you reply to the wrong comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:57 PM
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No they really don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:57 PM
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You said they want someone 2-3 years older which is stupid. Almost all women don't prefer that, prefer someone the same age, and the few who do like older just have weird preferences like he must not drive a blue car. It's irrelevant. It's obvious by WHAT they prefer how meaningless the preference is. Your birthday being 24 months earlier is literally meaningless. Unlike having a pretty face which IS what they want. Anyone who prefers an age actually wants something else. By age alone, nearly ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:02 PM
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Real life doesn't support this. Women want someone their own age. Women flock to pretty over rugged.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:45 PM
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Older women think pretty boys are attractive but it looks "silly" for her to actually date them so she often stays clear. Women also start looking for other things (money, stability) later. 40-50 year old women don't think 30 year old Leo is better looking than 23 year old (Titanic age) Leo, they just understand it would look weird so they convince themselves that 30 year old Leo is more reasonable to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:04 PM
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Where do you see this happen? Both masculine women and feminine women are attracted to feminine men. Feminine women ESPECIALLY. Masculine women less so but I can still see that as some androgynous punk thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:58 PM
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>Men need to accept that they aren't going to be the hottest guy that their partner has been with Wrong. Society needs to get its act together and stop "accepting" sleeping around. You should be the only one your partner has been with. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:03 PM
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>I think women prefer younger and/or more feminine men. Yeah obviously. It's mostly only men who argue against this. Of course it's appealing to believe your prime years are ahead of you. Being past your prime sucks. That's why redpillers keep getting more ridiculous pushing back the age of peak men. They even say men peak at 50 which is hilarious. It's a massive cope. They don't want to be post-prime. Pretty, youthful, energetic men are always better than most men older than early 20s. You can …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:02 PM
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People in relationships like that have knowingly sacrificed love/monogamy/etc for fame/money/etc. They never had real feelings for their partner in the first place; they chose them for the money and status. If they had feelings for them, they would care.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:11 AM
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Yeah, that's true for everybody. Men are easily by far more attractive at 20 than 30. It doesn't have to be the case, but people choose unhealthy lifestyles that make them age poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 11:41 PM
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Some men are more creepy than others, but any man who watches porn and enjoys it is absolutely creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 12:47 AM
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I wouldn't care at all who he dated or what the girl was like. I'd just be sad he was with someone else (assuming he dated/kissed her not just courting).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 12:45 AM
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Because they're prettier, younger, cleaner, brighter, lighter, smoother, more energetic, more interesting, healthier looking. Not saggy, wrinkly, patchy, tired, unappealing like most men over 20-25ish.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 12:44 AM
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I would say wrong because after you hook up with a girl there is a 99.99-100% chance she is mocking you and saying bad things about you to her friends. This has happened literally every single time I've ever heard a girl talk about her hook up. And no this isn't "my friend group." None of my close friends actually hook up. This is either random friends from class, acquaintances, girls I overheard, so it's a large sample size of all different types of girls and without fail they will gossip negat…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:27 PM
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I don't know what that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:58 AM
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My favorite fruit is blackberries. That's relevant too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:30 AM
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You don't. You never divorce if you love your spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:14 PM
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That's like saying women drunk driving is worse than men drunk driving. First of all, it's ridiculous because the morality issue of drunk driving doesn't care about your gender. It's wrong. Second, you are excusing drunk driving by saying it's not as bad as can be, just because a guy did it. If cheating is wrong, it's not a gendered issue. If cheating is worse when one person does it just because of their gender, then it's not that bad when the other gender does it. I think what you're trying to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:00 AM
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You think love is a gut feeling? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 01:48 AM
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>Is being a stay at home mother seen as something bad? By jealous feminists who have mental breakdowns at their job every other day, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:49 AM
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I don't know if this is a joke or not but it's the only way to guarantee you won't get divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:48 AM
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If he has a body count of 50 he doesn't have masculine energy. He has simp energy and women see him as a brainless dildo to use and discard. Blushing is common isn't it? Every time a girl has a crush she blushes. I don't see what's the commotion around this simp you're describing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:46 AM
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You know perfectly well if you love someone or not. "Youth is (sexually) exploring yourself" is insane propaganda made up by pedophiles who want people to ruin their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:28 AM
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>Choosing a woman he'd get bored by Not only does he know nothing about women, he doesn't even know himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 05:18 AM
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>a man who has been in long-term sexual relationships with half a dozen women This guy knows literally nothing about women or else he would have stayed with the first one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:34 AM
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Um, ok? Thanks for telling me what I already said?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 02:00 AM
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I wouldn't call 'no hook ups' a rule. It's just what I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:15 PM
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Most people who are deeply religious did not devote their lives to studying sculpture of the other things you mentioned. Being very religious doesn't mean you're a religious scholar.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 07:59 PM
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I don't know what you mean by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 07:58 PM
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I'm sincerely extremely sorry you feel that way. Do you enjoy the person you love kissing girls at 13? Does it make you happy? If you don't get overjoyed at the thought of him kissing girls, why not? There's nothing normal about kissing in middle school.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 07:57 PM
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Why are you so angry?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:09 AM
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You're thinking about it right now. We're discussing it. How do you feel about him kissing other girls? If it doesn't make you happy, it shows there is a problem. I'm sympathetic to you for how hard this is for you to admit. It's very sad and I don't want you to experience the pain you're so obviously in. But out of desire to avoid the pain, you won't even admit you're in pain. You get aggressive and mad. You said you don't think about him before he met you and you only think about your connecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:05 AM
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And you’ve proven the only thing that matters to you is fetishizing your partner like a personal trophy cumhole. Very selfish and unloving and sad. You care nothing about them. You haven’t even experienced them. Just projecting personal neuroticisms onto them. Narcissistic. It's truly sad that you feel this way. I can tell you will never love anyone in your life. If you weren't so hurt, you wouldn't be acting so aggressively.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:56 AM
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>I don’t think about them before me. Like at all. What a terribly selfish and unloving way to live. You have completely proven you care nothing about them, and only about yourself. >your focus is their experiences before you I don't know how you could be so wrong. Your focus should be on the person you love. >Your version of love is sad to me. There is no "version" of love. It's either love or it's not. Anything "in between" is simply not love. I'm confused why you think it's sad that love is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:49 AM
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>It doesn’t make me feel anything at all. That's extremely sad. Thinking about the person you love should make you feel so happy. >I guess my love for the other person isn’t based on owning their experiences in life. It's utterly impossible for love to be based on that. Because that's not what love is. (You also can't own an experience but that's irrelevant.) >Have you had any sexual experience? Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:39 AM
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So I assume you're a woman? The thought of the guy you love being all cute with another girl and kissing her makes you happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:26 AM
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Understandable. I can't imagine why anyone would want the person they're in love with to have done anything whatsoever romantic with someone else. At best, that's something you tolerate and ignore. Which just shows how sad it is that there's something about the person you love's life that you have to push out of your mind or else it'd cause you pain. People should be able to adore and get excited about everything about the one they love, not have to ignore anything about the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:20 AM
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I always found it odd that people who cared about “virginity” didn’t include making out/ intense kissing as part of it. This!?! I'm so confused why people care about virginity but not about kissing. I think the reason is because it's so rare to find someone who saves their first kiss that people just cope and don't even attempt to wish for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:04 AM
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If you want a serious answer, humans are so obsessed with romantic love that like 90% of our culture includes it (rough estimate idk). Virginity is for true love.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:01 AM
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This is the problem with doing these things with multiple people. What exactly virginity is doesn't matter, because you know who you gave it to. The only time people are concerned about what exactly counts as virginity is when they did different sexual things with different people and can't decide who they lost it to or if they still have it. When you save everything for one person, you're fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 04:57 AM
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What does that have to do with what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:26 AM
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If he's older, balding, and has a steady job.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:09 AM
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Wouldn't that just be serious students then? Religious people believe sex is for marriage, but also that people are called to marriage, so they marry young.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:08 AM
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I agree with all of what you said except the religions brainwashing part. Religious people tend to marry younger. A person who is unmarried by 35 is probably not religious at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:14 PM
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>a guy who was intentionally waiting for "someone special" to lose his virginity to... is either religious, feminine, mildly asexual or neurotic, Or maybe he's waiting for someone special.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:12 PM
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A man not being a virgin in his early 20s is more than a red flag. It's an automatic discard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:10 PM
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I'm in favor of punishing sex outside of marriage. So there's no such thing as rape by deception because you chose to marry him. If you chose to marry him without loving him, and not caring about how much money has has et cetera, that's your fault. False paternity would be a severe crime. Not only is it adultery, sex outside of marriage, and lying, it's depriving a man of his own children, his life, and making him raise another man's children.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:01 AM
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Thanks for repeating exactly what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:33 AM
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The answer is obviously A, he's an asshole. If the girl was being controlling or unreasonable by doing that she wouldn't do it. However he's an asshole because society brainwashed him to act like this. No one needs to be like that. No one is born like that. Your wife told you you can't be friends with women? That's very weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:32 AM
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You don't actually believe that, do you? I thoroughly explained why girls don't communicate openly with their boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:13 AM
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I'm not projecting because this has nothing to do with me. I have basic empathy for other people and can recognize their hardships. Why do you think a girl would say something bad to her boyfriend about another girl (a girl the girlfriend suspects the guy might like in some way)? Why would she talk badly about her rather than just asking her boyfriend to stop? Because she doesn't feel like her boyfriend will care or like her enough to respect her. She feels that his care (lack thereof) for his g…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:57 AM
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It didn't attribute it to the result. I attribute it to the cause. I don't know if insecurity has nothing to do with it in her case. There's just no evidence it has anything to do with it. >But your response being “I’m gonna talk shit about her” is not a good one This is not my response. I think by "your" you meant the other guy's girlfriend? >it means you accept things that are not in your control Or you can just talk to them about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:43 AM
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I was describing people on this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 04:44 AM
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>My gf and the ladies were adamant that the only reason an older man would be interested in a younger woman is because he can't "get" any woman his age. I agree with this. Younger women can be naive and desperate while women his age won't put up with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 03:32 AM
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She's a far-right radical I'm a centrist. And what does politics have to do with this? who believes that adultery is finding another person attractive. By definition, it is. By basic morality, it is. Assuming you mean being attracted to someone, and not your guilty euphemism that shows you know you're wrong. If you were actually ok with what you're saying, you wouldn't use euphemisms. and the bf did absolutely nothing wrong He was attracted to another girl... Again, in that case, trashing the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 03:23 AM
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I just got tagged here and didn't see your comment. Does lying about me really make you feel better? I don't think I could have been any clearer that I don't want this to happen. No one deserves to go through that pain. No one should feel the need to talk trash out of hurt. You somehow managed to twist it. The fact you think I encourage it rather than sympathizing and wanting them to get OUT of that situation is disgusting of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:40 AM
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Having one similarity because both genders have human emotions does not mean they're identical.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:11 AM
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I love how your use of euphemisms show your guilt and acknowledgement that you are in the moral wrong. He simply acknowledged that the other girl was hot. You can acknowledge that your mom or dad is hot. We're not talking about acknowledging. The conversation is clearly about being attracted to the person. Your euphemism is amazingly telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:09 AM
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Yes? What even? First of all, choosing what food you like is a very poor comparison. What food you like is a physical reaction on your tongue. Who you're attracted to is your mind, in your head. But yes obviously you can choose what food you like. People do that all the time when they mentally change how they feel about the food.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:06 AM
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It's actually about what they feel. Insecure means not confident. If, and only if, her being more confident in her own prettiness made her not care if her boyfriend liked other girls, then that's insecure. Almost no one is like that. No one cares how pretty THEY are, it's about the fact that their gf/bf finds someone else attractive. No amount of confidence or thinking you are so pretty is going to make you ok with what is happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:04 AM
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Do you know the reason she is talking bad about another person? Because she can't speak to her boyfriend honestly. He isn't the type of person who would react normally and empathetically when she tells him she's hurt. So the only thing she can do is try to stop his behavior another way. You're sitting here calling people toxic while pretending you don't like talking bad about people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:01 AM
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No it's not. Men are people too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:38 AM
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You can just say people should stop having hookups unless you want all the guys to be gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:02 AM
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You seem very happy at someone else's pain. Why is that? Yeah, the one passage that straight up states being attracted to someone is adultery compared to your passages that do not at all say being attracted to someone isn't adultery. You didn't abandon God because of any contradiction, as there is none. You did so because you don't feel like following the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 02:54 AM
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“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to stumble, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. And if your right hand causes you to stumble, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 02:32 AM
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I'm not going to get in a religious debate but the Greeks had eternal punishment too. The underworld and hell are not the same thing. if you can't control not being attracted to a woman when you have a girlfriend you need severe help. Like lobotomy. There isn't a person on earth who can't control it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 01:56 AM
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Stay on topic. Nowhere did I mention or imply sex. I said finding another woman hot. Have fun going to hell then. Your demented attitude that it's inevitable is the scariest part.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 01:41 AM
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Guys who do that literally burn in excruciating pits of fire forever according to every major religion, so yeah it's a little bit bad. And secular people (I only have secular reasons for thinking it's bad) think it's equally sick and evil. You're the one who's wildly out of touch here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 01:02 AM
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I didn't say guys. I said a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 01:00 AM
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Because they're the exact opposite. I'm talking about not being attracted to a person. Conversation therapy is trying to make you become attracted to people. Of course a gay guy is able to not be attracted to another guy. Can he start being attracted to a woman? I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:36 AM
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There is ZERO bad behavior occurring in the original scenario. There is a man who finds someone hot. Pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:29 AM
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I don't know. Ask the people who have done it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:27 AM
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I have 1 upvote... Comments with few or no votes are usually at the bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:26 AM
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Do you need me to treat you like a kindergartener? People like that are so sick. You don't get to do something wrong, then call the other person insecure for not being happy with what you're doing. That's literally not what insecurity is, first of all. Second that's abusive as hell. I said doing something bad, then manipulating your bf/gf into thinking they're the problem for caring about what you're doing is abusive. This was so clear there's no way you misunderstood it. Then you say... It's ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:16 AM
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That's messed up. How many other men were you sexually attracted to besides your husband? Why would you put sexual attraction before even caring about him?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:07 AM
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You are arguing in bad faith. Admit that you made a strawman. Admit that you're going off topic now because you don't want to address that. I don't know who "your" is supposed to be in the sentence. Are you talking about me? You seem incredibly insecure. You are lashing out at people simply because they want basic loyalty. If you weren't the type of person we're talking about, you wouldn't be so defensive. I promise you attractive girls don't care about being bullied for being attractive. You're…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:05 AM
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I don't know if you can change your orientation, I don't know about becoming attracted to a person, but it's very easy to not be attracted to a specific person if you don't want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:47 PM
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Yes. Everyone can. Some people don't care so they never bother to try to control it. Some people can control it more easily than others. Some people aren't interested in the first place. But everyone can. The human brain is not that weak that you can't even change your mind on who looks good.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:08 PM
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Second that's abusive as hell. Hmm.. what does "that" in this sentence refer to? Perhaps it refers to the previous part of my comment stated before this sentence? Maybe you can quote that part for us too. Go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:06 PM
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What type of person can't choose who they're attracted to? I find it impossible that someone wouldn't be able to control that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:52 PM
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Of course the way you feel about people you meet can be a choice. Most of it is automatic, but if you are doing something wrong, you either chose to change it or choose to stay the same. That's their choice hence why they are setting themselves up for a bad time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:47 PM
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...It was a strawman. >It's abusive to think talking smack isn't the correct way to approach a situation? I never said this. You claim I said this. That is called a strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:43 PM
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>What does your nonsensical statement about physical assault have to do with anything? It's called an analogy. >And when did any commenter ever talk about cheating? You are the first one to mention the word cheating. Right here in this sentence. >What "needs to change" is irrelevant. The world is not how it is supposed to be, it is how it is. No it's quite relevant. Things can change and they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:38 PM
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What do you mean choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:35 PM
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I don't know exactly what happened in the situation of the guy whose comment is on top of this thread. But even if I assume worst case scenario for her, where she was the cause of him first putting his attention on the other girl, that doesn't make it ok that he did. Let's say I'm not attracted to a guy but my boyfriend gets jealous of him, now it's ok for me to be like "Oh now I find him attractive"? Now I'm going to do the thing that hurts you because you were hurt about it before I did it. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:34 PM
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This is like if a woman starts physically assaulting a man, and afterwards the man calls her a bitch, and then people are like "Wooow umm, sexist language!" Get your priorities straight. She assaulted him. Why don't you talk about that instead. I don't care about someone acts insecure. People act insecure all day about any sort of thing. The problem is that the guy is not being loyal to her (or vice versa, the girl not being loyal). Her feeling "not secure" about his disloyalty is a non-issue. >…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:21 PM
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Strawman. You're not even trying to argue in good faith. You sound like one of those people who does this to the person you claim you "love."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:09 PM
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Let's say my boyfriend/husband starts calling a guy dumb and ugly because he's afraid I'd be attracted to the guy and it hurts him. Am I going to: Be an absolutely disgusting person and blame my husband for being insecure and irritating me, showing that I have literally no love for my husband and do not consider his feelings at all. Say, "Wow I find that really uNatTRaCtiVe when you act iNsEcUrE." As if my attraction and affection towards him is based on something as insane as him not caring if …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:03 PM
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People like that are so sick. You don't get to do something wrong, then call the other person insecure for not being happy with what you're doing. That's literally not what insecurity is, first of all. Second that's abusive as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:36 PM
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Only if you don't care about the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:35 PM
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People who say sexual attraction first are setting themselves up for a garbage life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:32 PM
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It's not "insecure" if she's correct. Insecure means that you are the problem, you are the one needlessly worrying about what other people think. She was correct and she was hurt. The guy was the problem. The girl properly accessed the situation and acted accordingly. If she wasn't hurt about it she either doesn't like the guy at all or she'd be a sociopath. Being a sociopath isn't going to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:30 PM
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Man this is just reaffirming everyone's worries. >So my gf was jealous of this girl, but actually yeah the girl was hot and more my type than my gf. So your gf was right.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 08:03 PM
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You will notice that the most beautiful women dress modestly. They look good no matter how they dress and get enough validation already. This.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 07:59 PM
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It's social and corporate influence. I TRIED going to the mall to find a modest dress. It's almost impossible. The only modest ones were ugly and not even that modest around the butt area (too form hugging). Almost all dresses that are not floor length are above the knees. I barely found any calf length dresses. I could not find one single dress that did not show cleavage. Cleavage isn't an accident. Clothes makers don't go "oh whoops I accidentally somehow made the neck hole of women's clothing…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 07:58 PM
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You can't judge the way something looks (like aging) without... judging it by the way it looks. I have no interest in proving my own eyesight to you. I just typed in "why do black people look older than their age" and this is the first thing I got. https://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/2014/03/black-boys-older The second article was the same thing but for girls. https://slate.com/human-interest/2017/06/black-girls-are-seen-as-being-older-than-their-age.html It's their features. Black people ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:18 PM
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You're trolling. There's no way. There's just no way. The book clearly says women's skin gets darker when pregnant or on the pill, and you somehow manage to think that means women born with dark skin are less fertile.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:02 PM
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The irony of your statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:00 PM
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Are you even serious? I don't know how you can look at the average black person and think they look their age. Even the teenagers look older.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 04:59 PM
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NO. What the literal f*ck? I have absolutely no idea how you can think that women's skin darkening during periods of lower fertility means that women born with darker skin are less fertile. This is so stupid it's mind-boggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 04:58 PM
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r/redditmoment
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 04:56 PM
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How the hell would anyone know why men prefer lighter skin? It's called science. Are darker skinned people less fertile then lighter skin people? NO. Therefore that conclusion is bogus. Holy shit you are so dumb it's scary. Nobody cares about a fertile woman who burns every day she steps outside and develops skin cancer by age 22! You do realize this has nothing to do with genetics and everything to do with humans destroying the ozone layer in the past 100 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 04:56 PM
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And you know dark skin has the most spotting and pigmentation issues do to aging? Who cares? I never used that as an argument against them. I simply stated they LOOK older, regardless of how and why it happens. I don't care that they have pigment problems, I'm saying they LOOK older.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 04:54 PM
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I sincerely think you're trolling. Or at least arguing in very bad faith. "(a woman’s skin color darkens when she is pregnant or on the Pill)[20]" Reread it. Reread it again. You are having trouble understanding this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 04:52 PM
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Black people LOOK older than other races.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 04:51 PM
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What evidence do you want? You want me to take a lie detector test to prove to you I think young black people look old?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 04:51 PM
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You clearly aren't understanding what people are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 06:52 AM
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Based and Beau Brummell-pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:46 AM
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Are you kidding me right now? "While men do prefer women with lighter skin color, [18] because it is an indication of higher fertility [19] (a woman’s skin color darkens when she is pregnant or on the Pill)[20]" This sentence. Read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:42 AM
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You're not talking about the same type of thing, which shows how you misunderstood.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 05:41 AM
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Because it's what women truly like. In the past women had to think about survival. In modern times you have everything from your own job to welfare, so they don't need a certain type of guy, and they're free to choose whichever guy they like. Young, pretty guys are what women genuinely prefer if they don't have to consider other factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:26 AM
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What race are you? Different races see races differently. It's proven that they way your own race looks to you (obviously) looks different than the way your race looks to someone else. Black people almost always look extremely old to me. Even the ones that "aged well" look horrendous. Teenage to young 20s black people literally look old. This is just my opinion. You are free to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:23 AM
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I'm not upset black people age badly. Why would I be? I don't really care.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:21 AM
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The phrase “black don’t crack” (is that it?) exists for a reason. Black people feel insecure and like bragging about themselves with poor grammar?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:21 AM
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Did you even read what I wrote or did you skim.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:20 AM
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Source for your claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:19 AM
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Because of their diet. It has literally nothing to do with skin color. I already explained this to you in another comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:25 AM
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Why do lighter skinned people age better then? You can't tell if dark skin is good or bad as easily as light skin. Trying to argue against this obvious fact is just stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:24 AM
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"While men do prefer women with lighter skin color, [18] because it is an indication of higher fertility [19] (a woman’s skin color darkens when she is pregnant or on the Pill)[20]" -Why Beautiful People Have More Daughters The source for note 20 is Wong and Ellis (1984). https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/6376552/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:23 AM
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This, but the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:11 AM
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What part do you not understand? This was simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:15 AM
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I mean if I'm being racist then so are you. Saying light skin looks better is equally as racist (or not racist) as saying dark skin looks better. There are biological reasons light skin looks better. Another one is that when women are at their least fertile periods, their skin has a subtly (maybe subconsciously) darker look. Light skin sows fertility. That's biological. Other people like it for personal reasons such as light skin shows rosy cheeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:15 AM
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I don't want to be racist or whatever but Latinas and blacks age the worse and it's not even close. 19 year old White girls look like babies. I do agree many White girls artificially age badly because they chose to tan.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:12 AM
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The reason sun tans are considered attractive (I personally hate them) are not because they are dark, but because they are orange. The orange-ish color of a sun tan mimics the golden glow you get when you eat healthy foods, namely vitamins a and c. The tall dark and handsome thing isn't really a "thing." It got popularized (is it even popular though) by a hollywood movie of the same name. Someone just made it up and rolled with it. It hasn't been a thing in all of history. Ideals of male beauty …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:10 AM
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Everyone secretly feels sorry for the annoying person even if they won't say it to your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:39 AM
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What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:21 AM
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Second obviously. I care about my husband more than social change and human rights, so I hope he cares about himself more too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:18 AM
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And dark skinned people get pigmentation issues and spotting way more easily than light skinned women. Any tone of skin has issues. What I'm saying is biologically people prefer light skin because it can be "trusted." What you see at first glance is what you get. The flaws aren't obscured by the dark color. Biologically, people don't want obscured flaws, because the flaws are caused by lack of health and the flaws are still there. They don't disappear just because you can't see them clearly. It'…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:15 AM
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>5-10 years ago was the 20-teens. The amount of people who don't give a shit about patrilineal surnames hasn't dramatically increased since then. Yeah it has. >Who's traditions? Not mine, and certainly not all the cultures outside of the anglosphere. *Whose. Not yours. >Yeah, and it's easily accomplished with a DNA test. Not sure why a last name would assume paternity. That's not how it works. >That's some grade A half-cocked clown shit. Leave the sub. >Ok my son has his father's last name, now …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:09 AM
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Obviously you take the man's last name. 5-10 years ago girls used to be so excited about taking their husband's last name. Then tumblr turned it into some feminist thing and now women are miserable and have that happiness sucked out of them. Let people be happy. Stop trying to change traditions. Men need the paternity certainty. It's proven psychologically that men take better care of their kids when they're certain they're theirs. Emasculating your own husband and not showing him basic loyalty …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:16 AM
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I don't know how to change your mind on this because it's subjective. But men look way worse than women in their 30s. Most men are wrinkly, tired looking, and balding at that age. Women usually just look average. Men look bad. 30 year old men are way saggier. It's much better if the woman is fair skinned. Fair skin shows flaws more clearly since dark colors obscure the flaws. That's one of the reasons people prefer fair skin, because it's a true test of how good your skin really is. If someone h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:14 AM
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I wasn't expecting paradoxical unrealistic but we can have a defying laws of physics wife I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 05:44 PM
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That makes no sense though. Are you going to stay with her for life or are you going to cheat. Is she a feminist or not a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 05:36 PM
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>is okay with me being non-monogamous >anti-feminist Pick one. >Also would you stay with this woman for life if she met all (or most) of your criteria? 1000% >is okay with me being non-monogamous What.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 05:26 PM
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I think men age worse than women. There are way more attractive older women than older men. Women almost always look younger than men do for their age. Women are also expected to show more skin than men, even when they are old. If you have to see an older guy's legs and chest it'd be gross. But even conservatively dressed older women like the Queen of England show their calves, arms, and slightly lower necklines than old men. Women also normally have longer hair than men, and since you have to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 05:54 AM
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You didn't link a study. You linked a poll where a few people said they like the larger lips better and coincidentally the bottom lip was larger. It's common knowledge that the bottom and top lip are supposed to be the same size. Most people have the bottom lip bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 11:38 PM
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If you have to insult other people instead of defending yoga pants, chances are yoga pants suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 04:42 AM
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Woman. Men don't wear yoga pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:55 AM
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Are you sure we're talking about the same clothes? Tights are very comfortable. I'd rather wear the most uncomfortable jeans in the world than any yoga pants or leggings.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:40 AM
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I'll restate. According to science, the top and bottom lip are supposed to be the same size for ideal attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:39 AM
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For a man: Blonde, light skin, light eyebrows, non-brown eyes (green is better than blue), celestial nose, large eyes, large-ish mouth (small mouths look good on women), cute, youthful, oval face shape, high cheekbones.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:01 AM
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Only when Hemsworth and Cruise were young.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:35 AM
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Actually this isn't true. The top and bottom lip are supposed to be the same size for ideal attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:33 AM
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Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:26 AM
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Sex is not baking a cake. Sex literally requires zero skills. People who think it needs skill have crappy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 01:54 AM
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When you said, "Tights were also prohibited" I assume you meant yoga pants/leggings, which are so uncomfortable they might as well be torture devices. If you mean real tights, like what you wear with dresses, then yes they're very comfortable and made for modesty/fashion. If tights were banned at your school, that's not a modesty rule, because tights are for modesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 01:52 AM
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Exactly. Tights are uncomfortable but girls are still pressured to wear them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 04:37 PM
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>To what extent does the height of a man affect his attractiveness? None. >What is your minimum cutoff point for height? None. >What range of height is the most attractive on a man to you? No preference. >What is the height of the shortest man you have dated/hooked up with? >What is the height of the tallest man you have dated/hooked up with? >What is the height of the most physically attractive man you have dated/hooked up with? Have not dated/hooked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 05:16 AM
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The equivalent of women wearing thongs is men wearing thongs. Guys don't have boobs so there is no chest equivalent. Another example is the girls' volleyball and track teams wear spandex that looks like underwear while the boys just wear baggy longer shorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 05:14 AM
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You can show cleavage without showing bra straps. You don't explain how boys could wear shorter shorts than girls. I find that really hard to believe. Hmm, I wonder why boys don't wear tights. Almost like tights are designed to sexualize girls' bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 05:12 AM
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A guy who can't commit isn't worth anyone's time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:10 PM
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America. >we weren't even allowed to wear clothes that showed our bra straps. The way you say "even" makes it sound like you're shocked that showing undergarments isn't allowed. Boys can't do that either. >sometimes longer than the boys, How? I really doubt this. Boys don't wear shorts nearly as short as girls. >Tights were also prohibited. So boys were allowed to?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:09 PM
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Public school? Girls can have their entire butts out in thongs for swim class, that's much more extreme than boys being shirtless. Although there is no excuse for boys being shirtless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:06 PM
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I agree with this. Women's bodies aren't more attractive. Corporations (clothing, advertising, music videos, movies, etc) choose to expose/sexualize/exploit the female body while keeping men's mostly covered. It seems to be more of a feminist thing than anything else. The irony is the more naked women and girls get, the more feminists complain about how they are expected to be "modest." Girls at school can have their boobs out while guys are not allowed to wear low cut shirts, girls can wear muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 05:22 AM
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>Men can cheat on women who they love. Calling this love is so stupid there's no words for it. If you cheat you don't even care about them let alone love them. >Women can't cheat on men who they love/respect. Neither can men. Whatever you're imagining men can do, women do the same. Neither is love. Neither is respect. There is no "reason men cheat" or "reason women cheat." It completely depends on the person, and whatever one gender does the other does too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 05:09 AM
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Just admit you lost the debate instead of pretending you totally have something intelligent to say but refuse to say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 05:09 AM
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