fluffagus Archive

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1	Been thinking lately and have come to a conclusion that generally speaking, a man wants his woman to be his home, while a woman wants her man to be an exotic vacation. Do you agree with this? Men can only like guns and explosions? I wholeheartedly disagree. Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind was my ex boyfriends favorite movie (as well as Fight Club so ... Y'know... I guess that only half proves my point). Men as a whole are much more than just "guns and boobs and blood is good". I do not believe them to be such simple minded creatures and I reject you trying to say that they are. I can think of a lot of other examples but I suppose it just boils down to this: if only men liked Mi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 12:53 AM
6	Been thinking lately and have come to a conclusion that generally speaking, a man wants his woman to be his home, while a woman wants her man to be an exotic vacation. Do you agree with this? What about Garden State? Written by and starred by Zack Braff and his love interest is a quintessential Manic Pixe Dream Girl. She has no depth, she only exists to bring the Main Character out of his comfort zone and facilitate his personal growth. Same with Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind (though I don't know who wrote/directed it). Neither are ROM coms. Or even Ruby Sparks.... Such a good movie! And definitely written with the main male characters arc leveraged on the supporting woman's …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/21 03:21 PM
8	Been thinking lately and have come to a conclusion that generally speaking, a man wants his woman to be his home, while a woman wants her man to be an exotic vacation. Do you agree with this? Lol no I don't agree at all. This seems contrary to women's natural instincts, but kinda on par with men's. We're nurturers. Going back to a "hunter/gatherer" kind of idea, there's no benefit to having excitement/drama all the time in a partner. Sure it's exciting for a bit but there's a reason that lots of couples are happy when they get into long term relationships. Of course then it can go too far and you end up with monotony and unhappiness.... But that doesn't always happen either. married …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/21 03:17 PM
2	What do women on this sub think of the "where are all the good men gone" types of women? Y'know, honestly I think that those women are the minority but folks on this subreddit sure do seem to believe they account for a good portion of the population..... it's kinda baffling tbh. but really, my thoughts on those "types" of women are this: if that's how their lives are being lived then there is probably a lot more to what's going on than I would see personally as an outsider. It's the same whenever I see the male version of this type of person. I don't see someone to pity, or be angry…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/21 01:22 AM
2	Shouldn't there be a shortage of men in the dating market? I'm in Canada. However, that's relating to women who are DUE legally and have arrangements in place. What about all the ones who don't even bother? Or who decided to not go the legal route and instead have an agreement with their exes without getting the courts involved? That number seems very skewed to me, especially considering the amount of men who will chose not to work instead of paying child support that they're supposed to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/21 11:07 PM
1	Shouldn't there be a shortage of men in the dating market? I make more than him. I don't consider it dating down because people have worth outside of their education or income. Someones value should be associated with who they are as a person. Are they kind? Are they thoughtful? Do they care about others, animals, and the environment? Do they live an authentic life? Then that's what makes someone high class in my opinion, and nothing anyone says to the contrary will ever change it. My husband could be unemployed and I'd still believe we were an equal ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/21 11:05 PM
2	Shouldn't there be a shortage of men in the dating market? Well that's just incorrect. One of them is a pole fitness instructor, so her body fat is.... Well I don't know. It's not my business but honestly I don't think she has any to speak of. But you seem to think that they are struggling to meet a man because of looks, when they aren't. They're struggling to meet men worth dating in an overall sense. So the idea that there is a shortage of men is incorrect, there's plenty of men. Just not necessarily ones that women want to date if they have any self …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/21 10:59 PM
3	Shouldn't there be a shortage of men in the dating market? Omg.... By "shortage" I didn't mean their height!! 😂 And if your friend isn't getting dates because he's 5'7 then he's GOING FOR THE WRONG WOMEN. I have a former friend who's 5'8 and he used to date and get laid constantly. Like, it was kinda gross tbh. Now that he's in his late 30s and only wants to date 20 year old blondes and bitter because none want to date an angry old man well... That's just more proof that it isn't the height. It's the man. And the kind of women he wants. There's plenty o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/21 08:39 PM
3	Shouldn't there be a shortage of men in the dating market? What women? I know quite a few single moms and only 1 of them is succesful in getting any child support payments. Off the top of my head I can count 5 who never received a penny from their baby daddies, and none of them are on government assistance. They all work full time jobs to support themselves and their kids. Not a single one of those women cheated (in fact the one who gets child support payments was cheated ON). Sure, there's women that may do something like that but they are overwhelming…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/21 08:35 PM
1	Shouldn't there be a shortage of men in the dating market? Weird, because a bunch of other posters are claiming the opposite is true and it's the men who have multiple partners (thus there is no shortage of available men because the taken ones are still available). I don't know which is correct but I think it's all stupid to focus on anyone elses love life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/21 03:39 PM
2	Shouldn't there be a shortage of men in the dating market? I respectfully disagree. The amount of beautiful women I know married to uh.... Whats the opposite of a Chad? A Larry? Norman? I know 4 girls married to unattractive or average guys named "Dan" so I'll call them that for the purposes of this reply. The amount of beautiful (or even just above-average) women married to Dan's is shocking. Seems like the math doesn't add up somehow but I'm not smart enough to figure it out. I think that people who are pessimistic about gender and dating just look at…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/21 03:36 PM
6	Shouldn't there be a shortage of men in the dating market? I'm a nurse and my husband is blue collar/working class. I don't consider it "dating down" and neither does he, even though I'm the only one who's college educated. However, with that said... There is a "shortage" of dateable men in my town. I've got some single friends who struggle to find a partner who has a job (any job), isn't a drug addict, and won't cheat on them. Maybe that's a "my town" problem but it is definitely happening here. Plenty of jobless, drunk, slutty, crappy men here and wom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/21 03:20 PM
1	If a guy reaches his mid 20s still being an inexperienced virgin, if he by some chance does get an opportunity with a woman, should he be honest to her about his inexperience? Or should he lie? Well, think of it this way: when a cancer patient has scars and they see them as a badge of honor isn't that what they rightfully are? When we learn a new skill and it takes a while to master doesn't that give us a badge of honor? When we meet adversary or we get knocked down by life and we persevere and grow as individuals that in itself is a badge of honor. You may not want to be a virgin but that doesn't mean that it is a bad thing by anyone elses standards (including mine). You are growing a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/21 02:58 AM
1	If a guy reaches his mid 20s still being an inexperienced virgin, if he by some chance does get an opportunity with a woman, should he be honest to her about his inexperience? Or should he lie? I think that he should be honest because someone being a virgin isn't anything to be ashamed of, imho. Wear that badge with honor!! It doesn't matter if you've had sex with zero people or two hundred people, your value as a person is the same because it is not tied to sexual experience or amount of partners. I know that's probably contrary to what pop culture might have you believe, but honestly, what does that even matter? Whats important is that you love yourself and you find someone who will …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/21 02:21 AM
2	The argument isn't about "Nice Guys", the argument is about whether or not decent men are getting laid. Wait I'm confused....? We're talking about "nice guys" not douchebags. Women date known douchebags for a variety of reasons, but most are aware they're dbags and it's quite possible they date them because that's the kind of man they're attracted to (ew.). What I was referring to is the "nice guy" trope, where someone is being insincere in their niceness but they think they "deserve" women anyways. I've met those men. I do not like those men. They are garbage people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/21 03:17 AM
4	The argument isn't about "Nice Guys", the argument is about whether or not decent men are getting laid. I used to joke that "nice guys don't finish last, they finish in my mouth" and then I married the sweetest, kindest, most nicest man in the world... Whenever I see men complaining that they don't get laid but they "should because they're nice" I always just think about how if they were truly nice, without any alterior motives and without any skeevy intentions then they'd be getting ladies. My hubs is the most darling and genuine nice man I've ever met and after our first date I was like "yep. Go…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/21 09:59 PM
5	Why are women doing "body enhancements" seen as normal but men doing it are seen as "insecure"? I wasn't aware that men doing it were seen as insecure when women weren't, but that's just my experience. I assume anyone who wants to get plastic surgery or implants or something are insecure. And that's okay. We're allowed to subscribe to whatever esthetic we want, if it makes us love ourselves. That goes for men and women, in my opinion ❤️	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 05:14 PM
1	Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men. Personally I actually love the dad bod because it's a dad bod! I love when men are a bit rounder and softer, and even have a belly. To me it speaks on an instinctual level. It's like my lizard brain tells me "This man can provide for his family. This man likes eating good food and he will feed his children good food. This man is excellent to hug and his children will love hugging him and feeling safe with him. This man is comfortable in his own skin.". However, that does not mean that I don't ap…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 05:12 PM