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I can only begin to imagine how much pain and hurt you’re feeling. It’s so hard when you give your entire being to someone and they just throw it in the trash while bragging about it. Honestly, it’s easy for me to say something like “you dodged a bullet”, but I know there’s going to be a lot of pain and healing that has to be done. You truly deserve someone who will value and love and cherish all that you have to give and won’t throw it away when they get bored.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/19 11:35 PM
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Whether it's Harvey Weinstein, Neil DeGrasse Tyson, or whoever else, the SJW camp doesn't apply its rules to itself. Especially this. I find that men who self identify as feminists tend to be not the best. It's not shocking at all though. It's a denial of manhood that makes men go mad.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/18 01:43 AM
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Communicate, communicate, communicate. I would argue that it's even more important than in not LDR because you're not face-to-face as much. Whether it's texting, facetime/skype, or having a phone call. They phone call doesn't have to be long either, just hearing the other person's voice I feel is key. I would say try not to say "I miss you" too too much. I'm super guilty of this and there's nothing we can do about it, and only leads to sad feels. We just have to let time pass until we can see ea…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/18 12:39 AM
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This made me smile just reading it! I can only imagine how happy you must be. Congratulations!!
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/18 07:58 PM
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I'm a female and one thing my Mother did right was that she taught me how to cook and bake. It's scary to be in school and see girls older than me (I'm 23) who can just barely heat something up in the microwave that resembles food.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/18 03:34 AM
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Because it's a LDR there isn't much I can do unless I'm there with him, but I always listen to him when he's having a hard week at work and I always tell him that I'll always be there to listen to him and reassure him that he's not complaining because he'll always say something like "I'm sorry I'm complaining a lot" when he's just venting. I'll send him some sexy pictures if I can (hard due to body dysmorphia but I fight through it because I know he loves my body even when I feel meh about my bo…
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/18 03:27 AM
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I would do it in moderation like when I went to see my LDR (so four drinks in one weekend seeing each other about every other weekend), but I'm on Isotretinoin now so I can't drink at all which is fine. Better for my skin anyways.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/18 02:43 AM
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23F also extremely introverted. I've also had anxiety since forever. I find that finding a nice coffee shop to go to often and making small conversation with the people who work there really helps. Smaller conversations will work up to longer conversations that will help with networking. Internally, it's going to feel like "AHHHH, but it really does help.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 12:41 AM
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As a RPW, I know that no one is perfect. We all have our own SMV/RMV that we can bring to the table. Women have such high expectations with nothing to bring to the table. Especially normie women. They've been told that they're perfect and unique for their entire lives and they won't ever realize that they aren't until they hit the wall. At worst, they'll hit the wall and they still won't realize it and they'll become even more mentally agitated.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 02:59 PM
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It's not that I don't like the answer, I'm just challenging the assertion that women have to be sluts to get good men. That's all. There's no need to become hostile about it.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 03:35 PM
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I'm American and in my opinion I think that there was just a slow downhill spiral that started with the Reconstruction Era. A lot of traditionalists say that they wish that they could go back to the 50's or 60's when the truth is that feminism had America by the cultural balls probably in the 30's and 40's. Wars simply just give feminists more power at home.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 01:53 PM
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Not in the least!! Your reply to OP on the second point was exactly what I was aiming for, but missed. It really filled in the gaps nicely.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 04:01 AM
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These are the exact words that I was looking for this morning, but I lacked being fully awake so thank you for adding on what I was looking to say. I just felt like how I was going to say it was going to come off too egotistical.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 02:01 AM
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I can acknowledge that feminism is the reason why, but I don't have to accept feminism and have sex to find the right man.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/17 04:35 PM
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Well I know that no one is perfect and I'm feeling out my SMV/RMV and doing some hard self evaluation, so I'm not one of those women who expects a 10/10 on everything, but just a nice man and a nice traditional marriage would be perfect for me.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/17 03:15 PM
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Right, maybe I'm just still very uncomfortable with comparing something very serious like men and sex to something that isn't as serious and I still see it as a a feminist comment. I wasn't trying to come off as defensive at all, and I apologize if it seemed that way!
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/17 02:54 PM
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Thanks for the link!! I read the post someone made on here about it, but not the article yet.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/17 02:52 PM
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But I know that my personality isn't frigid, I'm very cheerful in my disposition. Would it still make me frigid to hold my values close to me?
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/17 02:51 PM
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Sorry about that!! I just saw that this morning. I'm new to Reddit and the posting format. I'll try to fix it here.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/17 02:46 PM
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Thank you for this nice "pro" argument, again! I know that I need to work on "vetting" more because I know that my type of personality is one that wants to make people happy, but at the same time I know that I can stand firm in the values that I hold.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/17 02:46 PM
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I think I should clarify again, I'm not religious just conservative/traditional in my ideals. I get where you're coming from, but can I ask, isn't it bluepill or even more so blackpill to accept feminism and what it has done to society instead of trying to take the high road? Maybe I'm wrong here, but this response carries some heavy blackpill vibes to me.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/17 02:45 PM
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More freedom doesn't equal more happiness. We see more women diagnosed with depression than ever before. I don't think being a RPW is about not wanting a career, but knowing that a career shouldn't be your "be all end all" aspiration. Women should want to be mothers and wives first and foremost, but with the economy that we live in (due to feminism forcing women to work out instead of at home) sometimes women have no other option. RPW is accepting that you can't "have it all", but that that is o…
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/17 01:48 PM
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I think I should clarify again, I'm not religious just conservative/traditional in my ideals. I get where you're coming from, but can I ask, isn't it bluepill or even more so blackpill to accept feminism and what it has done to society instead of trying to take the high road? Maybe I'm wrong here, but this response carries some heavy blackpill vibes to me.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/17 04:41 AM
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Thank you for your input, this really does help me feel better about my choice. Not that I'm here to make myself feel better, but hearing an argument that's pro-virginity helps as well.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/17 03:53 AM
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I don't know, I don't think that men or relationships should be compared to objects. That's just my opinion though.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/17 03:07 AM
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I always laugh feminists say stuff like "Time travel would only be good for men". It would be good for anyone who has been redpilled. Period.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/17 01:49 AM
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Ragdoll kitties are the best!!
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/17 01:34 AM
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I just want to be with someone who shares the same ideals that I espouse. I don't mean that I want someone to think the exact same way that I do, but I want a man who is alpha and who is the head of the household. I want traditional gender roles in the relationship. I know that may not be ideal 100% of the time with how the world is because of how feminism has pushed women to get jobs and now the economy is based around that, but I do want to have kids and be there at home to raise them. I want …
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/17 01:34 AM
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Always think before you do or say anything. As the above comments said, don't nag or complain. Be docile, humble as well as kind and courteous. Learning to cook is always a huge plus. Keeping your house (or room/area clean if you live with your parents) neat and clean is a huge must. Being submissive is so much more than your physical appearance, but your appearance is a big part of that. At the end of the day, you can dress the part, but if your behavior hasn't changed...you're not submissive.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/17 01:25 AM
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Well I'm not religious, just very conservative, but I like this advice. Did you apply it to yourself? If you don't feel comfortable answering it's no worries. I figured I'd ask since I see that you've been married for 5 years.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/17 12:49 AM
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That's also what I've noticed. The only time I've gotten shamed was by feminists and I don't care for their opinions lol.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/17 11:27 PM
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I worry about regretting it either way, but thank you for your response!!
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/17 11:20 PM
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I want to be slim because I associate that with the word "feminine". I don't like when these women try to say "you're just jealous" when I bring up that being bulky is more of a male body type. I'm not even trying to be rude when I say that.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/17 06:51 PM
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