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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 34 | I’m so proud of myself. I finally stood up for myself | flugelnuss | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/23 04:51 PM | |
| 23 | What methods have you used to go no contact with your ex wife after divorce? | flugelnuss | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/23 10:31 AM | |
| 11 | Ex making false allegations of child neglect to CPS California | flugelnuss | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/08/23 12:54 AM |
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| 3 | Wife of 20 years is uninterested in me.That’s the problem with marriage and how it is drawn up like a contract. Everyone gets married for love, but never consider the legal aspects of it. It is a legal and binding contract. And when children are involved, it can get extremely messy. Men just want what women have been fighting for forever. EQUALITY. 50/50 custody for a man is a win. Anything less than 100% custody for a woman is considered a loss. There are resources out there, like books, podcasts, and forums like Reddit, to teach wo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/11/25 01:47 PM |
| 13 | Wife of 20 years is uninterested in me.My ex shacked up with and married a woman after we separated and divorced. It answered all of my questions. After 16 years with that woman, everything made sense. I’m sorry. I would start making plans for your future and consult a lawyer. Stop being a pushover. That was my problem the entire marriage. You’re what these women call a “nice guy”. And we all know where nice guys finish. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/11/25 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Cohabitating awfulBro. I know. I totally get it. That’s all I ever wanted. What really stopped all the horseshit was the final court appearance. She had taken me back for the 6th time in 6 years. We divorced in year 4. I got accused of any and all abuses you can think of. I was investigated by CPS twice 2 years in a row for child abuse then child neglect. The final appearance had the judge warning her with sanctions if she kept it up anymore. He even stopped her from talking to repeat what he said again and asked… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/08/25 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Cohabitating awfulI changed the lock twice. Once after the court order and she still got a locksmith to open the doors. Even after I called the police, they threatened to arrest me if I didn’t help her remove all the items from the home. She completely cleaned out the marital home except the furniture. One of the 4 cops told me at least you got to keep all the furniture. So much for that court order to not remove anything from the marital home. NAL, but I just got sick and tired of the BS as well and just said fu… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/08/25 05:00 PM |
| 4 | Guys who've had the worst divorce, do you regret meeting her?People say that to me all the time. If you didn’t meet her, you wouldn’t have your kids. My response is, yes I still would have had my kids. They just would have had a different mother. People usually don’t respond to that. It’s like a light switch turned on as soon as I said it and they’re like, oh! | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/05/25 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Some women are happy to gloat about how amazing stepdaddy but start losing it when "stepmum" enters the pictureSame. And her partner saw everything she did to “get back at me”. I’m afraid of the day her partner will get the same treatment I got from my ex. It’s too bad. I actually like her partner and have a better relationship with her than the kids “babysitter”. I am paying her to watch my kids half the week. That’s all she is to me now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/05/25 02:35 PM |
| 6 | Go fund me?My friends and family helped me start a go fund me after my ex had pretty much done the same thing to me, but was seeking full custody. I was out of money to pay a new lawyer as the previous two cleaned me out with no resolution. My ex filed an ex parte and the go fund me went out and got me over $4k to pay my new attorneys retainer. I had to use him 4 more times after she tried taking them away again and again and again but I was more financially stable at that point. She tried gaining full cus… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/25 08:27 AM |
| 2 | Divorced from sexless marriageMy ex shacked up with a woman 3 months after separation and has been with her since. My whole 14 year marriage makes sense now. I feel used for money and children. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/02/25 09:41 AM |
| 4 | Talking parents appI was forced to use it. She would regularly use my messages and spin them in a way where she would constantly use it against me in court. I got so sick and tired of it that after 6 years of seeing my messages sent to my lawyer (nothing but being polite) and somehow used against me, that I just stopped using the app. When I stopped using the app, I finally freed myself from paying for it and would only check it sporadically from the free website. But it’s gotten to a point that her messages are a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/01/25 02:45 PM |
| 7 | Throwaway account. How did everyone handle paying for lawyer when cash is dwindling? Have options but not sure which is best route. More info in body. Thanks for any help!.When my ex wife tried taking full custody for the 3rd time in as many years (she tried a total of 6 times in 6 years) my friends and family helped me setup a gofundme page and was able to raise enough for another deposit for a new lawyer. The 4th time, I had a very good friend lend me half of a deposit while I scrounged up the rest. I’ve since paid my friend back. The 5th and 6th time I was in a better place financially and was able to charge it on credit cards and pay off. It gets better. I pro… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/01/25 09:31 PM |
| 1 | I’m so proud of myself. I finally stood up for myselfThat’s a great idea! | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/04/23 06:55 PM |
| 2 | I’m so proud of myself. I finally stood up for myselfI have been grey rocking her for months. But the harassment and threat to take me back to court over therapy where she will yell at me is not worth it. The therapist that I will only see her with won’t allow that to happen. All the other previous therapist, minus the ones at a weekend retreat marriage counseling session that we went to, let her yell at me the entire session and didn’t ever offer solutions. I just don’t care anymore. I loved that woman and took care of her. This person that she h… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/23 05:12 PM |
| 1 | I’m so proud of myself. I finally stood up for myselfThis was my way of saying fuck off without actually saying it. I just don’t give a shit anymore. Something I’ve wanted to tell her throughout the entire divorce. I had always been the one trying to be nice and co-parent peacefully. All of that is over. I had been grey rocking her for months. But she kept harassing me even though I wasn’t even reading her messages or responding. And I know how much it pissed her off. This was the first time I wrote no need to respond. And she finally fucking didn… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/23 03:14 PM |
| 4 | I’m so proud of myself. I finally stood up for myselfWe are court ordered to communicate using talking parents app. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/23 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Not on Record - What is Parental AlienationI knew there was a FAQ out there for women. No wonder all our stories sound the same. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/23 01:37 PM |
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