flusteredbygirls Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Gender pay gap in modelling sees men paid 75% less than women Example distribution job listing Example cashier job listing Those are two entirely different jobs with different responsibilities.	/r/MensRights	08/02/18 08:27 PM
1	Gender pay gap in modelling sees men paid 75% less than women it's not fine that cashiers aren't paid as much as warehouse workers Yes it is, if the warehouse work is different and more labor intensive (which, it is). That's just an absurd argument. Of course cashiers can be paid less, they do much less work compared to physical labor jobs.	/r/MensRights	08/02/18 08:24 PM
1	Gender pay gap in modelling sees men paid 75% less than women Warehouse work is not the same thing as being a cashier at all. Are you serious? And some jobs favor physical attributes. Not their fault that one sex tends to be taller, etc. Work needs to be done and it just so happens some people are better at it, are you genuinely going to complain when they favor those people?	/r/MensRights	08/02/18 08:21 PM
1	Good to see this in public media! Look, at some point we, as a society, have to acknowledge that feminism as a definition and feminism as modern practice are completely different. It’s not semantics to call yourself an egalitarian versus feminism, despite usage of prescriptivist arguments about theoretical definitions. It’s *fundamentally different, hence why I am technically a feminist, I will never call myself that. Just an egalitarian.	/r/MensRights	07/02/18 07:18 PM
1	I work as a teacher for a Coding Club for children. They no long accept boys into their classes. What can I do?? Your joke made 0 sense, you just randomly changed one word for another with no correlation whatsoever. That's not humor.	/r/MensRights	27/11/17 04:23 AM
1	Are men being held to higher ethical standards then women? Yes, [some] women get upset when they get held to the same standards we hold men to. I noticed this the other day actually, where a friend of mine accused me of sexism shaping my views towards Hillary. I was simply holding her to the same standards I'd hold a male politician to. But because Clinton is a woman, egalitarianism must be sexism. This isn't new behavior either. I have this study archived: "Lay misperceptions of the relationship between men's benevolent and hostile sexism" by Amy W.Y. …	/r/MensRights	20/11/17 04:22 AM
1	How, if You’re a Man, to Deal With the Fact That You’re Probably Trash We are all complicit. We are all agents of patriarchy, and we’ve all benefited from it. Speak for yourself. Why do these people always speak in black and white terms? I was having a conversation with someone the other day and they also tried to reduce a complex, faceted issue into either "for"-"against". It boggles my mind because just about nothing in this life is truly black and white.	/r/MensRights	20/11/17 01:57 AM
5	Feminist business owner burned out on hiring female employees. Rare honesty. The blog is just hosting someone else's piece. Totally different people.	/r/MensRights	16/11/17 10:29 AM
1	Feminist business owner burned out on hiring female employees. Rare honesty. It's because it was hosted by someone else, who staunchly believes women and men are exactly, 100%, the same minus genitalia.	/r/MensRights	16/11/17 10:28 AM
1	Cosmo says it's bad that men get turned on during sex... You're arguing using theory and definitions, I'm arguing using real life examples of how people act in real life. People who call themselves feminists, and use that branding, regardless of whether they're sexist, or not. I'm an egalitarian but I will never call myself a feminist [despite agreeing completely with the theory]. Doesn't matter what the textbook definition is, people clearly ignore it, and the label is completely charged. You can argue theory all day and to the moon and back. People …	/r/MensRights	04/11/17 10:38 AM
1	Cosmo says it's bad that men get turned on during sex... The Feminist party in Sweden is fighting for men to have more maternity leave. For men to have the ability to abort their responsibility of a child (like women have). Do I look like I live in Sweden? Check out the contrasting attitudes between the USA on those topics and other countries. Also, Sweden temporarily changed snowplow paths because they apparently were "sexist". That's the other thing about postmodern feminism- anything and everything is sexist. Me existing as a white male is sexist. …	/r/MensRights	04/11/17 09:19 AM
1	Cosmo says it's bad that men get turned on during sex... Modern feminism has little to do with equality of the sexes. It only is about giving women things but completely ignores things when men are disadvantaged because of their sex. It’s called a double standard. Nobody gives a shit about young boys’ education or that the school system doesn’t really work for them as well as it does for young girls. Modern Feminists don’t care about the issues fathers face in the divorce and visitation system, being totally biased. Feminists don’t acknowledge that wo…	/r/MensRights	04/11/17 04:43 AM
–	University offers the first ever scholarship for men, in Vet Science a course with over 90% female students. The feminists have a furious meltdown I never redefined anything. Over time I've observed different members of the group act and it's been pretty consistent. Like I said, I acknowledge not all feminists are bad, but in my personal opinion I would never conflate the terms feminism and true equality. I always have to be wary.	/r/PussyPassDenied	11/02/17 08:33 PM
–	University offers the first ever scholarship for men, in Vet Science a course with over 90% female students. The feminists have a furious meltdown It's true that not all feminists are anti male and we get that, but feminism as a term, in the context of men's rights, is often a negative one. Usually "feminists" are the people doing things like asking men to analyze their "toxic masculinity" attacking us when we attempt to address men's issues. I'm not saying you are part of this, but it's why a lot of us dislike the term "feminism". I personally just say I fight for true equality, or I'm an egalitarian. Feminism, in my opinion, often does n…	/r/PussyPassDenied	11/02/17 08:07 PM