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Men swipe right on everyone! They play it like a numbers game! Then they filter the “matches”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 06:31 AM
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Yeah such a fake post
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:49 AM
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They do?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:02 AM
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So kind of similar to women who don’t look like a model?!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 01:17 AM
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I’m attracted to lots of different things in lots of different people!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:00 AM
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I get so confused by this. I thought you wanted us to give the “nice” guys a chance, and now if we do we’re being disingenuous?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 12:54 AM
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We will just have to agree to disagree then. Anyone can say words. Not everyone can walk the talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 05:56 PM
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This sub Reddit brings out weird analogies like yours! Any person (male, female, or however someone identifies) consistency in action is always much more important than any words!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 05:45 PM
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It has nothing to do with looks. Just selective about the personality type of people I help. Ensure their profile is aimed to find the type of partner they seek. Rather than a fishing buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:24 AM
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Alright mate! I charge very little. I help about 2-3 a week. I don’t advertise. It’s all word of mouth/referrals. I’m not sure how you can assume I’m not “that good” because I “cherry pick” - I just won’t help men (or women) who are obviously red pill or have bad intent. Everyone is allowed to choose who they work for!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:35 AM
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I have a side hustle as a female helping men do exactly this. I guarantee a % of matches and then help them with drafting their initial messages and responses. And if they follow advice and don’t get a first date, then offer a money back guarantee. Which no one has ever asked for in the last 3 years. Over 300 men I’ve assisted, with over 300 first dates! After the first date that’s on them. But I do offer tips for talking points. But I am selective in who I help.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 09:47 AM
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Yeah you’re right. Women are ridiculous to be cautious around men. Tonight I’m going to dress up and go walk around alone - because I got nothing to worry about! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:32 AM
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My friend was court ordered a DNA test on her child. Spoiler - the father was trying to get out of child support. His response to the 99.9% match… “well it doesn’t prove she’s the mother”. You could not make that up! If you think the child isn’t yours - I’m sorry but your relationship has bigger problems
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 07:50 AM
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Whatever excuse you want to use this week - go ahead!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 07:46 AM
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Apologies missed that answer. From your responses that I did read - I don’t think having slept with a prostitute is going to be the main reason you can’t get a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 03:03 AM
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Would you date a woman who is/has worked as a prostitute?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:29 AM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:50 AM
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“Trust me bro University”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:50 AM
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It’s 1 in 3 where I live. At least I know a bear won’t rape me. Yet no men seem to know any man that talk disrespect or hurt women. Yet almost every single women knows of a women/or are a woman who has been abused. The math isn’t mathing. If it’s 1%, then I will always choose the bear. Or let’s put it another way for you, would you rather a bear or to be in the shower block, having a shower in prison? Think about it. Because that feeling you have is what a lot of women feel every single god damn…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 10:09 PM
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He says they’re perceived as more approachable. Not “easy”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:12 AM
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Someone that can search you on a database! Someone that has friends who won’t believe your complaints, and can search your details on a database! There’s no easy way to break up with a cop.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:31 PM
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Where I live - they have a very high rate of DV and the obvious imbalance of power.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:00 PM
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So men killing men… enough said.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:37 AM
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⁠Yes ⁠Yes. But only if he doesn’t have hate towards those that aren’t. ⁠Yes ⁠Absolutely not. ⁠Absolutely not. ⁠Yes Depends how often we see each other ⁠what sort of gang? ⁠Absolutely! ⁠Yes ⁠Yes. But I’d be cautious given the track record of high DV. ⁠Yes ⁠Yes ⁠Yes. Unless he’s an angry drunk. ⁠Yes ⁠Yes ⁠Yes. As long as he isn’t messing up my place. ⁠Yes ⁠Yes. I’ve dated 16 years younger than me! ⁠Depends what the charge/crime was. ⁠Yes ⁠Absolutely not. ⁠Yes ⁠Yes ⁠ Depends how many Mummas and how…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 08:10 AM
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Oh so now you’re saying men are assaulted, murdered and/SA more than women? C’mon mate - get real
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 05:54 AM
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If a woman came out of the woods and said she’d been assaulted by a man, She’d be doubted, questioned about why she was in the woods, what did she do to provoke it, did she lead him on… what was she wearing… If she came out of the woods and said she’d been attacked by a bear - you’d all be grabbing rifles and going off to kill that bear!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:06 AM
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Defending from what?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:59 AM
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I literally said “Not saying it doesn’t happen”. Are you saying women and men are physically assaulted, murdered and/or SA’d by the opposite gender at equal rates? But it’s just because men don’t report it that the stats don’t agree with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 11:55 PM
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I think this is a really important motto for everyone. No matter the gender. Unfortunately when a man holds a grudge, doesn’t respect/understand “no”, it can cause real problems for women. When as a woman says “no” to a man who doesn’t accept it, then things can end up really really bad for a woman. Hurting a man’s feelings can end up in death, abuse, or SA for a woman. It’s rarely the same for men. Not saying it doesn’t happen, but much much more common that women are the victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 11:09 AM
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The opposite to what your post is about! Men telling someone what they should have done differently. Women being sympathetic with the outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:41 PM
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A man taking responsibility and apologising? SMH
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:25 PM
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Honestly can men just stop blaming women for their shortfalls?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:12 AM
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You missed the “most” word.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:49 AM
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Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:00 AM
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Pretty much his title! Same trope - women don’t understand how hard it is to be a man, but at the same time don’t care what it’s like to be a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:20 AM
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That if you aren’t good at something - like socialising - you practise to get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:17 AM
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That’s ok. The thing is you can’t always tell who is dangerous. Hence people who end up in dv situations. So in this case, women are going to reject guys they deem as “creepy” in order to avoid potential harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:38 AM
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I don’t know what version of reality you live in. But women are rarely believed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:35 AM
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I did not say nor mean that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:32 AM
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Chad’s lying
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:28 AM
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How do you get good at something?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:26 AM
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Did Jessica reject you too?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:23 AM
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Why do you think there are so few women on the apps? Do you understand why divorce peaked at that time?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:20 AM
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If a woman turns a man down, she sometimes gets berated and called all sorts of verbal abuse. And you’re getting all upset about potentially being called a creep to her friends. What sort of snowflake are you!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:16 AM
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Where did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:13 AM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:45 PM
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True. Very good point the arrogant ones def think they are gods gift! But also in my experience - most guys are decent and respectful, and act that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:20 PM
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I am happy single, fulfilled, successful career, great social life, and enjoy living alone. It would take someone special to make me want to change my current situation. Dating only reinforces this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:41 PM
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Men worry about getting being rejected and getting their feelings hurt. Women worry about being SA’d or murdered. Until men stop underplaying that valid fear, women don’t care if you’re seen as a creep. Most men aren’t creeps. The ones that seem to be worry about that are creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:25 PM
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Probably just the guys in my country then!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:27 PM
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I know that men have equally horrid experiences - my point is that women do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:31 PM
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Well they’d be in with a much better chance imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:26 PM
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Tigers predominantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:46 PM
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Honestly do not give a fuck what you think of me! My point was - you say how bad it is for men, I countered with its crap for women too! But I can bet on my life that you’ve never had a woman threaten to rape you, call you a bitch, ugly whore, or worse, just because you didn’t respond positively to their crap messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 11:20 AM
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Not for me. I prefer something like a dad bod. But that doesn’t fit your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:52 AM
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I know. But I’m stupid that it doesn’t stop me trying!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:39 AM
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Red pill think you all need to be jacked up gym bros! I don’t find that attractive at all. I’m unsure what you mean by immutable in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:21 AM
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Nope and nope (again). I don’t do gym bros - find them too vain. I swipe on regular looking guys who have good profile text. Honestly, you can downvote me or whatever, but from my experience (and other women I know) it’s just as bad on our end.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 09:56 AM
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Nope and nope. I’m older and average. So are they.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 09:53 AM
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Do you think dating apps are any better for women? Most men don’t put any info in their profile (hint- most women read that rather than photos). The photos are usually bad angled bathroom mirror selfies, gym photos, with their kids (instant ‘no’ if you are prepared to show your children’s pictures on a dating app), or with dead/drugged up animals. I can share many many screenshots of messages where a seemingly “good guy” goes from “looking for long term relationship” to something like “I want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 09:15 AM
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I’m not talking about protections. Nor are they. They are highlighting the public victim blaming commentary about women when they are hurt by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:42 AM
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My question “are you equally as upset when similar comments are made against victims who are women?” You said you did but you kept getting told you were wrong… by women… but you meant on this post!? Yes there are double standards. That is what people are trying to point out. When the woman is the victim - people ask “what wear you wearing/were you drunk/why were you out late… “ etc and the perpetrator gets called “a loving father/out of character/great guy”. Now that the male is a victim - these…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:32 AM
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Women told you that you were wrong to call out victim blaming? Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:03 AM
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Rare? Ok mate!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:15 PM
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Told by who? Other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:09 PM
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Commented? My point was do you ever post about how horrible comments are when the victim blame is placed on a female?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:07 PM
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I was using that case for the example of what police said about the case. As an example of similar comments being made about this case. You didn’t answered my question, do you make reddit posts about similar comments that are made when it is a victim who is a woman? This is an abhorrent crime. And she deserves to be punished. I don’t agree with the narrative. Just saying I understand the background. I don’t think these comments are warranted for any gender. However it’s having the desired effect…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:53 PM
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It’s not a “joke”. They’re not saying it’s a joke or funny in anyway. They are just trying to point out the hypocrisy. People getting upset about the comments, but they don’t call out the same comments when the perpetrator is male. I’m not saying it’s necessarily right. But it does demonstrate the hypocrisy. As someone who grew up 30 minutes from this small town, I’m appalled by this crime and the severity. The perpetrator absolutely deserved the punishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:42 PM
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No one is saying women don’t harm! They are just using the same rhetoric that is used when a man does similar. Yes - it’s upsetting and wrong. But are you equally as upset when similar comments are made against victims who are women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:51 PM
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They are NOT “cheering for her” as you describe. What she did is abhorrent and unacceptable. However the comments they are using, are the same that have been said (many times) about male perpetrators, when women are the victim. There was a case in Australia where a man killed his estranged wife and 3 children by dousing them in petrol/gas, killing them all, and then unalived himself. A police detective said to the media among other things… “is it an instance of a husband being driven too far by …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:48 PM
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Having seen numerous profiles, I don’t feel sorry. I actually feel embarrassed at how cringe the profiles of the majority are. Photos that are obviously 10 years old, bathroom selfies, gym mirrors or just terrible angles. (Don’t get me started on the fish, photos of their children or even with their ex!) No description, information or any detail.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:49 AM
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Idk what that means. But I’d never go a chad, I don’t want some guy who subscribes to Alpha bs. Thinks that being a gym hoe/bro somehow makes you sexy. And negging a women is becoming!! Just be kind, respectful and honest. Leave you mommas basement!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:28 PM
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Preach!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:05 PM
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The stats from the op show that men are leaving sick wives at significantly higher rather women are leaving their sick husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:54 AM
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Who is mocking or blaming anyone for not getting married? But on your original point, financial success post divorce is usually higher for men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 11:08 PM
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Then why aren’t they doing it when the man is sick? He doesn’t want to be left medical debt, but it’s fine if she is?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 11:03 PM
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I think your last paragraph is correct. The rest sounds like you’re blaming your dick for shitty women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:58 PM
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Men influence men’s expectations about what women supposedly “want”, more than women ever do. I have NEVER judged a sexual experience based on penis size.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:02 AM
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Both parents get all their spending tracked and then see how much they’re spending on their children! Sounds fantastic! Assuming eligible items are food, clothing/shoes, rent, utilities, childcare fees, school fees, medical appointments and prescriptions, insurance, dental (including orthodontics), sports fees, car expenses to transport child, compensation for pay lost to keep sick children home, babysitting, birthday/christmas presents, plus birthday gifts if child attends a party, computer for…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:17 AM
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Just to counter that… if she is with you, she’s with you for more reasons than that. If that’d been enough in her past, then she’d still be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:13 AM
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No I meant men talking about all this alpha crap. You have to do this, be this, trust me bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:00 AM
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Sure there’s trends for all genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:27 PM
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Not at all. Never said that. Just that you can’t generalise any gender as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:08 PM
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No one wants a chad. Honestly the whole alpha male thing is ridiculous. It’s just putting men against men. Most women (not all) don’t want some bloke who thinks he’s king shit. A lot of women just want kind and respectful men. Not “wanna be alphas” or chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:04 PM
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Kinda proving my point there. “Women’s standards are too high”. Usual tripe to justify why some guy isn’t getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:23 AM
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Another day on ppd, another reason women are always the problem… yawn! Can we stop generalising?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 06:56 AM
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The number of profiles I see on Tinder and Hinge, where there is just little to no information is so frustrating. I’m not going to swipe right on any person who is just relying on obviously old photos or just because they are holding a fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 12:22 AM
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Same!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:53 AM
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As someone who has never cared about height, salary, cars or muscular stomachs - I find the common trope amusing. You’ll find a lot of online men who tell you this is a woman’s standards, but you will find less women who say that is their standard. Some online men will use these imagined standards as their reason/excuse as to why they can’t get a partner. And to be honest if a woman WAS that shallow, is that even someone you’d want to be with? Kindness, respect, honesty, shared values, trust, no…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:13 AM
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So why are there so many poor guys who manage to have relationships? Sure money can make life easier, but it doesn’t always make a person better. IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 06:04 AM
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Look like your mother? That’s odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:50 AM
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They never cum? Ummm…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:43 AM
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I’ve felt the most alone in bed next to my then partner, than I’ve ever felt alone in my own bed. Honestly, men just need to be a better option than being happy on my own. The bar is so low.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:44 PM
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No hatred or judgement if the woman is older? You’re joking right? SMH so “hagmaxxing” is a compliment?!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 10:41 PM
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Have you seen the hate if the woman is older than her partner? Def not the same judgement if the man is older.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:11 PM
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As a woman who has been successful career wise, I think the “air of superiority” that you mention isn’t something I’ve really encountered. Confidence shouldn’t make you act arrogantly. No matter the gender. My attitude is we are all the same, some people just have different job titles. I was in a long term relationship for almost 15 years. Now I occasionally date, and the job a guy does isn’t even a deciding factor. I will say I don’t live in America, and I think here in Australia it’s possibly …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:05 AM
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I’m so very sorry that happened to you. I meant that by proving my point, yes men are victims too. But it’s not a competition. Both genders have problems and issues. I was referring to when a woman posts or talks about their own experience… and “some men” chime in - almost every time with - “what about men….?” It’s like a woman can’t express their experiences, without “some man” saying “but what about men….”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:16 AM
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Kind of proving my point there by “what about men”! As for your second claim… as I said it’s a tiny percentage of false claims. And I can certainly site many more cases where “some men” get let off even when the claims are proven in court.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:54 AM
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A peeve of mine is almost anytime a woman talks about their own experiences, dv, femicide etc there will be a “what about men blah blah”, even with insta/tic tok accounts devoted to those topics. When (some) men could just absorb and attempt to understand the topic - eg some men immediately jump to “why aren’t you talking about men’s mental health as well!” “Men are victims of violence too”! Just keep scrolling or start your own account on that topic! Yes men can be victims too. But the perp in …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:25 AM
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If only there were examples of males having to attract females in the animal kingdom… Because the usual thing on here is to refer back to basic “biology”. But TBH who cares who initiates? Who chases? Just let it be respectful!! If you like someone, then let them know. They say yes - happy days! They say no - don’t take it personally and get all weird - just move on!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:14 AM
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Men swipe right on every woman. Women actually read the profiles and the words. So less right swipes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:38 AM
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Same!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:37 AM
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Nor me!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:37 AM
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Exactly, he doesn’t need to write an essay!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 07:14 PM
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You need to find better friends if you rarely see this, and you view relationships as a transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 07:12 PM
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My first choice would’ve been my high school boyfriend! And that would’ve be a disaster! I’d rather be the final choice!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:16 PM
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No, but you might in a bad one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:29 PM
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But if you want a good relationship they are needed. Cheating isn’t needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:24 PM
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Sure it’s not a need. But respect and trust are essential in a healthy relationship. ENM is a thing. Cheating is cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:17 PM
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Men are the gender more likely to murder men. Men are the gender more likely to murder women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:18 AM
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I don’t think you’re making the point you think you’re making here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:17 AM
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Which gender is more likely to be the murderer in all cases?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:52 PM
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You are so rude! You’re trying for some “gotcha” moment to prove a point you are never going to prove. SMH
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:41 PM
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More nuanced? Just seems double standards to me!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:33 PM
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No not “red pilled men’s job” but stop with the judgement when guys do exactly the same things!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:47 PM
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You make an assumption (one of many made there sunshine) that I give a funk what online people think of me!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:50 PM
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Possibly. But not my experience. For me - I’m financial, stable, great life, so for me personally (#notallwomen) it’s the choice between my current lifestyle, and working out whether it’s be better with a partner. And yes - I know I’m privileged! But the bar is quite low from my perspective - for a partner. Someone respectful, kind, has emotional iq, and not after someone to “fix” them. Looks and income don’t really come into it. As long as they aren’t in huge amounts of debt!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:24 PM
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Say what now? Honestly look up the definition of what true feminism means. It’s not anti-men. It’s equality and equity for any gender. That the patriarchy has helped anyone of any gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:57 PM
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Yep. Whatever! I’m far from a bot. But unfortunately for you - Idgaf what you think! Jog along.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:43 PM
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Easy access to sex? Every person has a choice. No one is forcing anyone to settle. Have some dignity and respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:28 PM
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No plans to have any partnership nor marriage with any man. The decision is between being happily alone, or settling. I don’t need a men. Which I think is what people don’t seem to understand. It’s between being single and being in a relationship - so a man would need to offer something better otherwise I’ll stay happily single.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:22 PM
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I have decent kind supportive friends. Always have. Only ever been called a “sl*t” in jest, as a joke by my women friends! I know women do this to other women and it’s not ok. It’s not ok from any gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:57 AM
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Think of words that are used as insults to women… sl, wh, cu, bit, loose… Younger women can get labelled with such insults, true but usually not true. And then get judged by that. It sticks. So then they’re viewed as “damaged goods” - because some men who view women as a commodity. A guy might get called a stud! Yeah I’m older, and seriously dgaf about others opinions anymore. But do I/ would I get judged by certain men - hell yeah! But the ones that are mature, do not care!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:48 AM
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Misogynist / alpha males etc shame women for having any sort of body count. But they brag about having a high one. I’ve been shamed by men. Never in my life have I been shamed by a woman. But I’m sure there are women that would - just not the ones I hang with. With exception of my mother - if she knew!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:33 AM
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Read your post “weaker gender”. So yeah - you did! Have never judged a man for being a virgin. Would actually prefer that than a guy who thinks he “knows” what he’s doing and won’t listen to me or learn what works for me personally. What does spending have to do with the wage gap? Have you been in a war? I have. Have you been arrested and denied medical assistance for a miscarriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 06:30 AM
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How does society favour women? By judging them for body count? By paying them less? By devaluing home duties and having children? By stopping / disrespecting them from having autonomy over their bodies? Or by judging them for being “weaker”?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 06:18 AM
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You
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 06:14 AM
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Stop thinking you are a victim! Be a survivor! Treat people with respect, be kind, it’s not that hard!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 06:14 AM
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And that’s all women’s fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 06:12 AM
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Are they? Really? Because I have found more courtesy from women, than I’ve ever had from a man. Not all men. Not all women. Just be kind!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 06:10 AM
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Shouldn’t we be kind, respectful and courteous to everyone? No matter the gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 06:06 AM
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Privilege? Relationships and respect work because people do the work!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 06:06 AM
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Embrace women being shamed for their body count?! Smh They already are! If your feelings aren’t being taken into account, then get new friends. Because any person, no matter how they identify, deserves respect! And “lady killer” is most definitely not a compliment! It’s not a war between men versus women! Be kind. Be respectful. Be careful with your words. It’s really not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:36 AM
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In Australia the initiator usually pays the cost of the court application. About $1,100 Aussie dollarbucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:15 AM
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I’m not American! Usually pronouns consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:57 AM
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“My wife’s aunt called her a few years ago and told him he…” ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:04 AM
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So then rp men go their own way! Why would that be a problem? I’m happy when trashy disrespectful men take themselves out of the dating pool and quit whinging that women somehow owe them anything!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 05:36 AM
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If you give a “gift” (in this case your sperm), then you have no rights over what the receiver decides to do with the said “gift”. Once it leaves your body, and enters another body, it is no longer your autonomy! A man can abstain if he is really concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:37 PM
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Trying to wonder why women would possibly take that option… after your comment, OP and many other comments on this sub. SMH Honestly if the choice is between OP and your ilk, I’ll choose to be alone 100% of the time. And I don’t even like cats!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:32 PM
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That must be why you never see anyone complaining their partner games too much, ignoring them and their children. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:41 AM
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Men have a choice to not give the sperm to the woman. Once that sperm leaves your body and enters hers, no you don’t get to decide what she does with her body. So abstain, get a vasectomy, use contraception, or do not have piv sex. Lots of choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 01:48 AM
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You’d potentially vote to make it legal to kill babies??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 01:43 AM
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Majority of female mate selection is absolutely due to a males behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:11 PM
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Not sure where I said that. I did say it was damaging to all genders. I also said in another comment that feminism is actually about equality and equity for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:05 PM
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I’m not sure how that’s contradictory. Both things can be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:59 PM
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Unlike the current patriarchy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:44 AM
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Agreed. I just think men are doing more damage to other men atm - than what women are. Feminism at the core - is not misandry - it’s about equity and equality - and is actual helpful to all genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:09 AM
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Dismantling the patriarchal expectations and demands is helpful for all genders. Men have a lot of pressure because of patriarchy (“what it means to be a ‘real’ man”). 🙄 It’s damaging to all genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:50 AM
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Because he gives a scapegoat. Rather than taking account of who you come across as an individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:29 AM
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Aka patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:28 AM
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You mean TikTok’s where people are doing extreme fake things to get views and likes? Shocked pikachu face!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 04:51 AM
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It’s almost like people make tik tok videos for likes not for reality!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 04:34 AM
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I am 48 years old. I don’t need to have a partner use a condom for pregnancy issues… and haven’t for some time… But I still do, because for me there’s worse shit than pregnancy. But I don’t know any female friend that has ever insisted on no condom. Never. Ever. Because to a woman it makes no difference in the feeling. (Unlike men). However, 90% of men will ask/beg/demand/stealth for no condom. I don’t know who tf you are sleeping with, but the choice is yours! If it’s not on, it’s not on!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:23 PM
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Men who ask their female partners to not use condoms are in the wrong morally. The truth is this. Many women want to have sex but also don't want to worry about having a child. (Because men can check out on parental duties, but women rarely can). Now, if someone, for whatever reason, is just not open entirely to having sex with someone who isn't open to children, that is one thing. What is evil and disgusting is when men ask women to not use condoms (aka demand not to, as it’s “uncomfortable” /“…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:03 PM
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You need better friends
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:52 AM
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Same. Thank goodness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:09 AM
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We’re not all in the USA
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:37 AM
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Yeah … get back to me when women have the same autonomy over their own bodies as men have on theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:14 AM
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Majority of women?! So just like the majority of men agree with Andrew Tate et al… smh OLD is not great for any gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:54 AM
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Why do seemingly wholesome men consume so much toxic anti-women content on social media? notallmen and not all women. I know some people who follow fishing accounts on insta but have never caught a fish. I follow crochet/knitting accounts and “like” posts. But I’ve never knitted or crocheted a blanket.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 06:39 AM
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Not sure where you live, or whether you’re getting that data from those anti-women sites, but a quite search of reputable studies - one of those from the United Kingdom where children were tested due to Child Support disputes (possibly the most likely cases to have incorrect fathers to be listed) only 0.2% were found to have the incorrect paternity. A study in the US (2008) of requested DNA paternity tests (from committed relationships), 2% came back as not the listed father.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:43 AM
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Then you actually don’t trust your partner enough. And for all the things that parenthood and life in general brings, you need a hell of a lot of pure trust. As does your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:33 AM
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No. It’s where insecure untrusting men question paternity. Don’t have babies if you don’t trust your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:03 AM
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Pushing a baby out - only to be questioned about paternity - I can promise you that will not be cheap, effective and most def invasive!! You sir have some issues. And it’s best if you don’t get into a situation where you need to question paternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:46 PM
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How would we know/trust that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:44 AM
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