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The kid was 16 and she did break the law, but I don't think this can be considered statutory rape when he was above the age of consent. But neither can she at all claim to be a victim. She willingly had sex with someone under her authority and could have reported him to the police, his parent, the school etc.
/r/MensRights05/06/14 11:38 PM
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This is in addition to the 2 years mandatory military service that young men must do. None for the women though. At one point their time was counted towards their experience in civil jobs, but the Minister for Gender Equality took that away too, I am guessing because it was unfair on the women. Ridiculous.
/r/MensRights23/05/14 12:32 AM
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What is funny about all of this is that women KNOW the effect their bodies have on men. Put a young teenager in a formal school uniform and some will hike her skirt up as high as possible, put on make up and try to show as much cleavage as possible, even when it is cold! Then deny that it is because they want male attention. The funny thing is if one girl started dressing like that around another's boyfriend, she would put a stop to it immediately. Women know what they are doing when they dress …
/r/MensRights28/04/14 03:39 AM
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I would agree with people that yoga pants are not at all suitable for girls to wear to school or even suited to a business/education environment. Whether you accept it or not, clothes beyond basic covering are a form of signalling. Whether that be expensive clothing, fashionable clothing etc; they are designed to put out a message about the wearer or at least attract attention to them. In our cultural context, yoga pants are seen as sexy, plain and simple. Sexy is cool, but not for kids and not …
/r/MensRights03/04/14 07:28 PM
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Maybe you are right. I just appreciate when someone comes to mensrights and shares an unpopular opinion.
/r/MensRights03/04/14 04:37 PM
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Thanks for bravely posting even though everyone disagrees with you. Firstly, I would agree with people that yoga pants are not at all suitable for girls to wear to school or even suited to a business/education environment. Whether you accept it or not, clothes beyond basic covering are a form of signalling. Whether that be expensive clothing, fashionable clothing etc; they are designed to put out a message about the wearer or at least attract attention to them. In our cultural context, yoga pant…
/r/MensRights03/04/14 04:17 PM
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Well I can't say he is being mean, but I give an opinion of how it would look to the people commenting on her relationship. They have an understanding and that is all that matters, but people are going to see and comment on how things look. If she is cool with it and so is he then fine but people are gonna have their own opinions based on how they would understand such actions.
/r/MensRights01/04/14 03:48 PM
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I can't talk about your relationship as you guys seem to have a mutual understanding, but jokes about appearance (especially towards a woman, and further more during pregnancy) looks pretty mean spirited from the outside. From what you have said, he seems like a good guy, but from the outside it looks pretty mean.
/r/MensRights01/04/14 03:23 PM
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And you can come back in any time! Okay I just made myself sick.
/r/MensRights13/02/14 02:23 PM
5

What about steroid abuse? Or unattractive men not being able to wear makeup?
/r/MensRights09/01/14 11:49 PM
3

Whenever I have seen something with male victims on WWYD, the majority of the population will not help. I think it has usually been older women that step in (and that is rarely). Even men don't protect other men. Quite sad.
/r/MensRights15/12/13 01:25 PM
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Shouldn't she start from scratch and build her own computer from first principles since masculine thought will be inherent in the tools she is using?
/r/MensRights12/12/13 12:28 PM
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Girls are generally the most shit at football (the don't even play). If someone told me I played tennis like Serena Williams I would be flattered!
/r/MensRights20/11/13 01:16 AM
4

I personally would like Mo Breast in my life :P
/r/MensRights15/11/13 12:39 AM
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My feelings exactly. Apply the laws fairly and either keep or remove all of the groups.
/r/MensRights14/11/13 11:07 PM
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Male daycares are pedo traps. Why chase kids when you can get their parents to drop them off and pay you for it! /sarcasm
/r/MensRights12/11/13 06:49 AM
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It almost seems as if you only care about male rape insofar as it allows you to discredit feminists I think that is the point. There is not one post here saying that these game shouldn't have those scenes with male victims. Just that Anita has cherry picked games and made it seem as if females are always the victims in games when that is not the case even remotely.
/r/MensRights12/11/13 06:35 AM
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I think women compete with each other and try to out do one another in looks. That's where the pressure comes from. Not men demanding women be made up or anything but in basic good shape. It sounds more like they are really saying, 'I want access to the best of men, even though I am not particularly attractive'.
/r/MensRights12/11/13 03:49 AM
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We're you guys trying for children or did it just 'Ooooops!' happen?
/r/MensRights28/10/13 04:15 AM
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Even when boys do well, they find an insulting reason why they do so. It could not be they understood the material better or they think quickly, they must be relying on their primitive caveman 'gut'. When the girls are not doing well, it is because they actually think about the questions so it slows them down. What crap. How about instead of creating a war of the sexes, we work towards an education that gives everyone an equal opportunity to make something great of their lives. Don't favor a par…
/r/MensRights28/10/13 04:09 AM
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Now imagine the people in prison who were/are never vindicated. Or the victims who's attackers roam free.
/r/MensRights24/10/13 01:40 PM
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I am not sure what to call him or her since she is still transitioning. When do you change pronouns?
/r/MensRights18/10/13 08:19 PM
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It is an insightful post. I think the only people who can give a real insight into male/female issues is people who have lived as both. I don't think she has spend long enough as a guy to really get it. She missed the teens and twenties where she had to deal with dating, rejection, being pretty much ignored, the physical threat of other guys, the pressure to be somewhat successful etc. I do think women have to deal with being approached in uncomfortable situations which is unpleasant. The coroll…
/r/MensRights18/10/13 01:26 PM
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Partly it helps to educate people (and myself) about how a man who may be physically stronger can, be forced to do something he did not want to do. I can think of a few ways it is possible but would like to know his experience. Also, asking questions helps fish out trolls who want to get a laugh out of a serious issue. The line I quoted did seem a little 'fishy'.
/r/MensRights17/10/13 10:40 PM
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Well he is telling his story already so why would he not want to explain what happened? If he says "no, I don't want to explain that" then fine. I would like to understand what happened.
/r/MensRights17/10/13 05:09 PM
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She pulled me into her room and shut the door. She made me take off her clothes. She made me take mine off. Then she kept having my penis until I got an erection. Can you explain more about how she did this?
/r/MensRights17/10/13 09:50 AM
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Alimony is BS. Outside of a house parent that has sacrificed their career to build a family, there is no need to pay alimony. Even then, it should be a get back on your feet fund, or some form of payment for what you helped them achieve during the marriage.
/r/MensRights17/10/13 09:45 AM
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Ignore my blabber haha. Still not addressed those points my friend. First things first, You responded to that because I am right. If you were right, there would be no need to respond with data because your previous 'proof' was insufficient. Now that we agree on that... You misapply the stats. Firstly, your data has nothing to do with women in tech (nice try, but I noticed). It also has nothing to do with discrimination. Harassment != discrimination. Secondly, while discrimination is illegal, it …
/r/MensRights16/10/13 12:40 PM
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In her example, when a male colleague made a mistake he was berated pretty badly, where as a woman who made a similar mistake would get told what to change quite politely. She claimed to have seen this happen a few times. One poster (non tech) on reddit claimed that despite being more experienced, guys who worked under her were actually paid more. When she confronted her boss, he says "Well you are married and your husband takes care of you so you don't need that much money". Is this conclusive …
/r/MensRights16/10/13 12:03 PM
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No, and neither have you. This is the weakest position of all - the appeal to absent authority. "I'll only accept x to be true if you provide a scientific study which conforms to my expectations". Of course in reality we don't need to conduct such surveys for absolutely everything and demanding one only shows that you know this is trivially true and are looking for an excuse not to even consider it. But I am not the one making such an absolute claim. I don't need to prove that women face discrim…
/r/MensRights16/10/13 11:38 AM
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Of course, in fact I already have. Everything the OP complains about is equally applicable to men. That is equality. No it's not. Have you run any kind of survey that proves it is equally applicable? Either in application or in intensity? How do you know for sure. It seems more like you have already made up your mind and that is that. Is it inconceivable that anyone working in an environment where they are in the vast minority is going to face some kind of discrimination? We have posts on here a…
/r/MensRights16/10/13 09:55 AM
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I think so. But when the original poster gives an example where her idea (which she later proved to be a good one) is dismissed purely on the grounds of being a woman, that is pretty clear cut sexism. One of my female friends gave me an example where male colleges where treated worse when they made a mistake, should we just discount that too because we can't know? How about a transsexual that says that as a he, her work was taken more seriously (I wish I could find the post). Someone thought he …
/r/MensRights16/10/13 09:31 AM
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But we have to accept that we can never eradicate prejudice and discrimination. There will always be a little and spending exponentially greater amounts of time and money trying to get rid of something that will never go away is a waste. Who said anything about spending exponential amounts of time or money? We are just trying to acknowledge prejudice which you are quite keen to dismiss. I am sure during the civil rights movement people said the same thing. "Just accept how things are, they will …
/r/MensRights16/10/13 08:47 AM
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But the whole point of this thread is to discuss women's experiences in tech. She is right to say she is discriminated against in some ways. We are talking about the differences in male and female treatment, so you cannot dismiss her opinion as something we all go through. How about instead of accepting discrimination, we work towards changing attitudes and minds? That way we could make things better for men, women, short people, the disabled, black, white, brown etc. I guess since all people fa…
/r/MensRights16/10/13 12:06 AM
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I worded that badly and competent agree with you. What I meant was that if someone initiates oral, the receiver is not crazy for thinking sex is going to happen. If they initiate sex and the person goes along with it while at no point saying stop or indicating they don't want to do so, that's not fair at all. If you want to just do a part of sex, you are gonna have to say so or at least stop the person whenever they are about to cross a boundary.
/r/MensRights10/10/13 10:37 PM
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To be more clear, what I mean is that if someone initiates oral but does not want full sex then fine. But anyone would take it as a sign that they want to have sex too. It is on the initiator to say 'no' I don't want to do that. It is not anyone's right to "say you gave me head, so you have to have sex with me". People generally don't ask "can we have sex?" they move forward carefully and if the person does not say or indicate a "no" they continue. She said no earlier and I can fully respect tha…
/r/MensRights10/10/13 09:58 PM
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I am guessing people have differing boundaries, but isn't oral sex... sex? And I personally would consider it a more intimate form of sex than PIV. A sad thing is that we teach our young men and boys that men are women are 'sugar and spice and all things nice'. We never teach them that some women are really bad people too. We never teach them that when you see red flags you need to run for you life. Men are often hopeless romantics and I can empathize with him for ignoring her potential issues. …
/r/MensRights10/10/13 02:07 PM
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I agree with you. I just wish we had better tools to pick who we chose to give extra help to. Gender alone is not a good discriminator, but in some cases it may be a significant factor in who determining who should get help.
/r/MensRights10/10/13 12:37 PM
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I don't have a problem with what Anita has done. In part she is right (but games objectify both genders). What bothers me is what she has done with the money. Is she accountable for how she spends it? Why can't she spend it on getting some female friendly games made instead of pocketing it for herself?
/r/MensRights07/10/13 10:50 AM
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Also 20 is an extremely small sample size. This could just be data cherry picking.
/r/MensRights01/10/13 08:08 PM
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How could they resist a wrinkly, ugly, mean, sexist, bitter old school girl?
/r/MensRights01/10/13 01:50 AM
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I think it's a joke.
/r/MensRights01/10/13 01:45 AM
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I think a better analogy would be telling drivers that they can stop others from drink driving.
/r/MensRights30/09/13 06:12 PM
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This is a small win, but the real win would be the law breakers being fined for their actions.
/r/MensRights27/09/13 12:22 PM
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Uhhhhh I am sure the line is "I know you want me, stop screaming, they won't find the body" /s
/r/MensRights26/09/13 05:01 AM
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Bars and clubs are not such good places to meet men for a range of reasons. 23 is not old and no amount of 'damage' is too much, you just have to find the right guy. A person that is willing to listen and work though issues is good relationship material, but some issues will make some people walk away.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/13 01:15 PM
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Are these guys pedophilles?
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/13 01:10 PM
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It is a price that is just not worth it.
/r/MensRights24/09/13 11:22 PM
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Wouldn't you say, "You okay?" And give her a chance to let you know what she wants or does not want? What is a point of interruption? Is this some bizarre point where I turn in to a brute that can't stop copulating till I blow my load?
/r/MensRights15/09/13 01:35 PM
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I forgot what the article was about. Haha. She is nice.
/r/MensRights12/09/13 12:50 AM
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Sorry me reply went to the wrong comment. Some idiot was being racist.
/r/MensRights08/09/13 04:08 AM
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Sexual assault is good enough for me, probably a better description.
/r/MensRights08/09/13 04:06 AM
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Even if there was context. Even if he gave the most enthusiastic of consents, she is guilty if rape especially when flouting the law in public.
/r/MensRights07/09/13 11:02 PM
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By virtue if being Mae he wanted it dude. 'Male' is enthusiastic consent.
/r/MensRights07/09/13 10:54 PM
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They are both to blame along with the producers. But Robin was not dancing around in next to nothing gyrating and acting like a complete mess.
/r/MensRights28/08/13 11:43 PM
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I agree but how would you disprove a rape that happened (or did not) 20 years ago to the extent that it is justifiable to fine the prosecutor? There is a difference between 'we know you are lying' and 'we can't prove it happened'.
/r/MensRights27/08/13 11:16 PM
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I am curious how the judge determined these women were lying? Allegations from the 80s are hard to disprove.
/r/MensRights27/08/13 07:44 PM
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But why on earth is he being tried for it? I can imagine his wife saying "See, he confessed, it's his fault I killed her!!!"
/r/MensRights27/08/13 12:58 PM
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Why is the husband blaming himself?
/r/MensRights27/08/13 06:49 AM
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If he gave her a stack of 1s and asked if they could go to the VIP room it would have been hilarious.
/r/MensRights26/08/13 08:10 PM
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http://www.shrink4men.com a lot of it is gonna sound awfully familiar.
/r/MensRights25/08/13 05:13 PM
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No root without enthusiastic consent.
/r/MensRights23/08/13 06:23 PM
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Might as well be the one that can grow more facial hair and has a deeper voice.
/r/MensRights23/08/13 08:22 AM
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It's like these people want to be angry and point the accusing finger at someone. Can't someone even ask a question? I hate this over sensitive false outrage.
/r/MensRights23/08/13 12:08 AM
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An unpopular opinion around some parts, but I agree with you.
/r/MensRights21/08/13 06:25 AM
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That sub is a bit nutty but don't commit to any ideology 'for good' keep thinking asking questions, learning and looking for better answers. You can bet mensrights gets things wrong. Without that mensrights is just another circle jerk.
/r/MensRights19/08/13 07:52 PM
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This was might first thought too. It is just a dumb tshirt and if the genders were reversed, there would not be a shit storm. It's a silly joke, who cares. I hope this sub does not get its 'boxers in a bunch' over every silly gag.
/r/MensRights19/08/13 09:29 AM
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I don't think the power fantasy bit is quite accurate, we just like tits!
/r/MensRights19/08/13 06:13 AM
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Whether these reasons are valid (the are not) I just think it is ridiculous to expect someone that is not in anyway committed to you to pay for your upkeep.
/r/MensRights18/08/13 12:53 PM
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The Who should release, "Better Than the Best Song Ever!"
/r/MensRights17/08/13 09:15 PM
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In a rape/mugging, you don't get to 'comply', you are forced to do it against your will. Whether or not someone has multiple sexual partners has zero bearing on their right to give or withhold consent. She is somehow conflating consensual sex with forced sex to get her point across. This analogy is completely stupid and an insult to actual victims as well as men.
/r/MensRights17/08/13 06:39 PM
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My impression is that r/redpill are men that have woken up to the darkside of femininity. They employ PUA techniques to get what they see women as only being good for (sex) while not thinking much of them. Non redpill PUAs see women as the prize in life. They employ every technique they can to get sex and 'HB10s' but are not really aware that women can be quite messed up people too, just like men. They attempt to hack the system instead of fixing it. Where redpill and MGTOW/MRA diverge is that r…
/r/MensRights16/08/13 06:32 PM
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I have nothing against mgtow. Red Pill however is kinda disturbing. I get the impression those guys hate women.
/r/MensRights15/08/13 08:24 PM
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May the force be with you.... Rape culture!!!!!
/r/MensRights14/08/13 07:57 PM
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First few dates it makes sense to split the bill. After that once you are in some kind of relationship taking each other out is pretty nice. I take her somewhere special, the next time she does the same.
/r/MensRights14/08/13 01:07 PM
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From what I read, PZ Meyers thinks Shermer is a 'Pig' for using his celebrity to bed women. Tell that to any rock star, actor, athlete, actress, artist etc. Isn't it really the fault of women (or men) that think that someone being famous makes them sexier? Is George Clooney to blame for thousands of women wanting to have sex with him? Or is it the shallow fan that wants to rub the bell end of anyone that has been on TV and can sing a few notes? What has been released of the account of the rape i…
/r/MensRights13/08/13 01:44 PM
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That is genuine personal strength. A guy that dislikes that is not worth dating. The problem I have is that a lot of women consider them selves strong, when they are in fact rude immature and sometimes abusive assholes. They think strength means dominating someone in some way. What bothers me is that while a man acting like an asshole is playing on a fair footing as you can knock him out if necessary, most guys are not comfortable confronting women and violence is out of the question. Their 'str…
/r/MensRights12/08/13 08:12 AM
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I don't think it should be us vs them. Just because boys are treated unfairly, shouldn't make people push for girls to be too. We should work towards sane laws. Both cases are bullshit.
/r/MensRights12/08/13 03:58 AM
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Exactly. I like these posters.
/r/MensRights11/08/13 06:30 PM
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Anywhere it can be proved by facts. I personally think that for many of the issues that mensrights brings up, there is often a corollary issue for women. Domestic violence, rape, work place discrimination, stereotyping etc are both issues for men and women. Where men's rights comes in is that we have made great efforts to solve things for women (I think this is wonderful!) but we ignore men's needs. Partly because we believe men are so powerful and can just out man any problem, while women are s…
/r/MensRights10/08/13 09:21 PM
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I am gonna have to ban you for derailing dude : /
/r/MensRights09/08/13 07:41 AM
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The patriarchy made me do it!
/r/MensRights09/08/13 07:39 AM
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Thinking like THIS is why mensrights is going to progress.
/r/MensRights08/08/13 11:47 PM
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It is an amazing & heartbreaking thread. Good to see survivors talking and both genders coming together to discuss something that hurts everyone.
/r/MensRights08/08/13 06:25 PM
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Mothers... IN PATRIACHY.
/r/MensRights08/08/13 02:24 PM
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Ooops wrong post.
/r/MensRights08/08/13 01:54 PM
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If your sub admits to being a circle jerk then fine. But if your sub claims to be an intellectual academic position, it should be open to discussion and criticism.
/r/MensRights05/08/13 06:21 PM
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Her videos are really approachable and difficult to dismiss because she is calm and rational. Barbarossa goes off the depend and gets quite nutty in some of his vids.
/r/MensRights04/08/13 08:20 AM
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I would say that rape cultures exist in some countries where is is okay to rape a woman and it is not likely to be punished. However, from what I know of the West, rape is a serious crime that will land you in jail really quickly; even with no evidence. Among men I have never heard of guys being pro rape. Men in fact often leap to the defense of women seeming to be in trouble with men. The problem with the term 'rape culture' it that it smears half the population with a broad and dirty brush. It…
/r/MensRights03/08/13 09:24 PM
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People should be able to wear what they want. However what you wear draws particular types of attention to you. As a guy, wearing a hoodie in a certain neighborhoods is probably not a good idea after what happened recently. Wearing expensive looking clothes in poor neighborhoods is also a bad idea. The problem is that what you wear may draw attention to you that you are not capable of handling. For a woman wearing sexually alluring clothing, 99.99% of the population would leave her alone. But th…
/r/MensRights03/08/13 09:04 PM
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Just read the rules in their side bar. To post you have to agree with them completely.
/r/MensRights03/08/13 08:41 PM
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If you are dependent on her, I would keep you opinions to yourself for now. No need to upset her when she won't listen.
/r/MensRights03/08/13 03:51 PM
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Weren't they in control of the kits this year? Pink and lavender I believe.
/r/MensRights01/08/13 10:19 PM
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Isn't it true that if a woman is raped, she needs witnesses to prove it? If true, that's disgusting.
/r/MensRights01/08/13 10:08 PM
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Possibly you need to try different places. Sometimes the city you are in really sucks. But honestly game is mostly bullshit. It will get you laid but has nothing to do with finding or being a good partner. The things women select for are useless predictors of compatibility, integrity or reliability. Being able to game women has nothing to do with building a strong relationship. Value yourself as a man, because good men are rare and few women have much to offer you besides their looks. A good man…
/r/seduction22/07/13 03:28 PM
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In modern society, a woman hitting a man is nearly just as bad as the reverse. It is the intent, the psychological damage and inability to fight back that count. Not the physical force. I have had accidental falls etc, but someone hitting me and not being able to do anything bothers me much more.
/r/MensRights22/07/13 06:44 AM
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Death by dildo.
/r/MensRights21/07/13 12:23 AM
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The guys who chased the attacker were not white knights. They were doing what any reasonable person should have. Defend a victim. The other guys however must have rode up on horses with lances in their hand. I am pretty sure they men would have explained they were chasing a potential murderer so anyone that tried to defend her is an asshole.
/r/MensRights20/07/13 07:44 AM
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Has their server been hacked?
/r/MensRights19/07/13 01:46 PM
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The problem is we only have Zimmerman's nonsensical story of Trayvon attacking him. It makes no sense. He had a gun on him at the time Trayvon attacked him but if Trayvon was on top how did he draw it and shoot him in the chest? If Zimmerman saw him approaching how come he did not pull the gun and tell him to stay away? Why would someone run away then come back? What would make someone run away in the first place? Could the gun already have been drawn? Also why was the jury all women and all Whi…
/r/MensRights15/07/13 12:40 PM
1

Am I the only one that noticed she is calculating how much she will get when his parents die? : O What a catch. I dread to think about what I will get when my parents die and I live my life like it won't happen.
/r/MensRights11/07/13 06:03 AM
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I am a little confused as to why this is a bad thing. If you are showing your breasts or legs or anything and someone compliments you on them, shouldn't you accept the fact that people are going to have opinions about what you are wearing? The whole point of cosplay is to dress for attention and admiration of other people. This isn't everyday life. What bothers me is someone deliberately wearing an outfit that is designed to be sexy, then complaining when people perceive them sexually. People do…
/r/MensRights09/07/13 12:59 PM
2

Keep you wife away from her. You don't know what poison might seep over!
/r/MensRights09/07/13 04:02 AM
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Wrong thread!
/r/TheRedPill05/07/13 08:08 AM
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"You are a man you can take it" - sexism. "You are a man you can take my 12 inch dildo in your turd cutter" - sexual harassment.
/r/MensRights02/07/13 06:40 AM
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If that is the thread in AskWomen, it is actually quite an interesting discussion. Worth a read. Not quite a completely feminist rant thread.
/r/MensRights28/06/13 02:11 PM
2

...claimed their pay conditions should be the same as in predominantly male occupations such as refuse collectors and groundsmen. But not their work conditions. : /
/r/MensRights27/06/13 04:20 AM
2

The trains just rape those tunnels!
/r/MensRights19/06/13 11:17 PM
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Yeah. MRAs gotta have a sense of humor. Being hypersensitive like some feminists is just silly. It is funny with a sting of truth.
/r/MensRights08/06/13 03:42 PM
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What if a boss/superior says "We fuck now or you lose your job?"
/r/MensRights01/06/13 02:48 AM
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Please provide a source for that statistic.
/r/MensRights30/05/13 02:07 PM
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http://www.shrink4men.com/ Read it and learn as much as you can.
/r/MensRights30/05/13 02:05 PM
1

Doesn't this make 60% of men sole or primary bread winner?
/r/MensRights30/05/13 02:16 AM
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Well you are considering only one circumstance. Certainly there are fathers who are tricked/forced into fatherhood but there are also serial child abandoners. Or guys with no financial stability, or guys that are already married, or bad boys or drug addicts, or guys in prison or on death row. Some women can't get enough of these guys and step over decent guys to have their child.
/r/MensRights20/05/13 11:42 PM
0

I agree with this speech. I just wish someone would tell women to not have kids with losers who are obviously not fit to be fathers, too. It goes both ways.
/r/MensRights20/05/13 06:01 AM
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I did not call what I said a fact. Read the last sentence again, slowly. But just look at how the previous guy is using NAWALT. He makes a bunch of claims about women, and dismisses any other opinion by simply accusing someone of NAWALT. This is MensRights dogma. It is the same form of argumentation I see on the feminist Reddits. Just discard a persons opinion by slapping a predefined label on to it. Don't agree with my opinion on men? Misogenist! Don't agree with my rape stats? Rape apologist. …
/r/MensRights16/05/13 05:34 PM
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NAWALT is like the feminist "what about the menz". Just chant it a few times at an argument you disagree with and it should just go away. No need to reason or try to counter it with any form of fact.
/r/MensRights16/05/13 03:56 PM
2

Didn't you hear that Einsteins Theory is misogenistic?
/r/MensRights16/05/13 10:53 AM
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In would teach both boys and girls about consent. Both how to give and how to receive it. Teaching boys not to rape implies it is something they would do.
/r/MensRights15/05/13 08:31 AM
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Have you met her ex? Are you sure he is a penniless deadbeat? He could be another decent guy that she ran the same game on. Check out www.shrink4men.com and if the stories remind you of her, don't get married.
/r/MensRights15/05/13 08:28 AM
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Regardless of if the material is mirrored, the problem is unfair censorship on untrue grounds. If we let this go, what is to stop other providers from following suit until there are no more MensRights sites on the Internet. Remember how life was in the UK and then one by one security cameras started going up, to 'protect us'. Then they started using said cameras to fine us for 'parking violations' then they started charging us to park outside of our homes. Gross injustices often start with small…
/r/MensRights14/05/13 04:02 AM
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The queen is just the king but female. More patriarchy disguised as inclusionism. : /
/r/MensRights12/05/13 08:31 AM
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I'm sorry but this is BS. 70% of media producers are men. They don't have a voice? They control the media. While the media is run by mostly men. It is not run for men. It is run for profit. The men that occupy positions of power do not represent or care about the needs of the average man anymore than a Wall Street banker represents or cares for the needs of the average American. Powerful men have a voice but they do not represent the needs or issues of the rest of us. It has become socially acce…
/r/MensRights09/05/13 05:20 AM
1

The only person that is in the wrong is the woman. They did not need to restrain the man and went a little overboard but she was the initiator of violence and should be prosecuted regardless of how light the slap was.
/r/MensRights08/05/13 06:08 AM
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You know the law does not apply to the rich and powerful! Crash the economy and you get... more tax payers money to blow on coke, hookers and yachts!
/r/MensRights08/05/13 05:50 AM
1

Just to confirm, it’s a waste of time posting anything to this blog which is anti-radical feminist. I have a policy of only promoting radical feminist, or pro- radical feminist, posts. There’s a whole, big bad world out there but this space is radfem space. To my radfem sisters, we will not be silenced, we will not be censored, and we will continue to meet in women-only safe spaces until the end of time Just great. What a bunch of nutters.
/r/MensRights06/05/13 09:14 AM
2

I like what I have heard of Lupe.
/r/MensRights06/05/13 02:26 AM
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I don't think the media is worried about portraying black people badly. Take hip hop; it is a diverse art form with sub genres ranging from its original political protest, to education of current situations and history, to feel good music to gangsta rap, then to what I can only describe as an ignorant expression and celebration of social disfunction in the black community (the newest form). Ever since its commercialization the most promoted forms have been the last two, exclusively by white owne…
/r/MensRights05/05/13 11:14 AM
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What are the benefits of an all boys video game club? She is talking out of her ass. There is sexism and racism when playing online. Guess why? Most of the guys online are young immature assholes. I don't play online to make friends, I do so to enjoy my game. If it is bad enough, make a complaint to whoever. But you can't legislate non assholery online. I don't like the portrayal of black characters in a lot of games. They are stereotypical very often. I either don't support those games or if I …
/r/MensRights05/05/13 07:28 AM
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GWW you did a wonderful job!
/r/MensRights04/05/13 09:21 PM
1

Awesome. Been looking forward to this!
/r/MensRights04/05/13 12:26 AM
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Lots of people just want to vent. But I agree with you. We should celebrate masculinity, good fathers, successful relationships, good news, etc because for the most part the media does not.
/r/MensRights26/04/13 10:41 PM
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How did you calculate the 2/3 probability? (Just curious)
/r/MensRights26/04/13 03:23 AM
1

Lots of those have to be trolling?
/r/MensRights25/04/13 01:00 PM
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He was 100% in the wrong and should be punished for it. Tricking someone or forcing someone to do something is not okay. I think being a Muslim, an abortion is also not an option for her.
/r/MensRights25/04/13 12:58 PM
2

Would make a great tv series.
/r/MensRights25/04/13 05:47 AM
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If men would just shut the f@ck up feminism would help : /
/r/MensRights25/04/13 05:20 AM
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It's sarcasm. The problem with what you have said is that if someone is not aware they are committing rape, telling them not to wont help. The person has to be aware of what they are doing for them to stop doing it.
/r/MensRights24/04/13 11:20 PM
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Found it funny. Most of the people on Xbl are assholes. This is just a role reversal.
/r/MensRights24/04/13 01:29 PM
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I am not sure what you want us to say. That is a terrible statistic for all of the children. Both numbers are far too high. The boys suffer a little more but none of them should be suffering. This is not misandry, it is opportunist perverts.
/r/MensRights24/04/13 01:25 PM
2

The laying on of penis!
/r/MensRights24/04/13 12:55 PM
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It was more about making her feel the way she trying to make you feel. Vaginas are beautiful and so is the male body. Mutilation should not be necessary to accept either. If she can't "woman up" and say what is going on in her head and just wants you to permanently alter your body on a whim, she really needs to think her priorities through.
/r/MensRights24/04/13 12:54 PM
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I think the point of the sign, in the context of so 'rape culture', is to blame all men for rape. Good intents, but woefully misguided. But your opinion is interesting. The only way we can know for sure is to ask the creator. Upvote good sir.
/r/MensRights24/04/13 12:48 PM
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I am imagining some hunchbacked, drooling fiend about to pounce on his victim then seeing the sign. He realizes, "Rape is wrong? Her screams, bruises and bite marks did not make this obvious, I will never do so again! Thank you sign!!!" People that rape know they are doing wrong. Telling them not to will have little to no effect. Educating victims on getting rape kits done immediately, staying safe, not feeling ashamed or afraid of what happened, not being intimidated, not blaming themselves and…
/r/MensRights24/04/13 12:09 PM
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Tell her you will cut your penis if she cuts her dogs dinner of a vagina. Absolutely horrible. If she can't give you a serious reason why she would like you to make a permanent change to yourself when you are just dating, just leave her. Selfish beyond belief. I would NEVER ask a woman to get a boob job or a labiaplasty if we were just dating. I don't think I could even if we were married. What she has is sexy because they are hers and her 'imperfections' endear her to me. If I can't accept them…
/r/MensRights24/04/13 11:53 AM
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Well it is not even 5% less service. The hours are peak hours (usually 5 - closing). These are the hours gyms charge a premium for since they know that most people cannot make it at other times. So men should get approximately 1/7th of a discount.
/r/MensRights24/04/13 11:23 AM
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You might be able to get away with hate filled for the fringes of the movement (some videos on YouTube are pretty extreme) but I have not even heard of an MRA lifting a finger against feminists. Even in the face of intense provocation.
/r/MensRights24/04/13 07:11 AM
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How about every freaking bar or club with a cover charge? Free or reduced entry for women, men pay lots then are expected to buy drinks.
/r/MensRights24/04/13 01:47 AM
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Anyone is welcome to post here :D
/r/MensRights23/04/13 11:18 PM
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I think 'misandry' is not a really helpful word, in the same way that 'misogyny' is not very helpful. Very few people go about with a hatred for all men or women (though they do exist). 'Misandry' always felt like a counterpunch to 'misogyny'; a way of pointing the finger back at feminists. Instead what I do believe is that gender roles forced men and women into positions that were detrimental but functional for our survival. Women's problems were very obvious while men's were subtle and looked …
/r/MensRights23/04/13 09:56 PM
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I'd publish it but make sure that any balanced lectures go through to. I might drop the 'e' and have it say 'Teaching men not to rap'. <sup>_</sup>^
/r/MensRights23/04/13 12:44 PM
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Dude was an asshole but this does not even belong on men's rants.
/r/MensRights23/04/13 10:14 AM
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It is very different. They made what I would guess is a peaceful protest and let people know what hate the group was spreading. The venue owners responded to that and declined. A far cry from violent protests, assault, pulling alarms and physically preventing people from entering the venue.
/r/MensRights23/04/13 04:09 AM
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They have both done something really bad. I fell most sorry for the wife and the child.
/r/MensRights22/04/13 05:27 PM
1

You have to put your case more eloquently than that and consider that even when you do so they won't like it.
/r/MensRights22/04/13 05:12 PM
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It is such a nebulous term. I have not heard an out right refutation of it, just proof that things are not stacked just in men's favor. It would be an interesting article or book that did so. Warren Farrell - The Myth of Male Power is a good place to start. You can hear the audio on YouTube. I think in limited contexts patriarchies do exist. Like in places such Saudi Arabia where women have few rights, but those places are nothing like the West and serve as examples of what a patriarchy would ac…
/r/MensRights21/04/13 01:10 PM
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Penis is the membership card. Whip it out to get an extra 23% on your wage too! Haha!
/r/MensRights21/04/13 01:04 PM
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As someone Japan who has experienced Japan too, I too feel that the recruiting of herbivore males as a model for MGTOW is a bit misguided. Simply put both genders are oppressed in their own ways. Men work extreme hours with very little family contact and women are over feminized to the point of having very little confidence and not being able to say no to men in some circumstances. It is just a mess in some ways. I don't think herbivores have made a conscious choice to reject relationships, they…
/r/MensRights21/04/13 12:10 PM
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That sounds an awful lot like dogma and not like rational intellectually rigorous discourse. Just because they are "our thoughts" does not make them correct. I would dare think there are somethings that feminism may have right and MHRA may have wrong but the only way we can find out is to discuss them with rational though. The BS will soon become apparent under the light of logic and truth. Contrary non trolling opinions are very valuable here as it prevent this place becoming a pointless echo c…
/r/MensRights21/04/13 08:56 AM
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I would like to think most people who claim to be MRAs/WRAs are anti-bullshit, whether it favours men or women.
/r/MensRights20/04/13 07:10 AM
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Cause people who are dead or in jail can't pay child support. Duh!
/r/MensRights20/04/13 07:08 AM
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Dude. Unless you live here, you just don't know. That blog post seemed normal to me.
/r/MensRights20/04/13 07:07 AM
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I see a preponderance of evidence....
/r/MensRights20/04/13 12:07 AM
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I think this is another topic, but Japan has a groping problem on trains. It has happened to a few of my friends. I think it is from the problem guys have expressing their sexuality normally resulting in weirdness. I have heard some really weird stories. However my gym has a women's only section that kinda pisses me off. Especially when it is mostly empty.
/r/MensRights19/04/13 11:59 PM
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Yet. There are crazy people in every movement. Met some assholes on here. It hasn't happened yet, but you can bet the moment some nutter misuses the info on that site, every feminist outlet is going to use it as proof that MHRAs are a violent hate group.
/r/MensRights19/04/13 04:45 PM
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I am just worried that the info on the site will be used by some fringe MRAs to act violently against some of the people on the site. Definitely not what the movement is about. But calling out public figures for their prejudice is okay by me.
/r/MensRights19/04/13 03:16 PM
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I wish I had the balls and resources to make this stand. I noticed this years ago. Women's only hour occurs in peak time to. The most valuable and expensive hours in gym time.
/r/MensRights19/04/13 09:08 AM
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I think they did not show pictures to prevent turning the entire male readership gay. (Not that that would be a good or bad thing)
/r/MensRights19/04/13 05:21 AM
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You are the one making the assertion. The burden of proof is on you. I have not stated my position. The problem is that you made a statement with zero evidence and then turned into a little bitch when I asked you to back up what you said. Anyhow, enough of this. I don't argue with idiots.
/r/MensRights15/04/13 07:22 AM
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If you were so confident of your assertion you would not begin with"if she is delusional..." If fairies are real, then it is a fact too. You just made a complete non statement. If something is true, then it is true! If you could actually prove she was delusional or at least offer some kind of evidence she is wrong then great. I think you and your 'logic' would feel right at home on r/feminism or srs. Lots of 'special' people that think just like you. Run along and have fun grown ups are talking …
/r/MensRights15/04/13 06:03 AM
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"You are delusional because of XYZ" would have been fine and actually brought, something to the discussion. Other people disagreed with her and had valid points but again you bring no facts to the table. Just rudeness and insults. Go eat a bag of dicks you asshole.
/r/MensRights15/04/13 05:40 AM
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Fascinating stuff. I find what you say believe able because I have seen women express these patterns outside of prison and I am not surprised that things are much worse inside. Both men and women can be wicked, but each goes about it differently. Usually men will fight you one on one while women will try to turn as many people against you as possible, gossip about you and exclude you from things. I am not surprised that with confinement things turn violent. I think wickedness or goodness are not…
/r/MensRights15/04/13 05:31 AM
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Whether you agree or not she provided a clear well explained argument for why she believes what she does. If you disagree, do it with actual facts and reason. Keep adhominem and emotional arguments out of men's rights please.
/r/MensRights15/04/13 05:21 AM
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The more appropriate question is, "Why is that a rule?" Any place of discussion should be open to disagreement and questioning. The rules stamp out anyone with a contrary opinion plain and simple.
/r/MensRights06/04/13 02:24 PM
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Shut the f*ck up. The truest first words of someone that sincerely cares about my issues and emotions. : /
/r/MensRights06/04/13 02:17 PM
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I got to three minutes before I wanted to punch myself in the face.
/r/MensRights06/04/13 02:14 PM
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Good news!
/r/MensRights05/04/13 07:13 AM
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I came here to say this. This should be top comment.
/r/MensRights28/03/13 05:23 AM
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I know this. But it is good to see comments like tis in response to the post that prove it explicitly, when many people take a glance at the sub and want to label us a hate group.
/r/MensRights25/03/13 02:03 PM
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So glad to see comments like this where everyone is not like, "down with women, yeah!" Fair and balanced opinions make the movement stronger. I am happy that it is not becoming a male version of feminism and people are willing to speak out against unfairness towards women too.
/r/MensRights24/03/13 03:33 PM
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I grew up in London so I saw a little of the conditions and was 'educated' about them (I say 'educated' because after what I was told about feminism I am critical of what I was told). The UK is more class divided than race divided but that is another conversation. The thing is when slaves were being transported across the Atlantic they were chained together, and if the ship was caught or it became more profitable to dump the slaves and claim the insurance they would http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/aia/p…
/r/MensRights23/03/13 03:16 AM
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I don't think we need, anyone in the sense that the world ends without them, but just by the distribution of intelligences and abilities, if you remove half of the population from an industry you are less likely to get those few bright minds that come up with new amazing ideas or do amazing work. Physics did not need Jews, but it would have been much poorer if Albert Einstein would not have made a contribution. From my personal life, women and men think a little differently and I think that is l…
/r/MensRights23/03/13 02:11 AM
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I don't know how you can seriously say that a slave shipped over from Africa was lucky. If they made the journey at all (without being dumped overboard), we're likely to be beaten, raped split from their families, killed, lynched, worked from sunrise to sunset. If it was so great why didn't the slave masters and regular whites want slave jobs? Why did slaves want to be free? would'nt they have gone running back to their masters? Stop being silly. Would you like to be a slave? Through out history…
/r/MensRights23/03/13 02:05 AM
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It is not merely a covariate. It is a predictor with an a direct causal link rooted in factual history. That is like saying drinking and having driving accidents are mere covariants; as if they just happened to occur together.
/r/MensRights22/03/13 02:31 PM
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That wealth that you speak of was gained at the expense of nonwhites often at cost the of their lives. They 'happened' to be born into wealth more often because of slavery and discrimination. The rewards of work were taken from blacks and passed on to slave masters. One group was disadvantaged while the other was favoured. Nope it was not passed on to all white people (some were dirt poor too) but it gave many more families a chance at creating a successful lineage than others. That is why 'whit…
/r/MensRights22/03/13 01:02 PM
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Anyone can be racist against anyone.
/r/MensRights22/03/13 12:47 PM
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I'd say so. It can apply in other countries where colonialism has occurred. I live in Japan and there is some prejudice against foreigners here so myself and my white friends are pretty much in the same boat. But like I said. I hate privilege as a word to describe what is going on. It is too broad and insulting to those you apply it too.
/r/MensRights22/03/13 12:46 PM
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I agree with you and it is situations like this which make me not like affirmative action as it is. It is a band aid on a stab to the heart. It in fact sometimes makes things worse because it increases racial tensions and promotes people meeting irrelevant critera. The thing you may not realise is that the effects of things like slavery are far reaching. Slavery ended in 1865 but once a people have been 'broken' while the laws may change the attitudes and dysfunction propagate from generation to…
/r/MensRights22/03/13 12:42 PM
1

I think we have just found the wacko radmra part of the community : (
/r/MensRights22/03/13 10:13 AM
0

If they posted their threat along with your personal information it is a completely different matter. On a gaming network they simply don't have the means to act on the threat and I am sure the moment the next round starts they will forget about it. Why should anyone endure threats of violence that may or may not be true?
/r/MensRights22/03/13 10:13 AM
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It was a threat. It was meant to intimidate and suggest violence. Her address was even posted. You don't know which wacko is going to act on that. The person who did it should be arrested.
/r/MensRights22/03/13 10:08 AM
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It is hard to say exactly what everyones case is. That is why I only talk of the average person and what is likely. Depending on the color of your skin, you may or many not face some of the discrimination that you would not face if white. Without a doubt some white people live hard lives that may or may not be made more difficult if they were another race. I would argue that in other countries a white person could be disadvantaged due to their skin color and prejudices too. Black people in the U…
/r/MensRights22/03/13 08:34 AM
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That is why I say I don't like the term privilege. It is nondescript and too broad a term to apply to an entire group. Saying someone has privilege sounds like all of their lives are wonderful and everything is laid out for them. This is only true for a very small part of the population and the proportional majority of those people in America are white (I am guessing based on observation). if you are the average white male your life will be better than the average non white male due to hundreds …
/r/MensRights22/03/13 04:41 AM
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I agree.
/r/MensRights22/03/13 04:25 AM
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Neither should have been fired. A slap on the wrist at most to both would be fair. DDoSing a company is just bad form. You are hurting innocent people.
/r/MensRights22/03/13 04:15 AM
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Laughed out lid when I saw Paul Elam!
/r/MensRights22/03/13 04:12 AM
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I think it is fair to say that some white males are privileged. You don't come from a lineage with 400 years of slavery (with the issues that propagate from generation to generation), the effects of post slavery segregation and laws are still felt today. For many, their race is a head start in terms of the likelihood of being born poor, or being born in a bad area, or being sentenced harshly for minor crimes etc. It is just that not ALL white males have it good. Some live crappy lives too but th…
/r/MensRights22/03/13 04:01 AM
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I think posting the photos of conference attendees on Twitter, when you are there to build relationships with them was the fireable offense. She just alienated the community she was there to court so she unfortunately earned a firing. If she emailed the photo to the Pycon staff she probably would not have been fired. I don't think wither should have lost their jobs.
/r/MensRights22/03/13 03:49 AM
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We need each other. We are a team. If my team mate is doing badly, then so am I. I would hate a would without women, or a world where women were subjugated.
/r/MensRights22/03/13 03:45 AM
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I am not a fan of the terms 'misogyny' or 'misandry' (which seems like a counter punch). You can't say what someone feels or thinks but you can judge their actions and both 'sexism' and 'prejudice' are more useful terms to address what people do. The vast majority of misandry or misogyny is perpetrated by people with male/female friends, father, mothers, sisters, brothers, partners etc. Saying they hate men or women as a group is inaccurate. However you cane love someone but still have prejudice…
/r/MensRights22/03/13 03:42 AM
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If they were making jokes like, "women can't code", then that is fine. It is an insult. Report them. However these men were making jokes about males and male body parts. At worst a gay man could take offense at "forking another guys code". She was being what I am going to call an "offense troll".
/r/MensRights22/03/13 02:53 AM
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She accused the second guy of making a comment about "forking code" and from what he says it was not a sexualized comment. From what they said, they thought someone prominent forking your code was a big compliment. One guy replied something along the lines of "he (the speaker) could fork my code any day". She interpreted it as sexual which he said was not his intent. (Was he coming out as gay?) Taking a photo in public does not violate privacy and nor is making double-entendres in public a crime…
/r/MensRights22/03/13 02:46 AM
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I have no issue with Pycon enforcing their code of conduct. Giving the guys a warning is fair if those are the rules. What bothers me is her violating the privacy of conference attendees by posting a picture of them without their permission. I also don't like her taking the contents of a private conversation, misinterpreting it and publishing it online. I also don't like her 'right' to be offended at something that is almost designed to be funny; dongles and forking are funny terms and if they a…
/r/MensRights21/03/13 12:49 AM
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What about the privacy of all the other people's pictures she posted? She should be warned about that too.
/r/MensRights21/03/13 12:28 AM
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That's like telling women to "stop false paternity culture" or "stop alimony culture". Nothing to do with 99% of the population and just a way of smearing an entire group for the actions of the few.
/r/MensRights21/03/13 12:11 AM
2

I think the Internet has been the catalyst in getting mean talking and communicating.
/r/MensRights20/03/13 05:01 PM
1

Awesome sense of humor and sexy? Wow, wife material!
/r/MensRights14/03/13 12:34 PM
4

Yeah it is a little insulting to women, I think.
/r/MensRights12/03/13 10:37 PM
3

An MRA YouTube star is born! Absolute quality!
/r/MensRights12/03/13 10:07 PM
2

We need a name for self loathers. Any suggestions?
/r/MensRights12/03/13 09:55 PM
4

In a multi threaded discussion derailing is impossible. If this were a forum, then fine, but the whole structure of reddit is geared towards allowing conversations to veer of in different directions. The derailing rule along with their heavy handed rules (like only a feminist can respond to the OP) are only their to stamp out other points of view.
/r/MensRights25/02/13 05:54 AM
2

It indeed does.
/r/MensRights25/02/13 01:32 AM
1

Couples counseling and psychotherapy for him might help you communicate better. The depression may have been there before you met, but it will affect how he acts with you and your relationship. It has a way of working itself into every aspect of your life.
/r/MensRights22/02/13 01:27 AM
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I am glad he answered this though. This topic is used to dismiss everything else he has said.
/r/MensRights20/02/13 12:18 AM
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Sorry man.
/r/MensRights18/02/13 04:28 PM
2

Have a conversation with her about her stopping taking the pill and lying to you and record it. I don't know how or if it will help, but it may come in useful.
/r/MensRights17/02/13 09:38 AM
2

I don't think every MRA has to be explicitly vocal about it. Lots of men sharing knowledge with other men and their own way would also make a big difference.
/r/MensRights14/02/13 10:50 PM
2

I firstly just want to way WOOOOOOW! Having someone actually address all of the points in my post is soo refreshing! Whenever I posted on /r/feminism (before being banned) they would address the weakest point in my post, ignore everything else or just downvote me : / Rational discussion is so nice :D Anyhow back to you post. That has no basis in statistical likelihood barring specific circumstances (like sperm count, and the pill, etc) that do not apply across the board. Those little swimmers wi…
/r/MensRights14/02/13 02:51 PM
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Firstly, the father would not be the only one to not know. The mother knows that she is one parent, but if she had multiple partners then she also doesn't know who the father is. That is not true. In the case of infidelity, especially when the false father has a low sperm count or they have consistently used protection, the mother more likely knows that the child is not his. If she has multiple partners and has been deceitful about it there is a strong possibility that the claimed father is bein…
/r/MensRights14/02/13 11:55 AM
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Well what else could she be doing? Is there another situation where the wrong person believes he is the father and the mother would not him want to find out? In all of this, what about the father's right to the truth and to make an informed choice about the rest of his life? There is nothing wrong with not raising your own child, it is not knowing and not being allowed to find out which is the problem. Furthermore, if the government really cared about privacy, they could legislate that in patern…
/r/MensRights14/02/13 10:59 AM
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But since the father is the only one that would not know if he is the parent and the mother would want to hide her lie, how does this make sense?
/r/MensRights14/02/13 07:06 AM
5

Wouldn't the father as the legal parent of the child have authority to manage their rights to genetic privacy until the child is old enough to do so? Why would the mother be sole bearer of the right to do so? They are giving fathers full responsibility and no rights.
/r/MensRights14/02/13 04:02 AM
5

What a lovely post. 100% agreement.
/r/MensRights11/02/13 09:36 PM
2

Yes. If she pays, for the meal I get the drinks or cinema tickets after or something like that. Team work is a good start to a relationship.
/r/MensRights11/02/13 03:42 PM
17

Rape apologist! Lalalaaaaa. Fingers in ears.
/r/MensRights31/01/13 04:27 AM
1

Notice how most of these need a complicit woman.
/r/MensRights30/01/13 11:45 PM
1

We have the same bs the Americans do. Check out Germaine Greer or MP Harriet Harman. I think it is illegal to paternity test your child without a mothers consent, family courts still favour the mother domestic violence still is focused on men and rape trials still release the man's name before he is found guilty.
/r/MensRights30/01/13 02:10 AM
1

You have never been divorced have you?
/r/MensRights29/01/13 09:23 PM
1

No you are victim blaming! You rape apologist!
/r/MensRights28/01/13 12:01 PM
12

In British politics "honourable gentleman", means, "stupid motherfucker."
/r/MensRights28/01/13 10:42 AM
2

Yeah it is ironic. I was thinking the same thing. I would be a rape apologist to some. Thing is I am not justifying what she did. I don't even know what she did. He might have been begging to have sex once the alcohol took control. My thing is that the best way to prevent stuff like this is to avoid situations like this at all. I would not even get drunk and play truth or dare with one of my guy friends let alone a girl I was trying to avoid having sex with. That is something I do with someone I…
/r/MensRights28/01/13 10:25 AM
2

I dunno about the situation, being alone with someone that is attracted to you and drinking, playing truth or dare is a recipe for sex to happen. Not something you should do with someone you want to keep things platonic with. Unless you want to have sex, it is not a good idea to put yourself in that situation like that. Hope things turn out for the best. If they do, distance yourself from here ASAP. Someone that cheats, has sex with you when you are too drunk to say no but said no when you were …
/r/MensRights28/01/13 07:39 AM
5

Is there anyway you can get some hidden surveillance set up in your house? Document everything and if you don't have kids, I would suggest getting out of that relationship. And do everything in your power for her to not get pregnant.
/r/MensRights24/01/13 10:41 PM
44

Exactly, objective crit is welcome.
/r/MensRights23/01/13 08:13 AM
11

Welcome. I do think there is a need for women's rights that distinguishes itself from feminism, but the bad parts of feminism have co-opted women's issues and tried to make them into a supreacist movement while still claming oppression. Men's and women's rights are tightly intertwined. MRM is not an effort to reduce women's rights (life and society can be injust to you also), we just wanted to be treated fairly too. There are some guy who hate women here, but most of us are normal guys. Thanks f…
/r/MensRights23/01/13 08:11 AM
1

A barrage of deleted comments. Must be an r/feminism post where someone did not jerk the circle correctly!
/r/MensRights22/01/13 11:20 PM
3

I love seeing non-circle jerky posts like this.
/r/MensRights18/01/13 03:40 PM
2

I agree. We have to compare sentences for similar crimes. Not doing so is like the calculation of the 70% 'wage gap'. People will just say, "Men commit worse crimes".
/r/MensRights18/01/13 07:36 AM
2

Check your privilege dude!
/r/MensRights16/01/13 06:49 AM
4

Yeah I think dating sucks for most people male or female. It is often hard in different ways. But each gender has it's 'privileged few' who have it really easy finding people.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 01:44 AM
80

What about the privilege of not having to risk rejection but getting to do the rejecting?
/r/MensRights15/01/13 05:41 PM
3

It looks like a face eating a baby.
/r/MensRights07/01/13 12:13 PM
2

I really appreciate posts like yours that seek to foster communication and understanding between both sides. There is some woman hating in men rights unfortunately, just the same way there are feminists who hate men. Lots of guys blow off steam here cause they don't have anywhere else.
/r/MensRights02/01/13 12:16 PM
4

Ignore that guy. He's an idiot.
/r/MensRights28/12/12 04:07 AM
2

It's believable, just this account sounds fictional.
/r/MensRights24/12/12 09:29 PM
5

Sounds like fiction.
/r/MensRights24/12/12 02:36 PM
4

Take care of yourself, you are not disposable!
/r/MensRights24/12/12 02:23 PM
18

nope. That plus time for perjury, plus wasting tax payers money, plus wasting police time.
/r/MensRights24/12/12 12:41 PM
1

Well said. Some of the guys here are just as hysterical as some feminists.
/r/MensRights23/12/12 08:20 PM
4

Well said.
/r/MensRights28/11/12 04:19 AM
1

That was an entertaining read but it is only about some women. There are some really good women out there, but there is lots of trash. The same can be said for men. I have met my fair share of women like this and worse but you can't let them stop you from seeing the good ones out there. Men's rights != Thinking all women are trash. That's not true.
/r/MensRights26/11/12 07:26 AM
6

I agree with this but I think it is just sad and tragic that a guy has to not care for a woman to care. How are you meant to build a loving relationship when genuine gestures of love leases interpreted as signs of weakness and neediness? I have been down the ops path and it is not fun. You end up questioning, everything you say and do, trying to be 'alpha' and in charge. You don't act from you, but from a rule book of dos and don'ts.My great fear would be losing a great girl because I am trying …
/r/seduction26/08/12 11:28 PM
1

Are these more likely to rip?
/r/seduction13/06/12 03:35 PM
-3

Great point.
/r/MensRights24/07/11 04:01 AM
8

Coming from a guy, I don't think what he did was at all okay. Taking advantage of someone when they are unconscious is wrong. I don't know if there are other details to the story or things that happened that you don't remember but from what you say it sounds pretty bad.
/r/MensRights23/07/11 01:23 AM
2

I can agree with the OP but see a bit of the woman's POV too. On the one hand turning someone down is really difficult to do without feeling like you are hurting them, so avoiding the situation makes you feel less involved in the turning down all together. It is a passive rejection and much easier on yourself (but can be quite hurtful for the other person). The only time I stop contacting someone is if they do something that creeps me out, like sending me a really weird email, with too much pers…
/r/seduction06/04/11 06:40 AM
2

I would like to know what motivated that officer to say that. Did he see a great number of cases where women dressed promiscuously were raped? I have personally never been at a bar and seen a woman dressed so badly that I thought "Wow, someone is gonna rape that tonight!" But sometimes some women do like to tease men with their sexuality and get guys they have no interest in to buy them drinks or do things, just to see how hot they are. Nothing someone could do would make them worthy of rape or …
/r/MensRights03/04/11 02:00 PM
2

Really good advice. I wish more older men took time to speak to younger men about living life and being a man.
/r/seduction18/03/11 03:37 AM
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