fluxginshanks Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Is this a good convo starter? Eye contact…. If it’s reciprocated even a simple “hi” is powerful	/r/seduction	09/11/25 06:25 PM
1	How can I make a girl feel seduced? This couldn’t have been worded any better; if you can speak her love language; arouse her senses and hack her imagination with words of what a potential good night with you would look like … you’re so locked in… just remember you gotta be genuine and sincere and Live up to the hype you create otherwise so she keeps coming back	/r/seduction	09/11/25 01:50 AM
2	Severe inner game deficiency I climbed out of that hole buddy; it took a long time; I didn’t have money, zero confidence to ask a girl out; lost my virginity at 25…. I climbed out by throwing myself into the environment I wanted to be in, I started taking walks to the bar, I eventually started going more frequently just to see people; then I started to talk to them and eventually I learnt to talk with them and as time goes by you see other guys pick up girls at the bar; you learn a trick or two and now everyone asks me how …	/r/seduction	07/11/25 10:10 PM
1	How to overcome this feeling Buddy you need to desensitize yourself; it’s only going to happen by getting in there	/r/seduction	07/11/25 06:42 PM
2	How important is awe in seduction? How is awe maintained? Well it literally can be cultivated by being an interesting person; how to do that? Have an ambition and work towards it; have a plan and goals… those stories create awe	/r/seduction	06/11/25 09:23 PM
1	need some advice to hit the homerun Have you even made out; maybe start with that; then let things just happen; see how receptive she is… if VERY… then just go for the close; ask if she wants to go back to your place; even if she says no doesn’t mean it won’t happen later… she won’t take it badly, it’ll probably make her feel good about herself… you really need to break the ice and break it quickly	/r/seduction	06/11/25 06:37 PM
5	How To Get Good At Sex (Aside From Having It)? So you want to blow her mind…. You need to give her a 3 course meal: entree’, the main course; desert. First: Foreplay… be gentle, be dominant, listen and feel her breathing and her movements, communicate, arouse her by kisses and mouth action; she still has her panties on at this stage Second: The main course; for her, not for you; you gotta make her orgasm and bust before you even show her your tool; use your tongue (if she’s someone you’re familiar with) and use your fingers and make sure she…	/r/seduction	06/11/25 06:34 PM
1	Been at this for 11 years Dude you need to travel; go to Bali or Thailand… see the world watch others make friends who vibe; watch other guys pick up and embulate… learn… and quit it with the excuses…if you cannot travel; make friends there who can do what you want to do and emulate.. all the best	/r/seduction	06/11/25 01:35 AM
2	Advice for jazzing up convos? This all depends on the environment you’re in; you don’t wanna come off as a jokester but rather someone who is witty and comes up with things on the fly; which is easier said than done; we’ve each got our own ways of making a conversation funny; imagine the girls were just one of the boys and you’re just having a normal convo with certain restraints of course… but the funny has gotta come as a result of you being you otherwise it’ll not go too far…. Quick example… I live in Fiji… a lot of forei…	/r/seduction	06/11/25 01:27 AM
1	The One Sequence to Rule Them All If you have confidence; even a “hi” is a good opener; my suggestion is to not learn openings off YouTube, it’s very biased and rude in a lot of instances as well as staged; learn by doing; what I would’ve done; make gentle eye contact; once locked; gently smile and see if there’s reciprocation; if she smiles… just simply do something witty like tilt your phone and show her … make her laugh… if she does… say hi	/r/seduction	06/11/25 01:10 AM
2	Got Rejected Today Kudos buddy; you made the first step and you’re not alone; repetition makes for improvement so approach another girl keep doing it until you succeed; you’re already showing more confidence than 60% if dudes… keep it up	/r/seduction	06/11/25 12:54 AM
8	Best ways to spend money to improve your seduction Photography is key if you want to use dating apps; a guy doesn’t care about photo quality when swiping but a girl almost always judges based on photo quality	/r/seduction	06/11/25 12:50 AM
3	My first time approaching Dude you watching too many YouTube videos; that’s what too many of those dudes do with a hidden camera in the background; most of them end up with an instagram or a phone number but .. it just ends there, they can’t close with the same confidence they opened with; switching up reasons mid convo is not reminiscent of someone who knows what they want; it lacks the masculine energy required; you need to show intent from the beginning or carry the conversation a bit before getting a contact which ju…	/r/seduction	04/11/25 03:15 AM
2	No reply after strong interest the night before? She’s just a little old and sickly buddy; I get enough action though to not feel butt hurt when the girl doesn’t wanna get with me; If you feel that the energy is not there anymore… sad to say but move on, find another girl, chasing is the least attractive thing a guy can do… again, all the best ; )	/r/seduction	03/11/25 07:08 PM
3	No reply after strong interest the night before? So this has happened to me a lot!!!!!, not even a little, I even know why it happens, and you did exactly what I did as well haha… unfortunately my circumstances aren’t the best and when I’m with a girl who is interested, I gotta leave a lot of times because I live with my mum and she’s kinda sickly, she doesn’t sleep and waits till I get back home when I’m out partying; a lot of times I end up cold meeting girls and have to leave, my friends end up capitalizing on my leaving and getting action …	/r/seduction	03/11/25 06:52 PM
2	Guys who have only been able to meet women via apps, how do you deal with the feelings of alienation from the fact you’ve never gotten a date with someone you first met in real life? I’ve never had a tinder match; but have had hookups with over 20 girls just by approaching in person; just be confident and find what works for you; not everything works for everyone	/r/seduction	03/11/25 12:10 PM
3	My bf doesn’t know what turns him on or what seduces him Sounds a little similar to me and the first time I had sex with a girlfriend; I could get hard when we made out; but when we went to the bedroom; she literally spread her legs and asked me to “put it in” … I couldn’t get hard…. Got me so depressed.. I thought something was wrong with me…..we broke up…didn’t get a girlfriend for a While afterwards …. Got turned on every time…. Was when I realized… the first girl just didn’t turn me on; she was beautiful but didn’t match my kinks; she didn’t forep…	/r/seduction	03/11/25 12:05 PM