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Read Mastery by Robert Greene, it’ll help you get a perspective on what it is you want to do in life, and if you should make the change.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 03:40 PM
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Why are you soft nexting an LTR? Don’t be autistic, tell her it’s over then move on. Why would you just randomly pretend like she doesn’t exist that’s retarded. She’s not a plate
/r/askTRP05/02/18 12:56 PM
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Fucking married women is a recipe for disaster. She’s just one girl, why not go after someone less prone to cause problems in your life?
/r/askTRP08/01/18 12:54 AM
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I get laid pretty frequently but from 6’s and 7’s. No fatties, but the 8’s, 9’s and 10’s are much more rare, but I chock that up to never seeing any in my daily life. I haven’t had any luck getting girls that hot (9/10) from tinder, and I’m not in college anymore so those girls are rare. Maybe it’s time to get some hotter friends with hotter friends.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 12:09 PM
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Teenage girls are not the same as fully grown women, so apply TRP theory loosely with these girls. Girls will shit test you sometimes, but most of them are insecure and don't have much confidence/experience to even know what they are doing when it comes to dealing with guys. Just be honest/straightforward with her. You don't have to do some sort of mind fuck to get laid. Be attractive, make your intentions known, and don't do anything rapey. Always wrap it up too.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 09:40 PM
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If you catch yourself getting one up'd act playful and go along with it. Maybe even point it out slyly. If you get yourself to enjoy women who outsmart you then your response will naturally be something positive. Gaming girls is easy, and I get bored of it sometimes, but every now and then I meet a woman who's super smart and sees right through my bullshit. I like to meet those women because they are way more fun and I like the challenge.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 02:45 PM
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Literally unreadable, wtf?
/r/askTRP11/10/17 09:59 PM
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I know what you were saying, and I agree that it's a tool in the toolset. Again I just said what I said so other newer TRPers don't assume that's the go-to tool in their box. I'd just defer to 48 laws of power for most things. I have no problem being an asshole it's quite enjoyable. But if you only choose "be an asshole" for every life situation then you will be fucked. Read 48 laws, there's countless examples of times when people didn't see the dangers of their strategic choices. Know the dange…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 08:22 PM
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I don't think being a bit of an asshole is DT. I said above that saying "be an asshole" is bad advice cause that means different things to different people. Being a cheeky bastard is a lot different then being a genuinely bad person, both of which people could consider being an asshole. There are new TRPers who will see be an asshole and think it means shit on everyone you see, give no consideration for anyone else, generally be an unlikeable person. I'm saying that our definition needs to be so…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 03:55 PM
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I'm not denying what you are saying, but at the end of the day you have to choose what you want in life. If you go full on dark triad, you'll definitely get more pussy than you can handle, but there comes a point when you have diminishing returns. You will drive your plates mad, and your friends will eventually piss off as well. I've been there. I pushed the limits and said literally whatever I wanted all the time. Girls liked it but eventually I found myself shooting myself in the foot in the p…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 12:55 PM
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Say "No" + shit eating grin = profit
/r/askTRP11/09/17 05:25 PM
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I've done it twice. If it's just someone you want to hook up with then not worth it. If it's someone you are wanting to LTR even more not worth it because if she cheats on them with you, she'll cheat on you with someone else.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 01:23 PM
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Maybe we should all just go live out our days with Tibetan monks! XD
/r/askTRP31/08/17 06:49 PM
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I do want to have kids one day, so I'd like to find a halfway decent woman to reproduce with. Of course it could be that I'm bored with these women because the type of women that are willing to be plated are generally boring as hell. I pull a steady stream of new girls from tinder and most of them are pretty vapid.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 03:12 PM
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By nervous I mean that excited butterfly feeling. Like you are really interested in talking to that person. Not so nervous that I can't talk to them, Just excited/can't look away. But I don't typically see 10's regularly. It's mostly 6's and 7's. Working from home is great, but it can limit your potential to expand your social circle.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 01:34 PM
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Haha I actually had a similar thought to that.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 01:24 PM
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Every girl says they aren't into random hookup. I've had countless dates with girls from tinder who said at the beginning that "I wasn't getting laid tonight". I typically say some BS about how I'm an innocent virgin or some stupid comment that's obviously a lie just to be cheeky. Then we end up hooking up and they say they never do that. If a girl is giving you signals. Your chances are good. If you pursue her and shes turning you down beyond her ASD, then she's a tease and it's time to next he…
/r/askTRP21/08/17 02:52 PM
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Get to the end of the book, it explains how the varying amounts of power you have at any given moment change which laws apply, and that sometimes you may even find it in your best interest to break them. These laws exist not to be strict, but as to reveal aspects of human nature in which they are derived. Understand the laws, and you will understand people.
/r/askTRP22/07/17 01:04 PM
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If you decide to read 48 laws get the audio book narrated by Don Leslie. The book is long, but it's really well produced and the voice made the experience very enjoyable. 48 laws is a lot to internalize so having an enjoyable reading experience helps with that.
/r/askTRP21/07/17 01:09 PM
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Don't ignore the situation. Go buy the pill it's like $50, give it to her asap, watch her take it, rest easy.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 01:33 PM
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God damn that man is a genius
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 12:49 PM
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Jordan Peterson is the man, got a link to that particular lecture/talk?
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 12:25 AM
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Haha that's pretty funny. Maybe my perspective has changed. I know for sure that since I got cut, 70% of girls look fat to me. When you spend a lot of time working on your body, you spend that much more time judging other people's bodies as well.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 01:56 PM
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I've had quite a few, cum in a girls eye, cum through her nose, but the craziest was something that happened to me... was plating this girl, real cute, squirter. She just so happened to be on top of me as I worked my magic with my tongue. Clockwork, sploosh everywhere. It's all over me, no biggy, run to bathroom to clean up... I'm fucking orange. Turns out the girl had been on some antibiotic that turns your piss orange. And here I am thinking "female ejaculate" is not pee. I learned a lesson th…
/r/askTRP19/04/17 04:02 AM
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I'm at 19, I'm 23 years old.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 01:48 PM
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Dog you should be able to F-close on a first date with lots of these women. Touch them lots, be funny, great eye contact. You'll never talk a woman into being into you with facts. You have to appeal to emotions. You'd do better telling her you are a gay porn star than you would telling her You are a boring office drone that makes 6 figures a year. Also again, touch them arms, lower back, hips, neck (once things are heating up) and don't be afraid to grab them and bring them towards you. I legiti…
/r/askTRP09/04/17 09:31 PM
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Lol yea That's the real reason the bride hired me ;)
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 03:31 PM
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Update: we got some drinks and she came back to my place. That's pretty typical for me. 1 on 1 in a "date" setting is my element. It's just getting to that point that can be challenging at times. Also apparently she's only gonna be in town for 3 weeks. Which also may have contributed to the ease of things.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 03:30 PM
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You are totally right. This particular girl didn't require much work at all. Sometimes they do. But when I look back, I think the big takeaway is being able to recognize signals. In the moment I found myself thinking "ok this girl did x, is that her way of telling me she's interested?" Had I just dismissed it, I wouldn't have gotten anywhere.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 03:28 PM
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Holy shit this thread is full of anger phase guys. Y'all just need to take a chill pill. Don't get annoyed by the actions of others. Judging others as beta doesn't make you alpha it makes you a beta. Just do you, focus on you, be the best you you can be, slay pussy, and enjoy life. We're all here on this shit hole together, stop comparing yourself to everyone else.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 12:30 AM
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You should read the 48 laws of power. There's a couple laws you broke here, and all of this could have been avoided had they been followed. A lot of the other advice in this thread could make things way worse. There's too many to list on what could help your situation, but TRP has a link in the side bar.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 01:49 PM
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You don't have the skill to handle this kind of power. If all these people already dislike you and you had no idea until now, that's proof enough that you are playing with fire. Ignore the chats and focus on getting the outcomes you want by interacting with people the right way. Learn people skills, you're only setting yourself up for failure.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 01:33 PM
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Oh duh. Makes sense
/r/askTRP14/03/17 07:31 PM
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YP groups? I've heard of meetups but what's "YP"
/r/askTRP14/03/17 06:47 PM
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I think what you are missing here is that TRP doesn't dislike sluts or put them in a negative light, we just acknowledge their nature. The reason slutty girls doing make very good partners for LTR's is that they, for whatever reason, are easily swept up in attraction for high value guys so they are prone to cheat or "branch swing". Me personally, slutty girls are fun to hang out with and fool around with, but I'd never date one. I would date a sexual feminine woman who doesn't put out for just a…
/r/askTRP14/03/17 02:41 PM
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Is this a troll post
/r/askTRP08/03/17 01:28 PM
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Well there's a couple ways to do this. Internet based content creation such as blogs or training series can be something that is residual. Also buy assets and investing in dividend stocks can help this as well. You should read rich dad poor dad. It talks all about personal finance and getting out the the rat race aka the 9-5
/r/askTRP24/01/17 08:05 PM
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I'm in the video production/film industry. I have a business partner. I started with around $4K saved up when I quit my job just so I could start getting clients and not have to worry about money. I got two business credit cards that I used to buy film equipment in order to do my job. I'm around $8k in debt with my business now which is actually really really good. Biggest challenges would be getting clients, but as time goes on it's been getting easier and easier to find clients.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 09:31 PM
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Starting my own business was the best decision I ever made. I say this with the knowledge that I've almost gone broke several times. I still don't make a whole lot of money, and the stress at times is insane. I've been in business for a year and barely scraped by, but I've made more in the last 3 months than I did the rest of 2016, so I'm optimistic about 2017. It's gonna take a while but totally worth it in the end I think.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 03:15 PM
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Can confirm. Broke many plates this way
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 11:57 PM
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I've usually spin 3 main plates and 2 long distance plates at any given time. Any more than that is difficult to maintain. Usually they last about 6 months to a year before they get sad and need a BF. Then they text me wanting to hook up again because their BF doesn't give them orgasms. The long distance ones never break, but you usually only see them once every couple months.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 01:26 AM
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Thanks for that articulate comment. It's very helpful. Additionally, I'm interested in this book you mentioned. As someone who goes through two books a month I'm thirsty for more to read. What is the focus of this Gorilla Mindset? I've never heard of it (although I get most of my book recommendations from r/entrepreneur) but I'll check it out if it seems beneficial!
/r/askTRP17/01/17 06:46 PM
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You may be right. Especially with the not trying to have sex on the first date. It's so ingrained in me that it's almost all I know. A man once said, "If I ever met a nice girl, I wouldn't even know how to talk to her." Maybe monk mode 2.0 to reassess my goals is in order. Thanks for the insight brother.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 03:46 PM
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I do wonder if my abundance keeps me from recognizing when there is a good one in front of me. I've been with 7's and 8's feeling like they just aren't that attractive and wanting something better.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 03:16 PM
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This made me nauseous until I read on. This isn't just a bunch of random men. It's men that had reason to suspect that their child might not be theirs. Be careful of making assumptions based solely on the title/first paragraph. It can be very misleading.
/r/MensRights17/01/17 02:36 AM
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You could ask her... sounds like she was hiding it cause she was embarrassed, but super horny and wasn't sure how to go about it since you were tired.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 11:55 AM
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I doubt those girls are above a 5 honestly. Bumble just goes against Trp theory, why play with a hand tied behind your back?
/r/askTRP05/01/17 02:46 PM
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Get off bumble... seriously... that site sets you up to be in a beta position from the start.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 01:55 PM
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You should never be turned down for a kiss. If you are, it's because you didn't read her body language well enough to know she wasn't into you.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 01:45 PM
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Is it possible you are too good at your job? I'll be the first to advocate working hard, but some times people who are really good at specific jobs never get moved up because it's hard to get skilled people in entry level positions. Working harder may not be your best option as far as getting promotions, working smarter might be. People like to work with people they like, are you too intense? Do you spend most of your time at work... working (as opposed to occasionally socializing and making fri…
/r/askTRP16/12/16 02:30 PM
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Plating a 19 year old is good, dating one is like playing chess with a plant, except somehow the plant has emotions and can spontaneously combust. At 23 I can't even stand to listen to 19 year olds speak.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 03:18 PM
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It's good that you told her it was going to happen. You did your part so that's all that matters. My concern for you now is that your cheating in the eyes of the court may really fuck you up. Alimony may be on the horizon. No judge will be on your side unless there is proof of straight up insanity on her part. Even then, the courts favor women always. Good luck brother. Hold frame and be stoic. That's the best thing you can do no matter what actions you take next.
/r/askTRP19/11/16 02:53 PM
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PUA have some good game tactics. Watch RSD Tyler on YouTube. He's a fat ginger that pulls really well, but he also talks about meditation and presence when gaming women that could be helpful. Other than that I would say find some useful nuggets and apply them to your RP game. That's been a good combination for me.
/r/askTRP19/11/16 02:23 PM
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Delete Facebook and Twitter, unsub from sjw subreddits. It's the only way
/r/askTRP19/11/16 02:21 PM
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I agree with this completely. There's a bunch of guys on here that think being RP means being a pseudo-macho faggot who acts like a child. If you want a plate while married tell your wife first. Be a god damn man and say "wife, I want to fuck other women". If she doesn't want you to then you decide whether to leave or stay, but cheating is beta behavior. All of my plates know I fuck other girls, I tell them before I even start plating them. Gentlemen, we are the only men who know the reality of …
/r/askTRP19/11/16 02:17 PM
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Hypergamy is just their nature, but we as humans have willpower and can be conditioned to go against our nature i.e. All the BP men out their that have been conditioned to be spineless and followers as opposed to the natural masculine tendency to be intense and aggressive. Check out RPwomen for proof that there are women out there who do actively fight against their nature and hypergamous tendencies in order to maintain happiness and a stable relationship. I can train my dog not to run away, it'…
/r/askTRP16/11/16 06:44 PM
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Woman can be trusted to an extent with proper vetting and frame control. You can trust that they will be true to their nature, and if you account for their nature accurately then you can set yourself up with a woman who's hypergamus nature you will satisfy.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 05:18 PM
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Meditation meditation meditation meditation. Seriously meditate every day. You write like someone trapped in their own head. Just like you do reps at the gym, you have to do reps of clearing your mind. You've conditioned your brain to be critical and intense 100% of the time. Now you must condition it to be calm. It takes real focused practice, but it will change your world I promise.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 05:15 PM
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I was gonna say the same thing. Fucking love that show
/r/askTRP13/11/16 03:38 PM
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Good insight, it's very possible. One would think that on an app made to find sexual partners cuffing season probably wouldn't apply, but you could totally be right.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 04:15 PM
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Yes! There's chicks I know I didn't swipe on that show up.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 03:37 PM
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Neither did I, but I'm wondering if they are creating a bigger incentive to pay by not giving matches.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 08:26 PM
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If you really hate vagina that much why are you having sex with women? I love that shit and it makes the girls go crazy. You want plates to not stray to other men? Get off your high fucking horse and give them amazing orgasms. I can promise you, your dick isn't that special that they don't want anything else.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 12:49 PM
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I got the same feeling actually. Had to go back to the top and double check because I thought it was a man who wrote it.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 01:22 PM
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TIL Halloween is a feminist holiday. Wake up sheeple! Jet fuel can't melt steal beams!
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 02:32 PM
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I would say a career oriented girl is more LTR material than the girl who works at chick-fil-a and wastes all her money getting trashed every weekend. I haven't had a LTR in a long time though so who knows haha.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 06:48 PM
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I wouldn't say unstable relationships, just not anything that led to anything (at least from what I have been told). Also she is working on a phd in some sort of physical therapy, so I think she's very career oriented, which may be the reason for her being single for most of her life.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 03:29 PM
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He made the mistake of being a normal human thinking she would also be a normal human.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 01:06 PM
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No words, but I feel for you brother.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 01:01 PM
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I met her IRL so yea
/r/askTRP03/07/16 11:22 PM
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Societies have always been temporary constructs. Each great society only lasted so long before they destroyed themselves. I'm going to make sure that I'm as well off as I can be before that happens. We Americans made our bed, eventually we'll have to lie in it.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 01:24 PM
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I agree, but it's irreversible now. I don't really care what others do, I'm only in control of me. Therefore, I don't want my government telling me how I should be. Whether or not I agree with what the government is telling me is irrelevant.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 11:37 PM
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See my comment below about another option
/r/askTRP10/06/16 02:05 PM
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Don't be so easily convinced that Trump is RP. Trump is a true entertainer and is capable of winning over the minds of the populous, but a true man is smart enough not to go around stomping on the toes of every person he sees. That's not RP, it's pretending to be Alpha. If you want to know a candidate who's really RP, check out third party candidate Gary Johnson. He's stoic as fuck, has climbed Mount Everest, and actually has really good policies I think a lot of you guys would agree with. He's …
/r/askTRP10/06/16 02:05 PM
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Break the cycle morty, focus on science.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 12:46 PM
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Stop thinking and start doing. Actions will yield results. Positive results bring confidence.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 04:48 AM
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If you want to fuck other women, then I would advise not being in an LTR. Personally I avoid LTR's at this stage of my life and just spin plates. That being said if you are worried about regretting leaving the LTR, then you probably don't have much of an abundance mentality and wouldn't do very well in a plate situation. Do what you want, just accept the consequences. If you are ok with them then go for it.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 04:46 AM
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This... So much this ^
/r/askTRP30/03/16 02:25 PM
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Can confirm, 1 in 10 girls I set up dates with through tinder actually show, and 1 in 5 actually have the courtesy to tell me they are flaking.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 01:53 PM
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Also just updating I am indeed banned. Just checked
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 05:43 AM
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I know what you are saying. And I agree with your method of turning it around. I actually misread your tone from the initial comment, it's late and I'm on mobile lol. I will stand by what I said though. I don't think my responses convey an apologetic or approval searching tone. I honestly didn't care about scoring with this chick. I don't speak to women that I'm trying to fuck the same way as those I'm trying to gain information from or learn from. IF the goal was to f-close then your method is …
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 05:41 AM
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I've moved past the point of fucking everything with a vagina though. I didn't want to fuck this chick. From her first response I didn't want to fuck her. Hell even from her pics I wasn't super sold. Being an antagonistic dick all the time isn't alpha. It's stupid. My goal with the exchange really was just to see why she was so damn bitter. I was curious. Btw this is the type of chick that claims rape so I'd say not closing was a win for me.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 05:15 AM
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No yea I think your response was appropriate.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 05:09 AM
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I figured there would be this assumption by some people, and in most cases I would agree with you. It's best to not respond. I think the biggest failure on my part was not a need for approval but more a quest for understanding. Why do some women think this way!? But then again only a fool goes searching for logic within the depths of the female psyche.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 04:57 AM
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I'm 5'8 and I slay on tinder. Literally matching with 8's and 9's and actually got a couple to come straight over. I'm pretty fit, and took a well lit posed shirtless pic (on tripod not selfie) that's been getting me much more matches. I also only swipe on girls my age or lower. I'm 22, and 19 and 20 year olds are so easy compared to the older ones. But yea... Be attractive gets me the match, but the wit gets them in your bed.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 06:13 AM
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Big fan of RSD Tyler, he takes looks completely out of the equation and pulls women with his game alone.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 02:00 AM
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Hopefully you are lifting/raising your SMV. Apply dread game.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 01:49 AM
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Haha I'll have to give that one a try
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 06:40 PM
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I nexted nose ring a while back. She and I had some chemistry, but she's flakey and tends to need more work than she's worth. That being said I wasn't giving her much attention, and she seemed not to like that. I could have gone down that road, but I just decided it wasn't worth it. And as soon as we got to the first bar after dinner, that's when I peaced out.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 04:00 PM
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Narcissism, machiavellianism and psychopathy will definitely give a lot of women the tingles, but it's also extremely polarizing. If your only goal in life is to get laid then go for it I suppose, but none of us live in a bubble. Our actions impact those around us, and eventually these traits will push people away. Technically if you truly posses these traits, you probably won't care/feel anything, but what's the point of having all these experiences if there is no excitement. Balance is key for…
/r/askTRP25/01/16 02:46 PM
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Don't be a dark triad. That's a road you don't want to go down. No amount of pussy is worth the price you pay in the rest of your life.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 02:16 PM
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Great response. I can tell that vetting is definitely an issue for me at the moment, but I will look into what you suggested.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 11:57 PM
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We speak a lot about trp as a sexual strategy here, but in reality getting sex isn't that difficult. TRP doesn't exist in a vacuum though, and handing the world that houses these women is difficult sometimes. I really think there should be more dialogue on these subjects both here and in r/TRP.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 11:59 AM
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This is actually a great answer! Thanks haha
/r/askTRP02/08/15 08:04 PM
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I agree completely with this extremely well written comment. Your "nerdy" analogy and helpful tone is exactly the type of stuff we need here. Thanks for this. Lead on brother.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 11:41 AM
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I've actually discussed RPT with women I was hitting on in a sort of a "I know what you want" type of way. It's only ever yielded positive results.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 12:23 PM
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Thanks for the response. I wasn't sure if it was normal to swing back to other phases. I'm definitely trying to figure all this out still, and this sub is the only way to compare experiences. I can see that self improvement extends to control of our own feelings as well so thanks!
/r/askTRP08/07/15 01:15 PM
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It's only an issue when I go to a bar and I can't see any women higher than 6.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 11:52 AM
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Financially, it's better to do the 2 year thing, but if you can afford it, the life experiences from a real four year school are worth it IMO.
/r/askTRP27/06/15 09:10 PM
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Thanks for the responses everyone, it really isn't a problem for me, just a curiosity. I'm trying to learn more about how women think, and I'm rather new to plating so it's definitely good to hear that this is normal. Thanks all!
/r/askTRP14/06/15 08:27 PM
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Interesting insight. I'll keep that in mind
/r/askTRP21/05/15 06:58 PM
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Good advice all! Cheers!
/r/askTRP21/05/15 05:31 PM
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Lol that's what I usually say. When we're 30 it's gonna be nice haha!
/r/askTRP21/05/15 05:26 PM
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When you are trying to pick up chicks at a bar, most of them aren't younger than me lol
/r/askTRP21/05/15 03:27 PM
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