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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
769	Ghosted after not putting out on a date	MALE DEPRAVITY	flyingredt	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 02:02 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Ghosted after not putting out on a date Yeah I'm thinking this as well. Gone on 5 dates since the new year and nothing great.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/05/21 03:36 AM
4	Ghosted after not putting out on a date Makes perfect sense! This community is amazing. I am shocked that not a single one of the comments on this post is gaslighting, demeaning or blaming in any way. Says a lot about the community here, and also what I've come to expect as a woman posting on the internet. Could it be.... 🤔 Could it be that all the negativity online is perpetuated by men, and when you remove them, women are generally kind and supportive to one another? I am seriously humbled by the amount of validation and wisdom I've…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/05/21 03:13 AM
3	Ghosted after not putting out on a date Hahaha thank you this made me laugh!! Yes fucking vampires!!! 🤣🤣🤣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/05/21 03:07 AM
10	Ghosted after not putting out on a date Wow agreed! No he didn't call his kids at all. I didn't even consider it from that angle since I'm not a parent myself. This guy is definitely bad news.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/05/21 02:11 AM
7	Ghosted after not putting out on a date Yes, completely agree, thank you! I never even stopped to think of a babysitter because I don't have kids myself. Very good point. Could be he was a cheater all along. Bullet dodged!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/05/21 02:09 AM
6	Ghosted after not putting out on a date Yes!!! Oh my gosh that bit about the "make it her responsibility to stop you." This is exactly right. 💯	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/05/21 02:06 AM
7	Ghosted after not putting out on a date Agreed, sister. I'm so sick of having to be constantly on guard in today's dating world. It's exhausting and they just keep trying to lower the bar.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 11:13 PM
4	Ghosted after not putting out on a date Wow. Just wow. No words. 😧 I'm horrified!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 11:11 PM
9	Ghosted after not putting out on a date I will and thank you for the heads up! Very good advice. Can never be too safe!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 11:10 PM
8	Words men use to insult us that are actually compliments? Let's get a list going! "you're bossy" You mean, I know what I want and I'm decisive?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 10:47 PM
20	Ghosted after not putting out on a date LOL! Yeah he was trying to impress me with the size! He was well endowed. Still nope. Like dick size will immediately make me change my mind.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 06:41 PM
22	Ghosted after not putting out on a date Whoa totally will do! Omg gross!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 05:44 PM
27	Ghosted after not putting out on a date That's insane and I'm so sorry to hear you're still dealing with him. I've had ex's show up out of the woodwork but never full on stalking. Will keep this in mind. 💜 Good luck to you! And yes please share it if it will help warn others.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 05:42 PM
16	Ghosted after not putting out on a date Hahaha! It was so bad. You're absolutely right. I gave him the benefit of the doubt because he was nerdy single dad raising 2 daughters. NOPE. 😞	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 05:36 PM
61	Ghosted after not putting out on a date That is so scary, thank you for sharing your experience. I hope the stalker situation resolved and you're safe now. 😧	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 04:39 PM
45	Ghosted after not putting out on a date Thank you! A LOT of women do this with guys who give off a good vibe. He was a very nerdy single dad with 2 daughters, so I saw the situation (and his interest) as being more genuine than it was. Apparently not genuine at all. Glad I weeded him out instead of wasting my time, but still disappointed that he misrepresented his intentions.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 04:33 PM
49	Ghosted after not putting out on a date Love the momma bear vibe! This was eye opening. I thought I was doing right by being upfront with men about my expectations and what I was looking for, so that anyone wanting a hookup would move along. I never heard of future faking! I'm literally saving your post for future dating advice regarding predatory men on OLD. I've always been very empathetic towards men because I have a kind, loving brother who respects women, and I was raised by a wonderful dad. It's just crazy to me that men can be …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 03:32 PM
292	Ghosted after not putting out on a date Yes you are totally right! I never do this kind of thing. He's the first guy over to my apartment since I moved in last November. I made an exception for him because of our chemistry and wish I hadn't. Upon reflection, I realize how dangerous a situation I put myself in if he'd been a psycho. Never ever again.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 03:24 PM
77	Ghosted after not putting out on a date Thank you! It just seemed so innocent in the moment and made sense with the long drive. But it wasn't worth going outside my comfort zone at all. I always give men the benefit of the doubt and I need to stop that. I am so glad we didn't sleep together because then I'd probably still be ghosted and feeling even more used. Honestly him inviting me out that Friday before our 1st date should have warned me. It was too fast, he was just looking to smash.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 03:22 PM
40	Ghosted after not putting out on a date Adding to my playbook! Never ever again.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 03:14 PM
46	Ghosted after not putting out on a date True! Never doing that again. I can see now he was testing my boundaries the entire time. I just hate that I have to be on guard like this even in my own home, even when being upfront about who I am. I hate dating.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 03:13 PM
18	Ghosted after not putting out on a date I agree with this! It's so unfortunate. I'm definitely going to keep working on my boundaries. I knew deep down that it was a bad idea to agree to it, but there goes my empathy getting in the way. 😞	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 03:10 PM
23	Ghosted after not putting out on a date Yes agreed, I've been reflecting on the experience and all the ways it could have gone wrong. Maybe to him, "old school" means "at least I won't rape you."	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 03:06 PM
3	Express affection primarily through action and spontaneity, rather than compliments and verbal affirmations Can confirm. Went on 2 dates with a nice guy but he poured on the compliments pretty thick, and was clingy, texting me nonstop all day long. It just came off as insincere and fake-nice, and got super annoying. Also a guy doesn't know me after 2 dates so the constant flattery feels insincere.	/r/seduction	03/05/21 04:31 PM
1	I really don't think women understand the dating experiences of young men I am aware of what men go through because of having a brother close in age (we swap dating stories and sometimes he will vent to me about his frustrations.) I also have several close male friends who I've known for almost 10 years and I've seen the same struggle. My brother and my friends are all very nice gentlemen and I truly believe they can make any girl happy. Somehow they keep ending up with women who take them for granted, or feel it's okay to take out their mood swings on their boyfriend…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/10/20 11:24 PM