flyingtrashcan Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
22	The story and recent successes of a short man. (Advice lies within!)		flyingtrashcan	/r/seduction	14/02/12 06:28 AM
16	I know these posts pop up all the time, but I just wanted to say thank you, and goodbye.		flyingtrashcan	/r/seduction	24/02/12 10:47 PM

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2	Should you invite more than one potential girl out with you? Really depends on the group dynamics. I've invited girls that I've been pursuing out in a group and it's gone great, or I've had times where one girl will be more overtly flirty than the other, and it will turn the other girl off. Also depends on your experience with the girls. I would say to only invite one at a time, for simplicity's sake	/r/seduction	06/03/14 11:02 PM
2	How can I smoothly escalate from taking home/making out to sex? I would use it as more of guidelines than a script. It's a logical progression that has small jumps between escalation to make the girl more comfortable with the whole situation. Obviously you can skip a few steps or even add some in; it's all situational.	/r/seduction	12/02/14 11:30 PM
19	"I feel like you have slept with a lot more women than that" Really? I would think by the time I'm talking about sex with girls, we've already established some baseline rapport and humor. It also depends on your age/demographic. Talking to college girls at a party would be fine, but if you're on a 1 on 1 date at a quiet restaurant it probably isn't the place to make these jokes.	/r/seduction	10/12/13 07:21 PM
3	Seriously, what does it mean? I would start with getting over your oneitis. By the sounds of it, you're already too late to establish boundaries--that you won't deal with silly games. She knows that you will always be there for her to cuddle and stuff even if she never lets you kiss her, because if you had other options, you wouldn't put up with that shit. Move on. Maybe come back after you've taken a break and gotten some other experience.	/r/seduction	12/09/13 03:51 PM
25	Confidence VS Arrogance (I know it's for entrepreneurs but I thought it fitted right into our debate) I love this, because it shows how fine the line can be between confidence and arrogance. I know that a lot of people (myself included) would get the two confused when first delving into seduction.	/r/seduction	30/08/13 03:13 AM
5	What are fun things to talk about with women? I think this argument stems from the fact that we are all interacting with women in different settings, and different groups. Obviously women you meet at a club are going to be dissimilar from those you meet at a dance/yoga class. If you start talking about sex in the latter situation, it's almost impossible not to be labeled a creep; it's all circumstantial. That being said, I think a lot of people underestimate how easy it is to lead a conversation into a sexual/more personal setting--a lot of…	/r/seduction	22/08/13 08:37 PM
3	Where do I invite/take girls from school? Is it better to ask a girl to dinner, a bar or to a group event? If she mentioned wanting to dance, by all means do it. I've found that with girls from my school though, I have the best luck inviting them to group events. Girls like feeling comfortable, and if you bring more people into play, she's going to be more at ease since she's not tasked with running the entire conversation. You have to remember to pay a lot of attention to her though (sometimes I catch myself joking with my friends about inside jokes; don't do this as it kinda excludes her) and make …	/r/seduction	24/02/12 05:23 AM
6	What do you think about my idea for an opener? Honestly, I think it's a little on the creepy side. Sure, you could probably pull it off, but openers aren't supposed to be some grand scheme. Just walk up to them, sit down, and say "hi, what's your name?" hell, you could walk up to them and say "i love french bread." Bam, coversation. you'll be fine whatever you end up doing--it's all about your frame	/r/seduction	23/02/12 06:16 AM
1	The story and recent successes of a short man. (Advice lies within!) Exactly. Some people here are fantastic at cold approaches, and I commend them on that, because it's something I'm really not great at. Conversely, I meet the majority of my friends when I'm having a great time wherever I am. If you go out to have a fun time, women will follow. EDIT: To clarify, keep the thought of meeting women in the back of your head at all times, so you don't miss any opportunities. Although the goal is to have fun, it is also to meet women, right? So while you're having a g…	/r/seduction	15/02/12 03:10 PM
3	The story and recent successes of a short man. (Advice lies within!) Nope! Long time lurker, first time poster	/r/seduction	14/02/12 03:46 PM
2	I made a timeline of my progress Being from the US, this graph confused the hell out of me. After a minute I caught on, though, haha.	/r/seduction	02/01/12 11:58 PM