fockerjunior Archive

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1	How do I get girls to hang out as friends? I have been rebuilding my social life for a couple months now and became an organizer for events. I run climbing, snowboarding, and pick up sports events which are all mixed gender. oftentimes there are even more girls than guys. Many of these women have become good acquaintences and they invite me to their hang outs as well. my main goal is to throw house parties and for them not to be sausage parties lol	/r/seduction	19/02/22 12:52 AM
21	What’s the worst piece of advice you’ve gotten on this sub? worst advice was to get white sneakers. those shits got stained day 1! what a waste of money	/r/seduction	28/01/22 07:44 PM
–	Would it be worth it joining a church to date if you're inexperienced in dating? if you are going to do this then make it a goal to meet everyone at church not just the women. Make a ton of guy friends too and start going out to do stuff together like pick up basketball or drinking at bars whatever. Try to make a mixed group of guys and girls. Social group game is probably higher than online and cold approach as far as results.	/r/seduction	27/01/22 04:46 AM
3	[deleted by user] just enjoy her company for that moment in time	/r/seduction	27/01/22 04:16 AM
0	Today I made conversation with a random stunning girl I approached on the street because its way easier than saying "girl who makes my balls tingle just when she looks in my direction" and "girl that looks kind of goofy but can probably still get my dick hard" and "if I saw her naked my dick would probably get smaller"	/r/seduction	26/01/22 02:54 PM
–	Today I made conversation with a random stunning girl I approached on the street nice job man. thing about those 10/10s is they actually get approached way less because most guys auto reject themselves from the start. Even if she doesn't think of dating you she definitely thoughtyou have some big nuts to approach her. Also I'm not saying to do this but most times I text within a day they don't respond. Most of the times I texted after 3 and before 7 days made for the best results. Its fucking stupid I know. Anyway just keep going. Not sure if you are into peasant 6-8/10s but…	/r/seduction	26/01/22 09:27 AM
3	[deleted by user] am i really the only person in this thread that wants to know what the book is? good job breaking the ice though.	/r/seduction	25/01/22 08:05 PM
2	Advice for cold approach? im struggling, especially really pretty women instead of "have a nice day bye" say :"let me get your number" if a girl rolls her eyes and looks away and acts like you are annoying her cease the interaction right away and don't approach again. I'd say best desensitizing of this would be to do the opinion pick up where you ask them their opinion on something. I make mine really goofy like "Hey miss can I ask you your opinion? If a guy thinks a girl is beautiful should he tell her directly or no?" Doesn't even matter what she answers its just …	/r/seduction	21/01/22 05:03 AM
–	Man, she went for the kiss after worst date ever (32M, 26F) is she a country girl? I've had girls give me what I dub the "appreciation smooch" even though they didn't like me at all. usually like wyoming girls or kansas and stuff. depends if she leaves you on read after this. if you get a second smooch I think you are in the game buddy.	/r/seduction	21/01/22 04:54 AM
1	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. I think this is just beginning. and I need the variety.	/r/seduction	21/01/22 12:11 AM
1	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. I don't have to take electrolytes until Day 4 usually. And I don't go that long anymore only 48's and 72's and I can get everything from the meal. but back when I was first starting fasting I drank a liter a day of snake juice. For dry fasting you also do not need electrolytes.	/r/seduction	20/01/22 11:01 PM
2	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. met snowboarding. pretty much kicked it all day almost like our first time meeting was a first date. But i got her number and texted her a week later telling her I'm going hiking and said she can join. She showed up.	/r/seduction	20/01/22 10:57 PM
1	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. met snowboarding. pretty much kicked it all day almost like our first time meeting was a first date. But i got her number and texted her a week later telling her I'm going hiking and said she can join. She showed up.	/r/seduction	20/01/22 10:29 PM
1	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. met snowboarding. pretty much kicked it all day almost like our first time meeting was a first date. But i got her number and texted her a week later telling her I'm going hiking and said she can join. She showed up.	/r/seduction	20/01/22 10:29 PM
1	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. met snowboarding. pretty much kicked it all day almost like our first time meeting was a first date. But i got her number and texted her a week later telling her I'm going hiking and said she can join. She showed up.	/r/seduction	20/01/22 10:26 PM
1	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. met snowboarding. pretty much kicked it all day almost like our first time meeting was a first date. But i got her number and texted her a week later to go hiking and she came then she said yes to coming by after. Been on two more dates since and going on another on Sunday.	/r/seduction	20/01/22 10:24 PM
–	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. it happened to me too. Just found out I was the only one allowing it to happen to me. You can't control what happens to you you can only control how you react to what happens to you. So first date I ask them if they want to go skateboard and scooter around some paved trails or go climb. depending on how I met them I'll make the decision on their interests. so far climbing dates are winning. if they don't like either of those then I'm not fucking with them anymore. Unless they just don't like tho…	/r/seduction	20/01/22 09:56 PM
–	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. i'm always down for new philosophical concepts. I searched the book. which version do you have? looks like many different transcriptions	/r/seduction	20/01/22 07:50 PM
2	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. I see it as a completely objective way to rate anyone on their looks and only their looks. We can rate dudes and trans on their looks too not just women. And it is universally accepted. For this girl in particular I do value that she likes all the adrenaline junkie type stuff I do and we can go to it together. Its hard to even find guy friends like that honestly still have only a 6-7 person mountain crew who don't even go weekly.	/r/seduction	20/01/22 06:07 PM
–	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. yes even before we kiss I let them know I'm not a relationship guy and like to be with someone but not belong to them	/r/seduction	20/01/22 05:51 PM
–	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. Where are you located? and whats a JEE TT? yes, born in India. I didn't have any success with women in high school. only kissed one girl and that was only because she was dead set on hooking up with everyone in our friend group. In all 4 years of college i got with three women. It wasn't until after college and got a job I got my stride and began dating many women in my 20's. Then around age 28 i really hunkered down and focused on getting my money right. I did not start dating again until 32. A…	/r/seduction	20/01/22 05:41 PM
–	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. well i'm glad for people who challenge me because I can rethink then decide to be more assured in my convictions, or I can rethink it and change my opinion. I have generally always like the the more "oversized" look on clothes and like cargo pants for all the pockets and utility. but i'll continue to make improvements. Also its pretty cold where I am like 30° freezing and snowing conditions at points in time so the first pic will only be spring/summer style.	/r/seduction	20/01/22 05:20 PM
1	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. well from the first date location pretty much just throw it out there that you would like them to come over. It will be more likely they will say yes if you had some physical escalation prior, like putting your arm around them or holding hands even slightly. if they pull away from you when you try to slightly escalate it means they aren't vibing. and if you kiss they are pretty much a lock on coming by unless they work super early or something. in this case you can just invite them over another …	/r/seduction	20/01/22 05:00 PM
–	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. well first day we met I didn't get a beer or food after snowboarding because I was fasting. She was pretty amazed that I could go a full day on the slopes and not eat anything and feel fine. I think she was also impressed about my knowledge of derivative contracts. She had no idea you could make money from stocks when they don't go up or down. Before her I would really hide those things about me from girls especially because I thought they only like normal stuff.	/r/seduction	20/01/22 04:40 PM
–	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. yes probably most important move to get laid for me. for girls I didn't invite over and went for it i am like 1 for 10 and that was barely a make out session. that one also left me on read after that. there was one girl I invited over and didn't make the move. i played fucking Doom Eternal instead. she said she was getting motion sickness and left. thats when I learned I have to make the move every time.	/r/seduction	20/01/22 03:09 PM
–	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. its about $30-40 per "flight" they call it. I'll probably go myself first time to see what its like but if I invite her to join me I will pay for her because I am asking for her company. Especially since we are already having sex and theres none of that dine and dash risk its ok for me. To put it into perspective, some of my old buddies would spend $150-$200 a night at the bar a couple nights a week. For me an experience like this is worth the money	/r/seduction	20/01/22 03:03 PM
1	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. it is very time consuming and lately i have been neglecting my lifting in favor of snowboard season. but for money I am basically able to use my money to make more money with something called asset collateralization. that can be something as simple as putting my house for rent, or as complex as selling the right for someone to buy/sell my securities at a higher/lower price on a later date. Lately my biggest cash cow in the first few weeks of 2022 has been selling contracts on bitcoin.	/r/seduction	20/01/22 08:12 AM
–	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. I guess for me that just means an active type date: snow tubing, longboarding/scootering on a paved trail, zip lining, climbing a mountain, exploring deep forests, renting a boat, scuba diving, bungie jumping, horseback riding, kite surfing, skydiving, etc. All pretty big committment stuff that I only do with girls I already know that we vibe. Also I would go do this solo without them if they say no. i'm more of an adrenaline junkie guy though. lots of people aren't into this type of stuff and j…	/r/seduction	20/01/22 07:56 AM
7	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. well its weird but girls that are hotter usually end up being into my same interests. like girls that climb tend to have sick bods but also the reverse is true, girls with sick bods are more likely to want to climb. so really those 3-4s i was more dissatisfied because they never wanted to go longboarding or paragliding or even trail running. One even said she couldn't ride a scooter I was so dissapointed.	/r/seduction	20/01/22 05:53 AM
22	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. I did type Indian at first but then did not want to state her race because of not wanting to give too much personally identifiable information of her. shes not just an American white girl she is international too.	/r/seduction	20/01/22 05:49 AM
4	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. 8 months is the time I moved to a new state after achieving some life long dreams and got back into the game after 4 years of keeping my head down and working.	/r/seduction	20/01/22 05:48 AM
25	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. yea i saw she was going pretty slow on the greens so I knew she was new. I just said "its my first day out here in 10 years" and she said "omg me too!" then we took the lifts together pretty much rest of the day and practiced our snowboarding and eventually got to blues by the end.	/r/seduction	20/01/22 04:47 AM
–	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. pretty much split 3 days: chest, back, and legs. I do a "pre event" where i do 3 sets of 15-20 reps of a couple exercises that don't use the main muscle groups above. muscles that supplement them. then my "main event" is 2-4 reps of 90% my max for anywhere between 5-30 sets depending on how used to I am of the weight. For example: I just completed 30 sets of 2 reps on bench press for 155lb, with timed rests. Now I have moved on to 185lb and did 2 reps for 15 sets for the first time today. my las…	/r/seduction	20/01/22 04:43 AM
–	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. well i'm part of r/thetagang. No one really sells options to wsb users in real life. so far i know zero people that even know what delta is. then i'm into fasting and dry fasting. next goal is 3 full days without water or food. been bulding up to it for a while. I regularly eat one meal every 2 days or 3 days. like 48 and 72 hours between meals. Stoicism I have found is not as well known as I would have thought. I got super into stoicism during the pandemic and most people don't know about it bu…	/r/seduction	20/01/22 04:03 AM
–	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. Well.. I felt like A+ that day when I wore it. Finding out later its kind of a C+ outfit still hits though.	/r/seduction	20/01/22 02:51 AM
–	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. man... I always get compliments when I wear those shoes.	/r/seduction	20/01/22 02:10 AM
–	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. no I am in my early 30's now. and lately I have been meeting girls in person during activities that we both enjoy. actually deleted all the dating apps a while ago. This girl in particular I met while snowboarding.	/r/seduction	20/01/22 02:08 AM
–	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. hey they matched with the pants pretty much spot on	/r/seduction	20/01/22 02:00 AM
–	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. Some people have said I get an accent when I am drunk or talking a lot about a subject I like. But she said I do not have an accent. I was born in India. Currently live on the west coast. Most of my confidence comes from my success in life at things I put my mind to. The challenges I have overcome have made me into a much stronger person.	/r/seduction	20/01/22 01:54 AM
–	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. thanks man. I have a couple watches but don't wear them ever. Also I don't think I have ever worn a bracelet, necklace, or rings. Not even sure where I would begin with all of those.	/r/seduction	20/01/22 01:51 AM
2	Accidentally invited two girls to the same date. well i think the main thing is some solo girls want to be a part of a group so me offering them to be part of the 6-10 person crew I go with weekly appeals to them the most. but yea admittedly I am still in the green and blue areas where it may be easier to find the solo girls who aren't tearing the snow to shreds	/r/seduction	14/01/22 04:14 AM
-1	Accidentally invited two girls to the same date. i'll post the results after. this is my first time ever making this error, and to look on the bright side its kind of a good problem to have! I'll rationalize it as my improvements are coming into fruition and more women are saying yes than no.	/r/seduction	14/01/22 02:23 AM
–	Accidentally invited two girls to the same date. yea sometimes I can finesse my way into sharing a lift with a girl who is by herself but that involves a lot of luck too. If you can thats a solid 5-10 minutes you can chat her up (or anyone else for that matter, to get better at socializing with all sorts of people) sometimes those girls are singles for a reason though, a lot of them just like to shred and not have to be bothered with anyone who isn't as fast/good as them. So what I look for is women who look like they are new and just starting…	/r/seduction	14/01/22 01:29 AM
0	Accidentally invited two girls to the same date. i feel it. i'm going to go with the whole "more is merrier" route and be totally nonchalant about it. Will just be a leader and show them both a good time and make sure they are having fun most of all.	/r/seduction	14/01/22 01:12 AM
–	Accidentally invited two girls to the same date. yea i'll keep it in mind for next time if this happens again. but now its too late date night is tomorrow.	/r/seduction	14/01/22 01:08 AM
2	Accidentally invited two girls to the same date. yea... laughs nervously. i kind of have an explanation in mind when the time comes but yes they will meet each other.	/r/seduction	14/01/22 12:43 AM
2	Every first date that ended with a kiss on the cheek/forehead has wen to a 2nd date. 100 percent of the time instructions unclear: kissed a girl on the buttcheeks while she was on the stairclimber now i'm going to jail.	/r/seduction	10/01/22 07:29 PM
–	[deleted by user] nice this is all good stuff. i'll look out if they offer and are grateful among the other stuff. thanks man! what do you mean by boxed wine career prospects though?	/r/seduction	04/01/22 12:27 AM
2	How can I tell if a guy is actually being confident or just using some technique on me? same way i'll be able to tell if a girl is actually a girl or if she has a dick	/r/seduction	30/12/21 06:25 AM
1	How to get laid without game? lol i needed that one today thanks man	/r/seduction	29/12/21 01:12 PM
1	1st date went amazing, now she is the one proposing ideas for the 2nd date, should I accept or should I be leading here? I like the go for the kiss early in the date tip. I never really tried that.	/r/seduction	29/12/21 05:10 AM
–	How to get laid without game? you can go for girls that have no options. they will go with anyone that gives them the tiniest bit of attention.	/r/seduction	29/12/21 04:51 AM
–	I just asked a tinder girl out. personally I unmatch block and delete to get them out my head so I don't have to think about them anymore and its 100% done. might not be the best for potential, but its the best for my mental well being.	/r/seduction	28/12/21 12:37 PM
–	How much time before the date is too much after you initially ask? for sure. looks like buying two tickets to this was a mistake and I was too optimistic.	/r/seduction	28/12/21 12:21 PM
–	How much time before the date is too much after you initially ask? ok so once you know you two vibe thats when its alright to ask 2-3 weeks in advance for an event. but if you aren't sure you have chemistry you should just not ask at all and instead go for chill dates where its easy to bail if its clear that this is not a match	/r/seduction	27/12/21 05:11 AM
1	How much time before the date is too much after you initially ask? ok good to know thanks	/r/seduction	27/12/21 04:45 AM
–	How much time before the date is too much after you initially ask? well the thing is i kinda already bought two tickets to this thing and Im not at few dates level with anyone. so what about one coffee date and we vibe? still uncouth to ask on an event date that early? what if I don't mind if they don't do anything physical with me and I just want to enjoy their company at the event regardless?	/r/seduction	27/12/21 04:21 AM
2	She is rooting for you i read models in 2015 and it helped me tremendously with my inner game and i had a great time with some amazing women. but that was back then. shit done changed homie. the game is different now. and its because of technology creating endless opportunities and always having better options instantaneously. but hey if you are seeing success with this maybe i'll go back and give it another read and implement it again.	/r/seduction	26/12/21 06:07 AM
0	She is rooting for you doubt. you really think a girl getting 1000 likes per week in 2021 is as lonely as a girl that only gets hit on 4 times per week in 2014? the fact is they have options now. imagine if you had thousands of employers contacting you. each one is worth less than if you only had 3 employers contacting you. but you may be right and i may be wrong because this timeline is still in its infancy. so I will be open minded and consider that these girls may still want something more than just superficial shi…	/r/seduction	26/12/21 05:10 AM
3	She is rooting for you even with the blatant ripoff, this advice is so 2014-2015. very out dated in the new generation when 6/10's are getting flown out by millionaires and getting treated like actual princesses just by putting a profile picture up. sugar baby culture and online "fame" has changed dating in a big way in my opinion.	/r/seduction	26/12/21 04:49 AM
1	Wtf is banter?!? [Week 3] I went to the singles groups but it tends to be a sausage party lol. Still good for making new friends. And you may get lucky that the one or two girls there like you instead of the other 10 guys. Activity groups (sports, board games, adventures, etc) tend to have a better ratio but the girls there may not be single. Most likely if they are there alone they are single though. Personally I like rock climbing, hiking, and snow sports.	/r/seduction	25/12/21 03:01 AM
–	If you can’t be happy being a single guy, you’ll never be happy dude i was taking screenshots of the article and all for it in the beginning when he was saying don't complain about it because thats what fucks you up with people. what i find disingenuous in the article is when he says when you stop caring and just live well THEN thats when girls come into your life. it fucks up the article for me because why would you stop caring about women with this undertone of that if you stop caring then you will get them. should have just kept his opinion about living a…	/r/seduction	10/12/21 04:37 PM
–	If you can’t be happy being a single guy, you’ll never be happy thanks I will be happy because I saved millions of dollars by not having a wife and kids. you seem like you are the weak one you can't even contain yourself from someone on reddit disagreeing with a dipshit article you posted.	/r/seduction	10/12/21 03:37 PM
5	If you can’t be happy being a single guy, you’ll never be happy i see. thats a really good explanation.	/r/seduction	10/12/21 12:49 PM
–	If you can’t be happy being a single guy, you’ll never be happy i've seen it work for others as well. it just never did for me. i always have to make myself visible by showing interest. that gives me the best results. i agree you should be 100% on your own and a partner is a supplement. good luck out there man.	/r/seduction	10/12/21 12:10 PM
–	If you can’t be happy being a single guy, you’ll never be happy i think this article is idealist. the fact is you can be a single guy living a great life and happy and there still may be zero women who want you. you should still be happy and grateful though. single problems definitely aren't as bad as relationship problems, but the good times aren't as amazing either.	/r/seduction	10/12/21 11:41 AM
–	If you can’t be happy being a single guy, you’ll never be happy but then you don't need it so why would you take it? the "when you stop looking is when it comes to you" never worked for me. I always felt like its a meme when people say that	/r/seduction	10/12/21 11:28 AM
–	[deleted by user] ok i'm writing this all down in the banter notes. who said you can't learn stuff from reddit? thanks dude. i'll try some bantering with dudes too. definitely do not want to come off as mean so i'll probably try to just be normal at first and feel the vibe then go into banter if it permits	/r/seduction	08/12/21 02:20 AM
–	[deleted by user] maybe FDS is the right sub for you because you seem to like giving bad advice just trying to banter btw. text banter is tough need to add a smiley emoji or some shit	/r/seduction	07/12/21 11:54 PM
–	[deleted by user] i just want to break out of my timid shell and be funnier mostly. i'm typically a very serious and brooding person. i don't only neg I still use compliments sometimes and be direct other times. even just approaching and trying to enjoy the process is a big win for me.	/r/seduction	07/12/21 11:28 PM
–	[deleted by user] my definition of negging is it has to make her laugh for it to be considered negging. and not a nervous laugh a real laugh.	/r/seduction	07/12/21 11:16 PM
5	Why do most girls I meet seem disinterested? you are comparing your situation to others and then conflating it to something that should be happening with you too. thats the downfall for everyone. The things that happen to you are what you get. If you try to live in a different reality where things are "better" then anything actually happening that aren't what you hope then feel "worse" by an imagination you created yourself. Lets take for example if I want 3 awesome girlfriends. Then even 1 won't be enough! If I have a threesome I will be …	/r/seduction	27/11/21 05:35 PM
–	Where is the best place to make approaches? this doesn't really explain how to go from those things to making new friends in those environments. care to explain? i'm down for new friends but can't seem to go from "meet in hobby location" to "meet outside hobby location" even as platonic buddies should i ask them to get food or something?	/r/seduction	24/11/21 02:12 AM