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| 37 | How to invite a date to an airbnb/hotel if she knows I live elsewhere in the (relatively small) city? | Logistics | foghatyma | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 05:23 PM |
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| 5 | [M34] Was rejected badly a few days ago and having a hard time getting over it.Nothing. I don't have a clue why these people have anything against two consenting adults. | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 05:18 PM |
| 1 | [M34] Was rejected badly a few days ago and having a hard time getting over it.Obviously I wasn't commenting to that. | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 05:09 PM |
| 8 | [M34] Was rejected badly a few days ago and having a hard time getting over it.Are you suggesting a 18+ years old girl should only date people whom the closest male family member approves? Wtf. | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 05:09 PM |
| -4 | [M34] Was rejected badly a few days ago and having a hard time getting over it.FYI not everyone is looking for a relationship. And for sexual stuff, the older guy has the knowledge, the younger girl has the body. Win-win. | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Not sure if this belongs here, but f*** it, why notIt's probably a turn-off (in general), meaning you are not playing the game in easy mode. But that doesn't mean it's impossible, you got a girl at least once. There are many more whom you can attract, that's 100%. The harder to get the treat, the more you'll enjoy it! So, cheer up and get those ladies! Oh, and your ex is definitely a huge asshole for not standing by you. And don't be shy, if she was a bitch, say so. | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 01:31 AM |
| 42 | Do you think that most women would expect a traditional date before a hook up?I'm a man, and I also want a date with the woman before anything. I can't even imagine going to someone's house or inviting someone into your home without meeting them in public first. | /r/seduction | 14/10/22 08:23 AM |
| 3 | Wanna try out online dating? Here's some tips.Thanks for taking the time, this is a quality post! | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 09:37 PM |
| 8 | Wanna try out online dating? Here's some tips.Well, it gives a little context. If OP were a 10 pulling <5, his tips would be basically useless for most us. But telling us a little about himself and the girls, also tells us how applicable those tips for the everyday joe. | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 05:35 PM |
| 7 | Wanna try out online dating? Here's some tips.Might be true but still a relevant question. It was possible that OP had pulled fatties only for all we knew. | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 04:28 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I have missed the boat when it comes to dating. And once that ship has sailed, it is never coming back. What advice do you have?/thread | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else have a sex bucket list?Anyone else have a sex bucket list? Yes. Do you think we as men are programmed to enjoy variety? Also yes. (Women too.) | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 06:49 AM |
| 3 | How to stay away from logical conversation?You are right. But OP wasn't talking about long term. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Could driving for Uber or Lyft be good for getting dates?Congrats, you are officially nominated for the Creepiest Seduction Idea 2022 Award. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 09:11 PM |
| 3 | I found this post in r/socialskills saying that women don't want to be cold approached, it doesn't work and guys should stop. What does r/seduction think about this?Not just on Reddit though. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 06:29 PM |
| 23 | What are some good plausible deniability ideas (excuses) to bring a girl home?Man, that's sick! You gotta tell them bitches! | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 10:18 AM |
| 6 | What's a good way to respond to a girl who says your nice?"My nice what?" | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 10:22 PM |
| 10 | How did you meet your current or last fuck buddy?Yeah, what's that? Never heard about it. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 08:20 PM |
| 1 | I'm asian (23F) I need an advice, I really into caucasian/white guysDo you live in Asia where your type is very rare? Then if it's that important to you, you might want to move to a bigger city. But what advice do you actually need? | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 11:45 AM |
| 1 | First cold approach at 36Maybe the law is the law for a good reason? No one is chasing teens, you can calm down. | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 09:29 PM |
| 2 | First cold approach at 36Sexual harassment and shooting a shot are two extremely different things. And your wording is very misleading (on purpose, I guess). OP was mentioning that in his experience 28-40 men are attractive to 18-25 women. That is mostly true. And you were wording it like we normalize when creeps harassing little girls. | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Greatest colognes/perfumes in 2022?For Sauvage, do you use the Parfum or the EDP version? | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Greatest colognes/perfumes in 2022?Do you use the Parfum or the EDP version? | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Greatest colognes/perfumes in 2022?Yes but you can't smell them through a girl's nose. | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 12:12 AM |
| 2 | First cold approach at 36We'll leave you alone. Everything else is not your business. | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 12:01 AM |
| 1 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?That's indeed sounds like a double standard, I wouldn't like that either. All I'm saying is maybe the girls who keep their distance are more like their European cousins (in this matter) and simply feel these kind of words disrespectful. Even if you didn't mean them to be. | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 08:32 AM |
| 1 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?Let's say there are a couple of restaurants equally available to you and it seems like each one has reasonably good food. You are hungry but not starving. Would you go to a place where they call you babe? | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 10:22 AM |
| 77 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?I don't know about America, but in Europe calling a girl whom you've just met "babe" sounds very disrespectful. I'm actually baffled that in the US some girls react to that positively. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 11:28 PM |
| 1 | I approached the hottest girl in the venue last night.Or she might be happy for her friend and leave you two lovebirds alone <3 | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 11:16 AM |
| 1 | First approaches at nightclub got played for a drink.Tuition fee. | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Walking out on girls if they are not singleYou know, you can't really approach more girls if you omit saying something like "Okay then, have a nice day!" and then walk away. It's like 2 seconds. So let's do the math! How many girls do you approach a day? 10? 100? Let's say 50. Then it's 100 seconds, which is about one and half a minute. Dude... In other words, yes, you are rude. | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 10:24 PM |
| 7 | My BF doesnt wanna get married everFirst of all, this a wrong sub for the question. Second, I'd consider leaving (if I were planning for life) but not because of the marriage thing but because he said he didn't "see himself in a relationship more than 4-5 years with someone". | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Is this a good pickup line?Only if the girl is really into you already. Otherwise you'd give up too much power too early. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 06:41 PM |
| 1 | How do I look?Not sure where you are from but in Europe you'd be considered fat. Start eating healthy, you have potential! | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 01:22 PM |
| 1 | 1 year of daily daygame results - This is my success ratio, what is yours?Wow, 1000 approaches, congrats! Do you still feel approach anxiety or did it completely disappear? (Or wasn't even there at the first place?) 1000 approaches is like 3/day, that's what I call a training! | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 10:29 PM |
| 8 | Dating after Nuclear war?You know this thread is a joke, right? | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 01:16 PM |
| 1 | What are words other than "cute", "beautiful" or "hot" you can give to a woman ?If you do that, we are going to need a proper field report. | /r/seduction | 06/02/22 01:55 PM |
| 3 | What are words other than "cute", "beautiful" or "hot" you can give to a woman ?These are great and fun, please don't be bothered by the triggered people. (Although I'd say the orange one only to women whom I know very well.) | /r/seduction | 06/02/22 01:53 PM |
| 1 | When I'm going out, I have no idea how to start and hold a conversation with a random chickFor example ask them why they study that particular thing. Basically questions which they can answer with more than one word. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Does going to a bar alone in 30s make me creepy?imo sy rly dtf ngl | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 12:23 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]Exactly. There are so many things you can't control about your life. Why on Earth would you give up on those that you can? | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 08:19 AM |
| 9 | My friend met and had sex with a girl 1 day before I did. We both met her on Tinder. And it was a total coincidenceWe need updates though! | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 05:04 AM |
| 2 | I’ve been doing porn for nearly 4 years because I was fed up with pickupAren't you afraid that this might come back later in your life if/when you want to have a relationship with a "normal" girl? | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 05:57 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]eye contact for a few hours Seriously? | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 12:01 PM |
| 6 | I am joining dance studios, yoga, tabata, HIIT, etc because I'm sick of the sausage environments I am in. Also, no more cold approaches. But is this the right choice of action?Don't you think these events would be great for gradual desensitization? I mean, he was surrounded by men all his life till now. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 03:40 AM |
| 2 | I am joining dance studios, yoga, tabata, HIIT, etc because I'm sick of the sausage environments I am in. Also, no more cold approaches. But is this the right choice of action?Oh, I thought you were injured or something. Well, then, you know the cliché (but truth): life begins at the end of your comfort zone. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 03:27 AM |
| 1 | I am joining dance studios, yoga, tabata, HIIT, etc because I'm sick of the sausage environments I am in. Also, no more cold approaches. But is this the right choice of action?So, if it's not too personal...why can't you? | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 03:01 AM |
| 1 | This conversation stuff really works! (by meathead)No, she definitely hasn't used me (unfortunately haha), we both enjoyed the time together. But for me it felt like we had connected and could lead to more, for her it probably was a typical day. Hard to describe actually. But she wasn't lying or anything, just really interested in me (and in others as well, that's when I realized). | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 01:27 AM |
| 2 | I don't think women like alpha malesHave you considered walking into shops with big rifles? I bet women would be all over you! | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 03:45 PM |
| 5 | This conversation stuff really works! (by meathead)I once met a girl who was a master of this. You are right, it really felt like an amazing conversation, I thought we really hit it off. Later I realized what happened. Really interesting experience. | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 07:07 AM |
| 1 | How many rejections in a row is too much?Non-compatible women are basically filtering themselves out instead of robbing your time. | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 08:02 AM |
| 8 | How many rejections in a row is too much?Then there is something clearly wrong with your communication skills. | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 08:00 AM |
| 6 | What kind of apartment is best for picking up womenBut have you walked out? /s | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 07:54 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Slept with 10 chicks this year. In 2 days? Nice! /s Great post, thanks for sharing. | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 03:47 AM |
| 2 | How do I grow a pair and start talking to girls?Tell your friends you want to approach girls. And tell them you buy them beers if you chicken out. Even better if you can make it a bet: you approach 10 girls, you get a beer, you approach less, they get beers. | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 01:31 AM |
| 16 | At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women?And 45-55 when we hit 45. | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 12:31 AM |
| 5 | Are girls checking me our or are they scared?Agreed. | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 02:55 AM |
| 1 | How Does One Ethically Gain Sexual Experience?Treat them how you would like to be treated. | /r/seduction | 28/11/21 12:20 AM |
| 6 | How to stop the "If a woman like sex she is a slut" Mindset?You are seeing your flaws, and you are actively trying to change them. You are a good man. I think in order to overcome this, you need to find out why do you think this? You also like and want sex, do you think negatively about yourself too because of it? | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 06:57 PM |
| 3 | How to invite a date to an airbnb/hotel if she knows I live elsewhere in the (relatively small) city?Thanks, that could work too. | /r/seduction | 25/11/21 04:02 AM |
| 1 | How to invite a date to an airbnb/hotel if she knows I live elsewhere in the (relatively small) city?Thanks for the response! Hopefully my post hasn't given the wrong impression, I'm not trying to wiggle, and obviously not "entitled" to anything for being nice... We are two adults, she's amazing, there are clearly sparkles, so things might happen, and I will be prepared, that's all. Now about the topic: you are right about being honest but I think talking about having sex on the date before the actual date is off-putting. Does it really work for you? | /r/seduction | 25/11/21 02:56 AM |
| 2 | How to invite a date to an airbnb/hotel if she knows I live elsewhere in the (relatively small) city?Well, she's an amazing person, so that's actually tempting. (I know her from earlier.) But I'm not really a boyfriend material, so probably not. Why? | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 09:15 PM |
| 3 | How to invite a date to an airbnb/hotel if she knows I live elsewhere in the (relatively small) city?I'm thinking exactly about the same thing... I don't think I will do it though. But I'm still thinking. | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 09:13 PM |
| 12 | How to invite a date to an airbnb/hotel if she knows I live elsewhere in the (relatively small) city?That's a really great advice, thank you! | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 05:38 PM |
| 1 | How should I dance at clubs/parties to have that ‘confident’ vibe?Have you tried more classes? I've tried two, in the first there were more men, but in the second there are more women. | /r/seduction | 21/11/21 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Do women know when a guy is horny as they are dancing on him in the club?I think simple things work best. If there was eye contact, I just ask if she wanted to dance (or just smile if the music is too loud) while trying to hold her hand (gently, not aggressively). | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 10:02 AM |
| 0 | Do women know when a guy is horny as they are dancing on him in the club?I was just curious, because here in Europe you have to initiate 90% of the time, girls usually won't come to you grinding. But how you described your story, it felt like this is totally normal where you live. | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 07:30 PM |
| -1 | Do women know when a guy is horny as they are dancing on him in the club?Serious question: Where do you live? | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 07:02 PM |
| 20 | I made out with a strangerEarth | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Girls grind on me on the clubWhere do you live? | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 09:01 PM |
| 5 | Club and barsGood luck! Please don't forget to update us! | /r/seduction | 11/09/21 12:03 AM |
| 3 | Apparently I'm popular in Korea, not sure how to handle the attentionExact same thing happened to me in Thailand on Tinder. I was shocked :D More matches per day than per 2 weeks back in Europe. BTW how's the bar/party scene vs covid situation in Korea? I cancelled my trip in early 2020 and now I'm thinking about rebooking. | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 07:19 AM |
| 11 | Apparently I'm popular in Korea, not sure how to handle the attention"It was great talking to you but I've met someone. Have a nice day!" | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 07:14 AM |
| 0 | Don’t be this guyYou'll have a tough life with that attitude but good luck. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Don’t be this guyand 3. (and 5. to some degree) are totally physical. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 01:15 PM |
| 2 | Don’t be this guyLol. You forgot the most important one: be attractive. He literally described how to be attractive. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 11:51 AM |
| 2 | 30 rules I’ve learned through my personal experienceI disagree with 15th heavily. Basically in my eyes there are three types of relationships: 1) One night stands: Waiting with sex doesn't make sense here. 2) Short term / FWB: Again, doesn't make sense. 3) Long term: If someone is so uninteresting and has so little value in your life that waiting with sex could be a factor then how could this work in a long term? And 22-25 (especially 22) should be applied at all times to all people, not just when a girl you want something with is present. | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 11:42 AM |
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