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The administrators first question without seeing anything was “did you swing on a girl?” 🤦‍♂️. That’s simply appalling, not even going to listen to his side of the story.
/r/MensRights25/02/20 03:08 AM
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I bought Julien’s first tear if transformation mastery for which I got some value from. Gives you some mediations teaches you cool mindsets and offers a ton of value for life in general. The dating advice comes down to simple ways you can improve your social skills like practical advice . That’s basically the sun of it. But hi honestly you need some discipline to actually apply it to you life unless you will waste your money. It’s good to involved with a group who are doing the same thing you ar…
/r/seduction04/01/20 05:42 AM
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That’s were pick up comes in. Once you pass her shit tests then she’s normal.
/r/seduction02/01/20 07:32 PM
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For sure. It’s sad most guys can’t even look a man in the eye when they shake his hand. And when I see that I say to myself this guy has no right dealing with woman if he can’t look a man I. The eye and just have a normal conversation.
/r/seduction02/01/20 02:40 AM
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Every young boy is alpha until society made him beta. It’s something realized not achieved
/r/seduction13/11/19 12:39 AM
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yeah if you have nothing goin for you, sure texting a girl all day would seem amusing
/r/seduction07/11/19 11:49 PM
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yeha just not too much. if you have shit going on in your life, texting her for any other thing other than a date is unecessary
/r/seduction07/11/19 11:49 PM
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Unless shes your girlfriend texts are only for setting up dates. well... unless you are blue pill. if it's early on, texting "how was your day" and "good morning after like one date communicates a level of neediness because it presumes you don't have anything better to do. but if it's your girlfriend sending that type of text should be sweet or enduring. see the difference?
/r/seduction07/11/19 11:47 PM
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Thing is most guys have the wrong definition of attractiveness. You don’t have to have male model looks with a perfectly square jaw and six pack abs to be attractive ( although that helps no doubt). You just need tot have a look and it needs to make sense. Are you in shape? How do your clothes fit, are you well groomed? How do your teeth look, your smell. Just your overall look. I think if some guys took care of this, they would go up 2 points easy. But yeah since tinder and all these other apps…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 11:29 PM
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You make no sense
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/19 04:43 PM
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Fair enough. I’ll abide by the sub rules but nothing I’ve said has been false. Good day
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/19 03:02 AM
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the logical fallacies you continue to make amaze me. You don’t need to touch a hot stove to know it will burn you, you don’t have to jump off a bridge to know you’ll die from the impact and I don’t need to spend a decade dating to tell you a simple fact about human (female) biology. True wisdom is learning from the mistakes of others and not making them yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/19 02:32 AM
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The common thing I’ve noticed from you is that you seem to avoid the topic at hand and use ad hominems. I’m sure you know what I was trying to say. You just know I’m right that’s why you attack me instead of the argument I’m making
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/19 01:48 AM
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Dr Daniel Amen writes in his book, Change Your Brain, Change Your Life, “Whenever a person is sexually involved with another person, neurochemical changes occur in both their brains that encourage limbic, emotional bonding. Limbic bonding is the reason casual sex doesn’t really work for people on a whole mind and body level.””One person, often the woman, is bound to form an attachment and will be hurt when a casual affair ends. One reason it is usually the woman who is hurt most is that the fema…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/19 12:14 AM
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Mabye not that particular man but certainly archetype, ethnicity, build or all the above. You can’t cheat science, these things happen. In the other hand if the initial encounter yet wasn’t that memorable their is still a bond between the two people that create emotional attachment. Look it up
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/19 11:47 PM
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I did not allude to any religion. What I hav said is strictly scientific although same religious groups may vouch for what I’ve said. Usually ancient wisdom is true. Nevertheless humans have a limbic system that this responsible for creating emotional attachments to the people we are intimate with. And the limbic system in the female is larger tan the males.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/19 11:20 PM
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Wasn’t giving you advice. Was stating a fact. Take it how you like
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/19 07:54 PM
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Well shes stilll thinks about him. Obviously she wouldn’t tell you that though
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/19 06:00 PM
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Yeah I get it “soul time” is not a term you here floating around in the secular world but my point still stands. Why do you think you are unable to stop thinking about the guy you first had sexual with. Inevitably you choose partners that resemble the First guy.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/19 03:39 PM
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You form chemical bonds with the people you sleep with. It’s called a soul tie. The more bonds you make with different people the harder it is to make a bond with someone for a long period of time. That one person won’t satisfy you anymore.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/19 06:03 AM
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Yeah im a guy btw. And you should wait for the right guy and eventually have kids if you want. It’s what your body was designed for
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/19 02:37 AM
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You can’t please her. She walks a crooked path to no where and is the demise of simple men. Sorry to get all proverbs on you but it’s true. Many men’s life have been ruined by “immoral women”
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/19 02:28 AM
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Tory lanes, a famous rapper, said Instagram models are undateable. If a rapper said that how much more a modern day alpha male working a normal life
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/19 02:23 AM
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Haven’t been on this sub for a month for that reason. It got to the point i was getting so tired of replying to the same type of posts of guys who prob wont even heed the advice you give.
/r/seduction12/07/19 09:54 PM
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Fellas you guys are making the game hard on yourself. Women are easy you make it hard
/r/seduction12/07/19 09:28 PM
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There is no quick fix to becoming a better version of yourself. Noted
/r/seduction11/07/19 02:44 PM
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They say the best players have shortest memory. This goes for sports and actual game. Don’t get to high off highs and too low off lows. Keep your emotions stable and take the learning point and become stronger. Actually the more times you get rejected the better you will get faster.
/r/seduction19/06/19 04:43 PM
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Stop thinking with your feelings for a sec. she is texting you, she is hooking up with you, therefore she is chasing your validation. Simple math
/r/seduction19/06/19 05:54 AM
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Girls aren’t stupid, if she wants to talk she’ll text you. But if she doesn’t send a little joke or tease. Something of value then she will be more likely to text you back. You want to come off like you have shit going on in your own life and your. Not just leaving off her
/r/seduction19/06/19 05:40 AM
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Especially if it’s by someone who has no notoriety
/r/seduction19/06/19 05:38 AM
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Then you should have no problem she is chasing you it seems
/r/seduction19/06/19 05:35 AM
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Cold approach is still superior but I do see this a valid way to meet women. But just like tinder, women have the upper hand when it comes to choosing because they have so many options usually.
/r/seduction19/06/19 05:35 AM
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The number one trait of an alpha is not giving a fuck. Especially what a girl thinks of him. I’ll tell you why you care what she thinks. You left a chink in your armor. You let her emotionally imprint you. And once that happens it’s over bro. You fell in love.
/r/seduction19/06/19 05:25 AM
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Girls aren’t stupid. Sometimes they are a little smarter than us. Let’s just pretend you are the girls for a second. Guy asks to hang out and you ignore it because why... I’ll tell you why. Because she has other options simple as that. Bro if this girl is hot I garuntee she is talking to other guys and probably having sex with them. Just the plain truth but the good news is she knows you have a penis because you said you would like to go on a date. So what is the solution. Don’t give a fuck. Sto…
/r/seduction19/06/19 05:21 AM
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If you can move out you should even if that means sleeping with roaches for a while. If you don’t like the rules you are living under nice out. Its like all these liberal complaining out the condition of America but choose to stay.
/r/seduction19/06/19 05:16 AM
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Do you watch porn all the time
/r/seduction19/06/19 05:13 AM
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Pick up is the sprinkles on top not the whole meal. Agreed
/r/seduction19/06/19 04:43 AM
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Perhaps idk though seems they just like white dudes
/r/seduction19/06/19 04:23 AM
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Yeah act normal say hi and all that just don’t take back what you said because you like her and want to be more thats all. But look you can do whatever you want im just telling you facts and female psychology. You in a really good position because now because teh ball is in her court, you told her the truth now she can do what she wants with it. Just play it cool. Keep in your mind she would be lucky to be with a guy like you ight.
/r/seduction19/06/19 04:05 AM
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In order to get out of the friend zone you need to be willing to have a girl not want to talk to you anymore. You did the right thing. You could have been a bit smoother but what’s done is done. Now don’t undo all your hard work by trying to be buddy buddy again. Let the tension sit and let her make a decision. It’s so funny though. Your here saying you messed up the relationship when their was no relationship to begin with. Why would telling a girl you like her mess up a relationship if she alr…
/r/seduction19/06/19 03:56 AM
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Think about it, she’s a hot girl presumably so chances are she is talking to other guys, because hot girls usually have abundance of options and abundance of options makes them less needy, hence why she isn’t texting you back. Now their could be other reasons but that is the most likely reason. So here are the tactics; don’t text her back faster than she texts you. If he takes an hour you take an hour if. She takes five minutes you can take minutes also or you could Waite longer. But the point i…
/r/seduction19/06/19 03:20 AM
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Yeah bro I sometimes believe girls don’t like guys with my color skin but then I see guys with my color skin who are good with girls. Just something to protect myself from getting rejected in the end.
/r/seduction18/06/19 03:49 PM
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She emotionally imprinted you. You thought all girl are sugar and spice and everything nice sorry bro but we’ve been fed that lie since we where young. At least now you know the opposite. You can move on but it’s your choice if you want to dwell in the past.
/r/seduction17/06/19 09:32 PM
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You care too much what people think. Improve yourself and offer value and people will start treating you with respect.
/r/seduction17/06/19 06:49 PM
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Did you get her number?
/r/seduction17/06/19 06:41 PM
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We need infield to know. Could have been a number of things you did wrong honestly. But did she give your any indication she likes you. Do you never close her did she look flustered or blush in anyway.
/r/seduction17/06/19 06:39 PM
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Lol okay bro
/r/seduction17/06/19 06:31 PM
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Well if you are happy then props. But I always am skeptical of guys who say game doesn’t work for me. It’s either they gave up or they settled for a girl who is below their quality because it was the safe option.
/r/seduction17/06/19 05:09 PM
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Well maybe if you actually went out and applied half of what you saw in the videos you wouldn’t be so overwhelmed. It’s like watching a bunch of videos on how to loose body fat and your still eating cake for breakfast ( exaggeration obviously). Also why don’t you get involved, join a group of guys you think can offer you value and Vic versu. Also I will admit that rsd especially Owens free tours have a lot of fluff to their videos that are not practical to just implement tomorrow but some of the…
/r/seduction17/06/19 05:07 PM
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Skill is being able to do a good approach while feeling like shit. Also if you set your standard to high for success when you can’t even get a number then that will also frustrate your results
/r/seduction17/06/19 08:41 AM
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The point I’m making is that approach anxiety is something that exists only in our mind, that its not something out in the real world. Yeah but I get guys deal with it though.
/r/seduction17/06/19 01:14 AM
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Well yeah their are ways to mitigate it but the end of the day what if your alternative. What other option do you have but to approach especially if you won’t see her again
/r/seduction16/06/19 05:36 PM
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If I told you if you don’t approach that girl I will shoot you the head you would have non problem approaching. That’s how you know it’s in your head. Their is no anxiety when you the right “why”
/r/seduction16/06/19 04:56 PM
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Approach anxiety doesn’t exist. All in your head.
/r/seduction16/06/19 04:34 PM
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“Better to go to the strip club...”
/r/seduction16/06/19 01:40 PM
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Is his for beginners?
/r/seduction16/06/19 06:08 AM
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Do you pmo all the time cause that is another reason have AA. Also knowing the choosing signals are important. Where the girls looking at you constantly, where they mabye moving closer to you. Confidence though competence. When you know the signs a girls likes you makes you less nervous. Also assume the girls like you already that helps also. Your a healthy guy, no reason they shouldn’t like you.
/r/seduction16/06/19 03:36 AM
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Yeah maybe this mini trauma will help you realize you need to get over what approach anxiety you have and take action. You never know she could have been your future gf
/r/seduction16/06/19 03:32 AM
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What you just said you would pay for prostitutes. How is that any healthier. Honestly I would jump off a bridge, before paying for sex
/r/seduction16/06/19 02:21 AM
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Agreed. I try to be good at both direct and indirect because they actually help each other out
/r/seduction15/06/19 07:04 PM
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That’s like saying I’m giving up on goin to the gym because I feel uncomfortable lifting all these heavy weights. Just really consider the decision your making because the models for pick up work, you can get good at it. Any guy can. In the end don’t blame pick up blame yourself for not wanting to improve in this area in your life. And consider all the women you really liked that you could have been with. Im not knocking you for doing bookers but just stop and consider what your doing
/r/seduction15/06/19 07:01 PM
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Depends on the context. Their is no never or always in game, there is just situations and context. If she is giving you a lot of IOIs and you walk up to her and say that followed with “ would you like to hang out some time, here my number” it could work. But like I said there has to be some choosing signal going on. Also your tone of voice eye contact and body language is important also.
/r/seduction15/06/19 06:53 PM
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Wouldn’t go as far as to say that. The truth is all girls want attention but would she get into a car accident to prove she wants attention? Seems like a stretch
/r/seduction15/06/19 06:44 PM
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Figure out what both want and try and screen girls that are compatible with that path
/r/seduction14/06/19 02:21 AM
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Focus on game not the girl
/r/seduction14/06/19 01:58 AM
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Personally I wouldn’t date a girl from work because it just ruins the purpose of a professional environment. You have no leverage or freedom to talk to for other women and it will probably take a long time for your to build to long term. If you want multiple women I suggest you keep things professional with her and approach outside of work like in the metro before work or after work in the evening. But if it doesn’t hinder your chances of seeing other women than sure dating a girl from work coul…
/r/seduction14/06/19 01:48 AM
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Your success will be hindered due to the cultural restrictions you will encounter. But keep I mind their is no such thing as a virtuous woman. Nevertheless, I’d play it like you would play any other group gathering. They are girls and want to meet guys also they just may not be so overt about it and may act weird due to the setting. You might have to sneak out to seduce them or do it behind closed doors obviously. Also I would recommend being the sexual alpha and not trying to be super friendly.…
/r/seduction14/06/19 12:56 AM
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Don’t neglect day game or “evening game to be more specific. Plenty of milfs looking to be seduced during those hours
/r/seduction13/06/19 04:15 AM
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Hit the gym and gain muscle
/r/seduction13/06/19 02:32 AM
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Some girls just say they have a boyfriend as a way to fend off weak men. Also if the the girlfriend cheats didn’t that make her equally as responsible. I also believe in karma, this guy will get what’s coming to him. And so will the girl.
/r/seduction12/06/19 03:21 PM
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You need to make approaching a regular part of your day. Maybe arrive 20 min early to the bus stop to approach more women you see there. We can give you this one line to say that is on paper a good opener but if you aren’t practicing your pickup skill regularly no matter how this interaction goes your overall success with women will be mediocre. Direct: “ my name is__ I would like to share my company with you sometime. Here is my number.” This only works if she’s giving iOis like staring. Indire…
/r/seduction12/06/19 03:18 PM
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You can still try with hot girls just don’t have high expectations is all.
/r/seduction12/06/19 02:38 PM
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There is an abundance of dicks for young 22 year old women. Just go to a bar and look twirl your hair.
/r/seduction12/06/19 02:33 AM
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Yeah this is mindset of cold approach for sure. Always remember she doesn’t know you
/r/seduction11/06/19 02:59 AM
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Fuck what she thinks or eve what other guys think, you know where your going in life so it shouldn’t matter that much what your current job is. Should you try and upgrade? Of course, but you are who you are at this moment you have to do the best with what you’ve got . Let your game speak for itself. If you have good game the girls not gonna be wondering what your job is, she’s gonna b wondering how to fuck you. Also get money to better your own life not to impress some girl, that’s how you attra…
/r/seduction11/06/19 01:55 AM
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Nothin in this scenario suggests she doesn’t like you. But it seems your problem is more about yourself. You have no confidence. You dont think this girl is lucky to go out with you, you think you are lucky to go out with her. Should be the other way around. But fine wait a week and text her agin if she wants to meet up. If she gives you another half ass answer dont text her anymore. At least she has you Snapchat so she can see the cool shit you do in life.
/r/seduction11/06/19 01:49 AM
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The ratio is in your favor but to be honest you don’t want a bad reputation where you work so just be professional. Personally i wouldn’t try to bang any woman from work because it creates drama and could potentially get you fired or worse. If they are hot they have female friends. You can still flirt and stuff just be professional first. Then maybe at the office party or something you can isolate her and then take it away from their.
/r/seduction10/06/19 11:42 PM
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Exactly so either take a class or find a spot maybe off campus. Or you could make an excuse and say your waiting for a friend or you could just do day game in other populated areas
/r/seduction10/06/19 06:26 PM
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do yoga at the gym or join a dancing class. The. Women to male ratio is usually in your favor and if you are attractive enough you will get results . Your welcome
/r/seduction10/06/19 04:19 AM
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Quick numbers work all the time. You just need good phone game.
/r/seduction10/06/19 03:49 AM
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👍💯 good shit.
/r/seduction10/06/19 03:44 AM
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Nope. That’s weird honestly he’s working. Drop the number, get in get out.
/r/seduction10/06/19 03:33 AM
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Drop your number in the delivery. Make it a business card so it’s not as obvious. But honestly both could work.
/r/seduction10/06/19 03:32 AM
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You just need a decent reason to be their. If your not taking classes then it’s weird. Seems like you have an agenda.
/r/seduction10/06/19 03:30 AM
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Yes. Tell a girl “a girl has never made me cum from a BJ” and she’ll chase you till kingdom come.
/r/seduction10/06/19 03:04 AM
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Didn’t mean to say “true” that was a typo. Meant to say a guy who cums
/r/seduction10/06/19 02:58 AM
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😂 how has that hleped you so far?
/r/seduction10/06/19 02:05 AM
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Your experience in game, results so far, sticking points, student, or working etc.
/r/seduction10/06/19 01:43 AM
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I need to know at least someone’s experience in game, background and just a little nit to give advice otherwise ill just be giving information thats already accessible on the internet
/r/seduction10/06/19 12:44 AM
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You should cold approach off college campus and. Continued to be social on campus. Whoever said “if she’s not hot it not practice” or whatever was referring cold approach pick up. Never do CAP harcore on a college campus. The most you should do is just be known build a really good reputation saying ho to everyone you come across even the ugly girls because the those girls help you get the hot girls.
/r/seduction10/06/19 12:02 AM
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If you are a cool guy she won’t loose interest. But this is undetermined. Are you involved In a lot of activities at the school. Do you have good rapport around campus. How is your social media? Does it show you have a relatively cool life with cool friends? And that other girls find you attractive? If you have these things in place it makes it way easier to initiate a date and stuff. But if you do you can just try and talk to her before or after class about class related things then ask if she …
/r/seduction09/06/19 11:34 PM
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Bro no one fucking knows no offense.But we literally have no context about you, the girl your history, your goals etc. all we have to go off is this one snippet in time where you may or may not be doing the right thing.
/r/seduction09/06/19 11:25 PM
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Actually your experience is quite common among most guys. “Don’t know what I’m doing so, get drunk and hope some girl will approach me”. For you I would recommend focusing more of my energy on talking to girls during the day. It’s the purest form of game and gives you the quickest feedback, about what your doing right and wrong. But I don’t know your history so it’s hard to give advice on what to Further
/r/seduction09/06/19 11:19 PM
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The push pull is important because you can give a compliment to a girl without giving your power away. It’s basically challenging the girl so she knows that maybe she can’t have you and you keep a high value frame. You need to practice on your own. Basically go threw a series of random images and practice saying something negative then positive and Vic versu. Or even neutral then positive and Vic versu. For example “damm girl that purse is huge, but your rockin it. Keep up the good work”. Not th…
/r/seduction09/06/19 11:14 PM
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Wow this is a interesting one. All I know is put her on ice for like two weeks before requesting to hang out again. Seems like you where doing everything right in terms of holding frame and being masculine. So that is weird honestly Here are my four proposed reasons on why this may have happened. You broke masculine frame somewhere during the date: women are very good at detecting lack of emotional stability, beta behaviors, etc. so maybe you did something that may have shown you weren’t the alp…
/r/seduction09/06/19 11:04 PM
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Not like stalking you but, you just notice that as you move from each workout station you notice she is in your proximity a lot. Also girls may just come to you randomly and ask you a question. Girls are subtle but if you know the signs you’ll throw them like flies
/r/seduction09/06/19 08:38 PM
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You let a hoe emotionally imprint you. Sad bro. Just know all women are capable of this and you shouldn’t listen to society that say be a nice guy and all will work out. To be honest she knows she played you and you should just move on or try and hit her up to fuck again. Don’t invite her for a date, invite her to your house, have sex with her and tell her to leave.
/r/seduction09/06/19 05:06 PM
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First recognize what an IOI is and isn’t. If she is staring at you for long periods of time and even when you look down and look back up she sis still staring she’s interested. If she’s following you from station to station, like every time you loook up she’s there, she’s interested. If she comes to ask you some irrelevant question just to randomly speak to you, she’s interested. These are best sign to approach. When you approach just be direct. Say “my name is __ I would like to hang out some t…
/r/seduction09/06/19 04:42 PM
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Less risk
/r/seduction09/06/19 01:38 PM
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You need to close the books on her and move on. Unfortunately she sees you a certain way now which is fine, her perception fo you can still change when you change and become the man you want to be. But enough about her, what about you? What are your goals? What do you want to be? Those questions should be asked first, women are an extra. When you focus on the woman, your needy and she will beabke to tell.
/r/seduction08/06/19 09:10 PM
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Theirs a bad and good friendzone. Theirs a friend zone that says “I’m no sexual threat and I’m too scared to show my true intentions for you so let’s just be friends so I have the satisfaction of being around you”. In other words orbiter. And theirs the good friend zone: “even though we aren’t having sex their is always the potential we may have sex but we can be friends for the time being. I’ll always playfully flirt with you, not take you seriously and just be a polite asshole around you”. Thi…
/r/seduction08/06/19 06:34 PM
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What you mean?
/r/seduction08/06/19 05:01 PM
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Yeah if you want to get friend zoned you should totally try and be her therapist so she can call when ever her boyfriend cheats on her and she needs an emotional tampon such as yourself. But if you want the alternative, then tell her “how can I make it better 😉 “ or something like that. Alphas don’t take girls seriously ever unless it actually is serious. Got it
/r/seduction08/06/19 03:59 PM
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Abundance, abundance, abundance
/r/seduction08/06/19 03:56 PM
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Well I’m kinda in the same boat except I’m a little less social as you are. But I think girls still find me relatively attractive. Similar to you it’s always been a girl choosing me with me having no idea what creates attraction in a girl. But in order to get good you need to be in control. Which means you need to unlearn everything you think you know about dating that you’ve learned from society, your parents, your drunk friends, and do your own research. this is your journey and your path to f…
/r/seduction08/06/19 02:38 PM
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Sure. Maybe she’s not the type of girl you really want. Because if a girl was a 10 I would want to have sec with their all the time. And I mean my personal 10
/r/seduction08/06/19 02:31 AM
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The best way to learn game is to go out alone. It build resourcefulness independence and character. Their are benefits to wings but their is nothing better than being able to be comfortable going out without an excuse of a wing. With that said if you approach a group correctly you look even more high value and no one will care that your alone. Also if the girl has friends learn how to talk to groups of girls.
/r/seduction07/06/19 10:28 PM
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Listen even if you believe toubwhwre in love she won’t be attracted you if you come from a place of need. If you think you need her it’s over
/r/seduction07/06/19 09:56 PM
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No. Girls want a nice gut for long term relationships because they know they can manipulate him and have the upper hand in the relationship. They know you won’t cheat on her because she’ll get older and be less desirable as she ages. Also your easily manipulated and she’ll only have sex with you so you won’t leave her not necessarily cause she wants to have sex with you. She’ll likely cheat on you with the bad boy long term if you remain a nice guy.
/r/seduction07/06/19 08:48 PM
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Are you happy with the women in your life? Do you feel like your goals in game have helped you reach the type of girls you really want? If so what is your obsession with getting more girls? Having abundance shouldn’t lower your motivation it just makes you less needy around other girls because you know you can get laid anytime you want. But you probably aren’t getting the girls you want. You’ve hit a plateua with the women in your life
/r/seduction07/06/19 08:44 PM
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I would say cut back on too many questions from the start of the interaction. But tbh you don’t need tight game in college, you just need clout and your good. Then again if you don’t go to this school that’s tuff. Too many questions, maybe throw in a tease. Or playful push pull to challenger the girl and get her attracted.
/r/seduction07/06/19 08:39 PM
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Being in love is irrational because this girl doesn’t give a fuck about you. It’s pathetic really. You’ve invested all your time and attention into a woman who is incapable of loving you the same way you could love her. Meanwhile she’s dating guys she wants to date and your pandering to her like a dog giving her free validation and attention. Maybe she doesn’t even know about you who knows. The point is, the best way to get over her is to get over her. Learn to talk to other women, other people,…
/r/seduction07/06/19 08:22 PM
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Well your problem is better than not having girls at all which is a positive. But try and talk to each girl as if they where a friend and see if you have a connection beyond sex to see which girl you would invest the most time in
/r/seduction07/06/19 08:18 PM
3

Day game. Learning how to pick up girls from the street is difficult but worth while once you’ve got the skill down. When learn day game you could have a new fb very week if you wanted.
/r/seduction07/06/19 08:16 PM
1

If she texts back right away that’s an indicator she’s interested in you( most of the time) if she sends you emojis and smiley faces often, she is probably interested. If she double texts she’s probably interested.
/r/seduction07/06/19 01:51 AM
2

So you think watching porn 3/4 times a day has nothing to do with it? Because lest be honest a 19 year old kid who isn’t drink alcohol can’t keep an erection and you think porn has nothing to do with it?
/r/seduction07/06/19 01:17 AM
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It is the porn.
/r/seduction07/06/19 01:14 AM
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You can be average looking and still do well on tinder you just have to take good pics. https://drive.google.com/file/d/1QCKE12pxGK113BaEp_-xlIXDGHnjgYOO/view
/r/seduction07/06/19 01:11 AM
1

So your good at making friends with girls?
/r/seduction07/06/19 01:10 AM
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You can make boring things sound interesting because not everything is interesting to everyone. Even though soccer is the most popular sport in the world most girls couldn’t sit through an entire match. But if you find it interesting she’ll buy into it.
/r/seduction07/06/19 01:10 AM
1

A comedian doesn’t go on stage and fully improvise. Sometimes they have jokes that they have told in the past that work.
/r/seduction06/06/19 03:23 AM
1

Already seems like they are down if they are coming together. Test the waters by a wine night with all three of you. Escalate I the girl you’ve already hooked up with because you have the most compliance with her. Then see how the other one reacts. Heck you could even get Jenny to help initiate the threesome.
/r/seduction06/06/19 02:28 AM
1

Yeah. You see the other side of women that you weren’t exposed to before .girls cheat a lot often than we think
/r/seduction06/06/19 02:25 AM
1

Check out rsd Madison. He works specially with guys who are in their career field and don’t have the most time in the world to game
/r/seduction06/06/19 02:20 AM
1

NYC, la, Miami,
/r/seduction06/06/19 02:09 AM
2

You could think about the specific partner or partners you want. What do you like about a girl besides her looks and what type of girl do you want. Athlete, educated, etc
/r/seduction06/06/19 02:00 AM
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You need to reinvent who you are in your mind. I really suggest you start to figure out it only what you want but how your gonna get it. That’s how you get confidence. My suggestions for community college. It’s more close knit sonrepuataion is important. Make sure with every encounter people leave with a positive impression of you. So just say hi and bye to every girl hot or not. No need to cold approach, let the setting work for you not against you. Be cool with every relatively cool guy as wel…
/r/seduction04/06/19 11:22 AM
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Careful throwing that word around to people you don’t even know. Your advice is very main stream and shows how out of touch with reality you are. Did you get that advice from a gq magazine or something.
/r/seduction04/06/19 05:27 AM
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Swag, assertiveness, assuredness, and risk taker
/r/seduction03/06/19 12:33 AM
2

What is cheap to you?
/r/seduction03/06/19 12:32 AM
0

There are several.. stephonclinkscales. MJ get right. Other pua if you want to invest in a program
/r/seduction02/06/19 12:53 AM
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Also getting mentors who are where you want to be would help
/r/seduction01/06/19 10:59 PM
1

That’s an oxymoron. How can you be creepy and confident at the same time. Makes no sense
/r/seduction01/06/19 03:53 PM
1

The secrets of inner game by satori pua
/r/seduction31/05/19 06:32 PM
1

Did you guys hook up already?
/r/seduction31/05/19 06:31 PM
1

Smoothe bro
/r/seduction31/05/19 06:30 PM
1

In game their is no never or always, there is just context and calibration. Some girls would find it sexy and respond positively to it. Also if its truly congruent to you it may work more times then not. But if its something you dont do often it can come off as weird just like any other thing in game. Personally i like that move because ive seen it executed in movies and its kinda smoothe
/r/seduction31/05/19 02:22 AM
1

You cant loose skill. That’s like forgetting how to breathe
/r/seduction31/05/19 02:04 AM
1

If you care what people think of you you are a woman not a man. Women should care what people think not men, you do what the fuck you want cause at the end of the day the people opinion you care so much about aren’t gonna get you laid. You are a a healthy male looking for a beautiful woman, it’s normal to pick up women.
/r/seduction31/05/19 02:00 AM
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Women are picky by nature because they are hypergamous. Tinder has only inflated this aspect of their nature because they don’t have tow aste time with average guys anymore. So you have to up your game to be successful on dating apps. Especially tinder.
/r/seduction31/05/19 01:55 AM
0

You need to ask a pick up artist
/r/seduction31/05/19 12:23 AM
2

Take a yoga class. You’ll be more flexible and the man to woman ratio is in your favor. Or take a public speaking class. Or take a dance class where you can meet women and improve at the same time 😼
/r/seduction30/05/19 01:08 AM
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Yes
/r/seduction29/05/19 07:56 PM
1

My mantra. All women are sluts, until proven otherwise
/r/seduction29/05/19 07:54 PM
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They say if you look at someone longer than three seconds in the eye it means you wanna fuck it or kill it. And let’s just say she doesn’t want to kill you.
/r/seduction29/05/19 07:52 PM
1

Actually the exact opposite. Think to yourself what someone who is already confident would think to himself. He would have no problem going out along because he believes his game comes from within and it’s the best way to get better faster. Are wings bad? No. But you don’t need them to get good social proof and good game. They could actually hinder you in some cases
/r/seduction28/05/19 07:48 PM
1

You can go on a date with this girl but try get other women in your so your less needy and if you want to date this girl you can from a position of abundance
/r/seduction28/05/19 07:46 PM
1

I think you would have a better idea of how to gauge the situation given that you’ve been friends with this girl for over six years, instead of some random guys on Reddit.
/r/seduction28/05/19 12:41 PM
1

Should work
/r/seduction28/05/19 12:31 PM
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Not at all. You can be introverted and still cold approach but it requires some manipulation of social situations to appear high value, like indirect game, false time constraints etc.
/r/seduction28/05/19 12:17 PM
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She’s your neighbor so your Gonna see her a lot over the next few months. No need to do some awkward cold approach and freak her out if you can just try and engage in normal conversation. But also be clear about what you want. I noticed you said, “ I want to get to know her”. If that’s your intention then fine but most guys really want to either date or have sex with girls they find sexually attractive. So say that to yourself. Guys who are good with woman and in life know what they want and go …
/r/seduction28/05/19 12:15 PM
1

If it’s now a giants your morals you’d be found the boyfriend a favor actually. Men need to realize that women will cheat just as often as men and never tell their spouse if their life depended on it
/r/seduction28/05/19 11:45 AM
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Don’t tell women you have a well paying job. Or at least don’t lead with that in your interactions
/r/seduction28/05/19 11:42 AM
1

Depends what you want, which this guy hasn’t defined really well. Do you want to sleep with beautiful women or just make friends? All depends on his goal. Theirs need to be an end goal
/r/seduction28/05/19 05:27 AM
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Wish i could tell you exactly what to say, when and how to escalate, and how to advance after the date. But let me just ask what is it do you want. To be casual, meet several different girls. Because if you have random goals you will get random results
/r/seduction28/05/19 05:24 AM
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If you want to secure a beautiful sophisticated woman you will probably not meet her at a bar you will meet during the day when the sun is shining on the streets. So you need to learn how to engage women during the day, in cafes, streets. Etc to get what you want.
/r/seduction28/05/19 05:22 AM
1

Have you had any sexual interactions with this girl or are you friend zoned?
/r/seduction28/05/19 05:19 AM
1

The better word is competitive. Women will only sleep with the top percent guy due to their hypergamous nature. But tight good game you can socially manipulate the situation to appear high value and get her chasing your validation.
/r/seduction28/05/19 05:18 AM
1

Cold approach pick up
/r/seduction28/05/19 05:12 AM
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This is a joke right? You’re telling me the girl that you’re supposed to be in a relationship with struggles to communicate with you on a daily basis. Dude wake up there’s another guy in the picture and I hate to be the guy that points this out but this needs to be addressed.
/r/seduction28/05/19 05:12 AM
1

She probably fucked another guy
/r/seduction28/05/19 05:08 AM
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Because it gives you positive reinforcement, experience, and is more pleasurable than jerking off. If she’s below a 6 then no though
/r/seduction28/05/19 05:07 AM
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I think that’s bulkshit. Women will sleeps tho anything with the right jngredience
/r/seduction28/05/19 05:06 AM
1

Lie videos of him picking up girls
/r/seduction28/05/19 03:49 AM
2

You need coaching bro. Invest in puas you trust and don’t waste time trying to reinvent the wheel. Still think for yourself but mentors cut your learning curve by a lot
/r/seduction28/05/19 03:48 AM
1

Does he have infield?
/r/seduction28/05/19 02:40 AM
1

Go out! Lol go find out for yourself. Experience is the best teacher
/r/seduction27/05/19 05:30 PM
1

No I don’t think so. The majority of men are blue pilled and only like 15% of men are actually getting results. And the bar is low for success given how beta most men are. Also, trust me there are tons of single attractive women. They won’t run out
/r/seduction27/05/19 03:59 AM
3

I think if a girl likes you you’ll catch her staring quite a bit. It’s happened to me
/r/seduction27/05/19 03:46 AM
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The last thing a girl wants to do is look thirsty, because the repercussions for them are worse then they are for males. They usually play it cool and it’s very subtle when they give IOIs. Nevertheless girls check out guys all the time. For physical fitness and grooming and how they carry themselves
/r/seduction27/05/19 03:43 AM
2

Most men are doomed dating wise because we have sold our manhood to please women. Women have the upper and with all these dating apps and can exercise their hypergamy like a kid in candy shop.
/r/seduction26/05/19 06:56 PM
2

Ted Gundy isn’t that handsome objectively speaking. He’s honestly like a little above average looking. He was just very charming.
/r/seduction26/05/19 02:19 AM
1

What you wanna do is Waite a little longer than usual to escalate. If she’s not chasing your validation somethings wrong
/r/seduction26/05/19 02:18 AM
1

All seduction is communicating your desire to sleep with a woman. That’s literally it. What some fail tot see is that this is an art. It wasn’t nt taught to most guys when they where in the 5th grade. Main stream Society definitely didn’t teach it, most people parents didn’t teach it, and if anything most of the advice we received in our life sent us in the wrong direction. Don’t worry, often times if you want a different result you have to do something that most people aren’t doing. Most people…
/r/seduction26/05/19 01:24 AM
1

Because when there is sexual tension involved you become needy and he girls can sense that off you. You should approach the girl as if she is a regular person and reframe the approach in your mind to be a potential good match. Don’t give the give the approach so much pressure just because she looks good. You must reframe it in your mind. You are a healthy male going to talk to a woman. It’s natural to do so. That’s where you should draw your confidence from. When you make it something more than …
/r/seduction25/05/19 02:38 PM
1

Good question, I often wondered the thing in the past and I was able to come to a pretty good answer though mentors and stuff: The beautiful thing about game is that it forces you to become a better version of yourself in all areas. Health, wealth, intelligence and status, etc. nevertheless, when interacting with a woman, she is only perceiving you through first impression especially if your doing cold approach. So, even if you are not the 10/10 version of yourself yet, what you present in the f…
/r/seduction24/05/19 12:52 AM
1

There you go. It’s not your voice, that’s just a symptom. You need to first look at the underlying issues. Return to the principles of game.
/r/seduction23/05/19 02:09 AM
0

Low energy works better
/r/seduction22/05/19 11:53 PM
2

He’s probably just tired from coaching and gaming. Looks like you didn’t exercise a lot of empathy when posting this comment
/r/seduction22/05/19 10:44 PM
0

Sorry for late reply. But you problem is your thinking with your “feelings” not rationally. If you just tale a step back and looked at science you would see what I’m saying is factual not jut my made up opinion. But you can believe that his girl isn’t thinking about other guys but you’d just be wrong sadly. Women have biological drive just like men. They are constantly looking for the highest quality male and the use the beta males for there resources. That’s why she’s is still with him because …
/r/seduction22/05/19 10:31 PM
1

I grew up playing soccer at a division 1 level and and it’s taught me so much about life that I wouldn’t otherwise have learned if it wasn’t for it. The importance of a healthy body and mind translate into performance and its so easy to translate that same mentality into other areas of life. I would recommend guys to be a part of something that some what forces them to do this. To be a risk taker and competitive.
/r/seduction22/05/19 10:26 PM
2

Well are you getting results, because your voice may not necessarily be your real limiting behavior
/r/seduction22/05/19 10:11 PM
2

I would like to add and say that their may be a period in your life where their will be imbalance. Just like any skill, it requires time energy and focus to learn it and it wont happen over night. So being solely dedicated to learn game for a period of time and “letting it consume you” isn’t necessarily a bad thing if you want to get to a descent level. Their is no other alternative to cold approach pick up that ive seen that offers a young man the ability to meet and actually make connection wi…
/r/seduction21/05/19 10:31 PM
3

You very seductive and masculine but at the same time they where comfortable around you. Good shit, keep it up. Great inspiration for us minorities lol
/r/seduction21/05/19 10:14 PM
2

Talk about things you are passionate about (In a socially calibrated way)
/r/seduction21/05/19 10:09 PM
0

Your doing the husbands a favor, which is the most politically incorrect way of putting it . But its a truthful statement . these men don’t realize they are being leached off of for their non sexual attention and resources while the wife will Fuck the alpha. That shit is so evil. so if anything it should a wake up a call for for the BF and husbands to stop being blue pill, believing women are these virtuous beings
/r/seduction20/05/19 03:03 AM
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Don’t shit where you eat. If your not used to seducing random girls on the street you don’t want to risk awkwardly trying to flirt with someone you will se everyday un less your confident you will get yet date. And if you where confident you probubly would have don’t it already
/r/seduction17/05/19 01:50 PM
1

You cant adjust truth to accommodate the masses. Then it no longer becomes true. He wants to do more self help for his own profit margins, but I don’t knock him for that
/r/seduction17/05/19 12:54 AM
1

You cant adjust truth to accommodate the masses. Then it no longer becomes true. He wants to do more self help for his own profit margins, but I don’t knock him for that
/r/seduction17/05/19 12:54 AM
1

Because game can be interpreted, especially by popular society, as manipulative and creepy.
/r/seduction16/05/19 07:47 PM
1

Yes i am cynical but is cynicism always wrong? Women are hypergamous, at least when it comes to who they would have sex with. Why do you think dan Bilzarian is surrounded by attractive women all the time. It’s not because he sits down and has a conversation with all the girls. It’s because he’s attractive as hell and women love him.not saying he has sex with all of them (prob most of them) but you get my point. She’s biologically built to do that, hard wired, engrained in her fibers.
/r/seduction16/05/19 01:00 AM
1

Their is a short term strategy and a long term strategy. Short term is to text at the same intervals that she does when you first meet her. If she takes an hour to text back you also Waite an hour. Also nothin beat one on one interaction so learn cold approach. You may need to spend some money to get good fast but it will cut years off your learning curve. qLong term is to actually develop your personality. Do things that will make you a leader and a risk taker. That’s what girls like
/r/seduction16/05/19 12:55 AM
1

I don,t deny their could be factors outside the relationship that could be causing this to happen. But still if a girl is into you she will want to have sex with you. It may be unrealistic from your perspective but I’ve been cheated on in a similar scenario. All women are the same. You can do all the right things but she will always still want to have sex with the alpha. Can you at least agree with that statement.
/r/seduction16/05/19 12:47 AM
1

Sorry let me straighten things out a little for clarity. I was mainly talking about OP’s relationship, not yours to be fair. Secondly my point still stands that if his girlfriend is no longer sexually aroused by him it’s because she is loosing sexual attraction for him and is using him for his time and resources. And that’s factual. Why else would she still be with him.please tell me I would like to know since you have more experience in relationships than I do. Also please don’t lump all PUAs i…
/r/seduction16/05/19 12:35 AM
0

I think we are agreeing. Its his fault and she is doing what’s within her nature. She is obviously loosing attraction toward him because he is needy and chasing her.
/r/seduction15/05/19 10:51 PM
0

Not necessarily blaming her , its in her nature to look for another guy if the one she haas isn’t attractive to her anymore. Yes he may be too needy and chasing her which women find as a turn off
/r/seduction15/05/19 10:47 PM
1

Watch for the choosing signals ( invitations to approach her) is she looking at you constantly, is she close to you a lot. Trust me girls are very observant,so their is good chance she’s seen you already. so if she wants you, she’ll give you invitations to come talk to her. If not, keep working on yourself, improve yourself and good things will happen.
/r/seduction15/05/19 10:23 PM
4

A wise man once told me that “looks gets your foot in the door but charisma makes her pussy wet”
/r/seduction15/05/19 10:20 PM
1

sorry sir, I would have to disagree with you on many levels because this guys scenario raises so many red flags,especially if he is on the younger side. His girlfriend is displaying a lot of classic behaviors that men face today that prove how we as men get dooped all the time. So your telling me after a 100 times of asking your “girlfriend” 100 times to be intimate she says no. I don’t know about you but it sounds like a miserable relationship. But we have to ask our selves why? Why is the woma…
/r/seduction15/05/19 10:12 PM
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My personal Theory is that women are as just as horny as men if not more. So its not like she lost sexual desire. So if her desire is still their maybe it’s not a question why but whom. In other words, I guess she has an appetite for another guy. and I hate to be the guy that proposes such a thing but if I don’t, nobody will. Just consider it.
/r/seduction15/05/19 10:01 PM
3

Don’t lol. https://youtu.be/JzVxzE8OBPw
/r/seduction13/05/19 11:41 PM
1

Yeah but in practice that means go out and start taking to other girls lol. Your already falling into scarcity. That’s your first mistake
/r/seduction13/05/19 06:14 AM
1

So your telling me with all that, your still struggling with neediness when you can literally Dina’s another woman in demand.
/r/seduction13/05/19 06:11 AM
1

Well first of all that’s the Beauty of cold approach, you can meet a random girl on the street, completely mess it up and she will forget about it the next day. Don’t think your so important bro, she has probably moved on with her life by now. It’s pick up isn’t a part of your life it’s just something you tried once and it didn’t go too well. Develop the skill set and you’ll be able to meet girls and consistently attract them.
/r/seduction13/05/19 05:45 AM
1

Flirting has more to do with your attitude than it has to do necessarily with what you say. Be playful and willing to say non serious things.
/r/seduction13/05/19 05:27 AM
1

Needy is who you where conditioned to be by society and it goes against your masculine nature which is to be alpha. Truth is you haven’t discovered who you are because that takes experiencing different thing in life. And if you’ve been “doing game” for years and are in the same spot your doing something wrong and you need to ask help from a pua or mentor your respect
/r/seduction13/05/19 05:24 AM
1

What’s your looking to do is to be more “social”. You have the ability to pull off one night stands but if you want a functioning social life you should start by joining clubs you have interest in and just putting yourself in groups so you have shared interests. That way you’ll start making friends with girls and will be able to convert them into leads later if you want. To be honest its better to master hooking up with girls first like you did rather than being the kind of guy who’s good at bef…
/r/seduction13/05/19 03:44 AM
1

Search. Todd v. How to meet girls in college
/r/seduction12/05/19 07:44 PM
1

Depends how much they want to fuck you. They sometimes break girl code
/r/seduction12/05/19 12:23 AM
4

Library, cafe, college campus’s, popular parks, the streets, malls.
/r/seduction11/05/19 08:10 AM
1

https://youtu.be/5IZcavogneM This video by rsd Tyler might change your life
/r/seduction03/05/19 07:57 PM
2

To be fair it is hard to be UGLY. Like unless you have some physical deformity you can at least improve your looks by 2 points by hitting the gym, eating well and taking care of your skin and teeth. And those are just basic
/r/seduction02/05/19 12:07 AM
23

Honesty I’m tired of seeing posts like this. There are average looking guys who still get good results. You don’t have to be a pretty boy to get girls.
/r/seduction01/05/19 12:24 PM
25

A wise man once told me “looks gets your foot in the door but charisma makes her pussy wet.” Please respond to this comment.
/r/seduction29/04/19 05:35 PM
1

Well it comes down to what do you want and how are you Hannah get it. Your giving this girl so much power over you especially if you plan on seeing other girls.
/r/seduction29/04/19 05:16 PM
1

Well you probably are not aware of what is attractive and what isn’t. But since their in your social circle. In this environment girls respond more positively to social proof. So if your the leader in the room they’ll gravitate to you. This means confident, assertive, and dominant.
/r/seduction28/04/19 07:05 PM
1

...but there is no breakdown
/r/seduction28/04/19 07:00 PM
2

Seems like there’s potential theirs. She seems likes bubbly flirtatious type that is quite attractive to most guys. Chances are she’s talking to other guys as well as you. You need to leverage yourself and not only become more attractive but get a little options for yourself to level the playing field. That way you’ll read less into situations like this and you’ll be naturally less needy when you talk to her. If your serious and have time I highly recommend you take some time out to start practi…
/r/seduction28/04/19 04:23 PM
1

Yes. Some girls are a little more flirtatious than others. Can be hard to gauge if your flirting is kinda week.
/r/seduction28/04/19 02:12 PM
2

Persistent eye contact ( when you look away she is still looking at you seconds later). If your at a social event she is usually in your proximity. She laughs at the shit you say when even you know it wasn’t that funny. Their are obviously more and exceptions but these are the most common
/r/seduction23/04/19 07:55 PM
1

How old are you?
/r/seduction23/04/19 07:49 PM
1

Be very specific about the type of girl you like and Taylor the club you go to based on that. So basically don’t just go to the stereo typical high end night club because the “hot girls” are their if you like conversation at a quieter bar. But also be flexible. Also if your game is average avoid night clubs all together because they prey on the males for money to buy bottles. And only the higher status guys get the hottest girls.
/r/seduction23/04/19 07:02 PM
5

For someone who had made his first approach you should put yourself in the back. Just mustering yo the balls to approach is a accomplishment in itself. Your still a beginner bro. Judge totaled as one
/r/seduction19/04/19 02:46 PM
1

Are you interested in any of the girls that currently go to your school or just this one. You wanna make sure you can choose which girl you’d prefer most instead of trying to go for this one girl.
/r/seduction15/04/19 04:27 PM
1

Are you sexually attracted to them?
/r/seduction15/04/19 04:17 PM
1

Interesting. Then you need to invest in like a coach that will help you get on your feet. But really, you can get a job if you really tried. The unemployment rate is very low in our country. Idk sweep floors, be a bus boy, Uber driver, anything.
/r/seduction15/04/19 04:16 PM
0

I’m from America, where are you from? This is also a fantasy of mine. I can say I’ve come close because maybe lack fo access etc. nevertheless I have a friend who did. He’s around 23 and the lady he slept with he’s aid was at least 36.
/r/seduction14/04/19 08:54 PM
5

This is a question of personality not status.
/r/seduction14/04/19 08:45 PM
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Your here for a reason. You want to get better with women, and improve your social skills, but by whatever circumstances of Your life you’ve caught a bad break and are not in the most advantageous spot financially. You need to prioritize. Your still 26 so that’s good so I would say try and get a job and work on getting your social and seduction skills up. The good thing about pua is that it will help you in all fascists of life not just women. Women are a medium really. Also you can make some mo…
/r/seduction14/04/19 04:33 PM
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It’s an analogy. Just like candy , a little bit of arrogance is good. You know like, being a little cocky and even being a little bit of an asshole here and their is good. But it’s not sustainable nor is it necessary. She will soon find out, around 2 min in the conversation whether you have real confidence (substance just like vegetables and such) after shit testing you.
/r/seduction14/04/19 03:49 PM
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https://youtu.be/bRx24sANgGU
/r/seduction14/04/19 01:59 AM
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A little bit of arrogance is healthy but too much will give her cavities.
/r/seduction14/04/19 01:35 AM
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Or the exact opposite.
/r/seduction14/04/19 12:37 AM
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Where u from?
/r/seduction13/04/19 11:13 PM
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Your wrong. You can a give a girl sexual opener.
/r/seduction13/04/19 04:44 PM
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Sure it’s actually fun if you just want to have a good time with the boys and you are not necessarily focused on learning game in that particular night. But this is not a viable process if you want to actually get better at game. Because 1) you wont remember your sets the next day 2) you cant drink when you see a cute girl at the bus stop or at a coffee shop etc. 3) its shit for your health (if you care about that type of stuff).
/r/seduction13/04/19 04:42 PM
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If you are going to college also make the times your are on campus fruitful. Try and make connections while you are on campus if possible, that way you have options leading into the night. Also try and get to know the bouncer or the bartender at one of the bars. All these social connections you make will be useful, especially on a college campus.
/r/seduction13/04/19 04:38 PM
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Hmmm. If you want to be someone that you aspire to be in the future the fastest way to get their is to connect with people who are already their. This is where coaching comes into play which I think no one talks about enough. Cuddos to going out alone but you seriously need to consider getting some coaching from an expert Pua, someone you look up to. This will be a n investment but it will be worth it in. The future . Trust me. Some guys spend years without even kissing a girl on the cheek becau…
/r/seduction13/04/19 04:31 PM
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Lol also on the same boat.
/r/seduction13/04/19 04:25 PM
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https://youtu.be/8oAE_r40KNo
/r/seduction13/04/19 04:24 AM
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I recommend you speak with a pro pua. Someone who has the skill in picking up women and pinpoint exactly what your sticking points are.
/r/seduction10/04/19 11:39 PM
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Anytime any place. Well at least not in front of my mom.
/r/seduction10/04/19 11:38 PM
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You can choose think of all the reason you suck at game and dwell on It or you can choose to think of the positive and therefore improve your mindset. One rejection does not determine your success with women in your life. Your giving all your power away to one person who doesn’t even know you.
/r/seduction10/04/19 11:37 PM
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Lol telling yourself not to overthink only makes you overthink
/r/seduction10/04/19 11:07 PM
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What do you mean by moved on? Did she actually reject you or did you just give up?
/r/seduction10/04/19 10:38 PM
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Nothing will improve your character like going out alone to pick-up women in the streets. Solo game will make you self-reliant, independent and mentally strong. After you get used to going out alone you will give off the vide of beast. I walk like a lion because I have the tools to survive by my own, I have claws and teeth. People will gravitate toward you when they feel that you are strong and powerful. Solo game won't only make you more attractive to the opposite sex, it will also make you a s…
/r/seduction08/04/19 07:50 PM
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I’m gonna invest in coaching this summer
/r/seduction08/04/19 03:37 AM
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I know what you mean. It’s like knowing about seduction makes you feel weird because it’s like a new world has been opened up to you and now you feel like you need to do something about the new information you have. But just like al theory it needs to be proven or disproven by real world references. Otherwise it’s just some nebulous concept out their and isn’t relevant to your life.
/r/seduction08/04/19 03:34 AM
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College game: https://youtu.be/oPG4jVG8H1E Approach anxiety: https://www.toddvdating.com/3-instant-mind-tricks-i-use-to-destroy-approach-anxiety-in-seconds/ ...the first video is more important
/r/seduction27/03/19 01:01 AM
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Your attitude is won’t get you laid not your height. I know guys who are shorter than you who crush it with women.
/r/seduction24/03/19 03:27 PM
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Snap chat for the girls. The. If it gets more serious Instagram
/r/seduction24/03/19 03:24 PM
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Yeah just use it to look at guys you think have good style and compliment yourself. That’s all I would use it for. Also do your own research as it regards to health. Don’t just blindly follow those magazines
/r/seduction24/03/19 02:38 PM
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If you’r in a small town the last thing you want to do is develop a bad reputation. Theirs is no need to do a hard open on a girl you are goin to see the next few days anyway. Better to go in indirect. Soft play it and display general attractive qualities that way. And your right it is weird because it displays your lack of experience with women because you feel like you need to be super aggressive from the onset in order to get her.
/r/seduction24/03/19 01:16 AM
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It has been field tested. Hence the video.
/r/seduction24/03/19 01:11 AM
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Have to say I 100% agree. Wonder why I didn’t post something like this earlier. Guys misuse pick up to get one girl. If that’s your goal you miss the whole point of learning seduction.
/r/seduction23/03/19 04:45 AM
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Day game is almost a lost art but is the best form of game because it’s just you and the girl.
/r/seduction21/03/19 10:30 PM
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Watched it and it’s spot on
/r/seduction21/03/19 05:20 PM
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Killing your fear of being sexual with girls https://youtu.be/V2NliJF5sp4
/r/seduction21/03/19 03:58 PM
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If your not already good with women you need to mainly focus on handling that part of your life. Not saying drop out of school or quit your job I’m saying you need to set your priorities.
/r/seduction20/03/19 11:53 PM
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Yeah... good luck with that.
/r/seduction20/03/19 10:32 PM
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You’ve never cold approached?
/r/seduction20/03/19 04:32 AM
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If you don’t intentionally practice cold approach you limit your options a shit ton. Then again it isn’t for everyone. Some people flourish more in social groups or online. But definitely i think every guy should be able to walk up to a girl randomly and not shit their pants.
/r/seduction20/03/19 02:23 AM
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With every escalation their is risk and knowing what to do. You need to be willing to make the next risk, which is creating some form of sexual tension. In other words, she needs to know you have a penis. If your terrified of escalating practice going direct, into the conversation. This will help you to avoid going all platonic all the time. Then when your more comfortable with that you can start throwing statements of intent more subtlety through out the conversation. Hope this helps.
/r/seduction20/03/19 12:35 AM
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How to approach groups by Todd v. A lot of value in this video. https://youtu.be/TRCueMMtUyg
/r/seduction20/03/19 12:01 AM
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Yeah should be more careful. Some people can’t be trusted.
/r/seduction19/03/19 02:44 PM
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i would ask as a joke just to show idgaf. Because you shouldn’t.
/r/seduction18/03/19 07:06 PM
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Agreed. You can maybe tease and not be boring, but don’t overtly flirt with her at first. Social fist sexual last. Especially if you knows your going to see her again.
/r/seduction18/03/19 07:05 PM
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Treat it as an exercise . The point is to get you talking to girls. Say something and then walk away. “Blah”. Then you can advance to saying hi, and then to maybe asking for directions, then to a compliment. Work progressively its each exercise challenging you to be more closer to actually opening. If you can’t utter a sound make eye contact and smile then walk away. If you cant do that just make eye contact then walk way. Start where you feel comfortable then work your way up . Also you can app…
/r/seduction18/03/19 07:02 PM
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If your gonna see her every day don’t hard approach. Develop a good reputation around the work place first, being social with everyone, not just the one hot girl. Will require a little patience but in the end you want the work environment to work for you not against you.
/r/seduction18/03/19 06:48 PM
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Seems the deep routed issue is self confidence. You take things personal because your unsure of yourself and perceive people to be something they are not. It’s called projection. You project how you feel on the inside onto other people even though it could be in complete opposite of reality. You need to progressively desensitize yourself to social interactions, so eventually you are confident talking to everyone.
/r/seduction17/03/19 10:08 PM
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We all want what we can’t have
/r/seduction17/03/19 10:00 PM
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Get used to gaming without it. For both short term and long term reasons. If you need something outside yourself to game it’s a crutch
/r/seduction17/03/19 09:58 PM
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How to Build Unstoppable Self-Confidence with Women https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZNuP7_qz3Lo&feature=share
/r/seduction17/03/19 06:42 PM
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Here’s something practical you can do right now. Right down 10 reasons your the best choice for a girl . If you just try to brainwash yourself “I’m awesome, I’m awesome, I’m awesome” your brain will know you trying to bullshit it. But with the list you have concrete justification for why you would be a good choice.
/r/seduction17/03/19 06:40 PM
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You don’t need to lower your standards. You just need o accurately rate yourself. How can you be an eight or nine and struggle to get an 8-9. Doesn’t make sense to me
/r/seduction17/03/19 01:07 PM
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Another factor is whether or not the number was solid. A lot of time women flake when the interaction itself wasn’t that good.
/r/seduction17/03/19 10:14 AM
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The thing I grasped from my own experience is that good game will always prevail. I no longer judge by peoples opinion, I filter those opinions through proven game principles and most importantly my own experience.
/r/seduction17/03/19 12:44 AM
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Theirs a whit guy out their that probably looks less attractive than you that is crushing it with women. So this is just an excuse
/r/seduction16/03/19 10:16 PM
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Go out and try socializing a bit. Lower your standards initially for what you think is success and work your way up. Check out Todd v. I think he said he lost his virginity at 21. I lost mine at 20. Point is he started off terrible with girls and now he’s an international dating coach. So dont give up now. It’s way too early.
/r/seduction16/03/19 10:13 PM
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Agree with the previous comment. When she sees you with other girls you’ll be more attractive to her. But talk to other girls because you want to not because you necessarily think it will attract her.
/r/seduction16/03/19 09:48 PM
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Thanks you for correcting my grammatical error. I should have put parentheses
/r/seduction16/03/19 09:09 PM
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By no means is he saying this is a proper cold approach opener (although it could be depending on the context)it’s simply an exercise to get you to get over your fear of approaching. Then once you’ve gotten over the fear of simply walking up to a girl and saying something then you can advance to maybe asking for directions, then maybe a compliment.
/r/seduction16/03/19 08:07 PM
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Yo can still have the life with women that you want without accumulating massive amounts of wealth, a killer physique etc. you should become financially stable or become rich because you want to, not because you think girl will be more attracted to you. Because the truth is those things don’t actually attract women. Honest signals do. Now does this mean, the men you see at the restaurant with these women aren’t good with women? I don’t know and you don’t know. But what I do know is that any man …
/r/seduction16/03/19 03:42 AM
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Yeah maybe 28 is too big but I’m in college rn. And all girls use is Snapchat really
/r/seduction16/03/19 01:34 AM
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Well... that’s just the start. The exercises get progressively more difficult. The point of the exercise isn’t necessarily to flirt either. Its simply to impose yourself socially until you feel more comfortable with human connection
/r/seduction15/03/19 09:52 PM
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Another method of practicing eye contact (which in my opinion is more suitable for game) is to, while going about your day, try and make eye contact with people as they are walking by for at least half a second longer than what is comfortable. Half a second then look away. This way you are imposing yourself socially and desensitizing yourself to making eye contact with real people. What do you think?
/r/seduction15/03/19 08:47 PM
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Few thing in your post: 1) its true, people are attracted to people with abundance, because the opposite of abundance is neediness which is the most unattractive quality a person could have, especially toward a girl. Needy people reek of an agenda, or that they want something from you. Just imagine,your walking down the street and all of a sudden some homeless guy starts asking you innocuous questions about the weather. Without him even continuing you know he wants something from you. Same with …
/r/seduction15/03/19 08:41 PM
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The underlying implication that girls will see when you have a dog is that you can care for another living creature, which means you have some level of empathy and emotional intelligence. This is an attractive quality and just the pure fact of having a cute dog is cool. But does this mean if you have a dog all of a sudden girl s will be flocking to you? Idk, its a stretch
/r/seduction15/03/19 08:33 PM
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Let me rephrase. Even if you where to get this girl out on a dat , and we tell you what to say, you will be in an extremely bad position because you haven’t been talking to girls for months. Your game will suck
/r/seduction15/03/19 08:30 PM
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Well you can fight against the current or you can flow with it.
/r/seduction15/03/19 08:27 PM
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Well i think that’s the question you need to be asking yourself. Because girls can sense desperation from a mile away. This one girl isn’t gonna make you happy. You need to get out their and work on your game. Not saying you have to sleep with a bunch of girls. Just saying dont put all yoeggs in one basket. I’m sure your gonna meet thousands of more incredible girls over span of your life. So just consider that.
/r/seduction15/03/19 07:33 PM
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Within the last six months, have you been talking to other girls. Or just waiting for this one girl
/r/seduction15/03/19 07:06 PM
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Girls form ages of 17-28 prefer Snapchat in my personal opinion. It’s much less serious and you can send flirtier messages because of the playfulness that comes with the app. Also if you get the number, don’t treat it like a trophy. Just like every milestone in game, whether be a number, a kiss, or a conversation it’s a means to an end not an end in itself. The number is to get her in a date. And then to a girlfriend or sex.
/r/seduction15/03/19 07:02 PM
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Lol. It doesn’t have to be anything crazy. It could be something your working on right now. Like “I’m working on myself”, “I went to the gym today”. Etc etc. potential is just as valid.
/r/seduction14/03/19 08:01 PM
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Do you have boring conversations with your close friends or with people you want nothing from like family. If the answer is yes, the underlying reason is not boredom, it’s fear. You get to talk to hot girls and your bored. I think your trying to hide your fear with apathy
/r/seduction14/03/19 07:23 PM
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Add, overcoming mental health. You’ve even through an experience and overcome it. Noon can take that away from you
/r/seduction14/03/19 01:57 PM
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Yeah and go out too. Don’t work on your inner game for 10 years and still shit your pants on a cold approach
/r/seduction14/03/19 01:11 PM
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You have a penis. So you are 100% healthy enough to have sex. Your learning about pickup. So your not the average guy. Your well gin yourself so you obviously their is potential.
/r/seduction14/03/19 03:21 AM
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You have tow options. You can come out of an interaction and life thinking about all the reasons you suck at game or you could think of all the reasons why a girl would be lucky to be with you. If you continue to think of the former you are basically brainwashing yourself that you bad at game. Also big mistake comparing yourself to your friends. Big way to loose confidence in yourself. You are enough whether you know it are not. If you have a particular sticking point that you can identify alrea…
/r/seduction14/03/19 02:54 AM
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Classic case of what is known as “approach anxiety” here are some little short term and long term mind hacks to break pass this. First off you need to understand that approach anxiety technically isn’t real. Why? Because if I held a gun to your head and said go and approach that girl you would say “yessir”. So physically you can do it. Also what you consider to be fear is actually excitement. Because, The same chemicals in your body released in fear is the same when your excited. So our emotions…
/r/seduction14/03/19 01:07 AM
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Your not 100% sure their not interested in you. Can’t read minds. Your perception. Is probably misguided
/r/seduction13/03/19 11:38 PM
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Well if your turned off then stop talking to her. Seems like an easy fix.
/r/seduction13/03/19 11:16 PM
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Depends on you. What venues favor your style of game the most. If your more of a conversational guy you should do more lounge area bars. Write down everything you like about a girl and be very specific. Theirs will naturally help you wee out certain locations that don’t suite your style of game
/r/seduction13/03/19 11:14 PM
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Who says you can’t use canned lines.
/r/seduction13/03/19 11:12 PM
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If she looks at you and you make eye contact and then you look away and she still is looking at you that’s a good sign If she’s in your proximity for no apparent reason l. Especially if you change locations multiple times and she is still around you that’s another good sign. Nevertheless don’t expect her to approach you. Just doesn’t happen.
/r/seduction13/03/19 11:07 PM
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Yessir 👌🏾
/r/seduction13/03/19 10:27 PM
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Priorities. Priorities. Your situation seems to align with many guys. Which is the work game balance. ( how do I live life and do game at the same time?) The answer is you can and you can’t. You say your work life balance is going with steady income which is awesome but it’s a path that will always be their. My advice is, if you can, get your game to certain threshold where you are comfortably good enough with girls and you can leave game and come back later. And even while you in your career, s…
/r/seduction13/03/19 09:56 PM
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Yeah but don’t fully neglect night game. It actually helps with day game, even if you like day game better. Also I agree with the earlier comment. Their is know need cold approaching girls your going to see every day anyway. Even if the school is big. With parties, and social groups, and your already in a frat, your better off taking the long term approach and having girls come to your though positive social feedback.
/r/seduction13/03/19 09:48 PM
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Agreed. That’s where game comes in. Watch some of his interactions with women. He’s may know nothing about game but subconsciously he just knows how to flirt.
/r/seduction13/03/19 09:44 PM
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No need to make an awkward abrasive hard approach On someone you’re going to see every day anyway. so I would advise that you play it cool to make friends with all of them and that way they are all saying positive things about you. Now your the cool guy that everyone likes and it will organically just happen. Let the social circle work for you not against you. Making an awkward hard approach is like setting a video game on hard when you could play t on easy. Plus the other advantage to this appr…
/r/seduction13/03/19 09:12 PM
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Fame definitely helps. He’s not the ugliest guy in the world, he’s talented, and pretty charismatic. All together a pretty high value guy. Sure most women would find him attractive.
/r/seduction13/03/19 07:43 PM
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Depends on your game
/r/seduction13/03/19 07:19 AM
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Boone can help you if you don’t say why your ashamed. Otherwise your just making excuses
/r/seduction13/03/19 07:18 AM
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Yeah doesn’t matter exactly where you get your content( although I recommend Todd v) just make sure for every nugget of knowledge you get, apply it and reflect on it. Watch Todd vs how to game in college in YouTube. Great value for a freshman in college.
/r/seduction13/03/19 07:17 AM
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Going up to a girl and saying what you want to say because you think it’s funny or interesting conveys so much value and shows you don’t need her to generate your own party your own fun. On some level you can be normal and relatable but in the beginning of any interaction you want to convey value. Which means teases, push pulls, and general flirting. If your a beginner just be man to woman. It’s called sweetie game. “Hey your cute I wanted to meet you. I normally don’t do this but... you know I …
/r/seduction13/03/19 07:02 AM
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https://youtu.be/MY96_zmMQDM
/r/seduction13/03/19 06:58 AM
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How do you “loose game”. If you where good in the oat and consistently getting results. Give it a few days, it will come back to you. Or the other case may be that you never had game. Meaning you didn’t reach a level of game where you were better you just had spurious good night out.
/r/seduction13/03/19 06:57 AM
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It is creepy because you have an agenda. Use the campus to your advantage. Cultivate positive social feedback from all girls and relatively cool guys and have them come you.
/r/seduction13/03/19 06:53 AM
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Great advice. Also be yourself and but her flowers
/r/seduction13/03/19 06:52 AM
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Wrong.
/r/seduction13/03/19 06:50 AM
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Within every interaction the one who is more willing to walk away has more power. If she is intimidated by you, it means you are higher value than her, and she is not used to that per-say. Hence you have the power on the interaction. You could take it or leave it but you still show interest but not from a place of desperation
/r/seduction13/03/19 06:49 AM
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Don’t use pick up to try and get his one girl. Your in school, focus on becoming a cool guy over all and make friends with everyone and the girls will come to you. Then you can choose. That’s what you want. Not to be chasing this one girl.
/r/seduction13/03/19 06:47 AM
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You already have a shared interest. If you want girl friends then you can invite them out to talk more philosophy get involved in their clubs if they have any. Set up study sessions with them etc etc
/r/seduction13/03/19 06:46 AM
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If he’s never done an approach everything your saying can be a bit much. For him.
/r/seduction12/03/19 08:24 PM
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Learn how to engage with groups of girls. Seems to be a sticking point since you froze up at this moment.
/r/seduction12/03/19 08:23 PM
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I personally don’t think girls will not text you back if you don’t have an iPhone. But if it helps you approach then go for it.
/r/seduction12/03/19 04:30 AM
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Go on YouTube and search Todd v day game. Under ‘mikethesituation’ channel. I think this series will help with exactly what your talking about
/r/seduction12/03/19 03:42 AM
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Search ‘Todd v winner game’ online and sign up. It’s free.
/r/seduction12/03/19 03:38 AM
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Agreed. Theirs a lot of bullshit out their also. But I recommend Todd at the moment. I resonate with his content a lot. Also I thought pua was a little manipulative myself. But what’s even weirder than learning pickup is not learning pickup because you don’t really have a choice at the end of the day.
/r/seduction12/03/19 03:22 AM
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She go to your school?
/r/seduction12/03/19 01:49 AM
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Well i would say nice doesn’t necessarily= weak. But I see what your getting at. I don’t think girls necessarily dont date or are attracted to “nice guys”. It’s just when i using as a crutch/coping mechanism then it becomes a turn off. And am working on it. I only answer with clean yess and nos and I dint qualify myself anymore. Just a start to being more assertive.
/r/seduction12/03/19 01:48 AM
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Mentor could work. Have you tried a boot camp or a Todd’s online program?
/r/seduction11/03/19 11:55 PM
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Well learning how to do that be a good start in the right direction
/r/seduction11/03/19 10:55 PM
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Go watch Todd v’s video on college game. He explains it better than i do
/r/seduction11/03/19 09:26 PM
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Appreciate your zeal but your point don’t ppl you to me given your age. Don’t take that personally it’s just I’ve been to high-school. Btu what ever gets youresults bro
/r/seduction11/03/19 09:14 PM
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That guy was literally me every fucking time lol
/r/seduction11/03/19 09:01 PM
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Do you know how to approach groups
/r/seduction11/03/19 08:53 PM
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I’m in college also, and its a time where girls are in the most sexually curious times of their lives. What you want to do is: 1.to say hi and bye to every girl and relatively popular guy. 2.Be social first and sexual second. Because you will run into the same people everyday. What you want to do is take the long term approach where you build social capital and the girls come to you. Cherry picking the hot girls may get you a date but isn’t a good long term strategy because you’ll develop a repu…
/r/seduction11/03/19 08:37 PM
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👍
/r/seduction11/03/19 08:27 PM
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Well, they’re are a lot. But for each their is a similar trend. Too scared and don’t know how. Toos cared to open and don’t know how to. Too scared to escalate and don’t know how to. Too scared to close etc etc
/r/seduction11/03/19 07:48 PM
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Sounds to me like you are the one i the friend zone.
/r/seduction11/03/19 06:43 PM
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Maybe sit near her , and if the opportunity presents itself you can talk about something class related. Also try and be social and or become the leader of a club/ organization. In other words be involved. Popularity helps a lot
/r/seduction11/03/19 06:22 PM
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Try desensitization approach where you gradually work your way up. Start by, on your regular day, looking people In The eye for half second longer than what is comfortable. If they look away that’s fine but the point is to break that’s social barrier. Also if someone is very antagonistic you can look away in that case. Both guys and girls also. Don’t think you have to Do anything more. Just start there. Then once your comfy with the next day or even two days later if you decide to do the eye con…
/r/seduction11/03/19 06:15 PM
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Start fro. The basics. Eye contact, then flirting (push pull), how to escalate, some level of female psychology, what women find attractive in men, etc etc
/r/seduction11/03/19 06:09 PM
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I get what you saying. Be nice because you want to be not because you have no choice
/r/seduction11/03/19 04:44 PM
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https://youtu.be/FumkrUMQpoM
/r/seduction11/03/19 04:38 PM
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What do you mean
/r/seduction11/03/19 04:25 PM
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Go on YouTube and search up Todd v day game. I think its under ‘Mikethesituation’ channel. Tons of value for beginners. Also check out Todd v winner game. They’re both free and their helping me a lot.
/r/seduction11/03/19 04:11 PM
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I’m 21 now and I know he feeling. Reminiscing on past good experiences with girls now you just feel lost when it come to women and you just don’t quite know where to start. Since I’m a bit older than your I have can give some relative advice on how i would go about trying to get better at game. First I would say since your in school, and stuff I would try my best to generate better social skills in general and become more of an ‘alpha’.high school and college are a prime time for getting tons of…
/r/seduction11/03/19 11:35 AM
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Say hi and bi to very girl and relatively popular guys. Become some sort of leader in a group you have interest in. Generates so much social proof and the girls will come to you. Think long term of cultivating an ecosystem of positive social proof because of the context of a cliquey social circle type environment. Be non judge-mental of yourself and of the girls and just go with it. Don’t expect to be mister smoothie when it comes to sex, but Like I said just be non judge-mental of yourself and …
/r/seduction11/03/19 04:28 AM
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I’m not the most happy go lucky guy either and we are human everyone gets into a funk sometimes. But you haven’t stated why you didn’t approach. Sorry but I can’t really understand why you let “being in a bad mood” stopped you from a approaching Few tips to eliminate the “state” excuse: 1 . One way to get in the mood is to maybe skip up to the girl and that way you do something kinda goofy so that when you approach her theirs nothing much more embarrassing you could do. Or if you don’t want to l…
/r/seduction11/03/19 01:27 AM
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Also the question is kinda vague. Not sure exactly why he wants to “get over his crush”. But chances are he’s friend zoned. And using game to get that one girl, thinking it will solve all your problems is a misguided idea. He needs to get out their go out, and become a more attractive guy in general. Because if he tries to distract himself he will remain the same guy and will never get what he truly wants, which is an abundant can’t life with women.
/r/seduction10/03/19 10:38 PM
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I don’t really like the word “crush” and here’s why. Their are probably 50m other girls who fit the exact same physical and personal characteristics as the girl you are “crushing” on and your willing to treat this girl like she’s the hottest girl in the planet. (Not you but anyone who says they have a crush). It’s bull shit. I know it’s a hard pill to swallow. It was when I was In High school. I thought I loved this girl and even to the point where if you said this girl vs like Angelina Jolie I …
/r/seduction10/03/19 10:05 PM
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Well this question has different angles because the way you would approach t would be different if you are talking to a long time friend or a straight up cold approach. You need to be mores specific.
/r/seduction10/03/19 08:36 PM
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Doesn’t that just make a new problem?
/r/seduction10/03/19 06:37 PM
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“ what is their to fear but fear itself” . Kinda cheesy, but it has some truth. It’s the fear of getting dumped that scares you not actually getting dumped really. Because fundamentally you won’t change as a person if she breaks up with you. You’ll still be the same dude. Yeah you’ll go through a mourning period but that’s with any ended relationship. But you’ll learn something about yourself, and will become a better man because of it. Hope this helps Peace
/r/seduction10/03/19 06:35 PM
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