You want the 0,1% in looks that can pull this off without surgery. Masculine men age far better. I dont even hate the prettyboy appeal, I just think it can't be pulled off for too many years.
They can absolutely control their choices. Am I saying they should instead date the "proper" man they arent as attracted to? Absolutely yes. Get fucked.
I usually find hot guys to be way nicer because they’re not offended by anything. I’ve rarely seen a hot guy get defensive, reactive, or disrespectful It's almost like it shapes them. Weird huh. Who would have thought that the way you are treated has an influence on your personality.