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Inner Game fondlemysausage/r/seduction10/08/24 02:59 AM
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Agreed. I'm sure most of us just want to grind, work hard and have a healthy work-life balance and be kind, cordial and empathetic to those along in our own journeys. What good are all of these fake "morals and ethics" if the prices of everything x5 but my wages stay the same? Not to mention more than half the stuff the others are afraid of happening won't happen. I'm seeing people claim that women won't be allowed bank accounts anymore, I mean what? That's not true.
/r/MensRights07/11/24 09:50 PM
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Good read and I appreciate your insight. I'm trying to not be too harsh on myself. One thing I might disagree on though, is that I wouldn't say i'm trying to smash every woman I meet. Do I find very few women attractive? Yeah, probably but I wouldn't attribute that to porn. I just see the world through a different lens now. It's very similar to how I'd say a vast majority of women start to pace themselves out of the market the more successful they become, as they want someone on their level or a…
/r/seduction12/08/24 10:58 AM
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Everything is based off of experience. Is it fully true? Probably not. Is it true based off of everything I've tried and experienced? Yes. That probably doesn't answer your question, but to me it's a true belief.
/r/seduction11/08/24 12:45 AM
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Thanks buddy. I do have a friend that does tell me something similar when it comes to getting wins, but I'm not sure I'm ok with his solution of just going to Brazil for that. He hypes Brazil up so much. I feel as though if I did that, I would just be too far gone when I would return stateside.
/r/seduction10/08/24 03:08 PM
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I know, it's just difficult when I see it everywhere. I'm really trying to get out of that mindset. It's just tough. I thought maybe it was location, but I've lived in 8 different states (more than a year I would consider live) and I see it everywhere.
/r/seduction10/08/24 03:05 PM
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Appreciate your response. I know inherently that what changes I made really wasn't for me. I have had that mental block in my head that I've never been good enough; something in my mind just shuts off when I'm attracted to them. It's funny how easy it was when I wasn't, but I never pushed with them as they were just not my style. There's something about a woman that just cool and shares the same lifestyle physically, but they have never been into me. I'm trying to rewire my thoughts after a deca…
/r/seduction10/08/24 03:03 PM
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You don't have to be the loudest guy. I am far from that, but I can hold my own in conversation. That's most important. Unfortunately for men who put some effort into their outward appearance, they are automatically labeled as tryhards lol. Don't worry about that part, it is what it is.
/r/seduction06/06/24 02:22 PM
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There isn't some "checklist" you have in your journal where the end result is "get a girlfriend." It's so strange how often I see this. Guys list "I have this, this and this, where's my GF?" when it's not about that. You could have all of these things and still have the charisma of a toilet and it won't get you anywhere (not saying you do, just an example). I'm not saying what your doing doesn't help. It does, but there are usually stereotypes with guys that have your mindset, those being you ar…
/r/seduction06/06/24 02:09 PM
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Where are you finding interesting women to talk to? I find talking to the like talking to a doormat lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:13 AM
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It doesn't have anything to do with not being adventurous, you have to stop being an emotional tampon for women. It would be different if you were being this nice, sweet, caring guy without expecting anything in return, but the fact that you post this shows you want your actions to be reciprocated. Women can sniff that, dude. These "ugly men" you describe are getting laid because they are unapologetically themselves. They do things they want to do.
/r/seduction07/09/23 11:53 AM
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Crazy that I just had this thought today as well. We are told by so many to not be emotionally vulnerable in front of your woman as it is an "attraction killer" but she can be to you, and you're expected to support and comfort her while dealing with your own issues internally. With that in mind, what's the benefit for the man? How does he not snap?
/r/MensRights03/06/23 08:19 PM
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Christ, some of the takes here are so out in left field I'd think they're crazy lol. Go find a traditional man who will provide and protect, no questions asked. They're out there. In turn, you would need to be a traditional woman. If that's not something that you want, then that is cool too. You'll both work, split everything down the middle, children get daycare. It's not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:07 PM
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Bad take. I don't care if anyone hits on my girlfriend; I take that as a sign I actually chose well. It has nothing to do with not feeling like she's worth defending. As other's have said, isn't it exhausting just feeling jealous all the time? You can't go 100% into everything. You have to choose what bothers you and what doesn't. She can do whatever she wants. If she reciprocates the flirting, that's when I will show her the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:23 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:28 PM
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It isn't, though? Strange reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 11:34 PM
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Yes. I moved away, and long distance wasn't an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 10:48 PM
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I know, I understand why you and many others feel that way. Thanks for the reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 10:47 PM
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No. I'm studying for my CPA while in the middle of tax season, billing crazy hours. It wouldn't be fair to a girl as I would have barely any time for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 10:45 PM
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We technically all die alone, right? Is your SO gonna go out with you? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 10:39 PM
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I've been fine so far, no complaints.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 10:34 PM
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Oh, I've been rejected plenty times. More than I can count. The advice wasn't out of rejection fear, but fear of losing everything I've spent too long to build. You never know who's recording interactions these days. I appreciate the assumption, though, and thanks for the reply, although condescending.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 10:33 PM
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Short answer? Don't approach at all. Too many things can go wrong that are out of your control, and it can get plastered all over the internet. My advice to anyone is just to build a life that's enjoyable and things will attempt to fall into place there. If they don't, so be it. You built a cool life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 10:23 PM
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Absolutely lol, no brainer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 12:55 PM
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I would hope the traditional way goes away honestly. I'd have no problem with it, and they way we're currently trending in the world, a dual income household would be necessary. The issue is when women still want traditional benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:08 PM
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You're describing 'RP Rage'; something alot of people first introduced to the space go through. From what i've read, TRP doesn't hate anyone, they just understand the world for what they think it is, and adjust accordingly. You're describing a fringe of people who hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:18 PM
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I'm about to be 32. I'll date any woman from 23-32. I usually won't go older in age than my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 09:21 PM
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In the past, this one trait was often overlooked if she was hot. Thankfully, most guys are picking up on this now. How I determine low and high value is if a woman is Emotionally intelligent. How often do we see people in general go on tirades on people working in retail, service, etc? I can't stand that. I watched a friend once go on a tirade towards people working at Bath and Body works because her pickup order didn't register at the store, or will make comments on how long it takes the server…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:24 PM
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You'd be surprised. How many can you think of right now that maybe have 2 of these 3? I know so many fit/feminine women, but don't even come close to being friendly. Also, how many feminine/friendly women do you know? Look around at the grocery store and it's all of them. ​ Just a thought. Not saying you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:35 PM
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I go into every interaction assuming people already dislike me, lol. I find it more freeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:28 PM
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I wouldn't say that it gets easier. You just get better and stop caring as much. In turn, it'll make it easier. We are all driven to seek companionship, I get it. It's human nature. Once you start to see life as not some mystery or problem to solve but a reality to experience, you start to unquestionably vibe well in every scenario. Good luck.
/r/seduction13/10/22 03:23 PM
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No problem. Didn't mean to come off so harsh reading it back.
/r/seduction02/09/22 06:29 PM
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Why do women do anything? You have no idea what was going through her head at the time, and you'll drive yourself crazy thinking you did something wrong. From your description she might've not been feeling the fast movement. Move on.
/r/seduction02/09/22 06:08 PM
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You and I have similar thinking. I come from an Accountant background and we both tend to deal with equations and metrics in our everyday lives, as they're familiar and for the most part issues can be solved this way. The problem here is that our line of thought doesn't translate over very well socially. There's a reason people in our profession have the stereotype of a social pariah; someone that thinks logically for most of our lives, even in social situations. It tends to make us weird, lol. …
/r/seduction10/08/22 03:15 PM
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"So do I."
/r/seduction01/08/22 06:24 PM
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Wtf did I just read lol.
/r/seduction30/06/22 02:58 PM
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Point out other attractive women, there are tons of them. See what happens. I appreciate your regards to being honest about not doing that, but don't be that way for someone who doesn't deserve it.
/r/seduction28/06/22 09:01 PM
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I often see the opposite. I see women who never hold each other accountable for anything, who support all actions of other women, no matter the action. "Slay Queen," etc. I've seen men who were friends for years go after each other's throats because they like the same girl. Men who would've done anything for each other a week prior. It's a sad world.
/r/seduction28/06/22 03:34 PM
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Again, this sub is such a comedy. The daily "Just shower, bro" posts especially lol. You're offering nothing of value regurgitating the same talking points.
/r/seduction27/06/22 07:40 PM
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Ah yes, the daily "Shower, lift and groom yourself, bro" post, lol. Most guys aren't here because they don't groom themselves. They're here looking for help and advice on that piece (or multiple) AFTER they've done all the normal stuff. You telling them to just shower and lift doesn't help. That's obvious advice.
/r/seduction23/06/22 08:35 PM
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Have you ever met a boring, attractive dude? I have. They're duds with no depth. They might get laid, sure, but no girl will ever take him seriously or have anything nice to say about him other than his looks. Virtually, the same way attractive women feel when they're bombarded with DM's from weirdos. I have seen some crazy relationship combos out there. Guys you would think have no shot walking around, arm in arm with absolute smokes. Why? Because women like men for OTHER things. Almost every g…
/r/seduction25/04/22 04:14 PM
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Ability - 1 Body - 1 Charisma - 20 "Game is 80% mental and 40% physical." - Sun Tzu
/r/seduction14/04/22 11:54 AM
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Hot body, 9 I think? I didn't think people actually still used that rating, lol.
/r/seduction13/04/22 12:00 PM
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I hope that's a joke lol.
/r/seduction13/04/22 11:39 AM
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1,000%, was just about to say this. It's funny. The vast majority of men hit their stride at 30-35. I was a corny, fat doofus in my 20's. It wasn't until around 28 I decided to change. God forbid I don't want the emotional baggage of an older woman now that I know my worth, lol. Do you, my man.
/r/seduction31/03/22 07:00 PM
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Fresh can kick rocks, but what Myron says does hold some truth to it.
/r/seduction30/03/22 11:56 AM
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It's not rocket science, lol. Nice fitting crew, polo, or button-up, Straight or slim fit jeans or chinos, clean casual sneakers or boots. Dress for the occasion. If you don't know, better to overdress than under. Does that mean you wear a suit to a baseball game? Of course not.
/r/seduction29/03/22 09:06 PM
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Women make rules for the men they don't like, and break those rules for the ones they do. Take that however you will.
/r/seduction29/03/22 12:08 PM
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I never outright tell any girl my job when they ask. If I don't make up something outright, I'll ask them what they think I do. Whether it's a good move or not depends entirely on context. I've said I'm a dolphin trainer, an undercover Russian bodyguard, and told girls I sell Oranges on the freeway. They all land or they don't, who cares.
/r/seduction25/03/22 09:11 PM
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Is this like a copy/paste you post everywhere? Lol.
/r/seduction25/03/22 06:38 PM
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Lol, more than a few of us have gone through this, it seems. God forbid you remotely take care of yourself in any way and are relaxed around anyone. No flamboyance or anything.
/r/seduction25/03/22 02:35 PM
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Oh, then just ask him out. If he says no, then you know. Edited to say that he should've already pulled the trigger, unless he's nervous.
/r/seduction22/03/22 10:21 PM
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I think if he hasn't talked to you in 3 months, he's probably moved on. So should you. There are others. No need to overcomplicate it.
/r/seduction22/03/22 10:00 PM
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If a girl asks about my lay count, I always answer with an extreme. For example, the "I'm a good catholic and I'm saving myself" or "you mean today, or in the past week?" Lol. Those lines usually take the pressure off and lead to funny convo.
/r/seduction08/03/22 06:21 PM
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My man, those thoughts of suicide need to stop. You add value to this world, even if you don't think you do. If you think you need therapy, do it. Do anything before taking your own life. We're here for you, bro.
/r/seduction04/03/22 03:05 PM
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Be thankful you've finally reached this outcome at 25. Most guys don't come to this realization until much later. Now, you get to write your own story.
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:13 PM
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Agreed, surprised no one else is saying this lol. That, or she's looking to see where he is to avoid him.
/r/seduction21/01/22 03:30 PM
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The problem is most guys come here and want the default advice because they already dislike who they really are. How can you find someone to like you for you when YOU don't like yourself? Using the "like me for who I am" line is an excuse, in my opinion. I refuse to believe the majority of men are natural introverted simps easily manipulated by women. They just don't know where to start.
/r/seduction17/01/22 06:25 PM
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Very constructive feedback, thanks.
/r/seduction29/12/21 09:44 PM
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Snapped probably means messaged on Snapchat.
/r/seduction27/10/21 02:52 PM
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I get your mindset, but I'm not sure you can compare approach to bodybuilding. In that sport, YOU are in control. You can have everything right (diet, exercise) and 99% you get the results you want, while that percentage is not the same in approach, more like 10-15%. Too many outside factors. I like where you're trying to go with it, though. Props to you.
/r/seduction07/10/21 12:32 PM
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That is so untrue I don't even know where to begin. If you had ANY charisma and were just a friendly dude, you'll be shocked at how many people won't believe that you're a virgin. Some girls will even see it as a turn on. Trust me on that.
/r/seduction30/08/21 06:03 PM
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Dude, I was 27. I then had a different girl every month for a year. Your mindset is what's wrong.
/r/seduction30/08/21 02:24 PM
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If it were me (and it has been before) just be casual about it, brother. Talk to her, talk to everyone, crack the same jokes, be the same dude you were before. Show that it doesn't affect you in any way. Once you do, she will be more intrigued, I promise you that.
/r/seduction12/08/21 02:00 PM
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I appreciate all of your posts, brother. They've definitely helped me on the correct path.
/r/seduction11/08/21 04:14 PM
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I didn't lose my virginity until the age of 27, my man. I had all of the same thoughts that you currently do. If you own it, most people won't care. Truly.
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:54 PM
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