fookincharlie Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Get Plenty of Matches, but only End Up Going in Dates with women who aren’t my type Even Stefan-Pierre Tomlin ultimately found the most dating success outside of Tinder. But you may consider having professional photos taken, deleting your account, and making new accounts with better quality pictures.	/r/seduction	29/05/25 05:25 AM
5	I approached 100's of women, here's what I learned Nevermind. You're a fuck-up.	/r/seduction	30/08/24 01:15 PM
1	I approached 100's of women, here's what I learned I took that comment out. Should've done my research first.	/r/seduction	30/08/24 01:13 PM
1	I approached 100's of women, here's what I learned Oh, crap. Thank you for informing me.	/r/seduction	30/08/24 01:10 PM
2	I approached 100's of women, here's what I learned *Edit, I take back anything positive I said about this.	/r/seduction	30/08/24 05:16 AM
2	How to work on eye contact? No, I've noticed if you use active facial expressions enough you can maintain eye contact for very long periods of time and people will be comfortable. A video of a breakdown like this is "Charisma on Command's" video on Bill Clintons eye contact and how he uses his forehead and keeps his eyes tight.	/r/seduction	20/08/24 11:52 PM
3	How to work on eye contact? Focus on a single spot. I always look into the right eye because it's hard for me to focus on both. Don't break eye contact while speaking. When listening and speaking, use facial expressions so you aren't just staring at someone like you will eat their skin.	/r/seduction	20/08/24 07:51 PM
213	Approached my gym crush, it was the most awkward interaction I've ever had Good job dude 👊. You did more than 99% of dudes would do and approached an attractive chick. Maybe you'll only get positive interactions with 2/3 but you did the hardest part.	/r/seduction	21/09/22 03:32 AM
1	Is it kind of late to the pickup game at the age of 50? Exactly.	/r/seduction	01/09/22 01:24 PM
3	Is it kind of late to the pickup game at the age of 50? Sure, they get laid without paying a dime. They aren't broke though.	/r/seduction	01/09/22 01:23 PM
0	Is it kind of late to the pickup game at the age of 50? What's your main goal?	/r/seduction	01/09/22 03:10 AM
14	Is it kind of late to the pickup game at the age of 50? No. It's called not being a bum. You don't just provide but you should be capable of providing. Of course seduction is important in sex/meeting women. It's also important in school, business, your job, etc. Are you lacking in those areas?	/r/seduction	01/09/22 02:14 AM
23	Is it kind of late to the pickup game at the age of 50? I didn't ask if you had a job. I asked are you well established financially. Out of the gate you're going to be expected to entertain with the experience you provide. Money helps open that door and shows you're well connected/respected in the world around you. Women are a costly currency to hold.	/r/seduction	01/09/22 01:53 AM
9	Is it kind of late to the pickup game at the age of 50? Are you well established financially?	/r/seduction	01/09/22 01:43 AM
4	Need advice/tactics on sleeping with multiple women Seduction is a skill, just like anything in life. You don't go to a surgeon who's never been to school, he wouldn't help you at all. You just need experience to get confidence from experience. As I've gotten older I don't believe in "game". I believe "game" is just effective communication. You need to learn the basics about how to communicate and the easiest way to do that is one step at a time. Here's the best 2 week program to learn "pickup" for free that I've found in my years of shedding off…	/r/seduction	18/08/22 10:16 PM
2	Not looking to get with a girl, but just curious about the psychology around this. Most women are attracted to men who are attractive to other women. So if a guy has a girlfriend more women see him as boyfriend material. It's almost like you're "pre approved" which makes you safe. Some women find men who have girlfriends attractive for this reason, so if you had a girlfriend your coworker would find you more attractive and she thinks you think the same way she does. There's actually some interesting biology behind why women act this way. Men just don't so we see it the same wa…	/r/seduction	12/08/22 02:39 AM
1	Not looking to get with a girl, but just curious about the psychology around this. False inflation. The materials to make a Louis Vuitton Keppall 55 cost around $5. Literal plastic and fabric. But it sells for $5,500 why? Because the brand has a reputation of being desirable, so she thinks if she shows some reputation of being desirable you will want her more. Women are more vulnerable to this kind of thinking than men generally speaking, so if a couple chicks in a club know you and like you then you'll probably end up with a fair number of chicks trying to be in your circle.	/r/seduction	11/08/22 11:52 PM
1	Honestly, is night game worth it if my logistics suck ? Lmao, I did actually know a guy who was a bouncer and lived in a van with painted windows, he pulled better than me.	/r/seduction	07/08/22 03:02 AM
4	Honestly, is night game worth it if my logistics suck ? I think it's the social frame. Alcohol simply opens the door to the frame. For a interesting commentary on alcohols effect on social situations and sexual situations/consent you should read "Talking to Strangers" by Malcolm Gladwell. Essentially like most drugs that affect your psychology set/setting are extremely important (consider most LSD experts advice about choosing your situations/sitters carefully).	/r/seduction	06/08/22 01:09 AM
8	Honestly, is night game worth it if my logistics suck ? Then I guess you should plan on car/bathroom sex.	/r/seduction	05/08/22 11:54 PM
31	Honestly, is night game worth it if my logistics suck ? You should get an "evil lair", or do more pipe laying in exotic locations. Alternatively, ditch the clubs and introduce yourself to attractive strangers closer to your area when you go out shopping, to the library, on a bus commute, or wherever you do choose.	/r/seduction	05/08/22 11:49 PM
1	Getting laid regularly taught me I don’t like casual sex, I want a girlfriend. Anyone else? That's very relatable. I 100% agree.	/r/seduction	26/06/22 03:55 AM
2	Getting laid regularly taught me I don’t like casual sex, I want a girlfriend. Anyone else? Thanks for the good vibes! At some point I may need to invest in therapy for sure, at the moment I have too much going on for it. Love the mindset and bada$$ weight loss story!	/r/seduction	26/06/22 01:14 AM
5	Getting laid regularly taught me I don’t like casual sex, I want a girlfriend. Anyone else? Anytime a girl finds me attractive, I don't really find her attractive. But when I see a girl as attractive and try to develop a relationship with her she doesn't see me as attractive anymore. I'm still trying to figure out why.	/r/seduction	25/06/22 09:11 PM
2	Getting laid regularly taught me I don’t like casual sex, I want a girlfriend. Anyone else? I attract beautiful women, I just don't develop relationships with them.	/r/seduction	25/06/22 07:31 PM
5	Getting laid regularly taught me I don’t like casual sex, I want a girlfriend. Anyone else? It scares me how many people relate. It makes me want even more to find the solution	/r/seduction	25/06/22 02:30 PM
81	Getting laid regularly taught me I don’t like casual sex, I want a girlfriend. Anyone else? Absolutely, I feel like I'm cursed. When I was younger nobody was attracted to me so I developed attractive traits but I've never truly been satisfied in a relationship. Sexual validation is cool, but I wish someone actually cared about me. Hopefully something good will happen for that. For the time being I haven't found a person who's a good fit for me, maybe it's because I changed so much so fast, maybe I'm cursed.	/r/seduction	25/06/22 04:42 AM
1	Do women 25-35 really find older men 40-50 attractive? If so what signs would you look for? That sucks, I'm sorry.	/r/seduction	27/05/22 02:37 AM
5	Do women 25-35 really find older men 40-50 attractive? If so what signs would you look for? Don't date a stripper no offense. That's a big red flag imo.	/r/seduction	26/05/22 11:07 PM
1	James bond I don't understand? From my perspective he walks into just about any bar, casino, etc. & becomes a part of any given social circle showing respect where due, kissing hands, playing games, etc. he essentially creates a social circle around him wherever he goes which is the ultimate form of social proof.	/r/seduction	18/05/22 12:44 AM
5	I’m not attracted to women who aren’t really hot how can i fix this? 1 hot woman was possibly flirting with you possibly because she was just a flirt. I like the attitude but that doesn't mean hot girls like you.	/r/seduction	11/05/22 04:20 AM
21	I’m not attracted to women who aren’t really hot how can i fix this? Less attractive women still mostly "act" like attractive women. Practice dating etc. with the less attractive women first where you don't really feel attraction so you can see through the way she behaves etc. & continue this "exposure therapy" with more women & more attractive women & over time you'll be able to talk to anybody. Or just go straight to attractive women, but make it a goal to approach them for conversations/to get dates/numbers/meetups/Snapchats. Make small attainable goals like f…	/r/seduction	11/05/22 03:12 AM
1	How to talk to girls sitting down? Sitting next to them would be too intense, look for signs of interest them glancing etc then approach from straight in with your hands visible.	/r/seduction	09/05/22 06:42 PM
1	How to break the touching barrier with a girl without looking like a pervert? My rule of thumb is if you feel like a pervert you look like a pervert.	/r/seduction	18/04/22 06:31 PM