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| 2 | Don't wait for the awkward goodbye kiss at the end of the night while exiting the car or at the front door. [FR from a chick's POV]That is exactly what I, and several others, have been saying. I don't think anyone should throw tests out at their perspective partner. It's all mind games. If you want to sit with someone, sit with them. Don't expect them to do everything on a date to prove anything to you. That's why the OP's story bothered me. | /r/seduction | 26/11/11 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Don't wait for the awkward goodbye kiss at the end of the night while exiting the car or at the front door. [FR from a chick's POV]It was only made awkward when she intentionally made it that way, and got upset by his lack of response. Besides, normally the first couple of dates are a little awkward no matter what. I guess it's all in ones interpretation. | /r/seduction | 26/11/11 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Don't wait for the awkward goodbye kiss at the end of the night while exiting the car or at the front door. [FR from a chick's POV]Well, then I guess by that definition I am sex negative. I do put it on a pedestal, because I feel like I'm important enough to garner someone's respect before I just give it away. I have no hang ups about sex. I just feel like it is an important part of a healthy relationship, and not everyone deserves it. Especially after or on a first date. I just personally feel like you should show me you're there for the long haul, and not for a fleeting moment that I might, or might not enjoy. Basically, … | /r/seduction | 26/11/11 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Don't wait for the awkward goodbye kiss at the end of the night while exiting the car or at the front door. [FR from a chick's POV]Well then I guess it does depend on the type of people you associate with. I wouldn't consider myself a sex-negative person, if that's even a thing, however I would feel pretty classless and cheap if I slept with someone on the first date. That's just me, though. Also, I suppose it depends on how one defines relationship. The four relationships you had that were spawned from a sex on the first night date, obviously have not worked out for you. | /r/seduction | 26/11/11 08:05 PM |
| 3 | Don't wait for the awkward goodbye kiss at the end of the night while exiting the car or at the front door. [FR from a chick's POV]Nothing is wrong with a kiss on the first or second date. But the way I read the OP's post made it seem like she was basically wanting him to lay her out on the table in the restaurant and start a make out session in front of everyone. Not all girls are like that. In fact, the girls I know are the complete opposite, and they are not prudish people. They simply expect a guy to be respectful and not pushy, especially on a first date. Also, I know that relationships can bloom, even if the people ha… | /r/seduction | 26/11/11 06:44 PM |
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