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That's the feeling of realizing no other woman will be your mother to you - nor does any other woman want to be.
/r/askTRP13/06/15 11:34 AM
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So are most men getting their dicks split in half, or are people just misusing the word 'mutilation'? Edit: "Waaaaaah! We wanna say mutilation so bad so our butthurt can be considered equal to all other butthurts!" I think that if you look at my comment history, you'll realize that I'm as pro-mens' rights as anyone. But I don't think taking on the victim mentality is the right way to go. Even though it does get results - obviously, just look at feminism. But I think honor and dignity are more vi…
/r/MensRights09/06/15 05:09 PM
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Actually, average income can cut it. I have an average income, but I do dark triad work. Granted, my business has the potential to blow up and I'm pushing it that direction - I still nevertheless get women naked a lot.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 10:14 PM
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Is that some kind of question you thought about and wrote down?
/r/askTRP01/06/15 03:21 PM
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Send him an anonymous letter that also tells him what the best course of action is to counter-fuck her in the area you're in.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 07:39 PM
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Symantec is just a white knight piece of shit.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 03:44 AM
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They're asking how well you can serve them. That means the question of how well they can serve you has already vanished from their minds. You are in shit shape at that point.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 03:38 AM
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I disagree. Men want the world to be magical, simple, and good. We thought that love was the one place where the law of the jungle didn't apply. Love was like a retreat from a harsh world. But now we know the world is harsh all over, and that nothing is eternal.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 02:26 PM
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If a woman ever says "hugs!" to me I'll definitely feel like I had made some bad choices.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 02:38 AM
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One thing I've thought about is a simple 3 or 4 page explanation of TRP followed by a shit ton of analyses of r/relationships blindness. With simple categorizations about how gynocentricism is spinning the situation, how the BP is understanding it and getting unwittingly boned, and how the TRP man slaps his forehead. Because threads like this come up all of the time, and they're brief and easily understandable by a person with the eyes that see. A big collection of TRP case studies would be grea…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 09:16 PM
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I don't hate anyone going through a natural phase of knowledge. That's part of their learning process. Just because someone is awkward now doesn't mean they'll stay awkward.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 01:49 PM
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I love the pain. Call Dr. Phil.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 02:24 AM
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Both emotionally and physically.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 10:40 PM
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Sounds like you feel threatened.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 10:45 AM
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See, your problem is you think that she was aware of those things. Her woman brain allows her to only see and react to her present situation. One of the reasons why she's able to do this is because of her confidence in her well-honed feminine powers to avoid accountability (I made a post in the past about it called "surprise victimhood"). In this case, it didn't work out for her. But she didn't feel like she was taking very much risk in the moment. She probably just said, "Oh my god, this is bad…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 04:38 PM
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If you take a perspective of time into account, this is great. She's obviously feeding on the attention. And she's getting used to a very large amount. But in no time no one will ever care about her again. Give her all of the attention she wants for now. It'll just make her post-wall period that much more painful.
/r/MensRights21/05/15 08:22 PM
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And the inverse is true for men. "I'm loving, nurturing, and I listen well." Bwhahahhahaha
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 03:37 PM
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I don't think so. Not for a kid.
/r/MensRights20/05/15 01:02 AM
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I don't think you know what 'existential' means. Existentialism is the view that there are no values that are not the result of acts of will, and that nothing has authority unless you grant it. Furthermore, that the only orders within which things/acts come to have value are existential orders. And thing can only have value by being caught up in an order. And since everything can only have value in an order, and orders are all optional, nothing can be "inherently valuable," because that would im…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 07:35 PM
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Well, you're making an implicit statement that only eternal things are valuable. And that's just a hang-up of Christian/Platonic metaphysics in our culture. It's okay to say things are valuable, but you don't have to go the extra step and say they are "inherently" valuable. Value comes from a decision and an act of will. Whenever a person tries to act like value is just in the world, that person is trying to not take responsibility for the values that they themselves are positing - treating that…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 07:08 PM
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Nothing has inherent value. Both sentences are dumb.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 06:45 PM
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I have no problem telling men what they should do, because I'm not a pussy and I believe my way of looking at things is most likely better than theirs. I also think a lot of imbeciles call ways of acting 'amoral' or 'immoral' simply because the principles aren't universal. I think paying someone to beat up a guy who's starting a competing business is the right thing to do. If he tried to hire someone to beat me up, I think that is the wrong thing to do. He is not within my moral circle. Maturity…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 06:42 PM
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Your problem is you're driven by the golden rule as if it were the only moral principle. I have recently come to abandon it because it's just an immature and simple answer to a very complicated question. The golden rule is an attempt to deny the reality of how we perceive the world. We humans naturally divide the world into an "inside" (good) and and "outside" (bad). We create physical barriers that restate this divide (like castle walls, bedroom doors, the Great Wall of China), and verbal barri…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 04:40 PM
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As if the author wouldn't trade her lifestyle for theirs in a blink.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 01:35 PM
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You are right. Manipulative tactics are goofy.
/r/seduction18/05/15 03:38 AM
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Yes. Do something more than just talk her ear off. Try to break out of the "guy hitting on waitress" script. And when you ask, act like youve never asked her before.
/r/seduction17/05/15 09:33 PM
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This movie is as TRP as it gets. Nathan's test is to see if the femBot can elicit all of the BP behaviors from a beta male. The reason why that's the test is because that's the hghest potential for females. Thus, a robot that can do that is one that passes the test of being mistaken for a female. And it's easy to see why. Would you put your career in jeopardy and suffer an identity crisis because of your relation to a tree or a calculator? The only thing that can draw those kinds of behaviors ou…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 06:09 PM
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He never made clear his point about 50/50 custody. What he meant was this: when the court starts assessing a case of custody, the starting point should be 50/50, and then reasons can be given for deviations from that. The contrast would be if the starting point was full custody awarded to the mother and then reasons having to be given for deviations from that. I don't know what the British law is here, but I'm guessing it's more like the second. But the bottom line: he's not saying it would be b…
/r/MensRights14/05/15 07:40 PM
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There's women who you don't like and then there's women who don't impress you. I think most awkwardness comes from being impressed by a woman. And that's usually the result of projecting all kinds of non-existent superpowers into her.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 03:14 PM
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I fucked a fatty once to see what the fuss was about. I don't consider it a mistake. But if I ever do it again, I will consider that to be a mistake.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 03:10 PM
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Talk about men who you admire. And then attribute to them the qualities you like and talk about how they don't do the qualities you dislike in this guy. You can make up whatever you want.
/r/askTRP12/05/15 02:43 PM
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I like the "infinity or nothing" idea. Because what it really speaks to is a fundamental difference in mindset: if you believe she's the prize to be won, then you will never win her once and for all. But if you believe that you are the prize to be won (and you actually live the life of a man), then she will try to win you. But I disagree with the 'kill the ego' part. I love my ego. It's an assertion of an optional truth. The ego is how you place your bet. It's also how you show you value your se…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 01:28 PM
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No joke. I think having a kid and getting it raised by another man is one of the best things that can happen to a dude. I also think raising another man's kids is one of the worst things that a man can do. So it only makes sense that the best would be the opposite of the worst.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 01:12 PM
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No no. I'm telling her that I will get her pregnant.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 01:11 PM
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I don't see the misery. But maybe you underestimate the kinds of situations humans can adapt to... Besides that, you're suggesting 'honor' means something like 'living up to other's expectations.' In so far as you're taking orientation from others, you're not being masculine. In fact, it sounds like you're pushing what Nietzsche calls 'slave morality' in the Genealogy of Morals. You're trying to take something that men who are naturally powerful do just because it feels good and because they can…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 01:08 PM
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There are many ways to be alpha. One of which is just getting women pregnant then leaving them. I have a hard time understanding how that's not part of every man's fantasy. It's not like you feel like that has to be the defining moment of your life. It's just one more thing you did in the course of a great life. I tell one of my plates all the time that I'm going to get her pregnant, so she needs to start looking for a good man to settle down with.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 08:37 PM
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Often times when young men question their ability to satisfy a woman, they try to replace a complicated question about whether or not the dude has the kind of mentality that can satisfy her womanly judgments, with an easy question: do I have the dick can satisfy her? It's replacing a complicated question with an easy question. And when that happens, you should realize that there is no "one thing" that emanates joy and pleasure. Focus on setting the stage that allows joy and pleasure to appear, r…
/r/askTRP11/05/15 07:32 PM
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Too bad they didn't mention gynocentricism's symbolic castration of the beta male.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 02:57 PM
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You are one wise mother fucker.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 01:47 PM
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Yoga is a spiritual practice. Therefore women will never actually get it. Anything that requires an intellectual component to be enjoyed will be eventually taken by women and they will replace the intellectual component with an emotionally/feely component. The men who were able to draw pleasure from the intellectual side will no longer be able to find that pleasure. And they will come to see the practice as pointless and annoying - just like with tv shows designed for women. Odds are, you've pro…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 01:39 PM
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I like the analysis of white knights - identifying with part of the standard masculine protocol (protecting women) and also the gynocentric progressive agenda that erodes male power. Then, as the males sense their power eroding, overstate their role as protector - not because the women are in danger, but because the men themselves are feeling the pussification set in. The men think their problem is they aren't protecting enough, and that's why they feel like pussies. The author is saying it's be…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 01:18 PM
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When people lie they often say the opposite of whats true. Take, for instance, the Strong Independent Woman(TM) and the idea that to embody masculinity as a female is both more difficult and more daring than receding into a feminine role- this is not only incorrect, but it’s the opposite of whats true. Embodying masculinity, in world of gender role negativity, is an easy path for a woman to take. Unlike a male with an overt presence of masculinity, a woman who embodies power and assertion will n…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 01:11 PM
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One of the first steps to developing a respectable character is realizing that the golden rule must be discarded as the guiding principle of uninteresting manginas.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 03:41 PM
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To me, that sounds like you just want security so you don't have to exercise your masculine responsibility to impose order. Relationships should always have the possibility of exploding. If they don't, then they aren't genuine relationships. Once you graduate from wanting to recreate a mother-son relationship with a woman, then you'll see how feminine challenges to your masculinity, while stressful, can draw better and better performances out of you. It's like the contrast between the kid's dad …
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 08:03 PM
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Well, if you take evolution seriously, no behavior is "natural." Calling a behavior 'natural' only makes sense if you believe that animals have essences. But evolutionary thinking has done away with the idea that we animals have any essences. However, people nowadays who don't think evolutionarily like to use the word 'natural' as just a term of praise for whatever activity they wish they could do more often, especially if they can tell some narrative suggesting people in the past did the same t…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 07:33 PM
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I don't think of jealousy or possessiveness as "problems." They're part of the game of trying to claim contested territory. In other words, for a person who is competing for something that others want, that person will occasionally feel stressed, paranoid, exhausted, resigned, beaten, and a lot of other 'negative' feelings. But the only way to measure the power of your will is relative to other wills. And the only way to do that is to fight for the same things others want in contests where not e…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 07:27 PM
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I have a retardedly high response rate. And most of those responses turn into dates. This is all I ever say: "Hi. I'm [name]. Let's go get a beer at [specific bar] at 8 this [non-Friday/non-Saturday]. What do you say?" Making jokes or being cutesy is just too lame for me. No girl ever leaves a movie thinking about how much she wants to bang the comic relief. If you keep in mind that women are terrible at making decisions, and that they know this, one of the best ways to turn them on is to make d…
/r/seduction01/05/15 05:06 PM
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The other "form of knowledge" she wants accredited is "anything that a woman says."
/r/MensRights28/04/15 03:26 PM
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Good idea, but not developed enough. TRP is about showing men their actual relationship to women. And there are a variety of responses to that realization. The TFL guy will use TRP differently from the guy who wants better theory to guide seducing, and the MGTOW guy will use it differently from the guy whose long-term gf just left him "out of the blue."
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 01:44 PM
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The second sentence floored me. I totally failed to see that one coming. There was a moment of, "Holy shit your mind works completely differently from mine."
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 04:05 PM
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How does someone even get into a state of mindset where "reassurance" is something they need all the time?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 03:42 AM
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Meh. This idea is only true for someone who a) has a weak will and b) feels like everyone who they are with has to be "on the same level." This type of person will then allow the attitude set by others to determine his own attitude. If you don't feel like you always have to be lining up your emotional state with others because you feel like that's necessary for you to be accepted in a group, then it doesn't matter what kind of people you're around. Consider the logic: if you want to be a person …
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 02:27 PM
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Feminism is a shit test. Baudrillard defines femininity as "a challenge to masculinity to exist." The idea is that masculinity is the forces that imposes quality order in the world. Women challenge those orders so that weak orders crumble. The challenge isn't something to be given into or avoided. It's to be answered with more quality order. That doesn't mean "might makes right," but more like, "creating the kind of order that people want to be a part of." Shit tests imply the woman either a) do…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 04:29 PM
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It's funny because the main conclusion women would take away from this post isn't the health stuff, but that doctors won't want to BB them if their dick-debt is too high. Since the doctor is one of the cardinal BB fantasies, any suggestion that women are becoming less attractive to doctorsas a class might meet with a genuine change in female practical decision making.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 09:48 PM
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That's called "the pension plan."
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 12:19 AM
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Consider the psychoanalytical analysis of disgust: we are disgusted by things we're primarily attracted to, but we've been socialized to think we'll be ostracized if we interact with it. Little kids play with their poo. That's why play-doh exists - it's socially acceptable shit. So the feeling of disgust is an unconsciously operating system to repel us from that to which we are initially drawn. The stronger the attraction, the stronger the disgust. The reason why a lot of RPs are spiteful toward…
/r/askTRP23/03/15 02:30 PM
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Put "rapist" in scare quotes.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 02:19 PM
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Crying is the physical process whereby you integrate a change in relation to someone / some group / yourself. It could mean she now realizes she has a new relation with you. Or that her relation with you is not what she thought it was (think about the attitudes expressed leading up to sex). Or it could mean that her relationship to an ex she stll has feelings for is now changing.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 02:15 PM
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Words you will never hear out of the femanine collective: "This should be a warning. We need to make sure that the younger generation doesn't make the same choices we did, because apparently some things from your past you can't live down."
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 12:52 AM
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It's funny how dudes who aren't in jail think equality comes from giving women tougher sentences. Men hearing about how easy women get treated by the justice system naturally think there should be tougher treatment. Given how stupidly corrupt the prison industry is, why not instead campaign that all men should be treated like women?
/r/MensRights18/03/15 08:15 PM
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Women's only way out: older women admit they don't know how to think about systems and the domino effect, and all of their wishes were too ignorant and better left ungranted, and the older washed up women plea to the younger that they don't make the same mistakes. Of course, this will never happen.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 03:55 AM
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Develop a sense of what I call "human impermanence." It contrasts with object permanence. When babies are born, they have to develop a sense of object permanence: that things keep existing even when they can't see them. At first, babies literally think things cease to exist when they can't see them. After that, people develop what I call "human permanence," where we see people in certain modes and think they must be like that all the time. We also strive to be stable things that act in stable, c…
/r/askTRP16/03/15 09:50 PM
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Power hides.
/r/MensRights12/03/15 10:19 PM
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Let's start a campaign for equality called "Women Aren't Special."
/r/MensRights11/03/15 07:21 PM
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That would only promote the pussified feminine culture that says everyone should please everyone all the time. Here's another idea: set an example by not giving a fuck.
/r/MensRights10/03/15 12:20 PM
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Meh. I was thumbing through a book once about how to be persuasive, and the author made a really good point. He said never talk about things you hate. His argument: "Misery loves company" is true only if both parties are miserable. As soon as one party's misery goes away, then that person starts to feel like the miserable/hateful/victim/etc. person is a drag. I believe that. What you're really trying to do is create an in-group/out-group, then get the other person to be in the in-group with you …
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 03:34 AM
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Thanks for all the quotes. Emerson is more mgtow than TRP though. If you're not familiar with mgtow, check out sandman's youtube channel.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 06:30 PM
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I wouldn't put it like she saw you as beta but wanted an alpha." Because I am not an alpha by any means, but spin a number of plates since I never do anything beta. If you have a physical connection and you pass some of their thresholds, women treat you as innocent until proven guilty - guilty of seeking their approval instead of making them earn yours. Ways you prove yourself guilty: "just letting things play out," telling her to call you any time, driving to see her, or anything that conveys d…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 11:46 PM
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Now that you mention it, I do like the idea of promoting TRP to prevent male suicide. I had an acquaintance kill himself when his gf cheated on him. Perhaps TRP could have kept him around.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 03:40 PM
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People say that women want you to say, "Let's go back to my place and have a drink/watch a movie" instead of "have a bang" - which is true. And the reasonsing is suggested that women don't want you to see them or to see themselves as sluts (because anyone who would walk directly into sex is a slut). I think another explanation is more apt, because it applies to other dynamics of relationships with women: women hate it when all the details are out on the table. Women love to use their imagination…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 05:56 PM
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The issue of spreading RP-awareness is one that needs to be more explicitly addressed. We should develop a side-bar tool on how to create rp-disciples. But before that, we should ask why. Why do we care to bring more men into RP? Is it because one is angry at a woman who fucked him over because his BP expectations didn't match up with hypergamic reality? In that case, the 'RP Disciple' doesn't really care about making sure the other guy doesn't make the same mistake. The RPD is really just tryin…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 05:36 PM
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Holy shit, that understanding of "celebrity" as something the brain can't really understand is amazing. The brain is so bad at negating, we naturally think anything we see is something real and near. And women seeing celebrities naturally think the person is his persona, and they think he hangs out near them.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 07:52 PM
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Good insight. I also like the paragraphs that paint the picture of delusional blue pill orientation. Also good because of its scope: shows how bp the culture is instead of just focusing on this or that bp decision. You show that bp is the default for negotiating and navigating life stages.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 11:50 PM
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Here's a question: what does it mean to be "defined by"? Let's say a word has a definition. That definition allows you to make judgments about whether or not a person is using the word correctly. Or another closely related idea: let's say hydrogen is defined as an atom that has one proton in its nucleus. That means that if the atom comes to have more protons, it's no longer hydrogen. Add one and it becomes helium. So when you talk about your "definition," which is it? Are you saying there's a st…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 03:35 PM
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Dunno, man. Women are always going to be better at manipulating men than men are at manipulating women. They move the goal posts gradually and slowly, and never genuinely reset them when you use dude-tactics - they only appear to.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 09:47 PM
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Never forget: awalt. Don't be the kind of retard who thinks that buying a shirt turns a woman into a nawalt unicorn.
/r/MensRights14/02/15 09:36 PM
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It sounds like you're just replacing one myth with another. Men only care about 'honor' so long as we're on the winning team. We can point to a few counterexamples, but they don't define the nature of manhood. I am encouraging you to make the right move and stop looking for comfort in myths.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 07:43 PM
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Here's how you don't get defined in relation to other things: don't try to give yourself a definition. If you start trying to define yourself, yes, you'll set yourself in relation to other things. But ultimately the only reason why someone tries to define themself is because it's convenient for others. That's why we like consistency: it makes others predictable. But if you're forced to be consistent, that will mean sometimes your behavior in specific situations will be sub-optimal. It's to other…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 07:41 PM
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I don't like it one bit. Not everything is "defined by its relation to other things." That's a recipe for co-dependency, and making your world susceptible to getting rocked if circumstances change in your relations. A man, I believe - and you should believe it too - doesn't need to bother going through the process of trying to "define himself." That doesn't mean the man can't have boundaries and values that he won't bend on. It does mean that he doesn't think something else is more meaningful th…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 03:48 PM
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Go tell your followers that I've been defeated, Alpha Dawg.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 11:52 AM
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Of course. Women are now over half of college students. Administers understand that women are the future of colleges, not men. What's actually interesting is that men aren't complaining that eductation is now becoming more biased towards female students.
/r/MensRights10/02/15 03:49 AM
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People are missing the actual point. Some programs had to be cut. Obama is a politician. And he knows he can rely on men's willingness to sacrifice themselves or act like they don't need help. Men won't create a stink the way women will over any slight that suggest they need to cut back or exercise self-control or whatever. The actual moral of the story: everyone knows men lack the gumption and drive to defend themselves. The feminine collective knows this, which is why women are always getting …
/r/MensRights10/02/15 03:46 AM
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K. And who wins. The army where everyone except the leader shows up, or the army where only the leader shows up? Go read the sidebar. Only worthless, fuckless retards are opposed to reading.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 03:31 AM
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And who fulfills all those specialized roles for the enrichment of everyone? The self-centered, narcissistic alpha who can't stand working for someone else? Or the beta who will gladly produce ten times the value needed to care for himself in order to provide for his wife and kids? This is actually a really easy point. Imagine alphas make up 10% of the male population. Now, what would society look like if the other 90% of males vanished?
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 02:47 PM
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Read The Misandry Bubble in the sidebar. Also, check out sandman's videos on youtube.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 02:44 PM
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The truth is you don't get economic realities. We all get it. You feel like you've discovered some truth that your friends and parents don't understand, which makes you feel like you therefore understand everything about the world. Eventually your excessive enthusiasm will wear off. The more you read, the faster that will happen.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 04:59 PM
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He's not saying anything reflecting moral outrage. It sounds like that's the box you try to force all of your opponents into. That inability to listen is why you're getting downvoted. And read The Misandry Bubble in the side bar. It will explain how betas build society.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 03:12 PM
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Right. Unfortunately, we come to each of our new relationships trying to fit them into the metaphorical molds of our other relationships. An immature response to female hypergamy is thinking that women should be loyal or honest or have integrity. I value having someone in my life who, in her eyes, my value is always an open question. It makes me work hard. In fact, after spinning plates for awhile, I've recently started to form a more serious relationship with the most hypergamous and manipulati…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 03:37 PM
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Here's a simple way to think about vulnerability: extend invitations. Women know that rejection sucks for men. A man makes himself vulnerable when he exposes himself to rejection. Here's one way I exploited this principle recently. One girl I've been dating implied on a date that she expected me to pay for dates. So the next day, I told her we needed to have a conversation (not saying what). She came over, I sat her down. I told her that I am building a business, and almost all of my spare money…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 03:26 PM
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A couple of weeks ago, a friend and I were talking about the times when we were young and our families would all get together on the holidays. We lamented that since then, our cousins have all got jobs all over the country, and now our aunts and uncles are grandmas and grandpas, and so now the"old gang" doesn't get together any more. New families have been formed, and now everyone goes to their own gatherings. But of course, the same was true for our parents and grandparents. At one point, they …
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 03:16 PM
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Nope. Cutting them off shows that you're using the money to negotiate attraction. That's trying to guilt them into good compliant behavior. Never works. It sounds like a better solution is to not get pouty or show distress when they don't listen to you. It sounds like you respond to them as though the world is falling apart when they question you. Don't get so upset, and don't make your counters personal. You come off like the kind of guy who would quickly resort to "why don't you ever just list…
/r/askTRP30/01/15 12:25 PM
1

Make the possibility of sex available. If you go on a day time coffee date, you'll make it very hard to bang her after the date. People fuck at night time. Take girls out at night time. People meet their friends for coffee. We meet people we want to have sex with over beer. You want someone to be less inhibited when you physically escalate. Not more caffeinated. In fact, I think asking a girl out for 1st date coffee subcommunicates that you're scared to make a move.
/r/seduction27/01/15 03:06 PM
1

A lesson in reading comprehension: but only white knights will actively attempt to sabotage your game with a girl they like In logic, the word "only" has a significant meaning. And using the word "only" means you - yes, you - are undertaking a responsibility to illustrate your entitlement to use that term. I gave an example of someone who was not a white knight sabotaging another guy because that guy was lurking in his harem. Therefore, not "only" white knight sabotage. I showed how your stateme…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 01:30 PM
10

You aren't making yourself vulnerable by escalating physically. Think about it this way: making yourself vulnerable is you extending the invitation to make your relationship with that person more meaningful. If you just do this emotionally, then you'll end up with another nice little friend. If you do this physically, you'll take a woman home. Also, I'm an RP'er, so I don't believe anything women say about what they want. One of the main ways of getting them aroused is to talk about how many wom…
/r/seduction25/01/15 02:38 AM
1

I agree with everything you're saying here and in your follow-ups. The other guys are saying, "omg you jeapordized your power to be a beta-provider! What a bad decision." Or they're acting like if you lose a restaraunt job it's game over. The right mindset is to always feel like you have options. The people criticizing fuckucheater1 are watering down the meaning of trp.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 02:16 AM
0

Meh. I disagree. My bluepill roommate was at the gym today talking to a girl who worked there about the haircut he was thinking about getting and trying in a bp way to use validation-seeking as a way of winning her motherly heart. A black personal trainer walked up with another girl and interjected saying, "Man, if you're confident, it doesn't matter what your haircut looks like." It's okay to kill your competitors. Or to remove them from the competition in any way necessary. It's a beta mindset…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 02:11 AM
3

Opposite view. I don't shave or keep trimmed hair. And on literally every date I go on, I wear a fruit of the loom shirt with a front pocket and a pair of jeans. If it's warm enough, I wear sandals. I have no accessories besides my beard. I climb (not to get in shape, but that's a side effect), but I definitely don't lift. Attitude and physical escalation are the only +1's you need. Tell them that you know you won't get along with 95% of the people in the world, and you've learned that the best …
/r/askTRP19/01/15 03:04 PM
2

I went through a very similar experience about 4 months ago. It's what brought me to trp. Everyone (myself included) thought that she was being a traitorous fool, and said I should make sure that the experience didn't leave me "jaded." I chose to blame myself. The reason why she fell for me in the first place was because I was extremely driven and building my business. But she revealed herself to be very demanding of attention and time. It made it hard for me to focus on business. And this is wh…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 02:55 PM
1

That's a phase. People acting like you shouldn't go through it are bad guides.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 08:23 PM
2

You're absolutely right. Most of the comments have the tone of butt-hurt Disney idealists.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 08:20 PM
2

I felt with Bob his revelation.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 07:08 PM
-16

Your logical fallacy is ad hominem. You come off jealous.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 01:55 AM
1

Commenting to read later.
/r/MensRights03/01/15 04:22 PM
2

It's really that simple. To add a bit more detail: there is now additional cost in the form of risk associated with the courting process. And the benefits of marriage also decrease since there are now many alternative ways to satisfy one's boredom besides spending time just staring at a wall. And let's also give some recognition to feminism for encouraging women's sexual liberation. Now there's an endless stream of girls 25 - 30 (my fav age range) willing to have sex with no promise of commitmen…
/r/MensRights30/12/14 10:29 PM
0

This isn't misogyny. It's referring to actual differences in the female mind due to known effects of estragen on the developing brain. You're equating misogyny to boundaries that don't make people feel like they have unlimited potential.
/r/MensRights26/12/14 11:11 AM
2

Sandman is profoundly good.
/r/MensRights26/12/14 02:39 AM
1

Yeah, if you suck at teaching and suffer the cognitive bias "curse of knowledge," then I totally agree with you.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 10:09 PM
2

Banning is childish, impulsive, and reveals a lack of confidence in one's own abilities as a guide. This site is OBVIOUSLY a community where people learn trp and its consequences. If someone shows they don't know all the implications, great. That shows they have the confidence to express where they are at developmentally. And that gives more developed rp'ers the opportuniy to teach - which is probably why they bother coming to this sub. Saying "you should know all this already so I'm banning you…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 07:55 PM
42

Putting this in the collection with the Patrice O'Neil's thought experiment on giving all men $10k daily and women got it by having sex.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 06:44 PM
-2

One thing we have to take seriously: women are not logical. Many reports of transgender men becoming women say that the man becomes less and less rational during hrt. We need to have a better understanding of what it means to talk to irrational, emotional people - people who don't really even understand the statistics they try to leverage.
/r/MensRights25/12/14 04:27 AM
1

I'm watching The Borgias now. It's a great reminder that "justice is fairness" is something only poor people could believe, and that rationality is the cardinal tool of the socially retarded. The real engines of society are people who think injustice is them losing any of their stuff/influence, or the gaining of stuff/influence by people who they know will use it against them. It shows you that it's most relevant to focus on people with influence, to know who has power, and who know how the game…
/r/askTRP24/12/14 08:50 PM
7

A lot is pretty standard. Just bump their legs with yours. Touch them when you speak. Inch closer as time goes by. Put arm around them soon. Pull in close. Get them to lean head on you. Use other hand to turn her cheek up and kiss. Etc, etc. Two tips I haven't seen mentioned: 1 never let them sit across the table from you. If they try to, tell them to sit on your side. 2 get a finger under a line of her clothing. Any part. Sleeve, neckline, waist. I don't know why, but that shit is a magic spell…
/r/seduction24/12/14 01:54 AM
1

Thinking about your cock is a priming effect. It awakens a whole set of concepts and brings them to conversational life. This is why it's also good to think about touching them, them wanting you, etc. The beliefs create the reality.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 12:40 AM
2

Just go give an alternative perspective... I am very bad at banter, but have a high closing ration for only one reason: physical escalation. You can't talk your way into the sack.
/r/seduction23/12/14 12:15 AM
2

Yeah man. Try reading some Freud, Fritz Perls, and Eric Berne. You'll start to see a lot of psychodrama where you previously saw none. My entry into that world was reading Pinker's Blank Slate and then (on his recommendation) Dawkins' Selfish Gene. You sound like you might like going the route I did. Then getting into Marx, Nietzsche, Foucault, etc. My only recommendation: do it in your free time, not for a living.
/r/askTRP16/12/14 01:21 AM
1

Just so you know the option is there: I always just ask them out. Mostly bc I have no desire to text or talk to them when there's no possibility of physically escalating.
/r/askTRP16/12/14 01:17 AM
0

"Look, I don't know what's happening with us. But I'm not happy with it. I don't see how you could be happy with it. And when couples are going through something like this, it's usually because something that needs to be said isn't being communicated. What's going on? Either we can work through it or we can't. And the only way we can show ourselves any respect is by figuring that out as fast as possible. So what's up?"
/r/askTRP14/12/14 03:31 PM
1

America won't fall. We're just coming near the end of the domestic family. A lot of writers (Plato, Marx, Huxley) have described a future where there is no dad-mom-kid family. And we can look at modern women behaving more and more like common-wives. Except not every man is ensured a wife, or a woman to raise his kids. Women are fucking whoever they want (and whoever makes the moves to fuck them), while drawing increasing lifestyle support from the government. The government is becoming BB, and t…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 03:26 PM
7

You should read more posts on this sub.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 03:18 PM
0

There's nothing in his post that suggests he's trying to kid himself. He's making the good point that her sexual past doesn't predict her sexual future. And this is good to hear for guys seeking the nawalt unicorn. Because one thing they'll think is, "Oh, she's a 21 year old virgin, she must be different." oldredder is making the point that we should all let TRP be our guide, rather than blue-pilling ourselves and looking for exceptions.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 03:18 PM
1

My okc strategy has been meet in person as fast as possible. I usually recommend it in the very first message, or else it turns into a goofy text-a-thon.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 12:25 AM
140

Meh. I think it's just them using socially acceptable standards as a storefront. I met a girl Satruday at a bar for the first time, we started making out there, then went back to her place. She said she wouldn't have sex with me on the first date at least 20 times. Each time I just said something like "I know," "of course," or just "yeah," then just kept making out with her and getting more handsy. After awhile she said she wanted to change in to her pajamas and asked if I wanted to go to her ro…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 02:18 PM
2

Let go of the nawalt fantasy.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 11:26 PM
4

"Their only reliable function." Here here
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 11:23 PM
5

Cool. What else does she have?
/r/askTRP07/12/14 10:01 PM
1

Just know that they don't love you unconditionally (only your parents will do that). And they value you because of what you can do for them or because of your status in relation to their SMV. So when your status drops, they'll think it's time for you two to start seeing other people. The purpose of TRP for guys who want to keep seeing women (like me) is to make you go into commitments much more cautiously with women, since they will not reciprocate the same way. Also, the legal systems are vastl…
/r/askTRP01/12/14 04:14 AM
0

I don't care how he actually thinks.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 11:24 PM
15

He didn't take the girl back. He danced with the sister. And why would a gazillionaire Arab proposed to a hoebag in the middle of a club then shoo her off? Reading comprehension broski.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 10:21 PM
28

I like to think the prince is rp'd and just decided to help out military guy with some tough love.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 09:52 PM
22

Yes. Well, more betas them women. I think betas are the best at staying committed. In fact, I think males in general have a capacity for commitment that women lack. This is because men focus on slower changing things as the most important (which team they're on) whereas women focus on more quickly changing things (who happens to be winning).
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 08:23 PM
1

You should realize thay women think of love very differently from how you do. It sounds like you're trying to recreate a mother-son type of love. Unfortunately, no other woman will ever offer that to you. She'll act like she will, but if you don't graduate to the father-daughter relationship with the woman, then the woman you thought loved you wil eventually start to lose emotional interest, and will in fact come to resent you for your emotional dependence on her. What you need to realize is tha…
/r/seduction30/11/14 08:14 PM
2

I don't know if this is over-the-top baiting or just your personality, but you're coming off in your posts like you're trying very hard to be a people pleaser.
/r/askTRP26/11/14 10:26 PM
1

The dude who wrote Models says that dudes can only get in relationships with women who are more invested (and needy) than the dude is. He said that if you find yourself only getting in relationships with very needy women, it's probably because you're very needy yourself, and those extra needy women are the only ones who will date you. In other words, the needier the dude, the more homogeneity in neediness among the women he dates.
/r/askTRP26/11/14 07:17 PM
65

This belongs in a collection of trp parables.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 11:27 AM
3

Men are second guessing marriage after seeing so many older men getting destroyed in divorce courts, or at least putting it off until older age, so fewer and fewer women are finding husbands in college, which is the main reason why their parents pay tuition. Men on campuses across the country are even getting too intimidated to buy a girl a drink, since there's now a lot of stories of girls making rape allegations the next morning by groping for any reason they can if they feel any shame or didn…
/r/MensRights24/11/14 02:04 AM
1

I'm reading Models now. Very good at shifting thinking very quickly.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 03:53 PM
0

The UK made the white knight its role model.
/r/MensRights18/11/14 07:34 PM
4

Great coaching.
/r/askTRP17/11/14 12:46 PM
1

I think questions are really overrated. Think about this: at every hour of the day, women watch more tv than men. Every hour. What's on tv? Their "stories." Just tell stories they're interested in. What kind of stories are they interested in? Soap operas. Tell stories about humans expressing strong emotions towards each other: "Did you see the (made up) fight here the other night?" then make up a story why two people fought - something like fighting over a woman. You can push this to the point w…
/r/seduction17/11/14 02:03 AM
2

People are hard on that attitude just because they really dislike it when they feel that way themselves.
/r/seduction17/02/13 04:56 PM
1

I'm surprised he's comfortable talking that fast. Talking fast makes it hard to be persuasive and people who can't keep up quickly feel confused and uncomfortable.
/r/seduction10/02/13 03:34 PM
1

Get excited about what you don't know about her.
/r/seduction13/01/13 02:36 AM
3

Say more about who you think she really is.
/r/seduction13/01/13 01:16 AM
1

Nearly everyone posting is upset about the list, and based on their intensity a) there's truth to the list b) they break the laws.
/r/seduction22/12/12 08:05 PM
2

Spartan mom: Come back carrying your shield or being carried on it. Spartan soldier: Oh mom, I'm so sorry our culture put you in a position where you had to say that. You're feelings are the real casualty here.
/r/MensRights13/12/12 03:45 PM
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