foookie Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Any of you gentlemen had random chat invites from dubious single women that happen to read this sub? Obvious scams, my first for my years on Reddit.		foookie	/r/Divorce_Men	18/02/24 01:39 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	She’s Taking Everything, This Is Happening Now. How Do I Survive This Financially? I was in a similar position, I had used all pre marital funds to purchase all the homes I bought. 3 total. Number 3 was our “forever home “. After her infidelity, I filed and told her to leave. That was in February 2023, she was out by April, but it cost me two restraining orders while living under the same roof. All bullshit claims that were proven in court. I didn’t budge luckily because the judge allowed me to remain. She stopped paying a cent while pawning off all her jewelry and family heir…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/07/25 10:16 PM
1	She’s Taking Everything, This Is Happening Now. How Do I Survive This Financially? Point one, stop giving her any money unless it was court ordered. Point two. Has the court already ordered you to pay?that seems highly unusual. My only support was listening to my lawyer, it took me a long while to come to terms with it, it’s a process and only time can heal	/r/Divorce_Men	29/06/25 02:54 PM
6	She’s Taking Everything, This Is Happening Now. How Do I Survive This Financially? You never leave the marital home! That’s rule number one. This all needs to be taken care of in court, you need good legal counsel. Listen to them. But if you left the marital home you screwed up, stay put until a decision is made final. Usually in such cases depending on the length of marriage and if both names are on the deed, the house will have to either be sold to satisfy the court agreement or one party buys the other out of they can afford to. This usually means refinancing and taking a h…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/06/25 03:32 AM
1	Is it true that there is a strategic advantage on filing first? We have no children. No advantage whatsoever	/r/Divorce_Men	19/06/25 11:29 PM
5	Very very few women actually lift a man up and make them better people One of the main things I have taken away from my ordeal and something I need to remind myself when I start to regress is to make your life "Your Life" do not stop doing what you like for a woman, keep your hobbies and interests. If she doesn't want to come along for the ride, then go solo.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/03/25 06:26 PM
6	Where to move after divorce I wish I could find this magical substance called “ emotional support “ For many men, including myself it’s merely a word I’ve read online. Your ex wife on the other hand will basically get a ticker tape parade and crowd surfing on a wave of emotional support. Get a dog or a gym membership or both. That’s it.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/06/24 04:30 AM
4	Get divorced to be the fun dad you always wanted to be Fuck “most people “ it’s a make believe movie it’s all fake and the kids know it. This American puritanical culture is sickening. Go to Europe and turn on the TV. There the violence is more likely to be censored than the sex. Here it’s opposite. God forbid we hear naughty words on tv here, we even overdub movies on network tv. It’s laughable. Op keep up the good work!	/r/Divorce_Men	30/06/24 02:45 AM
21	Your Post-Divorce Perspective Of Women Can’t trust any of them ever again. If they like you they will make it very easy for you, if you get mixed signals then they’re not interested. The same ones that blew a guy in the back of an Uber on a First date will make you jump through hoops if you’re not their first choice. Always be the guy in the back of her Uber getting his dick sucked on the first date! If you’re not getting genuine desire from her, move on. Don’t settle for anything other than what you expect from a woman. Don’t ever m…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/06/24 02:19 AM
6	Ex has new boyfriend - depths of despair You need to hear it. I was where you are now. Remember, when he “slips out” she is eager to get him back in. If she wears a necklace it’s dangled on his balls. She’s not the one. Remove the idea of her, and see her for what she is.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/24 03:38 PM
3	Ex has new boyfriend - depths of despair Yeah but she doesn’t, and is getting plowed by her new boyfriend. Move on. It’s over	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/24 03:29 PM
13	After a messy divorce, I (44M) been with my girl (39F) for three years, my kids love her, discussing marriage, and the dreaded body count info was revealed in a conversation in a bar. Thoughts? Abort mission, she’s a communal mattress. Disgusting. She will never be able to fully pair bond with you in the long term.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/06/24 02:23 PM
5	“I’m hurt” - wait, seriously? This to the tenth degree! Never ask a woman where you stand in the relationship or that you want to make it exclusive. They will let you know if they’ve interested, there wont be a shadow of a doubt. Looks like this one is gone op, time to brush off and start over	/r/Divorce_Men	27/05/24 02:51 PM
2	3 years and I still want to go home. Despite it all. Wtf?? That wall of text. Edit it	/r/Divorce_Men	26/05/24 02:20 AM
5	Closure possible? The divorce is the closure. Work on moving forward and leaving the past where it belongs.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/05/24 02:23 AM
1	Can I get a Hell Yea? Cheers to no more alimony!!	/r/Divorce_Men	18/05/24 01:47 AM
1	Did you find a happy marriage? You nailed it! My ex wife is a certified narcissist personality Disordered disaster. She’s gotten worse and worse. She’s now middle aged, flailing, dressing half her age and used as a communal sperm depository. She’s got me with the Hoover and discard before, I was still under the spell. I can predict her next Hoover these days. At this point all she wants is a reaction and that’s enough to feed her until she secures more supply. I was devastated at first, now it’s soo much better! I’d rather be…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/05/24 12:35 AM
1	Did you find a happy marriage? No we’re all divorced here, for one reason or another. You can use statistics and data to determine who initiated it though. No plans to ever get married again, lesson learned the extremely hard way. You’re in the bargaining stage now, sounds like she didn’t cheat on you? Or that you know of yet. That’s a plus! ; ) Bottom line : if she has checked out it’s over and done! They never regain feelings for you again. All attempts at reconciliation will be self serving and not out of love. If she can’…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/05/24 12:24 AM
1	Why do all the men here get into a panic over Mother’s Day? It’s like anxiety takes over. I could be wrong but I highly doubt the same sentiment is shared on the other side of the fence. My son is 8 and with me this weekend. I’ll have to buy his Mother’s Day present for her, it also happens to be her birthday. I’ll get the boy a card and flowers for his mom, I might even wish her a good day. I’m just happy she’s out of my life, she can go to Hell. Unfortunately until my son is old enough I’ll be buying her something for him.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/05/24 12:47 AM
11	Anyone is staying single permanently? I’m coming up on 47, legally divorced since December, she went to go “find herself “ last January 2023, it just so happened to be she found herself under another man. She had no problem dismantling the family for her fantasy affair. House sold, 50/ 50 custody, Child Support etc.. Completely devastated at the time and I still feel the sting from it from time to time. I have dated and had fun with a Handful of women since, but not one of them was I ever interested in having an actual relationship …	/r/Divorce_Men	13/04/24 02:03 AM
2	SBXW super friendly triggering me Are we the same person? Everything you wrote to the letter happened to me! All you can do is grey rock the fuck out of her! Really throttle it back to one word answers and leave her on read. These bitches all use the same script I swear. She’s only doing this as she’s done with everything else before, selfish self serving gratification and validation. If she sees you taking the bait, she’ll withdraw and discard like she did before. This patterns or reverberations as I call them will go on for as…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/04/24 11:13 PM
6	How do you move on If it doesn’t work out between them she might return to you as plan B. The relationship and marriage is over and you have to accept that. Even if she came around the mental images of her with another man penetrating her every hole and making a crime scene out of the sheets will always play in the front of your mind. You can never trust her again. The marriage you had has been nullified and you truly are better off being distraught now and going through the intense pain than a lifetime of slow bu…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/02/24 08:31 AM
12	Don’t mind being alone but I hate being lonely. My wife left me She doesn’t love you! Respect you or find you attractive. You got married too young to be honest, you’re very fortunate to not have children with her, she will ride many more dicks until she settles and has children with another man. You’re her friend she grew up with, a nice safe partner until she found the guy she would do anything with. She’s swallowed his seed and been reamed out, she wasn’t thinking about you at all when getting her back blown out several times and counting. You like many o…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/02/24 06:05 AM
7	My friend introduced his kids to new GF after 2 weeks Personally I’d never introduce a new woman to my son unless it was serious. And that takes time and commitment. I’m at the point where I’m perfectly fine with having occasional companionship. There will be no more falling in love for me. The more you treat a woman like a piece of meat the more they adore you. A woman should always be more into a man than a man into a woman. Once that dynamic shifts consider the relationship over. My opinion.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/02/24 02:39 AM
11	Will she ever regret or have any remorse for what she did? Personally I strongly believe that men and women cheat for different reasons. Men might step out for random encounters without any feelings for the women he’s cheating with. Women will check out mentally and look for “ better” they bet against you and think the affair partner is better, even if he’s a POS. They remove all their love and feelings for the betrayed spouse and attach it to the AP. They will only slink back if it doesn’t work out, hence plan B. A man can never take a cheating woman b…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/02/24 03:18 AM
7	Will she ever regret or have any remorse for what she did? The cracks will mend and the broken pieces will become stronger! You have to put in the work though. As trite as it sounds going to the gym is your best friend. If you drink, stop immediately. Get out there and meet women casually, take care of yourself like you would care for someone you loved dearly like your children. Be good to yourself and know the best revenge is no revenge. What becomes of her either good or bad is no longer your concern. She’s the neighbor that you don’t care about.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/02/24 01:33 AM
15	Will she ever regret or have any remorse for what she did? Same exact thing happened to me. Just know that the woman you married is long gone and may have never existed. I told APs wife and she didn’t care, she was mad that I even bothered. Your ex is this guys free to use sex toy and she’s perfectly happy playing that part. That alone should make her revolting to you. If it’s not him, another dude will meet your kids, you can’t stop her and just console yourself that you’re their dad and that they will always love you and no other man can take your pla…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/02/24 01:14 AM
1	Any of you gentlemen had random chat invites from dubious single women that happen to read this sub? Obvious scams, my first for my years on Reddit. I’m sure that woman get scammed as well, usually the stud in the military that plans go go on leave, etc. The difference is women, regardless of appearance will always have a guy in their inbox trying to get laid. They have far more real world options. It’s us men that have to rebuild ourselves after a divorce. Usually making drastic positive changes to their appearance and career goals, while the divorced single mother that works at McDonald’s is getting lavish praise from men inflating their s…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/02/24 02:39 AM
1	Any of you gentlemen had random chat invites from dubious single women that happen to read this sub? Obvious scams, my first for my years on Reddit. I feel bad for the lonely guys out there that want to believe and end up sending money. The same sad lonely depressed guys that go to Thailand and meet a “girlfriend “ and end up financially taking care of her whole village.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/02/24 02:20 AM
1	Any of you gentlemen had random chat invites from dubious single women that happen to read this sub? Obvious scams, my first for my years on Reddit. It was taken in a car, blonde with lip filler and a beach video showing just “her legs” Talked about yoga and going to the beach and eating Cuban food, like she read it in a travel guide. She sounded like a mamasan at a local rub and tug.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/02/24 02:13 AM
1	Any of you gentlemen had random chat invites from dubious single women that happen to read this sub? Obvious scams, my first for my years on Reddit. I had one that said she’s in Miami and sent me a model grade picture, and with a Georgia area code. She left a voice message and she is clearly in a different time zone I could only play along for a hours out of boredom and called her out. Yes a model just lurking in a divorced men sub looking for friendship with random divorced men. I believe lol. Guess something amusing came out of this	/r/Divorce_Men	18/02/24 02:05 AM
7	She wants everything She’s not getting what she wants. I went through two false restraining orders, having my car insurance canceled on me without my knowledge, endless misery. But I’m free now! And you will be too. Be cold, calculating, stay away from her physically and don’t text her anything. Do not leave the marital home! Make sure you’re there for the kids and if you can try to keep notes. I’m not much of a note taker, but for some it helps. When the dust settles, look back on this thread and at least crack a s…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/02/24 03:44 AM
16	She wants everything She’s farting out of her mouth, talking shit. Don’t sweat it and allow the legal process to unfold. My ex wife thought she was going to get half, I was able to prove that the money for the house came from separate property that I owned prior to marriage. She walked away with 4300 and I walked with a little over 100k and 50/50 joint custody and residence. She’s become a complete train wreck and I’m planning to take her to court to get temporary full custody. I’m willing to pay and fight for my so…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/02/24 03:14 AM
6	Got cheated on, feel like a simp. Stop sending her pictures! Let her feel the children’s absence, this is what she wanted, let her have it. She’s not your friend!!	/r/Divorce_Men	16/02/24 03:26 PM
4	Got cheated on, feel like a simp. No need to communicate unless it’s about the kids and it’s an emergency ‼️ I haven’t seen or spoken to that rotten cunt since October. I luckily have my father as a third party pick up and drop off. Unless it’s legally written that you need to “communicate “ cut all ties expect for the kids. Also like others have said you’re not even close to over her, stop kidding yourself. Also stop blaming yourself and calling yourself a Simp. This is on her, she betrayed you and destroyed the family. She wil…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/02/24 03:16 PM
1	Ruminating, almost non-stop After she’s finished with her boy toy she will find a sucker that doesn’t realize how ran through she is, how many lies she told and how she destroyed a family out of pure selfishness. For now she’s living it up, wearing the miniskirts and heavy makeup at the club, grinding on every dick in sight. She has a double masters but lost her job and now works at McDonald’s of all places. She’s found her tribe of perpetually single middle aged sluts that mostly subside on welfare and child support. Good…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/02/24 12:55 AM
11	Ruminating, almost non-stop Mine turned a complete stranger, I truly know now what it means to be discarded like I meant nothing. Hers stemming from an affair. She really went all out for this guy and morphed into his plaything. She fell for him completely, a married dirtbag that knew she was “married”. Her dormant libido came alive and I discovered many naked pictures and dozens of selfies she sent him and all the love quotes and texts about sneaking around. I was devastated. The approaching signs were there, but I was bl…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/02/24 06:02 PM
5	If she was drowning… I wouldn’t be anywhere near her in the first place.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/02/24 02:28 AM
3	Single Divorced Men, how are you dealing with the void on Valentine's day? I went after work and visited my mom’s grave and shed a few tears, then went home and rested for a bit and just came home from the gym. I had my son the last couple days and I’ll have him this weekend. In the void I exist.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/02/24 02:22 AM
4	Why is it so hard to watch recent ex wife date? Only actions matter, I’ve realized words are empty especially from a woman thats left. At least in my experience	/r/Divorce_Men	14/02/24 03:39 AM
3	Why is it so hard to watch recent ex wife date? It still hurts me knowing that she’s out there, she runs with a group of perpetually single middle aged single mothers. She’s 43 and back in the clubs every weekend wearing mini skirts and grinding up in dudes. I think she’s dating a guy 12 years younger than her now, at least that’s what my son told me. She’s turned into a completely different person than I knew. I have no contact with her and pick up and drop off is at my father’s house. I haven’t seen her in person since October. I think it w…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/02/24 03:19 AM
2	So disappointed in myself. Today she texts me to see how he is after I put him on the bus. She tried calling him and my father first. I let my anger get the best of me and let her know that she sent him to spend the weekend with me, even though I have Covid that she reached a new low and was a disgrace as a mother, just so she can go twerk her ass off and get banged out by a dude she could have babysat at one point. I know I should have remained silent, but it’s been simmering all weekend and if she didn’t message I would…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/02/24 01:41 PM
11	So disappointed in myself. I feel you brother, I had a horrible weekend. I spiraled and fell into pain shopping and it has set me back to square one. Context: My ex wife started an affair a year ago and I discovered mid February 2023. It absolutely destroyed me and I was non Functioning for months. I was so hurt, traumatized and betrayed. I did everything wrong once I discovered, I tried to illuminate the years and memories we shared, I did the pick me dance, I went crazy trying to find truth after so many lies and denial…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/02/24 02:57 AM
33	Met with Ex After 7 Months Divorced without children, no contact for life! There’s no need to show her how stoic you have become. She treated you poorly, abused you mentally and financially. This is not a person you grab drinks with. Block and delete her, number, social media and any pictures saved. Erase her! And continue to do well without her.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/01/24 05:08 PM
7	I don't get it Get away from this disgusting disaster of a human, get a lawyer, file, document everything. She’s not fit to care for the kids, get awarded custody and leave her in the trash bin she belongs in.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/01/24 02:54 AM
13	Confession At best you might get trickle truth and extreme minimizing. You will never know the full extent of her betrayal. Grey rock the fuck out of her, delete everything, block on social media and if you have kids only communicate about critical issues and custody matters, and only through text. Remember this person is not your friend! They don’t care or love you at all, in fact they took your love and trust and wiped their ass with it, do they feel longing for used toilet paper? Of course not, they fee…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/01/24 12:32 AM
6	It gets so much better There’s missing logistics here, what happened to the house and mortgage payments, were you on the deed? Are you officially divorced and what was the financial impact? It’s great to pack up and ride off into the sunset to start a new life, but there are many loose ends to take care off. It would be nice to offer insight into those for fellow childless men to consider.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/01/24 03:27 PM
5	Fought so hard for joint/equal shared parenting. Similar issues, I ended up with 50/50 joint custody and residence yet I’m still paying her monthly child support! I made slightly more than her and now I’m on the hook for another decade	/r/Divorce_Men	19/01/24 04:07 AM
7	One marriage enough? Or more to come. No never getting married again! I’m fine with occasional encounters for now, I might find a companion later down the road. I’m not looking for love at this point, and If see it, I’m running the other way. I’ll live alone and be there for my son, if I live long enough to see him as an adult I’m hoping he will want to hang with me. That’s my only wish.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/01/24 03:59 AM
12	How did you finally decide to pull the trigger? She had an exit affair, and denied everything until I discovered on my own. She continued to lie and deny everything even after. She wanted the divorce before I truly discovered even though the signs were there loud and clear. I granted her last wish and served her.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/01/24 02:23 AM
3	In case you are missing your ex-wife today... Whenever a woman says that, we need to add a “with me” to it. I had similar experiences, I thought she had a low libido due to her antidepressants. I was convinced until I started seeing her change and the packages of lingerie showing up to the house. Then discovering the texts and pictures and videos. I was in shock. Her inner slut was unleashed, it was just “with me” after all the years. She showed me her moves on a couple occasions when she pretended to love me, it was only to extract money. …	/r/Divorce_Men	17/01/24 01:44 AM
5	In case you are missing your ex-wife today... Nothing spells complete lack of sexual desire like having her point out how she didn’t like me chewing my food. I used have these stupid internal motivational speeches to myself about how I’ll be able to seduce her all over again and she will start giving me amazing BJs, I was so out of touch with reality and all the clues were all there. I should have ended it many times over, I kept letting it slide, until she’s doing the banana slide on some other dudes dong now. I did get a couple of these m…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/24 08:56 PM
10	In case you are missing your ex-wife today... The truth always comes out! Remain the course and accept the coldness and cruelty. It will eventually subside once she realizes that she can’t break you. Women run on emotions not practicality, all the things we shared and the years together are forgotten in the now because of how they “feel “ in the present. She’s shown you her true self, the one she was all along, but we were too blind to see, the mask has dropped off. Rest assured she won’t change ever, it will all be performative in the begi…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/24 02:09 AM
10	In case you are missing your ex-wife today... Wishing you all the best and a good and prosperous life. I’m starting from inside the hole, somewhere during this process a rope was tossed in, I’m getting stronger and I’m going to fucking climb out even if it kills me. I’ve already dipped my feet in the dating world and let one go with a “ wish you well” after realizing that I know what I want from a woman and I’m not compromising. And by what I want, I don’t mean anything superficial. There’s character traits I won’t tolerate, once I see that…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/01/24 10:35 PM
10	In case you are missing your ex-wife today... Good on you brother! I ebb and flow. The rumination’s and mind movies arise on their own. The thoughts flood my brain and the cut reopens so easily. I’m still working through it and I’m around the same timeline as you. This past weekend was one of survival, one second at a time. I made it through, again. To feel true indifference, to have the memories grow faint and distant, to not feel anything when they surface. These are the things I cling to.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/01/24 09:45 PM
24	In case you are missing your ex-wife today... That and they have a way of turning an “Alpha” into a beta through thousands of concessions over the course of years. By the time it’s over you’ve completely changed to keep the peace. By the end you’ve lost what made you appealing in the first place to them. Then they’re off to the next one like the years and shared memories and hardships and joys never happened. Men are the romantics for the most part, we usually will do anything to keep the family together even if we have to cut a piece of ou…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/01/24 09:40 PM
5	In case you are missing your ex-wife today... My “ roommate “ will eventually get 60k in installments over the next decade. Even though I have shared custody and joint residence. I know barely a dime will go to the care of my son.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/01/24 09:33 PM
19	In case you are missing your ex-wife today... I don’t miss the withholding of affection, the one sided arguments about me not being able to read her mind. Getting yelled at for making decisions that would better our lives, the side hugs that lacked zero affection, being yelled at for how I chewed my food, guess the decibel level of me eating chips was revolting to her. Also she really knew how to ruin a holiday or family vacation, she cried in the airport more times than I can remember then give me the silent treatment. I’ve yet to figure o…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/01/24 04:49 PM
13	How many of you got arrested during your divorce? I had two restraining orders placed against me. I had to spend a couple thousand dollars to clear my name of the false allegations. Once my lawyer subpoenaed her workplace and I was able to get the police report that I filed for proof she knew she was had and dropped the orders. During that time I was in constant worry that the police would come and arrest me. It took over two months of constant fear and walking on eggshells to finally have it dropped. All of it was retaliatory and false, family…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/01/24 04:35 PM
2	Revenge on stbxw I wrote those words from horrible personal experience. I wrote it as a wakeup call. You need to protect yourself; this person can only hurt you, break you, destroy you and your physical and mental wellbeing. Try not to allow it. There's going to be so many bad days you will forget what it felt like to be happy but keep going! don't stop and do not look back. Time will wash most of it off, if we persevere.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/01/24 01:54 PM
2	Revenge on stbxw I blocked all her family and friends and anyone else who I think might be associated with her. Deleted all pictures and memories. I try to stay positive and strong, but this weekend was her weekend with my son and it wasn’t easy. When people ask me how my weekend was on Mondays it’s hard to say it was good at this point. I lost a lot, not just financially, the ability to feel joy is absent and I haven’t had a genuine laugh in a long time now. The betrayal takes so much from the betrayed. It’s de…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/01/24 12:14 AM
9	Revenge on stbxw Forget about her and what she does, she’s irrelevant now. Save your energy and wellbeing for the care and upbringing of your children. There’s no revenge to be had, look what you wrote, you want to give a heads up to the guy she cheated on you with to let him know she’s cheating on him? For fucks sake man, pull it together! This is absurd and incredibly emasculating behavior. Grey rock, go silent. You don’t have to “ co parent” you can parallel parent instead. If you are living apart, try to use…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/01/24 03:27 PM
18	Total Change of Persona and Identity Her metamorphosis started before I officially found out. Straightened her hair nightly, it’s usually curly, makeup, perfume, new outfits, nails done weekly, packages of lingerie. She had her eyebrows done and started ozempic, lost weight and then the above started gaining frequency. I knew her as frumpy, rarely ever wearing makeup and certainly didn’t bother with lingerie and the sex was a chore for her. This is the new her at 43.She went to great lengths to be a side chick to a married scumbag.…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/01/24 02:17 AM
3	Is it selfish to want to be happy? Agreed. I learned from my ex wife that I’m not in fact a mind reader, he needs to actually tell her how be feels. And the fairytale is just that! My ex wife signed up for the fairytale and is now a cashier at McDonald’s and is on the roster as a side chick to a younger married scumbag. She lost everything, her dream of getting half didn’t work out and walked away with 4300. I pocketed 6 figures and shed a horrible person from my life. Dating at this point doesn’t excite me at all, I’m definitely…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/24 06:12 PM
3	Selling my babe 😮‍💨 Taking my car to carmax this coming week and selling it them. It’s paid off, but I don’t want the memories. I’m purging everything	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/24 04:04 AM
4	Last Longer Just beat off before if your drive is that high, the prolactin release from ejaculation will prolong the refractory period and when you do actually have sex you will last longer. That or make a joke, tell them you’re super horny and this round will be quick, usually they stick around for another round and if you still bust super quick then I’d look into taking something to make you last longer.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/24 03:04 AM
6	Is it selfish to want to be happy? Exactly, You’re a fit financially stable guy at 46. You’ll find your options being a plethora of single mothers, and possibly younger women that want to start a family with a safe, financially secure guy, they sure as shit don’t care about your exercise regimen. It’s about settling for them. Yes, you can have a lot of intimate encounters, you’ll find after a while it’s not that fulfilling and it may even become a chore to juggle multiple conversations and women. This coming to you from a fit 46 …	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/24 12:59 AM
16	Is it selfish to want to be happy? Read those marriage vows again. They should have meant something to you. It’s one thing if you’re betrayed or there’s any type of abuse mentally or physically, but this ain’t it. Let her know exactly how you feel, be honest and don’t hold back if this is what you truly want. Know that everything we do has a consequence, good or bad. You might come to see you threw it all away, maybe not and your dreams become a reality. Just if you do, don’t marry again.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/01/24 10:26 PM
3	I can't stand my stbxw Mine told me to wake her up when I got home from work to have sex the night before she told me she needed to “find herself”. That same afternoon I noticed before I went to work she was all dolled up with makeup and hair done when she came home. I mentioned it to her as this was unlike her. Her answer was that she was my wife. The rest is just another variation of the same story that’s happened to many men/ husbands. It was torture for too long, I did everything wrong, not so much to salvage the …	/r/Divorce_Men	12/01/24 03:21 AM
15	I can't stand my stbxw Hate to say this, but there’s almost always another man in the picture when they say that. Let’s say this is a complete anomaly and there’s no other swinging dick to monkey branch to. Once she uttered those words it’s over! And it has been far longer than you knew. Women completely detach before the man even knows what happened, she’s way ahead of you and you feel blind sided. The only mantra that needs to be said about her from now on is “I Don’t Care”. Say it every time a painful thought comes…	/r/Divorce_Men	12/01/24 01:03 AM
1	ED after divorce Did you have your prolactin checked? That can cause some issues. But I’d put money on a normal response to a life altering event and traumatic experience. It takes time.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/01/24 01:56 AM
4	She left after 33 years Yup got the I need to “find myself” speech after I found out in the weeks to come she found herself under another man. Divorced now, shared custody, went through hell and two false restraining orders against me. Had to sell the house , spent thousands in lawyer fees and credit cards debt. Now I’m in an apartment at 46 after working my whole life to provide and give us a good life with stability. The guy she “ found “ is a younger married man and has settled well into the role of side chick, lost…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/01/24 07:16 PM
3	The loneliness is the hardest part Block your ex on social media. I did that with my cheating ex wife. Block everything, delete the pictures, communicate only through text if possible. Erase her. Outside of conversations about co parenting if kids are involved, consider your ex wife dead. I’ve also complained to prospective women about my ex and how badly hurt I was and to be honest still am. It’s a huge turn off to them, they aren’t our therapists. I plunged in too early, had many encounters and now I’m stabilizing. I know what …	/r/Divorce_Men	05/01/24 03:21 AM