| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 9 | Why is it so hard to find someone who is successful at this in real life? | for_acedemia | /r/seduction | 16/11/18 05:53 PM | |
| 7 | How to not be scared of the competition involved when pursuing someone? | for_acedemia | /r/seduction | 22/05/19 06:06 AM | |
| 2 | Only like one or two people I meet I genuinely connect with. Rest just find me 'weird'. How to improve upon this and correct this? | for_acedemia | /r/seduction | 24/10/19 09:04 PM | |
| 1 | Can I practise deflecting shit tests with a wing? | for_acedemia | /r/seduction | 08/03/19 07:13 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 4 | Guys who are highly successful with women, was it always that way for you?Latino? | /r/seduction | 04/02/20 05:46 PM |
| 0 | Only like one or two people I meet I genuinely connect with. Rest just find me 'weird'. How to improve upon this and correct this?Nah dude, tried it. Too expensive plus it's absolutely shit in my country. | /r/seduction | 24/10/19 09:12 PM |
| 4 | Game isn’t needed if she’s attracted to you.This is utter bullshit. I've have had lots of girls attracted to me. It does get easier to approach them but it's impossible if you don't know how to lead them or what the fuck are you supposed to do Most of the girls I honestly didn't end up seeing again not because I'm not attractive (I'm tall, and a 7.5 atleast when it comes to looks) but because I have no clue what the fuck should I do with the attraction most of the time, and how to make it happen. | /r/seduction | 13/06/19 06:54 AM |
| 63 | is it over if a girl mentions her boyfriend in a conversation?I met my boyfriend, he casually mentioned I'm not gay. I now have a wife. | /r/seduction | 27/05/19 05:58 AM |
| 1 | If you think a girl is 'Out Of Your League'Best example in my opinion is Captain America (NO SPOILERS for Endgame here) In The First Avenger, he always saw himself as a weakling pushover kid, and after the serum he became really attractive but to Peggy, her love interest he still talked the same awkward way as before, he never realized how much he's grown from his previous self. | /r/seduction | 27/04/19 08:26 AM |
| 77 | If you think a girl is 'Out Of Your League'I totally agree with this. It's a bitter pill to swallow but you need to learn it. And the fact that you think she's out of your league is actually good. It just means you need to work on your social skills more, which means going out and learning to have more fun. Win win. EDIT: But I think OP is right where people just quit because she's hot. I think folks who do work on themselves have this problem at times too where they feel like they're not good enough for her. | /r/seduction | 25/04/19 07:07 PM |
| 1 | any latin american seduction brothers hereIts always much easier for Latinos lol :P The culture helps you guys. | /r/seduction | 08/04/19 07:57 AM |
| 2 | Where the fuck do people even pull!?Nah man, hasnt worked out. It almost always goes this way that the girls are repulsed by the fact that I'm trying a bit too much. | /r/seduction | 05/04/19 08:13 PM |
| 3 | Where the fuck do people even pull!?I can make friends, it's easy as fuck to approach if you're getting to know a person. I just can't figure out where do guys 'pull'. I go out to clubs etc. but no one ever really pulls. | /r/seduction | 05/04/19 06:27 PM |
| 1 | How do I get them to invest?Thank you so much! Helps a lot! Calling is one thing I seldom do! I have a nice voice as well haha | /r/seduction | 31/03/19 05:36 AM |
| 1 | How do I get them to invest?That rings a bell, but I dont think I understand it completely. Can you please elaborate? | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 05:27 AM |
| 3 | How do I get them to invest?I honestly do follow the threads, even show empathy at times. I think I do all the things you mention, involving sharing the world (Sharing my world backfires at times, since the girl is like 'Why are you showing me all this?', but it works great if she's interested). Infact today itself I did all the things you mentioned. This is someone who even gave me her number (from instagram btw) and talks regularly, but its usually I who sends in the 'hey, sup?' or something similar. I'm always initiatin… | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 08:12 PM |
| 5 | How do I get them to invest?Touche! That totally explains my thing. I have a few girls who seldom initiate but that's so out of the blue that I don't even consider it at times haha. It's too much investment from my side mostly. | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 07:05 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean if the girl is trying to set you up with someone?So this is bad news :( | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 05:53 AM |
| 1 | How to fight racial insecurities?Problem is I'm from India where whites are a non existent demographic, and yet they are doing well in the dating scene. | /r/seduction | 25/02/19 10:19 AM |
| 2 | How to fight racial insecurities?Oh, sounds similar to Eastern Europe. | /r/seduction | 25/02/19 10:18 AM |
| 2 | How to fight racial insecurities?Yeah thanks man! I couldn't be more proud of being an Indian, I own it but yeah it just sucks seeing how we folks are mild behind in learning seduction! In terms of pure envy I'm envious of Latino guys! They're GOOD! :P | /r/seduction | 25/02/19 09:25 AM |
| 1 | How to fight racial insecurities?Having heard stories, British Indian guys are a hit amongst UK women and yes in mixed liberal areas they are sought after. | /r/seduction | 25/02/19 09:19 AM |
| 1 | How to fight racial insecurities?Agreed man! | /r/seduction | 25/02/19 09:18 AM |
| 2 | How to fight racial insecurities?Ah! That sounds great to hear. Actually the problem occurs when I don't see many Indian guys who happen to be players in media or in my immediate social circle. Seeing your friends and acquaintances fail at this and then hearing about how white folks have it way easy is what affects me so much tbh. But yeah after I started gelling along with white folks I realized it's a universal problem haha, it's just hard to find people who are good at this. I just wish I had someone in my life to look up to… | /r/seduction | 25/02/19 06:11 AM |
| 4 | Feels like I'm putting all the work and they are not even putting any effort to get to know me/ask me about my day.Makes sense, but how do I change my value proposition? I want people to desire me because I see a lot of my friends being desired, that's a normal need I guess. Have no clue how they do it though | /r/seduction | 21/02/19 08:10 PM |
| 5 | Feels like I'm putting all the work and they are not even putting any effort to get to know me/ask me about my day.Thanks! The video was of help. Problem is I don't have a ghosting problem, I have a her being interested enough to have a conversation but not interested enough to start it or hit me up problem, hope you get what I mean. I'm not needy, I make her qualify and I have friends. I just don't know why I can't get her to be romantically interested/intrigued enough to be at the very least hit me up and have a deep convo. I'm good at getting equal conversations now. | /r/seduction | 21/02/19 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Feels like I'm putting all the work and they are not even putting any effort to get to know me/ask me about my day.I don't get one word replies, but idk why I have to do most of the communication. And I don't get it if she wants a date or not. I mean, if I compliment them or say they're cute they change the topic and just say 'Thank you', feels weird when she doesn't reciprocate. I'm good at making new friends now :P The major problem is they're plain nice to me, sometimes hit me up but aren't falling head over heels for me. | /r/seduction | 21/02/19 08:07 PM |
| 2 | From afraid to look a girl in the eye to getting laid frequentlyWhen I make friends, I just don't seem to understand how conversations differ if you want to pursue her romantically or pursue her as a friend. Flirting makes it awkward at times, so I usually stick to talking about topics like dating and relationships while me throwing 'you look cute in this picture' etc. and we usually convert into friends sharing each other's relationship problems. | /r/seduction | 28/01/19 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Where to actually find guys that are good at game?Maybe, I understand. I realize I do fuck up their vibe, and yes sometimes I feel needy and approval seeking hanging out with them because I really don't offer anything of any value. I want your perspective on this since your advice seemed spot on- I'm obviously not asking you specifically, but say if I were to meet you IRL What would make you want to hang out with me and teach me your stuff? I've tried joking around and making your day better but maybe I just don't get what people want to make y… | /r/seduction | 01/07/18 01:21 AM |
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