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Yeah sure, differences between individuals are big of course. Just that culturally, when trying to be dominant, it's easier for an American to come off as sleazy or annoying (which is probably what happens when women tell OP to fuck off). It's not that German / North/West/Middle-European women wouldn't want sex, they surely do. They just don't want to be tricked into it, or feel that it's unnecessary and unattractive that men act as if they're trying to trick them into it.
/r/seduction16/10/14 07:23 PM
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You have probably already noticed that gender roles in Germany are less rigid than in the US. Maybe women are put off if you're too masculine / dominant and would prefer a more balanced setting where both people are advancing the situation and taking turns in taking the lead? Also <3 that German women tell you to fuck off instead of trying to be politely vague. ;)
/r/seduction15/10/14 08:21 PM
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Women / girls are brought up like that. They're punished for communicating directly, and rewarded for achieving their goals in a sneaky, indirect way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/14 06:13 PM
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Forgot to add that I agree with the first statement. It's a bit weird that if he wants to have sex with her, and she wants to have sex with him, she should somehow.. err.. make it more difficult or complicated. I don't get that. If men want to complicate simple things, they should do it themselves ;)
/r/seduction10/08/14 04:03 PM
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Both fall into "fun" in my book :)
/r/seduction10/08/14 04:01 PM
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I think there are two somewhat contradictory forces which make people make out with multiple people in the same night. 1) Because it's fun. 2) Because they're insecure and it reassures them that they're attractive. Sadly, taken into account OPs age, 2 is a real possibility.
/r/seduction10/08/14 03:35 PM
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Not a sir :)
/r/seduction10/08/14 01:42 PM
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Are you easy? Maybe they like making out. Do you?
/r/seduction10/08/14 01:36 PM
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Funny that you brought up parent / child dynamic, which is pretty horrible applied to two adults. The parent is capable, and therefore in charge, and has the right to punish the child. The child is not capable, and needs somebody tell him / her what to do. Much more sexist than captain / first mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/14 08:09 AM
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Try nail polish. I met some guys from the US and they were wearing it. It's a new fad or something. Sexy as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/14 07:44 PM
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Do I need to post the compulsory "as a woman" reply here? I guess I have to. As a woman, and as a reasonable person, I disagree with pretty much everything m90 says. There's absolutely nothing wrong with having sex on the first date if both are into it. Her way of thinking about it is very gender-normative. Like, if a woman wants sex on the first date, it's a "red flag". A man of course wants it because that's how men are, so it's not particularly a red flag, or what? But he should suppress his …
/r/seduction18/06/14 06:14 PM
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Oh God what generalizations. It might be because women have no soul... Are men still qualified to talk about how to seduce men? (Disclaimer, I disagree with m90 as much as you do. But we can apparently also disagree with each other about some specific points :)
/r/seduction18/06/14 06:06 PM
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It's different because women and men often want the same thing (they just go about it differently). There's necessarily no conflict of interest, like in the case of a fisherman and a fish. Would be more fruitful to stop thinking about it in terms of a predator and a prey... Oh well, women do that too, saying things like "guys like the chase" and then trying to strategise about how to get the guy to chase them and how to make the chase interesting enough for him... brr.
/r/seduction18/06/14 06:05 PM
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I have no idea who's "they". Neil Strauss? Tbh, intelligent men also want to be told they look good. I don't know about what non-intelligent men want and whether they want to be told they're smart.
/r/seduction15/06/14 04:46 PM
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The knock knock joke opener is a good idea. But it's a dating site, and you send her a lighthearted message, so of course you're interested, no need to iterate that with fake compliments. If she's really good looking, and you say she's pretty, it's a bit "d'oh, of course I am" (it's a bit like saying to a math PhD "you're pretty good at math"). If she's not, she'll be like "eww, a fake compliment to get into my pants, that's icky". But idk, the reality doesn't seem to fully support this theory. …
/r/seduction15/06/14 02:39 PM
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Great post! One thing though... Disclaimer: I play the okcupid game too, but in the other team (I'm a woman, hitting on young men). I wouldn't tell her she's pretty, at least not so early. That's a standard stupid fake and obvious thing all the online creeps tell you. "You're pretty, wanna go out?", eww, nope. It doesn't mean anything, at least not anything else than "I want to get in your pants and I say this because I figured it makes it easier". I wouldn't compliment her at all in the opening…
/r/seduction15/06/14 12:12 PM
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We'd still need to know how many people marry virgins, to be able to say if they're overrepresented in /r/deadbedrooms. If 50% marry virgins, then it's in balance. If 10% do, they're overrepresented. I have no idea since I'm not from the US. Here it's something low like < 5 %.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/14 07:33 AM
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This message pretty much maxes out how attractive it's possible to be based on one reddit message. This has all the right things and more. You win the Internet today.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/14 08:48 PM
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<3 that wording. Even if the woman is the more educated partner, she "gets help" in housework. Because of course the main responsibility is still hers, no matter if she has a cooler career...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/14 05:45 AM
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It only works if you can make it signal generosity, and not just that you want to get into her pants. If you're buying a drink to a woman who is alone, it's really really hard to make it signal generosity. Story time! I was young, traveling with my then-boyfriend, an we met a middle aged couple in a bar. At some point, the man brings us drinks, for me he brought a manly drink, for my bf a girly one, because "he wanted to expand our views". That gesture was alpha as fuck. He got to decide what we…
/r/seduction30/04/14 06:54 AM
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It's a sign of generosity and generosity is attractive (it means you have so much that you can afford to share). "I buy you a drink, you owe me sex" is unattractive though.
/r/seduction30/04/14 05:42 AM
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Why is it okay to approach a woman who is with a female friend, but not okay if the friend is male? Even if the woman is alone, there's always a chance that she's in a relationship.
/r/seduction30/04/14 05:39 AM
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The failure rates are per year, not per intercourse.
/r/seduction25/03/14 10:25 AM
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I think the grin has potential to work as an even wider version :)
/r/seduction02/01/14 07:09 PM
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Female here. I fucking love guys who grin.
/r/seduction02/01/14 06:20 PM
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