forestdaydream Archive

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2	Since men on average have a physical advantage, is a gf (lightly) slapping one of her bf's cheeks in argument problematic? If your partner's love language is physical affection I imagine physically attacking him would "sting" all the more, even if you are objectively weak/didn't actually physically hurt him. It is disrespectful and emasculating. Physical violence is not a form of communication in a loving relationship and it is never okay, no matter the sex of the assailant.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/07/23 06:34 PM
7	trustworthy weightlifting youtuber (no e-girls) Check out megsquats and soheefit, both on instagram and youtube. Easily the best female weightlifting content available. Both are also relatively modest imo if that is a major concern for you.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/05/23 12:42 AM
2	How to handle/communicate small issues that upset you to your partner in a feminine way? Is this sarcasm? lol	/r/RedPillWomen	03/05/23 02:48 PM
10	Seeking advice: Is using a location tracking app on my boyfriend crossing a line? What I'm trying to say is that if you're looking to get confidence, it won't magically manifest as a result of monitoring his location. If anything that is a self perpetuating activity. More attention given to his whereabouts is less attention you could devote to your health, hobbies, interests, self-care, etc. You ultimately have free will and can do this if you'd like, but as you can see nearly every comment on your post is discouraging you from doing this. If you align yourself with the value…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/04/23 08:50 PM
21	Seeking advice: Is using a location tracking app on my boyfriend crossing a line? For your own sake, you need to come up with alternative coping strategies for your insecurities. Do you plan for the rest of your life to monitor your partners whereabouts? This is not sustainable. You're lucky he didn't immediately object to this. It is also not good that you weren't honest about your motives for using the app. What if the roles were reversed and he wanted to monitor your location at all times? I understand the fear of being cheated on, but think of it this way: Do you want a p…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/04/23 06:23 PM
3	Did I ruin my chances? How do you handle breakups? 23f "I felt justified, he made me almost go out and have casual sex I would regret later." How in the world did you come to that conclusion? You need to have some personal responsibility. Sorry to be blunt but you're way too old to be behaving like this. Let the poor dude heal and move on. I honestly don't think there's anything you can do to redeem yourself here. Maybe an apology and then strict no contact. From the details you give it seems you may have reacted too suddenly to some distance he was…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/04/23 07:04 AM
1	The "issue" with online dating Yes. I would go so far as to say social media and internet pornography also contribute to the "I can do better" attitude as well. There's just way too much stimulation in terms of potential "mates" out there. We didn't evolve to have infinite mating possibility at our fingertips. Not that people tangibly have access to all the beautiful people they view on dating apps/social media/porn, but from a biological perspective our brains didn't evolve with this, so these "parasocial" relationships must…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/04/23 05:42 PM
2	Boyfriend showing no signs of wanting to get married Have another heart to heart and express your concerns specifically concerning him wanting to move in with his friend rather than aim towards a future with you. After 2 years and considering both of your ages, if your desire is to be married to him, this shouldn't be aimless or undefined at this point. I strongly suggest against your plans on "opening up" the relationship. If your man has any self respect he will likely lose respect for you, and if he truly loves you he'll be crushed by this. I d…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/04/23 07:11 AM
2	Questioning my femininity Okay I see! I think that's totally understandable then, I would try not to worry too much (easier said than done). He sounds sweet. I would go so far as to say that him not getting into it may not even be related to your appearance at the time, it could have been just him getting too in his own head or something, but your appearance may have just seemed like the "obvious" rational conclusion to him. Men are also often very embarrassed if they can't perform/respond when appropriate because they r…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/03/23 06:06 PM
3	Questioning my femininity At the risk of being harsh, and take this with a grain of salt because I honestly don't know how common this is, but my experience with my long term partner has been no matter how I look (ill with the flu and bedridden, deathly hungover and vomiting all day, period "bleh") he has always expressed through both his words and actions that he thinks I am beautiful and attractive (and objecively I am just an average looking women). I know this might be painful to hear but your boyfriend's attitude ru…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/03/23 06:17 AM