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forever-nomor3/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/23 06:06 PM
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Manlet 🤣
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/25 07:17 AM
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Also reminds me of MMSLP where he talks about wives being subconsciously repelled by their partners semen so they avoid it by giving HJ’s and shit like that
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/25 05:19 AM
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My scale is not accurate and probably deserves a replacement. You're coping. Those two pounds ain't going to make no difference here. Stop giving your ex-wife unnecessary attention and keep going. You have a long way to go and every minute spent on people you have no future with takes away from that future.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/24 08:07 AM
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r/askMRP will give you the answers. You're a long way from home.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/24 08:25 AM
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You give me extreme scatterbrain vibes. Do you have any routine in your life? Shit you do on the daily to keep your mind right? Think some mindfulness or meditation would do wonders for you. Next to that I wonder what your diet is like with these stats you wrote down. You're weak. Think you're lacking adequate testosterone.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 10:25 AM
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You sound exhaustingly boring. All these numbers, percentages and summaries are getting you absolutely nothing. I think for you it’s a good idea to start looking for what you are trying to cover up with all this bullshit. You’re not starting over at square one, nobody is apart from the day you are born. My guess is that you’re still deeply in your woman’s frame and that you are trying to cover that up by not getting to the core of what it is in your OYS. I think this ultimately comes from a plac…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/24 05:43 AM
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Let’s not downplay the fact that OP is a fat fuck. Think getting down to 10% or 12% even would solve a lot of his problems. OP, your fat layer ups your estrogen and makes you a bigger pussy. Time to stop deering your progress away and focus on you instead of all these halfhearted attempts to get your dick wet. Your wife is not that into you at the moment.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/24 05:28 AM
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r/askMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/24 05:52 PM
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r/askMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/24 01:43 PM
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Boring is right. You were bamboozled by her beauty, forgot that AWALT, were more interested in her than vice versa, took way too much time, became an orbiter and FAILED.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/24 08:52 AM
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If you are waiting for her to come and rip your clothes off, that will come way way later. To clarify this. OP, you are not far enough in your game to recognize the fact that your woman is ready to build to the point where she wants to rip the clothes of your body. The fact that you're doubting if your woman is giving you IOI's is a tell in all of this. You will come at a stage some point in your journey where you're going to recognize the IOI's better and can build on that tension. You want to …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/24 06:08 AM
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but again, I didn't finish in her mouth or on her face. I keep telling her 'next time you are going to swallow it all' to let her know what I want. not sure how to make progress in this department, if I should push for it or do the opposite - act as it doesn't count for me and thereby make it interesting for her. I know this sounds twisted but I notice that whatever I push for, she rejects. easy: you stfu, grab her head and blow your load in her mouth... Or are you scared, pussy?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/24 12:01 PM
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I almost wanted to work instead of going to the gym tonight, but then I read your OYS and got scared of what happens to a man and his mind when he lets himself go.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/24 03:33 PM
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I got some advice for you: stop talking and thinking about your wife so much (and read more fucking sidebar) You are way too invested in her and it's time to cut yourself loose from all this crap. She is just a woman. Did you spin plates before her? It sounds like you haven't. In that case, good luck turning the power dynamics around. Your retroactive jealousy comes from seeing her above you and more experienced than you. You see the Chads she rode before you as better and bigger men than you an…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/24 05:06 PM
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Wtf are you rambling about, numbnut?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/24 07:43 AM
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Trying to fix sex is like trying to fix mother nature.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/24 07:41 AM
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The main thing I take away from the relationship part of your OYS is that you are the epitomy of the dancing monkey. She does X, you do Y. She does B, you do C. Doodoo dada, dance monkey dance. At the moment, you are not in control but she is. She holds the cards and you are just dancing to the tune of her power over you. It's going to take some time to break loose from this, but the best advice I can give you is basically echoing what has been said in OYS a lot of times: "Live as if your wife i…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/24 05:03 PM
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“It’s like sex is on your mind 24/7. I feel like that when I’m ovulating but you’re ovulating every day it seems.” Maybe my game needs to be a bit more subtle. More likely it’s just a shit test and I should not pay any attention to these words. I wanted to challenge it a little so I asked directly: “To clarify, are you shaming me for wanting to fuck my own wife?” You're processing her words with logic. She's just poking you to see how true you are to your own desire. Look at her words. She's not…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/24 03:41 PM
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OYS #24 BEST WISHES, MRP! Basics: Early 30’s, Weight: 195 lbs, BF: 14% SQ 250 lbs DL 300 lbs BP 240 lbs OP 140 lbs LTR 1 year plus together Read: WOTSM x 6, SGM 2x, MMSLP, 48LoP x 3, Art of Seduction x 2, Pook, Laws of Human Nature, Models, NMMNG Reading: NMMNG MAP: My MAP is to become a better leader by taking full responsibility for everything that is happening in my life. Becoming better at controlling my emotions is one of the first and most important steps toward that future. Sobriety: Stil…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/24 08:31 AM
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A big post with a lot of good information, but I suggest that you don't make it too complicated for yourselves: all social akwardness boils down to fear. For the big autists, that fear is huge, uncontrollable and turns into inner negativity. The social people have their negative voice under control and see their interactions as something positive. Remember that you’re not special, and that is a good thing here. Exactly. Nobody cares about you when you are a nobody so you have nothing to fear and…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/23 01:10 PM
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You’re no anomaly and got a long way to go. Get back to work.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/23 08:08 PM
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You said too much in your first response to her question on what time you will be back and it went downhill from there.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/23 08:00 PM
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OYS #23 Basics: Early 30’s, Weight: 195 lbs, BF: 14% SQ 250 lbs DL 250 lbs BP 225 lbs OP 140 lbs LTR 1 year plus together Read: WOTSM x 6, SGM 2x, MMSLP, 48LoP x 3, Art of Seduction x 2, Pook, Laws of Human Nature, Models, NMMNG Reading: NMMNG MAP: My MAP is to become a better leader by taking full responsibility for everything that is happening in my life. Becoming better at controlling my emotions is one of the first and most important steps toward that future. Sobriety: Still going strong. Li…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/23 10:10 AM
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"things are tight for a while" Her response: "It's always tight for you, daddy" Getting to a true fuck you money state is sublime This is my goal for the coming three years. I'm on my way to having my first 6 figure year next year and would feel like an idiot if I don't utilize that to start building my fuck you money type of freedom.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/23 06:12 AM
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Horns got that budget rizz..
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/23 03:47 PM
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Do you spend anything outside of that $3k a month?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/23 10:55 AM
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Do all of you faggots posting something in the likes of ‘welcome, brother’ don’t realize how gay this post is? OP frames himself like some hero that went through a spectacular journey while he is just another speck. OP, you’re not special. You don’t know anything. You’re looking for validation. Start posting in OYS if you want progress.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/23 11:54 AM
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Failure is only a part of growth if you allow failure to be your teacher. This is necessary for growth in any area of life. I do this almost by default. I always looked for stepping stones within my failures. Thank you for the notes man. Valid points.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/23 03:51 PM
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OYS #22 Basics: Early 30's, Weight: 195 lbs, BF: 14% SQ 250 lbs DL 250 lbs BP 225 lbs OP 140 lbsLTR 1 year plus together Read: WOTSM x 6, SGM 2x, MMSLP, 48LoP x 3, Art of Seduction x 2, Pook, Laws of Human Nature, Models, NMMNG Reading: NMMNG MAP: My MAP is to become a better leader by taking full responsibility for everything that is happening in my life. Becoming better at controlling my emotions is one of the first and most important steps toward that future. Sobriety: Still going strong. Lif…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/23 10:18 AM
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Yeah, good point. It's a matter of really implementing and staying consistent.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/23 09:05 AM
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Your upper body is relatively weak, which probably means your V-taper is poorly defined. Next to that, you're at OYS #7 and talking about the relationship probably being over. I think you have to rethink your timeframe. You've probably been a pussy for a long time. Shit ain't going to change that quick. One: you're not that deep into becoming the best version of yourself yet. Two: give her time and space to catch up. The fact that she's crying after good sex and reminiscing about the past tells …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/23 07:14 AM
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The mental side of PE is very important. Next to that, start reading into kegels and start doing them with consistency. This was the main physical factor for me in controlling my ejaculatory impulses. Once you can hold a strong kegel for 30 seconds plus, it will have a strong impact on your sex life. Ejaculation involves the pc muscle (the one you're training with kegels) throbbing uncontrollably. Imagine feeling this throbbing coming up and then controlling it by flexing it consciously.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/23 06:49 AM
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You're 100% right. Thank you man.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/23 02:48 PM
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OYS #21 Basics: Early 30's, Weight: 195 lbs, BF: 14% SQ 250 lbs DL 250 lbs BP 225 lbs OP 140 lbsLTR 1 year plus together Read: WOTSM x 6, SGM 2x, MMSLP, 48LoP x 3, Art of Seduction x 2, Pook, Laws of Human Nature, Models, NMMNG Reading: NMMNG MAP: My MAP is to become a better leader by taking full responsibility for everything that is happening in my life. Becoming better at controlling my emotions is one of the first and most important steps toward that future. Before I continue: Picking things…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/23 09:31 AM
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I get what you are saying to a point. However, I think style is much more than being inoffensive with your clothing. For instance, you can have a style that offends people in a way that they realize you have a better style than them. You will see it in their face. What is a neutral style to you? Do you want to blend in? That's not style, that's living in the frame of your environment. make sure they're clean and they fit I could go to Walmart, buy some clothing that is neutral, clean and will fi…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/23 07:49 AM
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Style is literally one of the easiest parts of RP to nail Real style & swag are not necessarily easy to develop. It takes some time to authentically pull off and it is a direct reflection of your inner work. The drip is on the inside.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/23 05:30 AM
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Squatting less than a dwarf is some crazy motivation.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/23 03:27 PM
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But muh back hurts! Sidenote: if this is the case you should also stop lifting in your gay ass running shoes.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/23 05:54 PM
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I was living a complacent fairy tale love life until my wife's hypergamy latched onto my throat. Why are you talking like your wife's hypergamy is something that attacked you? Hypergamy is the same thing that draws your eyes to a woman with the right characteristics for optimal fertility. It's her nature and you failed to live up to optimal mating standards. Don't fool yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/23 05:37 PM
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But you can't, right?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/23 06:44 PM
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Yeah, I get it. Sort of. You have to look at it like this: without the shit storm that got launched in your direction (or rather, that you launched in your own direction), you would never have taken the steps to become the man you are today. If your position today is one that you can live with and are happy with, by all means, keep at it. If anything changes, you are the only one who can follow through to press that button. Unless she does it, nobody is going to do it for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/23 06:43 PM
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I guess in this situation it really is ‘to each man his own’. For me the fact that you mention that shit didn’t add up and you had to find out her bullshit afterwards would be enough to press the permanent nuke button. I’d probably be gone the moment she went out that door for three months. You really thought she was pondering about it all on a few dates? Well, I guess you didn’t have any other options back then. Serious question: what would you do the next time something similar happens? And wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/23 04:20 PM
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From the way you write I wonder if you really understand what an IOI looks like. It kind of feels like you were heavily impressed by this fatso and it tainted the reality of things.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/23 03:57 AM
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I would get yourself a double dose of r/askMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/23 06:57 PM
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I can’t wait for the audiobook of ‘How to be a lame’
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/23 02:33 AM
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So what? You fuck holes, that’s what a man is supposed to do anyways. Don’t get all riled up about this, you will dig your own grave. You’re still looking for validation.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/23 02:41 AM
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It's like every time I fail at that I see it in a new and more disgusting light - it's a cope, and I'm an addict, and that's not the kind of man I'd respect, much less expect respect for from others. It's that self-respect that is crucial. Deep down you know you should stop drinking. It gets you 'sloppy' and you do things you wouldn't do in a completely sober state (even if it's one or two units). Still doing it regardless of this inner-knowing is what is killing the trust you have in yourself. …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/23 04:37 AM
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Hmm... Everything in your OYS just sounds a little bit... dull. Like you are not living on the edge of who you could be as a man. Mission: I continued to focus on me this week. Made an appointment for a massage. Made an appointment for a haircut. Went for walks when I needed to decompress. The words I use to describe my mission has changed, but it's still the same concept. I am using these weekly OYS' to flesh it out more. I am working to remove covert contracts and associated resentment. My mis…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/23 04:31 PM
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Then later, I thought, if she had just kept the slow drip going slightly quicker, I probably would have been happy with once a week sex and a twice a year blowjob, doesn’t she get that?! Did you really come to this sub to settle like that? Start deciding how you want to live and keep working towards that. This thinking is completely in the frame of your spouse.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/23 03:49 PM
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Watch your format. This shit reads like a runny pile of shit after a night of heavy drinking. Nobody can help you like this.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/23 03:38 PM
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Solid advice. Thank you, man.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/23 03:35 PM
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OYS #20 Basics: Early 30's, Weight: 195 lbs, BF: 10% LTR 1 year plus together Read: WOTSM x 6, SGM 2x, MMSLP, 48LoP x 3, Art of Seduction x 2, Pook, Laws of Human Nature, Models, NMMNG Reading: 33 Strategies of War, WISNIFG. Sidenote: I’m lacking in reading at the moment. Mission: My current mission is to become the best possible music producer within my specific scene. By owning this and leading on all fronts of my life, I strive to max out my potential as a man in life. Career: At this moment …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/23 09:05 AM
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The fuck? “What do you think you’re doing? Crawl to me”, “if you want to suck my dick, you have to beg”. Who's saying this? I'm confused. Are you fucking trans women now? What is new and intentional but garners good results, becomes natural in time. So it seems yeah. I guess you got sick and tired of plowing the same type of holes all the time. The next tinderella was lugging pots and pans to that same shitty AirBnB and blew me after producing a decent meal. I know Tinder has a niche for every p…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/23 11:51 AM
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Thank you brother! I will.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/23 04:48 PM
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OYS #19 Basics: Early 30's, Weight: 195 lbs, BF: 12 % LTR 1 year plus together Read: WOTSM x 6, SGM 2x, MMSLP, 48LoP x 3, Art of Seduction x 2, Pook, Laws of Human Nature, Models Reading: NMMNG, 33 Strategies of War, WISNIFG Mission: My current mission is to become the best possible music producer within my specific scene. By owning this and leading on all fronts of my life, I strive to provide an environment for my relationship & potential family to flourish in. Career: Still grinding hard at t…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/23 09:49 AM
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Yes, this makes sense. I think I am starting to make the connection, but I am going to let it sink in as much as needed. You know, applying it in my life without using my girl as feedback. Rather using my own mental as feedback. My main actionable point at the moment is clearly defining my own boundaries (on paper). Thank you for your patience and taking time to explain this.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/23 06:34 PM
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It's not your job to grow a woman into something, which also includes being in a relationship with you. I get that it is not my job to grow my woman into something. I think that is her own responsibility. The relationship part is something that still doesn't really resonate with me. The definition of a relationship is the way in which two or more people are connected, or the state of being connected. Not one, not zero. A man with boundaries defines the relationship, she maintains those boundarie…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/23 06:37 PM
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It's a bit cryptic so sort of. Could you ellaborate?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/23 06:30 PM
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Okay, that adds more context to the situation. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/23 05:08 PM
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I see a guy with too much going on in his head to even be in a relationship right now. So this is what I came to this sub for? To hear another man telling me that I have too much going on in my head to be committed to something? It's the woman's job to develop the relationship, not yours. I never really understood the significance of this statement. My personal thoughts are that it is a contradicting statement to being a leader. I get the fact that if you are the prize, you don't have to put bet…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/23 05:06 PM
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Basics: Early 30's, Weight: 200 lbs, BF: 12 % LTR 1 year plus together Read: WOTSM x 6, SGM 2x, MMSLP, 48LoP x 3, Art of Seduction x 2, Pook, Laws of Human Nature, Models Reading: NMMNG, 33 Strategies of War, WISNIFG Mission: My current mission is to become the best possible music producer within my specific scene. By owning this and leading on all fronts of my life, I strive to provide an environment for my relationship & potential family to flourish in. Career: Fully back to work. I only give …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/23 09:01 AM
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I will admit that I have am beta backslid in some areas (I work from home, don’t go out much, don’t lead as much sometimes and probably fail some shit tests) But I also lift weights, don’t back down from her, and call out anything disrespectful. There you go. It’s gotten even worse lately. She lays there, we argue afterwards and she is in a bad mood, etc Ah, so you give her bad feelings after having sex? Way to go champ she's probably looking forward to the next time... My birthday is coming up.…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/23 03:57 AM
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I think the fact that you're comparing me posting to taking a shit in a public place is hilarious. Like posting my thoughts on a sub with a bunch of (post-)pussywhipped men is some kind of mindless, socially unaware and selfish action I HAD to perform for the sake of my own health and survival.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/23 03:45 AM
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It makes more sense now. This also puts the perspective back to fixing myself instead of her, thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/23 01:18 PM
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What. In. The. Actual. Fuck?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/23 01:16 PM
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Ah well, keeps me sharp..
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/23 01:56 PM
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You mean me?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/23 12:45 PM
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You actually confirm? The line between sarcasm and actual advice is a fine one on this sub. I’m 6’4”.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/23 11:41 AM
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Hmm, might be. From your point of view, how would you deal with this? Just go about life and don’t pay attention to it (aka live in my own frame)? I might care too much about it which creates the situation in the first place lol.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/23 11:29 AM
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OYS #17 Basics: Early 30's, Weight: 200 lbs, BF: 12 % LTR 1 year plus together Read: WOTSM x 6, SGM 2x, MMSLP, 48LoP x 3, Art of Seduction x 2, Pook, Laws of Human Nature, Models Reading: NMMNG, 33 Strategies of War, WISNIFG Mission: My current mission is to become the best possible music producer within my specific scene. By owning this and leading on all fronts of my life, I strive to provide an environment for my relationship & potential family to flourish in. Career: I had a week off in Ital…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/23 10:23 AM
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Improving myself. I’m in an LTR tho.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/23 03:32 AM
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Anger problems? Probably. Married? No man.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/23 07:19 PM
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She doesn’t love you. She’s uncomfortable with the thought of not having you in her life. I highly doubt the fact that you will ever find what you NEED in the long term with this woman. You’re just not that guy for her. The best thing I would suggest in your situation is to dump this chick and go have some experience in your life. Learn to enjoy the feminine. Maybe along the way you find out that you’d rather enjoy the masculine because you definitely sound like you would.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/23 08:29 PM
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Harmful even! Sheesh.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/23 12:32 PM
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Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/23 12:05 PM
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You're talking like a little fat girl who's wife just got fucked by a real man.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/23 04:48 AM
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Ah, well. Just sharing my notes.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/23 09:42 PM
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Who banned who?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/23 08:56 PM
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You’re DEERing. It’s not about how cold/dry the comment was. Fighter points out that you are being needy in your interactions with your SO. You having so supposed pain in your nuts has nothing to do with authentic desire, but sounds more like a lame excuse to get another hit of validation. You point everything out in your OYS. Just keep yourself in check.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/23 06:55 AM
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It’s fairly easy. If you ain’t got your money sorted out you definitely don’t have the time and resources to spin five plates. I’ve been there and all you do to yourself is spread yourself thin and sap your energy.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/23 09:11 PM
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OYS #16 Basics: Early 30's, Weight: 200 lbs, BF: 12 % LTR 1 year plus together Read: WOTSM x 6, SGM 2x, MMSLP, 48LoP x 3, Art of Seduction x 2, Pook, Laws of Human Nature, Models Reading: NMMNG, 33 Strategies of War, WISNIFG Mission: My current mission is to become the best possible music producer within my specific scene. By owning this and leading on all fronts of my life, I strive to provide an environment for my relationship & potential family to flourish in. Career: Things getting a lot bus…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/23 09:32 AM
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You’re on a good path. You could even shorten your fogging by just answering with: “You’re right, I am not saying much.” You asking her another question behind it tells me that you deep down still care what she thinks about you not DEERing.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/23 05:27 AM
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Three hours after a post was made that there isn’t enough content on this sub you farted a turd out of your brain. I wonder how quick you start dancing around for your woman when she starts acting up.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/23 06:20 AM
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OYS #15 Basics: Early 30's, Weight: 200 lbs, BF: 12 % LTR 1 year plus together Read: WOTSM x 6, SGM 2x, MMSLP, 48LoP x 3, Art of Seduction x 2, Pook, Laws of Human Nature, Models Reading: NMMNG, 33 Strategies of War, WISNIFG Mission: My current mission is to become the best possible music producer within my specific scene. By owning this and leading on all fronts of my life, I strive to provide an environment for my relationship & potential family to flourish in.Career: I took a job installing b…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/23 04:05 PM
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It didn’t really shine through in your OYS, but in your comments it is clearer. Are you letting your wife’s apparent laziness still piss you off? Is she still finding a way to get under your skin? Are you going to be leading her with negative energy? Or are you going to leverage the positive vision you have for your wife? You have defined her in your mind as lazy, lethargic and a slob so that’s exactly what she will give you.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/23 03:37 AM
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Damn. This is extremely insightful. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/23 10:04 AM
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I've read your comment a bunch of times, but other than the last sentence I cannot seem to get the point. Could you ellaborate?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/23 05:52 AM
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Yes, especially in the last paragraph... Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/23 05:39 AM
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You want to be living of music or do you want to be a great music producer? What if, by external factors, you cannot make a living from your music but you'll still produce and make great music? Will your life be a failure? Those are good questions. And yes, I would still be doing music.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/23 04:24 AM
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So you spent the week realising you need to get a job but didn't actually do anything about it? I did: There are already some conversations going on for jobs and it looks good. ​ Your post could just be: Point taken. Too much talking...
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/23 06:00 PM
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OYS #14 Basics: Early 30's, Weight: 200 lbs, BF: 12 % LTR 1 year plus together Read: WOTSM x 6, SGM 2x, MMSLP, 48LoP x 3, Art of Seduction x 2, Pook, Laws of Human Nature, Models Reading: NMMNG, WISNIFG SOLE FOCUS This is another week where I want to differ from my usual format. I stopped with weed, alcohol and coffee a week ago. As I expected the coffee withdrawals were there, but they weren't as bad as I expected. This is probably due to the fact that I was only drinking 1 to 2 cups per day wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/23 08:32 AM
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Is it out of your system? Or is there more puke to come? I don’t know where you want to go, man. What do you want out of your life? Is this how you want to pass away your time? A fat slob complaining to a bunch of strangers on Marriedredpill? If you want to change, take action. Today or tomorrow. Read the sidebar, apply to a gym, spend your 40K on self-improvement and healthy food and keep it up. F*ggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/23 07:36 PM
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You are absolutely right. I have the same now when I smell cigarettes, which I stopped 9 years ago.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/23 12:10 PM
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Can you go cold turkey in all your addictions all at once? Yes, I can do this. I am not addicted to alcohol. I just really don't like it. Coffee is the shittiest thing at the moment because of the headaches and lethargy that come with it. Next to that, weed will be a more challenging thing to maintain since a lot of artists and producers I work with smoke weed. It will always be around me. Then it really comes down to my own discipline.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/23 08:07 AM
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OYS #13 Basics: Early 30's, Weight: 200 lbs, BF: 12 % LTR 1 year plus together Read: WOTSM x 6, SGM 2x, MMSLP, 48LoP x 3, Art of Seduction x 2, Pook, Laws of Human Nature, Models Reading: NMMNG, WISNIFG SOLE FOCUS I have decided this weekend to be sober. No more alcohol, drugs or coffee. The terrible experience I had with my own intoxication of alcohol this weekend was enough to make the decision. I am not going to say that it is these substances that are wreaking havoc in my life, since I am st…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/23 08:35 AM
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Man, there were several times that I got very confused while reading your OYS. Are you talking about your kids shit testing you? Do you have multiple wives? Does your wife have the they/them pronoun? Daily kino escalation, simple things like the arm graze, waist slide and grab, ass smack, brush against and pull close from the hips, ear nibble, 5 sec kiss, etc. you get the idea. ​ Quick wham bam mode ​ fuck me, no starfish mode, active participant both times You seem to do alright. Be careful not…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/23 05:24 PM
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I guess the good thing is that I am slowly removing covert contracts around sex, but on the other hand my libido has tanked and I am not creating a lot of excitement around sex. Your going through a normal phase since you recognised that you fuck for validation. You might have read Timeline: Escaping Sex for Validation, if not go for it. I only initiated twice as a result, the first initiation was during the evening when I stated that I wanted to fuck, and the second initiation was non-verbal du…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/23 05:10 PM
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Ofcourse she doubles down. She knows your capabilities now so she won’t settle for anything less. And why would she?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/23 02:10 PM
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Exactly.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/23 01:32 PM
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It’s expensive because it’s worth it. I get sex whenever I want it with a 25 year old who will do anything. If this is your mindset, wtf are you doing on marriedredpill? For now, I’m getting the outcome I want and staying with it. You say it yourself. For now. Indeed, if you don't take care of your mental models and fix your drunk captaining you are going to fall flat on your face again. I get it. New young hotter b*tch, a lot of novelty and mystery from your side since you are still in your div…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/23 09:22 AM
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And that's it? First of all, why are you asking this question to Reddit? You are the one that is supposed to answer this question. It is your life. No one is supposed to decide for you what you want to do with your life. Married or not. A single man chasing attractive women/sex seems to have a clearer/more specific goal. He tries to improve his looks, his money, his fitness, etc he's on the dating apps, etc What is this shit? Have you even read anything on this subreddit? Improving ourselves is …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/23 08:56 AM
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which I wanted to, but advice here was to not, fuck you guys I should have done it, resentment doesn't go away if the other person doesn't get to talk Fuck us? Fuck you for choosing the advice of strangers on the internet over your own intuition as a man. F*ggot. She is emotionally fucked up and I am the guide on strong sense of self now, not her. You read NMMNG two times right? You remember the part about believing ones partner is dysfunctional and taking care of that? Be careful with these kin…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/23 05:35 PM
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I don't like my wife most of the time And it shows. The part of your OYS talking about the trip you had is borderline pukey. I think that once you will start loving the dark side of her character and not getting aggravated by it things will start to change. Your wife feels that you are not able to be amused by her moods yet and will keep testing you until you do. I find it hard to don't DEER about past behaviour and that's exactly what my wife keeps bringing up - poor past behavior from me. You …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/23 05:23 PM
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I think it's a part of recalibrating after quitting porn.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/23 05:11 PM
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So it seems.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/23 05:07 PM
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Fair enough. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/23 05:06 PM
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OYS #12 Basics: Early 30's, Weight: 192 lbs, BF: 12 %, Squat: 5x245, Deadlift: 5x265 BP: 5 x 175 OP: 5 x 100 LTR 1 year plus together Read: WOTSM x 6, SGM 2x, MMSLP, 48LoP x 3, Art of Seduction x 2, Pook, Laws of Human Nature, Models Reading: NMMNG Mission: My current mission is to become the best possible music producer within my specific scene. By owning this and leading on all fronts of my life, I strive to provide an environment for my relationship & potential family to flourish in. Career: …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/23 08:37 AM
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I know SMART. How do I apply this in my relationship without scoreboarding?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/23 07:05 AM
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Yeah, I got it. What are steps for me to take to create more clarity around these subjects?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/23 03:34 PM
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What a bunch of meaningless nonsense. I like you too, but you don't have to be salty about it. You've been in a relationship for a year and you're very, very proud about how your partner wants to have sex with you. What are you owning here? Are you owning anything, or is this just an easy way for you to drop the fact that your partner sucked you off, as if that is somehow an important achievement we all need to be aware of. You are right, this was unnecessary humble bragging. Well isn't that int…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/23 03:14 PM
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You’re right, thank you. I touch on this in my new OYS.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/23 01:23 PM
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OYS #11 Basics: Early 30's, Weight: 192 lbs, BF: 12 %, Squat: 5x245, Deadlift: 5x265 BP: 5 x 175 OP: 5 x 100 LTR 1 year plus together Read: WOTSM x 6, SGM 2x, MMSLP, 48LoP x 3, Art of Seduction x 2, Pook, Laws of Human Nature, Models Reading: Sidebarring, NMMNG Mission: My current mission is to become the best possible music producer within my specific scene. By owning this and leading on all fronts of my life, I strive to provide an environment for my relationship & potential family to flourish…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/23 08:33 AM
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I do have a lot of respect for this approach, however it is not my style man. In moments like these I would rather go to the end of the earth shutting my mouth than give her attention. From my point of view, the moment I say: "Oh, are you giving me the silent treatment?", however amused I am or come across, I practically admit there is a situation going on where she is giving me the silent treatment because of X that I DID, therefore I move slightly into her frame of the situation. By STFU'ing a…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/23 04:00 PM
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like some sort of emotional yeast infection Ughh, gross... In the end, I am responsible for everything. You think asking things like 'What's wrong, baby?' or 'Why aren't you talking to me?' would be better options when she's obviously pissed and hence not saying anything? Don't think that this has anything to do with passive aggressiveness, more with exercising my power and boundaries.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/23 08:46 AM
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OYS #10 Basics: Early 30's, Weight: 192 lbs, BF: 12 %, Squat: 5x245, Deadlift: 5x265 BP: 5 x 175 OP: 5 x 100 LTR 1 year plus together Read: WOTSM x 6, SGM 2x, MMSLP, 48LoP x 3, Art of Seduction x 2, Pook, Laws of Human Nature, Models Reading: NMMNG, SGM Mission: My current mission is to become the best possible music producer within my specific scene. By owning this and leading on all fronts of my life, I strive to provide an environment for my relationship & potential family to flourish in. Car…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/23 09:02 AM
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just because someone is a vet, doesn't mean they're right or they know our particular problems. Do we have to DEER to them? No. I think it's a test they do to test our frame. If we DEER to them, we also DEER IRL, for sure Some people will just dislike me, doesn't matter why (On MRP and IRL) and that's OK You're right and both go hand in hand. I do this too. It's not always about the point itself, but more about the underlying reactions of the players within MRP going back and forth. If some rand…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/23 12:52 PM
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Yes... Back to the grind...
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/23 08:51 AM
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All very insightful. Thank you. In other words, I'm only in control when I have the time and space to make myself feel like I'm in control. Which indicates that you're not actually in control - it's a battle for you. Which means it's not 'you', it's a version of you that you're trying to keep up for appearances. Could you clarify this? Are you saying that once I get closer to myself, there are no more battles? Are you saying that there is such a thing as complete control?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/23 06:05 AM
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One hundred percent. I need to check myself with being a lazy fuck on holiday and then complaining about not exercising later down the line.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/23 03:42 PM
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Thank you for the reality check. Points definitely taken. FFS, a girl calling you “daddy” is the easiest thing to handle. Tell her fun stories, give her an emotional ride, bring some action & energy, and call her your little fucktoy (I’ve yet to come across a girl who said daddy and didn’t love being called a fucktoy…anyone have a counter-example?) Yeah, I meant this as being a positive thing obviously... Nothing needed to handle there.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/23 03:41 PM
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But being a captain means being a leader and more often than not, I don't act like one While I love to point out a fagg*t's fagg*ttry, I am going to use this comment differently. Reading your OYS' over the course of the last few weeks there is one important factor that is keeping things back a little bit. It's YOU MF'er! You are doing fine. You are becoming a very capable leader and your wife feels it too. Stop talking yourself down like this. How much progress have you made in the last few week…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/23 03:09 PM
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Whoa.. spot on..
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/23 02:53 PM
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You’re still blaming “circumstances” and your girlfriend for your own issues. Yeah, I completely agree. “No lifting or exercise since I’m away” - there are several options here. Day pass, hotel gym, hell even bodyweight exercises are better than nothing. “Shit food” - don’t eat the shit food “Couldn’t be alone” - go for a walk, to a bar, go see a movie by yourself. You don’t have to be around her 24/7 if you don’t want to. Especially the gym part rings truth (look at the comment from u/redmateus…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/23 02:53 PM
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OYS #9 Basics: Early 30's, Weight: 192 lbs, BF: 12 %, Squat: 5x245, Deadlift: 5x265 BP: 5 x 175 OP: 5 x 100LTR 1 year plus together Read: WOTSM x 6, SGM 2x, MMSLP, 48LoP x 3, Art of Seduction x 2, Pook, Laws of Human Nature, Models, NMMNG Reading: Sidebarring & reading posts, finishing NMMNG Mission: My current mission is to become the best possible music producer within my specific scene. By owning this and leading on all fronts of my life, I strive to provide an environment for my relationship…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/23 08:39 AM
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Rule 0: No exceptions There is 1 reason to be here. Learn/assist men in LTR's or marriages with Rule 0. TRP is about sexual strategy, period.Anything else, don't hit your ass on the way out. Getting another nut inside your woman should probably not be your main goal in life. Having said that, a lot of men come here because they lack the sex they want. Then they find out that the more they better themselves the more & more eagerly their woman actually wants to fuck. Somewhere in the middle of the…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/23 03:42 AM
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So, you had your first little post and you think you are Mr. Big Ding Dong right? Let me tell you something, f*ggot. You don’t know shit about my end goals. Rule Zero is that this is subreddit for sexual strategy. Next to that, if you think there are no wrong ways to do things, I think I am not the one who needs to keep my ego in check. F*ck outta here with your BS.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/23 04:46 PM
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In this particular case you dealt with it very well. I like a good success story. Still feels a bit like you made a perfect Tekken combination though. I wonder what you would do in a situation where you don’t know which specific tool from the toolbox you would need. Having said that, I also wonder how you fuck your woman. If you are playing Pussy Pong 3000 with all your tools out of the toolbox, I think you are doing it wrong. Go post in OYS. I made 10 times the progress in two months that I did…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/23 03:33 PM
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This is very insightful. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/23 04:06 PM
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OYS #8 Basics: Early 30's, Weight: 192 lbs, BF: 12 %, Squat: 5x245, Deadlift: 5x265 BP: 5 x 175 OP: 5 x 100 LTR 1 year plus together Read: WOTSM x 6, SGM 2x, MMSLP, 48LoP x 3, Art of Seduction x 2, Pook, Laws of Human Nature, Models Reading: NMMNG, SGM Mission: My current mission is to become the best possible music producer within my specific scene. By owning this and leading on all fronts of my life, I strive to provide an environment for my relationship & potential family to flourish in. Care…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/23 09:02 AM
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I have been hoping on a post like this from you. To me this shows the ultimate form of reflection. One that takes a bunch of years to really come to fruition. One that you couldn't have discovered by bypassing the essential emptiness of the other side. She. Was. Afraid. Fear and respect are close siblings. You have ultimate respect from your wife. Even to the point where she sacrifices her own craving for kissing you. From a rational perspective, you are definitely the one who holds most of the …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/23 07:51 AM
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Not knowing what I even want I would say that this is your most important point of all the points you made. Knowing what you want should be the first one and almost only one in my honest opinion. Since you are out of your relationship, the rules are more bendable to your preferences. Closing yourself off emotionally has nothing to do with putting yourself first. Latching onto women is different than opening yourself up emotionally (I'm not talking about a crying victim puke here). Giving your gi…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/23 08:05 AM
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That is a good question to sit down with and answer for the next OYS, thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/23 07:49 AM
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didn't read SGM I actually read SGM a bunch of times over the years.. Thanks for reminding me to read it again.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/23 07:48 AM
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OYS #7 Basics: Early 30's, Weight: 194 lbs, BF: 14 %, Squat: 5x245, Deadlift: 5x265 BP: 5 x 175 OP: 5 x 100 LTR 1 year plus together Read: WOTSM x 6, MMSLP, 48LoP x 3, Art of Seduction x 2, Pook, Laws of Human Nature, Models Reading: NMMNG Mission: My current mission is to become the best possible music producer within my specific scene. By owning this and leading on all fronts of my life, I strive to provide an environment for my relationship & potential family to flourish in. Career: I worked …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/23 08:43 AM
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No, you are missing my biggest point. I am not the grand master of STFU. It's not who I am, by default. I DEER and talk too much, by default. Change your identity from the inside and stop talking bad to yourself. Simplify your thinking. I actually thought on occasion I am a God's gift to women and when someone rejected me that was a blow to my ego. Start realizing that you ARE God's gift to women and people in general. It is just not up to you to make them forcefully realize that you are. THAT w…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/23 10:44 AM
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I don't know if anyone told you in the comments, but I think one of your problems is that you think and talk way too f*cking much man. Overthinking things instead of taking clear conscious action is a b*tch treat. Go meditate or something, clear your mind. After you have cleared it, watch what you put into it & thereby program yourself: My ego is not my friend. I'm not the coolest Alfa Chad that ever lived just because I can decently hold a conversation and I'm not afraid of eye contact. My game…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/23 05:23 PM
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Yes! Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/23 11:48 PM
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You’re right x2 !
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/23 11:47 PM
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OYS #6 Basics: Early 30's, Weight: 194 lbs, BF: 14 %, Squat: 5x245, Deadlift: 5x265 BP: 5 x 175 OP: 5 x 100 LTR 1 year plus together Read: WOTSM x 6, MMSLP, 48LoP x 3, Art of Seduction x 2, Pook, Laws of Human Nature, Models Reading: Nothing last week, which sucks Mission: My current mission is to become the best possible music producer within my specific scene. By owning this and leading on all fronts of my life, I strive to provide an environment for my relationship & potential family to flour…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/23 10:13 AM
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Being afraid of PE has always sabotaged my game. I'm more afraid of PE than being rejected. At least consciously. I didn't always had PE. I don't watch porn. This is something I need to fix. It may take weeks or months but it's something I need to fix. For good. Maybe it's the PE that makes me less confident, or the other way around, or they are tied together Read The Multi-Orgasmic Man. Look up PC Muscle. Start training your PC Muscle. When you have decent control over your PC Muscle, start edg…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/23 03:09 PM
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Welcome to OYS, f*ggot... Dread does not work as she has every confidence that a good Christian Marriage would never end in divorce (especially with kids around). Watch out with the bullshit you are selling yourself. Dread does not work because there is no dread. You are not there yet. You heavily violate Rule Zero. This sub is mainly there to discuss sexual strategy. Are you getting your dick wet? Probably not, since you are heavily avoiding talking about your relationship. Your career OYS are …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/23 02:47 PM
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I want to be self-employed. Are you keeping your goals for yourself or do you have no goals whatsoever? Wanting to be self-employed is too unspecific to get you to where you want to be. Your writing is very general. A lot of talk, but saying basically nothing. I spoke to my old lead guy and he wants to charge 3x what he was a year ago. I told him that I can do it myself for cheaper and he backtracked to try to get my business which I laughed and said I'll be in contact if I need anything. Nobody…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/23 02:30 PM
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Hey man, I'm 6'4". I also think my body fat percentage has gone up a little bit, but I have to double check professionally to be sure. I know my squat is strong in proportion to my other lifts and this always translates to leg machines. With all due respect, the body fat meters on homescales are usually goofy as hell...
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/23 02:02 PM
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OYS #5 Basics: Early 30's, Weight: 198 lbs, BF: 14 %, Squat: 5x245, Deadlift: 5x265 BP: 5 x 175 OP: 5 x 100LTR 1 year plus together Read: WOTSM x 6, MMSLP, 48LoP x 3, Art of Seduction x 2, Pook, Laws of Human Nature, Models Reading: NMMNG Mission: My current mission is to become the best possible music producer within my specific scene. By owning this and leading on all fronts of my life, I strive to provide an environment for my relationship & potential family to flourish in. Career: I am conti…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/23 10:18 AM
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During sex, I find myself focusing more on her pleasure.. validation maybe? For sure validation. Read this again. You just stopped porn, give yourself a little time to adjust. As a commenter said to me in my last OYS, with reps you will learn more about what is validation & not.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/23 10:09 AM
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Shittests and more shittests. Those are actually common. You did A&A which was great. Facts. No days off. Do you want a main event so she will finally be submissive and the shittesting finally stops? Or become lighter? Is it a covert contract? Perfect observation. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/23 10:00 AM
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First of all, before I point out your f*ggotry I want to take a moment to appreciate the fact that you stopped smoking. I also like the fact that you don't talk about it with the wife (look mommy i stwopped smwoking cigawettes!). Now don't be weak and go back. Okay, you talk way too much, man. Get to the point. The way to fix most things that need fixing is really have a plan to keep fixing things and stick to it. Something's I can fix, others I have to call specialists. The solar panel is broke…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/23 08:32 AM
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OYS #4 Basics: Early 30's, Weight: 194 lbs, BF: 14 %, Squat: 5x245, Deadlift: 5x265 BP: 5 x 175 OP: 5 x 100 LTR 1 year plus together Read: WOTSM x 6, MMSLP, 48LoP x 3, Art of Seduction x 2, Pook, Laws of Human Nature, Models Reading: Relentless by Tim Grover. Mission: My current mission is to become the best possible music producer within my specific scene. By owning this and leading on all fronts of my life, I strive to provide an environment for my relationship & potential family to flourish i…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/23 09:36 AM
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You claim to be RP but base your whole self worth on the image you think some woman thinks of you. I second this. OP's post reeks of missing a lot of fundamental & applied knowledge.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/23 10:44 PM
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Any advice on how to turn this around? Yes, get stuff right in your mind first. You are letting your thoughts take hostage of a situation that is probably way less bad than it seems. There is obviously a lot of family dynamic going on here. The dent in your confidence probably comes from a childhood insecurity of feeling less than your brother & competing with him. You project this insecurity onto the whole situation. In the end you are your own man. It's probably not that deep. Are you scared t…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/23 10:40 PM
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You're 100% right & it seems to get more subtle as I progress. Thank you for seeing through it!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/23 07:43 AM
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OYS #3 Basics: Early 30's, Weight: 194 lbs, BF: 14 %, Squat: 5x245, Deadlift: 5x265 BP: 5 x 175 OP: 5 x 100LTR 1 year plus together Read: WOTSM x 6, MMSLP, 48LoP x 3, Art of Seduction x 2, Pook, Laws of Human Nature, Models Reading: Primarily been sidebarring on holiday. Will get back to NMMNG when back home. Mission: My current mission is to become the best possible music producer within my specific scene. By owning this and leading on all fronts of my life, I strive to provide an environment f…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/23 06:00 PM
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Surely your time could've been better spent doing pretty much anything else. Yeah, like scrolling through Reddit. Heavily improving says absolutely nothing. Planning to lead means absolutely nothing. You could've just said 'nothing happening in this space' and it would've been just as accurate. Points taken. Next OYS I'll state more actions,
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/23 06:59 AM
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lol i had to delete my last username & start over but this is exactly what I said last week...
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/23 11:19 AM
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OYS #2 I posted my first one under another username I deleted last week. Basics: Early 30's, Weight: 194 lbs, BF: 12 %, Squat: 5x245, Deadlift: 5x265 BP: 5 x 175 OP: 5 x 100 LTR 1 year plus together Read: WOTSM x 6, MMSLP, 48LoP x 3, Art of Seduction x 2, Pook, Laws of Human Nature, Models Reading: Too little this week... Mission: My mission is to max out my potential as a man on all fronts by relentless self improvement. Next to my primary focuses, which are my career in music, finances & physi…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/23 11:13 AM
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