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1	Have any guys lost custody of their kids but got 50/50 later? How long?		foreverand2025	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/26 08:59 AM

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1	Have any guys lost custody of their kids but got 50/50 later? How long? Yeah I have plenty of that stuff. And the situation we’re in they are going to interview the kids who should plainly tell them how much time I spend with them and how much more I do. The whole thing makes me want to throw up sometimes. I’d even pay my wife monthly and do 50/50 just to be done with this shit and know I at least get 50% time with my kids. Wish I could fast forward to the end.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/26 05:02 PM
2	Have any guys lost custody of their kids but got 50/50 later? How long? Unfortunately I don’t have a silver bullet like that beyond enduring years of emotional and financial abuse. But I figure that won’t help and the judge will just say “so what, you could’ve left” which honestly is technically correct.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/26 02:39 PM
1	Have any guys lost custody of their kids but got 50/50 later? How long? Glad you turned your situation around and sorry to hear it took so long. Yeah I’m prepared to go to trial. And asked for sole custody upfront hoping we can meet in the middle. Unfortunately she made a point to be the one to take them to doctor etc and literally had me sit in the car as the driver. But I have other ways so that part just is what it is.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/26 02:33 PM
1	Have any guys lost custody of their kids but got 50/50 later? How long? Yeah I’m a bit in your shoes now except not sure my wife will give up time as she is super controlling. However it’s not lost on me she too doesn’t necessarily want more time just wants me to have less. And I do think if I lose custody to her the long game may still hopefully be in my favor because of this. I’m glad you got what was fair in your situation. As far as blaming etc I am at least lucky we had kids at an older age so I am mature enough to know better about that stuff.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/26 12:12 PM
1	She brought him home Damn bro. Had to skim your post after the first half but man look at this way. You are never going to sit back post divorce and wonder if you did the right thing or if counseling would’ve saved things or whatever. But I’m also not sure just getting laid as much as possible rn is the right thing. Maybe take some time to reflect on you. Either way that’s an insane level of disrespect to put up with and I’m glad you’re getting out. Just don’t rush into another relationship and find someone where th…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/26 09:08 AM
2	How long did you wait to be intimate again? Yeah I’m at the start of my divorce and dating is the last thing on my mind. Not here to judge anyone. I totally get how others are dying to get back out there. And I may feel different later but gd bro at least let the ink dry on the final papers lol. Again not here to judge we’re all guys here (I assume).	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/26 09:03 AM
1	I resent never being allowed to be the bad parent. Man as someone entering divorce vs a frankly very lazy mom, I am scared to death of losing custody. I will take having to leave work, give up my free time, being exhausted, every single day of my life. I get where you’re coming from man because it is exhausting and a lack of me time sucks. But the flip side would be worse. Just keep it in perspective man. And kids know this shit. They know who shows up and who is reliably there. Even at a young age they know this stuff.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/26 08:52 AM