forevergeeks Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Need tips: Getting a shy woman to open up	Escalation & Calibration	forevergeeks	/r/seduction	05/02/24 01:34 PM

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2	Girl asked to be exclusive on second date—how to not give boyfriend? Reading the comments, I learned that she is Nigerian. Women from these countries tend to be very traditional and may not fully understand the dating culture in the US, especially if they haven't been here for long. American women often have a more masculine and assertive demeanor, making it rare to meet a woman who is both feminine and interested in a committed relationship. You handled the situation well and were honest upfront, which reflects your integrity. It's not a red flag, as some have s…	/r/seduction	14/06/24 04:00 PM
109	Men who are in long term relationships - did you ever feel that you will ‘miss out’? If would be almost impossible to go from overweight to 4% body fat in less than a year. I think you are over exaggerating your body fat percentage.	/r/seduction	06/06/24 04:59 PM
3	Best advice to dating older mature women Older women are attracted to youth. To the energy. I'm 43, and most women I go out with are my age or a bit older and I can see that they are attracted to younger guys, but the approach is different. They go out with me because they see the potential of having something serious with me, with younger guys is the opposite, they do it for the fun! They love the idea of being devoured by a young fellow!!	/r/seduction	24/05/24 10:04 PM
2	Did I fumble? I think she was initially interested, but the way you texted her is what killed the curiosity. You shouldn't have started with a negative message. There was no need to apologize or talk about the awkward situation.	/r/seduction	21/05/24 01:39 AM
1	I think she’s the one 👀 Yes, that's about the time when the infatuation phase also dissipates and you see the person for what they really are.	/r/seduction	20/05/24 09:08 PM
2	I think she’s the one 👀 Lol. Is insane. How can you think about marriage after knowing someone for only 3 weeks? It takes a least 3 years to know someone. Nobody should get married before 3 years, after the infatuation is gone. The courts would be less crowded and lawyers and judges would have to find a different job.	/r/seduction	20/05/24 04:24 AM
3	Hit new level. Things I learned. I stopped reading when you mentioned the woman was married. I would never ever sleep with a married woman even if she was the hottest woman in the planet.. I wouldn't be able to sleep with myself after that!! I've been dating for about a year after my divorced too. I've gone out with about 30 women perhaps, and slept with about 20 of them. I keep a rotation of about 5, and keep upgrading the roster, but I have a rule of never get involved with married women that includes the ones going through d…	/r/seduction	20/05/24 04:15 AM
3	How to be confident in relationship? Yes, brother, it's essential to cultivate more self-control and courage. Self-control is key to avoiding needy behavior, and courage is necessary to face whatever comes your way. OMG, I think I lost my virginity when I was 12 with a girl.	/r/seduction	18/03/24 10:02 PM
5	How to be confident in relationship? How old are you? I'm a 43-year-old man who has been through a lot, so I apologize if I seem harsh. You need to find a balance between your purpose (work, hobbies, whatever you do for a living), social life, family, and your dating life. Initially, you shouldn't spend too much time with this girl. Once a week is sufficient until she shows interest in wanting more time with you. In a relationship, it's advantageous for the woman to be more invested than the man. This maintains her attraction. If y…	/r/seduction	18/03/24 09:54 PM
1	How to be confident in relationship? Bro, if she tells you that everything is ok and that she misses you, why do you think that way? Let her be, and let her come to you at her own pace. If you need more attention than she is giving you right now, then find another woman to fill that vacuum.	/r/seduction	18/03/24 09:38 PM
5	How to be confident in relationship? You need to focus your attention on something else. I think you are thinking way too much in this women. With a woman you have to have the mindset that sooner or later the relationship will end, and believe me, it will.	/r/seduction	18/03/24 09:17 PM
31	Inner game is more important than looks You need to shift your perspective. It's essential to diversify your dating experiences, perhaps to the extent of seeing multiple women simultaneously. This way, you might even mix up their names, like calling Denise 'Maria' by mistake. Never idealize a woman, particularly if you haven't been in a close relationship with them.	/r/seduction	18/03/24 09:11 PM
2	40s Dating Debacle: My Hilarious Mistakes with a Colleague You are probably overthinking this. I am 43 and started dating less than a year ago again after being married for 18 years. It seems like this woman was not emotionally available, so I don't know if the outcome would have been different even with these supposed mistakes you outlined here. In these past 10 months I have dated perhaps around 20 women, and some of them were not emotionally available. If they start talking about divorce or exes with you, that's a clear indication that woman is not e…	/r/seduction	20/02/24 03:27 AM
2	Need tips: Getting a shy woman to open up Thanks for you comment. It helped me a lot. It took me 7 meetups to sleep with this woman. Similar story. She invited me over to her house again, and we drank as usual. This time she told me that perhaps it wasn't a good a idea for me to drive home the way I was and I should take a nap on her bed instead while she was going to take a shower 🤔 When she came back from the shower I was still on the couch and she was just wearing a towel around her waist. I walked with her to to the bedroom and lied…	/r/seduction	19/02/24 04:47 PM