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It feels nice to believe things like this. I don't know how much truth there is in this story, but I like to think its real
/r/seduction15/09/21 08:37 PM
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Can you add something for pulling movements and legs? Thanks
/r/TheRedPill01/01/21 07:59 PM
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Ok, now I disagree. What is wrong with that?
/r/seduction08/11/20 09:16 PM
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oh ok. But he seems aware that he isn't "in their league", that's why he's asking for advice on how to get them
/r/seduction08/11/20 08:40 PM
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I missed the part where he denied being shallow
/r/seduction08/11/20 02:24 PM
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What do you mean by "he shouldn't"?
/r/seduction08/11/20 02:24 PM
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That's what I thought, thanks.
/r/seduction21/10/20 07:37 PM
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Thank you for this feedback. I am quite new to this subreddit, and seduction in general, and I would appreciate a woman's perspective on the matter of cold approach. Do you think that it's inherently disrespectful or, if done in a correct manner (for example, giving your number instead of asking for theirs) can be a valuable (and useful) way of approaching women??
/r/seduction21/10/20 07:08 PM
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oh, ok
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 02:23 PM
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Genuinely women are less picky based on looks. What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 02:08 PM
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I wouldn't like. But I am quite different, I guess
/r/seduction06/07/20 09:21 PM
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And to be honest, it simply isn’t healthy to get all emotional when things don’t go your way. Always keep your calm. Thanks for saying this! I always thought this was the right mindset an yet many of my friends still try to convince me to respond her ghosting with angry messages because otherwise: "You're just doing her a favor by disappearing and she has to learn good manners". I tried to convince them of the contrary, the importance of letting things go, to be outcome independent and yet, they…
/r/seduction05/07/20 02:32 PM
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What happened to trying to find someone that shared values, aspirations and ideals and trying to build a life together It happened that it probably never existed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 02:12 PM
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This is an interesting perspective. I never thought about that. Tbh, I also think of having a job as a way of showing the value you bring to society. So it's also about feeling good with myself. But I promise, I'll do my best
/r/askFDS30/04/20 09:53 PM
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I know, but not having much money can be concerning when it comes to dating. I would like to offer dinners, trips, gifts and other stuff.
/r/askFDS30/04/20 09:13 PM
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Well, first of all: thank you. I really appreciate the time you put to elaborate this. I probably should have specified some things about myself. First, I want to clarify that my medium term goal is marriage, nothing else. I don't want to sleep with many people, in fact, I could care less about that. Also, I am 24 and, unfortunately, I still living with my parents, because I can't afford to live on my own. I'm Italian, so maybe you've heard this stereotype about Italian men being "mama's boys", …
/r/askFDS30/04/20 01:10 PM
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I'm not OP, but I think I can relate. In fact, lurking FDS made me realize that I probably won't be ready for dating until my 30s. I am insecure about a lot of things about myself and I don't have a job or a career at the moment. I need to improve a lot, in order to "bring something to the table". I don't know if he meant the same thing, however, I will not be realistically mature enough (especially financially) until my 30s. I would really like to know what you think about it.
/r/askFDS30/04/20 12:05 PM
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For the average man who lives life on autopilot, his prime is his late twenties. That's interesting. Can I ask you what you mean with "living on autopilot"?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:07 PM
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too late for my Italian ass
/r/seduction10/03/20 07:57 PM
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Optimal outcomes?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/20 04:08 PM
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The difference is that fighting sports are not mean to be used on a battlefield, but on a ring.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 06:42 AM
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a fighting sport
/r/askTRP24/02/20 07:00 PM
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Muay Thai is a fighting sport. Martial arts are, by definition, what is meant to be used on a battlefield. Muay Thai (and even MMA despite its name) are meant to be used on the ring
/r/askTRP24/02/20 06:59 PM
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It's not a martial arts, but it doesn't mean it can't be deadly and dangerous. It's just that martial arts are a different thing (not better imo). The advantages of fighting sports is that you can test your skills and resistance with an uncooperative opponent, that is why they're great. They're still not martial arts though
/r/askTRP23/02/20 08:19 AM
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I have to admit that I am thankful to FDS, because it allowed me to see the other side of the coin. I have never thought much about what women actually go through. Of course I was aware of the worst sides (rape, abuse for example), but there are were so many other aspects that I was clueless about. I guess many of those were just things I was socialized to consider "normal" and acceptable, without giving them much thought. It also helped me realize more about myself: I used be what you would cal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 08:22 PM
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I was wondering, just in case, when it's too late to go to trade school? I'm 24, btw
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/20 09:17 PM
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you're probably right. But I could never be a plumber. I'll probably risk being unemployed, but I need a job that gives me a leadership position and responsibility
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/20 09:04 PM
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what does d1 mean? I am not sure I wanna know though
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/01/20 04:39 PM
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At least she has the decency of looking good.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/20 03:43 PM
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I don't know. It seems kinda fake to me. Is it plausible that Bumble paid her to tweet this?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/19 01:40 PM
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The only thing I learned by dating an "unattractive" woman (at least she was not attractive to me), is how much frustrating it can be, how much I hurt both myself and her. Therefore, I vowed to never do that shit again
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 07:03 PM
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Settling down is never a good idea. You're just hurting yourself and the other person. If you can't attract the girls you're actually attracted to, it's much better to just enjoy single life imho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 07:00 PM
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Yeah, but the one OP is suggesting is also a crappy strategy and won't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:57 PM
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well, I am not sure if I would appreciate being picked up or called "cute". Apart from that, I think I got your point
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 12:40 PM
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5'4 would be perfect for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 07:50 PM
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So you could not date Tom Hardy (for example)? I am sorry if I am asking you all this questions, its just that I am genuinely interested
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 02:18 PM
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So the only actual requirement is that he has to be taller than you? Is it possible that you can be attracted to someone shorter or it's just unconceivable?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 01:30 PM
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I think the behavioral aspect is actually very important and often undervalued. Yes, probably becoming bigger and stronger is much more important, but, as far as I can tell, physical exercise can also give you a good amount of self confidence. There was a period in which I only did HIIT (which I presume is less muscle-oriented than traditional weight lifting), and yet I felt a lot better in my everyday life. Also, martial arts and fighting sports are very good, in this regard
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 01:15 PM
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I really don't know what to tell you. It's possible that people overreport. Wikipedia says that the average height in Italy is 176.5 cm, which is a little less than 5 feet 10. However, many women still have this idea that they prefer a man over 180cm. It's also possible that women have no idea how much 180 cm is, and every time they see someone of average height they think its 180cm.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:38 AM
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eheh no, I'm from Rome.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 06:40 AM
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That's reassuring to hear! I do believe you. I don't think women necessarily lie, but being short can be a pain in the ass, at least for a man. So I think I can understand their skepticism
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 09:24 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 08:47 PM
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Thanks. To be honest, I understand that, for women on this subreddit, might be frustrating to hear these questions over and over. Unfortunately, height is one of the biggest insecurities for short guys like myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 08:45 PM
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well: they're not doing it: at least some of them are very open about their height preferences. You can see it even in this thread Why should they care about feeling virtuous about strangers on the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 08:40 PM
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yeah, but I was wondering: if he was shorter, could you still find him attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 07:57 PM
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fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 07:40 PM
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Beh sono d'accordo. Ma ci sono posti del mondo dove l'altezza media maschile è ancora più bassa eppure la fertilità è 100 volte più alta che in Svezia. Dici che è colpa del femminismo? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 07:00 PM
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I don't know, I see women talking shit of short men everywhere on the internet, even on reddit. Why do you think they should be lying? I agree that I don't have that much success with women, but have also seen short guys being successful. So, I am not quite sure about that Also: in this exact thread we have a 5 foot even woman claiming that she likes men at least "5 feet 10"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 06:58 PM
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but the question was: have you ever been attracted to someone who was shorter than your height standard? (in your case, 5' 11'')
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 06:22 PM
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Hey, I thought that this was the only place on the Internet where we could be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 06:21 PM
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Not at all. In fact, I'll gladly welcome any relationship even with women much taller, or shorter, than me (in general, I don't really care about height and I have no "standard"). However, it seems that women, at least some of them, place much more importance on it. To be honest, I don't blame them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 06:14 PM
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As far as I know, average height in Italy is now 5 feet 10. Younger generation tend to be more around 5 feet 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 04:19 PM
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It's you who is beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 03:16 PM
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Of course I have an Italian accent! But, unfortunately, I also live in Italy where everyone else has an Italian accent ;) I'll take that as a compliment though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 02:59 PM
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I assume you think the same way about high n-count for women? Right? Does this means that a man is justified to ask and eventually reject a woman only because of all the other people she slept with?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 05:26 PM
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I don't think that sub is sexist, at least not just because it's a female-only space. In my opinion, it's perfectly reasonable that women (or men, for that matter) create a space where they can discuss only with people of their own gender
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 05:22 PM
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thanks
/r/askTRP13/11/19 09:03 PM
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Can I ask you what kind of books helped you the most? Cause I want to read more, but at the same time I want to focus on things that can actually benefit me
/r/askTRP13/11/19 08:54 PM
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Could you please elaborate further? I'm really interested
/r/seduction28/09/19 10:38 AM
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What if I am smaller? Even way smaller?
/r/askTRP02/09/19 08:34 PM
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Yes, this article came to my mind exactly as I was reading. Really super solid advice
/r/seduction01/07/19 12:46 PM
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Thank you again. I really appreciate it
/r/seduction18/06/19 09:08 PM
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Even if this might not be true, I'm grateful to you for this post, cause I'm having a really bad time at the moment and needed some motivation. Thank you
/r/seduction18/06/19 07:06 PM
1

Well, you said that you work as a translator in italian and that the economy is shitty in your country. This led me to believe that you live in Italy/are italian (I'm italian btw). Also, I would really like to know something more about your job. How did you end up doing it? Do you earn well? (If you don't mind me asking, but I'm interested in something like that myself)
/r/askTRP04/05/19 07:31 PM
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Interesting. Are you Italian?
/r/askTRP04/05/19 06:09 PM
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Story of my life so far
/r/seduction31/10/18 09:53 AM
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