forgivemefashion Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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9	Andddd it’s confirmed. 🙄 my heart goes out to Anna💞 I learned that with Johnny Depp and Jared Leto	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/09/21 12:20 AM
18	To the ladies who say FDS is "hot girl strategy" Attractiveness is also SO subjective…I NOW consider myself an attractive women. Because I am. But also because my “type” is suddenly mainstream: curvy, big hips, small waist, natural hair. But growing up in a colorist society all I saw was that I’m not white, blonde, blue eyed, size 4. And I never thought of myself as attractive. Growing up in the early 00’s when being anorexic-ly thin, flat stomach, low rise jeans, flat iron straight hair was all the rage I didn’t feel attractive. Attractivenes…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/07/21 08:04 PM
13	This is the document that helped pull me out of a terrible, abusive relationship: Warning Signs You're Dating a Loser, by Joseph M. Carver, Ph.D It’s refreshing to see an older reading addressing both genders...Both male and female can be “losers”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/04/21 06:08 AM
26	All men are 100% lying when they say they don't notice if a woman pays them attention The first time I went on a date with my HVM...we went salsa dancing (I’m a dancer, he’s not so he mainly sat alone looking at me dance, he’s actually not that into that scene) he got hit on at least 3 times while I was on the dance floor dancing. Afterward when I brought it up he not only admitted that they came up to start conversation but went on to tell me about two other girls and what they were wearing that were eyeing him... First of all, it was the first time in my life a guy admitted to …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/04/21 01:31 AM
14	FDS became the last stop on my journey to fully recover from a pick-me and "not like other girls" syndromes. I used to either hate how I look, compared to other women, or hate on them in order to impress men. Not anymore, thanks to all you queens here! This is so wholesome!!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/21 02:20 PM
11	Friendly reminder that LVM/NVM are overrepresented on Reddit. If you find yourself scrolling the front page and feel yourself losing hope for huMANity, remember that most HVM are too busy going outside, touching grass, and doing manly shit. My HVM didn’t know what Reddit was when I told him about FDS 😅I was just like “uhhh let’s keep it that way honey” also your title perfectly describes him, he loves the outdoor and is too busy literally saving lives to be on Reddit (he’s a pharmacist distributing vaccines)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/21 03:21 AM
164	You read about us on Vice. She said we hate men; she said we’re no different than the redpill. You were disgusted by us. Yet, somehow, you felt some urge to come here. Yep same here! I found it to make fun of it kinda like “oh there’s no way they can make guys do that” and then I realized I’ve been making guys catch up to my standards or GTFO most of my life! LOL I had found my safe place finally!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/21 04:33 AM
2	Reminder to myself and others: Just focus on yourself honey. As a women with her late 20s I feel like this is the time to really start vetting guys and fully start taking the FDS to heart and reaping the benefit. . 1. Friend I met while backpacking through Europe 3yrs ago wants to “reconnect”? alright fly me out to an all inclusive resort. He actually did, for 10 days. . 2. Guy I networked once for my job wants to see me again? Dude literally Flew down from a different state and got a beach side hotel for us to stay at over the weekend. . 3. Friend of a f…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/21 04:17 AM
69	Advice for a man who married a gorgeous woman with whom he has nothing in common. I loved her response. wow literally what happened to me...and it happens at all levels! I for one do consider myself hot and smart (majored in economics and international business, salsa instructor etc etc)....and yup my ex cheated on me to level the playing field (he was a neuroscientist!) when you have little self-worth it doesn't matter how much you accomplish or your partner accomplish, you'll always feel inferior and unworthy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/03/21 03:37 AM
30	If he wanted to, HE WOULD My bf and I started dating a month before Covid, he lives in NJ I’m in Miami (so both huge hot spots) we’ve only been able to see each other three times in the last year. He FaceTime me every morning at 7am before my WFH shifts start (even on his days off, even on the weekends). First time we flew to see each other after 6 months of quarantine and uncertainty (about the relationship and the world) he lit up candles all over the house our first night together, then the next day we were talking an…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/02/21 05:00 AM
1	Why I don't date "nice" guys Dickity dick dick dickwad	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/12/20 04:50 AM
1	My boyfriend was worth the wait! He’s been taking care of me since I broke my foot. I love this! When they do something well that makes us feel loved...we need to tell them! And voice that feeling so that they’re aware of it and encourage them to keep doing so! Beautiful!!! So happy for you	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/12/20 06:22 PM
10	If a man tells you that you can do better - BELIEVE HIM. Wow this spoke so much truth to my ex bf...dude was a neuroscientist and still had crazy insecurities about himself 🙄🙄 I was practically his therapist smh never again	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/12/20 05:18 AM
5	Love is not enough ditto i spent 5ys happily single and building a life I'd like for another 25yrs happily single! Just this year I commited to someone and they know that they're there as a sprinkle on my life, because I already have everything i need and want on my own!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/10/20 10:57 PM
2	Dating should NOT be your goal! I can attest this works!!! personally I'm not much of a foodie so a nice drink at a nice bar/lounge/hotel/gastropub did the trick...lunch dates works as well, rarely coffee dates, unless both our schedules are crazy and usually I prefer to go get icecream or some type of bakery aka NOT starbucks lol Also I was lucky to work at a place a lot of professionals study at (doctors, architect, CPA, Finance certificates, IT etc. All my ex were either engineers, finance (yuck) or doctors...I did stud…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/07/20 04:55 AM
3	Why do some men seem to bond over how poorly they can treat women sexually/romantically? I agree overall but it goes both ways... Last guy I dated was a neuroscience doctor, top of his class, leader of his church, athlete, musician etc. Was dating long distance for 6 months, would fly out monthly to see me, only to find out 4 months in that he was married in another state 🙄he was a LVM disguised as a HVM and his wife was actually an MD too but the worst pickmeisha!! This was his third time cheating in a three year marriage and she still kept going back to him even made him call me u…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/20 06:45 AM
12	You’re better off alone than with a LVM Yepppppp	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/02/20 09:38 PM
2	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜 I JUST realized that "the man of my dreams" that used to run to ME whenever him and his wife we're outs🙄...used to do the same thing to his wife...he said they haven't celebrated a real Christmas usually for one reason or another, mainly a fight (usually something he's done)...for instance this past one was him running away to Miami 3 days before xmas to spend a weekend with me and then his wife found out...lets just say I'm glad I got out of their relationship...and boii did a dodge a bullet!!!…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/02/20 05:34 AM