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His "I don't care" is a female "don't care" which is really "OMG I CARE BUT I'M HIDING IT SO HARD". He has adopted the female passive aggressive. How the fuck can your two poles of attitude be kissass or fake-ignore?
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 10:33 PM
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I'm not in paranoid cheatville, so this is my inclination as well. The guy may be a total fucking dope the rest of his life, but he says "fuck it I'm going to do dude stuff for 10 days" and she actually sees him as a MAN and is attracted to it. There was an attention vacuum and since he wasn't there to shit in it, she filled it in with her boobies (as should be the case).
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 10:19 PM
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she would have done it with the expectation that you were coming in there eventually. if it happened again and again she would say to herself "self, he's not coming after me...uh oh. Better go in there to bait him some". Speaking as someone that's in a LTR and was before I discovered truthiness, it takes time and repetition. I once saw someone say that LTR is TRP on hard-mode and I can't say I disagree. As far as how you handled it: slipups happen. The best thing you can do is move on as soon as…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 07:12 PM
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because any time anything new comes up and there's some noise around it people like to cry "dead". Sometimes they're right and they can feel good and say "told ya so". It's all fear and self-protection based. If you say cryptocurrencies are dead then that's your excuse for not having to get into it at all, learn new things and maybe lose or make a few bucks.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 12:01 PM
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NADALT
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 08:23 PM
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Nobody's saying excuse it, they're just saying expect a duck to quack. And don't get pissed when it does.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 06:09 PM
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+1 for 50th law. I've listened to the audiobook twice now. It definitely doesn't get the attention it deserves. It should be considered as essential as 48 laws.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/13 03:15 PM
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I really liked his post. I get sick of bullshit spewed by "professional" women and the attitude taken toward full time mothers. I especially liked his comments about busy vs important. I've noticed a small trend in working women making extra sure everyone knows how "busy" they are.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/13 03:10 PM
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yeah, we're on the same page. What I was getting at in a shitty-worded way is that what the woman in the comment is doing would be poorly received if it were reversed and reframed. "I manage my woman's decisions and money because she's too much of a child to do it herself. AMA."
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 03:31 PM
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I'm referring to this post from the comments: http://np.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/1l9oka/if_you_found_out_your_long_term_so_had_a_savings/cbx2wz0 My original reply was vague and poorly written.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 03:20 PM
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http://rationalmale.wordpress.com Many posts about marriage and perspectives on the reality from a married guy's point of view. Amused Mastery is a major highlight that should be read and re-read. http://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/ As important in marriage as it is in not-marriage. Maybe even moreso. particularly: IV. Don’t play by her rules XIV. Fuck her good XV. Maintain your state control XVI. Never be afraid to lose her Also, his thoughts on Agree & Amplify can …
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 02:38 PM
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Something about the guy still strikes me as a pussy though. I get sick of guys bitching out and telling women they can't get married b/c they can't afford a wedding or can't afford a ring. Bitch, yes you can. They can all be done on the cheapo-cheap. You just don't want to get married. Make your life easier and just say no. He needs to boss up with his life. Funniest about all of this is that it looks like a woman in the comments that did the same thing to her husband is getting kudos from the c…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 02:04 PM
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I have seen women first hand try to rationalize away their desire to just have and raise good kids. The pressure feminism puts on chicks to get a career, miserably stick with it M-F 9-5 and be all you can be peer pressures chicks into making themselves want things they normally wouldn't and results in major unhappy vibes that require copious amounts of vodka and dancing on the weekends to fix. That and the fact a lot of dudes are shlubs who don't want to buck that system at all.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/13 06:53 PM
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Unrelated to that thread. When I went over there there was a thread about a guys GF wanting to give him those boner pills that Redban always talks about on Joe Rogan experience. He was freaking out b/c she wanted to fuck around and experiment with it (His girl wants a nice hard fuck, what's wrong w/ that?) and everyone else was freaking out b/c "her friend drugs people" with these before they fuck. I didn't get the outrage. Should I be outraged? I thought the whole thing was pretty funny from to…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/13 06:42 PM
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Many mafia/gangster type movies are dripping in red pill traits.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/13 04:06 PM
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Not that I disagree with "kids these days" needing to grow the fuck up more, but I can confidently say it's not that simple. Whether it's getting a child to behave, getting a woman to do what you want, getting an employee to be productive or even getting yourself to act in a certain manner, radical honesty only goes so far. Children actually ARE like little sponges and could be considered 'fragile' up to a certain point and it's necessary to find a balance between telling them to grow the fuck u…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/13 03:28 PM
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She's probably worried you'll find out about the other betas she still lets orbit her. OP, while this is a possibility, I HIGHLY doubt it's the reason she's bucking back. Put yourself in her position - you've been the center of the universe for a long time and then all the sudden, you're not. It's a pretty big change and people that don't initiate a change tend to dislike it. I've been through this, so I can speak from experience. Here's my advice: First, you may want to take it slow. Going stra…
/r/askTRP23/08/13 07:25 PM
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vivalamanosphere.com aggregates all/most related blogs I skim the recent posts each day or so.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/13 03:36 PM
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I forgot the password for my last username. join the club
/r/TheRedPill05/08/13 07:50 PM
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I think it's getting downvotes because it implies that you should be scared to bring up these truthy topics everyone has the balls to talk about online. Personally, if I'm out with some buds or talking to a lady, I don't have a problem calling bullshit on a bullshit situation. Otherwise, what's the point? Now if we're talking about being in a business situation, it's a different story, because do what you gotta do to get a milli. Beyond that, fuck being around people where you have to censor you…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/13 08:59 PM
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Here's what you should tell her: "We are not getting married because: We fight all the time, always have, and nothing ever seems to get better. And I don't want to spend my life like that." The young daughter portion is a difficult spot for you. You're in a sticky situation financially and (probably) emotionally with a child. good luck. This may be a different topic altogether, but my observations have shown me that on-off long term relationships almost always end off.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/13 06:24 PM
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In-your-face childless people are more annoying than a 3 year old with endless questions.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/13 06:21 PM
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Is it irony that an article about online businesses failing because of lame-duck outsourcing looks like it was written by a lame-duck outsourcer? Also, to remain on-topic, nothing new to see here. There are risks to any business or job at all. Ignore them at your own peril. Don't pretend like your boss or CEO isn't acting in their own self-interest.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/13 03:03 PM
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Barash interviewed 500 women nationwide who answered her Craigslist ads seeking females to confide what they fib about. Among her findings: ... her Craigslist ads seeking females to confide ... Craigslist ads :| seems legit.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/13 05:50 PM
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No question - but a comment for everyone and anyone: My neighbor just spent three years in prison. Came out jacked. No access to fancy supplements and highly formulated nutrition, just work.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/13 03:06 PM
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because every single thing is either alpha or beta and the link must be labeled as either alpha or beta so we can know what to think about it and know for sure that OP is down with TRP. /s
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 12:14 PM
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Really? Either answer to a broad statement like this is bound to fuck you over one way or another. Just like almost everything else, some chicks like it. Some don't. Have to figure it out. And even a step further, some chicks would want to see 8 girls jamming massive dildoes into each other's assholes, while another may only like something classy and sensual...it all depends.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 12:05 PM
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b/c it's alpha, bro.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 01:29 PM
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your comment is way too good to be stuck at the bottom of this thread. if you know that a tiger is a tiger, you act accordingly. Tigers are good at being tigers and bad at being someone else's externally-imposed idea of what would work for a magic show. Not just RP, this is golden in life. Also a great metaphor because tigers are fucking awesome. http://i.imgur.com/YOm97sT.jpg
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 11:07 AM
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Proof hypnosis is real.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 10:56 AM
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i would think 90% of the emotional problems a man faces come from women. I would rephrase this to something that put more responsibility on us (men). "X% of the emotional problems men face come from their chosen interactions and engagements with women". A huge part of accepting a RP-enlightened mindset is that you are ultimately responsible for yourself. If a woman gives a man an emotional problem then it's his own damn fault.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 10:55 AM
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I wouldn't say I necessarily had anything to become bitter about. Life was pretty good...saw a way it could be better and jumped in. Then again, I thought most of the stuff we'd been sold about life was bullshit in the first place so it wasn't a huge leap for me.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 10:48 AM
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you'd think with all the nutrient-rich loads they take to the face their skin would be much nicer.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 10:40 AM
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r/childfree: a circlejerk for genetic dead ends. I think you meant this ^
/r/TheRedPill20/07/13 07:23 PM
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I am deeply unhappy with how she manages stress. Let's not ignore the fact that this is probably a symptom of him letting her have her way. She's stressing because she got in over her head, doesn't feel like she can handle it (planning a wedding - aka party) and needs to be led. If he would manage his bubble better, she wouldn't be stressing b/c she would get the sense of stability.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 08:15 PM
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yeah. welcome to internet, where things are different.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 01:44 PM
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I think it's great. Sounds like you have a good thing going. Regardless, you wont get many people here patting you on the back. And will likely get more of the opposite for one reason or another.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 01:39 PM
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nah, just ghost her. you're the top dog, you go where you damn please and how you damn please. Only, you choose not to acknowledge cuntiness. If she's nice and cordial, "Hey, what's up?" If she's cunty: Silence. Silence is a funny thing. We're all so conditioned to noisiness and responses and shit - it drives the average person crazy. Ever tried meditation? It can be fucking hard.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/13 03:58 PM
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If you're about to divorce her, why engage in these things at all? I assume you're making progress, so keep at it. Just understand that even if you WEREN'T going to divorce her, you shouldn't have put up with 95% of that shit. The bitching about diet to get a bite? Nope. Interrogation til midnight? Nope. Forced "I love you". Fucking no fucking goddamn way bro. Morning discussion? Nope. If you really want to fuck with her head, be in an amazing mood (about everything ELSE going on in life and lif…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/13 02:59 PM
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/r/childfree is a very /r/athiesm-esque circle jerk of bullshit. regardless of child preference, it's hamster food. "waahhhh some BREEDER'S SPAWN bumped into me at the mall and the BREEDER didn't even give a shit. my grandma wants me to have parasite spawn waahhhhh"
/r/TheRedPill30/06/13 07:31 PM
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10X income ftmfw
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 06:18 PM
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gotta be fake. like, "someone from TRP is bored" fake.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 06:16 PM
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I've found that the other side of your #4 has been a pleasant benefit. While maintaining the important relationships I've cut a lot of the shitheads out of my life by default.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 06:14 PM
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nice. I'm doing something similar and currently in the process of building my own empire.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 06:06 PM
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agree and amplify has been the easiest strategy for me to implement in any kind of situation like that. turn sarcasm up to 1000 and they short circuit. not taking shit serious is fucking win all day.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 06:05 PM
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What was your first empire? How are you planning to build another one? Are you already on the way or just decided? Any good general empire tips?
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 05:58 PM
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yeah for sure, why not? but I'm more interested in hearing about this: I am going to build another empire I expect to have at least 5-10x as much money as I do now
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 05:47 PM
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adam corolla said this awesome thing about dogs/men/penises and cats/women/vaginas on loveline once (I'm recollecting/paraphrasing): You can walk up to a dog, thump it on the head slap it's belly a few times, give it a rough rub, roll it over and it will fucking love the shit out of you. A cat (read, woman/vagina) has to want to come to you. you can't act too interested in it. Then when you start rubbing the cat, you can't just jump all over the place and get too excited. you have to rub one spo…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 06:25 PM
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I posted about this song a couple weeks ago. http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1fq7sp/this_song_speaks_the_truth_red_pill_in_pop_culture/ also, that brunette is smokin.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 06:20 PM
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most of us who want a great quantity of women, he just wants a woman of great quantity. I'm stealing this for future use. thanks.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 04:49 PM
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I would not hang out with people that didn't have a better way to entertain themselves. For the sake of playing along: I would have said "Hey, where's her phone?" "You don't know? Can I borrow yours to call it? Mines dead." "Fuck it you have a nice phone. She'll keep this one." They don't respect you and they're flirting with your chick. So, yeah. here's the thing about being an adult: You don't have to hang around shitheads if you don't want to
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 04:43 AM
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I have seen an incredible amount of black dudes tied down to bitchy fat women.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/13 04:50 PM
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when you catch yourself saying sorry, take note. I just fucking say it. "I'm sorr- wait, nevermind, I'm not."
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 04:32 PM
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Helps me to have a main objective or goal and make a commitment that nothing will get in the way of that. Say you want to schedule some gym time or work on a project. don't bend it for anyone. Funny thing, that's actually not selfish. But if you tell a chick you're not going to meet her and her friends for dinner at 7 because you have to go to they gym at 6:30 she may think you're selfish because you're not bending to her standards. But you have your mission and it's final. Said chick will want …
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 04:22 PM
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emotionally invested in their reactions to your growth. Agree. OP seems to give too many fucks about what they think of him, positive or negative. Out for wings with bros? fuck it man, have a good time and don't take shit too seriously. Because getting pissed about a dumb waitress and bitching on the internet about not getting an apology is taking shit WAY too seriously. Buddy: "I'm sorry for my friend" OP: "WHAT? I'm not. Lolz. Can I have my knife back?" ^ IMO results in a more fun way to tell …
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 03:49 PM
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if I remember correctly, gaston had that chick on a big ass pedestal and was mad that the beast was fucking her so he led a revolt. he died trying to get a piece of her ass.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 05:26 PM
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I'd say his post-toast drink was him swallowing the pill down. Bold move (assuming it really happened like that).
/r/TheRedPill03/06/13 08:42 PM
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I'm guessing she was the reason the marriage ended? Through some family-wrecking act? I don't think I've ever heard of a man being able to come out that far ahead and defninitely not on this sub or anywhere related. It's always a bunch of straight doom and gloom of "ring=100% no matter what you're fucked so hard".
/r/TheRedPill03/06/13 08:41 PM
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given the amount of horror stories you hear about divorce, your situation is very interesting. Can you go into any specifics as to how you were able to work it out like that?
/r/TheRedPill03/06/13 08:30 PM
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yeah. this site is just someone's cash cow designed to sell dating programs.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/13 06:28 PM
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I was talking to some ladies I worth with last week about guys, marriage, etc. And they ALL said they wouldn't be with a guy that wanted to stay at home. Even if they made a lot of money. when I asked why it was a bunch of "um...ah...I...uhh... I like to work and I want a man that likes to work too." Like it was a fucking hobby that they could enjoy together. No mention of the hardwiring to desire someone that can take care of them. These women also highly resented stay at home moms (or, women w…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/13 02:51 PM
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This is awesome. She talks about him like he's her fragile little puppy and views him like an irresponsible child. Reasons 1 through infinity why she doesn't want to fuck him. I'm the breadwinner I don't want to stir the pot (and break his heart) And he obtained a lot of consumer debt without my knowledge He should flip the script on her and take all her money. Meanwhile, he needs to do some soul searching on his own while he deals with the fist of reality he's about to take on the chin.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/13 01:56 PM
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Getting yourself into shape is priority #1. Unless she's already checked out, she will notice and comment. Be ready for some "shit testing" regarding your new vanity/obsesiveness and handle it appropriately. Here's something that's worked better than anything after the exercise/clean eating has started: Short, timely, specific, targeted praise. Tell her you're proud of her. "I'm proud of you for your dedication in getting to the gym/cleaning up diet/effort in looking hot for me/etc" Tell her you…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/13 12:52 PM
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I live hundreds of miles from the closest wave, which I think will make my adoption of this phrase as my new "outta here" line: Fuck this. I'm going surfing. Extra special.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/13 12:41 PM
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troll rage or not, sidebar-approved or not, there are plenty of guys ALREADY married that discover these philosophies after the fact. In those cases it's still important for married guys to: know the truth behind the chow they've been fed so they can protect themselves as best as they can make the most of their situation (get more sex, do what they want, be a better man, father, husband) understand that if they DO get divorced and get manhandled, that getting remarried isn't the best next step. …
/r/TheRedPill01/06/13 12:31 PM
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stop posting at some point if my situation isn't compatible fuck that noise. There are people that stumbled on this shit after marriage and finding red pill, alpha, game, whatever could be what makes their life (and subsequently their wife's, or more importantly, kids' lives) switch from a living hell to a happy married life. Finding red pill during a relatively a trouble-free relationship is no reason to run off and get divorced strictly on principle, so certain modifications may need to be mad…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/13 02:16 AM
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Your example works in nicely with the recent 'just be there, don't fix it' post. For anyone that didn't get that post - this is it rule in action.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/13 12:17 PM
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I get what you're saying...here's the way I approach it: As a man in the relationship, you're (hopefully) the rock. If you're just "there" and can sit with her and say "damn, that really sucks." you maintain your position as the secure rock. When you get down into a problem and try to fix it you're now no longer the rock and you're in the mud fighting a losing battle trying rationalize emotion. If the problem is big or small, even if you can see right through it, we all know pointing out the obv…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/13 01:39 PM
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think that nothing makes a woman feel more like a woman than a baby growing inside her I've seen this as well. From an evolutionary perspective, it's a "mission accomplished", right? I'd bet that a lot of the cuntiness that comes from pregnant women probably comes from the same place that non-pregnant cuntiness comes from. Especially entitlement. "I'm pregnant so I'm the queen, honor and obey or else". Or maybe even the simple fact that it pokes a big hole in the idea that men and women are the …
/r/TheRedPill30/05/13 01:19 PM
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"ha!" can be interpreted a few ways, but I'd assume it was less of an actual laugh or "lol" and more of a "that's clever." I would have left it after she said "ha!" and get her to pull back in to offering up the electrifying experience. I agree w/ musicvita's comment on prolonging it. Wrap it up soon and just get her #, arrange to meet up or whatever. Don't get too chatty about anything. Also, cut down on the winky faces. Could come off as too "needy nice-guy trying to make you comfortable" and …
/r/TheRedPill30/05/13 11:15 AM
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here's a half-baked theory I just made up based on a female friend of mine: Pretty hot, 26/27. She lives in the suburbs, not a party chick, works in a school, doesn't have many single girlfriends, so she doesn't have as many opportunities to meet new people as someone younger and in school, more social or that lives in a more populated area. Based on how I've seen her interact w/ guys in LTR she could be a decent ole lady (and she can cook, which is a major plus these days). She dabbles in onlin…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/13 11:03 AM
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NADALT
/r/TheRedPill29/05/13 07:32 PM
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Good info, thanks. I'm going to relocate soon and will definitely find a lodge when I get to my next semi-permanent destination.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/13 05:42 PM
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Freemasonry. Do you have experience here? I've kicked the idea around some - thought it may be a good way to meet some new people that are men and know it. Not guys with a 4-hour "ballgame pass".
/r/TheRedPill29/05/13 02:12 PM
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Behaviors/thoughts/mindsets are a habit - it will take some time of consistently applying the new behaviors in order for them to become your new habits, especially things that can be as automatic and comfortable as the habits you develop over time as a young stoner. That's not to say quick change isn't possible and you can't have epiphanies that make you see things differently from day one, because you can. Wherever you see your mindset or personality lagging, make that your area of focus. Think…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/13 01:55 PM
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if thats all it takes, you're gonna have a bad time with this girl. If a girl is blocking your number after two months....holy fucking shit. DANGER WILL ROBINSON: CRAZY BITCH AHEAD. I don't even know how to block a number on my phone, which means it must be a relatively involved process with more than 1 "fuck this guy" step.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/13 02:44 PM
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this chick has her game TIGHT. Fucking props to her I guess. Six months in and she's got it locked down.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/13 02:38 PM
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I'll piggyback on this and other comments saying OP went overboard. Something about you seems insecure (or maybe just grumpy), OP. Either that or your ole lady must be on her last leg. Awful lot of effort to go through for a simple offhanded comment. I would have gone with agree & amplify. "wow, thanks wife" "oh shit, we're doing that now? fuck yeah! Give me some ice cream, I'm going to sit on my ass while you go kill us some dinner" keeps frame, completely deflates the comment while making it c…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/13 05:33 PM
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