forgotensparrow Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	The media narrative about AI girlfriends and AI boyfriends is opposite I've always found that the blue pillars on here won't actually debate you they will just try to insult and shame you back into what ever is the standard believe set is. There is no actual attempt to debate the point you are making. They just call you a virgin or delusional and expect you just to surrender on the spot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/26 08:29 AM
2	Your social circle is not a representative sample of either gender I like how your objections to passport bros is that they have yet to fix all the world's problems. Is it there job to fix every third world nation or something?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/26 09:28 AM
64	unselected men for some reason blamed for the behavior of the men women actually choose It's bizzare how much of the gender war is just the above. Not just in dating but everything. Men are seen as natural leaders, no the top men you notice are natural leaders. Men get more respect and kindness, no the top men you notice get more respect and kindness. All the men around me have easy sexs or no issues with getting relationships, no all the men you notice around you get those things. It's litterly everywhere. Apply it to any bizzare comment you see on here from a woman and chances ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/26 08:09 AM
7	Women, especially women aware of their privilege, have made it abundantly clear that men have no reason to harbor even basic goodwill towards them or regard them as potential allies in any endeavor. I never said anything about not giving people basic respect. And your point about friends. Its not about worth its about empathy and care to me. ofcourse I would not be friends to someone who treated me like shit. In that way relationships are transactional. I excpect empathy and basic decency from my friends and I give it in return.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/26 04:35 PM
7	Women, especially women aware of their privilege, have made it abundantly clear that men have no reason to harbor even basic goodwill towards them or regard them as potential allies in any endeavor. There is a limit to the amount of actual kindness and empathy you can have yes. By this I mean the actual amount of people you can help in some meaningful way, emotionally or physically. Why should you waste it on people that would never give it back? And even if it is unlimited why would I give it to someone that is not gonna give it to me even tho its free? Either way the result is the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/26 02:53 PM
31	Women, especially women aware of their privilege, have made it abundantly clear that men have no reason to harbor even basic goodwill towards them or regard them as potential allies in any endeavor. A general rule of thumb is to only have empathy for people that will have empathy towards you. Otherwise you are simply wasting your energy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/26 08:43 AM
–	Women, especially women aware of their privilege, have made it abundantly clear that men have no reason to harbor even basic goodwill towards them or regard them as potential allies in any endeavor. It's basically like half the responses on the sub, and on reddit in general. Just someone saying nothing but just a vague insult towards the person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/26 08:37 AM
23	Men are in a desert and women are in swamp is misandry. Obviously the swamp is supposed to be negative. Like the swamp is specifically used because swamp water is disgusting and polluted. Its used specifically in that context of having options but your options are shit. Suggesting that most men are shit. Because otherwise you know the swamp would be anywhere else that has a lot of water like a lake. But its not. Its a swamp specifically because of its negative traits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 11:52 AM
2	What's your reasoning that you can actually say something to the dating life of a young men? I don't really disagree. But I think its a lot more profound then that. Even if the approach is fine and the woman is not offended or anything. Fundamentally you are not part of her internal math. That's why you see woman talk about how all the men she knows are doing fine for example. Its because fundamentally if you are a low value man who is not doing well you are not part of the calculation. Or how men are privileged when they only look at the top men and ignore everyone else. It touches eve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/26 06:27 PM
1	What's your reasoning that you can actually say something to the dating life of a young men? Its not that woman don't notice. They don't care. She could have 100 low value men ask her out and she would still feel invisible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/26 05:59 PM
4	Alpha fux and beta bux is literally so hard to ignore. About point 1. This is definitely about a guy in his 20s he could have been unemployed and broke 4 years ago an is now moving up in the world, that is not weird. For the second point he is probably not unable to get woman his level, its more the fact that he can't be bothered to get woman at his level. I've lived with guys like that. They could easily (and later in life did) date 8/10 but at that point in there life they liked the fact that they could basically have a buffet of low maintenance w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 12:14 AM
3	Alpha fux and beta bux is literally so hard to ignore. "effectively a homosexual" legit question what do you mean by this. There is nothing in the post about him being gay. Am I blind or something?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 10:35 PM
14	Women have far too much of an in-group bias to ever have fair discourse Ya its funny how absurdly different woman are to you based on how attractive you are. Its pretty comical. I remember when I was living with a dude who was a legitimate chad in a house share(6'4, broad shouldered, good looking face etc) the way woman treated him was unreal. Like if I didn't see it with my own eyes I would not believe me the kinds of shit woman would do for him or the kinda wild shit they let him get away with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/26 03:03 PM
3	Most men here don't like women and that's their issue in dating Bro just be an unmoving unfeeling door mat that exists to pay taxes. You deserve all of the suffering cause your great-great-grand father was racist and stuff.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/26 02:46 PM
–	“Choose better” until that means women wont fuck a stranger. The whole point of "pick better" is that you should not sleep with or get into relationships with men just cause they're attractive physically.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/26 08:32 PM
2	Why should "consent to sex isn't consent to Parenthood" only apply to women? In a very in theory way technically this is possible. There is something called "Putative Father Register" https://adoptioncouncil.org/resources-and-training/important-adoption-laws/putative-father-registries-state-by-state/ which allows the father to contest the paternity of the child. The first thing to notice is that it is not universal so if your outside of those states your out of luck. Second ,even then, most states allow a anonymous safe heaven process so the father is very unlikely to be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/26 01:51 PM
3	Why should "consent to sex isn't consent to Parenthood" only apply to women? This is one of this bizarre points that always get said here. The only circumstance were a father could abandon a child via safe heaven is: when he is a proxy for the mother or the mother is dead, presumably from the birth. There is no other option. The woman can use safe heaven laws basically at any time with in the birth window since she can just not sign that the father is the father.And once there in the system its basically impossible to get anything from the mother even under the circumsta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/26 10:53 PM
3	How Can Women Complain When They're So Privileged By Default? What does not knowing anything about cars have to do with being a woman. I don't know anything about cars and would probably get screwed over if I had one (where I live I don't need a car)	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/25 02:07 PM
17	There aren’t really that many opportunities to meet people in 2025 The dancing one is really tiring. It's really not a good place to find woman if you are already not the type of guy who attracts a lot of woman. Like I'm sure there are outliers. But the guys that do end up getting with woman (long or short term) at dance classes/events tend to be already attractive. at best being able to dance might make you more attractive outside of dance class but getting a date as an unattractive dude is not something that happens	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/25 07:46 AM
1	Men Peak in Attractiveness to Young Women in their Twenties Right I knew the GSS was shit but an error range of like max 20 percent is wild. Also how was graph made cause literally the only outlier data point for male singleness was 2024 the rest basically just osculate but the drawn line makes it seem like a strong downwards trend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 07:37 PM
2	Men Peak in Attractiveness to Young Women in their Twenties Assuming the GSS is accurate (which frankly the survey is bizarrely bad) and that the trend continued. This explains the difference between older and younger people on here. There seems to be a very sharp cut off point were sex just becomes far more scares for younger people. So you have this disconnect were older people see no change in the sexual market place and are wondering what the young men are talking about well younger guys struggle to get anything or struggle to get anything stable and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 07:35 AM
2	Q4M: Why do you misunderstand or malign well-intentioned dating advice? Why is it an alternative motive tho. Say a man has a large social circle and that has yielded him nothing romantically. What's wrong with him expanding his social network to see if he meets someone that he is compatible with. If he is being a social pest that is one thing but if he is socialising normally what's exactly wrong with that. If you have male centric hobbies and/or are unattractive to woman (physically or otherwise) what are you supposed to do, just be alone? Also you do realise that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/25 06:14 AM
28	Q4M: Why do you misunderstand or malign well-intentioned dating advice? He did not insinuate woman are an object anywhere in that comment and that they exist to be hit on. By definition the advice to take up a hobby and go from there involves getting to know this woman on some level. He is lamenting the fact that if you are unattractive even doing a warm approach can come with serious social consequences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/25 07:20 PM
–	Men have no options. The guy got banned from the restaurant (he managed to get that lifted but there easily could have been a zero tolerance policy in place). That's a tangible negative to your life (possibly a small one but still). It's not that he had a negative interaction and he just needs to get over it. After doing nothing wrong socially he was punished. There is no equivalent between that and a guy being shouted at. Also negative social interactions like screaming at a cashier or charity worker are highly sti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/25 11:57 AM
4	TV show Adolescence gets the pipeline completely wrong he is probably talking about this one https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/1948550615584196	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/25 11:12 AM
6	Q4M: would you date a slob? Now that 4chan is down we have to adapt and create our own version of green text. Give the man a break it's the first attempt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 09:45 PM
1	The big problem with telling survivors of abuse to “pick better”. Do you actually believe that an average man is just as likely to abuse you as a low life druggie criminal?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 04:10 PM
1	The big problem with telling survivors of abuse to “pick better”. No the guy with a drug addiction and a wrap sheet a mile long is far more likely to be an abuser. The argument your putting forward is just bizzare. The fact that seemingly normal men sometimes have a dark side does not magically mean that they are as likely to be an abuser as some guy that just got done serving time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 02:13 PM