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otherforgottenoldusername/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/25 09:06 PM
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Jesus the Wikipedia is quite something to behold: On 22 August, she released a statement reading: "I strongly deny and oppose the contents of the New York Times article dated 20 August 2018, as circulated also in national and international news. I am deeply shocked and hurt by having read news that is absolutely false. I have never had any sexual relationship with Bennett So she initially completely denied it. Following Argento's denials, a photograph of her topless in bed with Bennett was publi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/26 06:43 AM
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It's just occured to me that the NHS quite literally advises 25% more calories for men. I wonder, I wonder, how did we end up here?!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/26 10:23 PM
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Silly me - my mistake for having a baseline metabolic rate 10-20% higher than my wife. Should have thought about it before I was born, I guess.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/26 05:28 PM
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As victims of war crimes (amnesty, you should really know this) I'm not saying I justify or excuse any of the other positions at all - they are squarely bullshit. But that specific one really, really gets me. You don't even need an extensive knowledge of history or conflict to see how troubling this is. From ancient Sparta to the Srebrenica massacre. Kony2012, anyone - guy had a personal army of some 30,000 male children. I am legitimately gut wrenched to see an organisation like that, reply lik…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/05/26 01:30 PM
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My partner is dying of cancer. She's 33. As you can imagine, this came with a significant impact on her mental health. No judgment said there - who the fuck knows how to deal with that set of circumstances. Anyway she has been struggling intensely and will often explode with anger at minor things or just cry her eyes out in mourning. Who is anyone to judge, I know I wouldn't deal with it as well as her - so please don't think I'm being judgemental or critical. Anyway - after one intense period o…
/r/MensRights12/01/26 06:49 AM
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I may come across as blunt and direct here - don't mistake me for being heartless, I'm just using the most simple language to be clear Unfortunately I was sexually assaulted by my mothers friend. I can't speak for other men who have experienced it - but I didn't have control over the erection. I didn't want to be there. I was scared and intimidated. Yet somehow the body was on autopilot and my dick just kind of let it happen. There's a popular idea that men with erection must be enjoying it - un…
/r/MensRights12/01/26 06:37 AM
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Bloody well said. Preface this by saying I remain firmly aligned to the left. But the "holier than thou" purity testing is completely relentless and alienating. Further to what you said - I'm finding it increasingly frustrating how everything has to be turned into a binary world view. Something is all-in bad or all-in good. The very best personal anecdote I have about this was while I was in university years ago - I was approached by a group of "socialist society" members fund raising aid to giv…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/26 08:40 AM
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Noooooooooo shit. Now, let's just run a thought experiment on a novel entitled "how to force your wife to be trad" or "how to punch your wife and get away with it" and see if the "it's only a novel" argument stacks up there boss. Consistency is key. If my mate joked "I know how to kill women and get away with it" you better believe I'm saying "that's not funny" - shock horror, I would do the same in reverse! Moral consistency is a vague concept to many though, I appreciate that.
/r/MensRights24/12/25 08:09 AM
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A lot of the women I know in life aren’t too deep into politics I say this with complete respect where that would matter That's where our experience as a man and woman diverge. Because the cohort of women I know who aren't that into politics are the same cohort of women who verminantly reject any validity of males concerns. The concept of holding a friendship with an apolitical woman as a highly political man is fanciful from my perspective; while the political messaging itself might not hold mu…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/12/25 07:40 AM
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Holy shit. The youtube video story took place in my locality - and I was very close to calling the police following a violent domestic abuse incident yesterday. Sarah's home is somewhere I know personally. Thank you for bringing this to my attention OP - this could quite literally life saving. You have no idea.
/r/MensRights19/12/25 04:24 PM
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I am troubled by your response - must be honest. The inconsistency in your view is difficult to look beyond. 1) inconsistency of view On one hand you claim Phillips is just sharing - to quote - words. Yet you seem to be more troubled by Farage and his words? This is inconsistent. You seem claim moral superiority over words on one hand yet claim concern on the other. I don't support Farage or his policy in any capacity - but I can't form a credible argument to say words from one party are more or…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/12/25 10:12 AM
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Not saying Labour gives a shit about young men, but, I haven’t heard any actual “bashing” yet. Jess Phillips, MP for Birmingham Yardley andUnder-Secretary of State for Safeguarding and Violence Against Women and Girls: I commend Philip Davies for changing the thrust of the debate to focus on male suicide — but in and of itself this day serves no useful function Being a man is its own reward. You hit the jackpot when you are born a boy child. Yes within your group things are tough for all sorts o…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/12/25 07:43 AM
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can you explain what that means or what the differences are A recognition that an M to F trans individuals has an inherently different life perspective and set of experiences to someone who was assigned the sex of female at birth - perhaps? Trans identify is an important part of the male rights discussion as they have a unique first hand experience of "both sides" than any life long male or female could. It is important to make a distinction between woman and female or male and man sometimes - b…
/r/MensRights30/11/25 09:39 AM
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For clarity I'm not looking for sympathy here - your comment just prompted me to reflect on my recent experience and I wanted to share it to explain just how bad what you describe is. Sadly my partner has become incredibly abusive over the last year or so. Yesterday she calmly told me she intended to take everything, leave me homeless again. The circumstances are complex, yet the impact of repeatedly heating "I'm going to take every penny, your house and leave you homeless" has a compounding imp…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/11/25 06:21 AM
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On your final paragraph Many of the feminists held in high esteem by third wave actively spoke against the tiptoe towards it even at the time. Rosa Luxemburg coined "bourgeois feminist" and was highly suspicious of the movement as she viewed equally as intrinsically inseparable from social and economic revolution more widely. The reality is - if these thoughts leaders were magically materialised - they probably wouldn't even be accepted as "feminist" by the current feminism movement.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/11/25 09:01 AM
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ADHD is a neurodevelopmental disorder. Please can we stop using outdated terminology - ADHD can and often is co-morbid with mental health issues; but it is not in and of itself a mental health issue.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/11/25 12:37 PM
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I find it interesting, only add, women tend to judge on how they want things to be done, so, if you fold a paper in a way they don't like it they'll complain even if the end result is the same. I find it very telling on that because most of the "weaponized incompetence" is around this issue, the unwillingness for women to even imagine things can be done in a different way Wise observation. It's often reflected amongst men who receive and ADHD diagnosis late in life that their relationship has be…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/11/25 12:20 PM
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A similar analogy on invisible disabilities that I like We all struggle to see things in the distance at some point But we don't deny the existence of glasses or tell people who are short sighted to just try harder to see.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/11/25 10:02 PM
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Hilarious thing is I only know about the original video through meme reposts about trains 😂 It's often cut with a dumb compilation of trains or planes or tanks or something gnarly. I only know about my red flag through active participation in my red flag. What a time to be alive hahah
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/11/25 09:58 PM
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I echo this - that sentence about the moment they realise and go cold, I could write the script. It's bizarre how formulaic it all is. One thing I've experienced repeatedly, as many NT or ND folk on this sub have, is discomfort with emotional intelligence, openness and vulnerability. The default position seems to that men should be stoic and guarded despite societies messaging of "just need to talk" on repeat. Thing is, many ND people wear their emotions on their sleeve. I totally accept a 'flat…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/11/25 10:28 PM
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There's a silly meme that gets wheeled around instagram of some famous female personality (not a slight, I just don't know who she was) saying guys that are into transportation are a red flag lmao
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/11/25 10:11 PM
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No doubt its my comprehension - but could you expand a little on the point quoted below about virgins and bisexuality? Recently I have been seeing a lot of red-pillers talk about double standards like men facing stigma for being virgins or bisexual. Keep in mind that these people don't have men best interest in heart. They are just using our arguments to push their agenda. Admittedly I don't get any if these style online personalities on my feeds. So maybe I am missing the point - but my gut rea…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/25 05:47 AM
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Despite all the lip service, this "positive masculinity" thing isn't some tool to help men break free from male gender roles, it's just another rigid set of gender roles society (and especially women) are forcing us into for their The day I got told I'm a toxic male for enjoying felling trees was the day I realised the "positive masculinity" messaging is simply smoke and mirrored shackles. Positive masculinity as it stands today is not what society wants to wrap it up as. The constant bombardmen…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/25 01:37 PM
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Both can be true. Isn't that what OP is getting at - or am I misread this? I didn't take it as a comment on all the other jigsaw pieces that make up the male loneliness puzzle - more a comment on not being able to finish the puzzle of you ignore an entire jigsaw piece. I agree with OP if that's their point. Sex and spousal relationship are not and have never been a driver of my personal loneliness - I'm not in the world of dating so I can't comment on that either. So it's not something I would s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/25 08:03 AM
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I was looking through your profile because I disagreed with some other comments you've left But this one is gold. And I want to repeat it. Because it's the sort of knowledge that changes lives (lol I sound like an AI now) OP please listen to this comment, it is wise. Im a man who found therapy useless and at times, more damaging than good. Many therapists are not properly trained (I live in the UK) and just suck money from you to say yes and challenge things in a very basic way. I spoke to a ful…
/r/MensRights09/08/25 10:36 AM
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Most drug dosage trials are done on men and are not adapted to women. This is said so often - I'm yet to see anyone point to any modern trails that even made it beyond phase 1 without female participation.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/25 06:22 AM
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Also judging from your post, you seem pretty great? will say you don’t seem to be toxic at all?? Hahah if you could let the people in my life and at work know that would be lovely 😅 But seriously I appreciate it. I'm not a confident guy and I find it difficult to say "yeah, that's not too bad" so I'll take it on this occasion! ……sounds like….you’re not the target audience of the message? Like if I said “don’t drive drunk” and you don’t drive drunk you’re just…not the intended audience. don’t dri…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/25 09:22 PM
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Good lord it feels like satire when the name is Charade. I'm not really surprised no one believed the man here. Man accused of rape, no one believes him, story old as time. But I am surprised to see the complete dismissal of the victims words though! I might get shot the fuck down for this - but that last paragraph seems massively problematic to me from a feminist point of view. The statement essentially boils down to "we don't believe the word of the victim". I truly don't see how this isn't ju…
/r/MensRights13/06/25 04:00 AM
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Being unreasonable from your perspective is absolutely not the same as emotional manipulation. You are making false comparisons to justify abuse. Do better.
/r/MensRights12/06/25 10:49 AM
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You are falling into the trap of collective responsibility. What "mens rights" means to me may be completely different to what it means to you. I have no influence or agency over your interpretation of the topic. I share no responsibility with you, or anyone else on this topic. My core fundamental concern with "mens rights" and "the patriarchy" is the removal of the individual in question. I do not have to qualify my thoughts or feelings by explaining "just to be clear, I don't agree with Andrew…
/r/MensRights12/06/25 10:26 AM
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One of the biggest liberations for my mental health was realising I don't need to do anything for anyone but myself. Don't mistake need for want. I'm not selfish, I still love doing stuff for other people's benefit. But I realised I can also say no. Seriously - throughout my life right up until my 30s I had "could do better" ringing in my ears. From the earliest parent teacher evening at school - "he's a clever lad, he can do much better" All the way to young adulthood, where I was judged for ch…
/r/MensRights12/06/25 09:58 AM
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Well said. I'm also tired of this default position of expressing all emotions is beneficial. Some of my emotions should not be expressed. They are selfish, or built on fundamental misunderstandings, or simply don't serve any purpose. Like for example someone bumped into me, seemingly intentionally, in a shop recently. I have a really bad back at the moment. My immediate emotions was a sense of disrespect, and my secondary emotion was anger. I didn't express those emotions though. Why? Because th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/06/25 09:09 AM
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share many of your concerns. In fact I've actively avoided posting on these subs, largely because I didn't want to associate with the more extreme and in my opinion, unsavoury characters around. But I've come to the realisation that behaviour is in and of itself the very problem I would hope to see change when it comes to discussions about men's mental health - a sense of collective responsibility. I am not responsible for the fact historically women have been downtrodden. So why should I be res…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/06/25 05:03 PM
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I generally feel like this about most of the talking points from the potentially online types. I do not dismiss loneliness, and I don't dismiss the "man up" culture. But I don't recognise it at all - and people seem to be eager to dismiss me when I say I've never experienced these things as a man. i I genuinely don't know what "make loneliness" is; I don't understand how we are gendering loneliness. Sometimes I'm lonely, could do with a wider social circle - but I think nothing of popping out fo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/06/25 04:49 PM
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Just spent 24 hours inundated with replies on Reddit being told my lessons on mens mental health which were formed through therapy are wrong. Literally had one user falling over themselves to dismiss my points of view, and the methods of "speaking out" which have brought huge value to my mental health. Checked the profile ... Female. Plenty of posts about the patriarchy, plenty of posts dismissing men as a collective group - in fact, their entire existence in Reddit seems to revolve around socia…
/r/MensRights06/06/25 04:34 PM
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The societal pressures on "taking responsibility" and the gulf between what that means for men and women.
/r/MensRights03/06/25 05:41 AM
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I mean whether it's about taxes or not is another topic But I do think there is a harsh truth in this. From an evolutionary and population point of view men are more expendable than women. Thinking about ecological population's rather than societies - it makes sense to some extent. A single male can impregnate multiple females. However female animals typically have a gestation period which takes them "out of action" as it were. This makes species with heterosexual reproduction and gestation peri…
/r/MensRights03/06/25 04:33 AM
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You really thought you had something. Lmao. To be fair, I think they did find something - because you really couldn't be coming off worse if you intentionally went out of your way to do so.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 04:57 AM
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The guardian is a bizarre paper. Their journalism often is genuinely exceptional. They still put together some incredible research journalism, which provides genuine balanced critical analysis of problems. And then they just publish the most unhinged, decisive drivel relentlessly in the editorial and opinion pieces from widely discredited contributors. The editorial line of that power makes absolutely no sense anymore. At least you can rely on the red top rags to publish drivel - you never quite…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/25 04:45 AM
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