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Is speaking kindly with respect considered pandering? He goes through phases of being pretty verbally abusive (explained by his upbringing). That's a huge turn off. Chances are that he'll give up the words of affirmation before I get sick of it hahaa...
/r/RedPillWives05/06/20 11:27 PM
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I don't want to create dread in my husband. I wanted him to realize that I'm a pretty high value woman despite my gained weight from post pregnancy. It seems to have worked like turing on a light.
/r/RedPillWives05/06/20 09:34 PM
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I've suspected this along with ADHD. I've dealt with both and after 12 years of not taking medication, I started taking it again. I credit working out and overall healthy habits with not needing it as long as I did.
/r/RedPillWives31/05/20 08:37 PM
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I definitely wanna check out more of the OYS stuff.
/r/RedPillWives31/05/20 08:32 PM
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Porn for sure. He's way too much of a penny pincher for anything else hahaha. He's also a bit of a germaphobe. I'm the only one he's had sex with without a condom. To my knowledge, he only had sex with two girlfriends before me. We didn't live together before we got married. He preached minimalism. He lived with his aunt and uncle before marriage so I always assumed the clutter in his room was theirs. I managed to get down to size 10 (I'm tall) which he LOVED but never did his part in working ou…
/r/RedPillWives31/05/20 06:46 PM
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Thank you for your thorough reply. I acknowledge that the men over on TRP are definitely hurting and for good reason. I've considered and suggested divorce before but I really have a lot more to lose than he would. I don't have a good support system that would tolerate a divorce for anything less than physical abuse and/or cheating. I've honestly daydreamed about the possibility of cheating on him with ONE man I dated before him. My husband has been the only man I've completely had sex with. Tha…
/r/RedPillWives31/05/20 05:08 PM
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He doesn't really ask me for sex anyway, which adds to my distress. I would be the a bj a day kind of wife if it's take him so long to cum. I've only been able to get him to cum with a bj once and that was the first time I did it with him. My jaw was incredibly sore. He's only able to cum if I'm on top or his hand. He does have a porn habit of which I don't know the full extent of. He at least doesn't watch it when I'm home (I fly for work). Before posting this, I had to double check on my throw…
/r/RedPillWives31/05/20 04:59 PM
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