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| 1 | [deleted by user]I was tired when writing that lol | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Where can I get a seduction/PUA wingwoman/wingman?If you want to win a bodybuilding competition you will need roids. But only a tiny portion of girls are really into this. Most of them consider this Brat Pitt fight club look super sexy. But I guess your dad had more things going for him then muscles when he met your mom. I never did roids so I cant give you an answer on the confidence thing. Personaly I would say if you want to become more confident start a martial art. It will give you real confidence based on a skill set. The best confidence … | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Where can I get a seduction/PUA wingwoman/wingman?50% is how you look like. 1) Physical fitness is a honest signal (look this term up) in the animal kingdom. Get fit but don't do drugs, human girls don't want to date gorillas. 2) Get nice fitting clothes - educate yourself or hire a person to style you. This person shouldn't be a pickup coach - trust me on this. 3) Now you are ready to go out and socialize yourself. You might be autistic but one of the most successful former puas out there was half autistic too. Look up old stuff from (Owen aka… | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 03:21 AM |
| 21 | [deleted by user]Lol at volunteering I got laid back then telling girls I flip burgers at McDonalds. It was a lie - I studied computer science. Girls don't give a shit about your resume/cv. Her pussy is connected to a more primitive part of the brain. To give OP an answer. You have to invest time in this if you want to become good. And don't invest it bye selling girls the idea of a date with you online. This won't develop your social skills and you will be helpless in front of this girl. Tinder and Co is nice i… | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 03:02 AM |
| 1 | I've been approaching women since 2009 and have yet to have any kind of success, hundreds of approaches later. I feel immense self-hate and need someone to talk to.You are like a man telling a woman "look you are fat - but once you forget about it you will become attractive" you are not helping! | /r/seduction | 06/11/20 09:31 AM |
| 1 | I've been approaching women since 2009 and have yet to have any kind of success, hundreds of approaches later. I feel immense self-hate and need someone to talk to.What's your job? You have 11 years of cold approach experience. Go into sales! Work hard - money problem solved. What I found is that most pick-up advice is just enough to get you started. I heard about guys like you who do this for years without success. First if all - I admire your will power! But to give you some advice. Have you tried stuff that noone told you before? I sometimes would just throw something at the wall and to see what sticks. Back then Tyler always said "never believe anythin… | /r/seduction | 06/11/20 09:22 AM |
| 1 | I am officially surrendering and giving up with trying to improve my dating life.Dude girls help you to expose your weakness. You should thank them. I would suggest you work on your anger issues and develop some balls and approach a girl in real life. Or maybe 100-1000. Good luck... | /r/seduction | 20/10/20 03:48 AM |
| 2 | Insecurity about being a virgin stalling my progression in dating....Dude, it doesn't matter! I once pulled a girl who was big time into SM and pain. She wanted me to squeeze her small tits so hard my finger started hurting. She always wanted it harder and harder. I run out of ideas and remembered this silly arm twist thing from childhood. I did it on her and she was probably shocked. She left quickly after it. But it's one of the most funny memories about sex I have. A few weeks ago I pulled 2 19 year old girls into my apartment. One of them was totally into SM.… | /r/seduction | 20/10/20 03:37 AM |
| -1 | Women have made "nice guys" the villain, and its hilarious to me.Did I hurt your feelings? What's fds and foh? Read the book "No more Mr nice guy" if my post is a little to dense. It will help you a lot. I know this stuff because I was a hardcore nice guy. I solved it and have no problems with it any longer. | /r/MGTOW | 23/07/20 05:36 AM |
| -8 | Women have made "nice guys" the villain, and its hilarious to me.Nice guys are great manipulators. It's right to reject them. But the term "nice guy" is pretty bad because people think their fault id's to be genuinely nice. They arn't they are the sneaky dudes who think the woman needs to have sex with them because they helped her move. That's not how it works. Nice guys deserve to be treated badly by women. That's the only way they will reflect on their problem and change. A mentally healthy woman is your friend by pointing out your weakness. She will reject… | /r/MGTOW | 23/07/20 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Why does getting married feel like the right thing to do?Sound like you want to be MGTOW to fit in but now you don't fit in with the simps any longer and that's an unsolvable problem. Don't do what people or society tells you. Listen to your heart. If you think marriage is the right thing to do even you know all the downsides then do it. If you think it's stupid then don't do it. But never let your life be directed by other people who don't really give a shit about you. You live in a world full of ideas and concepts and its up to you to build your own… | /r/MGTOW | 20/07/20 06:41 PM |
| 1 | We all know how we feel about Gillette.. #GetWokeGoBroke but how do you guys feel about Harry's?Get something like that: https://www.amazon.com/Dovo-Shavette-Finish-Straight-Holder/dp/B007PCM87O It takes a bit of practice to learn but it's worth it. | /r/MGTOW | 20/07/20 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Guy strands up to a drunk for harassing two girls, gets beat up, gf loses respect for him.So first she told you to intervene and put you in danger and then she turns you down because you got beaten up? Have some self respect man and leave her! Find a better woman. | /r/MGTOW | 19/07/20 03:33 AM |
| 8 | Anyone ever tried dating after 30? This look familiar?Why not picking up 20 something chicks? If you are 30+ it's easily possible. If you are 40+ get fit and now it's possible. Talk to them on the street or on partys. It's fun with some practice. On dating apps are only the left-overs that nobody wanted. | /r/MGTOW | 19/07/20 02:26 AM |
| 2 | Remember for them your value is just a sperm and money donor nothing else... My wife (Indian) had said same to me (“Send money to talk to him”...being Alienated from my son since 4 years... ) .... AWALTWomen like this don't understand what they do to their children. A child needs a father or it will have to deal with psychological problems in the later life. | /r/MGTOW | 15/07/20 11:07 PM |
| 7 | Laughed so hardAnd she only counts the one that she liked. ONS mostly don't count as real sex partner for women. Chick logic. | /r/MGTOW | 15/07/20 10:32 PM |
| 3 | Goth, tattoo and drug addict is new norm.Women need to fit in for survival reasons. They can't tell anyone to go fuck themself, they need social capital and protection from others. That's also why for example french women would sleep with German soldiers during WW2. | /r/MGTOW | 14/07/20 09:03 AM |
| 2 | Why would you have a girlfriend?I don't think there is anything wrong with women. They have their own interests but so have I. I'm just exploring this MGTOW thing currently because I found a smart dude on YouTube who said he is MGTOW. And I'm naturally so far away from society's expectations that it's not a great stretch for me. I was never married and never planned too even before learning about this. I just don't get the women hate. I thought that's an incel thing. I always valued women because they would brutally show me my… | /r/MGTOW | 12/07/20 10:24 PM |
| -10 | Why would you have a girlfriend?It sounds depressing dude. I've never been with a prostitute. Maybe it's better but I think I could not enjoy it. You are also just 48. If you would live healthily and do some sports you could easily get laid with 20-40 year old girls. What's the problem with them having children? That's life. You can string along multiple married moms as your girlfriends while their husbands take care of them financially. They will have sex with you instead of with their simp husband. You should learn game. It'… | /r/MGTOW | 12/07/20 11:42 AM |
| 2 | Why would you have a girlfriend?I like women and enjoy being around them. Sex for free isn't so much the reason. But repeated sex with the same person makes it better. You just get better over time. I would say dead bedrooms is more of an issue with men in scarcity going for the first pussy they can get. Go through 50 till 100 women and figure out what you like. Never go raw, bro. You can if you accept that the girl might get pregnant. If you are concerned that she cheats on you it's your mistake. Set up the relationship corre… | /r/MGTOW | 12/07/20 11:30 AM |
| 9 | How do I stop being creepy.The trick for me was to become comfortable with my creepyness. Don't try to avoid it. Extend your comfort zone into this and you are fine. If you talk to a girl and she is like "ew creepy dude" it doesn't matter because you should have the stronger frame! If you were an actor and someone pays you a huge amount of money to do that I guess you wouldn't give a flying fuck about the opinion of this girl. And as an "alpha" you just don't give a fuck if she likes you or not your goal is self amusement… | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 04:37 PM |
| 2 | I used to be able to attract girls, and now i cant to save my life??Not enough! But don't approach around or on college. You can do that once in while, when you really see a girl that you can't walk by. It's better in a crowded city center. | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 02:01 PM |
| 1 | I’m very curious about the women’s body after 50. I’ve always dated older since college and I found my favorite age of women were 28-35 with high sex drive and could have intelligent conversations. Now I’m 34 and talking to a 50 yr old that looks like she’s 30. What’s the sex drive and anything elseHad sex with a woman 10 years older than me. Wasn't worth it. But my data points are shit. On the good side she won't play games as young retarded girls. | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 11:22 AM |
| 2 | [?] Is it normal to progress so slowly?Hey man here is some food of thought. I am in game for about 10 years - couldn't get laid at all without this help. When I first got into this I used a pretty smart approach. I had to overcome my anxiety since I knew it crippled me and my social abilities. I found something called approach anxiety program from good looking loser. At first I had to come at terms that I learn how to be good with woman from a guy who was the antitheses to anything I ever believed in. But it was worth it 100% this g… | /r/seduction | 02/08/19 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Can someone help me with "Fear of Success"?Fear of success means you have ingrained in your unconsciousness a negative belief that tells you "I don't deserve success ... " because I am a piece of shit or some other silly reason. You need to reprogram your unconsciousness - yes it's possible to do it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xsA91lxuF00 I don't really have a plan from A to Z but there are quite a few books written about the topic - just keep in mind that understanding the problem doesn't mean to solve the problem. Your unconscious… | /r/seduction | 04/06/19 07:32 AM |
| 1 | What's a normal success % in day game? (50% in study)Exactly, during the day try an instant date and pull and during the night just pull, no numbers. Keep in mind that you need good demographics for this to make it work. | /r/seduction | 11/11/18 05:59 PM |
| 1 | General thoughts on RSD Derek?700+ wouldn't be much for a guy who does this stuff full time. | /r/seduction | 03/11/18 05:51 PM |
| 2 | What's a normal success % in day game? (50% in study)Confidence and looks is key in day game. If you suck, maybe 1 out of 10 is realistic. I had times were I got around 8 out of 10. But that number is pointless and even a high success rate here can be bad. It just means you don't screen hard enough. Girls who are not available will give you your number because you were charming and liked you but its nothing coming from that. If you are that good. Stop taking numbers. The only exception is after you fucked the girl. You might think this is crazy di… | /r/seduction | 03/11/18 05:44 PM |
| 1 | guess my age (srs)When a girl tells me I must be 20 something, I just act like she gave me a big knee-weakening compliment, but I exaggerate it so it's clear that I am joking. She told me age is not important. What is important is that I was so insecure that I lied about something unimportant like that. Instant turn off. | /r/seduction | 21/07/18 12:26 PM |
| 0 | guess my age (srs)Being good looking can affect your game in a way that you think girls expecting you to be this crazy stud while you are not. This makes you insecure around them and you start to worry about stupid shit like your age. I got a lot of shit for being insecure about my age from a girl recently. And believe me, this girl was a total 10 for this stage of my life I am in right now. I had to learn it the hard way. So it doesn't fucking matter how old you look like. Girls will like you if you are an ugly … | /r/seduction | 21/07/18 09:30 AM |
| 1 | MysteryMethod only for US people?I think your body language or something else is off. Its not about US vs Europe. To make this work you must come off as high value, so the friend thinks you might be a good catch for her. The likelihood that it won't work is high, but still when you can make it work, what you learn from it might be worth the hassle. Btw. High value means you behave casual as fuck and don't give a shit about your impression, still you might have manners and good behavior but its not related. So what you need is t… | /r/seduction | 19/07/18 11:32 PM |
| 2 | MysteryMethod only for US people?It's not what you say but how you say it. One possibile reason why it doesn't work might be that it just isn't something you would like to say to a girl. But I would try to make it work just for fun. Experiment with the way you say this stuff. | /r/seduction | 19/07/18 09:37 AM |
| 1 | girls are never attracted to meWe are how old as a species? Let's say 10 million years. For 3000-4000 years some of us live in bigger cities. Since 20-30 years women got the same rights as men. We share the same workplace can vote and stuff. No, if a man is unsure about himself and needs this woman they can smell it. There is a difference between needing something and wanting something. Most people need money and they accept the shittiest deals that are handed to them. The neediest people work at McDonald's. They are replaced… | /r/seduction | 18/07/18 07:28 PM |
| 2 | girls are never attracted to meGirls are really good at detecting this. When you get better you will notice it too in other guys when they talk to girls. | /r/seduction | 18/07/18 07:00 PM |
| 1 | girls are never attracted to meNope, nope, nope | /r/seduction | 18/07/18 04:02 PM |
| 2 | girls are never attracted to meNo, that's a false belief and all just in your head. You don't need more. Well, you need a life (purpose) and she needs the feeling that you are a man who goes after his goals. But it's not that you as a person need something special. When you can't get these girls it's mostly because you treat them differently than the 6/10. A good start is to stop using this scale and just think is "damn hot girl I want to fuck", "would maybe fuck her when I'm needy" and "no, no, never". What you shouldn't be … | /r/seduction | 18/07/18 10:22 AM |
| 1 | girls are never attracted to meYou don't need to be more. | /r/seduction | 18/07/18 06:41 AM |
| 1 | girls are never attracted to meDude, do you even go out? | /r/seduction | 17/07/18 04:38 PM |
| 1 | girls are never attracted to meWhat value does prettyboy bring to the table that you couldn't? To give you a wink: your non existent self confidence is putting girls off. Hit the gym, dress properly, get a haircut and have good body hygiene and you are fine. | /r/seduction | 17/07/18 02:08 PM |
| 1 | girls are never attracted to meWatch the resonator from jeffy | /r/seduction | 17/07/18 02:02 PM |
| 1 | girls are never attracted to me5000 approaches and zero results? Have you down the basics, means are you in shape and do you feel good about yourself? How do you dress? Grooming and all this stuff... And secondly did you try different angles? When I started I was doing 10 approaches in one way, then I would go amd analyse the shit out of it and come up sith something new and try it again 10 times. I know that might sound a bit redicules but don't see failure as something bad. Failing is always a chance to learn. Also really i… | /r/seduction | 17/07/18 09:59 AM |
| 1 | What to do when other guys start trying to dance with the girl youre dancing with and shes open to it?Really bad move. You give him validation this way. Best is to ignore him. | /r/seduction | 17/07/18 01:21 AM |
| 1 | What to do when other guys start trying to dance with the girl youre dancing with and shes open to it?When other guy march into your set it means from the outside it doesn't look like it's on/she is your girlfriend. Maybe you look like the average chode trying to get laid. The other problem is the girl doesn't see you as so high value compared to the other guys. You are just the guy she is dancing with right now and you are easily replaced. (She made out with other guys too.) - You give her too much validation. What you did good was you were the last man standing. My advice would be, have less a… | /r/seduction | 17/07/18 01:02 AM |
| 1 | My city is my enemy -- a story helping you to better understand shittests.Thanks for your analysis. When I wrote this I was still in drama queen mode. Actually, she isn't insecure. She is pretty confident. But what's true is, I put her on a pedestal. Well, we also share a lot of values. Really cool girl. What helped me a lot is, that I was ready to let her go. Otherwise, I would have been super needy and unattractive. We talked meanwhile together over a coffee. I went full Mark Manson and made myself vulnerable. Explained what happened in my mind and why I was insecur… | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 06:49 PM |
| 1 | My city is my enemy -- a story helping you to better understand shittests.Meditated today and came after it to the conclusion that this was maybe something I had to resolve. I was always placing fitness girls on the pedestal. Looking at their pictures on the internet I thought, damn these girls are tough, strong and must be really confident. Now, I got one and realized she is just an insecure girl looking for a strong shoulder. The thing that puts me off is the trouble she caused for me. I was obsessing over this the last week and it brought me off from my path that i… | /r/seduction | 12/07/18 07:47 PM |
| 2 | My city is my enemy -- a story helping you to better understand shittests.That's interesting it aligns with a talk from Tyler I listened to yesterday. https://youtu.be/G1LQs7NbTOs | /r/seduction | 10/07/18 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Best city to work on game in?Gaming girls is really easy in Prague. You have high quality of Czech girls (good looking eastern european model type) and easy tourists (more average looking southern europeans wanting to have fun). The city is big enough 1.2 million (+ maybe 200.000 tourists in the warmer seasons) and it's kinda cheap to life there compared to the UK. My current goal is to move there too. But I still working on my own business to pull that off. Have a look at this video to get an idea what it is. I would also … | /r/seduction | 13/04/17 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Who else reads all the stuff here, along with the books but...Okay, here is a game: Your first task is to ask 5 girls for the time. (easy) The next 5 girls you ask for a direction. (still easy) The next 5 girls you ask for a direction and have a short conversation afterwards. (make it like 1-3 minutes, if it goes longer you get extra points) The next 5 girls: direction, compliment, short conversation. (Point out something that you really like about her - I like your shoes. You have a good taste.) after 2 or 3 minutes you tell her, "You are cool, but I real… | /r/seduction | 12/04/17 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Don't know what to do? CRY FOR HELPqI'd also be content with being just her friend just because she's so hot. So you want to be her friend because she is hot. Well, imagine you were her for a moment. While you are walking around your day, lots of guys try talking to you, getting to know you and all they see is a nice ass and a pretty face. You life in unbelievable abundance but the downside is everyone is fucking fake. They are nice, no matter how you treat them. Pretty soon you will become sick of it. You want real people who don… | /r/seduction | 22/03/17 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Is everyone taken more of these days?There are more woman than the one of the campus. If you want to learn cold approach and you just start out calculate with about 500 woman you have to approach until you get lucky. In the meantime try to become happy. Learning the skills to get women can also be a lot of fun. You just need to become outcome independent and enjoy the process. The difference between a creepy approach and a hilarious one is outcome independence and self-amusement. | /r/seduction | 22/03/17 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Don't know what to do? CRY FOR HELPqI want to just be her friend I don't buy it and she neither. Just admit that you want to get to know her better, because she makes you horny. This strategy is doomed to fail. To be honest she is really nice to you! You don't want to become one of her many orbiters. And you don't need her to be happy. Instead be a man and go after your goals! Instead of clinging to her, do something for yourself! You want to get fit? Go to the gym! You want to get better social skills? Get out and talk to a lot o… | /r/seduction | 22/03/17 04:37 PM |
| 1 | When I approach mixed sets in the club other guys will always get in my face. How to I react here?This sounds reasonable. | /r/seduction | 27/01/17 05:28 AM |
| 1 | When I approach mixed sets in the club other guys will always get in my face. How to I react here?I know this from the other perspective too. Usually I wouldn't care, but if they become to annoying then I just kiss her and shattered their dreams. No need to be insecure. | /r/seduction | 27/01/17 05:25 AM |
| 5 | It's my final semester of college and I'm a virgin. How do I get laid?You base your identity on being a virgin. That makes it a big deal for you and hard to change it. | /r/seduction | 13/01/17 04:26 PM |
| 3 | What are your go to questions/ topics when you want to get REALLY personal in a conversation during a date?Something I use is: If you where an animal, what animal would you be? If you could be at any place in the world right now, where would you be? Or if you want to be more straight forward: What drives you in life? What are your goals and desires? | /r/seduction | 26/12/16 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Is it my personality? Or how I interact with people? 19 FIf you want to be a police officer and currently weight 200lbs. Join a gym. This might also help the attraction problem you have. If you feel more attractive other people will also see this in you. | /r/seduction | 25/12/16 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else good looking but bad socially?To get up on this level, stop hunting for numbers. Approach to get her on an Instant Date. No number needed. If she offers you her number, make some joke that you are not this kind of guy, but you are cool to get a coffee around the corner. Drive this further if possible, if logistics are really bad then take her number. You will see your approaches will change (it forces you to become better) and you will become more solid. | /r/seduction | 22/12/16 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Tis' better to ask a girl for her phone number or snapchatA number is unfinished business. You take her on an Instant Date and from there in an ideal situation home to have sex. It's not often that this will actually work out. Mostly logistics arn't really in your favour. That's when you fall back to a number. Also try to time bridge. Means that you set up the date while still talking to her and then you take her number. You can see this in many you tube videos. And yes forget about snapchat in this situation. When you approach a girl on a party showin… | /r/seduction | 22/12/16 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Sex tips? Things you wish you knew the first time!Yeah, clean the bathroom and especially the toilet. | /r/seduction | 22/12/16 03:27 PM |
| 71 | Sex tips? Things you wish you knew the first time!Doesn't matter how shitty the sex really is, you will think it's heaven on earth. So enjoy and do what you like. Also use a condom! | /r/seduction | 21/12/16 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else good looking but bad socially?That is because society tells you looks matter, but girls hook up with the social guy. The social guy is likely to rise to the top, the good looking guy is only good for the ugly girl who would like to have kids with better genes. But see it like this. Your looks were for free. You won here. Becoming social is a full job. The not so good looking guy had to do this too, he just was aware that he can't rely on his looks and got his ass up earlier. | /r/seduction | 21/12/16 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else good looking but bad socially?I'd recommend to go out of your comfort zone. Did you ever notice that good looking girls are always more reserved? It's because they don't want to fuck up. Everyone thinks they are beautiful of course they must be perfect. The Natural response is to act blasé. To approach a girl like that you have to fill her up fist with the confidence that you are okay that she is not perfect. I'd say you are in a very similar situation. People give you compliments about your looks, they have a great impressi… | /r/seduction | 21/12/16 01:34 PM |
| 2 | [34M] Where am I, and where do I go from here?Ask yourself: When you see a girl on a date are YOU down to fuck? Are YOU horny enough that you want to fuck her? Non of this game advice will help you, if you don't want to get laid. DiCarlo Escalation Ladder is nice to make you understand the theory behind it, but honestly if there is a beautiful girl your natural instinct should be that you want to touch her. If you are nervous this might be a stopper. When a girl sees you become nervous she will also become nervous and things might not work … | /r/seduction | 28/11/16 10:14 PM |
| 137 | How fucking strong is push pull!!!!!Have you considered that she just likes you? | /r/seduction | 28/11/16 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Quick Question- why do girls not text back?Phone numbers mean shit. It's just a second chance to finish the job when the logistics didn't align. | /r/seduction | 25/11/16 01:02 PM |
| 2 | I'm starting to not care about women what so ever after consistently being ignored, used, led on, etc. I know I have no game, and have less heartache completely letting go. Please change my mind.become horny | /r/seduction | 25/11/16 12:59 PM |
| 5 | How are some people able to get laid on tinder even without a date?Apocalypse opener | /r/seduction | 25/11/16 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Feel like I'm missing out because I am depressed. I am depressed because I feel like I'm missing out. How to fucking break this cycle?Increase serotonin level to become a happy and stretched out redditer. Jogging, working out, even a walk in the fresh air can help. | /r/seduction | 25/10/16 12:06 AM |
| 9 | breakup, no friends, how to go out alone?Problem is if you are some nerd without social skills the likelihood for you to pull this off is exactly 0%. And then everything is based on a lie. Why would anyone want to do that? | /r/seduction | 23/10/16 12:32 AM |
| 1 | breakup, no friends, how to go out alone?Find a wing for nightgame, but when you want a girlfriend a better way is to start daygame. Most high quality girls in your age group don't frequent partys so often. | /r/seduction | 23/10/16 12:25 AM |
| 1 | When should I tell her that I am not looking for a relationship.I am not interested. | /r/seduction | 20/10/16 09:41 PM |
| 0 | When should I tell her that I am not looking for a relationship.I told her I am happy meeting her again but I am not looking for a relationship. She didn't took it well. Blocked me on WhatsApp. But hey, I was honest. At least I have more time now to find a different woman. | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 03:21 PM |
| 1 | My biggest fear is that I'll chat a girl up who appears to be alone and then her boyfriend comes back from the bathroom...Haha, I was on a date with a girl discussing the ins and outs of wearing a burqa. Yeah, she had nice legs but was kinda crazy. She told me white men shouldn't try to dictate what woman should wear or not wear. I told her "I don't care about that." but she wouldn't get it. | /r/seduction | 13/10/16 08:54 PM |
| 13 | Psycho ex girlfriend punched him in the face,and now she won't leave (x-post /r/videos)The guys should just calm down open himself a beer sit down on his couch watch some telly until this spooky girl runs out of energy. Instead he is acting like a wussy, no wonder he ended up with her in the first place. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/10/16 06:12 AM |
| 2 | Should I even attempt to become good in night game?You got a pm. | /r/seduction | 08/10/16 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Should I even attempt to become good in night game?I am going to met up with Mr Mysterious again today. I won't drink a drop of alcohol and I open every fucking girl on my way to the club. This is war now. :D | /r/seduction | 08/10/16 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Should I even attempt to become good in night game?how did the conversation go with the girl in the street who you took back to your place? (open, then what was said etc) I said hi to her and noticed that she would allow me to hold her hand. I looked her in the eyes and pulled her lightly towards me. We kissed each other. It was just on. From here escalation is not so difficult. But keep in mind she also came from a party and had a fair amount of alcohol and it was night and she was super chill talking to me. Did you tell your friend who said yo… | /r/seduction | 08/10/16 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Why invest in fitness, looks, clothes, hygiene, learning social skills, books, seduction... if the main goal is not to impress others?The idea is to increase your quality of life. The idea is also not to impress others (put them down on the social latter) but to lead by example (help them climbing up). The last part is what makes them like you. | /r/seduction | 08/10/16 10:29 AM |
| 1 | I fucked upIn case it wasn't obvious, I asked because I think you're pretty and I enjoy talking to you. :) Don't do this. Met up with her friendly. It's just a coffee you have with her. When you finally got her on the date you can be more forward. | /r/seduction | 08/10/16 10:25 AM |
| 1 | How to seduce a girl smarter then you?Just because a girl is good looking, doesn't make her stupid. There are a lot of stunners out there being at the same time sharp as fuck. But my advice would be, if you want to learn something read a book, take a class whatever. Being smart is not the same as having wisdom. | /r/seduction | 01/10/16 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Women Complain to be Sexually Harassed by Seduction StudentsSome girls I approached told me that something like this happened to her before. And then she goes on to tell me how this unknown guy told her that he was on a self development journey and so on. Usually he was also very nice, but the conversation must have lacked sexual tension. I always wonder why someone would give his frame away so easily and tell a girl something like this. I will just listen to her story , tell her that this is kind of interesting because I never had such a guy coming up t… | /r/seduction | 05/08/16 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Handling "you look old""Today was my last day at work. I am offically retried, now!" and be happy about you going into a live long holiday. | /r/seduction | 13/07/16 03:39 PM |
| 2 | I've been rejected around 25 - 30 times without any success did any of you go through this when starting out how did you keep motivated?Something I struggle with again and again is outcome independence. When I have a day where every girl will reject me it's most of the time that I am outcome dependend. I want something to work and then I fuck it up. The best approaches happen if you are in the flow and everything comes just natural. But getting there is terrible hard especially if you have no experience. What you can do is to set lower goals. Try to get 10 handshakes or 10 names. Try to get 10 hugs or 10 conversation that lasted… | /r/seduction | 07/07/16 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Sales Guy Gave Me His Number?What did he try to sell you? It's a lot of commitment to give out private information to a customer just to sell something. I would never do this. I think you can risk it and if he is that terrible that he uses your reply just for a second sales attempt, then you can stop thinking about him and block his number. | /r/seduction | 21/06/16 08:10 AM |
| 0 | sitting in a coffee shop waiting for my date to arrive. first one in a long time. I'm shittin bricks. wish me luck.I would tell her that "I know this great place, we can go to. Come on, I lead you!" Then I take her hand and start walking expecting her to follow. It's a non cheesy way to grap her hand. | /r/seduction | 18/06/16 10:45 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with constant rejection from girls? Have any of you come from having no ability to getting girls?What does it mean to get rejected? You can cold approach a girl and she doesn't even stop. Fine, but still you tried to stop her and make her day. Maybe you get her number. Fine, but she flaked on you. Maybe you go on a date. Fine, but it but went home alone and she won't see you again. Maybe you took her home and you had sex. Fine, but after it she doesn't answer you messages. Maybe she becomes your new fuckbuddy. Fine, but she says she can't have feelings for you and that is just sex. Maybe yo… | /r/seduction | 16/06/16 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Number closed like a champ and she agrees to a time bridged date. Then she writes, I can't meet up with you. I just broke up with my ex. What would you answer?I got an answer after sending her an reply. She said she was in a bad mood and would only bring my mood down too if we meet up. Proves the point that a girls mood is everything for her. When I number closed her she was smiling and happy. I offered to delay the date to Sunday. Maybe she agrees. Thing is she is a total 10 from her looks. She could be on the cover of a Fashion Magazin and she is an art student so hopefully open minded. | /r/seduction | 16/06/16 09:38 PM |
| -2 | Should i lie about having never had a relationship ?Think about this after you both had sex. | /r/seduction | 14/05/16 09:18 PM |
| 0 | Good answers when being hit with "I have a boyfriend"?Ignore it and carry on as usal. I had a girl on a date telling me "I have a boyfriend.", when I leaned in to kiss her. I looked at her and just said "okay". Then I leaned again in to kiss her and it worked. I guess it worked because I showed a huge amount of confidence by doing so. I was also doing it in front of some people being able to listen to our conversation. Later she became my fuckbuddy. And acctually she wasn't lying. She had a boyfriend (long distance relationship). | /r/seduction | 13/05/16 05:39 PM |
| 9 | I'm a 23 year old hugless, kissless, dateless virgin who lives in a really small town with few places to meet people, let alone women. What can I do to make relationships not only with women but just make friends too?Move! | /r/seduction | 12/05/16 06:03 PM |
| 1 | I have more times that I can count got a girl from club to my house, only to find out at my house they do not actually want anything. Where do I go wrong??You defiantly need to kiss her before you take her home. It might work the other way around but what are you doing if it fails? Back on the street or club to try the next girl? I would always test if she is receptive for it. Here is a video of a guy who shows the whole pick up: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M642qEfkeE0 | /r/seduction | 06/05/16 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Can somebody help me with this problem?Do you have maybe a tight lipped smile on your face while walking around the campus? People always mirror your expressions if they like you and are not psychopathic. | /r/seduction | 05/05/16 09:37 AM |
| 5 | I have more times that I can count got a girl from club to my house, only to find out at my house they do not actually want anything. Where do I go wrong??Do you escalate before taking them home? Are you maybe getting nervous? | /r/seduction | 05/05/16 09:31 AM |
| 2 | MOA Residential Announcement - (& Spontaneous Day Game Infield)I tried this with number closes in a club and it worked. Use her phone for the selfie and she will have a picture that reminds her of you. | /r/seduction | 04/05/16 04:15 PM |
| 1 | It's not the fear of rejection that gets you...You are fooling yourself. Your morality here is actually just your brain trying to sell you your lack of confidence as something positive. Fuck this, you need to be brave and approach anyway. If you want a backup for this look up Nietzsche's view on morality. | /r/seduction | 02/05/16 05:55 PM |
| 0 | [FR] 18m here, did my first ever approach today, on a 10/10 gym milfYou got beta shamed, but good job talking to her. It didn't work out, but you are still alive. Plus you found out she isn't available. I would say it was a success. Do this 3 times per day and you will soon become better at it. | /r/seduction | 27/04/16 07:25 AM |
| 1 | Best explanation I heard of what the game really is from a broad scientific point of view.Well, and I won't force you. | /r/seduction | 26/04/16 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Any cool response to the why I don't have Facebook or ain't present on any social media?Facebook? No, I don't have an account. But my mother gave me this phone. Put your number in. I send you a message. | /r/seduction | 25/04/16 08:19 PM |
| 6 | What do you do with girls if you have no money?A swing and a bottle of wine. Got this recommendation from a girl I talked too a few days ago. | /r/seduction | 18/04/16 11:04 PM |
| 0 | My wing man was attacked today when he approached a girl. I'm not sure what to thinkI get constantly emails where Max wants to sell some new Program. I was bored and read this email. He wrote that he got a black eye in a club in Vienna for teasing a drunk guy. I also remember seeing a video of Todd with a black eye. | /r/seduction | 17/04/16 05:58 PM |
| 2 | My wing man was attacked today when he approached a girl. I'm not sure what to thinkMake always sure she sees you before you touch her. If you freak the girl out because you touched her out of nowhere, she won't be able to trust in you and it's over. | /r/seduction | 17/04/16 05:15 PM |
| 9 | I am 27, still Virgin, Chennai, India. Is there a hope?No you won't. But you need to take this shit serious as fuck. You want to get laid and get a girlfriend than work your ass off to become the best person you can be and face your fears. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iWoAvqhODJs It's a part of the blueprint. I would recommend you watch the whole thing. Take his words to heart. Success won't come over night for most but if you stick to it and push it hard maybe 2 years from now you will get a girlfriend. Try everything that you hear or read by yo… | /r/seduction | 17/04/16 04:41 PM |
| 3 | How to penetrate a woman within 30 seconds of meeting…No Clickbait please | /r/seduction | 17/04/16 02:41 PM |
| 1 | I offend women should I feel bad?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0kaR6-MIV8k push pull explained | /r/seduction | 16/04/16 06:59 AM |
| 1 | How does one actually enjoy the process of picking up a girl?Why don't you pay a girl for sex then? I wouldn't recommend this to anyone interested in pick up, but it seems you have no interests in the person itself just in the release of your sperm. | /r/seduction | 13/04/16 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Models, models everywhere. A lesson in social status.Don't go for a number. Go for a drink after the show is over. Figure out her logistics and take her back into your hotel room. Find some excuse for that. A last drink, the awesome view from the window over the city, your cooking skills, a funny looking picture at the wall. You just need some excuse for her so she won't feel slutty when she follows you. | /r/seduction | 25/03/16 10:05 PM |
| 1 | I can't do itThe perfect is the enemy of the good. If you don't allow yourself to fail or make mistakes how do you want to get better? | /r/seduction | 19/02/16 01:29 AM |
| 3 | What are some techniques for going in for the kiss?Interlock fingers when holding her hand. It's a silly little kiss test I do. If she is comfortable holding your hand this way it's very unlikely that she rejects you trying to kiss her. | /r/seduction | 16/02/16 06:06 AM |
| -1 | Haven't seen this tip on here, so I'll share it with y'all: Take girls on dates in the rainRoleplay. Girls love it. Just pull out your umbrella and start singing. | /r/seduction | 15/02/16 11:37 PM |
| 1 | The Rise of The Pickup YouTube StarsSelf proclaimed feminists discovered him and started petitions restricting him entry in whole countries. They tried to make his life hell. | /r/seduction | 15/02/16 01:47 PM |
| 2 | “Don’t ask a fish how to catch a fish” Or "A word of advice from a woman"If you are a girl and are looking above average. Walk up to some guy tell him that you think he is cute and take his hand and ask him to sleep with you. That's how pick up for girls can work. Your success rate might be 50% on a bad day. If you are man, forget about it. Women are the nature, they decide who is worth for reproduction and who isn't. | /r/seduction | 10/02/16 06:42 PM |
| 1 | What are you supposed to do when you have made over 100 approaches and still have no success?Definitely have a look into the AA program from goodlookingloser.com. You will learn a lot of things from it, that you can't learn otherwise, but you need to actually do it. | /r/seduction | 09/02/16 02:40 AM |
| 1 | What are you supposed to do when you have made over 100 approaches and still have no success?You need to experiment more. Have you gotten a number or date out of this? Start judging your approach by how you felt about it, the girls reaction doesn't matter at all. Work on one thing at the time. Eye-contact, bodylanguage, how loud you talk, braking rapport (It means your voice goes down at the end of the sentence.) When you rely on the girls reaction you will not get better because it's mostly random if you are bad at it. | /r/seduction | 09/02/16 01:05 AM |
| 1 | European Pickup Tour - Free Talk in Most Major CitiesWhen I join their Facebook group will everyone in my friends list see that I just became a member of this? | /r/seduction | 06/02/16 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Jordan B Peterson: Personality and its Transformations (2015)I found this because some guy linked it here citing the fact that women rate 85% of the men on dating apps like tinder under average. While the other 15% are above average and get all the women. That's nothing different in real life. But in real life more things like a good picture matters in the quest about girls or reproduction. I listened already to 3 lectures from him and the information he gives there is invaluable to everyone trying to understand why you have to go out there in the real wo… | /r/seduction | 03/02/16 10:30 AM |
| 2 | [FR] 30 Day Challenge, Day 2Make short approaches and keep them outcome independent. Ask a girl for some direction and end it by giving her a compliment about what she is wearing. Doesn't matter if she reacts awkward or wellcoming. You can experiment by complimenting really good looking woman vs. not so good looking woman. Mostly the ones who are not so good looking won't take the compliment. This is important because it shows you that it is completly independent from you. Some girl have low self-estem, some girls think ev… | /r/seduction | 25/01/16 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Girls who act diva and say "I know" when you compliment them.Push pull: These are really nice shoes. My grandma has the same. You have really nice eyes. My dog has the same eyecolor. | /r/seduction | 22/01/16 08:41 PM |
| 14 | One Easy Quick Technique to Get Solid Numbers During The Day By RSD TODD (and reduce flakes)That's pretty short. I just got a number with date on Saturday. I was actually looking for a place that is still open and is selling food. Girl with bags of groceries, walking into my direction. Hi! Is this place where you got this still open? Yes, you have 15minutes left. Okay, thank you. I started walking into the direction she came from and thought. "Damn, dude she was cute!" I turned around and stopped her again. He Hey, can I ask you something different? What you want to ask? What is your n… | /r/seduction | 13/01/16 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Today is my birthday and no one cared.Happy Birthday somebody_nobody! | /r/seduction | 11/01/16 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Can a homeless looking person be attractive enough to pick up women?There is also Willy Beck. | /r/seduction | 09/01/16 10:38 AM |
| 2 | My problem is that I am aloof and I find people boring.Are you really bored or are you maybe overwhelmed and this is your brain dealing with this situation by shutting itself down? | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 07:41 PM |
| 3 | Do you always kiss a girl at the end of a first date?Could you give a short description what you do on the date. I have the experience that either I go for the kiss and it works or I will never see her again. Doesn't matter if I tried or not. | /r/seduction | 06/01/16 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Do girls see the guy thats flirting with multiple women in a negative way?Learn how to screen a girl. | /r/seduction | 05/01/16 09:44 PM |
| 1 | GoodLookingLoser AA program??Nope, it's perfectly save to do this. Just make sure to do all the tasks properly. Don't skip days. If you are really scared about this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KXKZXCqaPco | /r/seduction | 20/12/15 10:09 PM |
| 1 | I thought I was the only one who felt this kind of anxiety around women, then I saw this film...The message kind of reminds me of the Indian Jesus video | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 02:36 PM |
| 5 | Best book to buyI also recommend Mark Manson - Models. If you are looking for some good you tube channels: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mEejS1bJgy8 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FNFOwfCLk-k https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AI2EknhjyK4 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V3-EpyOrjBk (highly recommended talk) If you have trouble with AA or how to get started take a look at this course. | /r/seduction | 07/12/15 08:08 PM |
| 4 | I approached a girl and accidentally went straight into talking about her being topless and how she likes cum. Got her number.Nope, I don't live in an English speaking country and it is not my native language. | /r/seduction | 29/11/15 05:38 PM |
| 6 | I approached a girl and accidentally went straight into talking about her being topless and how she likes cum. Got her number.A real German Christmas market in Germany. | /r/seduction | 29/11/15 11:15 AM |
| 4 | I approached a girl and accidentally went straight into talking about her being topless and how she likes cum. Got her number.Thx.Yes, I am. | /r/seduction | 29/11/15 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Dear Seddit. Take This Free Daygame Book. It took me two months to write it. And I teach daygame full time. It's good.I was reading the book yesterday and tried the spin her around thing. I had a hard time to find even one girl. But I was lucky after 10 minutes walking a pretty attractive girl crossed my way. I said "Give me your hand!" in a commanding but friendly way, she was a moment confused and then gave me her hand. I spun her around and created a big smile on her face. She didn't want to let me go after this, but my brain wasn't really in "get her number mode". I just smiled and said "bye". I was getting… | /r/seduction | 22/11/15 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Something is wrong with my game since I found a FWB.I did a field test after work, did my hair and groomed my beard. I went out and approached a few girls. First girl I bombed. She was 31 years old and thought I am too young for her. That's funny. I was actually a bit happy about getting this blow out from her. Second was a number close. A girl with Spanish/Arabic heritage. Really pretty. First year in college. She was at most 19-20 years old. She gave me her number and we might go for a drink. Third was again a number close. She was a bit older … | /r/seduction | 13/11/15 09:00 AM |
| 1 | Choose a seduction style (and lifestyle) based on your strengths, not your weaknessesThat's all fine and dandy. But the problem with it is, you became the person you are now because you went through all this stuff that you now consider as not your way to game girls. When you tell someone not to do this as you did, you take away the chance for him to become a better or completer version of himself. | /r/seduction | 06/11/15 08:07 PM |
| 9 | How To Get Sexual QUICK! (video)Caveman game? I don't know I always do it this way. I would call it screening for a girl that is DTF. But this guy is really good. Nice demo. | /r/seduction | 01/11/15 01:03 PM |
| 3 | I can't get a girlfriendIf the girl looks down, it's an IOI. She is just shy and thinks you are cute/sexy. Anyway eye contact isn't so important before you say hi. Just say hello to her give her a smile and make her a compliment. If you life in a huge city have a look at goodlookingloser.com the approach anxiety course. Start in week 1 and work your way up to week 8. | /r/seduction | 26/10/15 04:15 PM |
| 3 | Girls saying they don't like my style. Shit test or should I actually make a change?Not everything is a shit test. Show us the shades. | /r/seduction | 09/10/15 01:23 PM |
| 1 | my statistics from pickup since may (AMA)Try to get her on an instant date. If you have done that a few times, try to get get her home to your place. This is easier during the evening. You need to escalate very bold to filter out the girls that arn't DTF. Look up videos from Willy Beck or Good Looking Loser. | /r/seduction | 06/10/15 05:30 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with slapping?It sounds like you and the girls are really young. Anyway, it's not okay if you get slapped by someone. Learn to set healthy boundaries. Here is a cool reaction of Tom Cruise after some idiot shoots water in his face. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_4sdfcrycEU | /r/seduction | 04/10/15 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Sedditor Locator 2015Leipzig | /r/seduction | 01/10/15 05:12 PM |
| 6 | How do people manage to get their perfumes to smell from so far awayI guess they use a fucking lot of it. When I pass such a person with a girl, they will always give a negative comment about it. It's like they try to hide a terrible body odor. Not very sexy. If you use it use just so much that a girl can smell it, if she comes really close to you. It makes it somewhat special for her. | /r/seduction | 12/09/15 12:09 PM |
| 3 | Struggling to get the second dateI had the same problem. I tried to kino, but honestly I had no idea what I was doing. I tried this Mystery or Di Carlo Escalation Ladder stealthy stuff and it didn't work at all for me. Then I reduced my kino to some simple moves, but I escalate very bold. I hug or give her a this french kiss on the cheeks. Depends on the situation. I high five or give her a bro fist. When walking next to her I just grab her hand. If she allows it, I put her arm around my waist and put my arm around her waist or… | /r/seduction | 01/09/15 05:14 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Instant dated an Italian girl. What could go wrong, went wrong.I had a different date yesterday (2. date with her) and this was the first thing we did when I saw her bicycle. She was later at my place and we made out. My problem was that the date was way to early and I couldn't escalate to sex. She could easily be a model and this freaks me out. Last time I saw her I imagined she is my girlfriend and then I was much calmer, laid back and also more dominant. Kissing her felt like taking a hit of some drug. This time I was a complete pussy and totally in my h… | /r/seduction | 31/08/15 09:04 AM |
| 3 | I just can't make myself do it.Why? | /r/seduction | 24/08/15 06:12 PM |
| -9 | I just can't make myself do it.Don't approach girls in your social circle. Do it on the street where you are anonymous. | /r/seduction | 24/08/15 04:53 PM |
| -1 | A few things I've learned from Tinder.I really don't get the point of tinder. You can't choose the girl yourself and there is so much competition with good looking chodes. Just approach 10 girls on the street and have an instant date. | /r/seduction | 18/07/15 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Is this real-life?This video! How the fuck? | /r/seduction | 25/06/15 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Buddha Love Dissolve MeditationDieses Video enthielt eine urheberrechtlich geschützte Tonspur. Aufgrund des Anspruchs des Urheberrechtsinhabers wurde die Tonspur endgültig stummgeschaltet. This video contained a copyrighted audio track. Due to the claim of the copyright holder, the audio track has been permanently muted. | /r/seduction | 24/06/15 11:40 PM |
| 2 | full daygame pull footageThis guy also makes videos for simplepickup "project go". I watched some of his stuff just a few hours ago and now come from a first date with kiss close. | /r/seduction | 16/06/15 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Non american accent hurting meMaybe it's not your accent but other things you did wrong. I always call them right away while standing in front of them to find out if she give me the right number and now she has mine too. This way you won't waste thoughts on a girl that is going to flake anyway. Did you tell them that you want to have a coffee with them during the approach? That is the main reason why you get the number. When you write the message later. First message should be just a "Hey, it was nice meeting you." kind of t… | /r/seduction | 15/06/15 10:41 AM |
| 2 | 3 Keys To A Powerful ApproachI knew, I know this from somewhere: Hey, stop, name, now! - Shut up! No, you are annoying, you are ugly. Stop it. bam | /r/seduction | 07/06/15 12:29 AM |
| -1 | 3 Keys To A Powerful ApproachI like the "You, stop, name, now" opener. I am going to try this next time. | /r/seduction | 06/06/15 10:15 PM |
| 3 | Day 2 - Destroying My EgoStay away from people who are working. It's their job to be friendly to you. Open a girl on the street. Try having a conversation for about 5min as Tyler discribes it. You actually don't need 5min for a #-close, 2min are perfect if you go direct. But I would try to approach indirect. IIRC that is what he wants you to do there. At some point you tell her: "You seem to be cool. I would like to talk longer with you, but I have to go. You know what, I take your number and we have a coffee together."… | /r/seduction | 04/06/15 05:45 PM |
| 2 | If You Have Lots of Dates/Numbers But Still Not Getting Laid...I had my date. Lasted about 4hours, but it was really unsexual (I suck at this). No first kiss. We met about 2pm. She didn't respond to my messages: 'See you soon' half an hour before we met. So I thought she is going to flake, but to my surprise she was on time. I tried the strawberry routine, but I guess a little to late. 25min into the date: (No fence, 1Kg strawberry's (wow), asks the farmer.) When I told her the normal response people give is 2 till 5 strawberries and it represents her sexdr… | /r/seduction | 31/05/15 07:57 PM |
| 2 | If You Have Lots of Dates/Numbers But Still Not Getting Laid...Going on a date in 3 hours. I will try this. | /r/seduction | 31/05/15 09:03 AM |
| 0 | I honestly have no idea what I'm doing?You are not alone. | /r/seduction | 28/05/15 11:31 PM |
| 1 | I just converted a dead number into a date.I just did it again. I tried to set up a date last week and she messaged me that she wants to bring a friend. I decided to write her "I want to see you alone." which was not the best idea because I didn't get an answer from her. The conversation was dead. I called her 5 minutes before. She picks up the phone and asks "Who is this"? I explain who I am and she said that the time for the date was to late for her. (I didn't build enough rapport during the #-close I guess.) She would prefer too see m… | /r/seduction | 28/05/15 11:11 AM |
| 7 | I just converted a dead number into a date.No, I just called her. No voice mail. | /r/seduction | 23/05/15 07:18 PM |
| 3 | I just converted a dead number into a date.I also delete these numbers after a while. But maybe I should change my strategy. At least I will give them a call before I delete them in the future. | /r/seduction | 23/05/15 02:32 PM |
| 7 | Can't Approach When Others Are NearbyI had the same problem. The only thing that worked for me is to acknowledged your insecurity/anxiety. Take a deep breath and do it anyway. Gun to the head approach. You know that you can do it. It's just the initial moment where you have to say "hi". If you are in the set, keep good eye contact to make you and her forget about the other people. Just realise that your fear comes from social conditioning. https://youtu.be/P8vXhJLpaO0 | /r/seduction | 13/05/15 04:14 AM |
| 2 | Response for when a girl says "Tell me a secret."Remember when I was on toiled before? I didn't wash my hands. | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 03:21 AM |
| 1 | I see a lot of guys talk about girls approaching them, why does it happen and why doesn't it happen to me?Nothing is wrong. It's just super unlikely that a girl makes the initial step. The one or two times were it happend to me, I fucked it up. Destroy your ego and start to talk to woman. I did one approach yesterday. It was embarrassing. The girl was cold and told me in a distant way to not speak to her. She wasn't even that good looking. I tried it today again. This time really hot girls. Two approaches, two numbers. That shit can be easy as long as you are able to let go your own ego. | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 08:34 AM |
| 5 | What are the biggest shit tests you've been handed and how did you respond? I just got "Convince me to go out with you" and don't know what to say."I am not in the convincing business." | /r/seduction | 04/05/15 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Losing motivation to cold approachhttps://youtu.be/kdePwTeAIN4 He makes it look easy, but honestly he has a lot of luck that every girl is in the mood to talk to him. It's still a really good example on how to do it. | /r/seduction | 01/05/15 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Losing motivation to cold approachMake the approach more fun. You need to enjoy the process, not the outcome. If she rejects you in a friendly way give her an high five before you leave. If she tells you she has a boyfriend, tell her that this means she is going to have an affair with you. Do this for your own amusement. | /r/seduction | 01/05/15 12:22 PM |
| 4 | How do i build a social circle from scratch. [Selfreport i guess]I was in an identical situation a year ago. I had no friends due to a long lasting depression and me staying home not leaving my room for days until weeks. Someone told me about a language group. I went there and it felt little strange at first not knowing anyone, but I forced myself to go again and again. As a side effect I could improve my English. I have to admit that I only found people to hang out with. But if the right person is among them you will also find a good friend. Now I am again b… | /r/seduction | 23/04/15 02:34 PM |
| 1 | I approached a girl on the elliptical at the gym today..Thanks for the book recommendations. | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 05:58 PM |
| 16 | How do YOU make girls laugh?You need to project value. If a girl is into you, she will laugh about the dumbest shit you say. There is really no need to be a comedian. | /r/seduction | 31/03/15 09:16 PM |
| -4 | Autistic girl here...how do I text a guy?He gave you his number? Do what every sane girl would do. Feel good for the next hour and then forget about him. | /r/seduction | 24/03/15 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Successful 'ugly' sedditors: how did you get over the fact that you're ugly?So you are not a pretty boy? | /r/seduction | 10/03/15 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Why I do become picky the second they start liking me?Try to think about it this way: Everything except having sex with the girl is a rejection. | /r/seduction | 02/03/15 11:31 AM |
| 2 | 2 tips to making any apartment nice, no matter how shitty it is!Cocainum | /r/seduction | 01/03/15 05:38 AM |
| 3 | I fall in love with girls from just talking to themYou are not in love with them. It's just that your hormones go wild and you start to picture her as your dream woman. It's called oneitis. Watch this video. Love is something different. Much bigger. | /r/seduction | 13/02/15 06:54 AM |
| 4 | I am currently reading "The Power of Eye Contact" by Michael Ellsberg. What are you reading for self-improvevent/ pickup?I am reading "Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man". It is a guide to understand the female mind. It goes into great depth with congruence tests and manipulation from woman. It explains everything from an evolutionary and neuroscientific point of view. You also learn how to screen woman. It is so far the most helpful book I have read. If you read one book next to Models, then let it be this! | /r/seduction | 11/02/15 04:19 AM |
| 1 | I posted my TEDx Talk on confidence a few days ago. I will give a free webinar in two weeks on the science of confidence and courageFirefox 35.0.1 on Ubuntu with various add-ons in the browser. I subscribed on the other website now. | /r/seduction | 10/02/15 07:21 PM |
| 1 | I posted my TEDx Talk on confidence a few days ago. I will give a free webinar in two weeks on the science of confidence and courageWhen I click on "claim your spot" nothing happens. | /r/seduction | 10/02/15 06:58 PM |
| 1 | How to overcome shyness with strangers? Public speaking & personality development video.Same with me. | /r/seduction | 25/01/15 04:53 AM |
| 3 | The lessons I learned trying to help my female friend pickup a quality manAt least you are tall. That gives you some points with OP's gold digger friend. | /r/seduction | 08/01/15 11:31 AM |
| 2 | What does seddit think of this post from r/socialskills?I've done this about 50 times yesterday. "Hey, wait a second! You are cute." Most responses are very positive. You shouldn't do it like a little creeper. Say it loud and look her in the eyes while doing it. Be comfortable with it. | /r/seduction | 03/10/14 08:38 PM |
| 6 | [IG] Nice Guys Listen UpNice Guy here. I have a question. I fall into a stupid oneitis for a girl at work. I know, bad thing to do. But she didn't like this job and was about to leave next month. One thing that went wrong is that I didn't really open up to her. And she started shit-testing me and playing games. I called her yesterday, because something was going wrong. She said everything is fine, but I know something was wrong. Today I saw her at work again. We sat next to each other and some other guy, who was new th… | /r/seduction | 06/08/14 11:12 PM |
| 1 | [FR] How an attempted #-close turned into an instant date and F-closeI did day 11 and was really bad at it. Couldn't get the woman into the interaction. They left mostly annoyed after the time and place to buy a mobile phone. It was cold and rainy weather. I stopped a girl with a loud "Halt!" I really scared her. Then I asked for the time in a friendly way. She smiled and asked me for a direction. People where like in a coma today you have to wake up them first. When I was at work I did a break and walked around the building. A woman was in front of me. I approac… | /r/seduction | 28/05/14 04:23 AM |
| 1 | [FR] How an attempted #-close turned into an instant date and F-closeI've done drill 2 and 3 today and spoke to 20 different women. Yesterday after the gym I tried drill 2, but I could hardly find any woman on the street. I kept to the rules for 19 girls. But when I asked one girl at the tram station for the time, she first didn't understand so I asked in English. She smiled and answered. I looked at the timetable and though damn she is cute I have to ask where she is from. So we started talking to each other. She was from Lebanon 26 and a doctor. She was only 5 … | /r/seduction | 15/05/14 03:34 PM |
| 1 | [FR] How an attempted #-close turned into an instant date and F-closeStarted with the first challenge today. I asked 7 persons for the time. One girl was like 14 and one was over 40 and hesitated. I removed them from my mental list and allowed only 18 - 30 year old woman who I could imagine having sex with. It was super easy but one woman expected more than my question for the time. She followed me down in the mall and stood behind me on the escalator. I turned around and I saw her giving me a super big smile. Did you always #-close or instant date a girl when it… | /r/seduction | 13/05/14 03:53 PM |
| 18 | Mark Bowden's TED Talk on body language and approaching.Today, lots of guys around the world will flash eyebrows at hot girls passing by. | /r/seduction | 06/05/14 08:10 AM |
| 13 | Pussied out at a club - Help meDance with one of the girls you already know first. It will give you more confidence and if she is a good friend she will enjoy to show you how to dance. | /r/seduction | 25/04/14 09:50 AM |
| 2 | Best ways to dance?The first picture reminded me of this. | /r/seduction | 18/04/14 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Facebook and SeductionYou can hide your friends. Go on your profiles friend box click on the pen (manage) and "edit privacy". Set "friends list" and "following" to "only me". But be aware that this option could some day disappear. | /r/seduction | 18/04/14 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Why are we all trying to be "Alpha"? (Masculinity redefined)Karl | /r/seduction | 18/04/14 03:25 PM |
| 2 | What are good YouTube videos/talks that could help with Nightgame?I found his videos very helpful. | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 08:04 AM |
| 3 | People will hate youI am currently listening to "How to win friends and influence people". (no time to read) It's an how to become an alpha/leader guide. | /r/seduction | 02/04/14 07:53 PM |
| 1 | I can't have conversationsYou can't successfully approach women if you smoke weed. Stop one of the two. It's your choice what you pick. | /r/seduction | 01/04/14 09:56 AM |
| 3 | Top 10 Mistakes Intelligent Men Make With WomenHe says pick two of these points you suck the most at and work on them. It will rocket boost you into a new world of success with woman. It's a good getting started guide, if you ask yourself: Why do I suck so much? Why do I fail and fail again and again? It's very likely one of these points. | /r/seduction | 09/03/14 09:11 PM |
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