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| 5 | Imposter SyndromeReally good points being made here. I'm definitely experiencing this as my confidence goes up and I become more successful, and I definitely feel myself pulling myself back. I have this compulsion to want to chase after the girls I used to date. The nerdy ones, skinny, but not attractive. I don't see myself as worthy, so I pull back and reject myself. I just want things to be easy. This is a good reminder not to do that. Solid career advice as well. I think a lot of guys put themselves into a ca… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/16 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Do you even lift? Oh, you do? I couldn't tell. Tips for actually looking like you lift.Yup, meanwhile guys who are at 18% body fat are on here thinking it's impossible to be 180 lbs and fit in a small shirt. I'm 5'10" 165 a 10% BF and there are smalls that are too big for me, not many, but they exist with some brands. A typical large drowns me. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/16 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Do you even lift? Oh, you do? I couldn't tell. Tips for actually looking like you lift.I'm guessing you have pretty low BF%. I think a lot of guys here think OP is advising a 6', 180 lb guy at 20% BF to wear a small. He pretty clearly said small or medium, and that obviously depends on brand. Most male models are 6'+ and built, but have low BF%. They wear smalls and mediums on photoshoots. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/16 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Do you even lift? Oh, you do? I couldn't tell. Tips for actually looking like you lift.At low BF%, absolutely. Most of the guys I hang out with are about 6' tall and built, but they have body fat under 12%. They wear smalls or mediums like OP suggests and typically end up with a look like this | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/16 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Both pills: do you have any beliefs that would be downvoted on your respective subreddit?Definitely. For fucking around, absolutely use TRP strategy. Who cares if she's a bitch, if she's a plate then she has no baring on your life. However, I don't like the idea that her being hot is a bonus for an LTR if you're sacrificing personality. I know a lot of guys who married hot women and then divorced them later on. They don't care that their ex-wife is hot. They resent the fact that she now has half his shit, his kids, and is now also banging 40-something year old Chads on the regular. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/16 05:13 PM |
| 13 | Both pills: do you have any beliefs that would be downvoted on your respective subreddit?I think someone in a monogamous relationship has some responsibility to have sex with their partner, even if they're not in the mood. I'm not sure when sex got put up on such a pedestal. Sometimes you do things you don't want to do for the sake of your partner. I don't see why sex is the one exception to that rule. As far as rape goes, that's far more about force and loss of control. So while I don't think it's okay to force your SO to have sex, I do think it's okay to resent them for not contri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/16 02:44 AM |
| 2 | Both pills: do you have any beliefs that would be downvoted on your respective subreddit?No, while rape has adopted that definition because it is logistically easier to deal with in court, victims aren't usually torn up about the physical pain (unless it was a particularly brutal rape, which is not the case here or for most rapes) or the type of sex that happened. It's about the loss of control. That's where feminists lost sight of these arguments and got people started on "real rape" vs. "SJW rape". In this situation, the girl loses control for a moment, but gets it back immediatel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/16 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Both pills: do you have any beliefs that would be downvoted on your respective subreddit?Right? It really shouldn't be rape if you stop when asked. That's all you can ask someone. To respond to concretely expressed desires. Just because it has to do with sex, doesn't mean it's rape automatically. Rape needs some aspect of overcoming resistance and taking away the victim's control. I like to make this comparison. Imagine you're out having dinner with a vegetarian. Now, you know they're vegetarian, but it's unclear just how seriously they take it. As a joke, you tell them to take a bi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/16 02:30 AM |
| 16 | Both pills: do you have any beliefs that would be downvoted on your respective subreddit?I'm definitely with you on this. When I was growing up, rape was what you went through. There was nothing ambiguous about it. There was no person on earth who, in that situation, would be happy to be there. Nowadays they've expanded the definition so much that you could easily accidentally rape someone. It's not like awkwardness and miscommunication goes away once sex begins. Guys misread signs, which are all over the board from women. I don't think women even realize how ridiculous they are wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/16 02:17 AM |
| 6 | Both pills: do you have any beliefs that would be downvoted on your respective subreddit?At the same time, I hate the idea that traditionally good relationship advice would dictate that if I do nothing while a guy is pursuing my girlfriend, she'll cheat. Cheating should really not be something both partners have to work to prevent directly. Rather, you should be with someone who respects you enough to not cheat regardless of the circumstances. That respect will come from the other areas of the relationship. Basically what I'm saying is, if Chad is coming onto a girl at work and he's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/16 01:52 AM |
| 6 | Both pills: do you have any beliefs that would be downvoted on your respective subreddit?It absolutely does. I used TRP strategies to hang onto my last gf for a good while longer than we probably would've lasted. The reality is that I needed to drop that bitch. That being said, TRP will enlighten you as to the things that you're doing that absolutely repel all women. If you go total TRP and do shallow things like exploit your height on Tinder/max out your looks, ensure everyone around you knows you're successful at _____, pass shit tests instead of taking them as a warning sign that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/16 01:42 AM |
| 6 | Both pills: do you have any beliefs that would be downvoted on your respective subreddit?I try not to read into my own parent's marriage that much. They've hidden a lot from me, and when I dug deeper into it I didn't like what I saw. I also knew a lot of kids who thought their mom was a saint even when the inside scoop is that she's sleeping around town (I grew up in a small town, so rumors were common). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/16 01:37 AM |
| 11 | Both pills: do you have any beliefs that would be downvoted on your respective subreddit?I lean red, but hold a lot of controversial views that keep me thoroughly purple. Men and women are both subject to hypergamy. The only reason it's more apparent with most women (while hypergamy in men is only apparent in "man whores") is that women are presented opportunities, while men would have to go and seek them out. Being a 40 year old guy dating women in their early 20s is not the dream. It's sad. I think creating a family is the ideal way to remain satisfied into your old age Being alph… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/16 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Why hasn't TRP been banned yet?I think at a certain point he just said, "fuck it, I'll never live a normal life now," and went for the viral views. I mean, he goes after rape specifically because it gets hits/views. There's also no way he's as successful with women as he claims, which actually isn't that successful when you consider his entire life is literally dedicated to getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/16 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Why hasn't TRP been banned yet?Well, most people I meet don't know reddit, most people on reddit don't know TRP, and nearly everyone on TRP claims they'd never admit to knowing about TRP in real life. It's like saying you don't know anyone with a foot fetish or a kink for piss/scat play. These people aren't exactly outing themselves, so it's hard to know what the frequency is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/16 01:21 AM |
| 1 | How is it possible there is still a debate over women having significantly easier access (and it's not even close) to desirable sex with a partner at or above their level?Because the real issue of many foreveralone types is feeling unwanted, and a guy wanting you only because your vagina feels better than his hand, how does that make you feel wanted again? My only issue with this is that it's only the Chads (who they want to sleep with) who treat them like this. They actively go after the guys who only want them for sex, and they actively reject the guys standing on the corner with flowers. They are wanted, but they don't need to feel wanted. They already know th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/16 12:05 AM |
| 3 | How is it possible there is still a debate over women having significantly easier access (and it's not even close) to desirable sex with a partner at or above their level?Because women don't realize how much work men put into it. They don't see it. They see a bunch of useless assholes trying to woo them and think, "ugh, these guys all waste my time." Then they see the guy who succeeds, who makes it look effortless (because that's what it takes, making it look effortless), and they assume it's like that for all guys. It's easy to completely forget about the people you reject offhandedly. It also takes far less energy to reject a guy than it takes for a guy to send… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/16 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: What do you think about gay people?The red pill side of me is jealous that they don't have to put up with as much of women's bullshit and jealous that they get ass pretty much whenever they want. The purple pill side of me recognizes that any gender is going to suck and fail to live up to expectations when you put them in such an important position in your life. The blue pill side of me is glad I don't have to go through the same discrimination they face. Also, red pillers are conservative in that they want to forge their own pat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 11:52 PM |
| 2 | How would RPW react if the husband does something incredibly stupid?My understanding is that if a RPW's husband ceased leading and began engaging in behaviors that were hazardous (and not in keeping with RP philosophy), the RPW would gtfo. I mean, the point is that an RPW is looking for a RP man. If he's making legitimately stupid decisions that put the entire family at risk and it's clearly over the line, then wouldn't RPW philosophy dictate that she try to help her husband back to his original form, and if that proves fruitless, think of self-preservation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 11:41 PM |
| 3 | Why hasn't TRP been banned yet?Oh I can assure you it is. FPH was literally just a hate group. TRP has legitimate supporters and has actually sparked debate that reached national coverage. Meanwhile, FPH's only debate was about whether or not reddit should host what everyone agreed was an unfiltered hate group. TRP doesn't have a shining reputation, but it's nowhere near the level of FPH. It's more controversial and has greater backlash precisely because so many people take it seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 11:37 PM |
| 6 | Why hasn't TRP been banned yet?Roosh is such an awful representative for the manosphere. His focus is so heavy on sex, getting laid, and the physical manifestations of feminism (e.g. short hair, fat acceptance, etc...) that he misses the boat on sexual strategy. He understands sexual strategy very well, but has totally different concerns about it because he has no intention of getting married or living in the normal social realm. Most guys on the manosphere haven't broken away from the normal social world and still intend to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Why hasn't TRP been banned yet?FPH wasn't controversial in the sense that some people think it's good and others think it's bad. There was no question at all that it was a hateful, horrible place, the controversy was just whether or not reddit should allow that hate to be propagated on its servers. It didn't have the shades of gray like TRP, where you could view it as a self-improvement sub, or you could view it as a place where guys happen to lash out, but that doesn't encompass the spirit of the sub. You could make a real c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 07:00 PM |
| 0 | I don't think women are of inherently worse character, but they are put in a position to be tempted more often, and take the bait accordingly.I explained why this makes sense in another comment, but I really have to disagree with the logic thing there. You're not following the progression, and your arguments don't hold water from a mathematical logic perspective at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 10:09 AM |
| 1 | I don't think women are of inherently worse character, but they are put in a position to be tempted more often, and take the bait accordingly.1) Show me even one club that is gender specific and not gay. 2) Hamster 3) Now this conversation makes sense. No offense, but all but one of your friends fall into that category of "not getting attention anyway". Much like the average male, they are limited in options and are thus not presented the same opportunities to cheat and whore for attention. We're coming at this from different angles. You'll see I specified in my post that most women have more options than the average guy. I don't beli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 10:07 AM |
| 1 | I don't think women are of inherently worse character, but they are put in a position to be tempted more often, and take the bait accordingly.Most women really don't understand this about gay bars though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 09:58 AM |
| 1 | I don't think women are of inherently worse character, but they are put in a position to be tempted more often, and take the bait accordingly.Sex was getting really bad and awkward. Something was up. I put "trip to Europe with her slutty friend" together with "bad sex and awkwardness" and called her out on it. There was no trickle truth, just a fucking gushing fountain as she described affairs with multiple guys on her trip. I'm just lucky I didn't catch anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 09:58 AM |
| 1 | I don't think women are of inherently worse character, but they are put in a position to be tempted more often, and take the bait accordingly.Lol, yeah they'll use any excuse not to let a man into a club. You have to be blatantly violating the dress code (e.g. shorts or jeans) to be turned down as a woman, and even then they make plenty of exceptions. Your point about dress code is ridiculous. There are plenty of dresses out there that would be perfectly acceptable, wouldn't make you stand out, and would be very conservative, yet women choose tight pencil dresses consistently regardless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 09:55 AM |
| 1 | I don't think women are of inherently worse character, but they are put in a position to be tempted more often, and take the bait accordingly.Okay, I'm claiming you can't follow logic and for good reason. The absence of X, Y, and Z does not disprove that which the presence of X, Y, and Z supported. You need affirmative evidence in your direction to do so. My country has X, Y, and Z, this supports the point that women are at clubs for attention from men. If you take away X, Y, and Z, it doesn't mean women are at clubs only to dance, it just means that X, Y, and Z are expressed differently in your country. There are other incentives to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 09:52 AM |
| 1 | I don't think women are of inherently worse character, but they are put in a position to be tempted more often, and take the bait accordingly.Okay, reading comprehension was poor the first time around. Let's try again. 1) The point of GNOs is to be the center of attention and get hit on. The reason girls like to dance in that atmosphere is because they are all but worshiped there. If girls really wanted to not get hit on by guys, then clubs would have actual lady's nights where only women were allowed. If the market was there for girls to pay to dance without any men around, someone would've catered to it by now. The truth is, women w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 09:44 AM |
| 0 | I don't think women are of inherently worse character, but they are put in a position to be tempted more often, and take the bait accordingly.most girls with a modicum of self-awareness and sense But that only leaves about 10% of women... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 09:28 AM |
| 1 | I don't think women are of inherently worse character, but they are put in a position to be tempted more often, and take the bait accordingly.Logic doesn't follow with this crowd. The absence of something in one part of the world does not negate it's existence everywhere. I don't care about your specific situation or the methods that clubs in your country use to attract women and get men paying for drinks. The point is, this is how it is in most of modern western civilization, and regardless of whether your country's clubs use these tactics to get women inside, the primary function of clubs is to get women inside so that men will foll… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 09:27 AM |
| 1 | I don't think women are of inherently worse character, but they are put in a position to be tempted more often, and take the bait accordingly.But it's the majority of clubs... so much hamster. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 09:21 AM |
| 2 | I don't think women are of inherently worse character, but they are put in a position to be tempted more often, and take the bait accordingly.Can confirm. My ex fucked a guy in Ibiza. She cried in the airport security line as I left and she went to meet her friend. Three days later some guy was balls deep in her. She cried all night when I called her out on cheating and broke up with her when she confessed. She claimed she just got too drunk and didn't know what she was doing. The truth is, if she had valued the relationship, she wouldn't have put herself in that situation to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 09:17 AM |
| 0 | I don't think women are of inherently worse character, but they are put in a position to be tempted more often, and take the bait accordingly.Most girls don't realize that, but pass up what they believe is a good option to avoid male attention anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 09:11 AM |
| 1 | I don't think women are of inherently worse character, but they are put in a position to be tempted more often, and take the bait accordingly.Medicine is the one example I had on hand because it's basically my entire life right now. There are basically no women out there that don't branch swing once exposed to higher earning men. Nurses don't go into it for the money, but several male residents have told me all about how even the married ones are often looking to jump on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 09:06 AM |
| 1 | I don't think women are of inherently worse character, but they are put in a position to be tempted more often, and take the bait accordingly.A) Of course they don't. That was never up for debate, but why do GNOs have to involve going to the one place where you're guaranteed to get hit on by other guys? Imagine if your husband, for his guy's night out, went to a casino dressed in a very fancy tuxedo, took along big wads of cash he didn't intend on spending, and flashed it around to attract the gold diggers in the area. Now imagine he entertained the advances of the gold digger bimbos (but never actually crossed any explicit lines for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 09:03 AM |
| 1 | I don't think women are of inherently worse character, but they are put in a position to be tempted more often, and take the bait accordingly.Legit curious. In what way? I get that bringing straight guys to gay clubs is a no-no, but the few times I've been to gay clubs the guys definitely didn't mind the girls being there. Most danced around with them and did the typical "sassy gay friend" routine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 08:46 AM |
| 1 | I don't think women are of inherently worse character, but they are put in a position to be tempted more often, and take the bait accordingly.No, the others are the norm nowadays. I went to a very nerdy undergrad institution and most girls drink and sleep around despite supposedly being the subset of the population most focused on their studies and least into partying. I mean, typical state school girls made even the craziest of the girls at my institution look tame, and those tame girls were still extremely hypergamous. Most girls do exhibit the typical hypergamous tendencies that TRP rails against. Even now, in medical school of all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 08:44 AM |
| 1 | I don't think women are of inherently worse character, but they are put in a position to be tempted more often, and take the bait accordingly.Your logic is off. Just because some exist doesn't mean it's the majority. In fact, it's a very small minority that do this. Typically when girls get together and go out to clubs they go to a standard straight club. Like I said, it's not AWALT. Some girls really don't want to get hit on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 08:32 AM |
| 2 | I don't think women are of inherently worse character, but they are put in a position to be tempted more often, and take the bait accordingly.If you're available, get a green bracelet. Unavailable, choose a red one. Usually not a specific bar, but one night at bar. Theoretically it's to prevent guys from hitting on taken girls. The concept exists on a wide scale, but miraculously hasn't caught on beyond a few nights, despite all these women who hate being hit on in clubs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 05:04 AM |
| 3 | I don't think women are of inherently worse character, but they are put in a position to be tempted more often, and take the bait accordingly.At work, yes. I'm talking about women who go out to the club in tiny dresses and then say, "Ewww, I wish all these guys would stop hitting on me," (as they opt for taller heels and tighter dresses the next time). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 04:33 AM |
| 3 | I don't think women are of inherently worse character, but they are put in a position to be tempted more often, and take the bait accordingly.Honestly, I really do think it's everyone, but motivations don't matter. Actions matter. Women are more easily able to practice sexual hypergamy. An alpha can give out fucks all day long. There's no shortage of Chads looking to get some tail, and it costs her nothing to sneak away for a few moments to let him fuck her brains out. Maybe if she's lucky, she'll get pregnant and get Chad's genes with "Dad's" money/support. Most men can't do this. Women aren't evolutionarily trying to get pregnant wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 04:23 AM |
| 1 | I don't think women are of inherently worse character, but they are put in a position to be tempted more often, and take the bait accordingly.I agree with this. Hard next is the only option regardless of motivations. I'm not here to settle for an average woman and make excuses for her behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 04:14 AM |
| 3 | I don't think women are of inherently worse character, but they are put in a position to be tempted more often, and take the bait accordingly.Nah, he's asking the perfectly legitimate question, "If you hate it so much when men hit on you, why do you keep coming back over and over again?" If girls really just wanted to dance, every girl's night out would be to a gay club, or they'd find something different to do. Truth is, girls like being pursued, and what's a better ego boost than going to the one place you're appreciated above all other places, and where you're treated like a goddess for having a T&A? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 04:13 AM |
| 1 | I don't think women are of inherently worse character, but they are put in a position to be tempted more often, and take the bait accordingly.If you're going places where you can talk, you're not doing the girl's night out I'm talking about. Most girls think of girl's night out as dressing up and heading out to the club without boyfriends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 04:09 AM |
| 3 | I don't think women are of inherently worse character, but they are put in a position to be tempted more often, and take the bait accordingly.Most women do this for that reason. TRP says AWALT, I say mostWALT. Most women I've met have been focused on activities like this. If a girl is the type to drink on the weekends and have casual sex, when they go to the club they are looking for male validation. Absolutely. It makes no sense otherwise. The story they give: "Ugh, I just want to dance and feel alive. Why do guys always come up and hit on me?" The way they really feel: "I wouldn't hookup with most of those guys, but it's nice to kno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 04:08 AM |
| 6 | RP: Did anyone of you manage to attract a sweet, nice and kind woman with RP advice? BP: Did anyone of you manage to attract a selfish, horrible and bitchy woman with BP behavior?1) Anecdotal evidence 2) Complete bullshit the whole time. The guy had no facts. 3) I'll take my chances on establishing a family as the lead patriarch and tending to my legacy that way before I'll take my chances on hopefully being one of those 70 year old guys who is totally satisfied with just friends and living completely on his own. I still think being the lead patriarch of a family line is a more satisfying fate as you grow into old age. Even if you dislike your wife, you've got people you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 03:48 AM |
| 2 | I don't think women are of inherently worse character, but they are put in a position to be tempted more often, and take the bait accordingly.Yeah, I don't think for one second that most women hate being hit on. Usually they complain when it's an undesirable guy. There's a lot of "why don't these guys just leave me alone!" when it's uggos and shorties, but as soon as Mr. Tall, Dark, and Handsome comes over the kino and heavy flirting starts, regardless of relationship status. Also, most women will admit that while they complain about being hit on, they love the attention. How else can you explain why women consistently choose to go to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 03:38 AM |
| 6 | Like Everyone - a concise guide to meeting new people.AMOGing in a new group is the quickest way to become universally disliked. When you join a group, if you'd like to be well-liked and respected, aim to join the alphas, not dethrone them. If you really need to be the leader, you need to accomplish that by being the most highly respected among the alphas. That will take time. Think of it in "caveman" terms. If a random male walks up to a group and attempts the alpha to fight to take control of the group, he'll just be overrun by members of the gro… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/16 01:22 AM |
| 0 | RP: Did anyone of you manage to attract a sweet, nice and kind woman with RP advice? BP: Did anyone of you manage to attract a selfish, horrible and bitchy woman with BP behavior?I imagine TRP to be a load of lower middle class White men going into night clubs and drug dens and finding the most badly behaved party girls and emotionally kicking the shit out of them I do believe this is a significant portion of TRP. Maybe most aren't lower middle class (because reddit is more of an upper middle class thing), but they emulate it because that blue collar masculinity the purest expression of "alpha" we have in today's society. I think this is true due to the ideal male perpet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 12:49 AM |
| 4 | RP: Did anyone of you manage to attract a sweet, nice and kind woman with RP advice? BP: Did anyone of you manage to attract a selfish, horrible and bitchy woman with BP behavior?I don't love RP's focus on never getting married and starting a family (I mean, how many satisfied single 70 year old men do you know?). I also don't love RP's focus on women being awful. We're all awful, but women are given more opportunities to be terrible people in the context of a relationship because they are naturally pursued more. Top quality guys with tons of options are just as awful. High status men and mistresses go hand-in-hand. All attractive women have the sexual options of high st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 12:30 AM |
| 5 | RP: Did anyone of you manage to attract a sweet, nice and kind woman with RP advice? BP: Did anyone of you manage to attract a selfish, horrible and bitchy woman with BP behavior?RP advice done right will definitely attract the traditional "nice girl," but the problem you face is that by being universally attractive, you let down all your filters and start attracting a huge range of girls, and most girls (and people) are shallow, shitty, awful human beings who will lie, cheat, and generally trash up any relationship. RP guys claim to be able to filter using red flags, but we're our own worst enemy when it comes to filtering since the male hamster is very real. I attracte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 12:17 AM |
| 1 | [Q4BP] How often did your male single friends get laid last month?Yeah. As much as I lean towards RP, all their responses are going to be, "all my alpha friends smash nightly. My beta friends have been laid once in the last 3 years." Just an exaggeration of 80/20. When posed directly, especially in an obviously baiting thread like this, RPers are going to turn the 80/20 rule into the 99/1 rule, where 1 is them and their 6'3"+, muscular, self-made business owners, alpha buddies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/16 02:31 AM |
| 1 | [Q4RP] How often did your male single friends get laid last month?This is a fantasy. Multiple guys are going out and all going 20/20? At best, they're lying about a few of their conquests. Some things are just out of your control. Girls on their period that night. Girls who don't want to come on too strong. Girls who suddenly get sick and start throwing up. 20/20 in one month for a bunch of dudes just isn't real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/16 02:27 AM |
| 1 | [Q4RP] How often did your male single friends get laid last month?Beta guys always think that the "good girls" will appreciate a guy who doesn't sleep around much. I used to think this way as well, but they see it for what it really is, a guy who would like to get laid more but can't. One of my "plates" right now is a PhD student at the top school in her field in the world. She didn't lose her V-card until she was 24. She's super shy and barely ever goes out. The first time we fucked she literally said to me, "I bet you have your pick of the girls around here,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/16 02:22 AM |
| 2 | [Q4RP] How often did your male single friends get laid last month?r/humblebrag would appreciate this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/16 02:04 AM |
| 1 | [Q4RP] How often did your male single friends get laid last month?I don't think it's so simple. While I think these three types account for maybe 75% of guys out there, there are a decent number who can get laid as much as they want but are occupied with other things, and others who are extremely beta, but their standards are so low they end up with a decent number of partners. Also, complete bullshit on 10% of guys counting their experiences on one hand and only using prostitutes. Not even 10% of guys use prostitutes. This is a classic TRP-style oversimplific… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/16 02:03 AM |
| 1 | The ethics of lying to men who have been cuckolded...I wouldn't hold it against a man for murdering the man who murdered his children Did you read the comment? Everything you described (except the aids example) involved your children and family members being killed. I definitely showed the sentiment that having family members being killed would be as bad if not worse and would totally warrant murder/suicide. As for the AIDS thing, it's on par, but no worse IMO. Either way, the point of the whole comment chain is that there's a way to ensure guys d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/16 01:28 AM |
| 1 | The ethics of lying to men who have been cuckolded...Luckily by the time I'm a parent there will definitely be easy and quick paternity tests available. Hell, even now you can use 23andme and find out for a few hundred dollars at most with just a swab of the kid's cheeks. Not sure why they aren't aggressively marketing that indirectly. Just show guys how easy it is to send in a sample and they'll get business from every guy with a newborn and a bit of doubt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/16 01:02 AM |
| 1 | The ethics of lying to men who have been cuckolded...I wouldn't hold it against a man for murdering the man who murdered his children. I wouldn't compare finding out you have an untreatable disease or being forced out of your home to finding out you are not your kid's father. There are few things in the world quite that personal and devastating. I would much rather find out at the start rather than after spending half my life raising the kid and then finding out. If I find out at the start I get to leave. It's painful, and horrible, but I have a c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/16 12:57 AM |
| 3 | The ethics of lying to men who have been cuckolded...What you don't know can hurt you if it's predisposition to a harmful hereditary disease. The fact that paternity isn't tested for medical purposes is astounding to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/16 12:52 AM |
| 3 | The ethics of lying to men who have been cuckolded...He should still be compelled to do the testing. The child has a right to know about his medical family history. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/16 12:48 AM |
| 1 | The ethics of lying to men who have been cuckolded...Not to mention ensuring an accurate family history for the child going forward. You can debate who should be told and how, but for fucks sake if you've got a fake father with no predisposition for disease and a real father that gives the kid a 50% shot at having a horrible illness, wouldn't that be relevant medically? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/16 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Obvious concepts we discover through life experience as a human that disrupts TRP theories.Because I didn't think my experiences mirrored TRP either, until I looked back at them through the RP lens and realized they totally did. Most people are just oblivious. I never attracted a woman until I came off as alpha, whether or not I realized it or did it on purpose. I got cheated on exactly when TRP would dictate I'd get cheated on. I hooked up with girls when I stopped being myself and started acting the way TRP said I should act. Now, I have an issue with how TRP claims this is all abso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/16 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Obvious concepts we discover through life experience as a human that disrupts TRP theories.Chemistry happens by accident or on purpose, but it's always composed of the same elements. It's almost always just a guy acting in the way that particular woman views as "alpha". When a traditionally "beta" guy meets a women and "chemistry" happens without any effort on his part, it's typically in ideal circumstances for that guy. Probably he's feeling particularly confident that day, as opposed to most days of his life. Probably he's in an environment that shows his value (maybe he's at work i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/16 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Obvious concepts we discover through life experience as a human that disrupts TRP theories.I've got a few issues with this, but overall think it's well-written and quite informative. 1) Chemistry: I don't believe it exists the way you describe it. The truth is, I've had a hell of a lot more "chemistry" since reading up on TRP/PUA stuff. Basically, I can be the same person with the same life goals, views, hobbies, and general demeanor, but if I mix in some TRP/PUA nonsense (amused mastery, agree and amplify, etc...) I suddenly go from another boring guy to, "We have so much in common. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/16 11:53 PM |
| 8 | CMV: Female celibacy is entirely different than being a male incel, and should never be compared to male incels.Like most internet arguments about gender, amounts matter here quite a bit. Both genders have to lower their standards to get laid if they are in this situation. For a male incel to get laid by lowering his standards, he has to lower them essentially to the floor for his attractiveness. Meanwhile, women have to lower their standards from "something special" with her dream guy to a "casual night" with a guy just around their level of attractiveness. So it's not that guys are discounting girls' ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/16 11:30 PM |
| 6 | CMV: despite the popular notion of "don't workout/lift for girls, do it for yourself", most do it because it will make them more attractive to womenThe easy way to look at that is to look at the guys who pursue powerlifting instead of bodybuilding. At a certain point in training, a powerlifter has to look around and say, "I have a lot of muscle and full control over my body. If I were to cut right now, I'd be shredded and attractive, but I care more about lifting heavy so I'm gonna keep bulking until I hit a 500 lb deadlift. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/16 06:29 PM |
| 3 | CMV: despite the popular notion of "don't workout/lift for girls, do it for yourself", most do it because it will make them more attractive to womenIf I was the last person on earth, I think I'd still workout. Idk, it's a lot of fun and I fucking love the feeling of lifting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/16 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Men aren't privileged so much as they are simply less regulated. Women have safety nets *and* glass ceilings, while men are allowed to sink or swim.Can I respectfully argue that this was clearly a stylist choice rather than anything sinister meant to sway opinions? The discussion below was anything but inflammatory, and people were hashing out the ideas in a civil and productive manner. This seems to be an enforcement of the rule that is blind to the aims of that rule rather than a decision made with the aims of the subreddit in mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/16 06:09 PM |
| 3 | CMV: certain unattractive traits a man might have would actually be attractive if he were a woman, or at least have no penalty on attractivenessYeah you're just totally off base with this assessment. No guy thinks like that at all. If a guy like gamer girls, an ugly gamer girl is better than an ugly softball player. If a guy likes active girls, the ugly softball player is better than the ugly gamer girl. In both cases, the hot girl is better. Some assholes might hate on her, but it's not because she's ugly and she games, it's because she's ugly. If she didn't game 10 hours a day, and instead lived a totally normal life, they'd find some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/16 07:30 AM |
| 1 | CMV: certain unattractive traits a man might have would actually be attractive if he were a woman, or at least have no penalty on attractivenessI disagree here. Those traits are all neutral for both of those girls. A nerdy looking girl who has nerdy traits would seem more attractive to me than a nerdy looking girl who has "popular girl" traits. The hot girl looks more attractive with nerdy traits too. Guys separate traits and physical attractiveness. We like certain looks, we like certain traits. Traits I like on a hot girl aren't going to make an unattractive girl less attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/16 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Men aren't privileged so much as they are simply less regulated. Women have safety nets *and* glass ceilings, while men are allowed to sink or swim.That's true, but consider that those guys are still responsible for child support, and that if they can't pay they are sent to jail. We're talking about small populations here, which goes back to my point about trends, but I'll admit this is one population that doesn't fit the trend since child support is often hard to reinforce in these situations. I'll also make the point that single mothers, if unable to find a job to support the family herself, are often able to find a man that provides supp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/16 06:58 AM |
| 2 | Men aren't privileged so much as they are simply less regulated. Women have safety nets *and* glass ceilings, while men are allowed to sink or swim.If you are thinking about doing this, as an entrepreneur I'm urging you strongly not to put all your money into risky stocks. Monkeys pick stocks as well as seasoned traders, and those who succeed consistently are consistently shown to be simply the lucky half of the bell curve statistically. There is no subgroup that picks stocks better than others. Anyone in finance could tell you this. You won't beat the market with anything other than dumb luck, and that runs out eventually. You are much bet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/16 06:47 AM |
| 3 | Men aren't privileged so much as they are simply less regulated. Women have safety nets *and* glass ceilings, while men are allowed to sink or swim.what do you imagine life is like for overweight older women with serious mental health problems, and no libido? I imagine that it's awful, but we're talking about trends. The gender debate is always about trends, because men and women are such diverse demographics that you can always pick out an example of someone having a shitty time. There are also overweight older men with serious mental health problems and no libido. Life sucks for anyone with those characteristics. I'm looking at the places… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/16 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Men aren't privileged so much as they are simply less regulated. Women have safety nets *and* glass ceilings, while men are allowed to sink or swim.See my edit about your strategy. That's extremely risky. Just find the investors that are willing to listen to you regardless of gender. It's not that big of a problem that you wouldn't get funded with a good idea just because you're a woman. It will just be somewhat harder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/16 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Men aren't privileged so much as they are simply less regulated. Women have safety nets *and* glass ceilings, while men are allowed to sink or swim.Yeah but this is about trends. You have to talk in trends about the gender debate because let's be honest, it's very much a "diversity within the groups is greater than diversity between the two groups" situation. Elizabeth Holmes had much less of a glass ceiling than the vast majority of men because of her wealthy family. A poor black man has a much greater glass ceiling than your typical woman, but overall the glass ceiling is a bigger problem for women than for men. As for your strategy, I'd … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/16 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Women specifically filter via genetically predetermined traits while men filter via learned traitsJust like women fantasize on being banged by some genetically flawless Chad. Yet in reality both women and men have to choose one candy over the other. We don't have the money to buy all of them. This is where guys get frustrated. Girls that are out of your league make that very clear to you very quickly. There aren't that many guys out there realistically thinking they're gonna get with Scarlet Johansen when they look like Steve Buscemi, or even if they look like BJ Novak. Guys know they have t… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/16 01:55 AM |
| 1 | My LDR sucks. She's losing interest sexually and not putting in the effort. Would making her jealous help?Fuck. I had to go look this comment up. She cheated a week after she left. Just found out yesterday after asking her outright. She tried to beg me to stay with her but I kicked her the fuck out of my apartment immediately. In the 8 months we were long distance there were 5 guys... that I know of. Literally everything you said was 100% correct. I was in denial, and she was out fucking around. Fuck man. AWALT. TRP has another hardcore convert. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/16 06:48 PM |
| 1 | New year - new haircut; guide to baldnessLooked through some of your old comments. Where can you reliably buy RU? Would you say it really works as well as Fin? Also, lets say I'm on Fin/Minox, going to start Niz soon. Would it be foolish to overwhelm my body by applying RU as well? Should I wait a few months for my body to calibrate to the niz first? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Injuries are destroying my gains, how the fuck do I get around this?23, I'd say 3-4 times per week. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/16 01:24 AM |
| 37 | How to Provide Without Being a ProviderThis actually taught me something. I seriously never thought of separating sex from every other aspect of the relationship before, but it makes sense. Don't treat women differently because sex is something you're entitled to because you are attractive to her, not something you earn from her. I think I knew this deep down, but for some reason it still seemed okay to make exceptions and treat women differently because we treat them differently from men in every other aspect of relationships. Also,… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 03:39 AM |
| 34 | Guess who's not coming to New Years?Lauren eventually confirms that she started dating Matt for his muscles. He's talking about long term prospects for their relationship, and she hasn't even given him exclusivity. So basically he started out as the alpha she can show off. "Oh look at this hot guy I'm fucking," but eventually his mannerisms revealed him to be completely beta, so she flipped the script and turned him into a beta provider. I don't know why anyone denies that TRP is dead fucking on about all of this stuff. This story… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 09:13 PM |
| 3 | Why do women ask for advice online(e.g. /r/sex, /r/realtionship_advice, for makeup, clothes etc.) intead of just asking their fwbs/boyfriends?I think askTRP is a bit different. Guys actually come off as beta here, while on r/relationships they just phrase the story to elicit the response they want to hear. There's plenty of fraud over on TRP I'm sure, but people ask legit questions here because they're too insecure to ask their alpha friends in person and they know their plates give shit advice about women. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Why do women ask for advice online(e.g. /r/sex, /r/realtionship_advice, for makeup, clothes etc.) intead of just asking their fwbs/boyfriends?The last one for sure. I can guarantee most people are on r/relationships thinking, "yeah there's another side to this but I'm not typing it out." People just want to hear that they're right. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 08:43 AM |
| 3 | What is this called? Is there an official TRP name for this female delusion?All young women over-estimate their SMV "percentile" so to speak because they peak early. For instance, at 23 she was competing with girls aged 20-33 for guys in the 23-35 range. So she entered the post-college sexual market at a significant advantage. She's going for a big pool of guys who have a) A smaller pool than her (she has 23-35, a guy has girls 1-2 years older than him or younger + cougars) b) A pool filled with girls who used to be as attractive as she is now So she starts life in the … | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 08:40 AM |
| 11 | Reddit kind of wakes up to the injustices involved in child support paymentsOne of the big problems with any potential "solution" is that it assumes there is a problem to begin with. Follow the money. The government wants you out there spending so as to increase GDP. They get to tax a larger percentage of your dollars since it is taxed on the way in and on the way out. So why on earth would they want men, who spend less money on consumer goods than women, to suddenly have the money. The government's strategy ultimately prefers that Carol and her friends take your money … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/15 04:45 AM |
| 90 | Reddit kind of wakes up to the injustices involved in child support paymentsMen put marriage in place to keep hypergamy in check. It's almost ironic that women and blue pill men flipped it around to keep men on the hook for providing while giving the women an okay to unleash hypergamy at it's fullest. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/15 01:34 AM |
| 1 | The Perks of Pissing on A WallflowerAs much as I like this post, and as much as I hate /u/RP-doctor's response to it, his response to you is kind of dead on. Points shouldn't be given out based on who follows the party line and agrees with everyone else. Points are for those who've shown that they live their actual lives in red pill fashion, and those who can set an example in this community. We don't need a bunch of clones all saying the same thing, wavering in the middle, and acting like goddamn politicians to get everyone to li… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/15 05:22 AM |
| 1 | What is the TRP opinion on shoe lifts for things other than dating?Great response, but I guess I'm not looking at this as a dating thing. I do fine in dating, and while I'm not pulling as much as some of my 6'2", game-aware, model-type looks friends, I do better than your typical tall guy even at 5'9"-5'10". I'm looking to do better professionally. I've put a lot of work into good posture and large presence lately, but I still feel somewhat outdone by guys who also do these things, but are a little taller. I've noticed I do significantly better when I'm taller … | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 03:38 PM |
| 1 | What to do if one has below average face? (looks)It's pretty hard to have a truly unattractive face. If you've got everything else right, face shouldn't matter. I know looking at celebrities is a pretty useless exercise, but you can't get much uglier than Jay-Z, and he's got arguably the most coveted woman on the planet. Yes he's a celebrity, but even among celebrities he's doing well for himself. That doesn't mean face doesn't matter at all, it's just proof that an ugly face can be overcome. Also, if you're brawny but not lean, that can make … | /r/askTRP | 13/12/15 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Blue pill envy....I guess the thing is, if you only have to find one unicorn, is it better to operate on the hopeful principle that she exists, but that she's not the girl with the red flags? I think you could easily pass over a unicorn while operating on AWALT-driven behaviors. Would a better strategy not be to act somewhat more beta than you really are to draw in the "unicorn-like" girls who would be attracted to you in that state, and then turn up the alpha once you know who they are? | /r/askTRP | 08/12/15 08:22 AM |
| 3 | Why do guys lie about sleeping with someone when they didn't?I don't see fishing for validation here, but these dudes sure as hell gave it anyway. But really, I don't think we should be answering questions like this. This is a male space and is meant for male problems. This easily could've been answered with a google search, so I don't know why it got more answers than the more complex and interesting questions posed here. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/15 08:16 AM |
| 0 | How do you deal when RP truth just hits too hard?So basically I'm in the depression stage? That doesn't seem quite right. I can fuck these girls, but I still don't feel like I can "have" them, however, I do feel like there are guys out there who can, they usually just don't want to. I feel like I'm worthy, but unable to earn their true respect because she'll always have fucked a better dude. I'm ready to accept what they are, but I'm not ready to accept that I'll never be able to have the sort of relationship with one that I really want. Fuck … | /r/askTRP | 08/12/15 08:05 AM |
| 5 | Blue pill envy....The other thing I have been wondering is whether our sample of women is flawed. This scares me often. The longer I'm here the more I notice that the girls I'm attracting with these tactics are into the kinds of guys who are more sexually aggressive. These women have a bit more "spine" and seem to live with a little more abandon. They glorify the party lifestyle, even if they don't live it themselves. However, I can't tell if it's the women that have changed, or just my perspective. Was it that I… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/15 07:56 AM |
| 16 | [Field Report] A real life example of the "On Attraction" postApart from the stuff this FR mimics the "On Attraction" post, this also mimics the "If you go out to attract women: try this" post. Sounds like you weren't there to hook up with these girls, but they fed off your vibe and went for it cause you were really only there to hang with your bro. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/15 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Misogyny is a blue pill ideology. TRP merely tolerates it as part of the transformation.It's a different expression. Anger phase is still red pill. It's just a transitioning phase before the real product. Dry off by the fire could be an expression for the transition from angry phase red pill to acceptance phase red pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/15 08:44 PM |
| 26 | The Rational Male – Open CuckoldryIt's because a better solution exists for women, and they understand this. The pink pill represents a world in which a man who (right now) is not attractive to his wife becomes attractive. This lowers the incentive to change marital relations, which can still be stretched to be more beneficial for women. The thing is, any woman looking at things objectively is realizing that she is underselling her most valuable commodity. The institution of marriage has changed as follows from the early parts o… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/15 08:38 PM |
| 49 | Misogyny is a blue pill ideology. TRP merely tolerates it as part of the transformation.This is like claiming that it must be raining under a pavilion because most of the people huddled under it are wet. Well, it's raining pretty hard outside, and we've got a lot of guys coming in to dry off. This is a fantastic analogy. It's not wet under the pavilion. What would a bunch of wet people do after running in from the rain? Are they going to magically dry off? No, they're going to wring out their clothes (dumping tons of water on the ground), and then gather around the fire. TRP is a p… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/15 08:37 PM |
| 17 | How does TRP feel about the push for people to talk about their depression and mental illness?Your weaknesses can and will be used against you, even by those who say they want to help. How many guys have had a girl urge them to spill their feelings only to have her resent him for being so sensitive later? I think the push to get people to get help is fantastic, but men should be wary of who they open up to. Get help from a professional. If you need to talk with someone close to you, Moms are great listeners, and they won't disown you as their son. Girlfriends, wives, friends, they will a… | /r/askTRP | 23/11/15 11:02 AM |
| 11 | [FR] Holding frame momentarily trips up a natural alpha, changes the atmosphere of the night.You're right, this is subtle. You're getting into some nuanced stuff here. We rarely talk about how to handle specific situations outside of shit tests and interactions with women. Basically you successfully navigated a situation in which it was unavoidable that you weren't the most alpha guy around. You did that by earning the alpha's respect by breaking his frame and bringing him into yours, even if only momentarily. Your girl was impressed that you can hang with the big boys and still hold fr… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/15 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Why are some cosmetic improvements considered fine, and others insecure?That rogaine comment is gold. If I ever lose my hair and have to get transplants I'm using that. I'm still struggling with acne vs hairloss though. They're both genetics, in fact their caused by many of the same hormones. That could also be an age thing. However, I think hiding vs curing is a big factor here. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/15 11:36 PM |
| 1 | I got drunk and I'm not sure if this was a good move or not with my LTR/temporary LDR...No it is a relationship. 2.5 years. I thought LTR/gf were essentially interchangeable. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/15 04:31 PM |
| 0 | How to walk away from a conversation without losing value?Don't storm off. Just casually leave. Usually it's crowded, people have a couple drinks in them, and things are relatively chaotic. Trying to vye for her attention again just to say excuse me could be weird. Really it's situational. I think you could get away with either, and either could end up looking weird. It's about situational awareness. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/15 08:29 PM |
| 1 | How to walk away from a conversation without losing value?Eh, don't even excuse yourself. If she's switching the conversation without acknowledging you, then there's no need to acknowledge her. Look around for other people to talk to, can't find them? Bathroom is a socially acceptable place, but make no mistake it's absolutely retreating and you should try to find a better option. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/15 05:31 PM |
| 2 | My sister of 22 seems mad that I'm dating girls younger than her. Why could that be?This is so true. It's the way older women justify bashing on younger, more attractive girls. They make it so it's "unacceptable" becuase otherwise they'd lose all their SMV and 19-20 year olds would rule the sexual market place. The only thing we'd want 25+ year olds for is actual LTRs, where men actually have power anyway. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/15 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Glory of the GymThat's insane improvement. I'm hoping to do the same myself. I was 145, hopped up to 175 and my life improved dramatically in every way, but I was still BP. All I did with it was dump my whore girlfriend and used the confidence to go out and get the girl I'd been wanting for a while. I should've stayed single, fucked as many girls as I could while I was still in college and in a fraternity, where basically all I had to do was be present and decent looking. Of course then I let myself go and went… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/15 01:00 AM |
| 1 | My LDR sucks. She's losing interest sexually and not putting in the effort. Would making her jealous help?I didn't mention that because the assumption is that she isn't cheating, and I have a million more things confirming that she isn't, so I wanted to know what to do with the behavior. I know she's capable of doing things to make me jealous because I've heard her tell her friends to do things like that to get guys to go for them. I was asking for advice, instead I got 500 responses from the bandwagon saying she is definitely cheating, because that's what you all have deluded yourself into thinking… | /r/askTRP | 15/09/15 06:32 PM |
| 1 | My LDR sucks. She's losing interest sexually and not putting in the effort. Would making her jealous help?The end game is to join her in that city as a medical student in May. I'm not talking 3-4 years here, about 9 months total. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/15 12:49 PM |
| 1 | How to improve social value when you have no friends?I think it counts for plenty when you're young. Obviously way more when you're in hs/college, but even after it has a big effect. Honestly, my gf went off to graduate school and she's got tons of new friends. I'm stuck at a shit job with no people, and my college friends are all moving away. Seriously I feel the judgement from her. It's like she's ashamed I don't have the social circle of other guys in her program (who only have a social circle because they're in a fucking program...), so circum… | /r/askTRP | 15/09/15 08:01 AM |
| 1 | How to improve social value when you have no friends?Doesn't it lower social value that you don't hang out with other single girls? I'm in a similar situation at 23 (college friends slowly drifting away, everyone at my job is 40+). I've really only got a couple good friends left in my city, and they're definitely my most "beta" friends. I'd say that perception is pretty bad once you get a girlfriend. Hell, I'm losing my gf of 2.5 years because she thinks I have no friends here... | /r/askTRP | 15/09/15 07:52 AM |
| 1 | My LDR sucks. She's losing interest sexually and not putting in the effort. Would making her jealous help?Why would she be running dread game on me if she were cheating on me? The guy she'd be a "great couple" with was in my fraternity in college, and he's ridiculously faithful to his girlfriend (seriously I've seen girls crawl all over this dude and he just brushes them off). If anything, it makes more sense that she is running dread game on me because I (accidentally) did that to her last weekend and now she's worried about the relationship. Girls stop talking about the guys they're using to make … | /r/askTRP | 15/09/15 07:34 AM |
| 3 | My LDR sucks. She's losing interest sexually and not putting in the effort. Would making her jealous help?Come on, I've been here before, so have you. Girls don't talk about the guys they're cheating with to their boyfriends. They mention him when it's still innocent, but once they actually cheat they shut the fuck up. They lie to themselves and everyone around them, break up with you, and then fuck him guilt free until he either drops her or he sticks around long enough for her to cheat on him. You're just in automatic "LDR = cheating" mode. This is a 24 year old girl who's fucked 3 guys in her lif… | /r/askTRP | 15/09/15 07:17 AM |
| 2 | My LDR sucks. She's losing interest sexually and not putting in the effort. Would making her jealous help?I've been cheated on as well, and I'm very prepared for the possibility, but I'm not going to assume she landed in her new city and immediately pulled her panties down. Some girls will cheat if you're in the living room for 5 minutes, and others will travel halfway around the world and stay loyal. I'm not about to end my relationship of 2.5 years because most girls cheat. I wouldn't be dating her if I thought she was as slutty as most girls. Strongest argument of all: I have to assume I'm in pre… | /r/askTRP | 15/09/15 05:21 AM |
| 1 | My LDR sucks. She's losing interest sexually and not putting in the effort. Would making her jealous help?You are absolutely correct. Dread game is definitely the way to go. It's funny I used trp tactics to get her, but totally fell off when we went long term. No woman is different/special, and I can't forget that or think my relationship is safe. So how do I go about telling her about the other women? If it seems like you're trying to make her jealous then it only makes you look worse. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/15 10:52 PM |
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